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LIFESTYLEMorphiadz/r/RedPillWomen25/07/23 03:37 PM
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I don't have a good answer to this, but I have a similar situation. I'm Russian Orthodox but wasn't raised in the church because my father is of a different faith, so there was always a sort of disconnect with religion in my home growing up. My husband on the other hand was raised very religiously and is very devout, it is a bit difficult to feel ''as Christian as him'' in a sense, and sometimes I feel disconnected in general/unsure of my beliefs. We have the same values, but I don't connect to …
/r/RedPillWives28/10/25 05:10 PM
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Don't worry, this subreddit is full of a bunch of whiners anyways
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/24 03:21 AM
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I'd bet money you're very miserable in your personal life with loads of issues which explains why you feel the need to try to attack other people you don't know on the internet because they feel differently than you do. Most of us learn how to treat people in kindergarten. Praying you get closure for your problems and learn to treat people with respect even if they don't share your opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/24 11:33 PM
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Unlike most unsuccessful women on this subreddit...I am happily married with a family to a lawyer whose time obviously was and is very valuable and who put me first. But hey, you believe whatever delusional story makes you feel better about your self worth! At the end of the day, you guys are the ones who end up alone or with bad men and then return here whining and unstable. Have fun.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/24 11:09 AM
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Lol. Unlike most unsuccessful women on this subreddit...I am happily married with a family. But you believe whatever delusional story makes you feel better.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/24 11:03 AM
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There are two things that could be at play here. You're insecure about yourself, more than you let on. He has a wandering eye or you have some reason to think he'd be interested or attracted to another woman. Both of these are bad.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/24 08:39 PM
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The man should definitely travel first. I get that it can be more convenient the other way around, but I would personally need to see a real effort from the man before committing. Asking you to do all the work for his convenience isn't good in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/24 08:00 PM
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Red flag. Don't waste your time. Men like this are not serious.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 01:23 PM
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You seem very obsessed with proving you are attractive. If the post is an indication of your behaviour with them, maybe they are picking up on that. It comes off as insecure or trying to prove something. Men who sense a woman thinks too much of herself are not likely to give compliments. It is like if I go on about being so smart but no one tells me I am so smart. If I naturally am, they will surely point it out. I don't need to prove it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/24 12:48 AM
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I understand the feeling which is why I chose a man who was waiting for love/marriage to have any kind of intimacy. It is hard in this day and age but if possible I recommend this as it eliminates the problem you are facing. I am very happy I did not give up the search. My husband doesn't seem like the type who would have waited either (he's handsome, has a good job, has connections with people, opportunity) but he believed in only being with one woman. There are men like this if you look in the…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 09:34 PM
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Maybe it's not the most common opinion in this group but some men are just not faithful and it doesn't matter how thin or pretty you are or how much you take care of him etc. Many men these days (and women) are simply not capable of being faithful. Although it may not be the popular opinion here, I kind of think blaming yourself and/or changing doesn't work. You can change all you want but if someone doesn't love and respect you, it won't ever matter. I know for a fact that if I gained weight an…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 09:34 PM
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Run, it's not worth it. I had a sort of similar thing happen in the past and the older person was just trying to take advantage/use their experience to get me into some weird relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 12:18 AM
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Love. But I think most here are programmed to go more for money honestly. I don't believe in that. Being a provider is good but it isn't just about the money or financial support, there are many other sides to a marriage that matter more to me.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/23 09:35 PM
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First of all, I am glad you've come to these conclusions and want to make changes and be more feminine. I definitely think that clothing can change a man's perception of a woman and baggy or masculine clothing is not attractive to most. However, the underwear situation seems a bit extreme. I could understand if he suggested you wear something nicer for certain occasions, but his behaviour is strange in my opinion and seems to suggest a possible issue with pornography/unrealistic ideas about what…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 06:38 PM
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I don't use Bumble (I'm married) but I assume that if he knew you were very active it is because he was very active. Given the rest of his behaviour, I don't think he was all that serious and I think he is using this as a way to jump ship basically. There is no need to be unclear about where the potential relationship is headed, and the fact that he did that and then conveniently used the Bumble situation to end it, tells me he was just waiting for something to use to get out of it. I don't thin…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 05:57 PM
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The two main issues I see are not being compatible due to religious views/spiritual views (which is unavoidable, some people naturally will think you're crazy no matter what views, beliefs, or religion you follow, and most who have PHDs or are very studious will probably be judgy) and the other issue is disclosing trauma early on. When I was dating (I'm married now) I would always assume that no one wants to hear problems on the first few dates for example related to trust issues or amount and f…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/23 07:27 PM
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My intention is not to blame or attack you, but this is why it is very important to address these topics before marriage. If not, you could be subjected to waiting and waiting until it is too late. Perhaps he isn't even really interested in having children and just giving future dates to put it off and buy some time. I have known men who do that about marriage and/or children. It sounds like a possible difference of interests (one wanting a family, the other wanting career success). You've been …
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/23 09:52 PM
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It sounds like you want to be stuck in this relationship since you have posted plenty of times here about the same topic. You know the answer already, there is no point continuing to go on about the same situation when you know what to do.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/23 09:45 PM
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Most women are looking for better opportunities or someone who can offer more. So I think that once placed in a ''better'' location, they just move along use their beauty/body/etc to try to lure in a man who can secure a better life/more money for them. I'm Russian/Ukrainian and a lot of the women have recently been running from those countries and marrying whoever just to get out. There are so many mail order bride websites based over there, and almost all of the women I've met of my ethnic bac…
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/23 09:08 PM
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I'd have a problem with this since it seems like a very short period of time to just get over you and move onto the next woman. I think that if he genuinely saw a future with you or genuinely loved you, he wouldn't have been able to look for someone else so soon. I would at least expect him to be single for some time before seeking out someone else. It seems like he was already over you, and he violated the agreement you two made. I personally wouldn't continue but that's because the sign seems …
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/23 08:58 PM
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I don't understand people who want children but think getting married is ''too much commitment'' or something. I would and have run from many of those in the past and that's why I eventually found my husband who shares my values.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/23 11:13 PM
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Like the other person said, photos can look better or worse than real life. In my experience, selfies tend to come out more accurate and photos other people take of me tend to look worse. I think it is because with a selfie you can see what you look like, change angles, and control and change things you don't like (like your smile, how open your eyes are, poses, etc) and when someone else takes it you're kind of just hoping for the best. However, I have always been told that in person I look eve…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/23 07:52 PM
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I wouldn't like this either. It isn't productive and many people get sucked into the world of gaming to deal with stress or other issues instead of addressing them. For example, if the house is a mess, just disappear into the game and forget it. My husband is a lawyer and is very busy, but he made his own rule in order to not abandon the marriage - when he gets home from work, we have time together until I need to sleep (I'm pregnant and I have a sleep disorder so I sleep early, like 9-9:30). Th…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 03:37 PM
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Definitely. The OP needs a reality check.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 08:02 PM
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I think the lack of respect that the man shows to you should be enough to not continue a relationship with him. Later there are all these women complaining about affairs or getting hurt when they decided to stay with a man who already cheated or strayed before. It's obvious that the same thing is going to keep happening. It's not like being more feminine or caring is going to make him think ''wow I only want to be intimate with my wife now''. If you weren't enough before you're not enough by dol…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 07:58 PM
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I agree with you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 11:02 PM
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I wouldn't be okay with this. It sounds to me like he's becoming bored/curious and literally showed you that which is how serious cheating starts. Also, if he is that easily enticed by another woman pursuing him, that's bad news all around. I wouldn't trust her saying there was no sex, either. She isn't on your side and was never going to tell you if there was. It's not like she was going to just give you all the details about whatever they did just because you asked, it would be very naive to t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 10:59 PM
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I love Tolstoy, but I've never actually read this one. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/23 07:21 PM
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I met him online on an app, and I think it came down to my approach more than anything. Over the years I had been on various apps and websites without success. But what I did was on my profile I would put that I am looking for a serious relationship leading to marriage, that I am traditional, and that I am introverted/serious and not interested in parties/drinking/etc. This would get rid of the majority of people. I would then get straight to the point talking about values with the men that mess…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/23 06:59 PM
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I'll be honest. As a traditional woman I could never be with a man who had had other partners. Due to my values I just don't believe in it and it would make me uncomfortable and would impact me too much. I'd never accept it. My husband was a virgin and had never even kissed a woman and that was very important to me, we have a very stable relationship as a result. You learn with your partner, you don't need ''experience''. It comes with time, and with one man and one woman.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/23 03:42 PM
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Same, my partner is very anti-porn and we also have an open technology agreement. It's not impossible to find men like this. It's just getting harder and harder. But we also have a few male friends who are anti-porn as well.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 11:26 PM
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I focus more on values, so if he has the values you're looking for, reconsider it unless there are other things that are not superficial that are impacting your feelings. If there are other things, then it is valid, you don't have to be into everyone you meet and maybe he's just not for you. But back on the height topic, my partner is a 5'0'' Indigenous Mexican. But his values are great and in line with mine, and I'll take that over tall or any other trait. It's hard to find men with decent valu…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 11:16 PM
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I would say he is more logically against it than religiously against it, in the sense that, he is against it because of the destruction of the traditional family, he doesn't understand why these kinds of things are so common when for so long, it was normal to save sexuality for marriage and have it only be something between partners. He strongly believes that a woman should be loved and protected and that sexuality is something entirely connected to love and that that is only between 2 people an…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 05:09 PM
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It destroys the healthy relationship between men and women. Men these days (and women) are so sexualized, it is like everything is about sex and what you look like, everyone has casual sex with friends, it's just gone too far. These men also mistreat women, I have personally never felt special or loved by a man who is sexual/consumes pornography. My partner is religious and anti-pornography and treats me so well. Men like that are hard to come by these days, but their outlook on life and relatio…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 12:27 AM
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A lot of times people do plan marriage, have sex, and then don't actually get married. I met quite a few men like this in my own search for a virgin. So many tried to tell me that because they ''planned on marrying her'' they shouldn't be faulted for having sex before marriage. Just a consideration, because unfortunately lots of people are not as responsable as you and your fiancé have been. I think it's really great that it worked out for you. The best thing is only to be intimate that way with…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/21 05:24 PM
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Well, that kind of behaviour is just going to be counterproductive obviously. Those kinds of men obviously aren't waiting for marriage, and if that is the way you behave, the ones who are waiting are going to run in the other direction.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/21 02:52 PM
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I was going to answer seriously but after looking at your post history, I believe you to be a troll.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/21 02:24 PM
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