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Mortimer_Snerd/r/ExRedPill11/05/16 01:44 PM
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I'm not going to convince anyone that doesn't want to be convinced.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/18 12:03 PM
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I don't think that is the case, but I won't be participating in the discussion anymore.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/18 01:42 PM
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soooo....You're too emotionally immature to have this discussion.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/18 09:13 PM
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Go watch the funeral of Ronald Reagan. At the very end, Nancy Reagan who had already benefitted from raising children and was left with enormous wealth that would outlive her years is left to say goodbye to her husband's casket. In that moment you can see the grief wash over her and I dare you to say that she did not love him dearly after you see it. Mind you, this will require you to empathize with a woman to understand. If you cannot do that, you are simply too emotionally immature to have thi…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/18 03:04 AM
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Its the first book in "Married Red Pill's" sidebar. It had the effect on me of running counter to what that sub was saying. It encourages the reader to communicate boundaries and not set unspoken expectations. If your husband is anything like I was, he is dealing with feeling inadequate and if he feels as though you emasculate him or give the sense that you don't value everything he does for the sake of the home, resentment builds. Red pillers use this to confirm their biases. Keep doing the cou…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/18 11:18 PM
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That's great, man. Just understand that you are going to have to trust her as much as she is going to have to trust you. When you are ready to do that with someone, you're ready to find her. Be someone she can trust.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/17 12:52 PM
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Were you on MRP? I was briefly a mrper and from my experience, they would tell you to stop obsessing over that, get back in the saddle with a plate, and never let another woman have that much emotional control over you. I would tell you that you sound like you are in no condition to be in a relationship right now. Your trust was violated and you are hurt by it. I think you need to get that shit out and realize that she hurt you and she is the one to blame here. No other woman deserves to be puni…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/17 12:31 PM
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You are still frustrated with women because you make covert contracts with them. That term should be familiar to you if you read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" which is required reading in Married Red Pill. What it means is when you meet a woman, you instantly have an expectation of sex because by introducing yourself and making yourself available, you expect her to be receptive to your advance and ultimately screw you. "If I flirt and am nice, she will have sex with me." When she doesn't, for whatever …
/r/ExRedPill02/12/16 06:41 PM
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The anger phase is a strawman. First, you are pitched what men generally love about women. Feminine, maternal, generous, kind. It evokes the image of Mom and the girl next door. Then you are told it is all a setup. That women are biologically wired to trick you into giving your money, time, and, DNA. That they are out to use you until you are left with nothing and then move on to the next guy. To back that up, they cite promiscuity in HS and college and the fact that hot chicks go for hot guys, …
/r/ExRedPill29/09/16 12:36 PM
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The closest to reality you can get is "All people are like that" and that is STILL off the mark. About the closest I can get to the bullseye here is that "All people have the capability to be like that" Redpillers do not have a monopoly on getting burned by a lover. It happens. It sucks. It is part of the inherent risk of getting into relationships and that is just how it is. They'll never tell you this, but being the heartbreaker doesn't hurt any less than being heartbroken. And I don't care ho…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/16 12:49 PM
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I'll take a crack at it: Anytime there is a significant change in someone's personality, it is going to put strain on the relationship. What is lost is what created the attraction in the first place. Red pill theory puts additional strain on the relationship with emotional withdrawal on the part of the male while demanding more sex in return. The relationship becomes one sided. You have to reject AWALT to begin to address this question. Different women are attracted to different people for diffe…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/16 12:50 PM
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Nah, It would be beta bucks if he was doing the chores, rubbing HER feet, and giving her money in exchange for the occasional blowjob. What this guy had was a housekeeper he could fuck for $20 a week.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/16 03:03 PM
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Yup. That's actually how I stumbled into TRP to begin with. I was reading different sites about living abroad in Thailand as an expat and stumbled on a field report. The Terper writing it told a story about how he was living over there as a programmer and picked up a Thai girl in a bar who basically blew him, cleaned his apartment, massaged his feet and cooked for him in exchange for shopping money for the next six months.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/16 12:54 PM
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Lift. I'm kidding, but I'm not kidding. Mental health is a sumbitch, but I do wholeheartedly believe that exercise is the best antidepressant. I would also say to keep up the therapy and find your self worth. It sounds to me like you have a lot of love to give, but the cap on that bottle is an inability to love yourself. Find some peace first and then maybe love will be easier for you to find. Good luck.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/16 12:58 PM
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Do not presume to know my marriage better than I do.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/16 12:32 PM
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I didn't really have a huge issue with MMSLP aside from dread gaming. The deliberate effort to "keep her on her toes". That's not a healthy practice IMO.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/16 12:31 PM
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I think Maslow was correct to separate the primal, sexual urge from love and intimacy. Just as sex is only one component of the physiological, a romantic relationship is but one component of the love. Love of family, children, and lasting friendships being the other. RP seems to want to dilute the romantic relationship by overemphasizing the physiological. I suppose its to compensate from a fear of getting wounded by the relationship ending. The fact is love hurts sometimes and hearts get broken…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/16 02:02 PM
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I figured that Self-actualization was impossible without a loving LTR or marriage. It's the key part of the "esteem" rung whereas sex is part of the physiological needs at the base. The more I reflected on it with Maslow, the less sense it made.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/16 01:44 AM
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Did any of you guys stick with the self-development ideas you found with TRP? The "fix you" stuff? I still want to push for self actualization and would be interested to read more on the topic without a TRP spin on it.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/16 01:39 AM
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Get them into something "Awesome". Let them be "Awesome". These boys are going to get their self confidence stomped on for the next decade plus. You gotta build that back up. Fist bumps and high fives for doing awesome stuff. That's right. You give them validation. children crave it until their confidence is built up enough to do stuff for their own enjoyment. So it really doesn't matter what you do so long as it gives them a chance to exert themselves and "be awesome" combat rolls on a mat. mak…
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