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Ooh yeah same. After a while of not talking to people or bad social interactions. Just talking to one person and it not leaving me feeling horrible, it feels like crack.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:30 PM
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This. There are a set of expectations that you grow up with, and changing those expectations is as easy as changing who you are, but if you don’t live up to them, you feel like a failure. For me, even something as simple as hanging out with family gives me a sense of normalcy that is so cathartic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:28 PM
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Even incels understand that their sentiment is as least seen as wrong if not objectively wrong. Once ur at the point where you really need to talk to people about ur issues, you are too far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:01 PM
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Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:09 PM
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I don’t think women are boring, unappealing, or have wrong opinions. Most of the women you see on dating apps probably are all those things most likely, but that’s because the average person male or not is boring, unappealing, and has wrong opinions, in my perspective. Also, the best women are most likely already taken, so there’s another sampling bias. Dating being unfair to men is a seperate issue and has something to do with culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:31 PM
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If this whole post is about dunking on a particular subgroup of men then I don’t really care. It’s not me and I ain’t defending other (shittier) men. At the same tho, I stand by the belief that dating is unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:28 PM
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Men generally want women who end up equal in value to them. “Ur only as attractive as the ugliest girl you’ve fucked” - sun tzu
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:21 PM
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U a bitch for saying straight men should be gay cuz it’s cheaper. And the reason why men are bitching about having to go around and trying for sex on first dates, even if it is the more economical way, is that it’s also equally practically impossible. Also most women would not drop they panties immediately because u got a little money. Unless ur living in the hood or sumn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:14 PM
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Businesses are risky and even if you have the chops to study efficiently and get a good job, that don’t mean you have the chops to run a business. Most people don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:07 PM
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If ur above average in any way, you’ll know. I think tho that most people who can be considered average aren’t actually average in every regard, but as a cumulation. For example, a hot guy with no education, vs an ugly educated guy. Both ending up average, but will have experiences as above average in various different ways. I think there are very few people who are actually exactly average in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:05 PM
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Cuz prostitution is illegal isn’t not actually that easy to pay for sex. It’s also decently expensive and you don’t know if she’s got an std. If ur a young man with little cash, it’s legitimately more economical to just match with every woman and try sex on the first date than regularly paying for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:57 AM
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Unlike you I actually work in economics. I’ve yet to see a single trumpian actually understand basic economic policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:19 AM
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Tell me what a tariff is and then we can talk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:11 PM
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Yeah regarding any economic issue he just slaps the label “tariff” as a solve all serum. A clear con. Especially when every economist agrees that they would be bad for the people. But trump supporters have such low trust in the system that the people with the most education and credibility end up being the lowest iq least credible state actors to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:08 PM
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All of you maga bozos are literally stuck in 2016. Half the comments I see online in reaction to this election are making fun of lgbt and liberal women crying about it. Literally the only reason trump got in is because you guys want to rage bait the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:23 AM
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Most Americans don’t know what a tariff is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:19 AM
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Thing is, trump isn’t stick up for men either. I mean, he’s sticking up for men insofar as he is a man and he isn’t saying all men are bastards, but that’s it. I agree women saying all men suck and then expecting men to vote in ways that support them is outright stupid. But we shouldn’t be vote being influenced by such emotional tripe like the gender war.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:22 AM
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Rarely is relative when it comes to things like this. Or maybe rarely is a bad word to use for this. I can “rarely” go out for a date, meaning maybe once a month, but after 3 years I’ll have a body count of 36, assuming I started at 0. That’s a LOT. Women hook up a LOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:52 PM
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Several is average if not above average, that’s a lot if ur trying to say women rarely go for it at all. Rarely would mean most women have 0, and a few have a few, and maybe the outliers would have more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:39 PM
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This is BS almost every woman I know my age has had several casual sexual interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:32 PM
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Jag used to be one of my favourite YouTubers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:41 AM
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No she’s definitely shallow and she needs to (and I think she does) know that. However, as you put it, shallowness isn’t always a bad thing.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/24 06:46 AM
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Doesn’t that just prove this phenomenon right then? If a guy has little or no options, he won’t cheat. If he suddenly has more options, then he’ll cheat, both of these things make sense. The issue here is that the guy incorrectly perceives his worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:09 AM
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I think the only reason this is even talked about is because men already do this. For men, if you realise all the women you were initially attracted to don’t want you, you will start growing interest in women you would have initially disliked, because you have to. This cycle continues until you find yourself talking to women so ugly/out of your league in other ways that it’d be shameful if others knew of your involvement with her, and that’s where you stop, and you try to stay just above that li…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:05 AM
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Dawg why are you even on this subreddit if ur aroace, this entire subreddit is just competing sexual insecurities. It must be an entertaining watch I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:08 PM
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Also, more realistically, schools as they are right now are not conducive to a good learning environment for boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:15 PM
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Agreed, but between being in a shitty mode 1/4 of the time, high sex drive, and has slept with 32 guys, she seems like the type who would abuse you if she doesn’t entirely respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:20 AM
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I mean, if it were an attractive guy and less attractive woman that it’d work well for the guy at least
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:45 PM
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Something he said once, unlike a lot of redpill influencers, he doesn’t believe his entire lifestyle is something to be replicated, nor does he even want to advertise it as that, instead he just wants to use logic to undo a lot of the worse redpill theories. It must be important to note that the redpill that he’s fighting are the Andrew Tate fans at that type, people who believe the actual alpha bullshit, not the red pillers who simply believe that there are unfair measurements that men have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:44 PM
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I think any person with common sense can understand that something like sex should be private and something like abuse should be public.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:37 PM
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You’ve gotta be pretty blessed as a guy to be dating casually like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:23 PM
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I like de Beauvoir’s philosohies, but ur taking the worst feminist shit she ever thought up. It isn’t empowering to women to act like the worst, most promiscuous, and least respect worthy men throughout history. You’re not acting like men have throughout history, you’re acting like the worst fuckboy manchildren throughout history and saying that it’s feminism but really ur just trying to justify worse behaviour. I’m not going to say promiscuity is bad, but using a false and highly blind-sighted …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:22 PM
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Looking for different things that are easier to get, that’s lowering your standards. It’s easier to find a random schmuck that will treat you well and is stable than it is to find a really hot dude who fits whatever aesthetic ur into right now, so yeah, lowering standards, going from 20% of population to like 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:15 PM
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Same reason why people don’t believe in Santa
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 12:52 PM
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Are you old? I say this because as a society we seem to adore the idea of being nonchalant, to a point where very minor things can mean a lot. For young people, on the internet, it is to an extent where memes are created about liking someone posts = dating/fucking. It’s a joke because we know it’s absurd and stupid, but it is pickled in reality. If someone sent me a 😎 emoji with no context I’d think it’s a bit weird that someone likes me enough to be calling me cool, if they sent me a 😍 emoji, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 12:38 PM
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Half the male population would see that at flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:47 PM
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Bro there have always been masochist guys since sex existed, heck there are probably more masochist boomers than anything else, that at least isn’t a generational thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:43 PM
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Literally 80% of dudes on this sub is angry virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:04 PM
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Ok so you just did a thing that felt good. I am very much a hater when I say this, but that doesn’t mean shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:14 PM
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Nah, I’m good. Your never gonna believe me because I’m a person who doesn’t agree with you on the internet but information is useful and the internet literally has everything. It got rid of the not knowing what to do on the first time, and then I could immediately go into trying things I’ve seen girls talk about what they like. A lotta dudes are just straight up absent minded and if they watch porn or not isn’t gonna make them any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:12 PM
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Why? You fucked some people, how did that change you? You know slightly better what kinks you have? You can fuck better now? 30 mins on the internet can do all that and most people don’t need to go on a sexual journey to figure out what makes them horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:44 PM
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I’ve never seen anything good happening from people exploring themselves sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:11 PM
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It’s not really irrational though since women make such a big deal out of it. Now I know the general consensus is that men care about it more than women, but in casual talk, women have cared way way more than men. From jokes to just general commenting. So it’s a pretty rational insecurity. And unfortunately is an insecurity that will only ever be tamed if it’s literally not true and a woman internalises it into you, as you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:10 PM
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I agree with the rest of it but you have to be a unique case not to know how your dick matches up to others. It’s as simple as a measuring tape and like 5 seconds on google. Unless you want to tell me that generally 5-6 isn’t average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:09 PM
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No. There are stable non dramatic guys in their 20s. They just don’t participate in hookup culture, where you are meeting all the guys you want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:24 AM
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Eh they can be pretty cheep. It’s like 250-500 for most, and I live in a pretty expensive area. Long as you don’t have debt or responsibilities then that’s basically pocket change even for someone minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:53 PM
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Hiring prostitutes is degrading though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:28 AM
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Thing is, chemistry is created. If I really put my rocks on I could probably woo a couple of my girl friends, but it’d be fake, and the whole time I’d basically be anguishing literally every second I talk to them over trying to act in particular ways. Once again it goes back to the gender disparity, where guys are desperate so they end up sexualising their friends (I think sexualising is natural, and a good thing. Instead of just letting sexy people be sexy, and only sexy people be sexy, if we n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:31 PM
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Come on, be more creative! It’s really easy to find an attractive guy with a bad personality. But it’s also really easy to find attractiveness in a lot of things. Find a good guy, and fetishise the fuck out of him. Objectify him out of the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:00 PM
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Yeah, the friendzone is just the natural place where you would be if you didn’t quickly go from strangers to dating. But, most of the best relationships start as friends. Why aren’t friends becoming partners normalised? That’s my issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:57 PM
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I agree with the message. Unfortunately, most people in those situations just got there because of luck. Like, you don’t just be a wholesome dude and attract people. So there’s really no one to listen to, that’s the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:47 PM
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You seem to be under a lot of misinformation. The guys who complain about not being able to get sex, they aren’t the ones who go onto conquer women, they (we) desire long term relationships, not hookups. I mean, just logically, you are gonna get more and better sex if you invest it with someone you love. It’s the guys who know that they can get whatever they want with little effort, that take the universe up on that offer and fuck as many women as they want. Men who are struggling in dating aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:23 PM
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The distinction I’ve found is that while male friendships are unfulfilling, they are pure. I could legitimately not talk to a mate for months but still be willing to die for him easily. On the other hand, I see women’s friendships as fulfilling, but fake. You get exactly what you need out of it, but you don’t really think anything is there. It’s like trauma bonding, or ‘work friends’. Of course these are vast generalisations, but if we were to categorise them, we are, I see it as like that. Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:05 PM
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So ur just saying that extended social circle is a dating pool, instead of the normal social circle? If it’s meeting strangers along vs meeting strangers as a group, the difference is negligible. Friends of friends is weird because it requires that the friends you have happen to like match making. I’ve literally met 1 person in my life who has ever tried to have their friends date. I’d have to make friends with hundreds of people before I started expecting any results like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:29 PM
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I absolutely am not going for the hottest girl out there. Just to paint a picture, looks wise I’m a 4-6 depending on the day and how confident I am, I’m awkward around meeting new people but I hide it well and am generally liked, I make people laugh, and I don’t hurt people. Pretty average, I’d like to think most would say about me. The best girl I’ve ever bagged in all my years? A 35 year old fat hairy only fans girl with a mullet. I’m mainly describing her looks here, which is bad, I’m persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:14 PM
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As someone who’s just started university, trust me, it’s the same as highschool. There are some people who are putting themselves out there, but that’s generally only one crowd of people. The majority of people are shy, overworked, and just wish that they weren’t there. I could visit a prison for 2 hours and have more people try to strike up a conversation with me through their cells than in any class I’ve had. I present a miserable picture here, most people do act miserable, but most of us just…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:33 PM
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Most people don’t subscribe to any pill because they can just date normally, without any larger principe or ideology for attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:10 PM
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You should be. Attractive guys, or chads if we’re interested in using incel lingo, can behave however they want. They don’t need an ideology to fall upon, instead of bluepill, they’ve just got a good personality also, and instead of redpill, they’ve either got a personality disorder or their just a douche. Bluepill and redpill are just copes put onto unattractive guys, one being women telling men that they need good personalities, and the other telling women and men that men need to be attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:08 PM
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I’d never personally degrade a woman on having a lot of sex, but I would judge them within my own mind. It’s just the standard of courtship, men are the ones who put the effort in to creating a relationship, so it doesn’t say anything good about a woman if she has a lot of sex (other than not having a positively repulsive personality or body). A woman having a lot of sex with a lot of different people purely means that she’s just put herself out there a lot. That just shows a lack of principle, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:06 PM
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Oh we certainly degrade men who subscribe to onlyfans, heck we do it so much my school once has a PSA about the word simp and how it shouldn’t be used. We degrade them because we thing they are degrading themselves, btw. It’s hard to degrade guys who have a lot of sex tho. Like, just rationalise it. “Uhh you are so attractive and handsome that women can’t help but to love you and give you all of their love and affection, how horrible”. Like, there is literally no downside to being able to get se…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:46 PM
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Idk I’ve learnt not to trust really feminine guys unless their also super opinionated and wear their heart on their sleeve. Although, you should just universally trust people who wear their heart on their sleeves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:33 PM
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It’s pretty easy to figure out how toxic someone is just by the clothes they wear, how they look, and who their friends are tho. And as a guy I can tell that a preppy party goer girl is gonna act like a preppy party goer girl, she’s not gonna be someone I should be in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:00 PM
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Wtf lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:42 PM
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Bro ur not a virgin just stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:39 PM
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You being a caring person and good in bed is not what makes you attractive. Being attractive makes you attractive. Being caring and good in bed are factors that only even come into play after you’ve already been deemed at least fuckable. Every guy online is bitter complaining precisely because they ARE kind and good in bed, but aren’t given the chance because of superficial reasons, that’s why they are upset. If I didn’t care about making my partner feel good, or if I wasn’t a kind person in gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:02 PM
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Cis man. Yeah, I mean I’d have to right? It’s not like I’d break up with someone because they lost their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:55 AM
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The only people who are willing to play such social mind games are psychopaths, and psychopaths would be doing actual manipulating, not whatever this is. There is almost a 0% chance that a random person on the internet is going to be physically close enough to you for you to fuck them anyway, assuming you somehow use this non existent psychological theory you’ve thought up to actually get someone. You are fighting no one. This shit isn’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:28 AM
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What kinda Freudian bs is this. Who cares about attention? Actually yeah some do want attention, better question, what kinda person is engaging in debate with the other sex for their attention? That’s not how guys work. That’s not how anybody works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:28 PM
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Ironically the best advice: fix ur social anxiety. I feel like most people have experienced it at some point, but sometimes you just suddenly have a boost of confidence, and feel like you can do anything. Fix whatever chemical imbalances you have in your brain, anxiety, depression, whatever, and try to maximise this emotional state of confidence. When ur in that state, you’ll be more attractive, and to answer the question, you’ll just be able to sense the mood, and whether it’s appropriate or no…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:52 PM
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Well then why think like that. Almost every non English speaking country in the world sees it as normal, sometimes even encouraging it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:44 AM
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That’s really only a puritanical American perspective tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:47 AM
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I’m really wanting to wait till a relationship to have sex, but I’ve been so close to paying for prostitution so many times
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:49 AM
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Why couldn’t you have just been normal from the start lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:13 PM
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There is nothing more attractive than a person who is attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:34 PM
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You can have an active social life and still not be meeting new people regularly. Everyone is trying at least what they feel is their hardest that’s why there’s the complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:04 PM
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Thing is, as simps and white knights show, doing the monkeys dance doesn’t work very well, they may get pity sex once in a lifetime, or somehow use their insecure ass to manipulate someone even more vulnerable if the planets aligned, but otherwise it wouldn’t work. It feels bad though because you both have so much emotions of list towards other people that just goes nowhere. And it may be different for some but as an only child with what I see as a cool ancestry I feel the pressure of not passin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:02 PM
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I feel like it’s more likely that people never got into the ‘game’, or at least never learnt it to be good enough at it, instead of them having game, but giving up because it was too much effort. I understand complaining about the effort, and changing tactics in response to that, but no one would go 10+ years sexless if they really wanted sex unless they never had the skills in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:59 PM
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Well you are refuting one persons generalisation/experience with your own generalisation/experience so there’s really nothing to do other than leave the realm of generalisations, to accept that at least both are right to some extent. You also keep emphasising that men who are lonely should stop being so antisocial and then they’d be lonely, and that it is their responsibility to be good and give good first and then good can come to them in terms of social goodwill and the like. But it generally …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:06 PM
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What a horrible misconstrued perception of men. It’s like the reverse of misogynistic red pillers and incels. It’s legitimately impossible that the only compassion you’ve seen from men is wicked. It must be wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:49 PM
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Women don’t want sex less than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:35 PM
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He seems pretty nervous. This would be best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:01 PM
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Are you talking about <30 or >30? Because ur right for >30 but totally wrong for under 30
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:01 AM
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What kinda bullshit is this? There’s a very high chance a girl doesn’t like you even if it’s through a dating context. And payment negates consent? They are literally the ones facilitating it!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:58 AM
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Yeah, it’ll give you everything you want if you choose the right girl. The only thing you won’t have at that point is game, or confident if having sex doesn’t happen to fix a lot of your self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:56 AM
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Just look for an escort who advertises that they help with first experience. Extra points if they work with neurodivergent and lgbt people, and if they are that themselves, because they generally are a lot kinder and gentle, and will help you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:55 AM
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Because unfortunately our society right now doesn’t provide what used to be normal. So we’ve got to lower our expectations in response. We’re doing the same thing with economics, like how young people won’t be able to buy houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:49 AM
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Well then there’s no need to say that you sympathise with, or try to scold someone, when you don’t really care. I’m sure the dude you commented on would be much happier if you helped out any random dude instead of giving him platitudes that actually came out as insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:43 AM
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Unfortunately niceties, as you’ve given, can come off as ironic and actually mean, but mean words don’t come off as ironic and nice as often. It appears like you are scolding him for his reaction to the mistreatment that the world has given, which you are also laughing at. It’s not a big deal in this case, but I’ve seen time and time again women aim to sympathise with men’s struggles, but criticise their behaviours at the same time. Of course, men are worthy of both sympathy and criticism, but e…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:23 AM
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You said lol, and did the whole capitalise mid sentence thing to exacerbate it. When you write sarcastically, laughing at someone, and condescendingly, it comes off as that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:45 AM
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This is a really nice take. Waiting for somebody to refute it and see how the conversation goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:41 AM
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This isn’t a fantasy book. Wouldn’t it being more common make it more true?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:18 AM
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So femininity is bad now? I know it’s meant to be a dig at the guys who are super insecure and wouldn’t do anything they feel feminine, but that sentiment is like 2 generations old by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:17 PM
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It’s not mutually exclusive. We as a society don’t get a choice between “social Darwinism women supremacy in dating” or “men control everything and women don’t date they just get permanently raped”. As I literally said, and this is why we have laws in the first place, social Darwinism, and the rule of the fittest, is wrong no matter how you put it. The obvious answer is to discard the idea of rule of the fittest in dating first and foremost, like we have done in many other aspects of society. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:12 PM
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Because the libido doesn’t need sex most days. It does, however, need it at least once. Realistically, though, people would have sex a few times a week to once every few weeks. That’s the average. You can obviously chase higher things on the hierarchy if needs all the time. But generally suiting one less important needs aren’t going to be able to substitute an objectively more important one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:32 PM
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It’s the biological imperative to reproduce though. To someone who does fuck, and their physiological needs are met, they’ll only care about the next, higher up, level of psychological needs. To someone who doesn’t fuck, assuming your brain is relatively normal, you will feel the need to have sex as much as a starving person feels the need to eat. It’s a physiological need, you may be able to be alive without it, but literally all life on earth is built on sex, and the brain desires it in a unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:23 PM
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The law isn’t some inviolable truth of the universe equivalent to that of physics, it’s something created by humans for humans. The issue with the whole social Darwinism thing (which I’d like to add, when in a political context, is seen as worse than nazism, so why do we support it in dating?) in dating is that, as the other guy said, is supports survival of the fittest. You keep telling single and angry men that they deserve to have no rights in dating using the argument of survival of the fitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:19 PM
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Once again, psychologically, all humans have to have their reproductive(physiological), love and belonging, and self-esteem needs met before you start needing to worry about the abstract ideas of ‘being a better person’. Saying men should try to be better before chasing sex is like saying an orphan needs to learn how to cook a filet Mignon before starving.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:00 PM
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Reproduction is literally one of Maslow’s First hierarchy of needs. On the other hand, self-actualisation is fifth and last. There is no world where passions and big ideas or whatever come before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:48 PM
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Yeah even if there are some women who play Valorant, it is legitimately the worst place to edate. Every single horrible edating trope I know is everywhere on there. And Valorant has even created new horrible edating cringeries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:26 AM
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Idk man I got like way more upvotes on that reply than the actual comment I was replying to. It seems like people are saying it is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:52 PM
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Being a loser and being a success aren’t mutually exclusive, despite how it sounds. You can be absolutely happy single, lonely, and successful all at the same time. The issue here is that you’d be denying the sociability that your brain actually needs, no matter how much you try to fight it. Thus, it’s a game of chicken, where by limiting the supply of yourself, as women have done, you increase your value - and it’s just a test of time to see who becomes desperate first and loses their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:51 PM
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Well that’s what I’m saying, I may be an outlier, but at every point in my life I’ve found, same as you, that attractive can grow
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:46 PM
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I can say I’ve literally grown ‘types’ in women just based on having a single crush/positive interaction with one. If I am any example, it should be quite common, because I’ve done it a lo. Like, I would specifically develop attractiveness to a type of woman because of really liking one girl, for example, I’ve found blonde women to be particularly attractive because two blonde girls have been kind and close to me during childhood. However, this is only during childhood. Since childhood I haven’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:21 PM
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It’s one of the reasons why I love subjects with group work in them at uni. My friends hate them because they have to make sure everyone’s doing the work, but I like the opportunity to just lead things and be social. I say this as a person who is very much just get in and get out and not social otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:33 AM
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I mean women did that and it worked really well for them. Unfortunately then it’d become a game of chicken where whoever can last the longest while being lonely and sexless wins, which isn’t really a good compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:29 AM
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You can say that there is no average person, and I agree, but when it comes to dating, and first impressions in general, there is severe discrimination against what is considered average and below average. Especially on the internet and America where everyone’s minds have been poisoned by what the ‘ideal person’ looks like, and told that life can’t be good if they aren’t with that ideal (literally fictional in most cases) person. I’m particularly talking about women, however. As the only guys st…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:26 AM
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Very true. But you gotta get anything first. And if they are a decent person like most, they’d stick with the person they got because they appreciate being got.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:23 AM
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Agreed. I’ll also add, you can be in social environments and not be social. It’s very easy, and maybe it’s even the majority, that people who go around in work or uni just go to do their work then leave. There are plenty of people who just work, and don’t make friends while they are doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:57 AM
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I’ve been tested lol. Literally nothing. There’s a massive trend of over diagnosis for neurodivergence when it’s just that a lot of people are mentally fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:55 AM
1

Looksmatching, economics matching, and personality matching are such basic concepts that it’s pretty much subconscious for most people. The blue pill doesn’t do much other than trying to solve men’s problems in an alternative way to the clearly dangerous red pill. Unfortunately, the blue pill ends up the exact same as the red pill, just with a lot less enthusiasm and not as much alpha male bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:41 PM
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They say that, but at the same time claim he’s undateable, like it’s impossible for average women to exist. And at the same time, most of the red pill/black pill dudes are just severely depressed and roped in by actual bad dudes because they have no where to go. I’d consider myself no pill, I don’t have the answers, but I can see somethings wrong and try to navigate to find some good answers, but I’ve been called a bigot and pathetic and insecure and such and such by BP gals for disagreeing with…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:35 PM
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Agreed. It seems that everyone is applauding the self-acceptance movement for women, but men are told to never accept themselves and then they’ll get what their parents have and stop being lonely. It’s like from the wave of sexual liberation of feminism since the 70s, we’ve morphed into a feminist liberation of expectations. It’s become standard that women are always perfect as they are, and it’s the guys fault of reality doesn’t meet their standards. But if a guy can’t get a girlfriend, it’s be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:28 PM
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That’s assuming they know what they want out of a partner, won’t suddenly change their mind when they realise their partner is not what they want, and assuming that they aren’t just there to have another temporary partner, just for fun, not really liking them, but liking them enough to hang out before they get boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:19 PM
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Unfortunately finding friends is the single hardest thing a person can do in regards to dating, other than dating. Jacked, getting a degree, earning a lot, all are way easier individually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:15 PM
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I feel like guys choose the easiest first, and then work their way up. It’s as true for fuck boys or pickup artists as that’s their process as it is for your regular dude as they’ll get what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:25 PM
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Bro pitching a tent in ur pants may as well be. This is why I commented about the small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:12 PM
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Ur clearly not a good person if you think an entire half of the world isn’t good - and specifically based on them being women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:10 PM
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Probably because men get influenced less by women’s competitions. A guy likes a girl or he doesn’t. But women can be woo’d.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:19 PM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:17 PM
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Because you can never gauge emotionality. But someone can be objectively worse physically, or materialistically. So alls there is to worry about is physical or material.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:16 PM
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Excuse my hyperbole. You literally said that people shouldn’t be embarrassed about getting an immediate erection from looking at someone in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:14 PM
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Welp your grandmas friend is wrong clearly. How the fuck can you say that there are no good people that are women in your age group? I’m down for saying that women don’t know what they want often, or that they benefit from a massive inequality in dating, but goddam.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:36 AM
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Do you have autism or adhd? This ain’t a negative thing but neurodivergent people tend to have a lot more exclusive and deeper attractions and connections with people. They literally made a whole sexuality about only being attracted to people you emotionally connect with, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:28 AM
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I think he means they are equivalent, not the same. That women fall in love as haphazardly and seemingly random as men get hard. So there’s really not a specific reason to describe why a woman falls in love, similarly there’s not always a specific reason why a man gets a boner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:25 AM
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How small is your dick that you can be proud flopping around a raging hard on in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:23 AM
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Omg bro shutup its embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:16 AM
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I think the issue is more about attainability. Men are so simple in what they want that for women, they know exactly what they need to be happy in that regard. They either are attractive, they can be attractive and should work towards that, or they aren’t attractive and nothing will change that, so they have to accept themselves some other way. Women are less simple. For a man to be attractive, it’s some combination of looks, personality, what trends are popular at the time, keeping up to date w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:01 AM
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Yeah, it’s actually worse if they don’t talk about how handsome you are. Means even the people most likely to think you have something going for you don’t think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:52 AM
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She must see something good in there lol. Nice elderly people can never be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:51 AM
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It’s because the demographic it’s made for are basically depression induced zombies. They would die at 40 if it meant living like a king for 20 years easily. And unfortunately humans are social creatures that need others to like them. And how do you get people to like you? Be ‘high value’ and all that shit. Long happy and healthy lives are for people who already have their shit figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:33 AM
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Pretty arrogant calling yourself a philosopher when you don’t see that men attack other men’s insecurities WAYYY more than they do womens. I find it funny how women complain about men’s behaviour, when they only receive a fraction of what men do to other men. Women can face toxic masculinity but men are literally raised in it. It’s really hard not to make a bane quote here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:56 AM
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Ugly women aren’t threatened by violence. They probably are less likely to get assaulted than attractive women, knowing how guys work. The only issue is general hate, which guys get plenty of.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:52 AM
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When I was like in between the ages of 12 and 14 there were two girls I found very unattractive, and would be upset at their presence. However, once I started to become aware that I also exist, and others also perceive me, and I certainly wasn’t the best looking, I quickly sympathised and stopped. You have to have an emotional intelligence equal to a 14 year old or be a narcissist to treat people badly if they look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:50 AM
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I 100% would have a lot less insecurities and general confusion on how the world and socialising works if it wasn’t for women constantly pouring out contradictory takes. Almost every threat on this subreddit consists of women belittling men as insecure insignificant mole people at the same time as making them out to be some predatory master race. The entire red pill movement is a reaction to new age feminism. It’s the literal political ideology on the extreme side of conservatism - reactivism, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:14 AM
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One of the guys in my group literally got a date doing this. It’s worked better than actually talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:25 PM
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Probably because it’s how we men wish we were treated. Men are generally seen as less attractive and such and such. The thing we are lacking most of all of unconditional love, I.e. physical attractiveness. It’s treat others how you would want to be treated. Lots of men wish they were in the social/dating advantage that women had.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:32 PM
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I absolutely dread thinking about answering this question. If I were to say anything, I think I have a few (literally few) favourable traits, and at some points in life I’ve had a good outlook on things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:24 PM
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I feel like guys (and I’m speaking from my own mentality here) tend to overestimate what “competent” is in the eyes of women. Any dude or at least average intelligence, doing at least an average job in his field, and as long as his field is ‘professional’ (as in not a plumbing appliances shop worker or stuff like that), then it won’t really matter what he does. Like, being an architect, or an intelligence analyst, scientist, surveyor, no one of them would be better than the other beyond shallow …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:48 AM
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Totally, guys just suck in general
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:15 PM
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You did, you said “some men break out of the sedation and cause harm to other unfortunately, or take their own lives” why is losers fixing themselves and encroaching on other men “unfortunate” but the same men killing themselves instead just plain and simple?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:50 PM
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You know someone is fucking retarded when they consider losers improving their lives and encroaching on others to be worse than those same losers just killing them selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:30 AM
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If you don’t have social anxiety or depression, probably just ugly. Lots have all 3 so be glad if you don’t ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:16 PM
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I wasn’t saying everyone who expects thing from women are chads, I literally said that there are worse guys who also expect shit from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:13 AM
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And then we get incels. I think it’s better for all of us, like in economics, to solve the inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:32 AM
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Chad at this point is used to refer to high value men. You can be a stem nerd, under 6ft, and still be super high value. Low value heck even normal guys wouldn’t expect casual sex or porn star treatment unless it was exactly that part of their personality that makes them low or mid value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:31 AM
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Yeah, I guess it’s about how respectable the people you surround yourself with are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:41 AM
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Guys definitely don’t regularly do gossip. It’s seen as immoral and goes against the bro code. I would never.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:58 AM
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Yeah I see guys acting all confident and smooth but then be the absolute opposite if you look close enough, and I find that even more pathetic and insecure than just coming off as less confident. Maybe I’m not confident enough to actually be confident but I’m certainly too confident to pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:13 AM
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Yeah, I think everyone should shame people who expect someone different from their partner than themselves. It’s a tragedy for a virgin guy to be a with a promiscuous woman, and it should be a tragedy for a virgin girl to be with a promiscuous man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:16 AM
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It’s not expected by men because generally women don’t want virgin men. Standards are set by the other gender, men like virgin women so virgin women have higher value, the reason why virgin men aren’t high value is because women don’t like that, plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:15 AM
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That’s wrong, just look it up online
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:09 AM
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No lol, just look up the stats
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:09 AM
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That’s a shitty argument because the longer you go without getting laid the more mentally fucked you get and the more you miss out on. Who wants to finally have sex when they can’t enjoy it any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:27 AM
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Yeah it’s a bit off, but not far from the actual stats. 50-60% of guys around my age are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:25 AM
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We are talking about young guys here. 50% of guys 18-20 are virgins, 2% between 25 and 30 are. And yes, most guys I know (18-20) would legitimately marry the first girl that gave them attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:18 AM
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If the 60% are single, then that is being romantically unsuccessful. That is the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:14 AM
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With options is the important part. Most guys don’t have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:12 AM
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Yeah, but that only works if they are at least getting some enough for them not to be desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:11 AM
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No it’s more like “I’m so fucking depressed and lonely please someone save me and love me” sex would make them less desperate, but wouldn’t help much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:09 AM
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Sorta but not really. The point being made is that wanting relationships is the natural thing to want to do, but there are guys that get so much pussy so easily that they don’t need relationships, because all their needs are being met without the commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:08 AM
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“Maybe they want it” maybe is different from not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:30 PM
1

Ok we clearly have different perceptions on redpill but it doesn’t mean much in this context
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:22 PM
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Well they aren’t friendless, but they’d generally be antisocial because of insecurity. These people definitely aren’t the average guy though, but the average guy definitely faces the same issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:21 PM
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That’s what redpill is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:19 PM
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I think men don’t know what they want, at least, in between long term and short term. Aside from sexual gratification, I know guys want to feel loved, wanted, they want to feel intimacy with someone, everything a SO provides. As time goes on, a man may take that for granted, actually I think it happens in most cases, but I still think that this is a desire that every man has, it’s just that it is so unfulfilled normally that a little can go a long way. I am a very sexual being so I wouldn’t date…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:18 PM
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Yes, easily that desperate, have you not seen a single comment on a nsfw reddit post?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:11 PM
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It’s not about masculinity. Masculinity does have a lot of power over guys, but this case is not one of them. It’s just sex. Guys who can’t get sec any other way doing it with similarly desperate people. It’s how all my friends who have popped their cherries did it, although, it may not be married women, but mentally Ill girls instead, same principle tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:11 PM
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As someone who has been in the incel and redpill community before, they do not give a fuck about “wifey material”. If they were chads, all of them would fuck for all they could, they only care about sex, that’s it. If they weren’t frustrated sexually or romantically, none of it would happen. I mean, there would still be some redpill, but it wouldn’t be the redpill that’s really popular online with the youth, it’d just be normal plain old misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:08 PM
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Bro why are you being so defensive and aggressive over someone not even arguing with you. Did you make this post wanting for a fight?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:05 PM
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Why would someone want something but not look for it? I can only suppose that they’ve given up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:02 PM
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Not the most average, I’d imagine there are a few more guys than the demographics of this one friend group would portray are in normal relationships, but, I am pretty self aware and realistic about the standings of these people, I don’t think my conclusion is particularly wrong. I feel like the biggest fine detail that could ruin my argument would be, what is actually considered an “averagely” attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:00 PM
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Dude you are in an open relationship, not only do you manage to have a relationship, you have one who’ll let you fuck other people, and you are able to do it with enough people to consider it open. You know one side of the dating scene, but you are on the extreme. It’s like asking a political extremist about what is the average political view on X topic, they cannot possibly understand what is average, let alone what’s on the other side. I don’t think many actually are FA guys, because you haven…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:57 PM
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I only know a very few amount of people who are so mentally healthy and fulfilled in life that they could be happy without a girlfriend. Also, what’s the difference between wanting a relationship and looking for one, because you say one is and one isn’t. And they certainly are struggling, just go to a university and look at the men there, especially true in something like computer science. Look at discord, heck look at reddit, it’s blatantly clear how many creepy and maladjusted guys there are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:52 PM
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I honestly would do that, just to at least stop being sexually frustrated and get good at sex. I won’t mentally recover from having no love and intimacy, and being lonely my whole life, but at least I’d be experienced in sex if I ever actually met someone. Unfortunately all the escorts in my area are in their late 20s, fat (which I’m ok with, but says a lot), and upwards of $200(for 15 mins), gets up to 600 easily, that’s not even considering the plethora of off the books stuff. Id do it to lose…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:48 PM
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I’d pay them not to do whatever they want to do to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:44 PM
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The guys that make up the majority of guys I know are emotionally distraught, lonely/without intimacy, and sexually frustrated. A ONS only provides one of them, and honestly, having sex with someone concurrently is a lot hotter than with someone you don’t know and won’t see again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:43 PM
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Yes I agree that if the average man is average, he won’t be behind the curve, because he’s average, he’s where the curve is at. I’d say being behind the curve is more about yes biological prime but also expectations. Of course, when an expectation is wrong, and even dangerous, like this one seemingly is, it can and should be changed. But I feel like my life and many others personally have always felt that at every step we’ve stretched and stretched that expectation and at some point it has to br…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:40 PM
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Haven’t read it yet but I like your first line so I’m upvoting it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:19 PM
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It’s the same as why women, who think all men are bastard savages who can’t think straight, only manipulate, abuse, be stupid, and unhygienic, still date men. Because we absolutely can’t live without love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:13 PM
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Yes, and he clearly has the looks, and is clearly getting laid, but personality is what actually gets you into relationships, and he’s failing at that. Him also coming off as an asshole, let alone through text where emotion is hard to convey, says a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:09 PM
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Yes, because there’ll be 2 guys out of 10 who have a new girlfriend every few months and ons every other week. No shade to them, every guy would if they could. But the other 8 out of 10 literally could not conceive of a way to get a girl to notice them if their lives depended on it. The best attempt I’ve seen is being blessed with a great body, getting fit, and posting thirst traps all the time. Gay guys have talked to him, but that’s the best he could get. Best I’ve gotten personally is one or …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:07 PM
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That’s probably because none of them are absolutely unfuckable for whatever reason. For someone that is fuckable, getting laid is so much easier than getting into a relationship, so you’ll just do that. For someone who is unfuckable, generally they’ll have some other loneliness issue which means that they NEED to find love, when you are likeable enough to actually be fucked, of course you don’t need to find a long term relationship. But no one’s gonna fuck someone unfuckable, the only choice is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:01 PM
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Not a single guy I know doesn’t want to be in a relationship. Who the FUCK wouldn’t want to be in a relationship, when we literally bully each other over it, kill our selves over it, and become depressed over it. No, guys aren’t being celibate by choice. That’s literally the same as saying that 60% of homeless people are homeless by choice. Being a single guy who can’t get laid is so painful to some that literally incels exist. If there are so many involuntary celibates that there exists such a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:55 PM
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The lived experience of being a forever alone guy is the majority of it. It’s like what they say about millionaires, the first million is the hardest. Of the guys I know, a few always had whatever it takes to get women to like them. 2, exactly 2, started off with no game, a FA guy like the majority of guys I went to school with, suddenly, they took a leap of faith, and someone by some luck picked them up and saved them. Both of them, at seperate times, had a manwhore phase, followed by being one…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:49 PM
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Only 30% of the guys I’d consider friends aren’t virgins. And those same 30% have sex regularly. The idea that unattractive guys can get girlfriends but chads get laid sounds so stupid not even incels could make it up, like, how could you possibly conceive that you are in a relationship and you don’t have sex. Mutual attraction, I.e. what is needed for casual sex, is a prerequisite to relationships, you can’t be in a relationship without it. However, as I said before, it is right that there are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:40 PM
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You sound like an asshole. If you are attractive enough to actually get laid, which is 90% of the issues guys face, then it’s clearly your personality. Which checks out because you called American girls far as hell which is very assholery. You also failed to mention a single thing about personality in all that, which is another strike against the idea of you being a nice person to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:31 PM
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It’s so fucking depressing though. For an average guy, you only might be able to get laid and find someone by the time you are long past your prime. I will know for the rest of my life I will never pleasure someone like I could have in my youth. Even if I can practice and figure out good sex in my 30s-40s, which is a maybe because I would have been so far behind the curve, it will never be the same as what could’ve been. The feeling of being a loser your whole life and then finding someone is ak…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:26 PM
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Yes, very much so, every guy I consider a friend is wanting but failing at a relationship. It baffles me how some people didn’t know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:02 PM
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Literally every guy I know (at least in my friend groups of about 30 guys) that are in the early 20s category does not just want ons. Literally everyone I know wants a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:29 PM
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All of those traits are rooted in, if not are, misogynistic behaviours. No self respecting woman would follow all of these things, so it’s impractical to consider these the things that women should do in a relationship. So now we have to ask again, what are the things women have to do to keep attention in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:32 AM
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Better question, why/how do you notice?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:20 PM
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Every woman is different. Whether you like a hunk of a man, chunkier guys, or skinny guys, that’s not the issue. The issue is that you girls don’t have an issue finding people you are attracted to to date. As a young guy my only options have been paying for sex or letting 40 year old dominatrixes tie my balls up and peg me, and maybe I’d get some.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:14 PM
1

It upsets me that women can only find something romantic if there’s some tragedy somewhere in the story
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:00 PM
1

This misconception probably comes because most guys are virgins but, lust fades????
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:57 PM
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Not every guy is a manwhore, not every guy wants a wholesome girl. The guys who do want wholesome girls are usually wholesome themselves. The manwhores in the crowd who do like wholesome girls usually do it out of a perverted desire to corrupt them. Generally you shouldn’t put such a predatory man and an innocent woman together, if it was a story it’d be categorised as a tragedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:56 PM
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Oh yeah, I’d say the main thing keeping women’s self esteem down in the past was abusive relationships, but the roof has been blown off for that stuff with this new wave of internet feminism, now women can’t be more empowered. And for every girl saying she doesn’t need a pig of a man to live her life there is a little man taking that personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:50 PM
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Istg it must be the same 5% of guys approaching women because I’ve never seen a woman approached at my uni, and none of the guys I know would even get close to doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:38 PM
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And then there’s us guys who fall in love with escorts who we don’t know if we are downtrodden and shameless enough to buy them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:30 PM
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Healthy yes, but not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:23 PM
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I’d like to say the same back to you but my comment would be deleted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:18 PM
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This is a nice answer but I feel like it misses the very first steps needed for someone like OP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:04 PM
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I honestly do not know adults with friends. Like, past university and early career it just ends. This is bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:56 PM
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