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What? Where are you getting that idea?? I don't think women view it that way. Casual sex is casual sex. Like I said, the wording of the study makes very clear what they mean. Read it. I'm not going to hold your hand and try to explain it to you. I cited a study, and you haven't responded with anything real or credible. If you do, I'll continue this conversation. If not, stop wasting my (and everyone else's) time. Stg men on this subreddit do not know how to use logic, just emotions and opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:20 PM
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I really don't think you did. The entire study is about sexual intercourse. They use the terms "sex" and "sexual activity" synonymously, which is very apparent in the wording. Seems like you're arguing semantics at this point, which is pretty much the lowest you can go in a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:03 PM
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Did you read the study?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:46 PM
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Then post those statistics. That's exactly how someone credibly backs up their argument. For a group of people that tends to defer to 'science' so frequently, you really don't seem to understand how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:38 PM
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https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/2378023121996854
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:33 PM
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https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/2378023121996854 Some of the stats you claim you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:32 PM
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I've actually personally had a problem with this as a gay woman. I've had good male friends at several different points in my life (or so I thought) but they were never able to get over the barrier of wanting to be more intimate. It really sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:38 AM
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I don't see what the difference is. They're still complaining, they just happen to be sexist af and want to pin it all on women. Btw I don't disagree with your post at all! Just that one comment. I think physical attractiveness (for both genders) is obviously incredibly important and that's something people should just accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:59 PM
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Isn't that.. the entire basis for incels? "Chad" and the like?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:53 PM
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I found this to be very true. Rather than thinking of people as "good" or "bad", recognizing that we're just animals makes things a whole lot easier to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:44 PM
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20 year olds should not be fucking people under the age of 18. (You said 16-21)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 07:13 PM
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LOL a guy would treat his wife better than Margot Robbie? That is a ridiculous statement. Married men all over treat pretty women better than their wives. There's a direct correlation between attractiveness and how a woman is treated by the men in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 07:06 PM
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Shaved is a cool look imo. There isn't nearly as much stigma for men who lose their hair versus women, but I would definitely suggest leaning into it and rocking the bald look. Hell, some men who have full heads of hair even shave their head because it can definitely look good on a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:54 PM
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Yeah, marriages are pretty hard to get out of though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:36 PM
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Ohh honey, yes. Why do you think women have 3 date rules and other such boundaries? Because it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:23 PM
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Not true, have you read through the posts? There are PLENTY where the woman is like, eh I just don't really like sex, or sex isn't that important for a relationship, etc. It's a nightmare scenario imo, but more likely to happen if you settle down with a woman with a low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:21 PM
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But I see what you mean. Ideally if you find the right "country", and this is the place that you can see yourself living for the rest of your life, I don't see what the problem is. Especially if that wouldn't be a problem if you were with a woman that also had only been to this one country. Which is why I say that it's just jealously, and honestly seems downright petty to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:19 PM
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The more the merrier, I always say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:17 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:39 AM
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I appreciate you looking!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:38 AM
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No I guess you don't, but no one is going to believe the shit you say without proof. So why bother saying it? Making shit up on a debate forum ain't cool bro, but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:36 AM
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I've said this so many times on this subreddit and I'll say it again, YOU'RE the one making the claim and it is YOUR responsibility to back it up with evidence. Y'all love to throw around claims as facts and then act indignant when people ask for evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:13 AM
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Also, "not slut-shaming..", HUH? This whole fucking thread is slut-shaming. Holy crap the delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:05 AM
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Lol you're not posting your source because there isn't one. If you post a solid peer-reviewed study then there's nothing to argue about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:03 AM
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Still waiting on citations lol. Imaginary studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:01 AM
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So, insecurity. This has nothing to do with the woman and everything to do with the man and his fears.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:59 AM
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Citation?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:58 AM
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Have you ever been to r/deadbedrooms? They exist. Mostly because the woman has a... bum bum bum.. low sex drive! It's actually a huge issue. If you meet a woman with a low N count, she probably also has a low sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:56 AM
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Your analogy doesn't really make sense. Her not wanting to travel anymore would mean not wanting sex anymore, correct? Considering that "travel" here is a direct analogy for sex. So if you meet a woman who has "traveled all over the world", meaning she's had lots of sex, then I would think she'd be more akin to a travel guide. She's not going to stop having sex once you get together, and will likely have an even higher sex drive than a low N count girl, so basically she'll be taking you on vacat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:51 AM
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It's the fact that you're making choices based solely on the possibility of that. A low N count woman could just as easily be unsatisfied with you and wish you were better physically. It's about YOUR performance and skills, not anybody else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:32 AM
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"More likely to have had sex with men with huge dicks and with more attractive men then you so unless you are a god at sex so will be disappointed in the sex". Is this really that big of a concern to you? That's an alarmingly high level of insecurity. A girl with a high N count WILL be more experienced, and likely better, in bed. That's just a fact. She'll most likely also be more confident and have a much higher sex drive. If your insecurities are more important than that though, by all means o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:21 AM
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This definition is missing one of the core components of what most people consider a "pick-me". The issue isn't with pretending to not be like other girls, but that they actively put down other women in order to look better in front of men. I don't think this kind of behavior would fly among men either, putting down your bros and other guys to get women to think you're cool. Actually I think you guys have your own name for it, "white knight" or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:09 AM
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I see what you're saying, I guess realistically I'm not a man who is actively dating women.. so I don't know what that's like. If women really act like this then I'm sorry and that's an unfortunate thing to deal with. The porn thing is worth talking about eventually, but the first date is probably pushing it. Don't get me wrong, I watch porn and am definitely not against it, but I know that a LOT of women have had really bad experiences with men that have questionable porn habits. That being sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:01 AM
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That's not how science works, friend. I can already tell that this conversation is gonna be a waste of my time. Believe what you want, and continue to be confused as to why you're a "40yearoldincel".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:35 AM
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I think if all those factors applied, they would probably be in the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:23 AM
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I don't really understand why you thought either of these women had "nefarious" intentions just because they were trying to get to know you better. Maybe they shouldn't be asking tons of loaded questions on the first date, but things like political views and hobbies are basic things that people talk about when they're trying to get to know each other. As far as the porn questions, it's becoming more and more apparent lately that a lot of men have a porn addiction and that a lot of what they watc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:19 AM
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Ahh I see what you're saying, agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:04 AM
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Are we arguing on two separate posts now? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:46 PM
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"Visible" in the sense that partners are aware of them and they have real-world implications and consequences. Sure, agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:41 PM
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Right, and I explained several ways that ACE are also unhealthy and how people frequently choose not to date them either. There are no lies here. Sure, some people use being unhealthy as an excuse, but I don't think that's the majority. Overweight people ARE unhealthy, and being unhealthy IS unattractive. I'm not saying this is right, but it's also true that many people leave their significant others if they develop some kind of chronic health issue. They may not be as physically obvious as obes…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:35 PM
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A lot of women wait on purpose if they ARE attracted to a man, on a physical and emotional level. Waiting makes it more likely he'll stick around and you can have sex with him way more than a ONS. Oftentimes it's actually a bad sign if she has sex with you right away.. it means she doesn't take you seriously as a potential partner and probably doesn't find you that appealing of a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:22 PM
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I feel like when men date overweight women it's usually because that's their type, but obviously that hasn't been the case for you. To answer your question, I really don't know but I think they probably don't care or acknowledge it. Idk, it seems like women are becoming more and more ok with being overweight lately. There's this awful trend on TikTok where women post what they looked like at the beginning of their relationship and then what they look like now (usually several years later). The "…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:16 PM
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No.. but usually childhood trauma shows in someway. Otherwise it's probably not childhood trauma? I don't even understand your argument at this point. You said earlier that ACE contributes to all these health problems that people associate with obesity, but now you're saying that there's no physical signs of ACE, that it's not visible? Am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:58 PM
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You're talking about a literal score? I mean as far as I'm aware, ACE is almost never invisible. There are plenty of symptoms that potential partners will be able to see, and then yes, they often do leave (such as addiction and other mental health issues). It's kind of like saying, hey you wouldn't leave someone because of a literal BMI number without seeing them.. but you would once you saw the unhealthy physique of the person. You're argument is entering semantics territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:32 PM
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That's not true at all. I've had people leave me because of my drug problems multiple times, rightfully so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:55 PM
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It makes perfect sense to prefer healthy people over unhealthy people. I hate to be one of those people that pulls biology into the conversation (although I have a degree in biology), but it is quite literally hardwired in us to be attracted to the healthiest and most reproductively viable individuals. I'm not saying that doesn't suck for people that don't fit into that mold, but it's just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:32 PM
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Right, addiction is a common response to trauma. Engaging in your addiction isn't acceptable for anyone though. I'm an addict who is actively in treatment, you can bet your ass my drug use was never acceptable to the people around me. Same should go for food addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:29 PM
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As a child of abuse, I have to say that I find this comparison you're making extremely offensive. How do we factor in exactly? Why are you bringing us up in a conversation about obesity, and WHY are you comparing the two? Children of abuse didn't CHOOSE the life they were subjected to, but obese people choose to live the way they do every single day. They can lose weight, we can't lose our trauma. I just don't know why you even brought ACE into the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 12:56 AM
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They don't just look it. High body fat in men reduces testosterone and increases estrogen production.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 12:44 AM
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The question, unless it wasn't clear enough: is it reasonable to expect a man that wants a beautiful woman to have to be equally desirable? To have an equal contribution to the relationship? She made pretty clear she pays for her own shit, but it comes down to whether or not a woman who invests that much in herself would want a man that couldn't make that same investment. It's a compatibility issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:00 PM
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Right, debating about the OP's question. Your responses have had nothing to do with her question, they're just critical of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:56 PM
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And you can apply that opinion to your own personal life, without pushing it on other people. That's the beautiful thing about choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:51 PM
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You don't get to decide that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:47 PM
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I actually don't do a single one of those things OP listed. It's still not my business how she chooses to express her femininity. *alignment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:43 PM
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That's not true at all, there are plenty of democrats that are more fiscally based still. They don't just exist in fringe communities on the internet. What a strange thing to assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:41 PM
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Girl, just hop off. Leave her alone if you don't agree with how she chooses to express her femininity. OP is not being crummy. If a man wants a Kardashian, he has to be a Kanye. Pretty simple concept but men complain about it. Anyway I'm not going to spend anymore of my time arguing with another woman on a forum like this. It's depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:39 PM
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I really don't know that that's the case in the general population. "Stupidpol" isn't a representative sample of democrats in society. The internet is a nonsensical echo chamber and not a great representation of the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:33 PM
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Why do you get to decide that spending time and money on looks is shallow? To each their own. Just mind your business. No one said it was "inherently womanhood", OP's entire point was that men have ridiculously high standards considering what they're willing to give back. No need to hop on this forum and bash other women, there are plenty of men doing that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:29 PM
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I find it interesting that you immediately assume she's anti-conservative for social reasons. Plenty of people take issue with republican's handling of finances and their treatment of the poor on an economic level. Additionally, I would say that many republican views go against the integral morals of democrats, so there really isn't anything to talk about. Morals aren't really up for debate or compromise for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:24 PM
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No, I think feeling the need to comment the way you did is pick me behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:14 PM
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Pick me, choose me, love me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:45 PM
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I would be supportive, why not? It's his hair, he can do what he wants with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:03 PM
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HOW am I trolling??? You said you had data that disagreed with another user's post, "You might want to take that up with biology and data". Don't make claims if you can't back them up, then call someone a troll when they hold you to it. Your mind was never there friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 03:16 AM
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Again, claiming the existence of articles but not linking them. Do you have data that is SPECIFIC to the claim that you made? Double-blind, peer-reviewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 03:05 AM
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People lovee to state opinions as facts on this subreddit, claim they have data, and then not deliver.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 03:01 AM
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I was just asking for your supposed data lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 03:00 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:43 AM
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There isn't an "elite group of conventionally attractive men" that can have sex at will. I agree with you that high-earning and socially relevant men do get more female attention. I just disagree that looks have very much to do with it when it comes to female interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:41 AM
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Lol internet shit-talk. Peak savagery.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:36 AM
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They're not usually lamenting their clear sexual frustrations on reddit, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:35 AM
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No "Barney breakdown" necessary. I just explained in another thread that your answer was in response to her questioning whether you always fuck on the first date. Clearly there was a misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:32 AM
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"So they always have sex with you every time?" In the context of her question was asking if you fuck on the first date every time. The question was in reference to her first comment where she asked "if she doesn't fuck you on the first date? How is that deceitful if she doesn't do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:28 AM
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Right.. so why would you need to string them along? If you're already getting some on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:22 AM
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Again, you stated earlier that you always fuck on the first date "every single time". So why would you say this? Maybe don't repeatedly contradict yourself on your own post lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:52 AM
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Where's your data friend? I actually have a degree in biology, and I can tell you that this is a false statement. Evolution and mating behaviors are much more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:46 AM
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"No, because where your argument falls apart is that the majority of men are not having casual sex but a small amount of men are but women are having the most casual sex than men" this is where you made the claim, so the burden of proof actually lies on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:41 AM
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This was answered already in another thread, but the obvious reason is that a lot of men these days expect sex on the first date (especially when meeting online). Any woman who's been on a few dates would already have dealt with someone like that and may just want to set clear boundaries from the get-go.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:26 AM
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I think if your behavior was actually working out for you, you would be too busy with your real life to be LARPing on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:20 AM
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Then.. why did you say in your original post that you have to "string them along" until you get it? Lol, at least stick to your made-up narrative while you try to get clout on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:09 AM
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I do indeed 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 09:17 PM
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Mommy issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:50 AM
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Jesus christ. Autism and intelligence are correlated, but not in the way you're all thinking. You people need to get off the internet and interact with actual living, breathing human beings -- and interact with some actually autistic people. It's a serious developmental disorder, not some Sherlock Holmes fictional detective novel superpower. Dan Harmon and television narratives have done people who are actually on the spectrum a huge disservice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 10:21 PM
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Nah law school is just faster
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 06:31 AM
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Lol. Actually working on getting him a Ps5 rn for the holidays
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 06:30 AM
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Also, on a side note, I'm pre-med. I don't need a "wage slave".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 10:29 PM
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I mentioned his job because that tends to be what this thread sees as valuable for men and "marriage-able". Him and I have been together for 6 years and he just graduated law school a year ago. We met working in retail while he was still a struggling undergrad. The assumptions y'all make about women... idk this is supposed to be a debate forum but seems like most of you have already made up your minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 10:28 PM
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Lol, he's well aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 10:26 PM
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My 2 cents -- I just got married yesterday (through a quick zoom ceremony due to the pandemic), and I definitely don't agree with this sentiment. My husband was actually a virgin when we met (him 24 and me 20), and I was anything but. My N-count has never been an issue for him, and I'm really not sure why it would be. Sure, I've slept with other men, but I'm only going to be sleeping with him for the rest of my life. As far as his "marriage-ability".. I mean he's an attorney and an overall great…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 06:29 AM
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Gay women hook up ALL THE FREAKING TIME. Every gay woman I know is incredibly comfortable with her sexuality and highly sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 11:37 PM
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I asked for literature, not your opinion. Did you understand my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:20 AM
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It seems like a convenient statistic, but what people don't realize is that it's almost never that simple. Evolution doesn't give a shit about us, "it's" only goal is continuity. Sometimes aspects of us don't always align the way you'd think they do, and often things just "are", for no particular reason at all. My point being, just because it seems like a clean connection between the lack of sexual promiscuity and better odds of insemination without interference, that doesn't make it so. What I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:32 PM
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I can list off 20 standards rn that are socially conditioned. If only it were as simple as biological imperatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:19 PM
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Do you have literature verifying the claim you're making? (That males have an innate preference for less sexual females)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 01:18 PM
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I would say that having a "set height" preference is a bit of a mix of the two. Clearly she favors height as far as sexual preferences go, but to have a "standard" height is.. a standard (and a little shitty). I think virginity/sexual promiscuity can be a sexual preference, in a way, but more often than not is a standard. Idk, the question then becomes, should socially conditioned sexual preferences be viewed the same as biological ones? It's an interesting question. I would argue that some soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 05:12 AM
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Sexual preference isn't a choice, standards are. If a woman wants a man who makes 6 figures but doesn't bring anything to the table herself, that's hypocritical. If a woman has a sexual preference for height, she has every right to that preference. Same goes for men who don't want to date fat women, they have every right to that preference (EVEN if they're fat themselves). When it comes to sexual preference you can't be hypocritical because it's outside of your control. Standards, however, are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 02:00 AM
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There's a difference between having a STANDARD and having a PREFERENCE. This is just not that difficult to understand and you guys are doing logical gymnastics in order to refute it. Standards are generally based on moral/ethical reasoning, "raising a standard" is generally understood to mean raising your expectations of something or someone on a personal, moral and ethical level. Sexual preferences are just that, preferences. Everyone is entitled to them. You can have a sexual preference for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 12:55 AM
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This is disgusting. You fantasize about murdering people and assaulting their wives and daughters? Get help. I have a huge amount of respect for many men in my life -- those that have respectable accomplishments and mannerisms. You sir, I do not respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 05:06 AM
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Exactly. Again, cliche, but only because it's so effective. Throw some humor in there and you're golden.
/r/seduction15/01/20 06:03 PM
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Honestly, with women, it's all about confidence. I know that sounds cliche, but oh so true. We're not visual creatures like men. Act like you're hot, be hot. Simple as that.
/r/seduction15/01/20 05:32 PM
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