| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 38 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control. | Debate | Morwening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 03:52 PM |
| 31 | Everyone would be much happier if they treated bad opinions about sex and relationships the same way they treat bad opinions about most other topics. | CMV | Morwening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 11:46 AM |
| 1 | It's not up to women to apologise for a man's lack of dignity | Morwening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 03:13 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Disregarding appearance, modern dating dynamics naturally select for emotionally unavailable menThat makes no sense, if he fucks and runs and she wants more than that, then by definition she's been rejected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Disregarding appearance, modern dating dynamics naturally select for emotionally unavailable menAnd no him fucking you and running ain't rejection it's called you got played Lol yeah I suppose if you discount one form of rejection for no reason whatsoever it does make your dogshit point a little better true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 11:47 AM |
| – | Women don't seem to like menThe point he made is "women don't show that they are attracted to average men" which makes 0 sense when you think about it for a second because most women are with average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:26 AM |
| – | Women don't seem to like menDude the vast vast vast majority of women are happily dating men with unattractive features. Perhaps they talk about their preferences publicly slightly differently to how men do but that doesn't mean they don't appreciate them (although even so there are times when it seeps through, a few years out of date now but do you remember when "dad bod" was still a thing?) What's your research from anyway? Long conversations with large, diverse groups of women who have gained your trust and are happy ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 10:18 AM |
| – | If girls liked or wanted sex as much as guys, most guys wouldn’t struggle to get laidEver had a girlfriend, pal? Ive never been in a happy, loving relationship where the woman wasnt interested in sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:43 PM |
| – | "Enjoy the decline" is a perfectly viable strategy"I have a job and am getting married, therefore nothing bad will ever happen to me again". Ok mate. This person is clearly LARPing. Look at the post history. Exclusively posting on PPD breathlessly defending men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 09:52 AM |
| 32 | It’s become socially acceptable in America for women to lie about sexual abuseNo. Vince McMahon has been credibly accused of rape and sexual assault multiple times over the last 40 years so he's probably not due 'the benefit of the doubt'. Epstein was a wealthy, incredibly well connected international banker who ran a sex trafficking operation. His connections ran deep across the elite classes in multiple nations linking him to some of the most rich and powerful men in the world. The only person in prison for that at the moment is Maxwell. Saying the major issue is "false… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 08:11 AM |
| 45 | It’s become socially acceptable in America for women to lie about sexual abuseSpend 2 seconds reading the controversies section on Vince McMahon's wiki, then go to Jeffery Epstein's wiki, and then come and tell me with a straight face we're too harsh on rich and powerful men accused of sexual impropriety and women are believed too easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 07:15 AM |
| – | Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy.The thing is, it would be breathtakingly immoral to legislate that a man can force a woman to abort. It's also immoral to dictate that a woman has to take a pregnancy to birth. These are issues of bodily autonomy for adult people in a free country. Once the baby is born, they deserve to be supported and cared for. The responsibility for that falls on both parents, as is right. This is an issue of obligation and responsibility. I'm all for socialising the costs of raising and caring for kids more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 02:17 PM |
| – | Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy.The choice was always there, but the obligations and responsibilities don't go away just because you choose not to honour them. If a woman leaves a man with a family she is also obligated to pay spousal support so I don't see the hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 01:52 PM |
| – | Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy.It's not 'communist' to suggest a society owes something to their children. It's not anti-choice to make men be responsible for their actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 01:33 PM |
| 4 | If modern dating just a cycle of: infatuation, get bored, cheat/leave?Are you sure you would be able to impose the same restrictions on yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 04:50 PM |
| 22 | Why don't alpha women date beta simps?I mean, she explained why she's looking for what she's looking for in the clip. Is this even a woman most people would really want to date? I mean, she's single at 38... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 12:21 PM |
| 4 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.Now THAT'S projection 😜 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:10 PM |
| 6 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.No. Getting fucked by a bunch of different dudes does not make you less likely to put up with bullshit. It just means chances are you're gonna wanna get fucked by more. A woman who's only had a a couple of good partners can walk away from a shit deal just as easily as the town bicycle. The other qualities, that don't require fucking, make it easier though. But they don't require fucking, nor does the red pill claim they are bad traits. Confident women are constantly being shit on in red pill med… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:03 PM |
| 8 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.That's what I'm doing, I'm debating the worth of red pill ideas (I think a lot of them are worthless, and the ones that have value have been shared for decades prior to red pill existing). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:42 PM |
| 4 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.The tradwife you refer to is known as a unicorn in TRP terms actually, because "they don't exist." So the first paragraph is bs. Of course it doesn't exist, but that doesn't stop RP dudes from unflatteringly comparing modern women to it. I never claimed it exists? I referred to it as an archetype. A woman can learn to "be confident, know herself and know her worth" without getting fucked by 67 unique dicks. There are also no qualms about "dating" experience. You meant fucking experience but didn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:40 PM |
| 8 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.Starting to think you don't know what projection means to be honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:24 PM |
| 9 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.Lol this sub is packed to the rim with self proclaimed "Red Pill Men" whining, seething and coping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:21 PM |
| 9 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.Wanna expand on that? RP men are constantly complaining about double standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:13 PM |
| 11 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.Sure. I understand it to be dating advice aimed primarily at men ostensibly about understanding the objective truth of the dating world and how a man can successfully operate in it, but frequently seems more concerned with the perceived shortcomings exhibited by modern women and how greater sexual freedom for women has materially impacted mens dating options for the worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | To 35+F, what do you think of men 35+M who went on strike against you?I understand that if you're in your 30s and actively having sex you've achieved the thing you previously missed out on. Sex in your 30s isn't drastically different than your 20s, except that it tends to be much better! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 03:57 PM |
| 21 | Why men will judge your personality and character based on how you dress and act and why it makes complete rational sense to do so when choosing a 'wifey material' woman.It's really unclear what PoV you're arguing with. Are there really many women who say "don't judge me by my actions?" Because that's patently ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 02:45 PM |
| 17 | To 35+F, what do you think of men 35+M who went on strike against you?How you going to be in your 30s and still raging about not getting laid enough a decade ago. Get a grip! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 02:37 PM |
| 2 | "Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner datesWhen you said "buying drinks" I envisaged it as "Two strangers meet in a bar on a weekend, man offers to buy the woman a drink, she graciously accepts and they spend the next few hours chatting". That's entirely different than pretending to like someone for a free meal. The woman is offering her company, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 01:53 PM |
| 2 | "Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner datesThat's not pretending to like someone so they'd buy you a meal though, is it? Oh please, women will let men buy them drinks all night with no intentions of even knowing their name. Also, the framing of this is interesting. Painted as if the woman has done something wrong. It's perfectly possible she enjoys the company of someone, the flirting and the free drinks but still has no intention of sleeping with them. What's wrong with that? Have you never had a good night out with someone, even someon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Being Social does NOT Help Lonely Men in Dating (CMV)I think when people give the social groups advice they are actually saying "get out of your comfort zone more". Which is good advice because you can't do any of the things you say you need to do without getting out of your comfort zone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 01:32 PM |
| 0 | "Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner datesOh damn someone said something on the internet that's outrageous enough to get lots of attention and spark debate whilst making themselves out to be desirable. There's no way that could be fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 01:27 PM |
| 14 | New study shows that 5% of men sleep with 66% of young women. Will society destabilize from most men being neglected?...that's just proof that the word 'situationship' is a word that's recently entered the discourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:42 AM |
| 6 | Women are not entitled to a relationship just because a Man promises one consent can be revoked at any timeI think your woman example comes straight from rage-bait posts and bears little resemblance to real life. If a woman left a loving, committed relationship just because she started to earn more than her partner she 100% would be called shallow and entitled. People would not be praising her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 02:14 AM |
| 4 | Everyone would be much happier if they treated bad opinions about sex and relationships the same way they treat bad opinions about most other topics.I mean, yeah. To an extent, you have to figure it out. There's no bible to this shit, you'll get bombarded with opinions and advice from all sorts of sources. At a certain point you have to rely on your own judgement to figure out what's appropriate, worth listening to and generally reasonable. You'll fuck up and fail a bunch, but the thing is, those confident men you mentioned earlier fuck up and fail all the time too. As long as you treat women decently, like people, nothing worse than an awkw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 02:50 PM |
| 4 | Everyone would be much happier if they treated bad opinions about sex and relationships the same way they treat bad opinions about most other topics.You've essentially said "other people ignore the nonsense online and are successful, I, on the other hand, must take it to heart even though I think it's wrong and I don't respect the people saying it". Which perfectly illustrates my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 02:13 PM |
| 5 | If your life is not somewhat in order as a man then you should NOT be dating or attempting toMate, I've been reading bullshit on the internet for close to 20 years now, i might not know the band but I recognise the genre. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 10:05 AM |
| 6 | If your life is not somewhat in order as a man then you should NOT be dating or attempting toSo many of the posts here sound like they come from the perspective of somebody who has learnt everything they know about relationships from social media. For Christ sales go outside, make some friends with women, talk to them about their actual experiences. I promise you you'll be shocked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 09:30 AM |
| 7 | Do you think men are privileged compared to women?"Privilege" in that sense is a term that shouldn't have ever been allowed to escape academia. It has its uses, but when being utilised in conversation to describe real people's day-to-day experience it's kind of counter productive. Life is hard, it's hard for almost everyone, and difficult in many different ways. Describing individual people as being "privileged" only really serves to get people's backs up. It's one of those concepts that if you describe it, pretty much everyone agrees, but as s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 03:46 PM |
| 2 | How are short man supposed to date?Well, if he's trying to attract women surely he should be concerned with women's interests? I can't really see how that advice is bullshit, it's basically the only thing you can do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever met a man that you felt was "too nice"?The ability to disagree with someone. Expressing an opinion that may be unpopular. Standing up for yourself in the face of opposition if you honestly feel like you're right. Occasionally acting selfishly, or rashly, or hypocritically. Sometimes exhibiting bad habits or bad judgement. If you get to know someone well and they never do any of the above it can feel a bit off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you're going raw with women you barely know, I ain't got much sympathy for you, champ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCondoms aren't that expensive, pal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:32 PM |
| 12 | Have you ever met a man that you felt was "too nice"?Ive certainly met people who are kind of cloying and desperate to be liked, it can be a bit disconcerting. Like, I'm all for being polite and friendly when you first meet someone but after a certain point you gotta show some humanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:21 PM |
| 1 | this is still the most alpha fux, beta bux proff i have ever seen on redditBloody hell, I think you need to settle down a bit there champ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:18 PM |
| 1 | this is still the most alpha fux, beta bux proff i have ever seen on redditWhy do all of these comments assume he has no choice in this? He chose to wait around, he chose to marry her after this time, why are you assuming he's been somehow short changed? Also, she's 30, she's not at "her worst". That's ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:02 PM |
| -5 | this is still the most alpha fux, beta bux proff i have ever seen on redditYou're projecting massively, you have no idea what their relationship was like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 10:33 AM |
| 5 | If age gap relationships are frowned upon due to an experience gap, then can’t the same be said if a higher n count woman dates a man with a lower n count?Aspects of age-gap discourse online have annoyed me for a while, mainly the way it is inherently about judging other people's relationships from the outside and using sweeping generalisation to unfairly paint one party as an abuser whilst simultaneously treating the other party like a dullard with no agency who's incapable of making their own rational decisions. Like most internet social justice clichés it started from a sensible point, acknowledging that there can be imbalances of power between… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:11 PM |
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