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That’s one of the most comprehensive approaches to the current dynamic. Real big brain hours.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/09/21 07:33 PM
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Very sad, but I would still discourage western governments from making it our problem again.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 01:24 PM
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True although from my experiences listening to the Everly Brothers, I couldn't help but feel a lot more understatedness and introspection, like there's less of an attempt to become a pop or rock icon. You could compare it a lot to Brian Wilson's songwriting a bit later, also very vulnerable and non-conforming.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/21 06:45 PM
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The album Songs Our Daddy Taught Us has always struck me as radically corny and sentimental, like at the height of the rock n roll boom these two young men just want to play the folk music that was important to them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/21 06:24 PM
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I live outside of the UK, do you still want my input?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/21 06:01 PM
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I appreciate your sympathy and am completely sympathetic towards your struggles also. (Would argue these aren't specifically female experiences or always perpetrated by men, and can provide examples. Being shouted off of online gaming happens to nearly everyone for instance, but I'm sure your gender contributes.) I personally prefer memories of physical and sexual abuse in the past to extended social isolation in the present (most of which comes from stigma around the creepiness of being a lonel…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:58 PM
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Men on the other hand have a table full of good food, but it's behind an obstacle course that they have to somehow get through. Why do you assume the food available to men is even halfway decent? Being tough to acquire might give it value technically, but delicious? Most women I've dated have been high-maintanence fun seeking types, who unload cart-fulls of their own personal luggage without compunction, and cry "emotional labor" when you have some of your own. I'd like to not be starving, but d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:45 PM
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I'm irritated by friendship in media, or art where people get to express themselves without derision or confusion from others. At a certain point you have to let go and just accept that's the way the world is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/21 06:42 AM
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Why is it brainwashing to suggest being old or fat makes you unattractive. It’s not as if men don’t believe this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/21 05:53 PM
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Glad the country of Israel is putting it’s (and the US’s) tax dollars towards letting perpetrators of UN war crimes get their rocks off. If they only had the time to put pen to paper and authorize the construction of working plumbing in West Bank towns.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 05:09 PM
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Well most people don't date fictional characters, or even associate them with real people. A lot of male anime fans relate strongly with the emotionality of cartoon waifus but they may not have patience for the same traits in a flawed, human woman. I won't pretend to know what women truly like in their platonic souls, but if only for pragmatism, toxic assholes with the confirmation of other women tend to be a pretty popular and evergreen choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:07 PM
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That's very on point. I guess I just hope you understand that most adults who are impacted by abuse don't typically become model-esque sadboys. They don't become confident, self assured narcissists like Christian Grey or whatever personality Edward Cullen is supposed to have. It's usually strongly the opposite, or at least I've noticed from the people I've dated and myself. That’s not why they got popular. Very true, and why I feel your argument is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:43 PM
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Well my point is that not every sexual abused victim is impacted by it in a glamorous and sexy way. For some people it can be downright crippling relationship wise. I've always criticized how writers use sexual abuse as a character motivation without any true understanding of the reality of the situation, and that's the vibe I get from the fanfic author who wrote 50 shades. But I know that book from passing and descriptions by others. Do you see Christian Grey as a realistic portrayal of an abus…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:31 PM
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got abused by his adopted mom's friend. From my osmosis reading of Fifty Shades of Grey, I always thought the abuse from the older woman was treated as a glamorous humblebrag. Like he was such a chad at a young age he got statutorily raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 06:57 AM
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hashtag notallwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:38 PM
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It's irresponsible to have sons nowadays. The chances he'll up completely expendable, friendless, and miserable are already too high, and there's no reason to believe this trend won't increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:34 PM
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Now whether most people's genes should be a part of the next generation is a whole different conversation. Fucking hate this mainstreaming of crypto-eugenicism today by many people who are otherwise woke liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 02:13 PM
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I was raised in a lower income, single father household (he was 21 when he had me and had next to no family to rely on), and my experiences have almost nothing to do with any of your guys' speculation or assumptions. This is anecdotal but from dating a girl who grew up in a very similar situation, I think it does contribute a lot to sperginess and being emotionally stunted/ unregulated. People talk about how growing up without a father figure lower's a mans SMV, I'd argue the personality disorde…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:33 PM
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I can't speak for how common it is but if those are the numbers I was raised by the 1% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:18 PM
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In many cases, I would assume that it involves some sort of personal tragedy where the mother died. Some women are legitimately just visibly incapable of being stable parents, whether it's due to drugs, mental illness, or being able to coast through their entire young adulthood without taking any responsibility. Source: Grew up in a single father household. She was never involved in raising me, completely absent from my life between the ages of 8 and 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:16 PM
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True, I also want to bring attention to the fact the feminist answer to the male loneliness epidemic is ignorant if not callous.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/03/21 05:09 PM
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I don’t mean what I say as a call to despair, I mean it as a call to attention that some change in attitudes might be necessary.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/03/21 04:49 PM
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I worry I will die without ever keeping an acquaintance or relationship past the very short term, essentially meaning I will have died without a human connection. I see this as the material condition of loneliness making me unrelatable.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/21 04:02 PM
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Genuine or not attention is attention and I empathize with your line of reasoning. It’s not the worst thing in the world to know other people find you attractive and I wish you best of luck whatever your choice.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 11:53 PM
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It would be nice. It doesn't seem to be a direction society is willing to take. That's what I'm saying.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 10:42 PM
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Sometimes people do betray or leave when it's nothing to do with you. The worry is it may be for the rest of my life and I can't be that unlucky.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/21 10:41 PM
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I really don't understand, sorry. People don't typically leave or betray you for no reason, and if it's a provable pattern, it stands to reason there's something about you. Abandoning the idea there could be something wrong with you seems willfully ignorant. I'd be very interested in knowing what specifically it is.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/21 10:24 PM
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That's a very solid response to my question. Thank you. Given that we can't give every single man a relationship, could it be worthwhile finding social affirmations that you can be single and human-ing right? You didn't particularly struggle with relationships. I never said I didn't struggle with relationships, I just struggle with friendships more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 10:20 PM
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And if you know there's problems with who you are, that effect all of your relationships across several circles, but they're not fixable?
/r/ExRedPill03/03/21 10:18 PM
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Gezundteit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 09:35 PM
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Very true. Being surrounded by the endless discourse on what's wrong with men one can't help but grow up with the notion there must be a right way to be a man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 09:34 PM
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Do you think the validation you get from producing porn would be fulfilling? I mean no judgement if it is, validation/ connection from others is the main reason I have sex, but I guess it's worth asking those kind of questions before you start. I think you'd be able to genuinely be significant in someone else's life without having to do that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 09:06 PM
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If you're facing tangible and repeated abandonment, neglect, abuse, etc, wouldn't it make sense to attribute it to something material about yourself? What should you pin it on if not yourself? You do make an appealing argument, but I just don't buy it.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/21 09:02 PM
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We're likely to be able to recognize a problem and organize for institutional solutions. Eventually, our interpersonal behavior may improve as a result of the influence of those institutions. If there's anything I doubt, it's the ability of men to organize like women do. I don't feminism will stand for it, I don't think men have a solid enough idea of what they want.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 08:53 PM
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My ex told me straight to my face that I "should get more male friends" if I wanted to discuss my issues. The hypocrisy was not lost on me considering she attempted suicide several times while we were together and I spent hours on hours trying to comfort her during depressive episodes. Are you me? There's so much out there preventing men from making those deeper relationships because we are told we are worthless on so many fronts Very true. A big assumption I see made in people's discourse, in t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 08:43 PM
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I think you're implying Sam needs to get married to be complete, or that his marriage is somehow an all important milestone. In reality it's as important as he makes it, and from the text most people would agree his friendship with Frodo is the real significant human connection in his life. Your emotional needs don't need to be met by someone you're fucking. Relationships are what you make them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 08:39 PM
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I think are simply not, nor shouldn't be their function for most men. Why not? And what should the function of male friendships be then? I'm not the only person to point out examples in the past and outside of typical individualist WASP culture where men are legitimately a lot more supportive and affectionate in a no homo way. You ever read Lord of the Rings? Or the type of military accounts that inspired Tolkien? If you've ever known a group of men outside of North America or East Asia, it's al…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 08:26 PM
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Agreed. I don't think game or pills apply to human nature, but they do apply to broken, flawed adults, who are probably going to make up the majority of people you interact with. One line that gets parroted around the internet is that alpha/beta/omega dynamics don't apply to wolves in the wild, which is true, but the recorded heirarchy does exist among stressed canines in captivity, which I think reflects our situation in modern society more than wild animals.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/21 08:18 PM
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There are plenty of people who would say their relationships with the boys or the girls is more fulfilling and genuine than relationships. (Bros before hoes.) Most women in particular care much more what their friends think than their bf, unless they're like engaged or married. I'm not saying it's personally right for you, but I think there's a large portion of lonely men who could genuinely ease a lot of their issues if they gave connecting with their bros a chance rather than attempting to put…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 08:04 PM
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Here's how I'd phrase it. Liberal feminists have had a disproportionate amount of influence on our culture and our institutions, and are more or less the deciders of the new normal for gender relations. Whether it's malicious or just an oversight, feminism has offered little idea what exactly a man can do to be acceptable within the new framework, and more often than not has extreme antipathy for men no matter how they react to it. I don't have anything against feminism or disagree much with it'…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 07:55 PM
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what works for women doesn't necessarily work for men It might vary person to person but who are you to say female type supportive relationships can't work for men? 'besides' a whole spectrum of needs and desires being fulfilled. Those needs and desires are valid, but I sincerely believe that genuine, close relationships with your peers can at least substitute those. Besides sex, what specifically are you referring to? Validation?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 07:41 PM
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Very good point. I do think historically the best support system for introverted/ atypical males has always been the nerd subculture, as a kid I always felt I'd have the most success within that scene. I'd hesitate to blame feminists, but the corporate media and our society has definitely done a lot to appropriate the nerd culture and community while keeping the contempt for atypical men, if not increasing it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 06:47 PM
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I do think the people who have trouble finding any human connection or emotional support at all are hindered by the fact a majority men aren't interested in that, or at least don't think they are. Besides making your pee pee feel good, is there anything a relationship with a woman can provide that a real friendship (like the kind women have) can't? As someone who's had better luck with relationships than friendships, I would say no, but that's arguable. I do agree the "be intimate with each othe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 06:25 PM
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Elaborate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 06:16 PM
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I don't think people inherently act how TRP describes. However, for lack of anything like religion, social or moral standards, I see my generation adhere to entertainment and social media more than anything else.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/21 06:12 PM
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Most women maybe. I always assumed the biggest portion of this sub's users were frustrated men in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 05:45 PM
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What is being pointed out is that your anger is misplaced; men should be able to talk to their friends, and it is alright to be angry that you can't, but that anger always seems to somehow get directed at women, as though they are secretly pulling the strings. I feel like part of the problem may be that feminists (and intersectional progressives in general) have rapidly redefined gender relations and roles, and we’re at the point where the majority of media and discourse has to for better or wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 12:20 AM
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In 90% of cases, even on the most depraved incel boards, I’ve always read complaints about inceldom as a shorthand for lovelessness and low social status. It’s the main argument they make why they don’t see prostitutes, they don’t just want sex they want to feel worthy of sex. Not matching your peers when they achieve significant milestones is humiliating and losing virginity has been framed by our coming of age media as a defining milestone. In short, I wouldn’t frame their complaint as “I want…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:59 AM
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I remember speaking with someone fantasizing about getting with a viking, and I don't think I was able to get her to understand that spending a week in a cramped boat in fur and wool clothes is not going to smell the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:45 PM
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Someone getting their opinion on themselves or prospective partners from reddit is a major red flag. And a lot of erotica can be extreme in ways traditional porn isn't, sometimes even hentai-esque. For instance I'd hate to be with someone who was disappointed I couldn't turn into a werewolf, or that I had no interest in biting into their neck and bleeding them dry. A (biological) woman I dated even acquired a vore fetish from kink writing on tumblr I shit you not. And this is all coming from som…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 05:23 PM
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You're interpreting my first point too literally. Of course people know things, but people my age don't actively look for or are receptive to dates outside of these mediums. And I was using figurative language when I was talking about platonic forms, separate from the earthly. I'm sorry about your issues with non-literal communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 05:00 PM
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https://www.forbes.com/sites/jennagoudreau/2012/07/26/why-your-brain-sees-men-as-people-and-women-as-body-parts/?sh=394f12695d91
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 04:56 PM
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Does broke mean poor in comparison to the woman, or poor in comparison to the ideal man in her head? I've heard plenty of women complain about deadbeat boyfriends, but none of these women had anything beyond entry level jobs if they were employed at all. And this whole male vs. female physical attraction thing is subjective. Studies show attraction to women is almost always based on features while attraction to men is based on an amalgamation of all their parts, including psychological presence.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 08:55 PM
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I'd generally agree most people in their core think like this, but 1.) I'm a late millennial/ borderline zoomer, no-one in my age cohort knows anything outside of OLD or Social Media, 2.) people, especially women, vocally judge each other on their partner's status. Never heard anyone say they stuck with a guy because of personality or his platonic soul, but because of his adherence to archetypal male acheivements.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 08:50 PM
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Most men would rather date a supermodel they cannot stand than date an ugly whose personality meshes perfectly with theirs. And women aren't similar? Also dudes who only date hot women they despise are a vocal minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 08:41 PM
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I don't quite follow what you mean. What about your abandonment (my condolence) is specific to being male? And I don't get the second part at all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/21 02:04 AM
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Fascinating read. When you really look through history, there are only brief windows of time where patriarchs had much of any power at all, and it would always seem to come with a genuine need to keep society together.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/21 09:08 AM
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Quick question, do you know what liberal arts is? Well you were talking about education, I assumed you meant college and I didn't get the impression you meant STEM majors but more the humanities. I have a degree that would be considered liberal arts myself. Are you aware of what “transactional” means? When a person you've dated calls seeing you being depressed "emotional labor" or asks "what have you done for me lately?" (I've literally heard these exact words, I shit you not) I'd consider that …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:43 AM
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So personal example, every woman I've dated, and at least a few I've been friends with or worked with, have asked for serious emotional support from me very early on. I've had to intervene on suicide attempts from a girlfriend multiple times a week, I've had coworkers I barely knew spill their guts to me about childhood rape unprompted, I've had another become inoperable after her month long relationship ended, forcing me and everyone else to pickup the slack for her while she cried in front of …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:10 AM
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The person you're responding to claims that women don't have any tolerance for vulnerability in men. You list yourself as a counter-example, ergo, men never face adverse consequences from women for being vulnerable. I could make the same claim that I've never hurt or objectified a woman, and can't relate to men who do, therefore, it never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 07:51 AM
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That’s a bit like saying, “I respect women’s boundaries and don’t objectify them, therefore no man does. What do these women have to complain about?”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 06:39 AM
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Ignoring that feminist liberal arts graduates are such a small cross section of the public, I’ve been friends with them and dated them, they are several times more brutal about the men in their life than normies. Their “compassion” is transactional if it exists at all, and they consider seeing you after work a bit tired or down but otherwise workable as “compassion.” And they consider kicking depressive or non-traditionally masculine men to the curb empowered because their asses deserve better. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 06:34 AM
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That’s a take I haven’t seen before and it makes sense. I guess the thing is very few men cry over movies and nearly all of them are deathly horrified about being enough. And this sort of rejection for being insecure is a self perpetuating cycle. A generally secure and confident guy gets left by a BPD type for not being a carbon copy or her father, he’s a little more cautious and doubting the next time, especially if the girl was vague and half assed revealing what exactly was the problem. Wash …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 06:16 AM
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I hear all sorts of women complain about being inundated with DMs on their social media. About half of the men I've worked alongside in their 20s are some degree of barely scraping by socially and romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:15 PM
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You know it's not uncommon to have an office job in an inner city area, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:13 PM
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You sound very lucky if you have a well defined support system. Don't underestimate how quickly you can lose them with some bad luck. If you've never noticed suspicion from women you're either very physically non-threatening, or oblivious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:09 PM
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I would be horrified to find that out and start distancing myself from my mother. No-one can lie about that for years or indefinitely and be considered a salvagable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:47 PM
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Does anyone consider chadcel a real thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:41 PM
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That's a fair point, and I suppose I could have looked more into how deeply he was LARPing. And I can actually relate to that last part a lot actually, if not the fantasizing about raping women to death with construction equipment. Regardless I don't know incel would be the word to describe a guy who archetypally was a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:27 PM
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Slow Deep and Hard is the album I most know him for, and it comes off to me as more redpill and oversexed than blackpill and lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:50 PM
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Peter Steele was a 6’8 roided up psychopath on coke from the start. I don’t think he was predisposed to inceldom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 05:14 PM
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Only for insecure straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 01:38 AM
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What does it even mean to be a genuine goth? Like I personally enjoy post punk, industrial, and noise music, and melodramatic 19th century romanticists, as well as genuinely hating myself, but you couldn’t pay me to spend a day with a self proclaimed “goth”. Do female weebs have high opinions on male weebs? The only thing I hear is how intolerable it is for them to be a part of that community. I don’t know enough about cosplaying but do women consider the guys who put a bunch of energy into look…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 10:21 AM
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I’m really weird where I’ll prefer a blemished, flawed looking human face, to a man or woman wearing makeup. Honest to god. And while I personally wouldn’t be against a goth dude, I really just associate them with screenshots of cringe social media posts, and again, guys hitting on high schoolers at concerts. I just don’t imagine having an aesthetic or belonging to a subculture can work the same way for men like it does for women. When you’re a (not fat, ugly, or old) woman, people are already p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:11 AM
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I’m confused by that last part. I was under the impression that goth and alt women were still chased after by (nerdy) men well into their 30s and beyond, while hetero goth men are kind of a joke to a huge swath of people, except maybe the underage girls they groom at concerts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 03:28 AM
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Out of curiosity any reason you’re not doing that right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:13 AM
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I don’t see how that’s any different from the type of pink pill woman I was responding too. And at least the sex worker doesn’t gaslight about terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 12:58 PM
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I don’t think I can cypher every one of those examples you give, you’re using a lot of poetic language. It seems though that the two thing you’re defaulting to are sex and validation. Those two things are nice, but you can get those a lot cheaper and with less hassle from your average sex worker. I’m to understand they are also more agreeable people. Gay bottoms are also performing those tasks at a competitive rate. I question what price you think you can get security, flattery, excitement, arch…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:45 AM
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I’d like to believe that. I’m more and more slipping into a realist mindset where men’s feelings and deviation from acceptable archetypes should be minimized if they want to be around others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 05:19 AM
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Fair enough with Suicide Girls. I don’t know much about the brand, I assumed it was just sad looking gothic women with self harm scars and the like. Maybe BPD isn’t the right word but DD/lg is bigger than ever and I see a lot of women playing up trauma or lack of a father figure in that scene. Whether it’s genuine or not it’s treating trauma as an aesthetic. I assumed the appeal of the Phantom was that he was capable, he dealt violence against those who wronged him. If he was a guy who got screw…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 05:18 AM
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Women get torn up and invest themselves in men too. That doesn’t mean the men are worth shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 05:11 AM
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Those men are more worthy of love than the jerks Not as far as market value is concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:52 AM
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Men are a liability or a gift. I wouldn’t reduce people purely to their utility (what have you done for me lately), but if we’re doing that, then when are women ever a gift?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 02:08 AM
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Women’s trauma is fetishized, if you’ve ever seen how women on social media will play into the Harley Quinn BPD type. Hell, there’s an adult modeling agency called “Suicide Girls”. Women may worry their trauma devalues them, when many men either rush to take up the protector role, or are otherwise ambivalent. Trauma in boys and men legitimately can make them unloveable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 08:54 PM
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Most of the people talking about this online are Deus Vult-ers; people who picked up religion as a way to fantasize about violence against minorities. Nonetheless you are right they have no connection to the culture and values of actual religious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 05:49 PM
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I won’t fully dismiss the idea of heavily protein based diets as healthy for some lifestyles, and I’ll even go further and say carbohydrate-based foods are probably a major factor in the expression of conditions like autism, but blaming plant based diets, as if a minority of people eating veggie burgers and health shakes are the problem comes off as bizarre to me, when vitamin deficiencies and saturated fats in the typical american diet appear much more widespread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 06:37 PM
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The article you post mentions obesity and diabetes in pregnant mothers as autism factors, it says nothing about plant based diets. In fact the article suggests an anti-inflammatory diet for pregnant mothers, antioxidants most commonly found in fruits and vegetables. Processed meat meanwhile, is considered one of the most inflammatory foods. https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/6-foods-that-cause-inflammation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 05:56 PM
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The ability to have regular access to refrigerated meat is a mid-20th century invention, and I don’t see any evidence that people’s consumption of vegetables has increased, and your entire theory of connecting that to autism is ludicrous. The proliferation of fast food is actually still increasing world-wide, and one very modern problem is urban food deserts where communities don’t have access to affordable foods other than meat and carbs. I’ve found severe autists retain very childish diets whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 04:00 PM
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Cool beans. Not sure what your meat boner has to do with autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:44 AM
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Meat wasn’t historically eaten in every meal like it is today. Depending on the time period and area your average person would be lucky if they ate it ever week. And meat sacks full of hormones and artery clogging fats tend to have effects on the body and mind also.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 02:53 AM
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Most gearheads I’ve known were deeply practical and unsentimental in a way that compares 1 for 1 with the most stereotypical stem autist. There’s a reason ISTP, the “autistic” passive observer type, is associated with engineering and technical jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 02:33 AM
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He is "toxic" according to all MSM. I wouldn't even consider the notion that he may be toxic or wrong just for being who he is. It shouldn't even be a conversation and attempts to make this developing kids worth a conversation shouldn't be entertained. Hear no evil speak no evil.
/r/MGTOW219/11/20 07:51 PM
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I don't know if I'd consider you part of the generation raised on social media. Regardless the problem is probably a mix of all the things you mention. Maybe there are circles of more conscientious, forgiving types, but I've been unable to locate or break into them. I somehow picture these being well-off professionals from supportive liberal backgrounds but I could be way off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:46 PM
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The fact that you were in a leadership position crying at all is surreal to me. I've worked with an adult woman in her 30s who was non-responsive and crying on the job for weeks, unloading on guests about her klansman ex-boyfriend, and management was hesitant to step in in the slightest, but at the same time I can't imagine anyone leading a team whose emotional state is questionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:23 PM
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A real loving partner want to be there for you in your hard times. You're describing a person that doesn't exist, at least in generation raised on social media. For Late Millennials, early zoomers, a relationship is a status symbol, and something that's approached with a consumption mindset. As if they can just ask the register to hold the emotional inconvenience please.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:14 PM
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Why are you treating that like an insult, if it applies the vast majority of men? And maybe it’s because I don’t browse this sub often, but how often do men actually post about their incomes on here? I’ve seen women post about their income preferences, but not men about how much they make. For the sake of argument though, why do you act as if a well off person wouldn’t experience the lives of others?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 01:49 AM
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You’re proving the OP right if you seem unable to comprehend that most americans come across those everyday. Even the most sheltered bourgeois have to step outside of their gated neighborhoods and quaint shopping districts sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 01:03 AM
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“She forced the little princess in rags and forced her to work as a scullery maid.” She’s technically royalty but not raised or treated as such. When the prince comes by he doesn’t know who the fuck she is, and she doesn’t seem to see herself as that special either. The next person to question me on Disney lore I swear to god...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/20 08:31 PM
2

Snow White was raised as a maid and lived in rags though. She was more considered royalty adjacent. I think it’s also clear the Dwarves actively don’t clean their shit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/20 12:26 PM
1

Well I’m sure only a minority of women are literally into Ted Bundy but that’s a minority too many, and reflects troubling attitudes.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/20 01:17 AM
1

I unfortunately don’t think sanity is common or incentivized in sex or dating. When I see a young woman pick up a coke habit from her sugar daddy who’s the owner of a bail bonds company, or a man risk his life doing something stupid to impress a girl, I don’t see rational, moral decision making, while they might be normal well adjusted people otherwise. And hey, some crimes are cool. Like sharing entheogenic drugs, or being an undocumented immigrant. I’m like you in that I would stay far away fr…
/r/ExRedPill20/09/20 09:03 PM
1

I mean is that really an excuse though? I mean nearly everyone seems to have some major unhappiness with their childhood or major disappointment that they act on. And I think the issue is the person is abusive towards others, often children in the example.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/20 08:07 PM
1

Interested in knowing what the bill you’re talking about is, so I can provide it when I bring this up in conversation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/20 07:43 PM
1

You're not wrong. I guess it's just the OP mentioned "some ugly women go out with ugly men" as if it's the best case scenario a man can ask for, not that these relationships were happy or satisfying for either party.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 05:22 PM
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I try not to be based in anything, it’s just some people’s problems aren’t acknowledged in some worldviews.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 06:22 AM
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I know plenty of average or ugly women who are dating/married to men that are on the same level of attractiveness as they are. I don't know if this is the affirmation you think it is. It leaves the question of whether these relationships are common, whether the women are faithful, whether the woman truly loves her partner and doesn't act out on feelings of "settling" etc. That and I don't know if the mere possibility of being with the only girl roughly as attractive as you (or a little lesser) t…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 05:47 AM
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Look up Singapore 🇸🇬 sometime. Women are legally guaranteed 50% of assets and subsequent salaries in a divorce under any circumstances, and get tax breaks up to 75% for childbirth. They can also retroactively withdraw consent resulting in a rape case. Meanwhile, beyond the standard two years compulsory military service, Men are subject to a annual public service requirements, and can be called for random military exercises at any time, with as few as two hours warning. This creates an effect whe…
/r/MGTOW216/09/20 01:50 AM
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I always assumed there was a respect aspect to the issue. Like women suddenly found they couldn’t respect a male partner who has revealed certain negative emotions/ he suddenly isn’t the man they thought he was. I dunno, I’m especially bitter about this issue after being with a college freshman tumblrite of variable gender who would call me over to comfort them during moments of intense suicidality, multiple times a week, nearly getting me fired from my job. And my problems I was so reluctant to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 08:22 AM
4

You can get some solid attention if you're a cute femboy cross-dresser or muscular daddy dom, provided you're creative enough with your content. Similarly you need to be a hot or cute looking girl, or at least cater to a niche.
/r/MensRights14/09/20 05:23 PM
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The oldest uncovered battlesite has a mass grave full of the bodies of men and children, but no women of reproductive age. The remains of a settlement indicate women would have lived in the area, they were just taken and made to breed with the more cut-throat group of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 02:32 AM
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If any type of woman gets anything close to the male experience, it would be one who's chosen a body alteration that screams in capital letters "I'm possibly a threat to you and don't live up to your ideal of a polite member of society." Granted she chose that instead of being born into it, and is very possibly saying everything she says as a grift, but on fist glance she comes off like one of the few women I'd consider can truly be a bro if she doesn't show anything that suggests otherwise.
/r/MGTOW12/09/20 08:42 AM
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The thing is that not only is there never a clear distinction between these openings and when women aren’t interested (it essentially requires being a mind reader), but many women prefer when men ignore their signals and create their own opening. From the wrong man it can lead to cries of harassment. The only socially acceptable strategy for the majority of men is not to play these games, and only respond when women show obvious interest, an event which will never come.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:34 AM
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There are plenty of men who don’t act out on their attractions/ act reasonably. These men are usually considered betas and ignored for their passivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:22 AM
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Literally heard this exact thing from a less than coherent pink piller, saying men killed themselves with actually lethal methods because they were purposefully trying to traumatize the people in their lives. Of course kudos for the outspoken message in your last paragraph, although I wouldn't say depression can be necessarily cured.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/20 08:59 PM
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I don’t mean to insult, I’m just legitimately confused why you make the assumption about men’s fantasies you do. And of course people in masturbation fantasies don’t say no, its a fantasy and only a small subset of people get off to being rejected. Does your 12 legged purple cat really have the capability to say no when you want to get off to it? And plenty of men want to make the women in their lives happy. The problem is it often turns women off and is seen as submissive people pleasing. And p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 07:35 AM
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The way you phrase your comment implies that you don’t fantasize about people at all when you get off, and instead just stare stone faced at the ceiling as you do your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 07:13 AM
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In all fairness, that's mostly because the whole idea is sensational (and even a bit fetishized), so any time it happens it will make headlines and the top of reddit, even when the student is rarely under 16. Meanwhile I doubt it gets covered everytime a man abuses a pubescent girl. Kind of a dog-bites-man vs man-bites-dog situation I guess. This is coming from someone who's mother was involved in his sexual abuse by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 08:34 PM
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If I could get a link or source for this it would be very useful to have in my back pocket.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/20 03:32 AM
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And you know what, it sounds like you two are legitimately enjoying each other's company, good for you. I guess I'm a freak outlier in that I'm not content and would feel a little insulted feeling pressured to create an atmosphere and create a song and dance for a woman I'm dating without any similar reciprocity. It would make me feel like I'm having to entertain a child, not enter a relationship with another adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:00 AM
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You're legitimate to see it that way, I personally see what you're describing as more like when an investor has financial interests in a company, like equity. And there's nothing wrong with courting, I make sure to "court" a girl with the full experience of words, actions, and meaningful gifts. I wouldn't date a girl who didn't in some way "court" back with some sort of expression of how she feels for me. Even just a verbal response that's more than "oh my god, thank you, this is so nice." That …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 05:20 AM
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But from the start if gifts and such are treated as compulsory, as a requirement they become less genuine is what I mean. And I'd associate looser social standards on gift giving and paying for dates with progressive feminism, I'm not sure what the manosphere has to do with it. I personally save gifts and sweeping gestures for when they come up organically. I don't do flowers and gifts right out of the gate because because it comes off as condescending and unrealistic in my mind that anyone woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:20 AM
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So I guess the main disconnect from women and men about giving women expensive gifts is that to women it's always a romantic gesture, among male groups it's always treated as either a tedious tax or a fool-proof way to get into a woman's pants/ get her off your back. I see a lot of men not so eager to take part in these customs not out of stinginess, because of how artifically it's perceived to a lot of us. There are exceptionally meaningful gifts of course, but if you think real men are actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:57 AM
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Since it was coined by the rapper Lil B, based can mean literally anything the commenters wants it to mean. From 10 year olds on tik tok to unhinged 40 year old political cranks, they're all using the word based as an excuse to drop what they think is a hip buzzword, not to convey any real meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:53 AM
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Serious question, do you think he's happy putting in work and resources to keep you satisfied without getting anything in return but your presence? How do you think he feels knowing your presence and affection is contingent on him giving you material objects, or keeping a certain social station?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:36 AM
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I don’t see them or anyone saying men can’t be strong. (In fact most feminists in their personal lives seem to prefer men be strong.) It’s more an issue of who they leverage that strength against. My problem with them will always be willingness to go against the feminist platform, even if it’s just admitting that in an ideal world, women would need to make changes in their outlook and actions just like men are supposed to do towards women. Almost no-one talks about how the vast majority of femin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/20 10:14 PM
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I guess ideally I’d like us to find some sort of common identity or ground with both the MRAs and MensLib. (More likely MensLib as they seem to be acting in good faith a lot of the time.) Sort of like how a radfem and a liberal feminist don’t have a lot in common or see eye to eye, but are still willing to be part of the same wave. I don’t know if that’s attainable but just my two cents.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/20 08:10 PM
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I meant creating a completely new sub that this already fits the purpose of.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/20 05:50 PM
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Judean People’s Front People’s Front of Judea
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/20 09:44 AM
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mostly to compete in the FSM Damn Pastafarians.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 12:58 PM
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A post up in the thread you talk about being too fake, now you talk about not being fake enough. It's not really a problem of being real or fake, it's a question of being naturally correct, or otherwise having value, like someone to vouch for you, or an attractive social position. If a man loses that position, he's dead to the world, he has no leverage to justify his existence in a room. Like do you really want the awkward third wheel in the room without any friends there? If he doesn't have any…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 12:39 AM
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If you read the room and find people are more comfortable when you’re not around, if getting coworkers to return your texts is like pulling teeth, that’s called being rejected. And if the man doesn’t give up before too long that’s called being persistent and that’s creepy when you’re not inherently desirable. And what’s really being social anyway? You mean being socially fluent?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 11:27 PM
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Well here's the thing, if a hetero seeming man (or any man really) pays a compliment, does a good deed, etc, for a woman, the social implication is he's trying to fuck her. I'm not particularly interested in fucking by itself but nothing I do towards a woman can ever register as being of good will, it has to be predatory. I'm a bisexual so if men find that out I get to deal with that also. A lot of men are also just seen as naturally threatening or socially "wrong" despite their best efforts. Wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 09:04 PM
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Women who orient their entire looks and persona around not wanting to put up with men's advances, outspoken lesbians, etc, still receive tons of good will and attention. Also notice gay men and asexuals giving attention to these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 08:55 PM
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Men don’t stay involved in each other’s lives because they don’t want to be that guy who makes his presence known where he’s not wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 08:43 PM
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What if a man chooses not to be isolated and people reject him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 08:41 PM
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Have you ever been in a room and felt like you had to justify your existence? The way your post reads it doesn’t sound like you have. Any hobby I’ve been to a group will naturally congregate around the female members, and there are papers which say roughly the same thing. There are also men who are seen as excess and no matter how much they reach out they won’t make any connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 08:38 PM
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Good character witness statements could spare her the death penalty. Filicidal parents receive notoriously lenient sentences, and mothers receive lesser sentences than fathers. I found one paper that shows an average sentence of under four years (albeit one that seems to be only focused on African American mothers during a specific period in the 90s.) I doubt the death penalty is even going to be on the table, and a jury's sympathy for the mother/ eugenic inclinations may go far for her.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/20 05:39 AM
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And hips aren't a make or break feature for men. A women's hips don't make the guy's friends pressure him to leave her, or determine whether he'll marry her or not. (Plus being decently in shape can do the majority of the work as far as how your hips look.)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:29 AM
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You're acting as if a man can squint really hard and suddenly gain 4 inches. It'd be as if there was a general rule that men didn't date women who were C-cups or below. (btw I'm 6'1, I just think women's collective standards are ridiculous.)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:24 AM
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Black people who want to eat in restaurants are insecure and that's totes a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:39 AM
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Brb, going out to oppress some womyn and POCs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:37 AM
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She's just a not particularly exceptional woman tho. Why do you have to take your internal bitterness towards females out on her specifically like American voters took it out on Hillary Clinton?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:42 AM
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Be careful, you might find a man who likes this kind of treatment too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:57 PM
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You figured me out. I’d never even consider marrying a woman until I’ve brought some forceps to her vagina lips.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:11 PM
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The problem is how many media gatekeepers and influencers would be supportive or ambivalent of her ideas.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/20 07:29 PM
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You tend to need something to get something though. Whether it’s friends, relationships, business contacts, whatever. A man in a sub-rock bottom situation can expend an enormous amount of effort and find his situation doesn’t improve because he doesn’t have any leverage. In the friendless creep’s circumstance, he’s going to have trouble parsing out a correct way to act when the default response is negative or indifferent. The only way for a lot of men to get anything from this situation is to “f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:26 AM
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Lock Rein up Also, it was kind of also a free reign when you think about it.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/20 05:48 PM
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He gave you multiple justifiable reasons not to be comfortable around him, and it doesn’t sound like he cared about your feelings at all, especially if he ever made you feel unsafe or had you take part in stuff you didn’t want to. I don’t know if you should the embarrassed, almost every woman I’ve known and many men have come out of a relationship feeling used.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/20 12:06 PM
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You can’t expect giving a partner free reign is going to be to your benefit. Red-pillers are generally as amoral as the worst of the women they hate, and it sounds like he hung you with the rope you gave him. Sounds awful. Men and women will make generalizations about how ruthless the others are when truth be told, everyone should have healthy boundaries and skepticism of their partners. There should be room for love and trust within those boundaries of course.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/20 11:34 AM
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Almost everyone is a potential value to each other. That's a very fair response. I guess this is me being biased by my experiences with my peers in their young 20s, and who can be utilitarian in who they surround themselves with. The fact that you use "liberal" as a swear word is quite frightening. Liberal is actually an inaccurate choice of words, I apologize. I've actually been trending very centrist politically, and I'll even admit it was Enlightenment values that produced a lot of the civili…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 08:24 AM
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So you reject Original Sin then. I reject the literal sense, yes. I do think Original Sin can be a solid understanding of the biological and situational drives that lead us to violence and cruelty, but that more benevolent and social drives can be learned. (most of the time) other people represent a potential value to the self And what does this mean for people who don't extend immediate value to the self? In the social sphere I think it's this rational selfishness that results in a lot of accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:00 AM
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I don't center my morality around the idea that "we're all depraved and thus all need forgiveness." I'm a Christian, not a Puritan, and my views are very informed by an understanding of Classical Hinduism, Secular Humanism, and Reform Judaism. I actually believe something close to the opposite, we're all fundamentally good but it's fear, greed, and cynical market strategies that make us turn to evil. Are you presuming that the interests of the self are opposed to the interests of others? You ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:47 PM
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Romantic love requires both lust AND affection I've never dated a woman who wasn't still head over heels obsessed with her abusive ex boyfriend. What aspects of these men's character do you think brought about such romantic feelings? evil is evil and not worthy of love. This is me coming from a Christian background but I can't imagine a person who's not deserving of some basic show of good will or outreach, even if it's something as simple as the due process that we offer as a right in court. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:40 AM
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Yes, and society was usually considered a lot more violent and less civilized before monogamy was established by the romans and cemented in Western Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:27 AM
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That's an odd idea, that most people are taking part in romantic love primarily based on a person's character. Affection is what you feel when you see that which you value/respect/deem morally good in another person's character. The idea that everyone "deserves" love is tantamount to advocating moral nihilism. I feel like it's not morally inconsistent to form a connection, an affect, for even the most loathsome person imaginable. If not coming from admiration, this connection can come from compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:24 AM
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Epigenetics man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:53 PM
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I wouldn’t read spite in people saying women don’t get diagnosed. I assumed people were saying it as a point of pride, like despite everything they keep calm and carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 10:05 PM
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I’ve read articles about how ADD and Autism may not only be genetically related but different expressions of the same gene. Makes sense to me as my brother was severely ADHD and I was High Functioning, and I can see them both being responses to the same problem with information processing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 10:00 PM
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Would you stay with a man who didn’t live up to your masculine ideal?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 05:35 AM
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You are not a typical male I’ll agree with you to the extent that the typical woman doesn’t really care about her man beyond a masculine ideal either. Western capitalism has produced an entitled consumer mindset that is not intrinsic human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 05:32 AM
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I don't know about political correctness, I just know my shitposting when I see it and that part about goys was almost definitely the tail end of some anti-semitic shit.
/r/MensRights21/04/20 12:48 PM
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The reason people talk about the need for women to change is because men’s gendered behavior is now incredibly tailored to the needs of women. Men will now bend over backwards, sometimes to the point of accepting cheating, to avoid being seen as controlling of their partners. You best believe a millennial or zoomer man can’t conceivably face the consequences of criticizing a woman in public. Traditional flirting such as compliments or taking the initiative in asking for a date are reduced to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 11:01 AM
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and they'll throw a dick their way to out a con. Never had this happen to me yet but I'd assume the opposite if a woman did that, bi or otherwise. Like it was some shit-test to observe whether I preferred dick or not. A lot of women are, I just doubt they'd come here specifically to rationalize or defend what works for them. Honestly whether we're talking about fujoshis or gangbang enthusiasts I'd be interested in hearing these women's perspectives. not being overtly attracted to femininity in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:19 AM
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He'd be fine seeing me fuck another chick, I'm sure. He's a dude, afterall. Two people having sex to please a third party will always feel kind of desperate and insincere to me. Like I feel sorry for those hoes who aren't really into women in a meaningful sense but pretend for the sake of some fuckboy. That kind of sex without love is just too uncanny. Same reason I can't do porn (most of the time).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:09 AM
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When you hang around /pol/ enough you pick up on context clues and dogwhistles.
/r/MensRights21/04/20 07:43 AM
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That's a valid point, although I'm to understand that most "real" bisexual women are very upfront about turning down men's requests for threesomes. I'm also surprised more women aren't into the idea of multiple men in the same bedroom, when so many of them are into multiple men during the same week. Anyways I still see the issue as stricter requirements for masculinity than femininity, justified by woke twitter thots with concerns about STDs and cheating, but you bring forward a reasonable expla…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:42 AM
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Yep, women trying to claim a moral high ground because they're into faghag culture is like a white person claiming to be woke because they watch minstrel shows. It's a novel parody that doesn't necessarily lead to them humanizing the men in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:24 AM
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Why do you think the reverse isn't true? A majority of women are at least on some level "into" other women but few men are insecure about competing with vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:17 AM
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I've heard this joke before, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:04 AM
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The anti-semitism in the top left corner is an uneccesarily bad look for this repost.
/r/MensRights21/04/20 06:57 AM
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I’m talking about the hedonistic norms established in social media networks that everyone from your mother to 8 year old kids take part in. Not a handful of children’s movies with positive messages. Please elaborate, though! Are you saying that platonic love can’t exist outside of a marriage contract? Because I’m one of those sick fucks who’s into people’s personalities, who prefers making love to fucking and intimate closeness to making love, and if what you’re saying is true with women that mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:36 AM
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I quite remember being told to do the opposite and never trust men who just want a pretty face. Well I assume you had a lot of input from your parents and trusted adults, and weren't raised by social media. Which is why I promote that men try to marry in their early 30s rather than early 20s. There's a middle ground between hooking up and going for marriage, isn't there? Or have I been browsing a Christian subreddit this entire time?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:46 AM
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I never said there weren’t people in between, I just mentioned an extreme example. I don’t think it’s anything inherent to women btw, it’s just a case of my current generation being socialized where nearly any woman can live the fast and glamorous life by associating with a few powerful men. Leave California It’s probably more a case of leaving my college aged peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:56 AM
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Don't go for the women spending their prime years going for Chad. The types of women you’d expect to stray from this norm, such as conscious, nerdy, and gender non-conforming women are just as bad if not worse. When you find out your woke anti-capitalist friend is sugar babying for your fuckboy finance-bro boss, it’s hard not to think something to the tune of AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:05 AM
1

There are plenty of people who will step in... on behalf of the woman. This is why so many people are wary of putting the woman or the idea of womanhood on a pedestal like our society does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:10 PM
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If men intervene on behalf of another man than it’s misogyny and possibly abuse of the woman in the situation. Most men under 30 are incapable of even thinking of speaking against a woman on gender matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 05:59 AM
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It's a shame the Dad doesn't appear to be in the picture. Mine was far from perfect but he took up the gauntlet and got custody of me from my mom (in the 90s no less) when I very well could have died underneath her care.
/r/MGTOW15/04/20 02:41 AM
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This reads like it was written by the ghost of a mid-19th century admiral who still haunts his family manor. Like jeez great-great-gramps. We left your snuff and your monocle on the armoire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:36 AM
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I mean let’s be fair. Dumb people usually have an edge in the dating market. EDIT: Also, don't be rude or I’ll shove a boot up your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 07:34 PM
1

You know checking out the sub now I can kind of see your point. I am seeing a bit of the petty gamergate-ish stuff and an insecure need to prove men are better than women at XY or Z, but there’s some reasonable stuff also. Might have to look more into it as my dissapponted ex-menslib self.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 06:36 PM
0

The main subreddit’s feed seems to indicate otherwise to me, but I’d be drawn to a platonically ideal movement of men going their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 05:58 PM
1

I typically associate MGTOW with fuckboys and the most petty type of MRA. I see them as wanting to accelerate gender dynamics while I would like the expectations to be loosened.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 04:58 PM
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Or women YOU CHOOSE TO ASSOCIATE WITH? I don't associate with women. They steal your essence. OR expects her to be his therapist and refuses to get professional help? Speaking from personal experience, I've tended to be the therapist for all the women I've dated. Nearly got fired leaving work to stop suicide attempts, and I genuinely didn't mind because I cared for the girl in question and wanted the best for her. I assume a relationship should be possible for flawed people to support each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 01:37 PM
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Well I'm not red-pill and I have no idea how they operate. I'm just a man who's tired of modern gender relations and wants to ascend above it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 01:12 PM
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I would say it's a lot higher than 80%, and even the small minority of women that signal at being open to non-Alpha masculine men, don't necessarily believe it in their hearts. In practice you get these unicorns hanging out among male nerd groups, and they can essentially take their pick because the entire bottom two thirds of men is clamoring for their Becky ass, all the while being as awkward or flawed or non-traditional as they want. When you're dating Becky you'll find they walk all over you…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 01:09 PM
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This has been a popular belief MEN have pushed ON OTHER MEN. Consider which actions women forgive, and which actions women avoid. I've never seen a woman give a man a second chance once she saw him as weak or not traditionally masculine. I've never seen a woman leave an abusive or controlling man successfully the first time. We literally have a popular media trend of telling men that they dont have to do that. I mean there might be a minority of feminists online and maybe a few media creators wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 01:02 PM
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One thing people are starting to notice about female tastes as they broadcast them online is that they are incredibly objective and typically extend to the value of the man overall. A man who they don't find sexually desirable is existentially wrong. If a man hasn't been performing the narrow masculine roles since he was young, if he's not the right height, if he doesn't have the right personality, not only is he seen as undesirable by a vast clique of women who network their opinion of him, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:32 PM
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