| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 42 | Found the love of my life | Dating After Divorce | MoronLoserF | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/24 07:35 AM |
| 15 | Never thought I would be divorcing | MoronLoserF | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/22 05:31 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 25 | My Wife Is In A ComaLife is short. You can die at any moment. Life is very unpredictable. Divorce is ugly. If you guys loved each other so much why even go through divorce. Truth be told my ex would be delighted if I were to pass away, or be in this situation. She wishes something horrible happens to me. At least she has a person like you, who loves her and still cares for her. I think you should surround yourself with all the families. Don’t stay alone and don’t drink. One day at a time. Expect the worst, but hope… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/24 01:35 AM |
| 2 | When does it get easier?Definitely raking up bodies. Don’t believe me? Next time she is over, find a way to get into her phone. Or track her with a gps locator. 200% she is having lots of sex on the side. Thats why she moved out. Now she hasn’t hit it off with any one better than you so she still wants to work it out and keep you on the side. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 09:55 PM |
| 5 | My ex wife found out I wrote poetry about her during divorce, now wants to talkI don’t think he hates women. He just knows how most women work in this part of the world. No ethics, no morals, always blaming others, and instant satisfaction and upgrade mentality. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 04:35 AM |
| 10 | My ex wife found out I wrote poetry about her during divorce, now wants to talkDivorced. She cheated. Doesn’t matter how drunk. Don’t take her back it won’t work out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 04:30 AM |
| -7 | STBX found my recent Text messages with woman she hatesYou should take some videos of you and the said women making out. And then share it in your text message so stbx can see it. I am just kidding. You want your divorce to be smooth and not a big hassle. Best thing to do is to not be a retard, and remove all other apple devices that you are signed with. Make sure she has no access to your personal things. Files, emails, photos, facebook accounts and many more things. Do a digital cleanup. Password protect everything. You can lie to her and tell her… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 05:45 PM |
| 2 | I’m struggling. Separated wife is guilt tripping me. Am I crazy for still caring about her? Doubting myself for wanting a divorce.Its easy. You just divorce her and move on. If she was a kind and beautiful soul, and just cheated before marriage, then you wouldn’t be in this situation. No kids, no need to worry. Divorce and move on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/24 09:47 PM |
| 9 | Was marriage worth it?Check out my posts here. Make sure you separate your heart and eyes from your brain. Choose the individual not only for looks, but her behaviour with her parents and siblings. The kind of friends she has and make sure she is supportive and not a complainer. Get married and make some kids. I don’t regret it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/24 02:30 PM |
| 0 | Found the love of my lifeNot a troll post. The username reflects what my ex thought of me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/24 06:12 AM |
| 6 | Did you ever consider the possibility of divorce at the beginning of your marriage?I did think of breaking it up right before my first marriage. The night of the wedding, the week after wedding and also many times through out the first year. I had a lot of things that constantly irritated me. But every time I tried separating she came running back. I had hope. I didn’t realize at the time, that she was a pathological liar. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/24 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Found the love of my lifeWhats the point of living without risking it? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/24 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Found the love of my lifeI wish I didn’t but to bring her over its a necessity. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/24 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Found the love of my life2 weeks. Haven’t seen in person. Sending my parents to check her and her family out. She is from north africa and I am from north america. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Found the love of my lifeCan’t move in. No premarital sex. No kissing. No holding hands. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/24 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Found the love of my lifeLmao 🤣. Sometimes I think I am making the same mistake. Hopefully she changes my perspective. I will update you guys in a year or 2. Hope it’s not with my 2nd divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Please Help, 25m Seeking AdviceHow are you 25 m and have a husband. Is this possible? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/24 07:46 AM |
| 11 | Would you take her back?PM me your wifes contact. I will let you know if she really wants you back? Are you seriously asking this question. For a women to have multiple sexual interactions and not even get paid. For your women to leave and have sex right away after leaving you. At least have some self respect and have sex with 8 other women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/24 10:45 PM |
| 3 | It´s incredible how all this changes youThere are so many options out there now. So many damn divorced women looking for a financial responsible man. Grow your self and become a tank. My man I got these women in my chats that keep talking and I can tell they are really attracted to me. Like they initiate conversations and talk to me. I am the catch now and tables have definitely turned. Matter of fact I bet I can even attract beautiful single females. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/23 07:13 AM |
| 6 | Maybe I really am the problem?Thats what I did she wanted to stay separate and live separately giving it a try. I went straight to divorce. I didn’t have any one, I don’t need someone in my life that doesn’t think I am the best she can ever do. All this backbiting and shit talking has a lot of effect. I know the quality of man I am and I know my self worth and what I bring to the table. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/23 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Did this kill anyone else’s Sex Drive?This definitely 👍. T levels makes a huge difference. After I started doing high intensity cardio and lifting weights. Took about 3 months to see the change. I also stopped eating and fasting. It makes a huge difference in your energy level and you just can get things done faster and concentrate better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/23 03:31 AM |
| 1 | ConflictedFirst check dna of your child that it is actually yours. Second get 50% off everything you deserve. Third she is a bitch, for asking 100 % custody. You deserve 50 percent. Nothing to be conflicted about. She is trash and belongs in the garbage bin. Don’t let her recent behaviour make do with past. Always remind yourself she cheated on you for 2 years when ever you feel any kind of remorse or pity towards that being. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/23 10:19 PM |
| 0 | I give upIt gets better don’t give up on custody. I had to fight for it as well. Not sure whats the problem with these moms and not realizing we were there the whole journey. I had to work it out to 60/40. She wanted 100%. My lawyer said 60/40 is as good as 50/50. But this is what you need to work it out to. Children need their father. Trust me your son misses you and wants you. He might not show it but deep down he wants a father. I first thought they are starting to dislike because of all the non sense… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/23 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Just another guy screwed by the systemSo true. I got lucky that my ex had more property and shit. That I was able to come out without losing much. But i am still on the hook for $1k in child benefit a month | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/23 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Dating after divorce (rant)So many damn single females. I only wonder what their plan is in life. The best thing to do is to find someone from overseas with traditional values and family values. These women can just do the 1% of men and be their hoes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/23 10:12 AM |
| 7 | Young men who have divorced w/o kidsHoly shit I can’t imagine not having my kids. I just wish they were with someone else I could be with. I miss my kids, I miss being together and a family. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/23 09:10 AM |
| 6 | 9 months in, women are beggining to show interest in me. How to behave?Walking from one shit hole to the next. Bro these baby mama’s want you cause you are the last chance of hope for their survival. Already has kids and older than you. Come to your senses. You don’t need commonalities. What you need is a respectful and subservient women. That will support you and not old enough to have kids with you. Women age faster than men. At least marry someone 6 or more years younger than you. Always look at how they speak when they are angry. How they treat their parents an… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/23 05:55 AM |
| 3 | I'm feeling pretty awfulSometimes you live for your self. You have to realize the kids are also her responsibility. Do your best to take care of them, show them good qualities. Teach them the right things in life. Hopefully your kids will turn around. You have to lookout for your self. Find a better women again and have more kids. You will win in the long run. Once your kids become adults they will know mom was a bitch. Your goal should be the long run. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/23 06:14 PM |
| 3 | How are we supposed to afford to live?Don’t move out. Get her to move out. By being in her vicinity when ever home. This will annoy her. So keep doing it. Try to spend more time at home. More time with kids. Try to grow a very close bond with them in the remaining months you have left to having them 100% of the time. Head to the gym. Now you need to look your very best. Get those abs and pack on muscle. Plan your divorce. If you will go through mediation or court. I suggest mediation. Be a fucking man and don’t move out. Its your da… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/23 07:02 PM |
| 10 | Every "single mom" in OLDOmg this is what I get called all the time by my xwife | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/23 04:23 AM |
| -3 | Ladies, you have the divorce reddit to yourselves. Why pretend to be men on this one?Who cares what this one person thinks. Too much estrogen might cause one to write down an essay as a response. This is what my wife would do. I will reply in sentences and she would would be writing paragraphs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/23 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on getting a dog after separation / divorce?Get a cat. Hit the gym. Start some side shit. Grow your income. Upgrade your self. Better self, better manners, forgive, forget and move on. And then upgrade your ex. Make more kids. You will be content with all your (old and new)kids on your death bed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/23 04:14 AM |
| 0 | Spouse asked for a divorce yesterday, I was told this was a good group by someone. I have some basic questions.Don’t break it for stupid reasons. She doesn’t sound like a trash bag and you don’t hate her. These are great starting points. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/23 08:50 PM |
| -4 | Spouse asked for a divorce yesterday, I was told this was a good group by someone. I have some basic questions.I advise you not to divorce your wife. Stay together and have the fourth kid. You can make it work. Divorce should be your last option not your first. If you want your wife to look more attractive or something tell her to diet and lose some weight. This sounds very workable! I strongly advise against divorce in your case. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/23 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Wife probably planning an affair this weekendTherapy doesn’t work. Feminism has crept in. Also it is a blame game. Blame everyone else except look at them selves. These therapist don’t even have the experience in a solid marriage foundation. Didn’t grow up in one never seen one. How can these therapist help anyone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/23 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Wife probably planning an affair this weekendDont be a simp. Throw her out. Divorce. She is a scum bag. It hurts to break a family. Just remember you will have to make a new family now a better one that involves someone amazing. Hit the gym. Love the kids. Kids will love you always. Don’t be hopeless. Believe in god. Do whatever you need to do to get over her but try to stay safe for the kids. Plan ahead. This is war. Use your head and not your heart. Reach out to your parents, friends, brother, sister and any family members you can. Stay … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/23 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Talk some sense in to me. Smokeshow is giving all the signs she's interested...She is definitely in your league and probably below your league … underneath all the smokeshow she probably ain’t anything better than your ex. If you want to just have sex and move on then do that. But if you want to get attached thats not the type of girl to get attached to … you have to think about your now kids and future kids. If i were you I would just have fun. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/23 02:04 AM |
| 1 | What should I do !!mental health is a concern … but a feminist on all these on top doesn’t really help. I thought having kids will help our relationship. It made it worse. So yeh the only solution is to sit at a library for the whole day. Write down what are you looking for in a family and wife. And try to see if that is possible to achieve with her. You have to make the hard decision here. You know whats best for you, but think in terms of long term. With out her mental health, is she submissive? Does she listen … | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/23 08:57 PM |
| 9 | What should I do !!How old are you any kids and current circumstances. If your age is 40 or under and you no kids involved. Then run. Have you tried getting her help? ADHD and depression and then bipolar on top of that. I mean if you have kids will she be a good mother? You have to think selfishly sometimes. If I were you I would be getting ready to divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/23 06:17 AM |
| 2 | My wife is divorcing! ( main reason: she got no feeling for me anymore) Need some advice…Its ok to be angry. Chanel your anger into a divorce. Do not think about past memories. I was sad, broken and crying at nights driving to McDonalds. Its been 4 months now and I am going to the gym, have the kids 50% of the time. I am able to concentrate at work better, now I am also going to the gym. Women these days need to be kicked to the curb to make them understand the value of men. Real men are not respected anymore. We move the world, remember that. I am going to be so much more successfu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | My win still feels like a lossI feel the same sometimes. Days where I break apart. Feel immensely sad and depressed. Specially when your kids dream about their parents being together. And they tell you that. I just enrage inside and feel like demolishing everything. I have started working out at the gym. It helps. Concentrating on my self. Improving my self for my kids. As human beings its only natural to want to form families. Thats what we are born with. Its a natural instinct. You will get to full fill it. Now you know th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/22 03:55 AM |
| 6 | Divorce or Give it another shot?Do not get back with love is just an illusion. To have a marriage and family you need dignity, respect and great communication. Is this the type of women you want your kids mother to be. You are responsible for your kids. Find a women that will respect you, be kind to you, is family oriented. Behaves like a human being. Does not have male friends, listens to you and tries to follow your lead. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/22 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Please someone tell me this gets easier. Tell me I'm going to survive this.I just went through separation. We both wanted it so I guess that was easier on the heart. I let her go. Signed up to the gym. Bought myself gifts. Moved in with my parents. Got 50/50 with the kids. Visited massage spas. Its been 3 months. Sometimes I miss her and I can’t help it. But yeh I was miserable with her, less miserable now. As time passes it gets better. But you need to invest in your self and future. Eat out, earn more money, go on long drives, go to hikes and trails, go to the gym. A… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/22 04:46 PM |
| 2 | What is your perception and view of women in general after your experience being married?Like others have said. My ex was crazy and I knew it. A lot of red flags I overlooked and also I thought I could change her and make her better. She is very beautiful and with her initial talks I just sank in and thought to my self she is my soul mate and even though I thought about ending it during the week of our wedding I still went through with it because I just didn’t want to create the biggest drama and 6 years and 2 kids later I decided to leave this piece of shit human being alone. I don… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/22 02:07 PM |
| 9 | Just saw my ex's tiktoks... feeling down asf.She has a shelf life … all that fake shit is temporary and will last her max 5 years then its all down hill from there for her. You on the other hand can work out get into the best shape of your life and get married again and start a family again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/22 12:49 PM |
| 5 | Just saw my ex's tiktoks... feeling down asf.You can do better … | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Help figuring separation agreementJust went through mediation. Exactly the same case as you but my stbx makes less than 25% of my income. This bitch is still fighting and I am 8k deep in legal fees already. Right now have 40% custody will be turning that into 50/50 soon. Only if she listened to me. Would have saved all these legal fees. All the lies she told about me and she can’t back it up anymore. Her highest achievement in life was meeting me. Now she is making more than half her salary in Child benefits and this will probab… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/22 06:11 AM |
| 4 | Mediation coming up. Any suggestions, long term implication that I should have in mind?This right here. The bitch wanted to agree on all the financial and everything else out first. I knew my leverage was all the financial stuff. So i went straight for 50/50 nothing more nothing less. Also the mediator asked her if she was bipolar. All she did was lie like a cunt on the mediation brief. Fuck her even to get to mediation it was so costly. But I got a lawyer from the very beginning and that helped navigate everything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/22 07:59 PM |
| 7 | the system creates "deadbeat" dadsSo it's the same for me. My ex gets to keep more money than me even though I make 4 times her salary. After her costs and bills and after my costs and bills. She can spend almost twice as much as I can. At least I get to keep the kids 50% of the time. So I am thinking maybe I should just quit my job and try to make less than her. And make it more difficult for her. Maybe make less than her and start taking money from her. When you have shared custody you can also play games. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/22 12:48 AM |
| 4 | (UK) Do all youse get to the point where you just don't give a shit?I don’t know some people are just evil. Pretty face with just a black heart. You are just unfortunate. I hope you can find mental stability and you need to try your best to find ways to spend time with your kids. Get a good lawyer and follow their directions. You need to save your kids at this point. Fight for your kids cause their mother is not a good person and they will be wasted growing up with her. Do all you can and really connect up with family and friends. You need that emotional support… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/08/22 05:28 AM |
| 3 | Never give up and never let anyone determine your self worth!I am going through the same hurdle. Going through mediation-arbitration. She wants 100% of parenting time. Keeps saying she is the primary care taker and that I am never their for the kids. We live in the same house still. She is just so spiteful and vengeful. Our arbitrator suggested we go through parental mediation. Hopefully everyone will see what a psyco she is. Hopefully I get my 50% parenting time too like you. I am just looking forward for this nasty separation to be settled. Hopefully by… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/22 09:09 PM |
| 3 | What to do…Wow you still stayed with her when she was talking to some other dude. Mistake number one you didn’t set her straight. You should have raised hell and threaten with everything at the start of this. Second if she is gone, then let her be gone. She will physically cheat on you I guarantee that if you stay with her. She already wanted to separate. So get a lawyer and go through mediation. If she wanted you bro she would cry and fight for you. I am sorry to tell you but you haven’t been respected as… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/22 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Never thought I would be divorcingWell I knew what was important to me. I highly value mannerism, civility, reliance, and privacy. I don’t want my internal life to become other peoples gossip. I want to be respected. Thought she would learn from me, but its a lot to do with her family and upbringing. When I stayed with my in laws and interacted more with her family members, my eyes were wide open. Big lesson learned. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Never thought I would be divorcingHaven’t had sex with her for almost 9 months now. Any way, she would always be too spiteful to have sex. Last 2 years we had sex like 4 times or so. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/22 02:43 PM |
| 7 | Never thought I would be divorcingI was so close to buying a house. Thank god the pandemic fucked up all those plans. But what good is money when the family is broken. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/22 06:21 AM |
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