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| 52 | 3 Quality Traits Most Important to You in A HVM | DISCUSSION | MoreMochaPlease | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:05 AM |
| 13 | He asked to exchange numbers after matching on OKCupid | DISCUSSION | MoreMochaPlease | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:13 AM |
| 10 | When Did You Know | DISCUSSION | MoreMochaPlease | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 02:40 AM |
| 1 | The Photograph (Film) Discussion | MoreMochaPlease | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:20 AM |
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| 7 | My female neighbor gave me this ring! She’s moving to another country and gifted several women on our block beautiful pieces of vintage jewelry. Female friends will always care and appreciate one another!OP that is gorgeous. I love opals. That’s so sweet and generous of your neighbor to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:37 PM |
| 27 | Oh dear god...I’m pretty sure this was a Criminal Minds or Law & Order: SVU Episode She needs to cut contact with him ASAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:36 AM |
| 29 | A great example of how libfem pickmes are dangerous to women. FGM = Female Genital Mutilation.You bring up a really good point. All men who casually just always want to be devils advocates are straight up arses! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 01:19 AM |
| 20 | Update on brother's school promI’m really happy that you spoke up and spoke directly to the school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 10:50 PM |
| 76 | Trust. Your. Gut.I’m really glad you went with your gut and fired him as your therapist. So many of us have to learn to trust our gut instinct and cast aside what others think or may feel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 10:46 PM |
| 61 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”I peeped that sentence too and I saw how weird it was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 11:24 PM |
| 95 | Dang, really was hoping he would say "oh haha just to clarify, I was being cheap"Men are really suggesting walks in a park at alarming rates! I honestly thought this was an Internet joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 04:00 AM |
| 0 | Anyone else notice this?It’s in storage as in my storage totes with my other items like bandaids, not a paid for storage unit. I’m in between two locations so no I don’t have access to read the expiration dates at this very moment. I recently bought two Plan B pills when the pandemic started early this year. So no they are not old pills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else notice this?The pills are in storage so I don’t have access to the printed expiration dates. I definitely know they lose potency over time but they are still a good backup. I personally would take the pill no later then a day after. The pills are not just for me but if a friend needed them as well. I’m not in a current relationship so I’m not having sex frequently. But yes I do know about the ovulation issue. Pregnancy scare for me is when the condom breaks which has happened before. I know IUDs are 99% eff… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else notice this?Thank you. Yes my Dad gave me a lot of good talks and advice over the years. I know everyone is not as fortunate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else notice this?Planned Parenthood states the pill can last up to 5 years when stored properly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else notice this?Planned Parenthood states when stored properly the pill can last up to 5 years when stored properly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:02 PM |
| 11 | Anyone else notice this?Thank you. I take my prepper life seriously and my womb! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:57 PM |
| 200 | Anyone else notice this?I’ve know this since I was a child. Men are very calculating and throw that projection into women. My father told me since I was old enough to understand how calculating, manipulative, and horrible men can be. Which is why I take birth control and access to safe abortion very seriously. Apart of my prepper pantry is a serious stock of condoms and plan b pills as back up for my IUD. I don’t take random pregnancy scares lightly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:08 AM |
| 19 | Stay away from Portland. There's nothing for you there.I feel so targeted 😆 I might win this bingo game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:30 AM |
| 4 | This podcast is an important listen about sexual violence deaths being minimized by legislation under the guise of BDSM. Link below in comments.Thank you OP. I’m listening to the episode now and will follow this podcast for my weekly road trip drives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:26 AM |
| 2 | This house definitely belongs to a LVMWhy did you post that crap. It’s depressing 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 03:10 AM |
| 39 | Was dating always this terrible?You know I remember years ago as a preteen. I was visiting my mothers side of the family and at breakfast my Uncle found a photo of a topless girl on my cousins phone. He was so mad and disappointed and reprimanded him in front of everyone and explained how he would not tolerate that with his sons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 11:30 PM |
| 3 | A possible solution to revenge porn and deepfakes?Yes I definitely will! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:12 AM |
| 4 | A possible solution to revenge porn and deepfakes?Thank you so much for this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:57 AM |
| 3 | What are some good FDS-positive female singers and songs?Qveen Herby all the way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:23 AM |
| 2 | What are some good FDS-positive female singers and songs?I loved her album Some People Have Real Problems. Especially when she sang acoustic on KPx radio station. Her song Little Black Sandals on leaving an abusive man was so heartbreaking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Celebrated my favorite season autumn and one year of being happily single (after an abusive breakup) by cooking chicken khowsuey, baking caramel apple cheesecake bars, whole-wheat apple spice cake for myself❤️🍁🍂 happy autumn!Looks amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 04:42 PM |
| 8 | Patriarchy favors male reproductive success by limiting female choice. FDS is a long-overdue countermeasure in the sexual arms race. It's high time women fight back!Every man is not meant to pass on his genes or continue his bloodline. It’s not a right but a privilege to do so. Women are not vessels for men’s seed but are the utmost pinnacle of creation and destruction of the life cycle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 10:24 PM |
| 4 | Guys, what’s your opinion on couples pretending to be strangers at a bar/place and then flirting with each other?I dunno. I may be on the unpopular opinions on this but I don’t the issue with this. From my perspective it seems cute if done every once in a blue moon. It’s fine to admit relationships can get stale or monotonous sometimes. Not that you love your partner any less but some people have their ways of adding spice or magic back into it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 10:21 PM |
| 9 | “Womanly” activities are cooking, cleaning, caretaking & appearances 🤢I would just say decorating not appearances. Frankly the word “womanly” wouldn’t come to mind. I would call it homely decorating. I hate poutporri and decorative towels in bathrooms. Reminds me of my grandmas house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 09:33 PM |
| 61 | “Womanly” activities are cooking, cleaning, caretaking & appearances 🤢There’s no way a woman wrote that. I enjoy all of those activities but would never have phrase that under the statement it’s “womanly” things. Nope, I don’t phrase helping family and loved ones as caretaking in normal conversation. Sounds very occupational. Using the word Appearances when you can just say you like having a beauty routine or dressing up, sounds like something a man would say. Cooking and cleaning and being into your appearance are not “womanly” things. HOW you approach those area… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 09:15 PM |
| 46 | I love this energy. Men need to be more competitive🤣I won’t lie this was hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:40 PM |
| 7 | Every man I’ve asked to get tested, whined about it.Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:16 PM |
| 15 | Every man I’ve asked to get tested, whined about it.Can you tell me what Apps those are please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:16 PM |
| 4 | Even in ancient Greece they knew how to identify a NVM. Beware the tactless man who can’t behave appropriately. He will cause you nothing but irritation and embarrassment. He is completely self-serving and does not notice or care about others’ discomfort.Thank you for this wonderful excerpt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 08:17 PM |
| 7 | Nosleep story 1000 times scarier post-FDS!I am so glad she listened to her intuition and made a run for it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 11:32 PM |
| 6 | Can't even mention this sub to my guy friends...Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 09:11 PM |
| 41 | So many things wrong with this 🤦♀️I hate men who play pranks. It’s like they are stuck in the Peter Pan phase with the intent to hurt and embarrass other people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:51 PM |
| 43 | What would you do if a NVM took you to a grocery store and gave you $50 on your first date? I’d take the money and go straight home.Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:06 AM |
| 19 | Not sure if this has been done before but I made a FDS flag in Animal Crossing!So adorbs 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:23 AM |
| 29 | Men insist they're not sexist for hating this upcoming movie that they haven't actually seen. In reality, if this were a similar trailer with a white male cast, they would keep their comments to themselves instead of spewing about it *pandering to diversity*.Yasss this looks lit 🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 02:48 AM |
| 4 | Qveen Herby "Who is She". From me to all of you 👑I’m just here making bank with my BDE that scored me a promotion! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Qveen Herby "Who is She". From me to all of you 👑Hey Qveen fan! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:36 AM |
| 8 | Thank you! So glad I found this subreddit!Welcome to the sisterhood | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Friends, #KickHimOut2020 was blazing success. Lets start the discussion for the theme of 2021I second WeartheCrown2021! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:57 PM |
| 9 | Women are women's and children's protectors!I hear and understand your view point. Just be careful not to have on rose tinted glasses when dealing with both men AND women. Sometimes it’s the ones you expect to trust and have your back that will surprise you every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:49 PM |
| 17 | It just dawned on me that nearly every man who has gone down on me were just giving it "the ol' husband try" meaning, they were purposefully bad at it to make me give up on asking them to do it.Lick it to stick it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:05 PM |
| 38 | Booked an appointment to take my IUD out. However,the only gynecologist available for this month is a man. I plan to wait longer for a woman because I'm not comfortable with the idea of man removing it. Am I the only one that questions why a man would want to be a gynecologist in the 1st place?I completely understand you. I don’t consider male gynecologists and the one time that I did I regretted it. It was uncomfortable and I didn’t get the care and consideration I’m used to. Now of course every woman is different and I’m sure some feel perfectly comfortable with both genders as gynecologists. I assume most men are in any profession are there to gain respect, power, and/or control. I don’t want someone that I consider in a helping and highly skilled profession to be with me in vulner… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:14 PM |
| 6 | One of the best things I’ve learned on FDS is asking a man to explain himself when he makes a dumb sexual joke. This was a quick unmatch.Your comeback about not being a burrito was hilarious 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Ladies what's your beauty routine like?That’s so cool. Thank you for YouTube rec. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Ladies what's your beauty routine like?I love your post. What gems or metals do you work with as a Jewelry designer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:32 PM |
| 1 | The Goal!I love CallmeChoko he’s hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Is going 50/50 on rent the norm?WTF! The audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:09 AM |
| 6 | HVM love FDSI agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:19 PM |
| 2 | HVM Noam Chomsky 👌🏻Please do expand on this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 03:13 PM |
| 26 | HVM Noam Chomsky 👌🏻Another political figure you guys might enjoy learning about and reading on is Chris Hedges. He’s a longtime journalist and political correspondent. He has an anti porn stance and definitely speaks on it a lot. He also speaks up on the extremist evangelical movement as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 03:12 PM |
| 35 | HVM Noam Chomsky 👌🏻This actually very fascinating. I’ve studied Chomsky for a while and didn’t know about his stance on porn. And yes a lot of leftists are very pro “sex worker” and the porn industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:38 PM |
| 9 | Reposted to adhere to rules: woman gets proposed to by man drawing ring on her. “We” find the same ring 7 mo later in a thrift shop. Glad you got picked!Also that’s not a wedding ring. That is a cute ring I would by for myself on one of my off days to add to my jewelry collection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:58 PM |
| 18 | Reposted to adhere to rules: woman gets proposed to by man drawing ring on her. “We” find the same ring 7 mo later in a thrift shop. Glad you got picked!I love thrifting and I love jewelry! But that ain’t it! Opal are lovely but make terrible wedding rings they have a low hardness factor and should only be worn occasionally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:57 PM |
| 26 | Women sacrificing their last name and taking husband's last name indirectly treats the wife as a property of the husband. Are the ladies here in FDS still willing to take their husband's last name after marriage or do they consider last names mixing/blending as an option as a sign of equality?I am my fathers only child. What if I self publish or become a famous writer. I would love for name to be carried on for the work I put forth. I will be damned if lose my last name. I do like the idea of hyphenating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:33 AM |
| 6 | A LVM man introduced me to FDS, it was the best thing he ever did!Welcome to the forum my love. This proves all PR is good PR! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:36 AM |
| 3 | I want to say THANK YOU for the FDS Spotify playlistOMG we have a playlist! 😱😂 I have a long drive ahead of me. I definitely will be playing this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:35 AM |
| 18 | Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing.Looks good and Pinterest ready! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:27 AM |
| 15 | Guy who gave me the impression he was a HVM made a sexist comment and got so pissed at my response he blocked me. I'm over the moon the trash took itself out!!I agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:24 AM |
| 11 | Took a leaf out of you ladies’ books and I feel amazing. Treat yourself right ❤️So cute. Love the pink roses 🌹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:23 AM |
| 4 | Men hating astrology and tarot, ect.Yes that’s exactly how I feel about astrology. It used to sounds interesting but now so many people talk it to death and put forth no actual meaning or commentary. Sick of someone asking me what’s my sign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:20 AM |
| 40 | ‘Cool Girl’ monologue by Gillian FlynnI never watched the movie but I did read the book when it first came out. Found it at my local Goodwill for 1.99 👍🏾 Pretty good book. Great monologues that speaks to an entire generation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:42 PM |
| 7 | I just want to say I'm grateful of all of you. For letting me know it's ok to honor my needs first. I'm glad to know I'm not alone, even in strangely off situations. My view is not wrong, my thoughts are not just in my mind. Every post, gets advice, love, similar stories.Yasss sis. Welcome to the sisterhood! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:34 PM |
| 25 | PROTECT YOUR WOMB LIKE ITS THE LAST THING YOU DOThat is absolutely heartbreaking. This is why I don’t even entertain certain men. They only want sex and when the outcome is a baby they could care less of you live or die during childbirth. I’m so relieved to hear that her mother was there for her as her advocate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 01:16 PM |
| 7 | I just got my IUD taken out and I couldn’t be happierOP I’m happy you did what you needed to do for your best interest! I’m on the opposite end though. I wanted to be on birth control since college. I was on my father s insurance plan and the only way he would agree was once I finished my studies. I did that and as soon as I graduated I made an appointment for the copper IUD. FYI if I had to pay out of pocket it would have been to expensive for me. I had a wonderful gynecologist who did a preliminary appointment with me and then the actual appoint… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:44 AM |
| 10 | Lets throw FDS an all day Birthday Party when we reach 100k subscribersYassss. Love the idea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 07:34 PM |
| 37 | Gomez Addams knows how to be HV..I don’t think that statement is encouraging to help fix or build him. My interpretation is just the thought of hearing her name makes him feel better, brings him joy, and makes him feel more alive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:38 PM |
| 10 | Hate When Men Try to Persuade with This LineThe best comeback to that stupid line: I have a lot to lose and nothing to gain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:21 AM |
| 15 | The State of the Subreddit: Flair EditionPerfectly understandable! Thank you so much mods! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:13 AM |
| 20 | FDS fun fact: The posts that get reported the most on Female Dating Strategy are the ones that go something like "why are men so ugly?" Most of these reports are for "targeted harassment against me"Whattt 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:08 AM |
| 10 | MOD UPDATE: No more LVM ex-boyfriend collages. They are all pretty much the same and we don't want LVM stank all over our subreddit. Effective immediately, any collages about substandard men will be removed.Good call out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 10:59 AM |
| 10 | Breaking a Generational CurseYassss. That was heartbreaking to read but am so glad the breaking of this generational curse starts with you! Live long and well my Queens | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Seeing women post about how excited they are when they start dating a known LVM...😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:27 PM |
| 64 | It’s amazing that so many “red pilled” men think women can’t take accountability for their actions and yet these scrotes can LITERALLY ABANDON CHILDREN and somehow make it women’s fault.I rarely ever believe men in this issue. They don’t receive custody because of the courts or sexism. It’s because of their lack of trying. My Dad received full custody of me as a baby. If you go by generalizations most people would claim judges would side with mothers especially on young babies. But my father proved to be the more fit and stable parent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:24 PM |
| 37 | You should always be the most beautiful to himOh it was a high school relationship. Lol. We went to different universities and I was not for long distance anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:20 AM |
| 60 | You should always be the most beautiful to himI had an ex like that. He had some good and bad traits but I will never forget the way he always looked at me. Always had Puppy eyes and although he’s a frowner he would smile when we he saw me. Smiled at me as if I was magic. That left a lasting impression on me. I think the sweetest thing he’s ever said to me was I was like a beautiful muse to him. Which applied very well since he was on his way to being a successful artist and was brilliant at 2D and 3D work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:40 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020As relationships progress pay and income levels do change and fluctuate. What you want to make sure is the man you are evaluating is if he is ambitious. Ambitious men have goals and are always striving for the next level. The field the man is in and his age and ambition level will let you know what salary or income cap he may face. I read somewhere that age 35 is when a lot of people hit their cap in the field they are in salary or income wise. Not that it’s impossible but it’s a good indicator … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:24 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020Block his number and any conversations with him in it. Dick is plentiful and abundant! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:15 AM |
| 9 | I WILL Make This HappenI love this 💕 I have Pinterest boards like this as my vision boards for my goals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:28 AM |
| 4 | A bit of satire for your lunch break - it's about Russian culture, but feels applicable to just about anywhereThat was cute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Hey, I've been lurking in this sub for awhile now. I see a lot of experiences with LVMs in this sub. Is there anyone who wants to share their wonderful experiences with dating an HVM?That’s is so refreshing and sweet to hear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:11 AM |
| 5 | Having kids in your late twenties versus thirtiesThe biggest and most impactful decision you can ever make in your life... is deciding who you will lay down with and have kids. Think about that. It’s good that your noted that your career right now is a bit hectic. Is there a certain year/position/ salary you would say it’s a good point you are happy with reaching before having your first child? Because you have to take maternity leave, breastfeeding, and those baby/toddler years into account. I know that I read somewhere gender pay gap stems a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:07 AM |
| 1 | How is it ethical from any perspective?You have a really good friend! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:50 AM |
| 31 | Op accused of tattoo/body shaming in the comments for saying this dude looks susI’m not a tattoo person but I’ve see some really beautiful work. However any person who has random face tattoos (unrelated to their ethnic or tribal background) gets a side eye from me. I’m judging all the way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:47 AM |
| 5 | A rant about ugly men making me feel worthlessI’m so stealing this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:38 AM |
| 4 | He wants to "pull up outside and talk in the car" and not arrange a date.OMG I’m so sorry to hear that. Guys are terrible always lying in their d*ck. I’m glad your friends husband had your back and stuck up to that lying asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 155 | Used or new, we will run you overI used to ask this question all the time in high school. All the women are virgins and all the men are players looking to score. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:35 AM |
| 4 | Thank you. I don’t date and yet i’m hereWelcome. I’m glad you are here and I hope you are able to absorb all of the wonderful advice and lessons given. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Remember ladies, if he wanted to, he would.This is just heartwarming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:35 PM |
| 5 | Remember ladies, if he wanted to, he would.That is so sweet and romantic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:35 PM |
| 7 | Men rate women’s physical attractiveness on a 1-10 scale. Women rate using 0s and 1s (f*ck yes or f*ck no). Thoughts?I thinks that’s probably one of few things I probably may have an opposing opinion on. I use the 1-10 rating scale and I don’t see a problem with it. Ive used it with girlfriends sometimes when checking out guys. But it’s for common use. Most times mentally I just go pass or yes, if I see a guy and rate on the attractiveness scale. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:17 AM |
| 4 | Please remove ALL personal information from screenshots before posting them hereThanks for the heads up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 3 | "He said beggars can't be choosy, I said it's gucci, I'm couture like the movies" — Mint by Qveen HerbyI love Qveen Herby! I Stan all day! BDE Gucci Bank Mademoiselle Livin the Dream | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:58 AM |
| 2 | I explained to my mom about FDS, being a HVW and what a HVM is. I am witnessing her upgrade in appearance, demeanor and now she's rising up. I'm so proud of her and I'm shocked how evident her transformation really is.That was really beautiful. I’m glad you both are on a wonderful journey together | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020They just sent the offer and it’s the same exact pay and stock amount as the other position that’s non corporate. I feel like there’s this formula they have me set at. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:53 PM |
| 6 | Found on FB......what the actual fuckDamnnnn that ending was savage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:59 AM |
| 5 | I know my comment is about to rain down hate upon me (fb screenshot).Ehhh I felt it was a bit mean spirited. Yea the comments were overdoing it but I thought it was nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:57 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020It’s an internal role but corporate side. I’m just not sure who I would be attempting to negotiate with. The hiring manager or the house recruiter. Both people have not been helpful during this journey. But I like the position and I’m ready to make a change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Your friend May be focusing on her children and new business first. But I would say to reach out definitely. I’m not sure what how your friendship is with her but you want to know if she’s willing to hear from you. If not then give her her space and due try to make amends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020How long is program for? Is his field work heavy or he can have a good work life balance? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:07 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020I feel for ya. I don’t get bad PMS but I have been feeling a bit depressed and emotionally stressed lately. Is the fallout something that can be fixed? How’s your relationship to her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:06 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Thank you 🙏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:04 AM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020On the other bright side my work and financial goals are being met. I have two possible promotional offers. I just don’t want to be disappointed by the salary. Y’all wish me luck. Has anyone negotiated their salary fairly well for a company that often pays less for internals? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:39 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020I recently got back into OLD as I mentioned in another thread. In my new city I’ve been attracting a lot of nerds. Like they go to conventions, love D&D, and game. I’m not sure what my profile says about me but I’m worried 😩😂. So on the bright side most of the guys who messaged me stated they have undergrad or advanced degrees, so cool on that. It’s just hard to figure out their possible salary range. One guy is giving me possible bum vibes. Like he only works no aspirations and just hangs out w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:24 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020This is my first time joining the chat I think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:18 AM |
| 1 | He asked to exchange numbers after matching on OKCupidThank you ladies. I thought it was just me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Fucking Ain't Fair, Act AccordinglyWell written and wonderful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 12:22 AM |
| 25 | If he wanted to, he would. (HVM prepares a 30 days of birthday surprise)I think it’s super cute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Thank you, mods! ♡Yes. Mods thank you guys so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:57 PM |
| 157 | I'm glad my son will be able to grow up seeing women hosts for science shows.That’s wonderful. It still amazes me that they used the statement “men wont want to watch or be able to relate to a female host”. I have watched plenty of shows where the host were not women or non Black and I still was able to relate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:40 PM |
| 21 | Political alignment aside, there’s merit to this.I always figured so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:37 AM |
| 19 | LVM when they realize FDS was set to private temporarily for pre-scheduled maintenance and not because Reddit took the sub down. LOL YOU ACTUALLY THOUGHT!! 🖕🏻🖕🏻Glad to be back to posting regularly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:36 AM |
| 6 | Not sure how I feel about this first impression.I never understood walk dates. It sounds incredibly stupid. If a man really is low in finds but wants a cute date, why it suggest roller skating in the park, a nice picnic, kite flying, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:11 AM |
| 36 | Scrote threatens to cut off sex if gf doesn't shave, gets his face cracked when she says "k"Did he really just say “feminist ideal that girls can do whatever they want with their bodies without consequence?” Who the f*uck does he think he is. She’s right her body her choice. But this post seems hella weird. I’ve never heard a woman say that in person in such conversations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:05 AM |
| 2 | The only kind of men that deserve to have children.That’s exactly how my Dad is. My Dad waited several years before buying a new car. AC went out constantly, hood ha fro replaced, and was just old overall. He did all that to provide a free college education for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 07:38 PM |
| 5 | She had me in the first half 😂She almost got me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 07:25 PM |
| 2 | UPDATE ON THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM SIGN UP PROCEDURES (8 DIGIT CODE)Thank you guys so much for this. Having safe female spaces is so crucial and important to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:54 AM |
| 5 | Another example of a man doing right by his wife.Now that is just beautiful 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 12:26 AM |
| 107 | I.....WHAT? The things some women will put up with. FDS is so necessary it’s not even funny.I’m going with this is definitely satire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 03:57 AM |
| 2 | He proposed!!Wonderful. Congratulations OP 🎊🎈🍾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Real recognizes real. I will always support my sisters against racism, sexism, and misogyny.Nice. Where is this posted at? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 12:27 AM |
| 45 | Pickmeishas can ruin your lifeI’m so sorry that happened to you. But yes I agree with your premise. I choose my friends wisely and keep a very small group that are all women. I don’t keep men as friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 12:24 AM |
| 30 | Survivor of domestic abuse starts dating a man who reveals himself to be a past abuser. Several people in the comments tell her “maybe he’s changed”A man that has so much hate, rage, and anger to KICK a woman, is scum and can never be redeemed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 12:20 AM |
| 3 | New anthem I’m so here for this! Now only referring to men as wallets lolLove it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 03:14 AM |
| 9 | some wholesome content for yall <3That is so cuteeee! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 04:15 PM |
| 33 | I love finding these videos!That was really beautiful. Even if this was fake and staged, I like the positive video and expectations it sets! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | This was recommended to me here, it's some serious level up shitThank you for sharing! I’m going to add it to my book list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:56 PM |
| 3 | In order to entertain his daughter who is bored during quarantine they take the trash out every day together wearing different costumesThat is so freaking adorable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 05:59 PM |
| 13 | this porn sicko wants everyone to know he controls her, she's worried he will leave her if she doesn't obey.The only collar she should even consider wearing from him is a gifted diamond necklace. I hope she snaps out of this and leaves him. I’m afraid he may end up killing her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 09:26 AM |
| 4 | Does anyone actually believe this is an accident when this happens?That’s such a very weird way to word that statement. She should dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 07:12 PM |
| 4 | Ladies how are you keeping busy? Please share what makes your lives fulfilling!Gardening! Learning, listening, and reading about gardening on my off days. I bought 40lbs of potting soil, compost, and fertilizer along with some vegetable seeds. I’m thinking of starting a warm compost for my kitchen scraps. So far I have two raised beds on my balcony. I will start with a spring salad mix and some okra, tomatoes, cucumbers, and edamame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:34 AM |
| 1 | How do I gently tell my friend her man ain’t sh*tThat was a brilliant way of handling the situation. But I think your friend has to figure it out on her own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 03:06 AM |
| 2 | You are the prize 🎁My Dad and I had a talk the other day and he reminded me this exact message. He told me I am the prize and if a man truly cared and wanted a relationship with me he will wait. He will have no problem waiting at all. It’s good to hear it reinforced during my most trying times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 02:41 AM |
| 37 | If he doesn’t want to take you out on a date, he probably thinks you’re not worth it/“ugly”I think the biggest takeaway is dont date lukewarm men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 04:55 AM |
| 3 | Ladies! It's rough out there, that's for sure. But I know y'all got this. So, what projects/hobbies are you working on?Fully stocking my pantry and dehrydating my Foods! I want to try fermenting next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 06:17 PM |
| 1 | What do you do about pubic hair? How does it affect your dating life?I trim the area like a nicely trimmed lawn. I do wax the bikini line to keep it nice and smooth. Shaving gives me too many ingrown sand dark marks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 05:05 AM |
| 3 | Yet Another Example of how Men KNOW when they’ve found their wife almost immediately. "I think it's a testament to the fact that when you find the right person, you can just kind of know. And it doesn't take a ton of time to know that." - Cameron from “Love Is Blind”Yea see I didn’t get to Mexico yet LOL. I still need to finish watching more episodes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 01:59 PM |
| 10 | Yet Another Example of how Men KNOW when they’ve found their wife almost immediately. "I think it's a testament to the fact that when you find the right person, you can just kind of know. And it doesn't take a ton of time to know that." - Cameron from “Love Is Blind”He definitely was a pickmeisha. But he still deserved way better. The night Jessica recanted on his proposal to keep seeing Barnett’s, he should have made an exit and be done. I’ve also only seen two episodes so that’s where I am in the series so far. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:57 AM |
| 44 | Yet Another Example of how Men KNOW when they’ve found their wife almost immediately. "I think it's a testament to the fact that when you find the right person, you can just kind of know. And it doesn't take a ton of time to know that." - Cameron from “Love Is Blind”I normally don't watch these type of shows but I love this couple so much! Cameron was just so smitten with Lauren and ready! The fact that any women actually fell for Barnett and his a**hole tendencies is beyond me. The guy was so wishy washy and loved making the women compete for his no existent love and commitment. Jessica is also an a**shole and was horrible to Mark. Mark deserves wayyy better. Kinda reminds me of Carrie with Big vs Aiden. Team Aiden! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 07:21 PM |
| 40 | I was reading replies from non-cheating married who were asked why they had refrained from cheating on their wives. The overwhelming response?Men are as only faithful as their options allow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 04:28 AM |
| 24 | Apparently, my sister and I are "shallow" because she doesn't want to date a guy and I'm telling her she doesn't have toI think going forward a lot of us may need to re-evaluate our friendships and the purpose some people serve in our lives. I have been told by family, friends, and especially coworkers that I have high standards and I’m particular. I believe my standards are normal but relative, although yes I am particular. However, they don’t fuss with me about said standards and actually recommended people for me based on said standards. When people start to argue with you and call you picky it’s because A. th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 04:27 AM |
| 8 | Do not lower your standards! Word of caution that it's not worth giving low market men the benefit of a doubt!Ya know. One of the things I can say I have yet to do is feel any sympathy for men. I’ve had a few male coworkers who absolutely fall under the nice guy category but I never took pity on them. I just chalked it up to the cards they were dealt and how they fold them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:25 AM |
| 5 | A Rant About StaresI know exactly how you feel OP. Where I lived before (a major city on the East), there is a big community of Caribbean immigrants. I hated grocery shopping with my grandmother in certain places because the men have no tact. The men look with hungry predatory stares and it’s unnerving. Its especially true of the older men in their 30s and up who do this. I started shopping only at major American grocery chain stores and it’s like night and day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 08:37 PM |
| 42 | If a guy mentions that he has another date that week...I think mentioning you have another date with someone else is tacky and most likely a manipulative tactic. It’s one thing if a guy has a busy schedule and another to directly mention he is dating other women to you. He wants you to become competitive and feel more vulnerable and see him as a prize. I would say “oh how nice, I’m doing the same as well. May the best man win” with a wink 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 08:28 PM |
| 32 | Former FBI Agent Explains How to Read Body Language. Reminder: Men’s Top Manipulation Tactic is the Use of WORDS... Learn to Read Nonverbals.That’s a good video. A book I recommend on dating strategy is the Art or Seduction. It really breaks down different seductive qualities and characteristics people have and how they are used. The author specifically mention that women are weak for words and that’s how men like Don Juan charm women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 01:54 AM |
| 34 | "Good luck finding a guy like that!": Do NOT fall for the LVM Cope.💯 agree I would also like to add women should rarely take relationship advice from men even when you consider them a friend. 99.9% it’s advice that will benefit the man and not their fellow woman friend. I’m apart of a lot online boards and I noticed women really take heed to male advice even when it’s not necessary. I can’t count how many times I’ve read the statement: well I asked my male friend, colleague, brother-in-law, neighbor, etc. Personally the only relationship advice I take in consid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:26 AM |
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