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| 139 | Sis it's ok if you want your man to spend more on your ring than he does on a single $60 video game... | Morgan6788 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 04:33 AM |
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| 21 | Run far away from fools like these. LVM are selfish and won't think twice about screwing you over.My husband and I make about the same, but he STILL spoils me. Men that actually respect women often want to take care of them. Like we spent more on my vehicle then we did his. They are both good vehicles but mine is a little nicer. When it comes to hobbies he encourages me to spend more than he spends on himself. He offers to pay for dinner more than I do. He often buys more expensive gifts for holidays. We split bills, chores, and save for bigger purchases together. We have our own bank accoun… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 03:59 AM |
| 11 | You do not "miss sex." You miss a fantasy.Yes...🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 09:35 PM |
| 14 | You do not "miss sex." You miss a fantasy.This is a bit much. Why aren't women allowed to miss good sex? I would say we are not out murdering and raping people for sex. Bc we have self control and empathy. I have had a good sex life with all my boyfriends. I vet who I sleep with carefully and have had good experiences. I've broken up with men but have missed and crave the sexual experiences with them. This honestly sounds a bit incel like. We want women to find good partners. We also don't want women to accept less than what they deserv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 09:34 PM |
| 30 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.Yet that same man has no problem using women for sex. What's worse? Spending money at Olive garden or Apple Abees for two people or using a human beings body and putting them at risk for pregnancy and stds? Poor men have to shell out a whole 30-50 dollars. 🙄 How much was your nice bra, hair straightener, foundation, earrings, ect. If they are afraid that paying for a dinner means a woman is using they are cheap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:30 PM |
| 31 | Promise I’ll swear off LVM no matter how much I want the validation. It’s not worth it!Nope. They both can't wait to have another child lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Promise I’ll swear off LVM no matter how much I want the validation. It’s not worth it!Nope. They both can't wait to have another child lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 07:00 AM |
| 26 | Why men knowing how to clean/keep a house is more important than you realiseMaybe? 100% empty is weird. My fridge is not fully stocked bc fresh food goes badly quickly. I'll pick up stuff for a couple days and if you caught me on the wrong day my fridge would be empty. But I always have fruit and potatoes. And I do have a bunch of spices and cookware. If he has no food, spices, and stirs mac and cheese with a metal spoon instead of a cooking spoon I'd say it is a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 06:48 AM |
| 71 | Promise I’ll swear off LVM no matter how much I want the validation. It’s not worth it!I legit know someone who got a promise ring after dating the guy for three years, living together for 2, and having a one year old child with him. And that was a year ago... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 06:22 AM |
| 7 | Reminder for those wondering if they are "overreacting"This should be the mantra for the women on "AITA" sub reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 11:44 PM |
| 6 | Life Hack: Ladies, want to avoid being beaten, raped, abused and murdered by your significant other? I have the solution for you! Just date Nice Guys!Nice guys want to be the styeoptipcal bad guys. If they had the motivation to be gym bros they would. If they could ride a motorcycle they would be out buying leather jackets. If daddy had money they would be running around the college campus in a pink polo. HVM don't talk/think about nice guys vs bad guys. They are busy living their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 11:53 AM |
| 8 | LVM think women are stupid.He lived with 2 other roommates that covered his bills until he got another job in a month. His parents already had cut him off bc he failed bootcamp and flunked out of college. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 06:38 AM |
| 28 | Giving back giftsI had a ex give me a sentimental piece of family jewelry, which I gave back. I knew it was very important to him bc it had belonged to his dad that died when he was a child. But I kept the sentimental gifts between him and I. Example I kept the ring he bought specifically for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 06:32 AM |
| 6 | Guy I broke up with sent me a nicely worded email saying I have BPD and he is concerned lol. Do I ignore it or take the bait and email back?You deserve peace! Responding to him will not result in any closure. He will not listen to anything you have to say so don't waste your time. He opinions are not valid to your life anymore. He lost that privilege. He is probably do the same thing to other women at the same time fishing for a response or grooming other women to abuse. You got this <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 06:18 AM |
| 1 | CLOWN MOMENT: my ex who i have blocked on everything stalks me on reddit to warn me about the evil monsters at FDSI couldn't read all of it bc it's just so much bs. All I got in the first couple sentences was him shaming you for not being constantly happy looking at fun frivolous posts. Gross. He is the creepy stalker shifting through your reddit. He should be the one looking at memes instead. What's next looking through your pinterest to make sure you haven't pinned wedding gowns lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 05:31 AM |
| 30 | Well aren’t we clever....I did laugh but I'd NEVER date a policeman. .Who are you going to call when a policeman hits you? His buddies he works with? Too much stress, PTSD, and god complex will ruin even a HVM, let alone an average guy or LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 05:26 AM |
| 23 | Depraved LVM husband jerks off in bed next to his 9 months pregnant wife. SMH.How do you watch cam girls without looking them up, chatting with them, and paying them? That's the whole point of cam girls is that they interact with you. And they don't do anything unless you pay them. Otherwise it is just "normal porn" videos and it's not live. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 04:44 AM |
| 1 | EmbarrassingPoop and jerk off* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 04:37 AM |
| 13 | LVM think women are stupid.Oh he is working but he isn't a good employee. There was this guy I briefly dated who would text me non stop every day during normal business hours. I manage my own business so I have much more flexibility to text. But I had to tell him I was busy and had to get stuff done. His response? "It's ok just respond when you can." And he would send meme after meme, triple text, and then ask me an hour and a half later if I was still busy. It was crazy. I thought good grief how did he have time to be on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 04:31 AM |
| 33 | you’re single until there’s a ringThis a great perspective! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 08:44 PM |
| 7 | Pickmeishas love for deadbeats is endlessIf he is allergic he better spend money ones he can use! No, this was a hypothetical if the condom was to break. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 05:22 AM |
| 29 | Pickmeishas love for deadbeats is endlessI said, "Well, yah you would see the baby. Wouldn't you help me take care of the baby?" He stuttered a little and said of course he would want to help but he said he wasn't ready. So I asked him if he still wanted to have sex. He said yes so I responded with. "I have told you if I get pregnant I am keeping the baby. If you do not want that responsibility you shouldn't have sex with me." All of his responses were weak. I ended up breaking up with him 2 weeks later. I've learned to never get too a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 04:40 AM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜I am not exactly sure of everything I am doing for Valentine's Day bc I let my husband plan it. I did get a package from Amazon that I was told not to open or touch lol. He is not always the best at thinking out plans so he likes to run parts of them by me first. He mentioned that he wanted to buy a tree to plant to represent our relationship. The problem is that it is snowing and the ground is frozen lol. Honestly, how is that going to work? He still wants to go to my favorite plant nursery any… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 02:22 AM |
| 41 | Pickmeishas love for deadbeats is endlessYou can have the abortion talk before even accidentally getting pregnant and the man will still say something stupid. I had been causally dating this guy for about 4 months and things were going well. We were using condoms and Bc but I still always like to have the," What would the plan be if we got pregnant?" Talk. He (26) said that he would prefer me to get an abortion. Bc he wasn't ready to have kids but he wanted them in the future. Fair enough... he still has roommates and doesn't make a lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 01:59 AM |
| 41 | men giving you ''compliments''But he was just joking! Gosh... can't you take a joke? Women are so sensitive and have no sense of humor! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 12:54 AM |
| 25 | He cheats, he lies, he gaslights, he’s bad with money but sis is still confused 🤦♀️20,000 is a car. He stole a whole car from her. 20,000 is a down payment on a house. It is several semesters at a community college. You could get a whole new career potentially. It's a small business loan. We don't know what all he spends it on but some of that money is $100 a night here and there to buy other girls alcohol at the bar. All while she sits at home probably cooking and cleaning. Stop paying for men. Everyone else has to live within their means. They can too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 10:30 PM |
| 63 | men giving you ''compliments''I agree! If it is safe. If it is someone I see often, like at the gym, where he can follow you, see the type of car you drive, and know your routine.... I might not bust their balls too much. No doubt they deserve to be knocked down a few pegs. But a man's worst fear is being embarrassed by a woman. Often they get violent when their fragile ego's are bruised. Weak, perverted, assholes can dish it out but they can't take it. It is horrible we have to walk a thin line between standing up for ourse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 10:17 PM |
| 11 | Oh no, no thank you 🤮Hey! His right boob is a little bit bigger than the left one just like mine. We are twinning lmao. M | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 10:39 AM |
| 3 | What a self-absorbed twat!Every man ik my age in the military joined for a paycheck bc they're losers. They flunked out of their 3rd semester of community college and their dad kicks them out. Their mom still pays for their contacts and cell phone just so the son will call her. After a few years of minimum wage, living with 3 other dirty men in the same situation, and their parents fighting over them they join the military to escape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:14 AM |
| 5 | Dear men lurking this sub...I fucking hate the, "it's someones daughter" argument. We are HUMAN BEINGS deserving of basic respect. If you have to have a daughter to love and respect women you are low value trash. Period. Some woman had to make that daughter for him. Was the mother not deserving of good treatment before she gave birth to his child? Im sorry but this post is trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:03 AM |
| 7 | From R/NoSo(couldn't cross post) This is so DISGUSTING and ultimate low. A grown man and pissing on the floor and expecting his wife to clean it.Some people rub a dog's nose in pee to train it. Normally, I would recommend positive enforcement and treats instead but for this dog it might be necessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:14 PM |
| 34 | And this ladies, is why we don’t have sex with men who haven’t earned it."I'm just a honest person" just means inconsiderate jerk. They think that they can do something wrong if they are just truthful and honest about it. Nahhh screw you buddy. Being honest about being a bad person still makes you a bad person. Being truthful about a mistake doesn't make it better. Too many pick me girls out here bragging about how understanding they are, how cool they are, how they won't be upset if the man is just honest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 01:35 AM |
| 10 | Wanting a financially and mentally stable man who prioritizes you and is in okay health isn’t entitled.Fuck you! You're just shallow! A woman should love me for my personality. She sould help me grow as a person bc we are partners! /s Which I don't understand how careers and mental help are not part of your personality? As soon as you help them level up they will leave ypu for a "better women". They will give you nothing in return and wonder why you deteriorate. How many women start a self improvement routine immediately after a break up while men drink themselves silly and try to get sex? Bc aft… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 09:15 PM |
| 26 | “My husband won’t touch my pussy because he thinks it’s ugly” .... “we have a good sex life!!” Nah, sis.Start negging them back. Start saying, "eww your balls are too saggy" Their discoloration from circumcision makes their "dick look diseased" or that their uncircumcised penis is gross. Or that their balls are asymmetrical then gaslight them when they say it's natural by saying, " Well idk about that but I've NEVER seen balls that uneven before. It's just my preference and I'm allowed to have preferences." Tell them that their dick is small. Then dump them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 10:19 PM |
| 13 | Sis it's ok if you want your man to spend more on your ring than he does on a single $60 video game...That's what I'm saying. With "men" my age the ring cost less than a vape box and juice, it is less than 1 video game(which they always have atleast 10 games), it's less than the gas you pay to Netflix and Chill with the losers, it's less than what they pay on a bag of weed, it is less than a concert ticket, it's less than what they spent at the bar or dinner to impress another girl. This is what LVM spend their money on. Do we want to be less than a video game and bag of weed? When we are expect… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 06:19 PM |
| 24 | Sis it's ok if you want your man to spend more on your ring than he does on a single $60 video game...I agree. In college my partner and I were very poor. He took time and saved up to buy me a "healing crystal" ring instead of a diamond one. The crystal was still a gemstone that was supposed to help with love and communication. It was my favorite cut of gemstone/diamond and the band was rose gold which is also my favorite. It was only like $200 but it was really sentimental, my taste, and well thought out. Now I have a more expensive ring but I still cherish my first ring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 05:48 PM |
| 13 | Sis it's ok if you want your man to spend more on your ring than he does on a single $60 video game...That she was right and that it should truly be about love not money. One girl said "Hell no. This guy is out spending more on a case of beer and carton of smokes." And people went in on her saying she was a gold digger and shallow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 05:32 PM |
| 25 | Sis it's ok if you want your man to spend more on your ring than he does on a single $60 video game...I woman on my fb actually posted this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 05:13 AM |
| 11 | Of course! My husband gives zero fucks about me and checks out other women because my pussy stink! Poor boomers grew up with the teachings of the “greatest” generation.Balls and poorly whipped ass doesn't smell that great either buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Revenge...anyone?The opposite of love isn't hate it is apathy. Men want attention even if it is negative. They are testosterone animals that want to fight. They LOVE the crazy bish confirmation that comes with physical/noticable revenge. It makes them feel better about the brake up. The best revenge is self improvement. Tons of pictures doing activities with friends, career/education advancements, and fitness goals. Throw in some dates he hears through the grapevine, but not a boyfriend right way. (To avoid "She… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 08:00 AM |
| 53 | Catching an attitude for what😂"I don't go out myself" 😂😂😂 Seriously? How boring are you? Thanks letting people know you've already given up on life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 05:15 AM |
| 3 | I have recently hit my prime age of 40, my life is JUST STARTING and I would like to have kids someday. All the 19yo ladies get in line! And NO post 25yo grandmas!1!!I'm not going to breed with someone that can't figure out sunscreen or is too lazy to use it. That bald head is red! Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 03:25 AM |
| 24 | What Are Some Grooming Habits All Grown Ass Men Should Know and Religiously Follow?I hate mustaches too! But I like rough hands. I like it when a man feels like he has calloused hands from lifting weights and he can change my tire without calling AAA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 07:26 AM |
| 1 | [Seeking advice] Time to move on? Or is it worth to continue seeing this guy?Then stay with him and quit whining 🙄 you argue with everyones response trying to convince yourself that he actually likes you. Take the lose girl. Why do you even want to be with someone that considers you a maybe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 06:28 AM |
| 1 | [Seeking advice] Time to move on? Or is it worth to continue seeing this guy?You just want people to validate you and tell you to stay with him. But the truth is he isn't that into you. Why would you want to be with a man that floats through life not knowing what he wants anyway? He sounds like a loser. Don't lower yourself to be someone's backup choice. He responds to you bc he wants attention. You give him attention without him having to earn it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 06:25 AM |
| 41 | Woman discloses sexual past, admits to sleeping with 11 guys, wants to wait for marriage to have sex again. Boyfriend is upset she won't let him smash... Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men and keep your sexual past secret!!!Nothing is more unattractive than I guy whining about sex 🙄 "I already said no! Are you so creepy that you don't respect that I don't want to have sex? Take it or leave it. This is my decision and I already told you." Don't sugar coat it with men and especially boys. Be direct. They "don't understand hints" which actually means they don't understand basic nuances or think they can push boundaries if you say something nicely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 04:22 AM |
| 83 | Don't fall for the "You're cute" complimentAny comment from a man on my appearance means nothing. Men have sex with people they don't like or are not attracted to. Men have sex with mcchickens and couch cushions. Men will take back their compliment the minute you do not stroke their ego. Almost nothing means less to me then a man's compliment on my appearance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 03:48 AM |
| 28 | Remember Ladies—It’s Always A Choice!"He is a great man when he is not doing xyz" When someone shows you who they truly are believe them. Abusers are often so fun and charming bc how else will they find victims? Stay safe sisters. Respect and safety are more important than romantic love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 12:56 AM |
| 39 | Random guy in my DMs inquires about my plan to go to a concert tonight. Why do I get the sense he’s trying to insert himself in my plans? What does it matter if it’s date?"Do you belong to another man or... can I fuck you? Bc if you belong to someone I'm not going to keep pretending I like the same music as you." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 12:52 AM |
| 59 | The kind of man we are missing out on if we refuse to date men that watch pornI didn't notice that but you are right! They were like look at this fucking idiot lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 12:50 AM |
| 86 | Imagine bragging about how you settled?!? I cannotIdk it makes me sad. I know a young woman who was severely beaten by her HS bf over and over. Now at 20 she is already married and has a baby with a manchild. She posted about how she had the flu. Her husband came home and asked why she didn't have dinner ready. When she replied it was bc she was really sick he said, "oh ok, it is alright dinner is late then but what are you making me?" Her point was "haha men are so helpless and silly without their wives aren't they? They can't even feed themse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 12:44 AM |
| 115 | Imagine bragging about how you settled?!? I cannotThe world does women a great disservice in telling them romantic love is the most important thing in life. So much that they settle for a mediocre relationship. Or even stay with an abusive man out of love. There are so many more important things in life like respect, dignity, peace of mind, and financial independence. When we feel the importance of these things and allow ourselves to be content with these things we will not settle for less than we deserve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 12:35 AM |
| 6 | I'm ok with being rude for a minute. I'm not ok with being dead.I don't even say I appreciate it. I already said no to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 07:10 PM |
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