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DiscussionMormanade/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:40 AM
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Bro this entire subreddit is men commenting on woman's dating life and woman commenting on men's dating life while neither caring about either perspectives. Just a bunch of lonely losers arguing against eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:54 PM
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No but it is also irrational to claim another person's statements are invalid and requiring evidence while not having your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:53 PM
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A company doesn't care if obesity is bad, they just wanna sell more clothes. Tbh, obesity serves to the advantage of many companies; Fitness industry, clothing, and medical all recieve advantages from obesity. More so on a personal level it just sucks but humans are kinda expendable in a capitalistic society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:44 PM
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Do you? Outside linking OLD statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:41 PM
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I mean taking 1 into account, this excludes 40% of men lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:35 PM
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A portion of people on this planet, both guys and girls, are super focused on physicality and lack sociality. It can't really tell them to fix this because they've grown up their entire life focusing on what their eyes says rather than what their mind does. People are attracted to people similar to them, not necessarily in hobbies but morals and brain chemistry imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:22 PM
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Yeah cuz loser simps pump and dump them, ruining it for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:05 PM
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Anyone know the movie? The fighting got me invested 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:11 AM
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I mean girls in Japan actually do moan like the porn depicts. Its actually true, maybe you just haven't been to Japan and slept with any Japanese girls to verify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:03 AM
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Because this subreddit is full of hurt, delusional people and quite frankly it's irritating more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:33 PM
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This is the crazy generalizations that PPD is known for. Assume every attractive person is nice to women. In reality some are nice to woman, some aren't because the halo effect means they don't have to be as nice. And many girls don't like simps, some do some don't. How do you make a statement like that and apply it to every single attractive guy in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:32 PM
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Anyone who unironically comments on a gender war is overgeneralizing and projecting their insecurities onto others. If you are ugly then work to be more attractive; plastic surgery, dress better, go to the gym. If your social skills are ass then go meet new people; bars, clubs, parks, sports. Sitting on this forum bitching about a gender not treating you right is equivalent of being broke and complaining that billionaires are stealing all the money. Yeah it sucks but do something about it, you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:32 AM
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I'm laughing bc you are wallowing in misery here instead of meeting new people and having new experiences. You being here does fucking nothing for you, it just means you've accepted defeat. You compare yourself to other people rather than making your own identity bc some rejection got to your mental too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:28 AM
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Incels and femcels have come out in full force and I am here to enjoy the entirety of it while reddit is in it's blackout 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:27 AM
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Imo woman want a guy with confidence and a lot of nice guys are too nice and project their lack of confidence. Inversely, a lot of confident guys (who actively hit on girls) are assholes who don't make great long term partners. The nice, confident people are the ones who always end up having partners and is the reason why the dating market is so toxic to begin with. Anecdotally speaking, lots of girls get super excited the moment they meet me (in person, my text game is horrible lol) but I'm als…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:23 AM
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Facts I need more, someone give us a name!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:44 PM
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Dad-pill based
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:40 PM
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She was 19 and outside the vitamin b12. She was also taking birth control (non-estrogen one due to factor 5), so maybe that influenced it. Reguardless vitamin b is water soluble meaning any excess comes out through urine so it doesn't hurt to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:42 PM
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I mean, men do this to other men more than women. People have done it to me, and I'm guilty of doing it to other dudes in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:40 PM
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You'd also know that evolution often mates defectives too because 1) Best genes don't always reproduce, 2) Substantial change requires hundreds of thousands of years to happen, and 3) Most people who aren't on the internet all day are having real life experiences and growing from it. This subreddit is a echochamber where Men and Woman wallow in their problems instead of learning how to become a better partner. You know part of evolution is behavioral too? What kinda girl would wanna mate with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:37 PM
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I think I understand the issue. You are rationalizing the process of having emotions but its impossible to do this. You can rationalize how you came to have the emotions you do but ultimately our emotions are built up from our surroundings and are generally uncontrollable. I think you might be a sociopath because you have an inability to understand the process of other people being emotional because you are filtering it through your lense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:08 AM
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I get that man, I started low, too banging a lot of 2's and 3's, way below my league, but every guy got to start somewhere. Girls date guys hotter than them, get pumped and dump, and learn to lower their standards. Guys pump and dump uglier girls, then raise the standards. Both sides suffer from different problems, and the world really isn't equal. Honestly, 70% of the population is kinda trash for dating (super self-centered, very boring, sociopath, dirt poor), and that's just part of the game.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:50 PM
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If you aren't meeting or talking to people irl then you aren't bettering your social skills. Talking to people on reddit isn't an acceptable replacement. I can guarantee a decent portion of this sub has maybe 1-2 friends at most irl and is banking their happiness off OLD. Yeah, I use OLD too, but I'm also a hot guy, and the vast majority of people on reddit/ Tinder are not in the same position as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:14 PM
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This is giving off terminally online vibes. If you are decent looking then they absolutely do, dudes just pump and dump them so they get trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:51 PM
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At the end of the day, the argument boils down to "woman get more attention and sex than men." However, with that attention comes shallow sexual attraction (pump and dump), unwanted catcalling/harassment, and the dangers that men (Especially insecure ones) can bring. The hottest women and men have it easier, this much should be obvious. But its the same arguments over and over again and people using OLD statistics is the most cringe thing you could ever do to define attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:06 PM
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Everytime I see this statistic I cringe. 1) Men on OLD are usually very sex hungry, 2) There are more men than women in OLD giving women more options, and 3) People who are OLD are probably not the most charismatic people to begin with as if they were, they'd probably meet people in real life. Like no shit woman will be more judgemental in OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:48 PM
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The internet + social media has made anything that isn't in the top 10% look like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:29 PM
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This makes a lot of sense, especially anecdotally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:23 PM
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Social media and OLD makes everyone think and want to do better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:14 PM
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I don't think women want a playboy. I think they want someone who is attractive and they probably have preferences for height and penis size. They still want the guy to be nice to them, they don't wanna date an asshole. The problem is nicer guys are usually less attractive, smaller dicks, non-confident personality along with self-esteem issues, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:47 PM
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I think AI chat bots can be helpful for improving social skills and early relationships but until the year 2100 when they have advanced learning personalities, it isn't healthy and most won't be satisfied with it outside the few who gave up on the dating scene and could care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:24 PM
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Most normal people don't spend hours complaining to people on social media and just talk about it with their friends and family from my experience. Yeah some do but people who are terminally online are probably not mentally healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:11 PM
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Yeah but some girls are always gonna do this. Some girls want to be validated by their bodies and some want to be able to profit off it. Only fans is a symptom, not a cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:45 AM
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Fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:18 AM
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Is this your response so you don't have to read or respond to my message? Lmao, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:53 AM
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Oh I can play this game too of searching for specific studies that fit my narrative! https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/00221465221109634 Study found that men and boys on average experience more social isolation than woman https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/per.2220 A Study of 399,748 individuals finds no substantial gender difference in loneliness https://academic.oup.com/aje/article/188/1/102/5133254 This Study found that both white men and woman are 25% and 26% higher risk …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:19 AM
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I go to this thread for entertainment but I imagine that someone who is healthy able to cultivate relationships is probably not the kinda person to go to this sub. It's probably a mix of dysfunctional personalities, ugly people, and people who got hurt once so base their generalizations onto an gender because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:15 AM
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I don't get this, how are you comparing female to female and men to men socialization. Men are lonely and need friends. Women get lonely need friends. Equating one as more valuable than the other seems ridiculous. Anyone who spends enough time isolated alone goes insane. Just because more men are into cars and videogames doesn't translate into a lower need of socialization with friends. Usually, guys are doing these hobbies with friends. This screams generalization but if it helps you contextual…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:10 AM
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Your body needs vitamin b12 for DNA synthesis and keeps your brain and nerves healthy. In addition, you excrete any excess through Urine so there really isn't any downsides to taking it. Idk my girlfriend was the one who researched it but she said someone with a cups who grew to a high C wrote a book and apparently the two things that helped the most is vitamin b12 and oils. I couldn't tell you the name of the book though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:04 AM
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I'm in college, I'm not in high school anymore and it's been largely the same as my high school experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:29 PM
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If you are a guy and you have no guy friends then you are probably depressed, speaking from experience here. Friends is a human requirement unless you are part of the 0.1% that's introverted enough not to have any.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:22 PM
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Wait, are you agreeing or disagreeing with me? I'm so confused at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:14 PM
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I swear to God I was waiting for Andrew Tates name to come up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:07 PM
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You also have to consider that people don't want to settle. Many men are willing to commit but if they don't feel a girl is compatible enough (I.E sex drive, looks, personality) then it's just a person to sleep with. No one should ever have to commit with someone they don't enjoy spending time that much with because that involves possibly spending the rest of their lives with each other (which is unfair to both of them). Divorce rates are already high enough as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:59 PM
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Woman always will have some advantages over woman and men will have some advantages over woman. What we often end up seeing is the top 20% of each gender exercising their advantages over the upper 50% of the other gender and everyone under this ends up bitching about it bc it sucks to lose. I honestly think Men and women are pretty equal right now, women are eclipsing men in college degrees and are now no longer reliant on men anymore. But, I don't think it's possible to EVER achieve full equali…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:57 PM
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I think this entire subreddit is baseless generalizations lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:40 PM
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I think Over_North is right, your first point had nothing to do with the question (implying it was non-sequiter). Your second point talked about how OP uses sex as a reward but this was never mentioned in the original post. Instead it was about woman not requiring to have sex and can use it as a method of filtering who they want to date. I think you are a fool and you have no idea how to deal with cognitive dissonance. It's ok though, most people struggle with it. Edit: First point, not question
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:28 PM
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Woman can dominate men too, I'm way bigger than my gf but she is still a dom and I'm still a sub. That last point seems like you are reaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:20 PM
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Not everyone is ready to settle down and not everyone is ready to date. If I didn't want to commit for the next couple years, does that mean I should take myself off the dating market and not sleep in any woman? Or, I can do whatever I want and sleep with woman because I dont want to settle down yet. Age is a big factor too, a person at 25 is gonna be a lot more willing to commit than a 20 year old will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:16 PM
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Idk if you are hot and have a big penis then girls will sleep with you on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:11 PM
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Among male friend groups, usually body count/having sex with hot people gives them a popularity and ego boost. There are likely a lot of men who have low self esteem and compare themselves to dudes who sleep around. I'd imagine it's different in a female friend groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:40 PM
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Gender roles and norms are a part of it but really there are physical differences and evolutionary behavior differences as well that separates the two. Take for example height. Woman are on average ~5inches shorter for woman. That means that as a woman, you are likely going to feel less safe compared to men who are naturally taller and stronger. Similarly, woman may be judged if they select a partner shorter then them so they tend to select someone the same height or taller. Of course there will…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:37 PM
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Vitamine B12 if you want to increase your boob size, 1000mg a day. My gf did it and so far she jumped from a mid b to a mid c. Idc you believe me but I'm spreading the knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:17 PM
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Woman are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of relationships. There are exceptions but this is the trend and I don't see it stopping anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:14 PM
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I didn't even talk to girls until college and by the end of it (senior year) I was fine and pretty normal with them. Granted I was in a fraternity and I'm very fit so that probably helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:51 PM
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While races do share cultures and I'd imagine share similar characteristics, habits, and intrests because of it. Reguardless, these topics will never be discussed outside academia because everyone is too hypersensitive and we are conditioned to only punch up (cis hetero white males). Even if it's just discussion rather than insults, people assume the worst when they see anything mentioned about race and get cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:50 PM
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Are you saying that men should only have 2 dads or woman should only have daughters and abort their sons? Either is super fucked and sounds like a fair time out tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:34 PM
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Worst opinon in this entire thread lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:29 PM
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I don't think they are referring to modern societies but how things used to be, there is likely communication mishaps going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:25 PM
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Literally not true and I say this as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:12 PM
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You just said lived in groups which goes against the no protection thing. I think you are experiencing cognitive dissonance. No one is saying modern pregnant woman need men's protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:05 PM
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It was hypothesized that hunter gather societies used to be much more cooperative but competition made those type of societies extinct. If all men were gone, you wouldn't be able to defend against attacks from neighboring tribes, they would probably plunder your farms + harvest your resources, rape the woman then leave. Its not gonna happen in a day but assuming a tribe isn't going to attack an undefended yet resource rich area forever is just unreasonable. Fuck just look at the Mongols and how …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:02 PM
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Evolutionary-wise it can make substantial difference based off which off spring are surviving. Also evolution isn't crunching numbers like you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:57 PM
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Should also add that people usually shrink as they age, my grandpa used to be 6' but he's around 5'8" now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:55 PM
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Wdym girls do this too lol, it's a generational thing where people expect everyone to cave to them rather than themselves conforming/self-improving to a degree. Its called main character syndrome and it's not male exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:49 PM
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True, in general insecure people will have fragile egos and I shouldn't have to mention how many insecure men and women are out there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:47 PM
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Not every dudes #1 goal in life is to be rich and not every girls #1 factor in a guy is his income. Yeah you should be able to get by but you really don't need to be rich in order to get takes. Legit just be attractive and have a good personality. Honestly I talked to my gf about it and she told me that most nice guys are ugly and the hot ones are usually assholes so if you are hot and nice then you are a rarity and a high value man. Speaking from experience here brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:41 PM
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Obesity rates were 42.4% in 2022 and its expected to rise to 50% in 2030 (in the U.S). That being said, it's a worldwide epidemic and it's happening everywhere with the number of obese people doubling in EU countries (I.E Croatia, Germany, UK, etc.). This is not just an American problem, it just happened in America first, similar to how we first saw a reduction in birthrates in Japan before it happened to other nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:37 PM
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My gf has mid C's and she can't even see her feet dog. She isn't obese. Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:33 PM
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Not the kinda boobs I want lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:32 AM
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She could just have a big chest tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:18 AM
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It's literally just the halo effect. If you are attractive then awkwardness turns into quirks, even just receiving a smile back will factor in attractiveness and some personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:12 AM
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Yall should look into a term called, "The Halo Effect"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:41 PM
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The expression is saying one person is going to get more attached and whoever is less attached has more power. Who do you think is more likely to hold the power in a relationship, the person who cares or the person who doesn't? If the person who cares doesn't put in a large amount of effort, the person who cares less has a higher likelihood of leaving. The lower amount of effort is proportional to the power they hold in the relationships. Believe it or not, most relationships aren't equal. Usual…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:00 AM
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You can still be safe while being fun man. My gf likes to be choked, pushed and grabbed and made it very clear about this. Not everyone wants vanilla sex, do it enough and it can start to get boring for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:29 AM
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Not sure if this is the case but girls also ask for anal if you got a somewhat below average dick. It might be more pleasurable than PIV sex if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:53 AM
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Woman get easy sex but thats it. They don't have an easier time with relationships. Why do you hear the saying, "All men want is sex?" Because thats the average female dating experience. You get these guys who fuck you and leave, dating apps are the epitome of this. I've even done this myself to other girls (Regretfully). Sex does not bring happiness. Guys have to deal with a struggle for attention while girls get attention for all the wrong reasons, they are basically viewed as objects. Men do …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:33 PM
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Sex matters most to the people who don't get any woman. I know plenty of dudes who are tired of hookups and are just trying to find something real. Loads of virgins think this but the reality is even after smash, when the girl leaves you it's the same feelings. Sex is overrated if it's with the wrong person, just trust me on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:37 AM
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Difference was men were willing to date down. Of course, this came with the gender standard of appearance being essential for a woman. Now that things are beginning to reverse, woman are going to have to start dating down too. Of course, the alternative is competing with other woman for the fewer educated men. They can also stay single but everyone knows the vast majority of woman do not want to stay single their entire life, we can see this just by woman ages 40-59 being the biggest group user …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:25 AM
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Not gonna lie prohibition is definitely not a good approach. This is how you alienate crowds (rather than attempting to incorporate them).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:20 AM
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You have to think about it like musical chairs. Using the current ratio of 2:3, or 40% men and 60% woman. 20% of men will find a relationship with 20% of woman. That leaves us with a 1:2 ratio where there are now 2 woman competing for every individual guy and thats not accounting for the unattractive/weird ones that woman don't really want to date or lgbtq+ stuff. This is going to be very intresting in times to come. Keep in mind that there are still a significant amount of woman going into lowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:01 AM
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Americans are so used to seeing overweight people they perceive it as normal at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:33 PM
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Don't have to be a woman to be an arrogant feminist.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 05:58 PM
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Why post in r/seduction? This seems better suited for r/dating_advice.
/r/seduction27/05/22 03:19 AM
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Sounds like immature fangirl, she is cheering for you and expects special treatment. Not sure tbh.
/r/seduction27/05/22 03:18 AM
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People treat ugly (and obese) people poorly. Even ugly people treat other ugly people poorly. This is unrelated to gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 08:10 PM
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It's funny because even the fat people I meet don't even recognize and want other fat people. Fat guys end up struggling to get laid and fat girls get used. It's a cold reality most people don't want to accept but this has been my experience. Do you think an attractive girl will struggle getting guys to commit? Do you really think so? Maybe if she has a shit personality but even then there will be guys that will ride along bc she is hot.
/r/seduction26/05/22 05:50 PM
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Girls don't want to date guys that are less attractive then them and make less money. At the same time, obesity rates are rising and less guys are going to college than woman. Seems pretty obvious to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:53 AM
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Life gets incredibly lonely when you are in your late 30's, 40s, and 50s if you don't have a partner or kids. All your friends grow detached because they have their own commitments and your family's (esp parents) health starts taking a toll. Its a very common thing many people fail to consider. Trying to supplement loneliness with the internet does not work, it only feeds into depression. Truly being alone is scary and friends will never have the same connection because they will be prioritizing…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:36 AM
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Most guys will smash a girl but don't want to settle. Most girls will block out many advances from guys they aren't intrested in, aiming for the more attractive/financially secure ones. Both have their struggles, dating sucks unless you have your shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:28 AM
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I get that, I'd totally be down to do that too... when I'm 30, currently 21. Everyone has their own time and place for settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:31 AM
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You know what's also bad but for your mental health? Getting rejected and ghosted for being "nice" and opening up to chicks. The moment you stop giving a shit success increases by x10. I had your perspective and had to change because it don't work. Unless you wanna hang with the most boring, unexperienced girls on the planet. But I'll pass on that, you can have those girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:36 AM
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Late but care to share which country? I'm genuinely curious
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:24 AM
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Either add fat male models or remove fat female models. I'd obviously prefer the latter but I care more about equality than anything else.
/r/MensRights22/05/22 08:43 PM
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This petition is 3 years old, would sighing even do anything?
/r/MensRights22/05/22 09:33 AM
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Just ask how their night is going. They might open up but if they don't you'll get a "good, you?" Which is an opening for you start a conversation about how your night has been going. Of course, try to sound intresting but most of it depends on how much the girl cares interacting with you. Sometimes people won't wanna talk to you. Don't get upset and just move onto the next person. If you take the rejection well and talk to other people, sometimes the girl can even get jealous that they are just…
/r/seduction21/05/22 09:18 PM
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Doesn't work, you look like a creep. Unless you are hot and the girl has very limited experience with men but in that case they probably wouldn't meet with you anyways out of anxiety. Try instagram dms
/r/seduction21/05/22 09:15 PM
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Hinge is not the place to go unless your trying to get a long term relationship (considering this is r/seduction). In my experience, the girls on that platform do not put out. Of course, this is anecdotal but I wouldn't be suprised if many more people shared this view.
/r/seduction21/05/22 09:12 PM
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If a fat person is only eating salads while never drinking sugary drinks, they wouldn't be fat. Either they are lying or have a physical issue (like thyroid).
/r/MensRights20/05/22 08:24 AM
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Skinny is obectively more attractive, I'm not afraid to say it. A fat person is going to be fat 99% of the time because their lifestyle. They eat too much and don't exercise, it's not hard to connect the dots. A skinny person shows they have control over what they eat. Can fat people starve themselves so they lose weight? No, because they can't control themselves, otherwise they wouldn't be fat. I'm not saying being anorexic is healthy but rather implying there is a distinct difference in drive.…
/r/MensRights20/05/22 08:07 AM
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Lol I'm a fit white dude and I get dick for likes
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:52 AM
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You need to care less about how people view you and live in the moment. Hard at first but it gets easier.
/r/seduction17/05/22 06:54 PM
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You're trying to find excuses for your failures. Unless your 5'4", height does not matter that much. Having your own hobbies, fun, and intrests is what attract people. Put yourself out there and experience failure, it's how we learn. Go to the gym and start reading up on philosophy and/or psychology. Honestly them rejecting you for your height is probably the easiest rejection method, I highly doubt that's the problem.
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:13 PM
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It's just projection dude. I do the same shit all the time but you can't let it get to you. There are always going to be people that are stronger, smarter, taller and are more successful. And why does that matter? Exactly, it doesn't. Work on yourself and deal with your insecurities. I'm a gamer and barely even interacted with girls prior to college. Despite myself having a great body and being 5'11", I struggle with looking people in the eyes but I keep going. Everywhere you go on reddit or eve…
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:21 AM
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5'9" is average, any girl who gives you shit for it isn't a girl you'd want to associate with anyways. The moment you get over your insecurities, your confidence and quality of life will become substantially better.
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:47 PM
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The content of what you say doesn't matter - it's all about HOW you say it and the vibe/energy behind it + adding your own humor etc. Thanks dude, this is actually what I was struggling with and you put it in words that finally helped me understand. Cheers!
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:27 AM
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Find one short topic (preferably with humor) then ask on a date/hang out/link up. Girls on tinder have short attention spans and are getting spammed by 50+ dudes, you gotta find your way to stand out. If you type a paragraph message and it isn't a banger, you're probably getting ghosted. My last word of advice: Don't think too hard. Your mind will play the game of "What will be the best outcome" but you will slowly be sabotaging yourself and will come across as desperate. Spend 5 minutes max. St…
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:17 AM
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Tinder (or OLD as a whole) ain't the move unless your 8/10 minimum. Social anxiety will only make it worse because you overthink these messages they post out when in reality they usually don't care.
/r/seduction05/05/22 03:40 AM
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Don't let yourself overthink things. Review your plan once and either do it or don't. If you keep overthinking, you'll be worried the entire time and will project a lack of confidence. Just relax and realize the stakes are low.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:16 PM
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Upvoting because I struggle with this too
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:18 PM
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The only antidote is to desensitize the pain
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:13 PM
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Adding on, having conversations with 100 different people is exausting, especially if 70 of them weren't what you would consider "attractive." Also, if you aren't lonely and/or using tinder, you probably aren't using a dating app. So, one shouldn't use apps if one don't want superficiality.
/r/seduction26/04/22 06:54 PM
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