The switch generally flips when you expect the system to help you out in some way but you realize the system is the one actually holding you down. Doing your taxes is generally when you get the first sting that people have been lying to you all the time.
Well I love booty women but the fact that I do doesn't mean I'm okay with the media showing that retarded whore twerking and looking as a role model for stupid teenagers. Wonder what those people would say if some rapper with a small underwear and a huge moose knuckle zooming in his cock would become a hit.