| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 37 | 😩 | Morphy2222 | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/26 05:34 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | 😩No lawyer needed I’m actually giving her a sweetheart deal (she consulted a lawyer and the lawyer told her she would be an idiot not to take it) But I ended up with a six-figure salary and an engineering degree. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/26 08:13 PM |
| 3 | At what point did you decide you had to go pro se because you simply couldn’t afford to keep defending repeated motions?How old are the children? How long is alimony? What are her wants for custody? Greater than 50/50? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/26 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Everyone wins except the childrenSilver bullet divorce strikes again. I’m truly sorry bud. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/26 05:58 PM |
| 10 | Almost finalized divorce and find out oldest is not mine. How to handle this mess?This actually could help custody / Alimony in favor of you she has shown that she cannot be trusted. I would certainly bring it up. It can only help honestly. I’m sorry that this happened to you and why I support men getting DNA testing early on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/26 03:20 PM |
| 4 | How long did your divorce take?3 months but we were amicable (agreed on pretty much everything) and this is Florida. Oh yea no kids were involved. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/26 05:23 PM |
| 15 | It wasn’t entirely your fault. Adultery should never be forgiven.Bro what? At least end the relationship instead of traumatizing people. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/26 07:55 AM |
| 3 | I don’t know how to do this?Just saw she had an affair. Was it a physical or an emotional affair? If it was emotional there might be something to save. If it was physical then most likely it’s done bud. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 07:42 PM |
| 7 | "Congratulations you two!"My STBXW is dragging her feet now that it’s time to sell the house 🙄 | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 04:31 AM |
| 11 | Difference in Women vs Men After DivorceThe truth of the matter is both sexes need each other but things have become so unfair in terms of marriage. Where a man works hard for his family and the wife just decides she is done and is going to take half plus spousal support and child support it’s not even a good idea to get married nowadays. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 09:01 PM |
| 12 | Difference in Women vs Men After DivorceShe is “free”? Most of the time when they say this it’s because they got alimony and child support 😂. This is usually after an attempt to say the husband acted like a child ie; not doing their fair share of household duties. My question is always if a husband contributes most of the income (75% or more) why should he be responsible for 50% of the household work? Also after a “child” leaves do they continue to pay their mother? This narrative that women are pushing (That men are like children in … | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 08:51 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with being the bad guy to kids and exIt’s very easy to turn yourself into the good guy. Simply reward good behavior. For example Every 9 weeks is a report card correct? For every A they get $20, every B is $10, and C’s are only $5. Why this? Because good grades translate very well into being successful and this is a good way to show them that. Now as far as the food goes give them healthy options and allow them to be creative with the best idea getting cooked for dinner the following week. Simply make life fun for them because life… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/26 12:28 AM |
| 5 | Help me please!Just get a couple of lawyer consults and see what your most realistic option is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/26 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Trying to figure out what to do. Nearly 30 years married, 2 months separated with (virtually) no contact.Hey bud, I know it’s going to sound counterintuitive but stop texting her and just work on yourself. She will reach out just let her be and now you must decide whether you want to be in a relationship with her or not. Put yourself in the drivers seat and go to a movie. Go to the gym and most importantly you must decide if you want this or not. Flip the script and stop playing her game. Stop texting stop pursuing and focus on building other relationships. She will text you back once you stop. Don… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/26 06:16 AM |
| 5 | The vibes in the house are god awfulNow you are getting it lol so treat her like a sibling it will make things easier | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/26 12:48 AM |
| 2 | The vibes in the house are god awfulWhen your siblings are giving you a hard time what do you do? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/26 12:44 AM |
| 3 | The vibes in the house are god awfulHello fellow soon to be divorced person. Do you have any family? My advice to you is treat her like your sibling. This will help change a lot of interactions. Hope this helps | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/26 12:42 AM |
| 1 | I’m a 54 year old divorced man and I’m looking to date but each time I try I only attract women who don’t look attractive why is this?As a man who likes women of different body types my advice is simple. Widen your dating pool. Date around the more you date the better you get at it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/26 06:57 PM |
| 5 | You probably don’t get a lot of pre 30 men hereHey bro sorry you married a lesbian it would’ve been nice if she told you earlier. 😂😂😂 See you at the gym. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/26 01:16 AM |
| 6 | Well today she loaded up my son and took him out of state to visit family to get away from the house even after I told her not to. Last night she attempted to run me over with her car in the driveway. I got it on video. I wish I was making this up.Should’ve called the cops when she tried to run you over infact you should call them right now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/26 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Have to meet the "new man", how to approach this?Good… His Problem now I would wish him luck he is going to need it 👍🏾🍀 | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/25 06:57 PM |
| 9 | Getting the house after the divorce when she doesn't make a ton of $$$Ok bud here is the plan YOU keep the house. YOU get majority custody of the children she basically becomes a weekend mom. She gets minimal spouse support and almost no child support because you have the children and you make more. Start from there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/25 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Help my separated wife of two years is trying to make me stay with her after she’s been impregnated with another man’s childShe made the decision to divorce her easier OP now just get an attorney and do it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/25 01:47 PM |
| 13 | Filled out paperworkIt’s time to move on. I know it hurts but you must stop obsessing over her. She has already moved on. You deserve someone who loves you back. If someone loved you would they treat you like this? It’s normal to grieve the death of a relationship. But you gotta move on and work on yourself. Personally I don’t want to be someone’s second choice. I don’t think you want that either. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/25 12:21 AM |
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