Morphon Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is The "Women And Children" Narrative Misandrist? It's misandrist if you come to the position assuming gender equality is the correct moral stance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 02:33 PM
10	Would you date a very attractive girl who doesn't like sex? There's nothing stopping you from forming an incredible friendship with this person. Why not do that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 10:56 AM
3	Men of reddit would you have a problem if your girlfriend was a Cuckquean? I'm into monogamy, so it wouldn't be appealing to me at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/24 09:23 PM
–	Why do women often prefer dad bods over six-packs? Several of these surveys, when they drill down to get more specifics - women are concerned the the "6-pack guy" will implicitly hold them to a higher fitness standard as well. If your partner is always working out, or doing activities that require a high degree of physical fitness (like rock climbing, or Spartan races, or Ninja Warrior, or weekend 5k runs, etc...), then you don't have the opportunities to do the soft "let yourself go" that many (most?) people do when in an LTR. And by soft "let …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 05:21 PM
1	Men are turned off by women approaching them CMV False. Source: am man who has been cold approached by women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 01:21 AM
1	How do I help my husband who is obsessed with his muscles/body? Hi, Lifter! I take your question seriously - so what would be the difference? Let's take your car parts example. Scenario 1 - Guy spends $500 a month on parts and tuning for his performance car. Sometimes he saves a bit so that he can drop more money on some higher-ticket items. He takes a lot of pride and pleasure in driving his car, especially when revving the engine while going through a tunnel. He does some track days when the timing works out, and every once in a while he finds himself up l…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/23 10:56 PM
1	How do I help my husband who is obsessed with his muscles/body? That's the part that has me thinking that there might be a body image thing going on. Working out for two hours a day - that sounds like my wife, right there! But it's because she loves the gym and her fitness classes make her feel amazing. I don't think it's too much time to spend on a hobby. But the "I'm not good enough" component - sometimes that can sneak up on a person and then it takes some time for that feeling to disappear. It's difficult to love how you are now, and also want to improve…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/23 06:25 PM
4	How do I help my husband who is obsessed with his muscles/body? Hello, friend. Disclaimer - Married man, mid 40-s. I generally don't post here since this is a female space, but I think I can help put some context into this. He's probably suffering from body dysmorphia. Some men are susceptible to this (myself included) when they consider their bodies as something that can be controlled and changed to reflect their ideals. Since bodies aren't really malleable in that way (even with surgery), this can become an obsession over "problem" areas or parts of the ph…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/23 05:29 PM
55	Should I pick out his clothes? Married man here.... Requests like this are almost certainly genuine. He wants to make a good impression on your family because he values you. Give him helpful advice - he will appreciate it.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/23 03:32 PM
1	What's the point in adjusting who you are in order to be attractive, if you're not yourself anymore? A lot of this advice is to stop whiny men from whining. Nobody is attracted to whining. I experience very deep emotions, and I enjoy that about myself. I'm not interested in a partner that doesn't appreciate that and find it exciting. So, if someone is a whiner my advice is to gain some maturity. If your bedroom partner isn't attracted to YOU then they really can't be more than just a bedroom partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 09:41 PM
1	Am I the only one on r/PurplePillDebate that doesn't hate this sub? I like hearing different perspectives collide. Always educational for me. One of my favorite subs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 02:41 PM
15	The idea of being a man’s “Type”… Since it was specifically asked for... Type is only about initial attraction. All the initial attraction stuff is replaced very quickly with the person's actual character traits and virtues (in the classical sense). I don't think this is something to worry about. If a partner strays it won't be for this reason, even if they say it is.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/10/22 11:45 AM
3	Marry A Virgin But it Turns Out You’re Not Compatible Someone very close to me had that exact scenario. He stayed with her, but she eventually had an emotional affair and divorced him. He was sad at first, but got over the "loss" pretty quickly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 11:29 PM
4	Subs similar to this but have mens give their thought? Same here, but in general, even if I could answer a question that way, I often will not simply because this is a female space - I'm just a guest (and not even an invited one, just not disinvited). I always figured it would be impolite to speak up unless male responses were specifically requested.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/07/22 11:50 AM
3	Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help. As a divorced person myself - being with the wrong person is much much harder than being alone. It's not even close. I know leaving someone who has betrayed you in that way seems scary - it's like a leap into the unknown. But it's better. I hope you can learn from people like me rather than having to learn it by the experience of divorcing someone (perhaps enduring recurring custody disputes over the children). I can tell you all this with total certainty.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/05/22 01:47 PM
20	I’ve failed as a parent and I need your help My view - and this is just from some random person on the internet - that there's nothing to fix. Each parent has to do their best with their kids. Sometimes we do well, sometimes we make mistakes. After they're about 14-15 there's very little you can STOP them from doing if they are totally committed to their choice. That said, humans tend to become unhappy if their situation is too restrictive. It might be worth considering whether the environment for your younger children might serve to push …	/r/RedPillWomen	28/04/22 06:45 PM
1	"Just be yourself" is a terrible advice No, it means you need to change how you appear IF you decide that getting some action is worth the trouble. If you must appear to be a worse person than you actually are, then I suggest asking yourself long and hard whether it's worth it. Be a great person. Why would someone willingly chase after people who don't value that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/22 04:22 PM
1	"Just be yourself" is a terrible advice Oh, well if "be yourself" is code for "Don't change anything! You're perfect, just the way you are." then it's garbage. I'm taking "be yourself" as a way of saying "Show up every day with authenticity. Be unafraid of others' disapproval. Only be concerned that your own life exhibits the excellence you strive for." In that case, what better person can you be except yourself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/22 04:03 PM
1	"Just be yourself" is a terrible advice If you work on yourself, becoming the best version of you... Do you then get to "be yourself"? Or are you still putting on a show for mate selection? I think it would be better to "be yourself" as you go on that journey of becoming better. If someone isn't interested, that's their problem. You don't need them, or anyone else, to find happiness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/22 12:03 PM
1	Honestly, would you leave a 7 in looks who you loved and had other shared interests/ values with, for a 10? Absolutely not. Someone you love and do things together? Leave for a prettier face? That's crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 09:56 PM
0	For the men on here: If a woman doesn't have biological kids with a man, is she mostly only good for her looks and likely to be discarded after the wall? Mid 40’s man in an 9 year LTR with a 36F. I have kids from a previous relationship. There is basically zero chance I would want to end it with my SO. She’s an amazing, caring person who is generous with her time and opinions, is a hard-worker at anything she touches and loves to find new ways of making herself and our shared life together better. We love to travel together (when we can), and also enjoy our evenings when we get to just be home. I set up a room in my house where we can just sit wi…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/05/21 02:57 PM
2	Why MGTOW instead of MRA? I think it all comes down to whether YOU think society can be improved. If you think that it can be, and you would like to advocate for that improvement, then you can become an activist. Conversely, if you think that society cannot be improved, or perhaps more importantly, that YOU cannot (or do not wish to) take it on yourself to try to change things, then MGTOW is a way of saying "no thanks" to a flawed and hostile system. It's like being a woman in the 1900's and feeling like marriage is a tr…	/r/MGTOW	03/05/21 04:38 PM
1	Dad died Very sorry for your loss. This is so terrible.	/r/MGTOW	16/04/21 03:08 AM
4	I've never been to this sub, but if reddit quarantined it, sign me up. Same here. Censorship? No thank you. If I go to a library I would like to check out all the banned books, please.	/r/MGTOW	01/02/20 03:16 AM
1	Would you Date someone on the opposite end of the political spectrum. Hmmm. I think the bigger issue for me is if we agree on the right way to treat the people in our lives. If we share the ideals of respect, empathy, commitment, and so on, then if we disagree about whether taxes should be higher or lower, or just how much (or of what type) government provided health-care is appropriate, or whether Israel or Palestine is more in the wrong - that stuff seems to me more like interesting differences that we can enjoy. On the other hand, having been previously in a ve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 04:36 PM
13	Are there really men who don’t cheat or who strive not to? Male opinion - Some of us are out there. I have never cheated and never would. I actually find commitment to be invigorating - much more so than sneaking around like an idiot. Don't give up on the search.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/01/20 04:41 PM
11	Can men open up to women without losing sexual attraction? "Opening up" involves revealing your true feelings - your inner self. If your inner self is full of petty discontent, envy, and fault-finding, then yeah - good luck finding someone attracted to that. If your inner self is generous (with your emotions as well as your resources), full of joy, passion, and inner calm, then I think all healthy people are attracted to those qualities. There are always those moments if you know someone long enough when you get a peek into what they're REALLY like. The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 07:36 PM
1	Meyers Briggs vs Pill Affiliation: Do redpillers tend to be ---J while bluepillers ---P? I am the reverse of that generalization.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/17 03:33 AM
90	Don't listen to the extremists. Yes, you can play video games, but don't make it a priority I play video games because it's what I want to do. I don't need anyone to tell me what my priorities should be or when I'm "allowed" to do what I enjoy.	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/16 02:05 PM
2	It's our anniversary! Congratulations! May you have many more happy years ahead!	/r/RedPillWomen	11/11/16 11:22 PM
6	We hit 15k members! Lurkers and newbies come out and say "hi"! MGTOW myself. This sub is, for me, very informative. I've been RP for probably 5 years or so. It was a refreshing, not bitter pill to swallow.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/16 07:32 PM
8	Having Trouble Finding a Boyfriend Guy here: Hetero flexibility doesn't have anything to do with it, so long as you understand it in a particular way. Let me give an analogy - I'm a guy that doesn't have a particular "type" of girl that I'm attracted to. I like bookish girls, athletic girls, redheads, brunettes, and at one time I was married to a blonde. There are lots of different types of girls that I could fall in love with and have a relationship with. Each relationship would be different because each person is different. Now…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/10/16 04:36 PM
2	Why women can't be red pilled Close relatives (mothers and sisters) of men who get divorce raped tend to have some red pill attitudes about marriage. At least the ones I know.	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/16 05:24 PM