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This is honestly one of my biggest problems when it comes to blind dating. Women for the most part wont initiate physical contact, like hugging and kissing, and bring it down solely for the man to. I’ve always been pretty shy or awkward when it comes to doing stuff like that on a series of blind dates, like you said, the date overall can be going really well, she can give all the clues and hints in the world, maybe be drinking slightly with you, and you attempt to go in for a kiss and she not be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:11 AM
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I have absolutely no idea what that says about me.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 03:14 AM
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They don’t? Idk where you’re getting that they want to be incels or whatever, they call themselves that because that’s technically what they are.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 03:28 AM
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I’d say most of these people including blackpillers and myself are probably “Volcels” not really “Incels”. Volcel = Voluntarily Celibate. We want relationships with someone of similar looks, maybe slightly better or worse, but we can’t find anyone that fits this description. We might get a few chances here and there(very rarely) to hook up with women who are very below in terms of quality but we don’t. At least in my case I attract really slutty women or women who frequently “date” men and get t…
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 08:51 PM
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What social burdens of performance do women have? It seems like nowadays there’s very little pressure being put on them besides other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:05 PM
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I do but it’s from women who are known sluts. Besides that no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:49 AM
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Women don’t have significantly better profiles, the only difference is that men aren’t going to play games and deny 80% of the women on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:54 PM
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I guess that’s ok? It’s pretty sad regardless that men have to do that and I wouldn’t go super far down.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 03:57 PM
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Bruh that is no way a comparable looksmatch 😭😂 Dudes gonna end up sidelining her fast as shit
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 03:41 PM
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Lmfao the majority of people view Johnny Depp in a positive light. My mom who’s a huge feminist supported him pretty much day 1 when the allegations happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:26 PM
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Probably my dad was lowkey kinda of a player, just found out a year ago he got a girl pregnant before I was born and had her get an abortion. He was always pretty good looking and he’s very charismatic and funny. My mom is very intelligent and was good looking young but she’s very susceptible to peer pressure so I can see her in todays era having a hoe phase or some shit so who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:53 PM
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And I 100% disagree with that, I’d say it’s dramatically decreased to about 0. In what way has men’s standards increased? We don’t care about morals anymore, we don’t care about body weight anymore, we don’t care about class anymore, we don’t care about natural beauty. I think the majority of men are fine with a woman as long as she’s not a whale and doesn’t have an extra eye or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:21 PM
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That’s alright, I prefer one great wholesome relationship that lasts forever then a series of bad ones and hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:13 PM
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Yeah that’s alright Derrick, you grew up in a broken home, we understand, just keep the weird statements on check
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:06 PM
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Ok so yeah you grew up in a weird broken home.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:02 PM
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Again stop being a weirdo, it’s not about “getting laid” it’s about getting into relationships and finding girlfriends. You’re either lying that your female family members didn’t tell you the same/similar things or you grew up in a broken home.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:54 PM
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You’re extremely weird
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:49 PM
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Or maybe a lot of us just want loving relationships with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:45 PM
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All of that is irrelevant if you Aren’t physically attractive enough to her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:45 PM
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Yeah it’s men’s fault that women are so heavily invested in plastic surgery and get eating disorders lmfao no that’s completely just them to show off to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:43 PM
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Mothers, Grandmothers, Aunts, Family friends etc. What I was told was all that you really needed was being funny, respectful, nice. Obviously that’s not the case so I guess women either lied or it’s outdated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:37 PM
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That has absolutely nothing to do with this, the video and women in general aren’t complaining about unattractive men having bad social skills, they’re complaining about unattractive men approaching them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:28 PM
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We do not care Becky. Go masterbate to anime or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:17 AM
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Lmfao oh man Femcels and toxic women are laughing at me ITS SO FUCKING OVER BROS
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:06 AM
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Yeah that’s all it takes to get a cute girlfriend. Please stop being delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:03 PM
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Awesome! Can’t wait to see you on TikTok talking about domestic abuse!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:27 PM
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Enjoy your Twentieth sausage, “where’s all the good men!”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:24 PM
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You’re welcome, Try again next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:22 PM
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Ah yes here we go, Lefty with a brain dead analysis of history, boring as shit and thanks for admitting AGAIN that women are extremely shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:18 PM
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Yeah you didn’t, I’m implying most do, most Men will lower their standards and find a wide array of women attractive like OP. The same can’t be said for women in TODAYS time. Thanks for affirming how ridiculous shallow women are now. And again please deny that women in the past had more realistic expectations and standards depending on their standing in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:11 PM
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Yeah they completely disregarded all aspects of culture, morals, religion, Caste to get with them right? That’s all they ever cared about? How “physically attractive” they were? Please stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:57 PM
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Who’s she’s “attracted” to is completely subjective, changeable, and dependent on the culture of society. A Victorian Era woman from England and her preferences would be completely different to today’s woman. It’s “her fault” because she artificially raises her standards and becomes pickier because men have lowered theirs. OP said it himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:07 PM
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Yep you settled it, women are allowed to be overweight because men like you will still find them attractive and give them a chance, women however, will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:46 PM
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You aren’t helping your point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:58 AM
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Depression is high with everyone, however it’s significantly worse if you’re a single career woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:47 PM
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Keep up the FemLarp Femcel you’re convincing exactly 0 people that you’re intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:50 PM
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Women really can’t take criticism, if men have an actual grievance and issue with society and its female aspect it’s automatically WHY ARE YOU BLAMING US ITS ALWAYS OUR FAULT. Again you’re acting like a fucking baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:30 PM
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People are more depressed because we live in a soulless meaningless society that’s extremely divided and dis-functional. It’s not a mystery or an unfortunate byproduct of modernity. if women are so happy as housewives why were anti depressants and tranquilizers meds marketed specifically to housewives in the 50’s? You’re really using experimental shit they tried in the 50s as an example of how miserable women were? I’m sure that shit barely sold. We are literally more anxious, depressed, Suicida…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:26 PM
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You want a man better than you because you’re a lazy woman who wants to be babied by daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:55 PM
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Again why should I really have any empathy towards women when they don’t for men? They couldn’t give 2 shits that men are struggling hard as shit in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:42 PM
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Something something handmaids tale you live in a delusional feminist state and un ironically believe women are better despite record depression and suicide rates. Feminism had to be forced down peoples throats in academia in order for it to be propagated and it’s proven disastrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:40 PM
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I’d agree with you if this was always the case but a lot of the issues we face socially are modern and artificial. They’re just as changeable so I really don’t care or acknowledge what women “find attractive” because what they “find attractive” is so different to what it was 50 years ago its not even comparable. Add another 100 or 1000 years and it’s even worse. Funny though men change very little, the only thing that’s changed is that men are more accepting of women’s bullshit and laziness so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:23 PM
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Why would a starving person have any sympathy for someone who eats cake everyday?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:14 PM
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Yeah it’s exact opposite, a usual man’s 7 is probably a 4 realistically. Overweight women are now seen as “curvy” and attractive regardless of how obese and out of shape she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:12 PM
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Thailand or Mexico
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 05:08 PM
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Just saying, we both don’t like whiners!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:04 PM
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Nah more of a Volcel miss Femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:03 PM
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lol can’t even admit that a large percentage of women do not care. There’s plenty of spaces IRL and on here where talking about Male issues will get you Incel listed and removed or lambasted. Or if you mention them they need to be addressed in a way that criticizes the patriarchy and still blames men in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:02 PM
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Or maybe there’s a lot of average looking good dudes that women straight up ignore and miss out on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:58 PM
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So you’d agree there’s plenty of women who hate hearing about mens issues
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:53 PM
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Same I find it extremely annoying when women do the same, women need to stop talking about and whining about their problems and fix them themselves. Wage Gap? Start working more Sexual Assault? You’re probably lying Body shaming? You won’t even date a fat dude lol Patriarchy? You wouldn’t have a quarter of the rights you do now if we truly lived a patriarchy. Women need to start taking accountability for their actions and stop being little princesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:51 PM
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Larp Mexicans are some the laziest MFs I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:16 AM
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Yep men are useless besides contributing and keeping society running.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:34 PM
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Again you’re spacing out this entire interaction like it took twenty minutes, they’re both awkward as shit and making the absolute worst out of it for the man ain’t helping shit Mr. White knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:32 PM
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Dude the entire interaction was like a minute lol I’d be understanding if this took like 5 minutes or more and he repeatedly refused every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:24 PM
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I’m sure you’d think so, stay at home in your dusty ass room Femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:11 PM
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She’s 18 end of discussion, regardless of how she looks is irrelevant, he obviously could tell and if you think otherwise you’re just again making the worst out of that interaction to victimize her. Yeah thank you for letting me know twice she just wants views and attention we know. Actually look at the comment section, there’s plenty of comments insinuating that she avoided something seriously bad and that he was some kinda predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:57 PM
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Dude she’s 18, that’s your fault if you think she “looked underage” she has plenty of screenshots and videos where she looks older. And here we go, said public community area is off limits for cold approaching #631, the public pool. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:50 PM
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1.) being seriously uncomfortable with that situation un ironically is some childish autistic ass shit and isn’t normal adult behavior. 2.) preceding to upload a clip of it and garner baby support from likeminded women who acted like a serial killer just missed her is some next level cringe shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:48 PM
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Are you listening to yourself? It’s a public pool, what are pools meant for? What do you think happens at shit like that? People talk and interact, that’s why they’re a thing. If you’re scared of people and don’t want the possibility of interacting with someone don’t go to the fucking pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:42 PM
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Jesus Christ that’s what you took from that? He’s probably high? Lmfao She fucking acts like she was, and her entire comment section is reinforcing that, that she was scared for her life because an evil predator approached her and had a 20 second interaction with her and left when asked. And if anything that video and the comment section proves that some stupid shit like calling police on men ain’t far fetched.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:39 PM
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I’m just extremely exhausted seeing women complain about men cold approaching them and acting like it’s literally the Holocaust and they’ve dodged a missile. Men can essentially never approach women unless it’s a very VERY specific instance in which they’re 100000% comfortable, or the man is overtly attractive and breaks any ridiculous rules she has.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:33 PM
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Dude he talks like a typical stoner/ sol cal guy, slow/with drawn out words. If you find that creepy avoid California and Washington. I’m not saying she can’t be nervous or she can’t reject him but acting scared for her life and preceding to upload the interaction as proof of her avoiding something is some LARP ass shit. Women love to imagine themselves as victims in the wrong situations, reading WAY too much into very small details.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:29 PM
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It’s 100% Larp regardless, if she’s that creeped out about something like that she shouldn’t be in public in the first place. Dude talked slow and sounded awkward and that’s about it, doesn’t = Drunk. Jesus I can’t imagine trembling in my boots during the day doing a live feed and having 1 person come to talk to me and precede to leave when asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:21 PM
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Lmfao how was he creepy? Because he sounded like a surfer dude and talked slow?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:17 PM
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Lmfao so when are men supposed to ask women out? Only in extremely specific instances where both parties know each other for months before hand? Fuck off, this has nothing to do with her being scared or creeped out, she thought he was ugly and wanted to make views out of it, she was literally in public during the day with a live feed. If she’s that afraid of public interactions with the opposite gender then she should never go in public period, she’s fucking 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:13 PM
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And the majority of men really do not care whether or not a woman has friends, I wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:24 AM
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Pretty dogshit because I work nearly everyday PM shift, I don’t get weekends off regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:25 PM
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That’s cool and all but women can be in the exact same situation and have absolutely no problem dating. Your post really only applies to average looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:09 PM
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Because “Chad” isn’t a different kind of human, he’s still just a man, be it a more attractive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:18 PM
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OK still haven’t given me the %rate in which women are sexually assaulted, raped, murdered in the United States. Instead you gave me an article about women who CLAIMED to have been sexually assaulted through online dating with self reported Surveys. Not gonna trust that BS, try again.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 05:24 PM
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Because the majority women don’t have problems IRL dating either. Because Dating as a woman is extremely easy. Again tell me the rate in which women are sexually assaulted, raped, Murdered in the United States.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 04:36 AM
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Yeah and you’re probably 5’1 lol
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 02:33 AM
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And what’s the rate in which women are kidnapped, raped, Sexually assaulted, and murdered? Seriously this kinda ridiculous logic is hilarious because women will still say this shit and then precede to go on 100 dates a year with various men. Stop the Scared-for-your-life LARP.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 02:31 AM
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Yep I was shocked for a second seeing how absolutely Mid she is, like it’s kinda ridiculous, then I realize the state of dating in the west and it falls into place.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 02:27 AM
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Yeah I agree, we as a society baby the shit out of women and view the majority of them, often times regardless of weight or appearance as attractive. Also it’s way more acceptable for women to use cosmetics to enhance their beauty such as makeup, wigs, extensions etc. and plastic surgery, then it is for men. Dudes who wear Wigs/Toupees, are seen as inherently ugly, inferior, and attempting to hide insecurities, dudes who wear makeup are seen as homosexual, dudes who get plastic surgery are genet…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:06 AM
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Lmfao she literally is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:15 AM
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And that’s 100% your opinion, he does the exact same thing to men who he disagrees with or finds dangerous, again in his mind he doesn’t hate women, he’s a conservative and wants society to adhere to traditional values which would be against things like career women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:52 PM
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How is Matt Walsh a good example? Matt is married with children and adheres to traditional/conservative values not MGTOW. You really seem to be mixing MGTOW and conservatives, one wants men to leave women and get out of marriages and relationships with women and other wants to push society to become more right wing, religious, traditional etc. which would ofc include things like marriage. The reason Matt Walsh would be against career women is because they aren’t a part of a traditional man/woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:51 PM
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Because he has views on society and isn’t a nihilist? He wants society to be more traditional, he doesn’t hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:45 PM
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Any woman in the modern age could be a “professional model”. My problem is constantly calling every random female stranger attractive which a lot of dudes do is a massive ego boost and leads to these women having these ridiculous ideas that they’re superior to vast majority of men.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 10:12 PM
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Honestly they look pretty average or slightly above. I wouldn’t call them ugly tho or 4s, that being said gotta be careful with calling women “attractive” since that implies they’re like 7-8-9s.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 07:50 PM
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Working out shouldn’t massively cause hair loss and taking Fin and Min would be good enough to counter that. Just don’t take anything like TRT and you’ll be fine hair wise.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 02:19 AM
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To being above average height? 100% yes.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 02:12 AM
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Curry being Indian? You’d probably slay in other Indian/SEA groups or overseas, start working out.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 02:10 AM
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6ft+ is a massive bonus regardless of what your face looks like.(unless you have a deformity) Ofc being in shape helps a lot too.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 01:40 AM
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You gotta stop sourcing me Anecdotal stories bro they’re mostly irrelevant. it’s not easy to follow the “oh just go to another country bro” advice. I never said that’s what you HAVE to do, you could also ask family members here or relatives over sea to help find someone and they could move themselves, I know it’s a bit different but I know plenty of Dominicans who’ve done this and have been successful. but it does mean that the language and cultural barriers are pretty high Dude it ain’t really …
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 12:22 AM
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Again your sources apply mostly to Asian men and women in western nations or those raised in western nations, which I agree with to a certain extent, yeah dating apps show that white men and women are mostly sought after, but you’re not going to find any studies or data that show that the majority of women in China, Japan, Indonesia, India prefer white men. Some Asian dude trying to pick up girls who was clearly raised in the US speaking English in an American accent ain’t helping shit.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 11:57 PM
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I really doubt that, your countries have far larger populations and more traditional values. I’m 100% certain you could find someone through family matches, the idea that most of those women are looking for a white man or some shit is just laughable, maybe some Asian, SE Asian/Indian women in western nations but again, you don’t need a white girl, stop obsessing over it, and yeah if an Asian woman is holding herself for a white dude she’s just as bad if not worse.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 11:36 PM
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Aight but it is a weird fucking obsession I see especially with Asians and Indians and how dating is hard, sorry but most white women probably aren’t interested in y’all, stop making your lives 1000x more harder and miserable trying to get with them.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 10:42 PM
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Lolz I only commented once and I gave a realistic hypothetical, women’s issues are the forefront of mainstream media and they’re so milktose to what men experience, the majority of men experience.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 08:36 PM
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Sure Jane. The men you’re only willing to talk to and engage with.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 08:29 PM
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Maybe don’t go out with Fuckboys….????
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 08:26 PM
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If women had the same problems as men they’d straight up be killing themselves on mass and it’d be nationwide coverage 24/7.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 08:26 PM
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and those changes are toxic and ridiculous.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 08:07 PM
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Except what’s considered “attractive” in the modern age is so ridiculously stupid that it’s hard to take it seriously. What we consider a high value man today is completely different to what they would back in the 50s.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 07:50 PM
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Ayup. And slowly implement policies, bans, laws, systems that would reinforce it, honestly I’d be 100% fine with a feudal society under a benevolent Monarch but that’s just me😕
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 10:43 PM
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For example, how would a government push for a more traditional society? Kinda summed it up already, we’d need to bring back stronger communities by having people in neighborhoods/towns set up more events, social gatherings especially for younger people to meet. Religion could also work, get people to go to church, studies, readings etc. and create more communities that way, church attendance is extremely low. Get people incentivized to start families younger, have children, with more tax breaks…
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:38 PM
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Ofc you only want the best of the best it’s 100% understandable.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:10 PM
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Return to a more traditional society, bring back actual communities, get rid of unhealthy foods, preservatives, find an alternative to plastics, other cancerous materials, End the Sexual Revolution, Ban Dating apps, get rid of investment companies like BlackRock and Vanguard, make Housing Affordable, incentivize having children, increase minimum wage, create a livable and balanced work-life system, push for people to get into shape etc. etc. etc. I could go on for ages Not an Incel tho Volcel co…
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 07:45 PM
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Nope, most men who post their honest grievances just want 1 looksmatched GF and that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:51 PM
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Irrelevant, still isn’t an accurate looksmatch for someone average or above.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 01:27 AM
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Half of those women are in their 40-50s and a large amount would be considered medically overweight. That isn’t my looksmatch, there’s no hypergamy involved in this, nice try.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 01:22 AM
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Are we just listing random shit? No ugly men don’t hate their looksmatch, their Looksmatch straight up deny them and force them to settle for people far lower then them. Average looking man, average height ,decent shape? Sorry best I can do for you is a 5’4 190 pounds woman with daddy issues, Makeup Cake, and multiple past partners.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 10:42 PM
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Hypergamy is only a man’s issue, women don’t deal with Hypergamy unless it’s a highly attractive man they’re fighting for. Women straight up find the majority of men unattractive and it’s 100% a manufactured thing resulting from the SR and post modern political BS.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 10:37 PM
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You mean like the majority of men?
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 10:17 PM
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Nope I’m talking about studies that say men overvalue themselves or overrate on a looks scale, waiting
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 02:21 AM
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Send me the links of whatever data you’re using because I doubt you’re using it properly
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 07:49 PM
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Massive fucking LARP
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 07:22 PM
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Lmfao so you’re saying it’s even worse? Fuck off, 99% of men I’ve talked to had a realistic idea of where they are on a looks scale. The same can’t be said for women, who un ironically believe they’re a 10.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 07:20 PM
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Except All women think they’re hot.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 06:32 PM
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It’s extremely dumb and contradictory for someone who monetizes their body to cry about sexual objectification. It’s even worse when she’s insulting men and calling them incels when that’s literally her target demographic.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 05:34 AM
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Except from what we know they probably were, Divorces have increased significantly, cheating, domestic abuse(which includes both genders), has also increased, and people generally say their romantic lives are pretty miserable compared to past generations. You gotta get rid of this notion that everyone in the past lived a shitty miserable life and women were slaves to their men.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 12:19 AM
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But it hasn’t been this significantly bad when it came to relationships/marriage. Most people were married off young, had realistic expectations and wants in a partner and they often got matched by other family members.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 11:59 PM
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Again it’s not just sex, yeah sex is a part of it but I think the majority of Incels/Volcels just want to be in loving relationships, if you can’t sympathize with that then that’s just a you problem. Obviously if you’re already in a relationship or soon to be in one I don’t expect you to throw down your panties and jump at them but I don’t see why women can’t look a good man who’s decently attractive and say themselves “yeah I’d date them or give them a chance”. Men can 100% sympathize with wome…
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 11:53 PM
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We’d have to change things culturally and reverse ideas like the sexual revolution which realistically ain’t gonna happen unless the government steps in and introduces more traditional systems.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 10:15 PM
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Humans need relationships and that includes GFs, BFs and yes Sex. As soon as men bring up sex women instantly shut down and stop caring, I think you can agree that everyone who’s a good person deserves love to some degree. And it’s usually not just sex, but an actual relationship with a woman, if it was just that men would be perfectly fine with hiring an escort or something and calling it a day.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 10:13 PM
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That’s a terrible fucking example dude the OF girl openly objectifies herself for monetary gain from the same loser incels she criticizes she can’t then turn around and say “ermm I don’t like it!” It’s either you hate all circumstances of it or you’re fine with it. If she didn’t monetize her body for pathetic lonely men I’d probably be open to take her seriously.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 10:04 PM
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I love it when OF girls cry about being sexually objectified like dumbass you’re the one who’s doing that yourself. Also she and the 100 other retards acting like male issues are constantly on the frontline board being talked about on mainstream media or some shit just because people on YouTube or Twitter are starting to talk about it, the massive fucking ego some women have. “Men have issues!?!? What about me!?!?!”
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 06:50 PM
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Dating Apps are the most popular way people attempt dating and to dismiss the results of it is moronic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:28 AM
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Uh yeah that doesn’t contradict my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:22 AM
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If you’re average and shy then just kys I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:00 AM
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The 12% is from successful relationships it isn’t 12% of the population. I never said people succeed the most from online dating just that most people attempt it. 30% or more have tried dating apps, that’s higher then the other ways like through friends or bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:57 PM
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Except it is lolz https://news.asu.edu/20220208-discoveries-online-dating-booming-changing-pandemic-era#:~:text=Online%20dating%20is%20the%20most,popular%20among%20people%20under%2030. https://news.stanford.edu/2019/08/21/online-dating-popular-way-u-s-couples-meet/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:44 PM
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I mean except it is, Online dating is 1# way people are dating in todays age so to completely disregard the outcomes of it isn’t based in reality. Yeah you might have a better chance IRL as a man meeting people through friends/family or finding people in groups/hobbies but so many people use online dating and it’s very accessible besides the paywalls. Also women’s standards are increasingly getting higher so dating apps might be the most extreme of that but it isn’t far IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:00 PM
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It’s classist to completely reduce someone based on how much money they make. We don’t live in a feudal society you’re not royalty, you’re not special. Unless the person was homeless or jobless and refused to work there really ain’t a indication of some underlying issue or problem. Some people get lucky, some people have nepotism involved, some people know a person, and therefore get a high paying job. Not everyone has the time or money to afford a higher education.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:02 AM
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It’s already kinda a thing with education and salary, Men are starting to make less then women and are going to college less and what’s the reaction to this? “Men are pathetic, stupid, and lazy and need to step up to compare to women, never lower your standards for a man who makes less”. It’s extremely classist and fucked up and it’s not like we expect them to date a bum they just don’t even consider a blue collar worker or someone who makes less.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 01:51 AM
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Ofc if a man points out a problem or hypocrisy with society he’s bitter lmfao easy mode mf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:49 PM
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Lol yes you 100% can women who have large hips genetically won’t really lose it from working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:48 PM
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Except one is based on health the other isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:47 PM
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Just like it’s stupid for women to deny men that aren’t taller then them right? Or is that perfectly fine? Is it acceptable that a woman who’s 5’7 will only date men who are 5’9 or above?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:02 AM
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Nope I’m saying you don’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:15 PM
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Sorry I still gotta call Larp.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:06 PM
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I’m calling LARP unless you’re 50 or have hypothyroidism you shouldn’t be chubby while claiming to work out and diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:52 PM
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Her entire comment wasn’t about women who are 40 she disagreed with OP then gave an example. I brought up overweight women because that’s usually the argument used by women as to why men are single, they don’t want to be with chubby/ fat women, which she then goes on to say I could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:50 PM
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Chubby=Fat you can’t still be chubby while working out and dieting properly. And being naturally curvy is completely different, I know irl a girl who has a very large waist and butt but works out and has a fit body. Not going to play games and act like being chubby is significantly better or isn’t unhealthy. Again why do I need to date down in order to find someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:43 PM
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Why I’m I being forced to date down as a man? “Plenty of chubby women work out” if you actually worked out and dieted you wouldn’t be chubby in the first place. This is why there’s a problem, why can’t I, a 23 year old in shape be able to find someone who’s also in decent shape and around the same age as me? My only options shouldn’t be older and overweight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:19 PM
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They don’t, they don’t on dating apps and they don’t IRL. If they did you wouldn’t have the situation young men are facing right now. And no I’m not going to get with an overweight woman, I’m in shape, do MMA classes, have an actual diet, I shouldn’t have to settle way down just to find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:50 PM
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God forbid said plain woman accepts an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:46 PM
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Way more then seeing the opposite, including weight into it I’ve barely seen fat dudes with skinny women, maybe if the dude is “husky”. But what I see more often is very average looking women with actually attractive men, ofc most women think the average man is ugly so it’s not much of a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:31 AM
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Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:24 AM
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100% agree I don’t care about casual sex or hook up, I want 1 person who loves me and that’s it. Problem is that’s just as much as a struggle to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:07 AM
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Yeah especially women, good luck finding the perfect niche dood she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:47 PM
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It’s unfortunate though that women can do this and still be rewarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:13 PM
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Except studies show we’re more unhappy then we were back then, things weren’t perfect but the idea that the past was this horrible dark and disgusting time like Hollywood portrays it with a filter is just bs. Yes there was wars, famines, murder etc. but guess what? We still have wars, famines murder etc. in todays age. And in some areas it’s worse then it was in the past. Societies had strict Caste systems and tighter smaller communities, The concept of dating wasn’t even a thing for the majorit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:27 PM
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We really need some government agency type shit that can sort people together based on values and history. I think Indonesia or Malaysia has some sorta federal dating system.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:29 AM
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It’s shallow because it offers ABSOLUTELY nothing and is isn’t an indicator for anything. I can damn near say for certain my requirements aren’t shallow, what I consider “pretty” isn’t that much. And besides basic things like weight I don’t have any weird preferences, I stopped really caring about “body counts” because finding another virgin especially a woman is damn near impossible. Nope I want women to kinda not be retarded? Have some decency and come to a self realization that things like he…
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 05:07 PM
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Yep pure shallowness and it’s 100% a requirement.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 04:47 PM
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I’m “offended” because height requirements offer absolutely nothing in dating or predict nothing. Its purely genetic, there’s nothing someone can do to change that and shutting off men, good men who are either you’re height or smaller is just pure narcissism and shallowness.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 04:41 PM
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This is such a wholesome 100 post but where do you find traditional women? Dating Apps? Lol nope. Clubs? Nope. Church? Maybe if you’re Christian. A kinda agree with all you’ve said but this predicates on the idea that finding a traditional woman ain’t hard or the classic “wait your turn and don’t look for them they’ll come to you” idea. Idk if this purely anecdotal but most woman who’ve come to me and shown a way more outwards interest were either extremely promiscuous and were notorious for goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:31 PM
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Good people 100% have a right to true happiness. You’ve never had difficulties with dating or finding someone so don’t act like you’d be perfectly A-OK being alone for 5+ years. Also the “1.5 men in a room of 10” doesn’t apply on such a wide range like a country. It’s not evenly distributed. There’s plenty of areas that probably have way less or more.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 04:12 PM
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Baby mode, Super easy mode. You’ve clearly despite having dumb expectations and requirements have had no problems dating or finding people irl or online. Goo Goo fucking gaa gaa.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 04:06 PM
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14.5%. Fourteen point five percent. In what galaxy is that not uncommon or rare? “Erm it’s not heckin super rare!”. Because you’re not dating in your own percentile, you’re holding yourself off and shutting down men who are either just as tall as you or smaller. Why do you act like you have some god given right to only date 6’> men lmfao?
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 04:05 PM
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Which is absolutely ridiculous, one being something you can change easily vs another that’s pure genetics.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 04:01 PM
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Where the hell are you getting this idea that the majority of men or very large percentile are 6’>? Only 14.5% of men are truly over 6 feet tall. You having some weird caveman lust for taller men is as ridiculous as someone wanting a woman who’s only 5’1 because she’s small and can dominated.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 03:59 PM
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Do you not understand what average means?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:24 PM
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Nope, nowhere is there a statistic that says the average person is currently in a relationship at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:44 PM
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Except im not fat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:40 PM
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Yeah there’s a lot women who play this game and it’s fucked up as shit. I remember watching a Tik Tok video where a woman admitted to doing to this for like a month or something and got almost all of her dinner payed for which saved her thousands. It’s extremely predatory, narcissistic and it’s one of the main reasons I stopped doing online dating. Free movie dates/dinner dates that lead to nowhere+ghosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:50 AM
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Lmfao yeah sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:10 AM
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And what would be the opposite of this? A matriarchal society where men have zero role in governance and a smaller role in family management and precede to die in thousands in war as slave soldiers. And don’t give me the “erm there wouldn’t be any wars with women in control!” That’s an extremely ridiculous idea and concept. Overall Matriarchal Societies suck, are not of worth or note in humanity’s history, and are a dream for raging feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:57 PM
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It’s just weird that in human societies from the dawn of time we’ve almost all entirely had patriarchal caste systems. Europeans, Semites, Asians Etc. All had very similar governmental bodies. I can’t give you an exact answer because I haven’t 1000% researched into this but I’d assume it’s due to men being better leaders, physically more capable, and having a large percentage of the male population who are warriors not given control of a system they’re willing to die for probably isn’t a good id…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:44 PM
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Yeah except it’s never happened and for a good reason. The only societies that tried this were random African Tribal groups or South American natives, no actual civilization of note did this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:35 PM
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I think what’s considered attractive for men is usually downplayed to an absolute extreme. A lot of average looking guys or even good looking guys get called ugly and below average for the slightest things like slight body fat or hair, height, whatever it may be. This is why so many people come to this weird conclusion of “ugly men with hot women” and that it is very possible for guys with lesser looks to get women.Finding examples of couples like this where the dude is actually very ugly is har…
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 06:18 PM
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Except we have more female ancestors and women were spared from the worst aspects of society. Pre modern society wasn’t a utopia for men it was ruled by a powerful aristocratic class of people which included men and women and there’s been historical studies that show women in power were more eager to go to war.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:30 PM
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You can keep being in denial but she 100% is she’s obese. She isn’t revealing what her diet is but I’m sure it’s not healthy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:47 PM
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I never said she was going to die soon, I said she’s opening herself to more and potential health issues, it could be anything from back issues, knee pain, Diabetes, High blood pressure and more unfortunate issues like heart attacks, which can kill you. The more overweight you are the harder your life becomes. A lot of these problems are gradual and take years to manifest but the older you are the more common they become and are usually more severe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:38 PM
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It was an honest observation and guess I’m getting from OP nothing personal about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:05 PM
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If she keeps that weight or gains more she’ll be more at risk for various health problems down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:54 PM
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What do you think that means lol you think he just gives men a pass? Obesity is a major problem for both men and women in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:50 PM
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Yeah an overweight woman wrote this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:49 PM
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Yeah that’s all how relationships work…. But there’s a clear difference between a man who only wants sex and one who wants more. Y’all should be wizards when it comes to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:10 PM
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MOD cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:08 PM
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I think it should be pretty obvious for the most part which men do and don’t want only sex. Especially when all I hear is how amazing women are when it comes to understanding emotions and feelings how people really are, or knowing which men are virgins/addicted to porn. I don’t really have too much sympathy for someone who gets to eat cake then has it taken away from them from time to time compared to someone who never really had it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:41 PM
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That’s cool bro so how do you recommend men meeting single women besides dating apps? Also your rant on what you can do only works if you actually have weekends or some shit off regularly. I don’t think you understand a work schedule like mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:31 PM
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Um not all but there’s literally a lot who do lol I’m mostly criticizing the fact women will put little to no effort into initiating conversation, asking men out themselves, or being interesting and precede to still be rewarded with dates and relationships. Dating shouldn’t be a interview process for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:25 PM
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That sounds fine, I like to camp and hike when I get the chance too but I work nearly everyday especially during the summer, I don’t have the time or days during the week where I can just take a Wednesday or Monday off and mess around. Most jobs that pay well and don’t require a college education have similar work schedules and it’s becoming more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:15 PM
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Not everyone is an “interesting person” what’s wrong with a man who works a 9-5 job comes home, plays videos games or workouts, hangs around then calls it a day? Not everyone has the luxury to fuck around everyday or go on trips/vacations regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:08 PM
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Thank you for at least conceding that a decent part of it is in fact luck. I’m working on that now but with my current job I nearly work everyday and it’s hard to plan things or get the energy to do something on like one day after a week/2week period, trying to find another job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:58 PM
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There’s plenty of luck involved, not every friend is gonna have another female single friend they can invite or have a gf who’s friend comes along. Yes there’s plenty of effort you have to put in but it’s not all just “wait your turn and make a massive social circle”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:54 PM
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Hopefully I get female results? I’d love to do practically nothing besides dolling myself up!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:51 PM
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Cope. “I make myself pretty therefore you need to do all the talking and initiating!” I also spend hundreds on skincare and hair products does that mean I get to do practically nothing and wait for someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:51 PM
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Except she won’t of course, I need to show my worth to my maiden damsel correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:39 PM
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Except the standard for what’s attractive to woman is at a ridiculous level regardless if the most radical numbers are on dating apps I’m sure IRL it’s not that far behind. Men’s standards haven’t changed and I know plenty of men who are perfectly fine with curver chubbier women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:22 PM
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Yeah be a fucking telepath and maybe be lucky on the 7th time you see her and try your hardest to be interesting/interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:14 PM
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So just get lucky and maybe find someone at a party or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:09 PM
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So you care more about the individual then overall society? I’m sure that definitely relates to your politics coughs neoliberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:46 PM
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Comparing Bonobos to humans is kinda dumb if anything we’re more naturally/historically like Chimps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:43 PM
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I’d rather just find one person thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:46 PM
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I find the height requirement to be such a Cave-man like preference lol “ugh me woman need tall man for protection and make me feel safe!” Like you live in the fucking 21st century and you’re acting like he’s gonna have to be fighting a pack of wolves at any moment and NEEDS to be bigger/stronger to fend them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:36 PM
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Which isn’t enough to a lot of women. The 6ft> only club is a real thing and it subscribes to only a small percentage of world’s population.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:32 PM
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I’m assuming you’re also unattractive then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:03 AM
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Yeah the men who do this are overtly physically attractive and have had zero problems dating or finding women. Your average man who just wants to a find someone is not some sexual predator who pumps and dumps the second they get a hold of a woman. A challenge i love to ask women who talk about toxic men like this especially their own experiences is to post photos of these guys to get a look at what they look like. 8/10 times(if they actually post) they’re very good looking or are in amazing shap…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:00 AM
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Nope Data shows women(people in general) who’ve had more partners have more sexual dissatisfaction over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:46 AM
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Witawwy me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:12 PM
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Except what if you aren’t? I’m in good shape, make a good amount of money for my age and my prospects for potential dates are terrible, and the only outlet I have for dating is dating apps where most of the people who right swipe on me are very overweight or unattractive women. The same can’t be said for women, you can be painfully average and still land dates with semi attractive men. I also think we as a society tend to overvalue women’s beauty and underestimate men. A woman has a ability to “…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:01 PM
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Ayup and the amount of men I know who really don’t give a shit about a woman’s body or actually like chubby/Curver women just makes it better for them. It took me a year to get a pretty decent physique to get my diet done right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:37 AM
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Ah man I love it when women ignore Dating App statistics despite being the #1 young people meet and date and by a long shot. Most women find 80%-90% of men physically unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:51 PM
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Ah yes the “I put on makeup” argument for women’s contribution to dating lol. I probably use more skincare and hair products then women does that give additional points in a relationship or should increase my chances of finding someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:56 PM
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Except dating apps are the number 1 way people are finding dates and looking for other people. It doesn’t even come close to others IRL ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:45 PM
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What if I don’t defend or care for a free market and don’t like a “free sexual market”?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:50 AM
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All of this besides Therapy, Modern Therapy is catered to women and women-esc issues and solutions. Most men want answers as why they suck and then a friend to help them improve, we don’t need to sit for 2+ hours talking about how our mommy and daddy didn’t love us and how this affects our emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:47 PM
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Lolz if you seriously believe being progressive is gonna make women like men you’re out of your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:41 PM
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That’s a terrible comparison/example. She didn’t put herself in that situation and the person who assaulted her deserves to die. Try again bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:44 PM
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Yeah and the fact you can’t understand that people should have common sense and not put themselves in bad situations is beyond sad it’s pathetic. I don’t disagree with you anyways, obviously rapists are at fault for rape and nobody else. In fact I probably want harsher sentencing for rape then you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:35 PM
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Lmfao thanks for proving my point, no I’m not asking to be robbed but again, common sense would say that would be a terrible idea. Also I wasn’t equating a hundred dollar bill to a woman’s body lol I was just trying to give an example. Your hatred towards men is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:01 PM
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Am I asking to be robbed when I wave hundred dollar bills above my head in a poor neighborhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:54 PM
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Yeah and that’s a dumb fucking thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:39 PM
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Yeah that’s a club and that’s what fuckboys do at clubs, genuine awkward/shy men are not gonna do shit like that to women or even be at a club in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:35 PM
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Yep I’m asking where’s the limit to all of this, a man who’s genuinely awkward and not creepy is going to have a harder time understanding a woman’s mind games. You not telling him you’re not interested and preceding to waste time or even continuing to flirt will make things worse, please don’t act like a guy who’ve you described as awkward is gonna understand when I know most men suck as understanding shit like this in general lol. I’ve had bad experiences years ago where I was being “creepy” b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:14 PM
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That’s cool bro I’m just stating fact, obviously I’m not interested in women like that, especially who care so much about little things like that. Just saying they’re gonna have a much harder time in life and miss out on actual good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:02 PM
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I didn’t say they were sexually successful, just that they aren’t “awkward” also who the fuck is still going to clubs in 2023 lolz some trashy MFs go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:59 PM
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Nobodies saying they aren’t but adding alcohol and drugs to the equation and using them irresponsibly around other people especially strangers is just a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:57 PM
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Depends entirely on how “awkward” someone is, if their awkwardness is completely impeding the way they talk and function then ofc no, but if someone is stumbling words, shy, isn’t extremely charismatic from the get go then there’s nothing wrong with that, most people who are like that just need time to get to know a person before they open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:53 PM
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I’m sorry to relay this information to you but there’s something called common sense. If I wave 100 dollar bills above my head in a ghetto and someone punch’s me in the gut and steals them that isn’t my fault but common sense would say that was a terrible idea to do in the first place. So if a woman decides to go a massive party filled with strangers or a very large ratio of strangers, drinks uncontrollably, wears extremely revealing clothing with other drunk men around, and precedes to be sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:48 PM
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Nope it’s reality, Especially if it’s some nonsense like interests or aesthetics over things like values and principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:41 PM
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So if the awkward guy doesn’t understand the piss poor signals you’re giving him that you’re not interested does he become a creepy guy then? Would appreciate women just openly telling men they aren’t interested rather then trying to telepathically tell us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:28 PM
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I’m glad you’re comparing some slightly awkward guy to a club bro who gropes you, because I’m sure he’d definitely be at a club in the first place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:25 PM
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In reason, I’ve seen picky women try to find their “perfect” man only to end up with a sociopath or complete douchebag that acts like a robot, but at least all his interests match mine!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:19 PM
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Besides dating apps do you have accounts on sites like instagram, twitter, Facebook? The best success I’ve had in dating has been on Social Media that isn’t dating focused and meeting people through IRL friends and parties. Bars fucking suck ass especially if you go alone. Yeah dating apps suck regardless of how attractive you are as man, like if you wanna hook up with random girls and have 1 night stands sure but I’m in the same boat as you in wanting actual relationships that go somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:00 AM
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Oh is this a very basic thing? Yeah 100% FemLarp, I’m not conceding on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:28 AM
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Yeah no, sorry but I’m not gonna trust 4th wave feminist and progressive self surveys over Crime Statistics. I’m sure there are plenty of cases not reported but it’s nothing like what you’re saying it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:14 AM
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Is that self reported or actual FBI statistics based on arrests and sentencing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:35 AM
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Yeah the rate in which women are kidnapped or assaulted on dates is probably so low that it’s pointless to even talk about it. The majority of men know better and have every intention of not harming you lol. “Sure women get more matches who cares” Men who struggle to get even a single match a week cares, your occasional Douchebag trying for casual sex is not the norm. And no, the average man who’s looking for genuine relationships with women are not in fact having an easy time. Every piece of da…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:21 PM
1

It’s just something overall I think needs to be fixed, people are becoming more and more obese specifically men and it’s probably contributing to a lot of women not finding men attractive. That and it’s unhealthy and leading to various health issues and drug dependence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:08 PM
2

Stability and happiness for most people is a nightmare? You kinda sound like a narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:47 PM
2

Yeah do we make policy based on what a small minority thinks and believes? I never said 100% of people would be happier, just the vast majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:35 PM
1

Hahaha how is YOUR personal life anecdotal? Man hahahha. Most people aren’t in bisexual open relationships and most people who probably are are probably very unhappy and depressed, sure I could find multiple studies on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:24 PM
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Oh man I’m glad we’re using anecdotal evidence to support what works and doesn’t work for society lmfao. Sorry to explain this to you but your personal experiences don’t trump the 99%.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:19 PM
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Because it would? “Let people enjoy things” isn’t working for western society and there’s nothing you can source or give me that proves so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:13 PM
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Yeah that’s a given because they aren’t having children lol, that’s just a piece of the pie and they still aren’t happier then people with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:07 PM
2

Yeah “let people enjoy things” isn’t working out for society and if showed that it did I wouldn’t care. Nice straw man dweeb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:05 PM
3

First of all why is a homosexual man in a conversation about straight relationships? Second of all I’m going off what’s statistically proven to work, Households with stable marriages and monogamous relationships are happier, financially better, and with kids result in a better upbringing. Children in single parent homes are WAY more likely to be involved in crime, drop out of school, have depression, Commit suicide, etc etc. Third people who engage in rapid casual sex and have had multiple partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:02 PM
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Oh man why do I, a human being a part of society want people to change their lives? Maybe because I care? Maybe because I see the insanity that’s taking place and I want it to stop? Maybe because I want people to be truly be happy and not just “happy” in the moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:45 PM
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More casual sex is bad period, I want people to return to more tradition standards, lose weight, become responsible, and form meaningful and long term relationships and marriages that are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:13 PM
4

I’m angry at our collective experiences we have in our post modern post sexual revolution world that’s resulted in more people being unhappy, depressed, divorced and cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:03 PM
3

Because CHAD isn’t living up to her standards and the majority of men are invisible to her. Great, like you finally figured out charismatic douchebags don’t care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:16 PM
4

Amazing English.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:10 PM
6

Yep but would you rather prefer a woman who’s had 30+ bodies or one who’s had 0-4?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:40 PM
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Unfortunately many women don’t understand this and will continue to sleep with men, “date” them for a few months then be dumped or cheated on and precede with the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:35 PM
3

It’s still extremely low, like sure it’s gotten “better” but if you think that any of that matters when male singleness and loneliness is rising to alarming rates then you’re very mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:04 PM
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Your anecdotal story isn’t the average it’s not as common for women to get with someone making less then them it’s maybe around 20% and many women who do find It very uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:09 PM
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there’s plenty of statistical and anecdotal evidence that shows rich men getting with and marrying women of a lower class. It’s extremely rare for women to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:52 PM
2

A lot of women don’t have “needs a job” as a requirement, it’s make more money then me regardless of how much I make.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:50 PM
1

Here we go again, they look pretty fucking average dude like if you find them cute sure but you gotta stop acting like most women are 8-9s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:47 PM
1

Yeah I don’t specifically blame one group but I think it’s fair to call out women who engage in toxic relationships or dating goals like sugar-daddys or massive check lists(then preceding to give up and get with a guy who checks off half of it and ends up being a sociopath or douchebag).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:03 PM
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That’s exactly what I want to do, I think the men who obsess over women like this are pathetic and in the case of OF miserably lonely. That being said I have every right to call out the women involved in this or the state of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:20 PM
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Not literally to that extent, no you heckin got me lol, I’m talking about women in general, not trying to move the goalpost, there’s a lot of average women with WAY too much attention then they probably deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:11 AM
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I’m sure there’s plenty of Instagram “models” and other Internet personalities that score more then him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:52 AM
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How do you explain OF, Instagram,Tik Tok,dating apps, etc.? Women for being just women receive more attention,Fame, and money then musical artists, Sports Stars, and politicians. You can’t say they don’t. I’m not specifically blaming women or saying this is entirely their fault, just saying society and media is completely insane and our priorities aren’t straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:50 AM
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I know, it’s just ridiculous regardless that women get attention comparable to top music artists just for simply being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:09 PM
2

“I took the road first” lol women will straight up look for men who are rich and completely above them in class and status for monetary gain, don’t act like that’s not a thing. And that’s been inflated to the extreme in post modern society. And baby making is a necessary function that NEEDS to happen, again what society on earth EVER had this large of its population not forming relationships and survived?. And you’re implying i want below average men or men who are extremely unattractive to be w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:38 PM
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Man it’s really sad that we’ve gotten to the point we’re comparing the Beatles to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:09 PM
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Man it’s hard to take feminists seriously when you liken everything to the Handmaid’s Tale. No I don’t expect you to be subservient slaves to your husband, but I do expect you as a human being, to care about your fellow man and society in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:09 AM
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Yeah if you want an actual functioning society people NEED to make children and pair up accordingly. I’m trying to think of a single nation in history that had anything similar to what we have today and survived.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:14 AM
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Why do we “blame women”? I don’t think it’s necessarily fair to blame women but it’s something that isn’t benefitting society as a whole and is a problem. Humans for almost the entirety of known history formed relationships based on caste, very rarely did people look down or up, so there was obvious expectations people had and social cohesion. Now almost all of that has been thrown out and it’s based on a cave-man level of attraction or resource possession. If you want to have an actual function…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:02 AM
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