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Why not both? Anybody with a modicum of experience will tell you these are not mutually exclusive. You can be a nerd, have deep intellectual conversations, throw in the charm, flirt, and banter back and forth. The reason yall keep getting put in the "he's one of the girls zone" are: 1. You have no backbone and agree with whatever she says 2. Make yourself available to them to an unreasonable degree. 3. Don't make your intentions known, or make them known too late 4. Indecisive 5. Be unabashed ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:26 PM
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I would surmise the double standard as the following (not my opinion): ⁠The women who want them usually can get laid and the men who want them usually can not... Getting one to get away from the other gender is seen as more disreputable than doing so due to lack of ability to find someone willing ⁠They would argue that men cannot get them the big O as consistently due to lack of effort, technique, physical, stamina, and or other intangible. They will say men don't know women's bodies. (I don't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:40 PM
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I agree with this, and even think it goes deeper. Men often set the tone for society. The better men act and perform, the better the women around them act/perform as a result. Prostitution, P*rn, OnlyF, and strip clubs do not happen without the Simps willing to jettison their hard earn money and Evil men who prey on vulnerable women in their youth (pimps). Hip hop has even the most professional men calling the selves Ninja and women B*tches, lessened stigma on baby mama culture. Simp men have mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:38 AM
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I see you don't have the intellectual bandwidth to argue any of my points and are just grandstanding. Reminds me of when I used to debate feminists. Bless your heart, son...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:26 PM
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You took it to a wholenother place, but I'll bite... Assuming you live in the West, this so called "Hate from all directions" is a huge exaggeration. At best you can describe it as apathy towards men with a healthy sprinkle of pandering towards women. Men commit suicide at higher rates, but that's been the case since the data was tracked. In damn near every country today, men commit more suicide. The prevelance of which are more attributable to mental health disorders, social isolation, nutritio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:40 PM
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For broader society, your soliloquy does hold some weight. But it likely came about as a reaction of the reverse, where men's positive actions were collectivised, and their negative actions individualized; vice versa on women's actions. The bear vs man discourse is stupid but really has no real world consequences except a few of us getting annoyed. No woman is literally putting themselves in proximity to a bear to validate this. Underlying the stupidity of the women's answers is probably a valid…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:25 PM
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I wouldn't call it a bait and switch. Being out of shape and poor are two of the biggest bottlenecks for attracting women; directly and indirectly; and issues we have some level of control over. Fixing those also confers some passive boosts to the other weaknesses present, such confidence, self worth, and self esteem. A broke fat man probably has the same personality issues or strategy issues that the In shape, rich man has on top of being broke and fat. If you have engine issues in your car and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:12 AM
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This sub is filled with mentally unwell/ nihilistic men whose negative views of themselves manifests in revolting/ unappealing personalities and lethargy for improving their conditions. Getting rid of those negative thoughts alone can go a long way. My hairline was receding in my early 20s - barbers struggled to line me up. By 24, I was out here looking like Vegeta. I started to just shave all my hair around that time. The women who like it, love it. I'm 5'6 and have been turned down a lot for i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:16 AM
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Sex is riskier for women, so it stands to reason that they are more guarded about it. The general man has to have a level of rapport with women before they can engage with them. Whereas men can engage in sexual activities with women they do not like, or feel no romantic interest towards. Casual sex for guys does not often lead to men developing feelings as often for a couple reasons: - if the chick is not attractive enough to be seen as a potential partner - if the guy is experienced with women …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:19 PM
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I'm not RP, but "working on yourself" is excellent advice. Much better than wallowing in your misery. Insofar as possible , you should be improving on the things you have a degree of control over. And some of these improvement will mitigate your facial ugliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:28 AM
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After being on this forum for a few months, wholeheartedly agree with the title of the post. The content could have been written better. "Converting their sexual orientation" is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:39 AM
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Hard disagree. You can have a strong sense of self while also desiring relationships from others. Not mutually exclusive. Problem is that many people are not able to function properly when they are alone. So they get with the wrong people. Your line of thinking is where people tolerate BS from others for the sake of a friend, spouse, or even family. People who lose their minds out after getting broken up with. "She was my everything, I don't want to live without her." 😭😭😭.... The teen who hangs …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:55 AM
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For men, she has to like you more. For women, he has to like you more. The ideal is probably when you like each other a lot, relatively equally, and the base foundation of your desires to each other is not superficial. But if I had to pick one or the other for relationship sustainment/quality overall, objectively speaking - men have to like women more. I certainly wouldn't advocate this dynamic for any individual man myself, but guys who are like "golden retrievers" towards their women are proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:27 AM
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It is important and anyone saying it doesn't is capping. If one side of the spectrum is a compliment and the other side is a diss, that should tell you all you need to know. You're too rich, you're too tall, you're too beautiful, you're too smart. All you have to do is listen to women talk, the respect bestow on men who have large ones, even if they couldn't "handle" it, or prefer avg. - Vs the shame for avg to smaller equipped dudes. Even the compliments for those don't sound like complements. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:00 PM
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It gets easier for men in their 30s because: - we're usually more financially stable than men in their 20s. I'm not rich by any means but I have sizable savings and investments now, after paying off my debts and living frugally - more likely to have our own place - for the guys who have a hard time putting on muscle, a decade in the gym turns out nicely; I'm in my best shape since I was 26 - better understanding of women through experiences and observation - Better understanding of self; I know …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:37 PM
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If your "straightforward and honest" self is SIMPish, needy, lacking confidence, boring, then you probably won't get far. Probably need to fix those issues first. If you're trying to mess with every lady you come across, then being manipulative is the way to go. I wouldn't recommend it though. This approach leads to messy endings. And you will distrust people to a significant degree as you yourself are a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:26 AM
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Which is why you should apply this as a standard before you have kids together and not while she's flowing with pregnancy hormones. Not sure there's an equivalent for women, since both men and women travel. I'm cool with the Std test annually but after every trip would be crazy if I was working a traveling job. I work from home and don't see that changing anytime soon. With the last ex, she had some insecurities a year in to our relationship after a few sudden changes I made, including new skin …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:23 AM
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Some of us don't use faith to guide us. We can trust our partners to a high degree but want to enact checkpoints to make sure every thing is kosher. We understand that even people with great morals can succumb to the right temptations at the right time. We understand that some people are great at presenting facades, even long term. We read the stories about the devastation that it can cause for a man to find out that the kid wasn't his, after trusting his lady. The family member gaslighting the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:55 AM
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Men can talk about suicide rates. It deserves attention. Just don't use it as a rebuttal. I don't think you're dumb. One example would be the traumatic jobs that men are more likely to perform that produce high rates of mental health issues in men. Police, firefighters, soldiers for example. The government should have a greater responsibility with regards to provision of mental health resources, and the financial burden those come with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:44 PM
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Whether I have empathy or not isn't germain to this post. It's pointless arguing about it. I didn't make a post about women as the conversation I parodied in my initial post is what I have seen lately. I'll reiterate once more. I don't care if men rebuttal against women, just use better arguments. What are the unique underlying conditions that cause men to commit suicide more often?!? USE THAT!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:23 PM
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Learn to read. Male Suicide is an important issue that should be addressed to which I hold lots of empathy. My post argues that men should stop using it as a response to female victim Olympics. No issues when people bring it up on it's own, but it doesn't stand up to scrutiny for the reasons I've outlined numerous time. The female suicide stats has a neutering effect to the male stats. Because someone not finalizing an attempt has no bearing in whether they went through more or less pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:08 PM
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Reading comprehension is key, my guy. The sequence of events I'm speaking about is: 1. Woman claims oppression online 2. Man retorts that women are not more oppressed because men commit more suicide 3. Woman rebuts that women attempt more often The fact that women attempt suicide more often somewhat neuters the men's argument. And I think men would be better served using the unique circumstances they face as a rebuttal, rather than the suicide stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:59 PM
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Yo! - appreciate the well thought out responses. To clarify, I'm not a feminist nor do I subscribe to their theories. I was simply illustrating how a supposed patriarchy, conceptually, wouldn't necessarily need to boost all men over all women. And that all it would need to do is create upward societal pressure for men and downwards pressure for women. I don't agree with equality of outcome! My personal opinion is that, like many other things, men are probably overrepresented at the top and botto…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:00 PM
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Why are you co-opting the suffering that men in Ukraine face when you don't live in Ukraine? And why would you cherry pick as if it was the worst position to be in? Question: would you rather be a woman in Afghanistan or a man in Ukraine? We both know the answer to this...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:52 AM
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Say I grant you that the attempts are disingenuous. Would you also say that the mentality it takes to even attempt is disingenuous? Take the breakup example I gave above: - Adam and Jane are heartbroken after their respective spouse broke up with them - They were so distraught, they believed suicide was their only way out - Adam choses to use his .22; Janes uses some pills - Jane was discovered alive by the neighbor and driven to the hospital From this scenario, the fact that Jane chose a less l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:33 PM
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You are the one saying men do it to themselves, are you not? Because people who commit suicide do it to themselves, by definition... If I got false imprisonment and kill myself, I did do it to myself(suicide), as tragic as the circumstance that. Suicide is not an inevitable consequence of any issue men face in the west. If false imprisonment is so prevalent and affected men at a disproportional rate, then that should be the argument when debating against feminists. for example: "Men are more opp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:21 PM
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So you want to debate like feminists? I thought RPers used logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:13 PM
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You’re seriously telling me to “steel man” the opposing view point that “it’s nbd that men kill themselves exponentially higher than women and it’s fine that it’s ignored and it’s their own fault”? No - I was telling you: - to steel man the feminist talking points. Their grievances are not only limited to the trivial things you brought up. You could have brought up rapes and sexual assaults, violence against women, workplace discrimination, lack of healthcare amongst the other things they argue.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:12 PM
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I can agree that suicide doesn't necessarily mean you have had a harder life though, but men do have harder lives regardless of suicide and because of suicide, so that point is moot. Harder life is subjective. Easier in some ways, harder in others. Whichever is easier depends on the viewer. My sentiment is that, like other things, men are probably over-represented at the extremes, with the average life difficulty being roughly similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:48 PM
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You could replace patriarchy with sexism, misogyny, oppression, or any other feminist buzzword but my point still stands. Suicide rates aren't a valid rebuttal for reasons I've outlined in OG post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:41 PM
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What did I say that was wrong? You asked a lady out and she rejects you or breaks up with you. What's your suggestion other than move on? Because anything other than moving on is crazy. ​ Reasonable responses to getting rejected or broken up with: - moving on - venting to friends and family after moving on - seeing a therapist after moving on - going to the gym after moving on - talk to another chick. You got denied by 1 and there are 3 billion left. After moving on ​ Unreasonable responses to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:36 PM
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If there are societal issues that impact men, causing them to commit suicide en masse, than those issues should be highlighted rather than the "sexier" gender discrepancy that holds little to no value. ​ TIL; women experiencing “anxiety” over things like mansplaining, body image and air conditioner temperatures are more valid causes for concern than literal death. I'm not a feminist and don't hold that view. I think you should work to steel man your opponent's arguments and defeat those rather t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:12 PM
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Great rebuttal bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:04 PM
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If I'm being charitable, I would ascribe patriarchy as something that more likely benefits men than women; not that all men benefit at the expense of all women. But this being a class issue is where I lean as well. ​ We cannot live in a patriarchy which is said to be designed by men for men, when hardly any man benefits from this system. Feminists would need to see most men as innocent in women's oppression/struggles, rather than painting them all guilty with a broad brush. Born guilty, for bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:03 PM
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Sheesh, how many RP's did you take this morning!? None of your points address the argument. But I'll entertain There are some facets of life as humans that are easier for men, and some that are easier for women. This is all subjective. Myself personally, I wouldn't trade being a man to be a woman. I don't think you would either. To your other points In 2023, you don't have to fight in wars, but if you do join the military, you did so with the understanding of the risks and rewards Everybody work…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:28 PM
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Good quote! But Imprecise... RPers are the ones using the fact that people are committing suicide (jumping out of windows) rather than the societal reasons that cause them to do so. Would be better served using the reasons as the rebuttal rather than the "sexier" suicide rate discrepancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:19 PM
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I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:53 PM
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The fact that the death, caused by suicide, is self-inflicted is the reason it shouldn't be used as a rebuttal. One group (feminists) is arguing that society is imposing itself negatively on to us, and your group arguing that men are committing suicide at much higher rates. These do not hold the same weight. If you believe that society imposes itself on men insomuch as it causes men to commit suicide at much higher rates than women, you would be better served using those impositions as the rebut…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:52 PM
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That wasn't the argument though. The argument is "stop using gender suicide rate disparity as a rebuttal to feminist talking points." Having less dating options is tough, but not oppression. Men can have family, friends, and support groups too. It's up to us to cultivate relationships, maintain them, and not be recluses. If you got a woman previously, what's stopping you from getting another? You can get over breakups if you: don't make your previous relationship your identity, which a lot of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:38 PM
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If a person is the perpetrator, they are not the victim, by default. The events that cause a person to commit suicide could make them a victim; they would be a victim of that event. But a person is not a victim for taking their own life inherently, so it is not victim blaming. If society cut my foot off, you cannot rebut that we are equivalent when you cut your own arm off. I think you should use logic to counter talking points you disagree with. I just don't think this is a valid one for the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:22 PM
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I don't hate men... I am a man. I'm not even a feminist or feminist adjacent. I just don't think that suicide rate disparities between genders are valid rebuttals to what feminist talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:09 PM
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Being a tall man is one of the biggest cheat codes LMAO!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:08 PM
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I don't think that it is mutually exclusive that there could be a patriarchy while a significant amount of men are struggling. And from what I've seen, feminists allow for that delineation when they say "men struggle under patriarchy too". Someone could formulate a similar rebuttal to yours with regards to American chattel slavery. Most Southern white people didn't own slaves. It was about a quarter who did. And amongst the 75% who didn't own slaves, many were poor and struggling. I don't believ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:07 PM
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Dating over 30 can be easy if you are not stagnant. If you stay the same or regress, then you are shit out of luck if you're an average dude. You gotta pick a struggle 😂 You cant be short, fat, thinning hairline, no personality, no game, broke, depressed. Insofar as you can, you should work to mitigate whatever "weaknesses" you have. You won't necessarily be less attractive in your 30s. If you're out of shape now and in shape in your 30s, then you will be more attractive in your 30s, more than l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:22 AM
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In your scenario, you'd likely be perceived better if you thought highly of yourself as that would more than likely manifest through your actions long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:41 AM
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Are you prescribing that one shouldn't aspire to have high self worth? Self worth does not mean Delusion. It's about having a high estimate of yourself such that: - you're able to enforce boundaries on others - you don't engage in people pleasing behaviors - you don't talk badly about yourself - you don't self sabotage - more likely to get shit done through self actualization - less sensitive to criticism, good or bad Not to mention that having low self worth correlates with Depression and anxie…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:38 AM
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Women were terrified of aging wayyy be RP exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:54 AM
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Relationship between the couple can be based off trust. But the relationship between the father and child is initially contingent on the child being his offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:24 PM
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No ma'am!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:20 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:19 PM
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If being honest illicits irrational behavior from the wife, I'm sure the man will sleep happily doing so in secret. Akin to running a background check on your SO before marriage. Everyone should do one really. This so called betrayal (secret paternity test) pales in comparison to a paternity fraud betrayal. Man is testing himself and "his" baby. As a non-invasive procedure, you have no say. For me personally, I will tell me wife way prior to fiancé /marriage that this will happen. If this offend…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:45 AM
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Misty, I think it depends on the woman that the man is with. Based on your other comments in this post, your man would be better served to get it in secret if he desires a paternity test. I don't think women have an equivalent "unique" form of violation which makes it hard to sympathize. - both genders can cheat - both genders can give the other STDs - both genders can have a child from someone outside the relationship - only women can fool a man to raise a baby that isn't theirs. Many of us ref…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:21 AM
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Takes relatively little time or money to get a paternity test, juxtaposed against the time and money it takes to have a child. Prenatal test is a blood draw and cheek swab and can be as low as 100 bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:31 AM
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This is why you tell them in the inception of the relationship that you will get this for your peace of mind. You add in the fact that children can get accidently switched at birth, and the potential to catch any genetic abnormalities. I wouldn't recommend asking for it after the baby is born. Or maybe perform a secret test from the many kits on Amazon. And then burn that shit after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:27 AM
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A few issues with your post: - Quiet and introverted people get approached less in damn near every aspect of life. As an introvert myself, Extroverted women are generally more easy to read, gage their interest, etc. Shy women in the wilderness - I don't know if she's shy or uncomfortable? - Are you pleasant to talk to? Do you have Resting B Face? Are you dressed in a homely manner relative to your friends? And where are you going to notice this discrepancy of approaches? If you're going to a bar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:39 AM
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Bruh you can throw em a complement... If you're meeting on a date, telling them a compliment will be well recieved unless: blowing smoke up their ass. "You're the most beautiful woman I've ever seen." She knows it's not true and you do too stop complementing in a self deprecating way. "You're way out of my league. " get too sexual too early for most serious prospects. Ass boobs etc. Specificity can be better, like hairstyle or what she's wearing. And to escalate it to sexual, on a date you can d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:03 AM
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Many women don't even know themselves... This "listen to your partner" advice only works for the ones that know what they are doing. My experience has been that for a lot of ladies, you have to instruct them that they should play with themselves while doggy or missionary. A couple ladies, who said they cannot O during sex, proceed to O numerous times with just this advice. Then there are some ladies who hop on, ⬆️🔽↗️↕️, and get their's without you having to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:45 PM
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Sounds like you described a man with above average height, above average confidence, knows how to work with his hands. Those will get you pretty far with many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:35 PM
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Feminists and many of the lefty persuasion argue that gender and sex are not the same. But they have gendered terms that they use almost exclusively with "male men". Toxic masculinity, mansplaining. Also phrases like men are trash. - these are not referring to transmen. If a women gets online and says "men need to do more chores", you're not thinking trans men. But there seems to be a group of people who will rebuttal you talking about "women" to fit trans men or trans women in depending on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:05 AM
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We have a sneaky f*cker here 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:49 AM
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Gallup poll https://news.gallup.com/poll/186050/children-key-factor-women-desire-work-outside-home.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:34 AM
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All conjecture on my part Culture follows biology, not the other way around. Which is why you never seen a culture with the reverse standard. This double standard is ativistic component of human nature that no amount of social engineering will change, maybe reduce. 1: Males don't generally want to raise kids they didn't create, unknowingly. And for over 99% of human history, there was almost no way to find out if the kid was yours or not. 2: I mean no offense when I say this, but historically fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:31 AM
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There is some truth to this. If guys could get laid as easily as women, you would see a lot less relationships. This is why the phrase "why buy the cow if you can get the milk free" exists. Phrase that is usually applied to women's "contributions" to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:33 PM
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You're confusing that attention those ladies get as serious romantic pursuits where most of the time, it is a lustful pursuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:17 PM
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Well if it's something you desire, maybe.... Smile more???? 😂😂😂 jokes but not really. Funny enough, I met my ex by asking her if she wanted to jump rope with me at the gym, while she had airpods and a mask on. Noticed her giving me some prolonged looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:32 AM
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Was about to take a Virginity once. Would never want that again 0/10 experience 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:13 AM
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RBF and airpods are high on the list for why I wouldn't approach a lady in the wilderness. I usually wait for a choosing signal, like maybe a smile or if I see something interesting in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:11 AM
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Paradox of choice comes with its own sets of problems. I think characteristics that men generally desire is spread pretty evenly amongst women. Whereas characteristics women desire are, relatively, more representative in a less wholesome population. From my experience, filtering women has been relatively easy. Dating apps suck but I've had success with a couple strategies. In the women I matched with, never had to worry about criminality or being stalked. Lots of flakiness though. If I'm trying …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:53 AM
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I think a common transition from being a "nice guy" is being the mean guy. And then when being the "mean guy" gets more play from women than the "nice guy", people interpret that to mean that "mean guy" is the correct answer. The actual correct answer is somewhere in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:32 AM
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You looked old in college =/= you being an older man. What you had a said you were overweight and had rough features. All they saw was a chubby unattractive 20 year old. No offense. Characteristics that women find in men often improve as men age. Physically: - physique - deeper voice - facial hair improvement - bonus points if you're already tall Mentally: - confidence - experience - status - finances - how to work the bedroom - wisdom - ability to teach her things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:19 AM
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If you were my girlfriend then there would have been no way to win since you are cynical. I think me giving her my phone did assuage her insecurity. She apologized after and showed trust in me afterwards. I broke it off IN August due to our mismatched sex drive. An otherwise very healthy relationship where supported each other, chemistry very high but: she had a somewhat anxious personality, and her work situations would really wear her out saw me as someone who helped her relax her mind and unw…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:17 PM
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Or, hear me out, handing over your phone could be the behavior of someone who had nothing to hide. Sounds crazy right? As far as men finding it flattering, some men do and some don't. I don't find it flattering. A 1-off occasion of her feeling like I might be cheating wasn't grounds for ending it, especially if it didn't result in deleterious behavior. She just wanted to be around me more and have more sex. So I didn't mind giving her reassurance the best way I though of at the time. And she nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:44 PM
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We get it bro... You're a liberated man with no insecurities who doesn't mind getting pegged...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:31 AM
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Exactly! Trust but verify!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:15 PM
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This is how it should be done. Had discussions about this with my exes and all came to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:15 PM
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Agreed! I don't have this issue as I usually discuss this with the women I've been with early on. All have come to understand my point and support it. I told them they shouldn't trust me 100% either. We should run background checks and review each others credit scores. I see paternity test as no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:14 PM
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Crazy reddit stories I've seen a few times
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:08 PM
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So hypothetically, if you're married to your husband for 10 years and he starts acting weird, and you think he's cheating, you just leave? No investigation? No conversation? I don't believe that is reasonable to ask of people. Maybe there is a solid explanation to the person's behavior. My ex noticed changed behaviors in me and it gave her an insecurity that she never had displayed previously. And didn't show toxic behaviors due to that insecurity. I swallowed my pride and did what I could at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:07 PM
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Understanding that you could die in a country with generally lax gun laws where students often bring guns to school isn't necessarily paranoia. Seems to be a justified fear. For the finance example, I would recommend that periodically the partner who doesn't generally handle the money to review their accounts. That's not paranoid. We know that many people will be underwater for a significant amount of time before asking for help. Displaying no signs. I think review can help mitigate that. So ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:54 PM
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If it's true then it's not rage bait. These are stories we've heard in real life as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:44 PM
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Insofar as trust is to be built up incrementally, seems to be that once pregnancy comes into the picture, we are expected to show unadulterated trust in the woman. Especially for a child, that has lifetime implications. ​ I think there may be times where we need to swallow our pride and provide reassurance for the other partner their in moments of weakness. For my ex, she didn't ask to see my phone, I just gave it to her and left. I don't even know if she went through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:00 AM
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I'm not saying to be paranoid, I'm saying exercise due diligence and don't be ignorant. Say for example, that one partner handles the finances because they are "better with money", the other partner should check periodically to make sure things are ok. Seems to be a thin line between paranoia and due diligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:38 AM
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I didn't feel offended that she asked if I was seeing someone else. We shared our passcode with each other so she could have looked at anytime while I was sleeping. She noticed the change in routine (included more time in the gym) and became slightly paranoid. I didn't notice at first, only that we were having sex more often. When I asked her about the increase in sex, she said it was due to my changed routine, then asked if there was someone else. That's when I gave her my phone. Didn't really …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:32 AM
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What the fuck does my comment have to do with a bar being low. You're like a parrot reciting talking points you heard on TikTok. AND You're proving my point. "Unkind", "bad vibe", "too combative/argumentative" do not mean misogynyst. I've turned women down for this very reason but didn't assume they hate men. Radical feminists have their misogyny radar tuned to "excessive" and label everything as misogyny, like you just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:00 PM
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Men have a higher peak and lower floor of priveledges. Women have a lower peak and higher floor. But if I had to give a definitive answer, I would say women have less priveledges mainly attributable to biology. Nothing we go through compares to periods and getting pregnant. Add physical vulnerability to the mix. Pros and cons to both but wouldn't trade being man to be a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:46 AM
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I don't believe women are using misogyny as the delineation to whether they are receptive to a man or not. Certainly not in the early conversations. In my observation these factors will make women cold towards you wayyy before misogyny comes into the picture: Does she find the man attractive? Men will get more grace everything if she does. Is the man Shy or confident? Bonus points for confidence. Even arrogance presents better than shyness for most women. Conversational skills - can you make her…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:09 AM
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Many men and women do get vindictive when it comes to divorce. You can find many stories from both genders when the STBX uses malicious means to shaft the other person in the divorce process.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:58 PM
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I don't think all who believe in the wage gap are devoid of logic and reasoning. Wage gap is real. Wage gap due to sexism exists but to a significantly lesser degree than the proponents want to admit. Many women, upon hearing any of the fair rebuttals that explain away a significant portion of the wage gap, will insult you or feel that you have insulted them or their gender, just like a lot of religious people when you critique their religion. LALALA sexist LALALA patriarchy LALALA misogynist LA…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:41 PM
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Wage gap is like a religious belief to many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:58 PM
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These issues would be issues regardless of the existence of feminism. Wtf could they do anyway? Feminism was created for women and has priorities that are generally hierarchical. If you're a man (the worst one) don't expect much of anything from them. Truth is this. Being a man in the dating market is hard, yes, the power seems to be mostly in women's hand. But with working on yourself, you literally take that much of that power away from women. We have the power to significantly raise our stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:00 PM
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Both ways. Hence why the jealousy comes in. I believe that most ladies (USA) are comfortable with the man initiating every step of the relationship. Who talks to who first, who asks who out on a date, etc. Because women don't like this step, men have to do it and they more often go for what catches their eyes first. Who talks to who first - a good amount of women believe you are not truly interested if you didn't approach them If a guy hasn't got the balls to approach me, thats not the sort of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:35 AM
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I don't see the conversation about vetting directed towards women who chose seemingly solid men whom you later find out are menaces in the streets. The choose better comments are usually directed at women who look past glaring red flags because of "love 🥰". Dude has 3 kids by 3 women and isn't involved with any; what makes you think your kid won't get the same treatment. But in general I agree with you. I think we should also lambast men who overlook these red flags for a crumb of Pucci. For the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:15 AM
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Whether they want to admit it or not, there are a good amount of women who do envy the position that they were in and once benefitted from. Of course not all. I've seen the jealousy live with younger women simply existing around older women and the ire they were shown. At bars and clubs. I've seen it at work where a pretty young lady was showing a integrated lighting control products and my usually nice boss, 37f at the time, pouncing on her like a cat, metaphorically. Never seen her like that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:52 AM
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I agree with this in general. Many times, the battle for the low libido woman is an internal one. My ex was always Stressed and anxious after her work day. And would internalize that negativity into our time together. Me being her rock, I was able to help her decompress by my presence and being a shoulder to lean on but the result was her being "at peace" which meant she would mellow out and want to sleep rather than have sex. Wasn't a DB situation, but we were mismatched on our libidos which wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:49 AM
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