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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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27	Finding validation in positive masculinity as a young transguy Hey! Trans guy here, and a few years into my transition. I'm glad you get to have a space where you get to be yourself and enjoy that feeling of being seen. I remember when I started transitioning socially, how even just peoples perception of me changed my day. Idk what your plans are for the future, but I had to leave my home (famously trans UNfriendly) in order to have a chance at living comfortably. It might happen to you too. And once you are safe enough to start T, my man, there is nothing …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/11/22 05:52 PM
8	The "Shame" Narrative Regarding Male Victims I do, it's why i offered an explanation as to why I use it, because my brain is still wired that way and, maybe unfortunately, I still do view it that way. At the end of the day, though, there isn't anything discussed here that I truly disagree with.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/09/22 09:41 PM
10	The "Shame" Narrative Regarding Male Victims Toxic masculinity (when the word is used properly and not weaponized), does describe the real experiences of many men. And I do believe that masculine shame is a factor for plenty of guys in seeking help. My point is definitely not that these things aren't real. Just that they're not the overwhelming force they're made out to be. I agree. That said, I come from Venezuela, I'm latino, and latino men are very very very ashamed of this stuff, so that is my cultural understanding of the situation. S…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/09/22 09:40 PM
1	The "Shame" Narrative Regarding Male Victims Of course! The reason I call it patriarchy, though, is because I have a feminist background, which is a bit hard to not have one when you live as a woman. So in my head, 'patriarchy' is what set the tone for gender roles. I hope that makes sense. However I do agree with you 100%, it all boils down to what roles we are expected to play, by pretending they're one-size-fits-all for every single individual.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/09/22 06:44 PM
17	The "Shame" Narrative Regarding Male Victims I think you're right. I'm a transgender man myself, and while I've lived as a woman before and am aware of everything that comes with that, I've found that I still have a lot of the same problems/roadblocks I had before except this time everyone was expecting me to find a way over them/deal with them on my own. Shame about reporting abuse is part of it. I remember when Terry Crews spoke up about being in an abusive relationship with a former partner of his (can't recall if wife or girlfriend), t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/09/22 05:18 PM

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