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DiscussionMoscow_Gordon/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:04 PM
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I think to some extent this is a specifically American thing. There's an obsession in the US with status. People with autistic traits are hated because they aren't good at status games. Nice Paul Graham essay on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:48 AM
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Hope this is parody. Worrying whether you like women "enough" just means you're neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:56 PM
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They could be doing the same, so it's a smart move. Most people seem to think you are not really dating until you have had a discussion to confirm it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:58 AM
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kindness, intelligence, household skills yeah these are good ones. Isn't kindness the same as being not horrible though? sexual submissiveness, femininity Meh. Feel like this is projection. I don't think tomboys have that much trouble (if they are attractive). long hair, an hourglass shape, a good dress sense Sure, those things can help with looking good, which matters a lot. But I don't think any of them matter much on their own. popularity That's an interesting one. I can see it mattering, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:29 PM
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Great answer. If you filter out all the men who are a little anxious you are left with mostly assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:10 PM
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Make a dating app profile. Try Hinge. Match with guys who are around your looksmatch and seem like they might want a relationship. Try to figure out if they're looking for a relationship on the first date. You will likely have no problem getting matches/dates. If you are overweight losing weight will make a big difference. Dating apps are brutal for most men, but I think they probably work well for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:18 PM
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All that mattered was " He seems fun" Exactly. A lot of times jerks seem confident, charismatic, dominant, etc. Women are attracted to those traits - simple as that. Not wanting to feel judged or whatever doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:24 AM
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That's interesting. I'd actually say the majority of tech workers have chill jobs. Especially today, when everyone is working from home. People working at Amazon etc are the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:22 PM
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Deprioritize looks and game a bit. There are tons of successful men who are average looking and/or a bit awkward and seriously struggle with women. If you want hot + confident + educated/rich, that's going to be way harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:15 PM
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Fellow quiet/anxious guy here. Unfortunately, yes it's a major issue. If you're feeling anxious/uncomfortable masking it ("fake it till you make it") will seriously improve your game. I'd go so far as to say that game is synonymous with acting confident. It's shitty, but that's how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:18 PM
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I know plenty of fat/ jobless / friendless guys who get girls or get laid without much efforts If this was really true, it should be motivating for you. You are a higher value man, and should be able to do at least as well. But honestly, I don't believe it. Cases where the guy just got really lucky are rare. You are either underestimating them (they have incredible charisma) or more likely overestimating their success (they are with unattractive women or just lying to you).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:56 PM
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Interesting. Feel like mainstream media would never run something like this today.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:54 PM
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Lots of good suggestions here. I feel like serial monogamy isn't normalized enough for dating. People are OK with casual, which is great for players. Not so good for providers. And at the same time marriage is this sacred thing that's supposed to last forever like you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:19 PM
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Nope, wish this was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:24 AM
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Purple person response: Women shit test men to see if they stand for themselves, they ask questions they subconsciously want you to dismiss rather than answer, and they react positively to playful condescendence Men shit test other men too. Standing up for yourself is important and some teasing is healthy, but no need to tolerate annoying people. Women like dominant men, men that know what they want, dont bend over for others, make physical contact and are rough im bed Mostly true. Men have to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:18 AM
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I thought that beyond some minimal standard (not being fat, showering, etc) it didn't matter that much and obsessing over looks was vain. I vaguely thought women did not care about looks as much as men did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:53 PM
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Good answer. Fake it till you make it is a cliche for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:37 PM
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Making more money as a man makes you more attractive, especially for relationships. This is a major motivator for men to make more money in a way that it isn't for women and therefore a driver of the "wage gap." Paying for dates is just a symptom of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:59 PM
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Yep, to an extent. He swiped left on half of the profiles he saw and didn't message 2/3 of his matches. So he is picky too. But there is no doubt that a woman of similar attractiveness to this guy would have an extremely high match rate and would have no problem getting dates from the apps. The difference is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:19 PM
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Agree. Unless you are extremely attractive, it is necessary to have something that makes you stand out in your profile. Trying to appeal to everybody is counter productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:09 PM
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Interesting take.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:42 AM
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Source? That's higher than I would have thought. Still, the sexual revolution was a real thing right? Or do you think nothing really changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:07 PM
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Could be. Before the industrial era is kind of outside the scope of what I'm interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:44 PM
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Yeah, I think it is probably pretty common. And people should do whatever works for them. But I only want to date one person at a time, and I'd be pretty disappointed if a woman I was dating was seeing other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:33 PM
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Well like I said in the post, some people still had sex before marriage, but it wasn't the norm. I'll take a head pat though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:28 PM
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Yep, that's what I said in the post... both hook up culture and serial monogamy are widespread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:18 PM
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I figure, my financial and education/career success should make up for the deficit of being overweight to where it kinda balances out. Sure. So then you're an average guy. An average girl will be the best you can do, and even then you are competing with all the other average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:26 PM
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Thats ridiculous. Men without game are passive. You think that's a turn on for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:32 PM
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You're getting a lot of disagreement, but there is obviously some truth to this. For fitness in particular, men are motivated to do it to become more attractive and it is also good in itself. Being financially successful and "interesting" matters for relationships. I'd say men are at least somewhat motivated in these areas to be more attractive to women. But by far the most important factor besides physical attractiveness, not mentioned in your post, is "game." The willingness to put oneself out…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:02 PM
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Think this is the right answer. It's about status. Men don't care what women's hobbies are because they don't care as much about status.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:27 PM
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Dating apps are brutal. You can probably afford to be more selective though. There's no point in going on dates with girls you aren't attracted to, especially if you're able to get dates somewhat regularly. That's not fun for either party.
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