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You know... After two? Maybe three? Years on this sub, honestly, I've hit a point where I've realized this sub has turned into idiots, just like the feminists have. You go ahead and complain that you couldn't tell the thirteen year old girl was thirteen. And then immediately run over and complain about how nobody cares about statutory rape of young boys. Legitimately, the fact that you're going to sit here and tell me you can't tell the difference between a girl just hitting puberty, and an eigh…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 01:10 AM
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Making stuff up? My dude, as a chick who started puberty at 13, and didn't have recognizable boobs until I was almost 14... As someone who helped raise three little sisters, the youngest they hit puberty was at 12, and even then... Puberty for girls isn't a freight train. It's a gradual process. Like, I went from an a cup to a c cup over four years, not overnight. If you're trying to say you can't tell the difference between a girl just starting puberty and an eighteen year old... That says more…
/r/MensRights05/04/23 02:24 AM
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To be fair, I think there should be like... an in-between age. Because, I'm sorry, nobody actually falls for the 14 year old looking like she's eighteen. There's a massive difference between a girl just starting puberty, and an eighteen year old. BUT... sixteen? Physically, there's not much difference between 16 and 18. So while I don't think it's okay for a 30 year old to seduce a 16 year old (regardless of gender), I can see where a 16 year old could trick a 30 year old into thinking they're 1…
/r/MensRights04/04/23 09:42 PM
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Everybody has 'mental load'; it's called 'being an adult'. We all have to worry about ten hundred and eleven different things that go into all the normal day to day functions of being an adult. Does the car have gas, or do I need to fill it? Did I remember to put Little Timmy's lunchbox in his backpack? Did I let the dog out before I left for work? It had nothing to do with what genitals you have, and everything to do with how much responsibility you take. Hell, even in 'traditional' relationshi…
/r/MensRights31/03/23 08:16 PM
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The article or the reddit? Because it's been almost a month now, and I wasn't even a part of the sub it popped in; I think it was either 'psychology' or 'psychiatry'.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 11:55 PM
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I think there's a difference between 'young' and 'pure', and putting these two things together is similar to saying 'sharks and kittens kill people every year'. These are two very different things. There's also the the problem of both those terms 'young' and 'pure' being incredibly subjective. If a 32 year old man wants to date a 25 year old girl, I would consider her 'younger' but not necessarily 'young'. Someone else might feel differently, and feel that the first digit of your ages has to mat…
/r/MensRights17/03/23 06:58 AM
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Again, if I had... as I said... you would've accused me of trying to speak for men, and how terrible that makes me because I could never hope to understand how men are feeling. No win situation there, because at this point, you're literally just looking to pick a fight lol. Which fine man, you do you. But I'm not going to speak for men's feelings when all I have are the experiences of my family, because those aren't my experiences. My brain doesn't work like a male's, so I wouldn't have the same…
/r/MensRights02/03/23 01:52 AM
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Okay, so maybe I missed something in the article, but... She was fired for sleeping with her male co-workers, right? And then she turned around and said that they basically made her do it? Did I miss the part where she was a small child? Because otherwise, if she was that easily manipulated, I'm curious how she passed the required psychological evaluations. I'd also be curious who thought it'd be a good idea to give a woman that easy to manipulate a gun. This is kinda like the whole thing where …
/r/MensRights01/03/23 07:40 AM
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This is an excellent response. I'm not a fan of romance movies, so I can't really say if that's what they are, but I have noticed that this is what's typically... expected, I suppose? Like on Valentine's day. It's expected for men to go out and drop ridiculous amounts of money on flowers that will be dead in a few days, on jewelry that has no value other than that society tells us it has value, on chocolates that cost a buck to make, but cost sixty dollars. But you don't see Valentine's gifts ad…
/r/MensRights01/03/23 07:27 AM
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No, we're most likely dealing with someone who has a western education, who's spent her life inundated by the party line of 'men hate women', 'men are rapists', 'men are trying to put women in their place'. And you can say she should know better. But the issue with that is that feminists start pushing that line as early as pre-k. Meaning that for most women, all they hear during their early, formative years is that men are out to get them. It's like... if your parents tell you, growing up, that …
/r/MensRights01/03/23 07:18 AM
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Because as a 'girl', I have no idea what it's like to be a man in today's world. I could rely on my father's experience as a single parent going through divorce, but that's not my experience -I'm not a male. I could rely on my boyfriend's past experiences with his girlfriends -but even if I felt comfortable sharing HIS stories (which I don't, they're not mine to share), those aren't my experiences. And if I did try to tell someone on this subreddit how men feel... Folks like you would come along…
/r/MensRights01/03/23 07:10 AM
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Remarkably unhelpful; this woman came here looking for more information, perhaps looking to understand. You had an opportunity to disprove everything she's heard about MRAs... and you just said 'negh negh'. For example, you could've told her, "Because when men do show emotions, they're told to 'man' up -as if men aren't supposed to have emotions, creating a dichotomy of how they're supposed to act." You could've said, "Because men are continually told to put their needs/wants secondary to their …
/r/MensRights01/03/23 03:19 AM
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My dude... Firstly? I've been an active and supportive member of this sub for like two years now. Chill the hell out. Secondly, me saying that this article has been ripped apart for being non-factual, opinionated, and heavily biased doesn't make me a 'nazi', as it were. It means, that any small amount of effort spent looking into this article shows that it was poorly written, with terrible sources, worse 'studies', and had very little fact to back it up. I apologize if pointing out that an artic…
/r/MensRights23/02/23 01:48 PM
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Yeah, somebody on the psychology sub already pretty effectively destroyed this article. The sources were crap, their conclusions were illogical, and a lot of it was based off of 'studies' about as relevant and professional as 'Aunt Bertha says'.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 10:24 AM
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They key word being 'global'. Because yeah, if we're talking about third world countries, countries run by religious groups, and so on... There's still sexism and all that jazz. But guess what? Those women in those countries? They're not gonna see this stupid little robot. The only women who will see this are women in first world countries, who will then go scree about how oppressed they are, and how terrible they have it while sipping their starbucks, browsing on their iPhones, and cursing out …
/r/MensRights23/02/23 10:06 AM
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A few years back, I was at the grocery store; I had a full cart, and I noticed the guy behind me (probably in his fourties) had two DVDs and a candy bar, so I told him he could go ahead of me. Guy says, "Oh, thanks hun, I really appreciate it," and slides around me. Which is when the kid behind him -looked barely old enough to be out of college, mid-twenties at most -pipes up, and says, "Wow, that's rude." Well, because I'm nosey, I immediately turn to look behind him, to see who he's talking to…
/r/MensRights06/12/22 10:51 PM
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Feminists act like male Chads, and insist that all men act that way, without realizing that nobody likes Chads lol.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 10:42 AM
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As I said quite clearly in my post, feminists are obviously a part of it. But what I said was... We have normal misunderstandings, because the genders don't understand each other. Feminists then turn these simple, innocent misunderstandings into 'nah, it's 'cause they hate you!'.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 08:07 PM
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That is actually a really good point, that I hadn't considered.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 08:05 PM
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Well, coming here as the mother of a teenage boy, I will wholeheartedly admit that I'm afraid for him to blink in the general direction of a girl. I grew up in Texas; I'm afraid of snakes. Once I moved to NY, people made fun of this fear, telling me it's irrational. I would explain that, given where I grew up, it is absolutely rational to be afraid. Rattlesnakes, cotton mouths, and copperheads were all very much common where I grew up. Being afraid of something isn't, by definition, irrational. …
/r/MensRights28/10/22 08:03 PM
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On a personal level? I agree; if a woman is interested, she is fully capable of asking for the dude's number, or letting him know she'd like to get better acquainted herself. But, I've been told multiple times -including by my own boyfriend -that I tend to approach things more like a guy; after being removed from my mother's home, I was raised by my trucker father, and his roommates: a construction worker, a welder, and another truck driver, all of whom had a string of bad relationships and ex-w…
/r/MensRights28/10/22 07:57 PM
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I will definitely check those books out! Thank you for the recommendations!
/r/MensRights28/10/22 07:44 PM
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Oh most definitely; feminists have taken this idea, and run with 'because you hates the womenz!'. But I do find comfort in the fact that more and more studies are showing that young women are less and less likely to identify as feminist, and instead egalitarian. And it has the feminists spazzing.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 07:43 PM
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Studies have shown that fewer and fewer young women identify themselves as feminists, instead preferring egalitarian. So there's hope.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 07:35 PM
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Well said; I agree completely. I wasn't saying that, in its entirety it's a matter of a misunderstanding, rather that -much like politics -extremists use these small, relatively harmless misunderstandings, and turn them into acts of hate.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 07:34 PM
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I'm not a feminist lol; I've been all over this sub for something like two years saying how much I loath women as a generality. Nor did I say 'bad feminists' versus good feminists; I said 'extremists'. I don't think there are good feminists, just those who actively hate men, and those who are idiots. I'm talking about the normal average person; numerous studies have shown that fewer and fewer young women are willing to identify themselves as feminists, instead calling them egalitarians.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 07:32 PM
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So firstly... that is the most obnoxiously incomprehensible run-on sentence I've seen in a while. I'll resist making a generalized comment about feminists' IQ here. Secondly, I love the logic of... 'Well, sure you HAVEN'T done the thing yet... But I promise you, you WOULD do the think if (insert outlandish thing here) happened!'. Like... Okay, I will gladly have that discussion with you... when the thing happens. But you promising me what I would do in any extreme, worst-case scenario is incredi…
/r/MensRights24/10/22 08:35 PM
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Firstly... We're talking almost fifteen years ago; I didn't have a computer, or smart phone until... I think it was 2012? The year Obama got elected, I know that much, because man, that was not a good time to discover the internet. Secondly... if you want to blame me for everything wrong in the world, feel free; I refuse to feel guilty about something I admitted I did in ignorance, and have personally taken steps to rectify. I've talked to my son about it, and we've discussed it (although I don'…
/r/MensRights18/10/22 04:17 AM
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I mean... I am very much opposed to abortion, and have never had one, so I'm not intimately familiar with that process either. And I didn't say it as 'an excuse'. I said it as an explanation; as I stated in my post, my husband at the time was for it as well. He didn't know either. He'd been circumcised, so obviously it was good, right? That was the entire point I was trying to get across: most people don't know, and most people aren't gonna run and ask their families, because it's not considered…
/r/MensRights18/10/22 12:34 AM
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Yeah but here's the thing... How many women don't know any better? It's not something we really think about, right? It'd be like asking guys to know about the differences between pads and tampons. It's not something you'd know, because it's not really something you'd think about. I had zero idea, and some doctor just made it seem like obviously I should do it, and it would lead to problems for my baby if I didn't. I guess I was trying to get across, like... It's not really something folks talk a…
/r/MensRights14/10/22 08:45 AM
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What bothers me most about stuff like this? It shouldn't be about the dad, or the mom. It shouldn't be about gender. It should be about what is in the best interest of the child(ren). Like... My mom had CPS cases miles long, for both my brother and I growing up, and our fathers still couldn't get more than visitation rights, despite the fact that our mother was well-known to the courts to be abusive, and neglectful, and they had our court-mandated therapists telling them that we should be remove…
/r/MensRights14/10/22 03:41 AM
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When I gave birth to my son, I didn't even know it was a thing, to be honest. But the doctor insisted it was healthier, and more hygienic, and that it was essentially useless to keep it. Not knowing any different -as a girl, it wasn't something I'd ever even really heard of, tbh -I assumed my doctor knew better than I did, and said okay, if you think it's best.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 03:30 AM
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Well, the majority of feminists hate anything a guy does, so any organized movement by men is treated like Al Qaeda. Secondly, many of them look at the extremists of the MGTOW movement -the 'PumpnDump', the guy who go on dates, or interact with women, but only for sex -and insist that's derogatory towards women. Which, unlike the SCUM )Society for Cutting Up Men) Manifestro Crowd, is just not allowed. My thing is... if women are stupid enough to fall for the PumpnDump... That's their own problem…
/r/MensRights08/10/22 07:18 PM
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I mean... anyone should've stepped in, gender has nothing to do with it. Men, women... if you see two kids getting smacked on by a group of adults, I kinda feel like any adult, regardless of gender, is obligated to help.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 01:34 AM
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I mean... I feel like being a nice person is just genuinely something we should all strive for, until something happens that makes you not want to be nice to a person lol. Your attractiveness should have zero bearing on your personality and how you treat people. Either be nice, or don't, but don't let your looks play into it.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 05:06 AM
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It's a catch-all term for whatever thing a guy did that they hate today. Hold a door open for a woman? Toxic masculinity! Whistle at a woman? Toxic masculinity! Offer to pay for the date? Toxic masculinity! Pinch a woman's ass? Toxic masculinity! Want a stay at home wife? Toxic masculinity! Think all women are bitches? Toxic masculinity! Notice how some of these things are legitimately asshole things, and some are just... things? Yeah. Anything a guy does can be labeled 'toxic masculinity', rega…
/r/MensRights29/09/22 09:34 PM
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To be fair: I work, because I hated having to depend on my long term boyfriend to pay for things for me. Even taking care of things at the house, I felt guilty every time I had to ask him for money for stuff. Not because he made me feel that way, but because it's my personality/flaws. And he supported me both ways; when I stayed at home with the kids, and when I went back to work.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 01:27 AM
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Funny story: as long as you find a woman who wants what you want... it doesn't matter what other people want. That's the big thing feminists can't grasp: if a guy and a girl want a traditional 'she's a SAHM, he's the breadwinner'? That's on them! As long as you're not trying to force a woman who wants a career to be a SAHM, then it's absolutely fine. Find someone who wants what you want. If you're both happy? It's nobody else's damn business.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 01:25 AM
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This also goes to show that rape has nothing to do with the person being raped, and more the subjugation and humiliation the rapist is inflicting. It's not a 'men hates womens' -it's shitty people violating people in the most brutal manner possible.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 01:02 AM
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I was going to try and rationalize with you, make points, etc... But then I noticed you just jump around various MRA subs, or any posts that talk about equality and jump in with men are bad, women are great, MRAs are stupid and don't understand feminism. So I'll use your logic: You're gross. Eww. I feel sorry for your boyfriend. Oh, you don't have one? Knew it. Enjoy your thirty six cats!
/r/MensRights26/09/22 10:40 PM
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Ah, my favorite feminist argument: if you think women are people, you're a feminist! No choice, you get the label, deal with it! And now here's nine thousand six hundred and thirty two things you must do to be a good feminist! No. I'm an egalitarian. It means I think everyone deserves to be treated equally, regardless of their gender, sexuality, race, or creed. Feminism -as the word 'feminine' implies -is concerned with women. And to say it's a 'small minority' of women who hate men? Literally m…
/r/MensRights26/09/22 10:36 PM
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Ah yes. The ol' 'You couldn't vote without feminists!', Dunno if you noticed but uh... Women have had the right to vote for, what... a hundred years now? Women haven't been considered property for, what... a hundred years now? Women have been able to work wherever they want, as long as they meet the qualifications for, what, seventy years now? Sorry you're outdated, and irrelevant. Sorry you can only keep your political movement going by pretending to be relevant. Unlike you, I was raised by som…
/r/MensRights26/09/22 10:31 PM
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I feel like if you hadn't noticed that she was a feminist before you get into the second date... you're doing something wrong, and probably shouldn't be dating. Since most feminists can't go more than two minutes without expounding on evils of patriarchy, how men are wrecking everything, or talking about you oppressed her when you pulled out her chair for her.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 10:05 PM
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For most normal women, if a woman came up to us, holding a child in one hand, and a grenade in the other, by the time we made the choice to shoot the woman, the decision would be too late, and we'd all be dead. Not that men would be 'okay' with that, but they'd make the choice, and deal with the fallout afterwards, whereas most women would try to figure out a different way, alternative routes, etc., Again: not saying men would enjoy making the decision. But men are far more capable of quick, dec…
/r/MensRights26/09/22 06:05 PM
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The fact that there are exceptions proves the point. Do you think a male who made the same point would have gotten an article written up about him? No. Just like Rhonda Rhousey could beat the hell out of most men, that doesn't mean every woman is equal in strength to every male. Obviously women are capable of being violent; obviously they're capable of being vicious and cruel -in my experience, they're capable of greater cruelty than most men, because women personalize things. I also didn't say …
/r/MensRights26/09/22 06:02 PM
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No. My opinions on women in the military have nothing to do with gender roles, and everything to do with the multiple male family members I have in the military. Obviously there are a few women who are capable of thinking like men; just like there are women like Rhonda Rhousey who could kick the ass of most men. These women are the exception, not the rule.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 05:54 PM
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Ah yes, the ol' 'I have shitty taste in men, and keep dating assholes, therefore all men are inconsiderate assholes'. Imagine what would happen if a dude posted, "Yeah, my girlfriend was absolutely insane and manipulative, therefore all women are insane and manipulative!"
/r/MensRights25/09/22 12:48 AM
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To be fair... While I disagree with draft laws, I also don't think women should be in the military. Not because of feminism, but because realistically speaking, women are physically weaker than males, less capable of quick decisive action, and unable to make tough choices in time. Now, to expand on that a bit, so it doesn't sound like I hate women, or think men are just interchangeable killing machines... Obviously, most women are physically weaker than our male counterparts. That's biological f…
/r/MensRights25/09/22 12:38 AM
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I think the right is more sympathetic, but not in a way that actually helps men. Conservative men are expected to macho men, don't cry, don't be emotional, the man is the provider, the man is responsible for anything that happens to/in the family, etc. In a way, I suppose it's more... benign? than liberals opinions about men, but it isn't healthy either.
/r/MensRights25/09/22 12:31 AM
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Okay, the outside thing is dumb... However, as a chick? I will admit that I would most likely see if the helicopter was actually a thing that could be done. Although I imagine that I would also get very irritated at having things hanging between my legs... Catch 22 I suppose. Although if every woman had to live as a man for a day, we'd get rid of the petty 'man-spreading' feminists pretty quick lol.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 09:01 PM
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(Please bear in mind, what I'm about to type isn't how the law works, but how it's supposed to work, and why it's supposed to work that way). The concept is that you pay the woman for the amount of time she's raised your kids, to help support the children, etc. When the idea of alimony was first set up, it was during a time period when -in a divorce -women's options for work were incredibly limited. Meaning that the mother wouldn't be able to provide anything for her children. The idea of alimon…
/r/MensRights22/09/22 01:19 AM
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My big thing with mandatory recruitment quotas? They're sexist. It's saying that women aren't smart/strong/cunning enough to get the job on their own, so they have to be handed the job. Because realistically speaking? People want to make sure the job -whatever it is -is done correctly. When I hire a plumber, I don't care if the plumber is a male or female, I just want my sink to work. I'm not going to spend more/wait longer to get a male plumber over a female plumber, because we don't care. Mayb…
/r/MensRights22/09/22 01:02 AM
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I mean... Arsenic, lead, and mercury were all main ingredients in make-up at various points throughout history -or just used as makeup themselves lol.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 06:54 AM
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My thing is... Let's presume I do wear make-up for men; that has nothing to do with men, and everything to do with me, and my self-esteem and self-confidence. If I think I have to wear a bunch of make-up, and super hot clothes to attract a male, I'm essentially saying that I have nothing to offer a male except for artificially enhanced looks, or that I have no desire for a male who wants me for anything but artificially enhanced looks. I'm not saying make-up is a bad thing; hell, I use foundatio…
/r/MensRights20/09/22 06:51 AM
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Yeah, I love that logic, because it boils down to essentially... "Bad people shouldn't be bad!" Well duh. But if all it took was to tell them they shouldn't be bad, the world would be a lovely utopia of rainbows, puppies, and unicorns. Shitty people exist; they will always exist, among all races, genders, sexualities, and creeds. Shitty people will always do shitty things. Saying we shouldn't have to worry about them is pointless, because sure... you can tell that murder, mugger, or rapist that …
/r/MensRights15/09/22 10:56 PM
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I find it's more of a child victim, rather than a gendered victim. And even then, it's mostly crappy family members who do it. Not a societal thing. Now, I will say however, there still are quite a few people who blame prostitutes when something bad happens to them, and I always point out: yes, they put themselves in a situation where something bad was likely to happen. That doesn't mean they deserve what happened.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 10:53 PM
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Thank you! I think I saw it on the Australian Anti-Feminist FB page, but it was so long ago I couldn't remember the exact wording! So I appreciate you linking this lol
/r/MensRights07/09/22 08:25 PM
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I mean... she's out there teaching young girls that if they fail as an actress, they can marry a prince, break apart a family, by a $17 million dollar house, and then preach to everyone about how poor and oppressed they are.
/r/MensRights07/09/22 02:11 AM
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I saw this meme on FB years ago, and I should've saved it, but I didn't. It essentially said, "Teach your female friends not to throw their newborns in dumpsters! Just because you're not throwing your newborn in dumpsters doesn't mean you don't have the responsibility to tell your female friends not to do it! .... Mad yet? Welcome to how men feel when women start talking about rape."
/r/MensRights07/09/22 01:39 AM
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It's called the horseshoe effect; each side eventually curves around until they become indistinguishable from each other. However, all things considered? the MRA groups are doing much better at policing their own, as a generality, than the feminists are. The whacked out fringe folks aren't just tolerated in the feminist groups, they're celebrated as visionaries; at least with the MRA groups, the men are like, "Yeah, Bob's a bit weird, but let me show you sources and evidence to show why Bob has …
/r/MensRights07/09/22 01:28 AM
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Because feminists can't exist outside of echo chambers. Mostly because they can't formulate arguments, and just start shrieking or crying whenever somebody disagrees with them.
/r/MensRights07/09/22 01:14 AM
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I'm not saying men don't want cuddles; I'm saying people who visit PROSTITUTES. These are two very different demographics. Women who are willing to pay for sex tend to end up with gigolos (I'm not sure if that's the right spelling); they engage in long term... keeping? I know that's not the right word, but women tend to go for long term financial sex. Men who are willing to pay for sex tend to go for short term, wham bam, there's the door. Men are paying for a service, they pay for the service, …
/r/MensRights07/09/22 12:44 AM
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It's because women tend to be more demanding on what they get from sex. Not as far as the sex itself, but they want commitment, cuddles, hugs, kisses, etc., which most prostitutes -male or female -are very opposed to doing. Men however? They're there for a service. They're provided that service. They go about their day. Night? Whatever it is. It goes back to the whole thing about how the vast majority of women are incapable of easy casual sex; it always has to have a deeper meaning, or more feel…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 10:57 PM
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While it's some heavy bullshit your friends are throwing at you, you can't just tell them, "Hey, you guys are whipped; get over it." So use language that forces them to think about what they're actually saying, instead of just parroting what the women in their lives have said. By pointing out that if the woman doesn't tell the man what she's unhappy about, or what it is that's driving her to seek out other men, the man can't possibly hope to fix it. The woman isn't giving the man a chance to fix…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 10:50 PM
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I mean... I too poke fun at Leo DiCaprio but it has nothing to do with who he dates, and more to do with the fact that he's a gigantic hypocrite lol.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 09:54 AM
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Well, in the last... what, fifty years? Our options have been Hillary Clinton... Who told people to vote for her because she had a vagina. Maybe if we had a competent woman run, a competent woman would be elected lol.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 09:32 AM
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WTF are you talking about lol. Sacrifice? By taking care of a kid who trusts you, who depended on you, who you took care of, you're sacrificing your ability to ever have other kids? Gee, I wonder how we even have multi-children families then lol. If you can only take care of one at a time. And as I stated multiple times to you, in multiple posts, telling a kid that it's all mom's fault doesn't change that YOU are making a conscious choice to abandon a child because of something his/her mother di…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:54 PM
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I don't want anybody to sacrifice lol. You are literally reading exactly what you want, so I'm not sure why I'm bothering to respond to you, but we'll try one more time. Not ditching the child you raised for, let's just throw a number out and say 12 years? That's not a sacrifice. That's literally saying, "Fuck you, kiddo! I no longer care about you because biology says I don't have to! Don't like it? Well, it's all your mom's fault! Hope that makes you feel better about being abandoned by the on…
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:49 PM
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I love reading responses like that second one, because I'm just sitting here like... I have never been traumatized because of my gender lol. I don't spend every day thinking of that one time that one cashier called me 'hon', or the guy at the dealership asked if I wanted to consult my boyfriend before I bought, or the guy at gas station looking at my ass. It's almost like I pulled up my big girl pants, and moved on with my life. Like I don't let random people saying things traumatize me! Like I …
/r/MensRights02/09/22 07:07 AM
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So this is a two parter. If the man wants the woman to have an abortion, I think she should have to sign away any rights to getting child support from the father. If he's not ready for a child, or doesn't want a child, he has that right. However, if she wants an abortion, and he doesn't, I feel like he should have to agree to the same thing: he'll raise the child after its birth, and sign away any rights to child support from the mother. In that case, however, he should also be responsible for a…
/r/MensRights02/09/22 06:57 AM
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It is absolutely cruel, and it should absolutely be punishable with jail time. False paternity claims should be punished as harshly as false rape claims should be punished. I'm all for jail time in false paternity claims. But that doesn't change the fact that you're punishing a child, a child whose life has been turned upside down already, for something his/her mother did. A child who only knows you as a father. Like... It's bad enough for a kid to find out one parent is a lying piece of shit; f…
/r/MensRights02/09/22 06:33 AM
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It's not contesting; as I've said numerous times, by all means, punish the mom. I agree with jail time over false paternity claims. But if I raised a kid for ten-fifteen years? That's my child. I changed his/her diaper, I was there when she/he was sick, I was there for the heartbreaks of their first breakup... Knowing a nurse fucked up at the hospital doesn't change that I raised that child as my own, I was there for that child. The nurse should be punished, but after 'x' amount of years? That's…
/r/MensRights02/09/22 06:26 AM
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Ah yes. Because knowing mom is to blame is somehow going to make that kid forget the man who raised him for umpteen years? Again: by all means, punish the mom. I'm all for jail time, plus any child support being returned. But that kid? That kid did absolutely nothing, and I don't understand how, after raising a kid for umpteen years, you can just 'nope' out of the kid's life and never speak to them again.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 06:20 AM
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And that's your prerogative. But to say the only reason to have kids is to continue your genetic legacy? That's a shitty ass reason to have children, right up there with the mothers who have kids so they can have someone to love them uncondtionally. If you can raise a kid for ten years, and then decide, "Nah, my wife fucked around, so now I want nothing to do with this kid who loved me, who thought of me as his father, because fuck my wife?" That's cruel.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 12:20 AM
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I imagine there would be a lot of pain and heartache involved... None of which would be the fault of the child I'd spent 15+ years raising, so I like to think I wouldn't just drop out of their lives, kick them out of my house, and never speak to them again because of something someone else did -something they had no say nor control over.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:43 PM
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Really hope you don't have kids, sir. Since the only point of them is to continue your genetic legacy.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:41 PM
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I agree with paternity tests at birth. However, I've had a family member do it, and I've heard numerous stories online, about men requesting paternity tests on their teenagers, and then dropping out of the kids' lives when it comes back that they're not theirs, and I just can't grasp that. Sure, ensure you don't have to pay child support in the divorce but like... Those kids are yours man. Maybe not biologically, but you've raised them, you were there for them, and then you just drop them? That'…
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:21 AM
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To be fair... I don't think women should need men. I also believe men shouldn't need women. Needing someone is different than wanting to be with someone. Yeah, sure, I'm quite capable of changing my own oil, opening my own jars, and taking out the garbage. Just like my boyfriend is capable of doing his own laundry, cooking his own meals, and vacuuming. However, because we ENJOY being together, he does the garbage, I do the cooking. Because we WANT to be together, he keeps the oil taken care of, …
/r/MensRights30/08/22 02:39 AM
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Thank you! Because for all that feminist screech about a woman's choice being sacrosanct... They sure don't feel that way when we choose not to be feminists lol
/r/MensRights22/08/22 11:05 AM
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Feminists are absolutely hypocrites. When Corey Feldman started screaming from the rooftops that Hollywood was full of pedophiles sexually abusing and raping children, he was ridiculed and slandered, and his career was destroyed. He became a laughing stock. But when grown ass women came forward and said that Harvey Weinstein said they had to sleep with him for roles in his movies, it was terrible; the most horrible of the horrible. Now, I won't deny that Harvey Weinstein was absolutely a creep, …
/r/MensRights22/08/22 11:05 AM
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My response? Being a shitty human being doesn't belong to one gender, nor does it stop because you ask people nicely not to be shitty. If that worked, there would be no murder. Telling someone not to rape is like telling someone not to kill someone; if you're going to do it, telling you not to isn't going to stop you. If you're not going to do it, then you're not a concern anyways.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 03:05 AM
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I love how feminists take 'Men are going to live their best lives, taking care of their own mental and emotional health, withdrawing from the dating/marriage scene' and somehow turn it into, "Men hates women, won't live with them if they can't control them'.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 09:34 PM
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The idea that feminists push is that the MRA's don't care about men being raised up, only about bringing women down. Which they then use to justify their behavior, saying that men are so violent, and hate women so much, that they don't care about anything but 'bringing down feminists'. Which, makes sense: that's how they view the world, so they think everyone else is as terrible and awful as they are lol.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 04:39 PM
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I'm here because I was rescued from an abusive mother by my father who ended up having to file bankruptcy just to battle court fees to get custody of me. I'm here because I have both a son, and a daughter, and I want them to actually have true equality, where they're based off their merits, not their genitals. And yeah, sometimes, you'll get that random member who clearly just hates women as much as feminists hate men, but I'm not gonna let that stop me lol. And they're pretty rare, all things c…
/r/MensRights17/07/22 09:37 AM
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No the problem is that feminists are fighting wars of sixty+ years ago. They admit they don't want equality, they want extras, because 'well, a hundred years ago men did x!' Like... okay, shame on the guys a hundred years ago, but that has no bearing on today. They're fighting the battles of the past and trying to punish men who have zero influence on what happened decades ago. The problem with that mindset is it just creates perpetual victim cycles; decades from now men will claim victim status…
/r/MensRights15/07/22 05:06 AM
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It's actually contributed more to people not believing victims than anything else throughout history. Because now, when somebody says they were sexually assaulted, or raped, our first response is... "Okay, but were you raped, or did a guy kiss you, you told him no, and he backed off?" As someone who was sexually abused as a kid, it drives me up a wall when people say things like, "I was sexually assaulted -some random guy grabbed my hand!"
/r/MensRights11/07/22 08:37 AM
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That statistic is true, however, the researchers left out one key component: namely, that kids in two parent homes -regardless of marital status -tend to do better than single parent children. 'Marriage' has nothing to do with it; it's having two parents around to make sure kids are taken care of, supported, watched over, and all that good jazz. Children growing up in two parent homes do better than children in single parent homes, regardless of marital status, gender, or anything else. It's abo…
/r/MensRights10/07/22 08:41 PM
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Alimony -when it was 'created' for lack of a better term -wasn't a terrible idea. When most women either weren't accepted in the work force, or didn't have marketable skills, many women feared leaving a bad relationship -particularly when there were children involved -because the wealthier spouse would control everything, and everything that went along with that. Nowadays? Yeah, alimony is a scam. Interesting side note to your court thing though? In my state, you can't file uncontested if there'…
/r/MensRights10/07/22 08:38 PM
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Funny story, even as an anti-feminist, I find the concept of marriage to be incredibly sexist lol. Like... here's a government regulated DOWRY that we're gonna call tax breaks to encourage you to marry. I don't knock people who do get married; to each their own. But the only 'benefit' I ever hear about is for taxes, and that just rubs me the wrong way.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 08:34 PM
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I mean... this really has nothing to do with privilege, and more to do with your ideas of how the relationship should work. Because both my boyfriend (of almost ten years now) and I routinely point out attractive folks to each other. There is nothing wrong with looking, as long as you're not touching. Yeah, sure, you shouldn't be like, "Oh yeah, that chick there? Way hotter than you. So hot. I wish you looked like her." But to see a nice looking person, and notice is literally something that we'…
/r/MensRights21/02/22 12:46 AM
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It depends; my boyfriend (father of my two kids) loves getting tools for his birthday. Neither he nor I like to spend money on ourselves for our hobbies/interests, so birthdays and Father's/Mother's day are the two times a year when it's alright for us/the kids to spend money on us. As well... What business is it of yours, what other people get for their families for holidays? This is one of feminism's most glaring problems: they feel the need to tell everyone that they are not allowed to like t…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:04 AM
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I... But... Huh? Seriously, we've hit Poe's Law territory and started mining that shit.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 01:11 AM
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It's amazing how many women are feminists until it comes to actually being equal lol.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 01:09 AM
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The idea that the feminists push is that women go into these positions because they don't have a choice. That all the men who view porn are basically degrading and objectifying women, by the very act of watching them have sex. It doesn't make a lick of sense, but that's never stopped feminists before.
/r/MensRights13/10/21 01:32 AM
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That's government bureaucracy at it's best for you. Oh, it didn't work, and did absolutely nothing, and cost millions/billions of dollars? Clearly, more money is needed!
/r/MensRights06/09/21 12:10 PM
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Well, here's something for you to consider, along with this... As of right now, reports have at least 170+ dead Afghani men, women, and children. None of which are being mentioned. My heart goes out to the families of everyone who was killed. Particularly given that none of this needed to happen. Male or female, young or old, it's a tragedy.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 02:47 AM
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Exactly, no matter your gender, both sides should be enjoying themselves, even if one side has to take some extra 'effort' to get there.
/r/MensRights29/08/21 11:06 PM
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Because women are taught, or learn, from a young age, that men just 'can't get enough sex'. That men are always thinking about sex, that they're always horny, and ready to go. To a point where even as an anti-feminist, and MRA supporter, I told my boyfriend one day (when we first got together, eight years ago) that I wished I could walk around without a shirt on when it was hot and the kids weren't home. He laughed and said I could, why wouldn't I be able to? I said because I didn't want to be a…
/r/MensRights29/08/21 11:05 PM
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Convinced them not to sign pre-nups! Which was, apparently, a very worth-while, and hard task to do -they will literally never have to do anything ever again, because they were cunning enough to convince their husbands not to have any sort of protection.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 07:43 PM
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It's a hold-over from the days when women didn't work/couldn't work outside of a few very specific jobs. Back then, it was very likely that, if a couple divorced, the woman would be unable to provide for herself, much less children. Like most laws, divorce laws haven't caught up with modern practices/ideals. So we're stuck with laws that are no longer needed, or no longer make sense, but god forbid we update our legal statutes.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 07:33 PM
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All you have to do to see the double standard is look at how the MeToo women were treated, and how Corey Feldman is still treated.
/r/MensRights25/08/21 09:10 PM
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Oh they do the same here in the states. You can't blindly trust any study -I don't care what political/social group it is, you always need to look into it. Like to get the '1 in 5 college women will be raped' thing -to get that number, they counted women consensually having sex with their boyfriends after they'd been drinking. Mind you, the participants said it was willing and consensual, but hey... gotta pad those numbers somehow. Or when they say things like, "X amount of women will be raped o…
/r/MensRights25/08/21 09:08 PM
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I'm a proud anti-feminist, but I appreciate the sentiment.
/r/MensRights24/08/21 11:42 PM
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It's the feminist equivalent of 'who smelt it dealt it' and has just as much validity.
/r/MensRights24/08/21 05:44 AM
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I feel that whatever a person is attracted to, if everyone is of age, and consenting, it's nobody's business. Guy likes girly girls? Go you! Guy likes fembois? Go you! Girl likes butch girls? Go you! It ain't nobody's business but those involved as long as everyone's consenting and of legal age. But I love that whole 'They're dumb incels' and 'I don't know what I said as a slur!'
/r/MensRights24/08/21 05:43 AM
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No... he's getting hated on because it's embarrassing and shameful. Our Afghan allies are getting left behind to certain death, because he didn't plan anything, and wanted to look good. He's already said that any American citizen who can't make their way to the Kabul airport is getting left behind -and he has no plans of going back for hostage situations. When asked about pictures of Afghan people literally falling to their deaths, trying to cling to American planes as they left, he huffily resp…
/r/MensRights23/08/21 03:34 PM
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According to the Bureau of Justice Statistics, and several independent studies, false rape claims are between 38-48 percent of rape claims -and that's provably, 'we know it's false' cases, not 'he said/she said, and we've got no idea'. The next closest fake claim is assault -which occurs in about 14-18 percent. Now, these statistics only include women who actually made a complaint, to officers, that was documented. It doesn't include... Women going to HR, women talking to their families/friends,…
/r/MensRights23/08/21 03:22 PM
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Mmhmm. But the SCUM Manifesto crowd, political lesbians, rad-fems, TERFS, etc., they're all absolutely okay. They're most definitely not violent people.
/r/MensRights22/08/21 08:52 PM
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I've taught both my son and my daughter: you don't hit anyone who doesn't hit you first. My ex and I argue about this, because he tries telling our son that 'you should never hit a girl'. I've told him that's ridiculous -if a girl punches our son, her genitals shouldn't change his reaction. If said girl doesn't want to get punched... don't punch first. Good rule of thumb to live by? If you can't take it, don't dish it out.
/r/MensRights22/08/21 08:29 PM
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To be fair... Everything the feminists say about men here in America is actually true in countries controlled by the Taliban. Sure, the lower class men there have no real say in anything either -but for many in these countries, women are legitimately viewed as a half step up from a slave. Doesn't make it right that we're ignoring what's happening to anyone in this disaster -but pictures have already started making the rounds of women being shot for not wearing head coverings, and reports of wors…
/r/MensRights20/08/21 04:39 AM
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I'm trying to find it; it's been years since I've read about it, give me a day or so to see if I can locate it -I believe I read about it first in a book, and then online, but I can't remember the city. I want to say L.A., but I'm not 100%; I'll go through and try to find it for you, just give me some time. :)
/r/MensRights24/07/21 02:38 PM
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EDIT to say.... Nah, went and checked out this guy's comments. He just likes to troll and argue based on whatever he's feeling a particularly day apparently. Damn, and I spent all that time typing out a good argument too. Eh, don't feed the trolls kiddies.
/r/MensRights24/07/21 02:35 PM
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As with all men-only shelters, feminists will shut it down. There was a case here in the States where the feminists literally screwed over women, by insisting that shelters couldn't be single sex -resulting in the closing of women's shelters as well. They didn't care, because feminism isn't about women -it's about helping a few select feminist women hold onto their political power.
/r/MensRights24/07/21 12:20 AM
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Good sir... it was sarcasm... Hence the 'I love this concept that'...
/r/MensRights22/07/21 08:53 PM
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I love this concept that man are a unified group of folks. White men, Black men, Asian men, African men, tall men, short men, skinny men, fat men, conservative men, liberal men, straight men, gay men... You are all part of the same group that wants to subjugate women, and dominate the world through the power of the patriarchy! You and Bob down at the 7/11 have been in cahoots for years! And Warren Buffet? You've all got his number secretly in your phone. Because, through the power of penis, you …
/r/MensRights22/07/21 02:58 PM
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It doesn't matter if you were a feminist; you've realized you made an error in judgment, and corrected it. The few crappy man-babies here can't take that away from you by saying that they don't want you. Fighting for men's rights isn't something that you need approval for; it's simply something that everyone should do, regardless of who approves.
/r/MensRights20/07/21 11:52 PM
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Here's a thought for you, sir. You, the feminists consider to be their enemy, right? You're everything bad, and evil, and awful with the world? Me? I'm a traitor. In their eyes, I should be aligned with them, but instead, I willingly choose to ally myself with the bad, evil, awful men of the world. As a generality? They hate both us equally... However, women who support men are told we're 'dickmatized', 'victims of the patriarchy', 'afraid of having responsibility', 'raising evil rapists', etc,.…
/r/MensRights20/07/21 11:50 PM
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I've gotten so much crap from other moms, because I won't let my daughter wear 'girl power', 'girls rule', etc., shirts from family members. When they ask why, I ask where my son's 'boys rule', and 'boy power' shirts are. They stare at me blankly, and then usually go home and run to FB to tell everyone how unappreciative I am. Like... Yeah, sorry I want my kids to believe that it's how they act, and what they do, that will get them places in life, not the genitals they have. Man, how ever do I l…
/r/MensRights20/07/21 11:43 PM
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I have a degree in Criminal Justice, my grandfather's a judge, and one of my cousins is a police officer. The legal definition of having sex with a person under the age of consent is statutory rape. A random .com site does not prove that 'we're both correct' -you said it's not rape, I said it is. The legal definition of this act is statutory rape. We can't both be right here, since we're saying opposite and opposing things. I wholeheartedly encourage being correct, and knowledgeable about your t…
/r/MensRights18/07/21 01:32 AM
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Please do. I always encourage people to educate themselves. So please verify all of the following: Children do not have the emotional or intellectual maturity to have the same legal rights as adults; they can't make medical decisions without parental permission (with a few exceptions), they can't be held to contracts, they can't have sex with anyone over 18, they have to be judged mentally competent to be a witness below 13, and so on. An adult having sex with anyone under 18 is statutory rape.
/r/MensRights18/07/21 12:48 AM
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Yes, they should, because it is technically, legally, rape. Maybe you live outside of the US where laws are different, where expectations are different. Here in the US we're taught that children cannot consent to having sex with adults, because they don't have the intellectual or emotional maturity to consider the consequences, and that they're too easily influenced/coerced into doing things they don't want to do. Legally speaking? It's called statutory rape. It is viewed no differently than oth…
/r/MensRights17/07/21 11:32 PM
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Technically, yes. It's called statutory rape, since children under the age of 18 in the United States cannot legally consent to have sex with an adult, anymore than they can enter a legally binding contract. Because it's been determined that children under eighteen do not have the emotional or intellectual maturity to consent to such actions. So yes. It's technically rape. Please cease.
/r/MensRights17/07/21 11:29 PM
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I do not believe that all feminists are bad people. However, the quiet feminists, who disavow this sort of behavior, not only never publicly speak out, but they keep throwing their support behind feminist women who support this sort of behavior. And guess what? The person who supports a person who supports something? Also supports that thing.
/r/MensRights17/07/21 08:41 PM
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"Victims have rights. Here, the victim also has responsibilities." But try saying that drunk women should stay out of dark alleys when they're by themselves at 3AM, and you're a sexist rape-apologizer. And I love that they made it a point to add, "He said it was mutual!" He was underage. Period, end of story. He could've absolutely loved it, been dying for it, and it doesn't make a damn bit of difference. He's underage and cannot legally consent. Therefore, it's rape. Full stop. Also... notice h…
/r/MensRights17/07/21 08:39 PM
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Essentially, you want to force your school administrators into revealing their bias; you and I both know they will never allow a non-feminist point of view on this topic, right? So ask them to do so, with a list of non-feminists -no one off the wall controversial -that offer an opposing view point; preferably, as many 'walks of life' as you can. For example... You have someone who's more conservative, and they say they can't, because she's conservative. Offer a liberal option. They say they can'…
/r/MensRights17/07/21 01:07 AM
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Firstly, check the UK laws; here in the States, students cannot be legally required to fill out any sort of survey, either in k-12, or college. Administrators can ask, but they can't require it. I'd be surprised if the UK didn't have a similar law on the books somewhere, as it can lead to a lot of touchy issues regarding consent, and legal concerns. The second part is much harder, and a longer road, and one you need to be sure of before you start. If you're sure of your path, you and some of you…
/r/MensRights16/07/21 09:54 PM
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MeToo decimated rape victims -between the fact that they only stood for grown adult female rape victims, and that they supported even laughably false accusations, they lost all respectability. Don't get me wrong; I agree with their basic premise: Hollywood, by its very nature, is the type of place to encourage men in power to act in the most reprehensible of ways. Give them a buffet of the most attractive women in the country, most of whom are willing to do anything to get their fifteen minutes …
/r/MensRights16/07/21 06:08 PM
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They don't seem to realize that letting these women get away with this discourages people from believing rape victims when they do come forward; all it does is make people look at every rape claim with the mindset of, "Eh, did it really happen? Remember those last ten big cases that were all fake claims? Good chance she's lying too." Allowing this behavior doesn't help women -it helps feminists. It hurts women. And 'women' aren't 'feminism'.
/r/MensRights15/07/21 11:54 PM
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To be fair, this isn't only a 'feminist' issue, it's an issue of a larger part of what's wrong in the world today. If you want to be a with a dude who's still living with his parents? Living in an apartment? Has a house with roommates? None of my business. You want to split the bill 50/50, or he pays for it always, or she pays for it always? None of my business. Want to have a big princess wedding, small wedding, or no wedding at all? None. Of. My. Business. I learned this the hard way. I used t…
/r/MensRights15/07/21 04:18 PM
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I wasn't responding to the actual article, but rather several folks who said the women should go to private gyms if they didn't want to photographed.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 09:56 PM
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Oh I don't lol; I judge everyone based off of their character, not their genitals lol. Thank you for your words though, I do appreciate them.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 09:55 PM
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Dear sir, I'm done responding to you; go stalk someone else's posts, and have a lovely day. :)
/r/MensRights12/07/21 03:57 AM
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You said she's your girlfriend; who bought the house? Like, whose name is it in? Cars (if you have them)? Can you prove that any of the furniture/belongings in the house were yours before you got together? Even if you're not 'worried' about it, it's always smart to plan for the worst, and hope for the best; make sure you have documentation for anything and everything you can. If you have the documentation, in safe place, I would say you shouldn't need to consult a lawyer. But if you have the mon…
/r/MensRights12/07/21 03:17 AM
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Unfortunately for you sir, it most certainly does. I have a father, a brother, male cousins, and a son. All of which I'm trying to make better world for. Unfortunately for you, I will continue to assist men trying to get equality, and I won't apologize for doing it in a way you dislike. Because I'm an egalitarian; I believe everyone is equal, until they give me a reason to believe they are less, regardless of race, gender, religion, or sexuality. Which means I feel no guilt in telling you, sir, …
/r/MensRights12/07/21 02:59 AM
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Women don't support you: inane ranting. Women support you, but not in the way you like: inane ranting. Luckily for you, unlike you and the feminists, I don't judge an entire gender (or sub) based off of it's most childish, inane members. Please kindly look up the horseshoe theory. You should recognize your picture there.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 02:55 AM
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So... I'm being the logical one here, and you're being the overly emotional one. Alright. Just so long as we have that established.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:58 PM
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Dear sir, As you can see if you take a quick meander through my post history, I am a huge supporter of mens rights. I've even given my reasoning for doing so in several of them. Beyond even Reddit, I am a part of several organizations to help fathers with their rights, or to help men get access to the same assistance that women get (social programs, counseling, shelter, etc.) in my role as a social worker. I've spent most of my adult life trying to fight feminism, and help achieve true equality;…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:56 PM
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Some of the most popular posts on this sub, or some of the most well-thought out, and well-presented, include facts and statistics. Because a) you providing those facts and statistics can help someone else when they're trying to debate a feminist, and b) it shows that you are making an argument from a clear, non-biased, non-emotional standpoint, giving you the high ground in most debates.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:48 PM
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You can downvote my points as much as you want, it doesn't change the fact that you sound like a feminist. Word for word, you are saying the exact same thing they say about men. Do you agree with those feminists? If I were to tell you that, "Well, women, we talk, and we know what's going on." when you say that not all men -in fact very few men -rape, or abuse women, would you accept my argument? Or would you call it out as anecdotal, and useless in the larger scheme of things? My father went thr…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:47 PM
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And if I were a feminist, I could say, it's just apart of life now as a woman. You have multiple friends and coworkers being harassed, and sexually assaulted. It goes nowhere, and means nothing. I'm terribly sorry for your friends, I truly am. But in the larger discussion, anecdotal homilies mean nothing.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:17 PM
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No, it's pointing out that men LOSE 80-82% of all custody battles. It's using statistics and facts to make your case, rather than anecdotal homilies, which are absolutely worthless, and meaningless in any sort of debate.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:15 PM
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This is stereotyping on par with the feminists saying, "Every woman I know has been sexually assaulted or harassed by a man!" I'm not saying feminists aren't destroying relationships between the genders; I'm an anti-feminist, and always will be. But we must be careful not to 'horse-shoe' into becoming the thing we fight against, i.e., making broad stereotypes with no factual data, just anecdotal information. For example, you could point out that fathers win custody battles between 18-20 percent …
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:05 PM
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This is not accurate. In the times when things like this mattered (prehistoric, early ages, etc.) men were far more important to the survival of a tribe than women. Sure, women might have given birth to the next generation of tribesmen... but if the men weren't there to fight off other tribes, dangerous critters, go on hunting parties for food, etc., then it didn't matter how many babies there were -they wouldn't survive much past infancy, if they made it that far. Now, I will say, in that time …
/r/MensRights11/07/21 05:32 PM
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It's actually anti-women to presume that we're such a stupid bunch, we can't figure out right from wrong. Like when feminists tried pushing a law saying that women could only charged with manslaughter for killing their children under 1 year of age, because 'the stress, trauma, and mental health concerns' of new moms. Listen, if I'm so unstable as to kill my offspring -something even most animals won't do -I shouldn't be allowed to leave my house. I am a grown ass women, and I can take responsibi…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 05:22 PM
10

Some of the points, I do agree with (such as, they have the right to expect not to be photographed in the gym, and shouldn't have to go to a 'female only gym'), but yeah. A good portion of women these days have been raised to be deathly afraid of all men. It's like a thing I saw on FB the other day; my reasonably intelligent, fairly open-minded aunt, put up a thing about how she's never been scared sitting in a room with women, LGBT folks, or POCS, but she's been scared sitting in a room with mi…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 04:54 PM
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I wish people feared their daughters being emotionally abusive, manipulating, and hysterical basketcases as much as they feared them having a door opened for them.
/r/MensRights09/07/21 08:20 PM
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No, because the problem that many people don't understand? Karens don't pop out of a vacuum; these women act like this because nobody tells them to knock it off when they're children. Neither of my kids are allowed to act like that in public, and never have been. Infants -i.e., one year or younger -are the only ones that have an excuse. If a kid older than that is throwing a temper tantrum or crying in public? The parent needs to tell them that's unacceptable, and to stop. If they don't, the par…
/r/MensRights27/06/21 04:30 AM
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And women like you are the reason why the sexes can't get along; you've turned everything into a battlefield, where any behavior, any remark, any concept, is acceptable, as long as it helps you 'win' against the 'enemy'. Because guess what? Nobody should act like an immature toddler in public. But women act like basketcases in public, with zero shame, and then cry 'well, historically, I was oppressed!!" as some sort of excuse, instead of growing up, and acting like a normal, functioning adult.
/r/MensRights27/06/21 02:48 AM
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To be fair... I don't think women should cry and sob hysterically either. I tell both of my son and my daughter that crying is something to be a) when the situation is serious enough for it (not just because you don't get your way), b) to be done at home with family, not in public, and c) not done of petty, trivial things. The problem is that we live in a society where women are allowed to act like absolute lunatics, and get away with it, and we say that men should be able to do the same. No; wo…
/r/MensRights27/06/21 02:45 AM
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Because there are a bunch of moms out there who use it as an excuse for their son's behavior. The original intent behind the saying -you can't expect boys to sit still for hours on end, they'll bring home snakes and toads, they'll get dirty playing the mud, etc., -has been twisted by moms raising narcissitic mama's boys for them to get away with anything, as long as no one upsets mommy's precious baby.
/r/MensRights27/06/21 01:15 AM
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I absolutely love all the factual documentation, and cited sources/works there. Simply stating that '90% are true' with nothing more than her say so. ONE research group in 1993 asked prosecutors how many of their cases they felt were fake accusations (DiCanio, The encyclopedia of violence: origins, attitudes, consequences, 1993) said that they estimated between 2-10% of cases in their opinion, but that it was hard to come to a more solid number given that it's very hard to prove something didn't…
/r/MensRights24/06/21 01:39 AM
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That seems sort of a sexist rule to me, when you stop and think about it. Are females incapable of going to school and becoming doctors? Is there a reason we have to keep nursing jobs available for them? They're not competent enough to do other things? Like... I'm an egalitarian, I believe there shouldn't be quotas on anything, regardless, but having a rule that 80% of your nurse slots have to be left open for females seems like someone thinks women can't have any other position in a hospital lo…
/r/MensRights21/06/21 07:08 PM
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Feminists have hit this point where they have to be the biggest victims -because if they admit that both men and women have problems in the world today, that's getting dangerously close to saying that maybe men and women have something in common. That there's issues that they may share. Women must always be the oppressed ones, in the feminists' eyes. If they let go of that... they'd have to admit that men aren't responsible for every bad thing in the history of ever.
/r/MensRights12/06/21 04:16 AM
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There is literally a word for 'everyone is equal' -it's egalitarian. Feminists get so bent out of shape when they ask if I'm a feminist, and I respond with no, I'm an egalitarian because I believe men and women are equal. Then they quickly rush to tell me that feminism is about equality, so therefore, I'm a feminist. I ask why it has the word 'feminine' in it, if it's about equality between men and women. That's when they explain to me -with many an eyeroll -that feminism is trying to equalize m…
/r/MensRights12/06/21 04:00 AM
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Like most of these headlines... Grown ass woman sleeps with a child? Sex. Grown ass man sleeps with a child? Rape, molestation, sexual assault, predatory behavior. The double standard here is astounding.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 11:01 PM
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Yeah, being told that you're the reason for every bad thing ever since the beginning of time, and then going to see a shrink who tells you you're only depressed because of toxic masculinity probably isn't helping men at all.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 10:52 PM
4

Is this a legit thing? I got my son circumcised when he was born because my OB told me it's healthier, and more sanitary as they get older. I just sort of assumed it was just something everyone did?
/r/MensRights24/05/21 10:49 PM
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I love how in many states here in the US, we still have statutes of limitations on childhood sexual abuse victims coming forward, but these random ass women crawling out of the woodwork twenty+ years later is absolutely fine. Just saw another article on Reddit in the True Crime section discussing a judge who said Danny Matterson can go on trial for rapes that he's accused of committing 20 years ago. Now, maybe he did, maybe he didn't; I don't know. But if the victim had been a child, they would'…
/r/MensRights22/05/21 05:03 PM
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Firstly, estimates, and different statistical organizations (including the JBS, and a multitude of studies) put the false rape claim rate at anywhere from 20-40 percent -far higher than other felony crimes, including insurance fraud. So it's not miniscule, or a 'derailment' tactic. Secondly... Why is a man's reputation worth absolutely nothing, but we can't even mention a woman's reputation -or whether or not she's made false claims before -in court? Now I will say, as far as 'fault'... Much lik…
/r/MensRights21/05/21 02:24 AM
1

Humans have been evolving for (as just homo sapiens) for 50,000 years. These traits that you so casually dismiss 'unnecessary' kept humans alive, and were very, very necessary as recently as three hundred years ago -are still necessary in some parts of the world today. And the concept of virginity -which I never mentioned, btws, I mentioned fathers scaring boyfriends, and daddy daughter dances -is a relatively new concept on the evolutionary time scale. Men obsessed with virginity are weird -I n…
/r/MensRights14/05/21 01:21 AM
1

Saying that one thing is necessary for the survival of the species doesn't equate to forcibly taking that thing. If I say that sex, and the desire for sex, is a biological impulse, driven by our need to reproduce, and continue the species, are you going to say that saying that is no different than saying that men rape is biology? And no: saying that most women prefer alpha males, or strong males, to protect their offspring -which is a proven biological fact - is nothing akin to saying that all m…
/r/MensRights13/05/21 03:15 AM
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Saying that women and men are biologically wired to ensure the survival, and best outcome for their children, is nothing like saying 'men are hardwired to rape'. These things have absolutely nothing in common.
/r/MensRights11/05/21 01:48 AM
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Both of them are biological imperatives dating back to the earliest days of our evolutionary history. Women want to ensure that the man they pick can take care of them, and protect them from hardship. This was to ensure that that male would be able to ensure the safety and continuation of their offspring against potential threats, including other males. Fathers want to ensure that whatever guy comes for their daughter's hand can take care of her and protect her. This is to ensure that whatever m…
/r/MensRights10/05/21 01:34 AM
2

No, it doesn't make it immoral. Is it immoral to cuss in front of your grandmother? No. However, it's impolite. You can do it in front of your friends, but not your elderly Nana or your religious Grandpa. It's a matter of appropriate behavior given a time, location, and people around. Locker room talk is appropriate for just that: the locker room, with your friends. It isn't appropriate in church, in front of those you respect, or those who are uncomfortable with such behavior. That doesn't make…
/r/MensRights12/04/21 07:02 PM
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Both genders do this. It doesn't make it right... but it's literally 'guys being guys' and 'girls being girls'. There's a reason why most of our mothers warned us of 'locker room talk' -it's not polite to speak that way in public, but we'll all do it anyways in locker rooms. It's sort of like getting angry at boys for masturbating: both genders do it, don't do it in public, and there's no issues.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 10:01 PM
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Wrong, sir. As someone who has had multiple family members fight in wars since Vietnam, I am trying very hard not to be offended by your sheer ignorance. So we can only count a war as 'valid' if the draft is instituted, is your position here. I want to make that very clear. Your argument is that a war isn't a war until a draft has been put in place. I'm sure the three hundred dead in the first gulf war will sleep easier in their graves, knowing that it wasn't a war. I'm sure that the five thousa…
/r/MensRights07/04/21 10:29 PM
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Dear sir, You, sir, are the reason why MGTOW, and men's rights movements get such a bad rap. Because you are the epitome of the horseshoe effect. Like the feminists make insane, crazy ramblings that have no logical bearing, and have no interest in equality, neither do you. As you appear to be incapable of reading beyond what you wish I'd said... I did not say women should have more rights than men. As a girl who was raised by a single dad, who had to fight tooth and nail to get me away from a ch…
/r/MensRights07/04/21 10:12 PM
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As a social worker, I had a case where I had to go talk to a woman about her niece being molested by an uncle. Upon further discussion, it turned out that the uncle had never actually molested her, but he was being incredibly creepy, inappropriate, etc., and the woman was -rightly -concerned about her niece being in a potentially bad environment. While I was there, however, I asked her how her nine year old son was doing -because while my goal was to speak about the niece, I'd had this family on…
/r/MensRights07/04/21 09:14 PM
1

To be fair... women in the military is a bad idea (and I say this as a woman). It's been proven time and time again: morale is decimated if a woman is injured, men will essentially commit suicide to try and save a woman, etc. It is horrific for both morale, and performance. That's not even getting into the simple, biological fact that men will always be better at war than women. But you're absolutely right: the number one thing that stopped the ERA back in the seventies and eighties? When people…
/r/MensRights07/04/21 09:07 PM
4

I absolutely refuse to watch anything with Amber Heard, or those who have supported her. Won't watch, won't buy. Particularly given that Johnny Depp lost out on many different movies in the last few years this has been going on. They had zero evidence except Heard's say so that Depp was abusing her, and Depp became a pariah -he lost the Fantastical Beasts role, and several directors said they wouldn't work with him until the 'controversy' was over. But when it's proven, with audio records, sworn…
/r/MensRights30/11/20 11:12 PM
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https://www.bjs.gov/index.cfm?ty=tp&tid=317 You have to actually look through; I did a research project on this in college, and it took me a few hours to pour through all the numbers. As well, there are several very interesting number studies on female rape cases as well. The BJS is supposed to be a place where both state and federal LEOs put their numbers, and data, with little to no interpretation of that data. Meaning it's unbiased, at least in theory.
/r/MensRights05/10/20 02:49 PM
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Which isn't what you said; you said people need to stop drinking and getting high, especially women. Either be clearer in your posts -'people need to stop overdrinking' -or quit backtracking later on. Because you literally said people need to stop drinking and getting high, 'especially women'.
/r/MensRights03/10/20 08:52 PM
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Well, that's a really dumb argument. Guess what, shitty stuff happens to men who get drunk and high. Should people quit being stupid? Yes, they should. However, they won't, because just like rapists and murderers, stupid people will always exist. Your comment is proof of that.
/r/MensRights03/10/20 08:39 PM
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Complicit doesn't mean responsible. Complicit literally means involved. It means there were steps you could have taken to avoid being in that particular situation where the bad thing happened; are you responsible? No. However you are complicit; you made a poor choice, and something bad happened because of it. Despite the fact that I very specifically said it doesn't make it their fault, you took it that way; at no point in time did I say it meant the victim was at fault, or that they deserved it…
/r/MensRights03/10/20 08:38 PM
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To get the '1 in 4' number, they literally counted things as, "I was drunk, and my boyfriend and I had consensual sex", and "He grabbed my hand, I told him no, and he left." as rape. According to the Bureau of Justice Statistics, anywhere between 38-46% of rape allegations per year since 2004 to 2018 are provably false -not 'he said/she said' where fault can't be proven, or where there's no evidence either way, but actual, provably false allegations. Meaning any given year, almost a third to hal…
/r/MensRights03/10/20 06:18 PM
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An important thing to note? Men aren't even half the population -on average, they're between 47-49% of the population at any given time. I bring this up because I laugh at how women claim to be a minority when making up more than half the population.
/r/MensRights03/10/20 06:05 PM
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Lemme tell you what will happen here. "Poor woman! Husband was off fishing, while she was left to take care of her severely disabled child! Poor thing, if she'd just had some help, this never would've happened! This is why women need more social programs! If mom had just had some sort of outlet to destress, this whole thing could've been avoided! We've failed as a society, and this little girl's death is our fault; if we'd helped mom out more, none of this would've happened!" Now, lemme tell you…
/r/MensRights27/09/20 11:57 PM
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ShoeOnHead on Youtube did an entire video on this; how with male teachers, it's always rape, molestation, assault, etc., and rightly so. However, when it's a female teacher, it's always 'sex'. And they very rarely serve jail time for it, with some not even losing their license to teach. But hey... That's what 'equality' is, right? Men always bad and wrong, women always good and right? Insert massive eye roll.
/r/MensRights27/09/20 11:48 PM
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