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Are you saying that pineapple pizza is the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:01 PM
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To them any guy she fucks who isn't them is either a Chad or a fuckboi.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:59 PM
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I'll admit if your not conventionally good looking your not even on my radar. If you are not at least a 7 or an 8 I won't even talk to you. But I'm also just 1 person and don't speak for all women. Personality is nice but people make assumptions based on looks first. Personality is second. Unfortunately some people just don't have the looks to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:56 PM
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I'm honestly amused by all of this. The anthropologist in me gets a high from this sub 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:05 PM
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Haven't dated much here as I'm still figuring out the culture. As for them being shorter I kind of prefer it (or if they are the same height). I hurt my neck looking at tall men 😂. As for finding men I'm attracted to? I find I'm a bit more attracted to the ones on the mainland than closer to the Amazon. Tbh I think it's mostly because they remind me of my male cousins who I spent a lot of time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:28 AM
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Here in Peru I'm taller than a lot of men then again I'm from the u.s. It also seems like the men in Latin America are a lot less calculated and more suave in approaches. They cold approach here but do it in a very smooth way. In the states it felt like men would try to calculate what they think I want to hear where as here it's more like they just say whatever is on their mind and hope it's on yours too. I've had guys in the states play coy which gets confusing...just come out with it. But here…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:27 AM
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There is no problem. But misery loves company and there are some pretty miserable people here who love to bash others for how they choose to live because of jealousy. Some people here think that women are a finite commodity and that passport bros are scooping them up left and right leaving nothing for poor broke boys. They think passport bros are scooping up the women of the world like the world is K mart and every woman is on a blue light special when that's not true. The ones who view it negat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:03 AM
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Oh you know the usual...not having chads looks, not having chads bank account, not having chads big D, Not being within the top 1 percent of chads. Basically just not being a hung Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:51 AM
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I'm thinking most of that rejection is from the thought of having to move over seas (assuming this is someone who lives over seas and are not an expat) and having to leave their friends and family and life as they know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:07 PM
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Bait post .....remember people nothing is your fault if it can be proven with biology and statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:58 PM
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I love their videos
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:37 PM
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A lot of people want a proper partner but are not mature enough to be a proper partner themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:23 PM
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They are angry because to them rejection feeds the cycle of "you don't deserve love". They think poorly of themselves already so any rejection can be read as "I don't deserve this anyway because I'm not worthy". Heck in the right (or wrong) mindset one could even see their card being declined for a 50 cent bottle of water as a personal attack..."oh well guess I dont even deserve water...guess this is my life now....I guess I will just never drink water again at this rate....maybe I should just g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:20 PM
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Reminds me of this quote: "I think when you hear someone say they like you, for the first time, then you can begin to like yourself,"-Yuki (fruitsbasket) This means that in order to feel self love you have to be in an environment that facilitates that. It's hard to love yourself if people around you constantly remind you of how much of a burden you are to them or if they constantly make negative remarks about you. Or how much you don't matter. The only reason why I don't think badly about myself…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:01 PM
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Honestly it's not just Brazil but a lot of South America is like that. Heck here in Peru they have hourly hookup hotels and legal brothels among other things. People here in Peru will chat with just about anyone male or female. Heck I got offered a joint in a park once. I think when it comes to Hispanic men especially in South America it's more about being "suave" or doing something effortlessly than it is about having charisma. In American culture men are taught to calculate and not seem like a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:35 PM
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Most dating advice is bad in general since it just generalizes and blankets people under the guise that all men and all women operate the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:39 PM
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Cinema therapy did a video about that with megamind https://youtu.be/OjpxlBRbhXs?si=e0dp0ssxwLjTJ_Sa
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:55 PM
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Cinema therapy did a whole "good guy vs nice guy" thing using Megamind in their video. I highly recommend it. https://youtu.be/OjpxlBRbhXs?si=e0dp0ssxwLjTJ_Sa
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:54 PM
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Like I said they just want the "benefits of being a woman" without the consequences. They secretly want to be the woman in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:10 PM
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So these guys aren't your type I take it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:58 PM
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As someone who likes bi men yes. Mostly because balance is just sexy. Need to learn to be both soft at times and strong at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:51 PM
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I know I was just making a bad joke
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:48 PM
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Yup...no one has it harder just different both in good and bad ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:05 AM
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Ok they still have the option of women wanting to pay. That kind of thing does exist. Some women love having a male escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:34 PM
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Not my problem if they get disturbed because someone made a sound. People make sounds all the time. That's just life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:32 PM
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T.V and Movies mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:29 PM
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I meant more like what the media is trying to force onto people when it comes to certain standards. It tells women that all they are good for is their body and how men are only good for dying in war. It also tells men that looks don't matter because nobody cares about how men look which is just as harmful as the supermodel stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:27 PM
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I think the only good advice I've ever heard when it comes to dating wasn't even really about dating. The person said "if you want to be a certain way you have to surround yourself with people who are that kind of way or at least have what you are looking for and learn from them". The conversation was about being successful at a job but it also applies to many other things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:58 PM
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I'm not religious really but I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:51 PM
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Weeds out the weak...it means those who are willing to put in effort vs those who are not. If they really and truly like you that person will put in the effort to show you how much they care (note: this is different from simping/love bombing). When things get tough they stick it out with you and don't leave you high and dry (note: this is different than saying stay with toxic people or drama filled people I'm talking about an otherwise healthy person) then again this is all coming from a ride or…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:37 PM
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A lot of dating advice is bad as a lot of it just overly generalizes people and a lot of it is disconnected from reality and is based solely on the experience of the person giving the advice. This ignores the fact that every person is unique with unique qualities and interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:34 PM
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For me patients weeds out the weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:29 PM
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I feel the same and sometimes have to remember that some people don't want that and that they just want to vent. Growing up means realizing the difference between a cry for help and a cry just to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:36 PM
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This! It weeds out the weak tbh because a mature patient person would see and know what you are doing. The issue is unfortunately not many are patient because dating apps have put dating on the conveyor belt..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:21 PM
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That coffee is cheaper at home 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:13 PM
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I'm glad I'm in my 30s too 😂. Also missed the wave...honestly the only reason I'm on this sub is because of the anthropologist in me. It's honestly interesting coming from that standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:12 PM
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I think some might be
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:10 PM
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Casual sex is wrong but legalized prostitution is ok...this is where it usually goes. It's a loneliness epidemic alright...as in their D feels cold and lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:01 PM
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Sadly a lot of people won't get into a relationship if it's not strictly transactional because otherwise they don't see the point. They don't understand the benefits of not having everything be transactional. They don't understand doing something because you love someone and doing something because you were promised a BJ. A lot of these men are also still fresh out of HS and think the world works like HS. They never had to put in any effort in HS because HS girls are naive and fall for anything.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:56 PM
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Even if they service men won't that solve the loneliness epidemic? Lonely men can get with other lonely men...then they won't be so lonely. Sounds like a win in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:48 PM
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<image> The hell did I just read?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:41 PM
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I see so many white guys here from eastern Europe and the states. Heck I know some who live here full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:31 PM
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Hey man You do you...I just meant things like wearing cologne and looking well put together in men's clothes but hey if you want to wear a dress and heels and have the body for that then knock yourself out...I'm not god or Jesus so I can't judge really. It's 2025 if you want to wear some heels and a cute skirt then you do that...I'm sure someone will find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:25 PM
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The mentality though is this...the fisherman vs the fish mentality....in which you don't ask the fish about how to catch fish and instead you ask the fisherman. I mean why would the fish tell you how to catch it right? Well that's where most guys are mistaken. They ask the fisherman instead of the fish...which is ok if you don't care about the feelings of the fish and how the fish would prefer you catch them...they don't understand that some of the best fishermen simply learned by asking the fis…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:17 PM
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The men who think that are most likely the ones who feel ...ummm....how do I put this...."very small" and don't like the thought that a woman with a high body count has a lot of men that she can compare him to...since the chances are very high that she was with a much more "well endowed" man. Penis envy is real...the issue is Freud thought it was women who had it....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:05 PM
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Don't you understand that everything would be better and world peace would be achieved if they just legalized prostitution? It would solve the male loneliness epidemic because they can just pay to keep her....or to make her leave it's their choice. It would solve everyone's problem of why ugly men can't get laid and it will end the thought process of "ugly men don't deserve happiness" also it would add jobs to the economy. I really don't see how this is a bad thing. Plus women will be getting pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:58 PM
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Depends on how much blood is between them...if they are first cousins then I can see the issue but if they have little blood relation then there isn't much of an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:46 PM
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If he told me he didn't want kids because he knows I don't want kids and then I find out he only said that to get into my pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:44 PM
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I suggest giving this a look https://www.purewow.com/wellness/red-car-dating-theory
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:43 PM
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I suggest looking at this https://www.purewow.com/wellness/red-car-dating-theory
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:42 PM
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I think their issue is that men are not held to the same or similar beauty standards as women. Women are expected to look like models at all times. but men can just walk outside in their underwear unshaven and society has no issue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:40 PM
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I don't use any treatments
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:36 PM
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I don't looks max and I still get men looking at me...then again not all of us need makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:36 PM
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I'll admit myself that I'm way happier in relationships where I'm attracted to that person vs in relationships where I'm not. I'm just glad I live in a country where most of the men are attractive...come to LATAM.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:32 PM
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😂 the government won't regulate shit. Those same government officials are the ones who do that to kids behind closed doors. Slavery was made illegal in the U.S when Lincoln was in office...didn't stop the sex traffickers from trafficking sex slaves across the U.S. didn't stop them from importing minors to the U.S. didn't stop them from drugging people. Didn't stop them from doing anything. All it did was force them to go underground. government regulation isn't the safety net you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:25 PM
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Yup...all I seem to see is poor attempts at a "gotcha!" Or "bingo!" But no actual attempts to change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:15 PM
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I'm wonding why men won't give me my diamond ring and their entire paycheck. It's all men are good for anyway is money and free dick 😂. Men should just do stuff for me because I'm a woman. Don't they know it's their job to give women everything they own? Don't men know its their job to be used by women since all they are good for is money and sex? Most men are useless if they aren't attractive, rich, and tall with a huge D. Like why do they even make non chads? /S 😂 (I feel if I don't put the S …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:10 PM
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I don't see this for myself so it's not happening
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:01 PM
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This guy made the argument of how abused women constantly get laid and how they want to be like an abused woman who constantly gets laid. I wouldn't argue with people who think like that 😂. Facts go in one ear and out the other in favor of whatever narrative they want to display. They don't care about facts they just care about being right and "GOTCHA!" moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:59 AM
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This guy made the argument of how abused women constantly get laid and how they want to be like an abused woman who constantly gets laid. I wouldn't argue with people who think like that 😂. Facts go in one ear and out the other in favor of whatever narrative they want to display.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:58 AM
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I'm wondering why these guys don't just become male prostitutes and escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:54 AM
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Sometimes they aren't adults and that's the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:50 AM
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Why bother dating women at all then? Why not just become a male prostitute or escort instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:47 AM
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I felt like being silly 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:37 PM
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Loneliness I guess...I'm kind of confused as to what the main complaints seem to be on this sub. First it's shitty women, then it's Chad, then it's "because ugly", etc...its so confusing when the goal posts constantly shifts. They want women to call out shit behavior from other women but don't believe that women already do those things. It's confusing...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:45 PM
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It's pumpkin spiced latte time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:41 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:38 PM
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Some seem to think we are all in the suffering Olympics and whomever is suffering the most gets the prize of victim hood....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:23 PM
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This is true sometimes people do project what they would like or want done onto others. This is why I think emotional intelligence is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:01 AM
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I think it's 50/50. But they are also not mutually exclusive. If you are empath you sort of just feel the moment for lack of a better word. It's like the phrase "read the room/vibe"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:15 AM
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Well they make poor choices then and again those are excuses to not do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:47 PM
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No but I can spot crazy a mile away 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:37 PM
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Excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:03 PM
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But you are sad none of them are you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:02 PM
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I'm sure someone will say "right man translates to Chad" or some dumb crap along those lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:18 AM
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Why would they bother putting in any effort if the person they are with isn't expressing how unhappy they are with the lack of effort? Also are you suggesting that women are only good for breeding? So once again it boils down to wanting to control women's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:15 AM
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They won't vett for it because to men even boring routine sex is better than nothing. They won't vett because raising their standards means potentially going without sex or a partner or both. I can't imagine being in a relationship where you have to choose between boring and nothing. Must be some kind of hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:10 AM
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So it is about sex then...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:15 AM
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It's not that most women aren't good enough it's that most men have set the bar so low for women that any woman can walk in if they just promise to bow down and suck the almighty D for eternity. Men have set the bar so low for women it's kind of laughable at this point. Women aren't rising to men's levels in a relationship because men's standards stop at "be female...". Sex becomes routine because it loses its luster after being with the same low standard person for a while. Why would she put in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:11 AM
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Like months or years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:37 AM
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Doesn't matter to me since the body can only take so much. If we both feel like it and can then ok we are doing it. But if one doesn't feel like it then oh well we aren't doing it. And if that "not doing it " goes on for a while I would want to help them with whatever the issue may be. Beyond sex I would just want them to show appreciation for the little things and to "be my windmill" as I would be for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:23 AM
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They are also competing with other women and those other women have slightly higher success rates when compared to those men....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:45 PM
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The thing is if I give my honest opinion of "some men but I wouldn't say most men" I'm sure someone will reply and say I'm lying or "I bet if they were attractive and had money...". But if I say "women only want chads" I'm sure someone will say "glad to see a woman who admits the truth that women only want top tier men". This a loaded question and there is a bullet in every chamber designed to blow my brains out. Doesn't matter what is said if the other party already has preconceived notions abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:42 PM
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Be careful this is a gotcha attempt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:16 PM
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Some are able to get that from friends and some aren't. I do see why people would choose A and not B though since A means you have a forever person and can build a family with them whereas with B you have to be comfortable with yourself enough to be single. Plus friends aren't tied to you the same way a lover is. It's much easier for friends to leave but there is much more involved for a lover to leave since you have kids, finances, and have spent more intimate time with them. You guys may have …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:14 PM
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It's not so much about protection but if that protection fails and with current laws....yeah no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:05 PM
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Scenario B because that means I'm not pregnant...I don't want kids. You said nothing about self pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:53 PM
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Doesn't matter what anyone says here because it seems like you've already made up your mind. People are offering advice that is getting countered with "woe is me". I'm seriously wondering if this is a bait post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:39 PM
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Shows that you don't understand what the metaphor is actually trying to say.... The song "shut up and drive" isn't about fast cars but I can see how you may think that....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:52 PM
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Oh god 😂...heck I find myself quoting "get out of the fart chamber" too often these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:41 AM
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Humanzoning is the only way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:40 AM
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I highly suggest checking out either the healthygamer sub or YouTube channel ...in fact I think most men could benefit from those.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:15 AM
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I think healthygamer said it best "women hate being girlfriendzoned (fuckzoned) more than guys hate being friendzoned"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:13 AM
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You wouldn't believe it anyway if it doesn't align with your thinking so what does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:08 AM
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Anime proves this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:06 AM
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It always confused me as to how those acts are supposedly degrading and humiliating for the woman involved but not the men involved. Like...if the men are doing the degrading by just being men with a penis then won't that make them the issue and not her? Like an if I touch people with germ ridden hands and they get sick isnt it my fault because they have dirty hands kind of thing. If I'm the one demanding the act then by default doesn't that make me the dirty one and not the person I'm doing sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:04 AM
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This sub wasn't ready for these facts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:55 AM
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My guess is that as kids they either got too much attention from mom or not enough. If they get too much they feel entitled to a sweater but if they don't get enough they feel like no one cares about them being cold. If you tell them where to buy one they just say: "stores don't like broke people...they only like the top 1 percent who have decent jobs since those are the only ones who can afford to buy stuff...average men of average income can't afford anything past goodwill. what am I supposed …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:46 AM
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Some people have nothing else going for them other than reddit and whisky.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:30 AM
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Some men seem to think their dick is the greatest thing in the world. Or they are Like a little kid showing off a toy or new skill "look mommy! Look what I can do! Aren't you proud of me?" Makes me think a lot of these men never got the praise and attention they needed as children by their parents (especially their mom) so they seek it out somewhere else in the hopes to find that loving mother figure that they can marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:25 AM
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Reminds me of those creeps who try to grope you but say "why are you acting like that? All I want is a hug"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:20 AM
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Men on here are jokes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:11 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:08 AM
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What in the copium?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:05 AM
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The problem is no one looks at single virgin women as a red flag the same way people see single virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:02 AM
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They have no idea how the real world works. It probably feels weird having certain expectations only to realize the world doesn't work like that. Many people seem to have a disnified view of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:00 AM
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Personally I don't care if he likes big tits or small tits or no tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:16 AM
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It's like seeing those "all men" posts...all it is is people crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:57 PM
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"no women need to realize their standards are too high for the average man to reach" /S
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:03 PM
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Why even bother dating women then? It's obvious the only people who seem to have a hard time is anyone who is interested in dating women whether it's a cis straight man or a lesbian. Unless they are a Chad ofc. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:01 PM
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There are literally subreddits dedicated to this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:52 PM
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Women probably
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:54 PM
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No one cares 😂 this is like when women complain about biology being unfair...that's life suck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:52 PM
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Some people would rather settle in a bad relationship then be in no relationship and it's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:17 PM
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Forgot the part where they said they believe that it's on both sexes to be good partners but please continue to cherry pick in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:15 PM
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This is what we call a loaded question and there is a bullet in every chamber designed to blow my brains out... Doesn't matter what the answer is because it's automatically wrong....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:10 PM
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It's literally underrated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:08 PM
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Because some people just like that. Different people are different. If someone shamed for eating pineapple pizza would you stop eating it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:37 PM
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Marriage is just bad in general
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:46 PM
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The issue is that men feel threatened by these kinds of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:45 PM
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The issue is that men feel threatened by these kinds of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:45 PM
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Maybe she only wants to be for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:38 PM
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For the same reasons as to why we are told men prefer big boobs?. Also Big is usually associated with abundance and strength where as small is associated with weak and lacking which may subconsciously be the reason as well. As for why women talk about big D's a lot...well those are most likely exhibitionists who get off on telling other people about their sex lives in order to make them jealous. Their way of saying "I get that good D on the daily". There are also some men who are turned on by th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:50 AM
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When I heard about penis envy the first time I immediately thought "Freud...my guy....you have penis envy...it's impossible for women to have it because we would need one in the first place to compare it to others who also have one...." Women don't care unless the size is causing pain
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:01 PM
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We only care if it's so big/long that it's actually hurting us
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:59 PM
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For women it's girth vs length...more women prefer girth over length because the vag is only so long but can stretch out more width wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:58 PM
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Yup...because Hollywood and the internet always accurately portray what people are like and what they like 🙄. It definitely has an influence on people for sure but it's not a mirror into reality. If media depicted reality accurately no one would watch, read, or listen to most of what what the media does. The truth is for some people size matters (in relation to pain during penetration) and for some it don't 🤷‍♀️. Different people are different. I mean there are literally some women who lust afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:52 PM
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What does healthy look like to you? What does a little weight gain look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:43 PM
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"standards" are things we make up in our heads as a guideline for a certain kind of person we want to attract. Standards are little dating rules that we make up in our heads based on what we think will get us the desired outcome of whatever it is that we want in a person. This is why there is a lot of people out there who give bad dating advice. Because the advice given is often times through the lense of what the advice giver finds to be attractive and this may not necessarily be what the perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:43 PM
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"only if she was capable of realizing that she's gained weight. otherwise it would be breaking vows. fat people love food more than their husband and wife" Yup this tells me all I need to know.....it's conditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:30 PM
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The problem is that some people don't see the reason in being an amazing person if it gets them nothing and to some point I understand that. I'm not going to waste my time being a good or nice person for someone who doesn't care enough to reciprocate that same thing to me. There is being an amazing person and then there is being an amazing person for those who don't deserve the amazing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:20 PM
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So settling it is then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:49 PM
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At least you have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:48 PM
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Their standards stop at "female"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:47 PM
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They think about Chad more than women do....makes me wonder why Chad lives rent free in the minds of men on here..... 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:47 PM
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Get yours king 👑!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:45 PM
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Would you stay with your wife if she gained more than just a little weight? Would you stay with her if she was terminally ill? Because most men won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:44 PM
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You can have sex with friends it's called FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:41 PM
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Raising the bar weeds out the weak...they don't lower the bar in military training you either manage to get over it or you don't. And if you don't it just means you have to go to the gym more. it doesn't mean give up because you will always be a fat slob so what's the point. Just means you gotta try a bit harder than some other people is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:35 PM
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Projection...."if I was a single hot horny woman I'd be looking to get it in too" they think women think like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:33 PM
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They should but they won't because that's not the issue. The issue is that these men complaining expect to be the woman in the relationship but don't want the crap that comes with that. They want HER to ask HIM out. They want HER to pay for HIM. They want to be the house husband who stays at home all day while she goes to work. They want to be the woman in the relationship and want her to be the man. They want her to white knight him. They want her to propose on one knee. They want a man in a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:30 PM
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That's still a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:09 PM
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I think these are the men who do things expecting things in return. "I was good to her so she WILL be good to me" sometimes it's not genuine "nice ness" but being nice in the hopes that they get good things in return. They feel women are entitled to dating because they date women who take advantage of these niceties but offer nothing in return. Date enough women like that and eventually you will start thinking "all women are like that" because of the select few they surround themselves with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:59 PM
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I'd rather announce it than lie about it. No one likes a liar. Would you get into a relationship with a liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:51 PM
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I blame the media mostly for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:03 AM
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It's not illegal in several counties in Nevada (provided it's at a brothel) and several countries have it legalized in some form.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:49 PM
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I just don't want kids. Like that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:17 PM
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I'm not sure about irl (being a woman I'm not in those male circles) but I do see it a lot on tv when it comes to shaming virgins in general whether they are male or female. I think the line "if you do it you're a slt and if you don't you're a Prde" from the breakfast club at least gives us clues as to what half of the issue is. There was also a scene in I think neighbors (I think) that also sums it up. It was 2 dad's talking about how their girls were trying to sleep with some guys and they men…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:16 PM
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This is the only logical response
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:02 PM
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That's like saying "Can't fail if you didn't try" Can't succeed either....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:55 PM
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Omg that last bit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:49 PM
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I don't give a damn as to what people think of me 😂. People who mind don't matter and people who matter don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:30 PM
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But I thought casual sex was a no
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:15 PM
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So $30 means you're rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:14 PM
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Guess men are just destined to be miserable 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:13 PM
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Low standards≠no standards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:36 PM
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I mean in some countries prostitution is very much legal. Heck last I saw as long as you do it at a licensed brothel in Nevada its considered legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:08 PM
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Some people only care about unborn children but don't give a crap once that child is born it seems. Oh and if that kid was born to poor people all of a sudden people's stances on anti abortion change. Abortion is ok just as long as we ensure that the proper kinds of kids are being born to the proper people that we deem worthy enough to be parents. "You must be this rich to ride"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:04 PM
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Because now everyone is the provider
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:50 PM
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But butlers only like the top rich 1 percent of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:37 PM
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"behavior of people on dating apps" Because no one has ever lied when it comes to dating apps....I go on MeetMe, Ok Cupid, and POF for fun and all I see is people funneling money around and men simping over some streamer they will never meet and people shelling out cash to mfkrs who just sit around. Also it's incredibly difficult to predict romantic happiness and relationship success in of itself. These apps and such give a false idea as to what a perfect match looks like since such a match is e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:34 PM
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But prostitution exists so all you need to do is just trade money or some drugs and there you go...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:20 PM
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It's all Chads fault....damn that woman stealing charismatic SOB!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:18 PM
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Do those studies include people are happy and didn't feel the need to report anything back because of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:05 PM
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But I thought all women were dating the same man....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:03 PM
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Remember women are monoliths all of us are the same and we all fuck the same chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:37 AM
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The issue is that ridicule most likely is coming from other men. Also men get judged when getting help and support from anyone let alone a women by both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:36 AM
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Then why do men who have casual sex seem to be able to do that so effortlessly? Doesn't seem too hard to do....if she doesn't treat you right why can't you just leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:27 AM
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Eh I'm sure you can figure it out yourself if you use enough brain power....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:26 AM
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Yup because that's totally what I was implying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:24 AM
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It's easier to get dumb insecure people to follow you than it is to get smart secure people to do so. It's easier to live with submissive insecure people because they don't have any thoughts of their own and can't disagree with you because of that. They constantly feed your ego because to them you look like the most powerful knowledgeable guy in the room. Insecure people usually go for the submissives because it doesn't require much sacrifice on their part since they are not forced better themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:20 AM
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Well if all women didn't want only Chads we wouldn't have such a sub. Why are women's opinions only allowed and not men's? That's very hypergamistic and polygynistic (and a bunch of other words I only learned of about 5 mins ago) of you to think like that. Why do women refuse to see the 80/20 rule is in their favor? You guys have the Monopoly on sex and relationships you WON the sex battle and yet y'all still aren't happy. You guys just love seeing us average uggos suffer. Bet if I was rich and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:12 AM
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They also post stats from Plenty of fish and OkCupid and other dating sites that don't offer an accurate measurement of how many success those sites have had since those sites are mostly OF people fishing for followers. MeetMe taught me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:03 AM
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Because a man's status is based around how many women he can pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:01 AM
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You do realize stats and studies are based only on those who bothered to report to them right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:57 AM
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The issue is that red pillers hate the fact that they are attracted to women who are not attracted to them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:52 AM
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They don't want to change they just want to bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:49 AM
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I thought this wasn't about sex and was only about relationships because casual sex is wrong /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:48 AM
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They want all of the benefits of being a woman without the BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:46 AM
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Why does it seem like men love to waste their time with relationships where all they do is provide and aren't appreciated by their wives? The minute someone treats me like that I'm gone 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:44 AM
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Almost got pantsed by a guy....but I'm sure someone on here will tell me how the keyword is almost (managed to grab my pants just in time) or how I'm lucky because men could only dream of such attention from women. Or even better..."it's worse if you're a man".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:25 PM
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It's a case with people in general since I don't think many people like dealing with emotional people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:05 PM
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Mean girls is a prime example of tribal behavior among groups of people. Gretchen and Karen only made fun of others because their pack leader Regina was doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:03 PM
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Society
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:01 PM
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Because emotional men are seen as weak men by both other men and women. Society hates emotional people but hates emotional men even more. In most cases "I need you to open up" is just code for "tell me all of your secrets and insecurities so I can exploit them when I'm mad at you". That's why I laugh when people tell me I can talk about my emotions and tell them anything...I know better than to tell you where my goat is. I know a trap when I see one and if I need to talk to someone I'll just kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:59 PM
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Just for reference I got that line from Chris Rock
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:48 PM
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They think 20 percent= 20 men....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:44 PM
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Dating apps put dating on the conveyor belt...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:37 PM
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They think that because it doesn't take nearly as much effort for women to figure men out than it does the other way around. "Food, sex, silence,...and the occasional attaboy"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:36 PM
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I find most people take offense to those things because deep down they feel bad about what they are doing or have done. They tell themselves they like it on the surface to mask the fact that deep down inside they feel like they sleep around too much and that people judge them for it. They may also feel like they are being judged for those past actions. I remember feeling very offended once when someone called me stupid because I made an airheaded move. I felt self conscious because guess what...…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:11 PM
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But if they like them then why do they treat them badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:07 PM
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So others need to restrict themselves to make these men feel better? Comparison may be natural but it's still the thief of joy because when you compare you become obsessed with what others do and don't focus on yourself...the most important person in your life is ultimately you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:07 PM
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Hey grass always looks greener....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:08 PM
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Men are afraid that women will retaliate for all of the crap men have pulled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:05 PM
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More like "you shouldn't free a slave because one day they will retaliate for all of the bad things you did to them"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:59 PM
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They are looking at being a woman through the lens of being a man. They think women have it easy because according to them all we need to do is spread our legs and have nice boobs and people give you free stuff. There is no accountability because that would be putting the onus on the male gender as a whole. The reason why the u.s had never had a woman in power is because men are scared that women will do to them what they have done to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:55 PM
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I can assure you other countries don't care about the U.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:51 PM
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Most women have a kink when it comes to sharing men. Literally some like to watch him F other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:46 PM
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"doesn't matter failed"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:45 PM
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Who decides what is and isn't shameful? Do you think your god? Only he who is without sin can cast the first stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:43 PM
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They care because they are miserable and misery loves company.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:42 PM
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The real question is why do people care so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:37 PM
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Why do men get with these kinds of women if they don't like them? Doesn't make sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:31 PM
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If you have seen the movie yes man you know what I speak of 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:10 AM
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To some women yes. It also depends on if that man is really looking for a relationship. If they are then no I would not consider them to be candidates for casual sex since they want something more but likewise if all they want is casual sex and I'm only looking for a relationship then I would only consider serious guys and not those who just want something casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:44 PM
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Oh well that's life....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:16 PM
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I'm guessing no teeth is one possibility
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:11 PM
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For low effort people the door is right there ➡️🚪
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:59 PM
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It's not easy but it certainly isnt as stressful as a relationship... And yes that's true too...that's why they have pornography of young guys banging old grandma's.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:58 PM
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Them: "how can I fuck women without putting in any effort like my friend Chad does?" Me: Umm idk ask Chad? Also them: but I'm broke and ugly and Chad is handsome and has a great job. Chads advice only works for the higher up 1 percent of men...the kinds of men that women only want and all of the advice coming from Chad won't help with the fact that I don't have his looks or his bank account....it's easy to say "take chads advice" from someone who has it so easy in the dating world. No one has an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:54 PM
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References: Trust me bro Ive dated before....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:44 PM
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That's assuming that an LTR is what I'm looking for 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:41 PM
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I don't like lying but to me this is such an odd thing to even lie about. Do people take their dates to restaurants and think about every single meal their date has had up to that point? Does it really matter how many restaurants they have been to in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:44 PM
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Logic is only an inhibitor when those trying to use logic start over thinking about things that don't need that much thought put into them because there is rarely an underlining reason for why people act and do what they do other than...well....some people are just like that. You can be the prettiest peach in the world but the harsh reality is that some people just simply don't like peaches and there is no existential reason other than a simple "just not my thing". Not everyone likes the same ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:28 PM
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That's more of a people thing I think than a gendered one. r/deadbedroom is full of these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:28 PM
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Nope literally meant anyone because hook ups are surface level...heck prostitution proves this. Anyone can get into a surface level, frivolous, no strings attached hook up if they really wanted to because there is no seriousness involved and the relationship is just transactional. There is literally no level of difficulty when it comes to frivolous one night hook ups. Just depends on how much you are willing to compromise your morals and ethics for such a thing and how adamant you are about havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:50 PM
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When you have money everything becomes a "pay to win" game because money talks and BS walks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:48 PM
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I agree...men have to try much harder to be seen as conventionally attractive than women do simply because men are attracted to a much wider range of women than women are to men. As a woman I go outside and turn heads for simply just being female but men don't have such ease. When it comes to attractiveness the bar is set so high for men where as for women it's set at "be female".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:44 PM
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The issue is that women and men look at being unattractive very differently. Men see being unattractive in correlation to loneliness "I'm lonely because I'm ugly and women only want chads...I'll never be like Chad so by default I will be forever alone since the only thing they want is the very thing I can't be" Women see being unattractive as just another life hurdle because for us it's much easier to improve how we look physically when it comes to how men perceive us. All I have to do is just p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:38 PM
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They do it's called every other post
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:17 PM
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As a woman I will admit looks are primarily what get you through the door. I'm not going out with no Quasimodo looking mfkr who smells like BO 😂. Now if I will keep you around well good looks can only get you so far in that regard. Just because you were great for a night doesn't mean you are great for my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:15 PM
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Seems like for some it is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:06 PM
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Tbh I think it's easier to find a casual hook up being a woman but a much more long term thing is way more difficult because not many people will stick around once they get what they want. I get lots of male attention but that's only because I'm a westernized woman living in South America and lots of people like that "foreign" look. I don't get men tripping over themselves but I do notice when they glance at least. The thing is casual hook ups are the microwaved dinners of the dating world. Anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:55 PM
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The world would be much easier if women just listened to men. /S
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:41 PM
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So it's only about casual sex and not long term commitment...ok got it. It's only about keeping women celibate...got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:38 PM
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Why do you have an issue with people who aren't celibate? Or are you just jealous because some people are getting laid and you aren't? Stop comparing yourself to others ...comparison is the thief of joy. Took me some growing up to realize that. I have faith you will too eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:31 PM
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She might not need a man which scares most men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:42 PM
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She started reading and suddenly she couldn't settle for average nice guys 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:01 PM
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Gaston....need I say more? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:49 PM
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The issue is that Hollywood has been a major influence on what both men and women find to be attractive good qualities in a person. A lot of those tropes you see in movies and such would be major red flags if someone was to do those things in real life. Struggling to find a good man/woman is a common issue because we are constantly told what we are supposed to like and find attractive or what makes a good partner when those things are not universal. I also think it's hard to find the person you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:05 AM
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Size matters but only with girth not so much with length. Women like to feel "full"....and here I am being the exact woman you speak of and not caring 😂. Women like to gossip and share details because it's another way we learn about human anatomy....from others who had more or at least similar experiences. Sort of like asking "girls is this normal?" Or "girls has a guy ever done this for you/to you?" and ofc there are those who just gossip as a form of bragging but this is usually done by insecu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:53 AM
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All of this crap about people and casual sex is most likely coming from people who feel pumped and dumped by the very people they bitch about so they come to reddit and post weird takes like "chads cum dumpster" online so they can feel better about being used by someone who was never LTR material anyway. "Don't try to turn a w**re into a housewife and don't try to make a ladies man into your man"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:47 PM
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"why do women only like being degraded during casual bdsm sex by Chad but not when average men try to date them long term?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:29 PM
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Now let's apply these stats to the real world...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:30 PM
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If he is using a real gun chances are he isn't playing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:07 PM
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They only went to the hospital for doing dumb stuff. Like ofc shoving things up your pee hole will injure you. Ofc trying to brand someone will result in 3rd degree burns. But dumb people aren't indicative of an entire community. Having a safe word means you can call it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:53 AM
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I've played cops and robbers before and at no point of my life have I ever thought that committing armed robbery was a good idea. The fantasy is nice because it's just that...fantasy. there are no real or high stakes or consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:36 AM
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There is a huge difference between a fantasy/kink and the reality of that kind of situation. I've played cops and robbers before as a kid but I've never felt the need to commit armed robbery at any point of my life thus far. It's all about just play and pretend. Kinks, bdsm, and such are no different in that regard because the intent is to have some fun and not commit a serious and potentially dangerous offense. I love watching Dragonball but i would never want to live in that world. The consent…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:27 AM
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I don't get it because both sides are just screaming about the same stuff but blaming the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:57 AM
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Nah some make better FBs than dates and some are better dates than FBs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:03 AM
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Long way to say "sex makes men feel desired and needed"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:02 AM
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Misery loves company...they are miserable and I wouldn't doubt it if they get off on the idea that they caused a breakup between two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:59 PM
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"if women eat than logically it means that there is less food in the world for men"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:53 PM
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The only women who might be into that might also be into Sub and Dom stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:24 PM
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Love bombing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:19 PM
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Love bombing is a huge turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:17 PM
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I wouldn't mind a guy who could regulate his emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:15 PM
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So if you don't have sex you will die? It's a need but it's not as important to your overall physical well being in the sense that your heart will stop and you will cease to be the same way it will if you don't have your basic needs of food, water, and safety met. All the sex in the world won't quench your thirst or fill your stomach unless someone is paying you in some way or you live totally under their roof according to their rules and such. And yes you do need water and sleep in the same way…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:40 PM
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Women dress pretty to feel pretty that's it. Some may dress pretty not to impress men but other women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:34 PM
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I prefer to be friends first and see how things evolve naturally. To me it's weird getting into a relationship with someone I barely know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 05:26 PM
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So the bar is in fact a tavern in hell good to know....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 05:23 PM
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So men hate being the primary provider while also simultaneously wanting to be the primary provider? And wow who would of thought being a good provider is something that women would be attracted to. What's next? Women only eat food because they will starve and die if they don't? Women like men who live in houses and under the freeway? I didn't know those things were considered "high status" I thought liking to be housed and fed with someone you love was the bare minimum. Wow...the bar really is …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 05:22 PM
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It's primal brain being primal. It subconsciously tells them "he/she is desirable because look how many "want" him/her" also different view point from the watching end then from the receiving end. This just my hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:33 PM
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To most women dick is just dick...it more has to do with who it's attached to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:08 PM
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I don't assume because when you assume you make an ass out of u.m.e. it's like asking "how much do you assume that people who like chocolate don't like other flavors"...it's not something I really care about. You like lots of flavors?...great You only like chocolate?...great It's like I say it doesn't matter what you do in life good or bad... people will judge you for it good or bad. Sleep around and they call you a hoe, womanizer, sl*t, rolling stone, etc Don't sleep around and they call you a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:52 PM
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For some that's literally a kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:46 PM
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Vrooommmm brooomm! brooomm! Hrmhrmhrm! 🏍️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:40 PM
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None because it pretty much all equals out. Men and women suffer equally but at or with different things for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:41 PM
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13 seasons Peggy...13!...and a reboot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:50 PM
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Because in the us being in a relationship is a symbol of status. To many it symbolizes a part of the ideal nuclear family which in tern symbolizes the white picket fenced in American dream home.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:20 AM
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I know that this is probably the unpopular opinion but here it goes....what many don't understand is that morality, good, and evil are all subjective as nothing is inherently good or bad just because some person or religion says it is. Morality is subjective because people don't hold the same morals and ethics as each other because everyone has had different experiences growing up that have shaped us into who we are today. People often times confuse morals with ethics. There are ethical and non …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:16 AM
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Never heard of these people then again I don't watch pill or fitness content...I just read and laugh about that crap on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:02 AM
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Tate only got noticed when he went down for being a sex trafficker.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:01 AM
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I agree with all of this since I was raised to see male and female as just another half to a whole. Not better or worse just different than each other. Like a yin-yang. I was also raised to see people first and everything else as secondary traits or bonuses. I think this also coincides with me being an INFJ though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:20 AM
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It's about the sex that comes with love and desire. The problem is that they think "I put myself out there ...why doesn't anyone want me?" They don't understand how you can do all of the right stuff and still not get that because not everyone in life plays by the rules. That's just a fact of life. Kind of reminds me of the fairytale ep of bluey and bandit gets jinxed by his brother. His brother gets stuck in a prickle patch that bandit helps him out of and instead of returning the favor and sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:14 AM
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Because to them it's not another man's job to fix another man's problems. It's a man's job to fix his own problems....or just sit there and complain about how women have it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:49 PM
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You can be around 100 dogs and have nothing bad happen to you but when that 101st dog comes around and bites you it's going to live rent free in your mind for the rest of your life that something that unexpected can happen to you around dogs. Humans are no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:47 PM
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The fact that we leave men's issues up to women to solve when it's other men who are needed. Women's issues only got solved because other women were willing to support each other during those times but you don't see the same among men. women do need to have more empathy towards men and realize they are people too but men also need to do this with other men since I think it would mean much more coming from other men than from women. The major issue though is that anytime a man is seen showing emp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:37 PM
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The majority of marriage issues are caused by kids and finances
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:34 PM
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It has more to do with how low the woman's self esteem is than if he has a good personality. Heck you don't need much personality if her self-esteem is in the gutter because she will just think to herself "hey at least this guy is better than nothing".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:32 PM
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Because they are not accurate as to how many jobs are actually available.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:01 PM
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I've found plenty of jobs without linked in. I wouldn't use dating apps for anything remotely serious as most are just used by influencers to funnel money to each other and to advertise their OF content.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:39 PM
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This is true...women don't like low effort beta men. But the reason why there is no such burden on women is because nobody thinks alpha-ness is an important trait in women since many men are not attracted to women who display traits of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:32 PM
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Honestly this whole "free access" thing reminds me of the clip from homeward bound where chance kept begging for food but never got any so he tried to steal some only to get scolded. Then sassy says "watch me" and pretends she didn't want a piece of shrimp on the floor and said "I don't want it" over and over but her owner persisted until she said "yeah ok" and took a bite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 01:00 PM
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Yup it's very sad. It's even sadder that the internet makes them think the world is scary and bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:53 PM
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Because reelz and Tictok are soooo good at depicting real life? Go touch grass the world isn't like the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:50 PM
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They are upset because women aren't throwing themselves at these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:48 PM
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I wouldn't use dating apps anyway as most have been taken over by influencers to funnel money around. Especially sites like POF, OKC, and MeetMe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:45 PM
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They want to be treated like women but don't want any of the crap that comes with that treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:44 PM
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"I'm a good guy and did all of the good guy stuff so where's my Disney happy ending?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:41 PM
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Yup everyone should lower their standards to the bare minimum. Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:40 PM
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You don't need sex to live the same way you need food to live
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:34 PM
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For women it's the lesser of the 2 because we can get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 12:33 PM
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They are usually at book and comic stores.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:55 PM
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Yeah I don't do mixed signals...this sounds like some telenovela BS. Are we even talking about an adult here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:49 PM
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There are places for board games but they get overrun by super competitive players.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:33 PM
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🎶life's unfaaaair🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:16 PM
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Not specifically red pills just some of the comments in general...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:52 PM
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r/responsibilityfree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:51 PM
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Omg just live your life and be happy people.....whatever the dynamic is....you do you....if it's working for you and isn't harming you or others do it...who cares what some reddit post said about what "real" men and women do....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:47 PM
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So....women are mind readers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:46 PM
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Most of the guys here...there is a lot of self deprecation in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:43 PM
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If she knows he is a player then there is a chance that she doesn't care and is just using him as a fling....if he wants to be a fling and she doesn't mind it then I don't see what the big deal is. Some women want that and some don't. Some guys want that and some don't. I've heard crazy details from both genders from "he likes it in the arse" all the way to "she likes it when I lick my own sperm off her back". The players aren't the issue to me it seems so much as it's how men who aren't getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:43 PM
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Oh absolutely! Because now they are carrying a future government slave that the government wants to potentially add to it's military and whatever. I think for one there would be more options for male birth control besides a condom or pill that makes them go crazy. A lot more doors would be held open for them. They may even get the "delicate flower" treatment because of this. It may also result in better healthcare for men. But men will also be facing the same issues that women now face in such a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:33 PM
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Honestly most of these guys just seem like they are upset because no woman will accept them as their low effort self.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:15 PM
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Red pillers: but don't you see how IM the victim just by my mere existence?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:12 PM
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Here's the thing....how does she know they are in fact manwhores? ...If you were a man whore trying to date a woman would you come out and say "yeah I'm a womanizing manwhore who treats women like crap...will you date me?"...men praise high body count because it makes them look good and feel manly among their male friends so they think he is a Chad. But I'm a woman so what do I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:11 PM
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The issue is that society doesn't care about what men do with their bodies because men are seen as disposable while women are only valued because our bodies incubate and feed the next generation. If women didn't give birth and were permanently replaced with incubation robots no one would care about what women do with their bodies and women would be seen just as disposable as men. Men don't get shamed as much because no one is putting men on the pedestal when it comes to gender and sex. It's only…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 06:59 PM
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Idk why cuz strap ONS are fun especially if used on a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:02 PM
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What about if you say "I'm a switch so both?"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:55 PM
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I consider that to be hot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:53 PM
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So married men are chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:21 PM
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Lots of countries allow prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:20 PM
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Today on men and women are monoliths....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:19 PM
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As a bi-woman I totally wouldn't mind a bi-guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:17 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:19 PM
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Rules aren't set in stone because life isn't like a videogame where you can just put in some button combination and figure out the cheat code. All you can do is just better yourself and live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 03:29 PM
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I think most people seek relationships because they don't know what else to do so they follow the traditional life path of grow up, get a job, get married, have kids, retire, die. It either doesn't occur to them to do anything else or they are just hell bent on continuing on the more linear life path for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:26 AM
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Most dating sites and apps have been taken over by streamers as a way to advertise themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:17 AM
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I wouldn't use ok cupid as a source 😂. I know many streamers from meetme who just used Okcupid to funnel money around. They were using it to stream not to hook up or date. Many online dating sites and apps double as adverts for streamers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:15 AM
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This is true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:20 AM
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It's like when women rant about how much men suck. Then wonder why they can't get a quality man. truth is...a lot of people don't like it when you shit on them, their gender, or ethnicity. Who woulda thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:12 PM
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How negative attributes can be a deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:21 PM
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The last bit I think is a deal breaker for most
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:55 PM
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Feels like a lot of people just look at dating like stats in a videogame and all you have to do is the right button combination to do that one ultimate attack to defeat your opponent. Or like a grocery list that they just can't quite find all of the items for: ❌Personality ❌Money ❌Looks ✅Ramen noodles ❌Self esteem ❌Big D ✅Napkins
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:34 PM
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The issue is that they can't understand why the women they want don't want them but want some "bad boy" because to them ANY guy that isn't him is the bad boy because the guy who is complaining sees himself as "I'm the good guy because I'm doing all of the good guy stuff...she should want ME" They don't understand that in life sometimes the good guy doesn't get the girl. Sometimes the girl makes poor choices and doesn't know why. Sometimes the person you are into isn't into you. Sometimes you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:23 PM
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This is reddit...average doesn't exist here...you are either a Chad or an Uggo. Oh and if you are a woman you are just an out right gold digging liar because all women want chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:56 PM
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Some people have a poor radar unfortunately...or a weird perception of how a man should behave towards others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:53 PM
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but then why do they ask about what women are into if all women do is lie about what they like anyway? I mean I'll admit it I won't go out with an ugly low effort guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:49 PM
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Well sadly life isn't like a Disney movie. Sadly that's life...you can do everything right and still get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:44 PM
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Because for men and women it's like another saying I heard "men are dying of thirst in the desert but women are dying of thirst stranded at sea..." Women are surrounded by water but God forbid they try to drink it without a life staw. where as men have a hard time finding water in the desert so any glass starts look good after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:10 PM
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"no one will ever make a movie about a man who loves to mow his lawn" Reality just isn't nearly as amazing as books and movies make it out to be. You can't write an action movie about the guy who picks up his kids from practice because how entertaining is that? You will never see the movie about the wife who irons her husband's clothes and has his dinner ready because again how entertaining would that be? Reality is pretty is boring and normal stuff is bland which is why people hyper focus on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:54 PM
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They don't want to hear women's opinions on what they find attractive they want to hear men's opinions of what women find to be attractive since it correlates with what they believe a true man is. Woman: I wish he would open up more "Real men don't talk about their feelings" Woman: I wish he would bathe more "Men are dirty ..it's who we are" Woman: he should ask for help "Real men don't ask for help" Woman: I think this would look nice on you "A real man wears what he wants" A real man doesn't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:40 PM
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Some people unfortunately just didn't win the life lottery 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:30 PM
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As long as you have money nothing else matters. /S
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:28 PM
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Then why do guys ask questions like "Q4W what are women attracted to?" On here if all women do is lie about only being attracted to guys with fat stacks, big D's, and good looks? Why bother asking such dumb questions if all women are going to do is just lie about the answer? You already know what they like and it's not small D, broke, uggos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:26 PM
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Reminds me of the scene in timeless when they go back in time to the women's rights movement. Lucy and this one woman who was after her both hated each other but they came together during the women's march because they knew they had to put their hate aside in favor of the bigger picture. They knew in that moment they had to think of the bigger picture. They knew their issue wouldn't matter if women's rights were not a thing because they both were in the same boat at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:16 PM
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It seems like some men are just angry because that solidarity is something they want but the issue is that they are looking for it from women when they need to find it in other men. But the issue there is that solidarity also means vulnerability and lots of men find it to be difficult to talk to other men about their issues because of stigma. They are afraid of seeming effeminate in the eyes of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:09 PM
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Women like to feel wanted but men like to feel needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:05 PM
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Oh well we can't all win the bio lottery
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:47 PM
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And always keep in mind...people are monoliths and whatever they say they are just lying. If they say they don't like good looking guys with a huge dong and fat stacks and personality is everything...they are obviously lying because ugly broke people don't get dates just chads do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:46 PM
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It's also like what Hank hill said "they will never make a movie about a man who loves to mow his lawn" Because like you said...it's not that exciting....it's like comparing being a cop to what you see in bad boys. Ofc the movie isn't going to show mike handing out parking tickets for 40 minutes or pulling someone over for a busted tail light...because that stuff is not interesting ofc they are going to only show the most exciting parts of being a cop because that's how the movie keeps you glued…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:39 PM
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I'm a woman...just have money and we can look past your uglyness. /S
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:20 PM
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I will tell the truth...I only want men who have fat stacks, a big D, and good looks. Personality means nothing to me when money buys more. It's not about the quality of the guy it's about how much stuff he has and how much you can use him for. Once he runs out of money I'm gone. Truth hurts but oh well deal. /S
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:18 PM
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Sadly I think most people these days are settling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:51 PM
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Commitment shouldn't feel like you are giving up a freedom but rather that you are sharing that freedom with someone else. I do agree with everything else though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:51 PM
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No what I'm saying is men are more likely to settle with even the ugliest woman because "even ugly women can get laid" that's what my analogy is actually saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:22 PM
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The only people who don't like freedom are those seeking to control others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:06 PM
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Having more access≠more access to quality "Men are dying of thirst in the desert while women are dying of thirst at sea"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:57 PM
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I do on the daily. It's good to talk to others when things bother you 😊...hope your day is going smoothly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:45 PM
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It's not actual confidence though sadly...I wish more would see the difference between confidence and chest beating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:49 PM
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I just do me and if people don't like it that's their loss. Life is too short to try to fill every niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:46 AM
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Idc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:40 AM
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If she invites you for hot coffee just to let you know ...it's never about coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:10 AM
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