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| 1 | How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't?I'm of the opinion that you can date and sleep with anyone you want to until you've had the "we are exclusive" conversation. That's just called dating. Until you're actually boyfriend/girlfriend you're just dating around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 06:59 PM |
| 0 | Do most people get married just to get married?It seems Iike that should be totally illegal. What other job gives you more money for being married? That's disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”I did this to a woman once. I was not at all feeling it, so I ended it and left. Aparently is incredibly rude if a guy does it, but not a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 06:54 PM |
| 1 | What is your solution to the issues in dating?Nothing will change unless social media stops existing or we wait long enough for the nano (and now pico) plastics in our blood essentially destroy male embryos (the fact that no one is taking this seriously is staggering) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 06:52 PM |
| 0 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerThen you are in the extreme exception | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 06:51 PM |
| 3 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?Wow, that's nuts about the sugar market exploding. But it makes a lot of sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 08:58 PM |
| 2 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?You got plastic surgery on your face? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 08:52 PM |
| 4 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?It's pretty scary how quickly we seem to be absolutely sprinting toward a Japan and Korea situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 08:47 PM |
| 2 | The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that?Being bisexual is by far the best position to be in. If I were bisexual I probably wouldn't even bother with women romantically at all. And actually I have a statistically unlikely amount of gay freinds. And all of them, through private conversations, have also confirmed to me that with the way women are now they are thankful to be gay (and live in a very liberal area). I don't know man, if you have it on easy mode with one gender why even bother with the other? The same could be said for bisexu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable AnymoreI used to cold approach women all the time. You don't need to be in a club or social setting. Anywhere works, even something like the grocery store. So what if they don't like it. Just don't be creepy, and back off immediately if they tell you too or straight up ignore you. Yeah, most women don't like it any more. But so what. Most men don't like having absolutely no matches or prospects online. As long as you aren't a creep or refuse to disengage you aren't doing anything wrong. Besides, I'd ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 08:21 PM |
| 3 | There's a very simple solution to women's AF/BB hypocrisy for BB men. Don't Marry.Unless you're the cream of the crop, this is pretty unrealistic. However, my general advice to everyone is that if you do (have to) marry, make sure you both sign a prenuptial agreement AND a postnuptial agreement. Ensure the prenup has a clause in it stating the postnup must be signed within 10 days after marriage or the marriage is annulled (not divorced). The postnup is SUPER important for issues like retirement accounts that cannot be covered under certain conditions where a prenup is invali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 08:13 PM |
| 0 | Are women (maybe men as well?) more open sexually with a partner they are attracted to physically?Yes. Obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Talking about the 80/20 database and the comparison of dating in the past and now, wouldn't it translate to that most of our mothers resented our dads?Well, I know my mom sure as hell resented my Dad (I don't blame her, he's an awful person) and got divorced. She also resented my step dad and divorced him too (a very decent man who she used as a simp to support herself and her two children- she did what she had to do but it definitely wasn't right at all, now that I'm ten years older than her during her first and second marriages, I see things in a different light for sure). So yeah, I would guess most married women in the past definitely rese… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel burdened by the protector/provider gender role and the social expectation to embody it?I might choose to provide for my partner and make her feel special, but the question about societies expectations for men. Society expects me to provide. And MANY women want to be equal AND special. I might choose to provide my partner special treatment, but I'm no longer operating under the mindset that it's my duty as a man in our society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 03:10 AM |
| 8 | Do you feel burdened by the protector/provider gender role and the social expectation to embody it?The provider role is hard wired into me, but by sheer force of will I've managed to get over it. In my eyes women don't get to be special and equal. If they want to be equal, they can provide for themselves. Just my take on it. It's worked well for me so far and managed to weed out a lot of toxic women from my life. Once I managed to overcome my instincts I have gotten treated much better by women too. Very strange, but that's the reality we live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 07:05 PM |
| 1 | If your man watches porn because he has limited to no access to sex with you, there is a 0% chance that you can pity yourself for the situation you got into.Well in that case yeah that would be a true addiction to pornography. But that is a lot rarer than you might think. I'm significantly older than most reddit users and have known TONS of dead bedroom couples and marriages. It's usually the woman not providing sex, so the man starts to ignore her (or vice versa, but in my experience it's usually women not providing enough sex that begins the cycle because she doesn't understand, or doesn't want to understand, just how important it is) and it becom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Are relationships business transactions?I didn't claim it was a monolith. I just said it attracts a lot of radical and toxic individuals. Likewise Red Pill philosophy itself at its core is actually very helpful for men whose thinking is designed to break things down into workable achievable components, but it also attracts extremely toxic radicals too. Sadly, in any group, it's the loudest and most obnoxiously toxic people that paint the picture for the whole group from an outside perspective. At the end of the day, humans are humans … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Are relationships business transactions?FDS in and of itself isn't so bad really. But I think even you would have to admit that it tends to attract the most extremes in terms of radical ideas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Are relationships business transactions?When you play Mario Kart do you usually pick Toad? BA DUM CHING! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Are relationships business transactions?I wouldn't exactly agree with that. Some of the best people I know are overweight and the most shallow, entitled, and egotistical people I know are quite fit. I don't agree that body size equates to a reflection of the mind. But certainly a reflection of lifestyle. I don't subscribe to the notion that your mental stability and processes equate to your lifestyle. But I agree that this is the widely held view. But, also, who gives a crap about what I think. Lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | If your man watches porn because he has limited to no access to sex with you, there is a 0% chance that you can pity yourself for the situation you got into.I think you're oversimplifying the issue. This analogy disregards an entire aspect of sex that the adult entertainment industry simply cannot provide. That being the intense emotional connection that sex provides both men and women. Porn addiction is very real, but not nearly as widespread as people tend to think. People in long term relationships are getting something very different from sex than casual daters can provide. Despite the common rhetoric, this is very true for men as well. It's ext… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Are relationships business transactions?Not to mention they highly moderate and boot off pretty much any male who doesn't worship their philosophy. And even a few males who do. It's just a highly toxic community and their followers are just making themselves more and more miserable and locking themselves voluntarily out of a heterosexual relationship. And I guess that's fine. People can do whatever they want as long as they are only hurting themselves and no one else. But it certainly isn't going to help their mental health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Are relationships business transactions?I'm not disagreeing with you. I'm just saying I think this might be more of a regional/country issue as opposed to a male/female issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 03:03 PM |
| 4 | Are relationships business transactions?Most women in the USA are pretty fat too men on average are a little fatter, but this seems to mostly be an American issue as far as I can tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Are relationships business transactions?That's pretty funny, and I like the metaphor. But I don't think it is correct. But I still appreciated it. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 02:57 PM |
| 4 | Are relationships business transactions?This is true. The guy the FDS women want do NOT want them. And they will get other women who won't bring such baggage. Who would they want an FDS woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Are relationships business transactions?I don't view relationships that way, but I sure as hell view marriage that way. But that isn't the fault of women, it's the fault of a government that still embraces antiquated laws which overwhelmingly favor women in divorce and family courts and brutally punishes men for divorce, when most women are the ones that pursue divorce. Again, I'm not blaming women for this situation. Although radical feminists contribute greatly to the problem, but radical feminists suck, just like most radicalized p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Hello RPs and other men (perhaps) alike, why do tattoos bother or not bother you? Does it make you see the woman as less or undesirable?I'm not a red piller, but I don't like tattoos in general. I wouldn't turn a woman away for them (unless the were obnoxious and covered huge portions of her body) but I'd never prefer them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls brag about having simps?For the same reason men brag about how many girls they have slept with (although I find that rarely happens anymore, but I think it's mostly due to my age group, as well as the culture changing). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 10:07 PM |
| 3 | [Q4Women]How often do you think the average guy gets hints/hit on?I wish women were a little less subtle with their hints. The average man is not usually subtle about anything and don't tune into it. We just aren't wired or conditioned that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 10:05 PM |
| 1 | [Q4Women]How often do you think the average guy gets hints/hit on?Thanks. When I googled IOI all I got was results about some girl band. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 10:02 PM |
| 5 | [Q4Women]How often do you think the average guy gets hints/hit on?True. But once every 30 years is enough to practically be never in my book. Lol. But you are technically correct. It is not never as that word is defined. But it's so rare that it's essentially the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | [Q4Women]How often do you think the average guy gets hints/hit on?Sorry. But what's an IOI? I genuinely don't know! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 09:56 PM |
| 10 | [Q4Women]How often do you think the average guy gets hints/hit on?I think you are incorrect. An average man might get hit on by a woman (who isn't intoxicated) possibly 3 times in his life, on average. Usually less. Do I have statistics to back this up? No. I only have anecdotal evidence. But I'm older than most reddit users. And I've known a lot of different guys and been freinds with guys across the attractiveness spectrum. And I can all but confirm that for average men it is so rare that it is almost non existent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Financial stability is about to become the biggest obstacle in an already chaotic dating market, particularly for young adults.You also forgot that we are automating ourselves into poverty for the 99% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls brag about having simps?Haha, I've felt the same way for a few years now. Maybe one day when I retire I'll get to live on an island. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 09:38 PM |
| 5 | Why do girls brag about having simps?Interesting point 🤔 I had not considered that. I think you might have hit the nail on the head there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Men of Reddit - Have you ever met an FDS-oriented woman irl? Women of Reddit - Have you ever met a redpilled man irl? How did the interactions go for you all?I agree. It doesn't seem possible to have a healthy adult relationship between a man and a woman if this is how the woman feels. It seems so sad and strange to want to love a man but to feel violence against you for the same reason. It must be very difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 09:35 PM |
| 13 | Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring?You're getting a lot of flak here, but I think your list is actually pretty reasonable for a long term life partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 01:06 PM |
| 5 | Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring?They don't seem all that unreasonable to me, actually. I agree that a lot of women have incredibly and increasingly unrealistic standards, but the list she laid out wasn't too bad. Maybe a bit idealistic in some ways (for example, my relationship works so well I think because we actually DON'T have many common interests and we get a lot of time to find joy in them ourselves without bringing the other down, but I know this is a rarity). But I think her list was pretty down to earth and reasonable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring?Wait for real? I didn't know smells alone could cause reactions. Man, that's gotta be rough. Sorry to hear that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Men of Reddit - Have you ever met an FDS-oriented woman irl? Women of Reddit - Have you ever met a redpilled man irl? How did the interactions go for you all?Lol. I try to talk to her as little as possible so I'll have to pass. I mean, I'm friendly and pleasant enough with her, but I don't really talk to her, if that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Men of Reddit - Have you ever met an FDS-oriented woman irl? Women of Reddit - Have you ever met a redpilled man irl? How did the interactions go for you all?Agreed, but I still think it must be very tough to loathe half the human population and assume they are all violent savages and out to get you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!Yes, and a big part of why that is is because lower income communities tend to have multigenerational homes where the grandparents or relatives can watch the children land communities that are much more open to watching the kids while parents work. This is not always the case, but it is definitely a part of it. A lot of it is tied to education and lifestyle options that come with increased education and income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!It will always be Burma to me. Now approve the purchase of this rat hat! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Men of Reddit - Have you ever met an FDS-oriented woman irl? Women of Reddit - Have you ever met a redpilled man irl? How did the interactions go for you all?I wouldn't consider her a friend, just a person whose dog is BFFs with my own. Sounds like a tough mindset to have actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 07:29 PM |
| 1 | The real reason some women are against porn, prostitution and pick mes has nothing to do with protecting their fellow women. It has to do with monopolising sexual pleasureI suppose. But she doesn't feel strongly enough about it to have it be a problem in our relationship. Unless it's a ticking time bomb. But we've been together for more than 10 years so if it was going to occur it probably would have already. Wish me luck that it stays that way! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Men of Reddit - Have you ever met an FDS-oriented woman irl? Women of Reddit - Have you ever met a redpilled man irl? How did the interactions go for you all?I never met the guy, but I find myself increasingly taking his side in a situation I know absolutely nothing about. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!I'm not entirely sure I subscribe to all of that (some of it for sure though), but even if you're one hundred percent correct I suppose that is a good thing, right? Selfish people who wouldn't be good parents shouldn't have kids regardless, right? So overall net positive for the Earth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | The real reason some women are against porn, prostitution and pick mes has nothing to do with protecting their fellow women. It has to do with monopolising sexual pleasureI feel exceptionally grateful that my life partner doesnt feel this way. She doesn't like it of course, but as long as I keep it to myself, don't talk to her about it, and ensure I'm alone we don't have a problem with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!I'll have to look into that data on Hungary. I'm a little too busy to do it now but if you have a quick link I'll happily take a look. Otherwise I'll have to google it later tonight after work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!You know what, I've never been asked that before. It's an excellent question. I think my mind is willing to change, as my views on these socioeconomic issues are always evolving. I've wrestled with the idea of having kids for a long time now, always flip flopping on the decision. So at the very least I'm open to the idea. I don't know what it would take to have me lower my lifestyle expectations to accommodate children. I suppose if I truly wanted them I would have them regardless. These issues … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!Well, it's fine that you feel that way. I'm not trying to change your mind. I was just explaining the reason amd the mindset of the majority of people who aren't having children. You're free to feel however you want about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!There are things people do to cut costs. Some go for nanny share services, etc. The point is that in the USA you're basically on your own. And yes, on average we make a lot more money than people in other countries but those extra funds go into healthcare, college payments, day care, etc. There is very little government assistance provided unless you're truly at the poverty levels, and even then it is minimal, and even then it depends on your state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!However you feel about is fine. I'm not saying you're wrong. I'm just explaining the rationale people use, including myself, as one the primary reasons to not have children. You're free to disagree as much as you like. I'm not even trying to change your mind. I'm just saying why it is happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!In America, anything that can be turned into a profitable business, will be done so to the most extreme way possible. It's why our healthcare system is a mess, why we have little to no social support systems, etc. I'm not trying to turn this into a debate on capitalism or anything. I'm just saying if a need exists (in this case the need for day care services) it will become a for profit business with no governmental assistance, at best very minimal assistance. And $2K per month for basic service… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 04:22 PM |
| 7 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!Well that may be true, but a lot of people still wouldn't be able to make it work. Or if they can make it work, it would make them live their lives at a comfort level they don't want to deal with. I personally don't have any children for this reason. Yes, I could probably swing it, but then we would effectively be living at the poverty line. I meant what I said when I'm glad it worked out for you. But most people in their late 20s through early 40s will tell you they cant afford children. If the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 04:19 PM |
| 8 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!Yes, and a big part of why that is is because lower income communities tend to have multigenerational homes where the grandparents or relatives can watch the children land communities that are much more open to watching the kids while parents work. This is not always the case, but it is definitely a part of it. A lot of it is tied to education and lifestyle options that come with increased education and income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 04:09 PM |
| 9 | Men of Reddit - Have you ever met an FDS-oriented woman irl? Women of Reddit - Have you ever met a redpilled man irl? How did the interactions go for you all?You know, she's an interesting case. She's actually a really nice and sweet person. She's just super annoying and extreme in her opinions. I get the sense she is a genuinely good person but was raised in an environment where she was told she was special because she was a woman and that men are trash. I have no way of proving this, but it's the impression I get from her. None of this is to justify her annoying tendencies or anything. But if I am right it does go to show how toxic rhetoric around … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 12:58 PM |
| 12 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!I'm glad it worked out for you, but many people can't support a partner and a child (or multiple children) on one income any more, especially in major cities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 12:55 PM |
| 2 | The distinction between the Nice Guy^TMs and genuinely nice guys is irrelevant if women don't value either of themYeah it's true. I pretty much feel the same way. But at the same time, you can still be nice to half the population without worry for the most part. That's what I do. I'm still pleasant to women though, but I wont volunteer to be nice to them. Just pleasant. But I wont volunteer to help them move that couch lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Q4all: Do men have a moral obligation to physically protect women in dangerous situations?ABSOLUTELY NOT. While I have personally done it because I believe in helping others, it should be no ones responsibility, especially legal responsibility, to protect someone in danger. Especially when if the shoe was on the other foot it wouldn't be returned, even if it could be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 01:27 AM |
| 57 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!Birth rates are down because the cost of living has absolutely sky rocketed in every way imaginable (especially in housing) and people just cant afford to have kids. At least in the USA where 2 people have to work to make ends meet with a family and the cost of day care is the cost of a mortgage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 01:25 AM |
| 20 | Men of Reddit - Have you ever met an FDS-oriented woman irl? Women of Reddit - Have you ever met a redpilled man irl? How did the interactions go for you all?I've met plenty of feminists who are obnoxious as all hell. In fact, there is one in my life right now who I met at the dog park. My dog and hers play so well, and both dogs are abused rescues that are very fearful of most other dogs and humans, so it's nice they play so well together which is the only reason I tolerate her. But everything and everything is the fault of the patriarchy, from the price of Miller Lite increasing to the fact that a man bought the last bunch of bananas from the groce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | What is a typical (consensual) sexual encounter?I've been with the same person so long that there really isn't a need to have such open discussions regarding consent between us. We have our groove, if you know what I mean. And we can pretty easily tell if the answer is yes or no by body language alone. Early on in our relationship there kind of was, but it stopped pretty quickly after the second or third time. It just wasn't necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 11:08 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?Lmao! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What will you teach your son regarding dating/treating women?Actually, this is an good answer. I would just add that it would also help to teach him that happiness can't be found in a woman, which is a mistake many young men make. Happiness can only be found in yourself, and then a good partner will increase it. If you actually had a son he'd turn out alright. 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 11:01 PM |
| 2 | The real problem: The internet took a sledgehammer to the dating hierarchy.I've been saying this for years. The internet fundamentally altered human interaction, especially dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 10:53 PM |
| 1 | How often do you think women of varying levels of attractiveness are approached by men?I don't think I agree with your ratios exactly but I get the sentiment. And yeah, it's a tough one. I've no solution other than to just forget about it. You can't change the world but you can change yourself and find happiness where you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | How often do you think women of varying levels of attractiveness are approached by men?It's 80% of a potential 100%. Lol, jk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 11:30 PM |
| 7 | How often do you think women of varying levels of attractiveness are approached by men?About 20% of the male population gets more than 80% of the sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 11:17 PM |
| 2 | How often do you think women of varying levels of attractiveness are approached by men?I don't agree. I think most men would like to approach women, but they are scared to do so because people today can't tell the difference between an assault and just asking a person out. It only takes one woman to accuse you of assault to destroy your entire life. I'm not single, but I know more than a dozen single guys, all of whom are borderline terrified to ask a woman out after a decade of being beaten over the head and shamed just for being a man. I mean, this is all anecdotal of course, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you hate being attracted to wo/men?Of course he would. You are continually twisting what I write over and over and not actually reading or taking in what I am actually typing. There is no further purpose in this discussion I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Do you have any sympathy for women who wish men would approach them in real life *more*?That's actually pretty kind of you assuming you let him down gently later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW/RP identify the problem with divorceI was just trying to answer your question. I wasn't trying to be a smart ass, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you hate being attracted to wo/men?I agree. That's the reality. But the question I answered said "matched with two women." There wasn't a condition written that one woman was a 10 and the other was a 5. And if you think most men ever have that choice you are not correct. So therefore, women have the hypergamy in the question that was asked. 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do people care about hypergamy so much?The problem with hypergamy isn't that it exists. It's that many (not all) contemporary women feel entitled to a man that is higher than them. Or, if they don't feel entitled to it, they still won't date men they feel are beneath them on the ladder (the ladder being money, status, attractiveness, etc. whatever is important to that individual woman). Look at it this way. It's absolutely fine for a woman to want to date the top 10% of men. Men want to date the top 10% of women too. The difference i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 07:19 PM |
| 1 | When will dating ever get better for men in the United States?For better or worse, it won't change any time soon. Any source of change will have to occur after Gen Z. I can't even begin to imagine how it will change, since things have changed so drastically in only my lifetime. Relationships are nothing like they were even 15 years ago. The only thing you can change is yourself. Focus on finding the happiness where you can and within yourself. This isn't the answer you want, but I think it is the truth. Find hobbies you really enjoy. Find comfort and solac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Men and women do not get each other's problemsThis is absolutely true and women just don't understand it. And how could they? It isn't their reality. When they open up Tindr the average woman has hundreds of matches and too many messages to keep up with. As a man you're lucky to get anything at all that isn't a bot unless you're in the top 20% of physical attractiveness. It's devastating to the psyche. While feeling inundated and overwhelmed is bad for the psyche for women, it's much worse to be totally ignored and invisible. But most women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 06:35 PM |
| 0 | Do you hate being attracted to wo/men?Matching with two people and choosing between them is a very different idea than purposefully and only seeking out dates from people of a higher social status than yourself. It's like saying choosing between two local reasonably priced handymen is the same thing and purposefully seeking out a major construction firm you cannot afford. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 06:23 PM |
| 2 | New HereI disagree that MGTOW is believing these things can't be achieved. Most MGTOWs believe that the juice isn't worth the squeeze, not that the juice cannot be obtained. I think the threshold of that will vary by person to person though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married?Don't get married. Just be equal life partners. If you want to, draft up the proper documents for your significant other (will, power of attorney, revocable trusts, etc), but don't actually get married. There is absolutely no benefit to it. Especially for men, as they are punished significantly harder is family and divorce courts with very little recourse. Not that women don't get screwed over too, but nine times out of ten it's the guy who gets burned the worst. It just isn't worth it any more.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW/RP identify the problem with divorceI've been cohabiting with a life partner for 15 years and we are quite happy together. We have all legal documents drafted up and no intent to get married. We are married in all ways except recognized by the government. And the best part is if either of us aren't happy we can leave and neither of us will be brutalized in the courts over it. Everyone wins. Everyone is happy. Marriage is completely outdated as a concept and has way too much risk associated with it for men. Society is shifting in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW/RP identify the problem with divorceBecause if you end the relationship neither party is decimated and everything is fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 05:47 PM |
| 2 | MGTOW/RP identify the problem with divorceNo need to get married at all when you can drag up the following: - Last will and testament - Revocable trusts - Power of attorney while incapacitated - Health care proxy There you go. No need at all for marriage anymore. Just be life partners. Marriage is just all risk and no benefit other than taxes and being on the same health plan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW/RP identify the problem with divorceDon't get married. Just be equal life partners. If you want to, draft up the proper documents for your significant other (will, power of attorney, revocable trusts, etc), but don't actually get married. There is absolutely no benefit to it. Especially for men, as they are punished significantly harder is family and divorce courts with very little recourse. Not that women don't get screwed over too, but nine times out of ten it's the guy who gets burned the worst. It just isn't worth it any more.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | High SMV men who plan to marry, do you plan to marry into a higher family class or better life?I will never marry, or if I do it will be a highly structured and legally documented. But this would be my opinion regardless of what status I consider myself, or even what other people consider my status to be. Don't get married. Just be equal life partners. If you want to, draft up the proper documents for your significant other (will, power of attorney, revocable trusts, etc), but don't actually get married. There is absolutely no benefit to it. Especially for men, as they are punished signif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 05:15 PM |
| 10 | Do you have any sympathy for women who wish men would approach them in real life *more*?The vast majority want to be left alone by unattractive strangers. But you can never tell who is attracted to who. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Do you hate being attracted to wo/men?Wow, that's a misleading comparison if there ever was one. Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 04:48 PM |
| 6 | Do you hate being attracted to wo/men?I don't know how old you are, but I've discovered that the older I get the less it all matters, in a very good and healthy way. Focus on yourself and find the happiness where you can. Happiness cannot be found in someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 04:47 PM |
| 5 | Do you hate being attracted to wo/men?Ba dum ching! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Do you hate being attracted to wo/men?Haha. That's hilarious. My longest and closest friend only came out of the closet about 10 years ago. He's middle aged. He dated lots of different women. The relationships never worked out for, well, obvious reasons. He recently told me that even despite coming out being a big part of his recent happiness, that being gay is so much better in every way than being straight if you live in a progressive state. Lol! I'm not gay so I cant really comment on it from a personal angle, but it did make me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 04:43 PM |
| 23 | Do you have any sympathy for women who wish men would approach them in real life *more*?I feel sympathy, yeah. But more so for the guys who are now too afraid to approach women in reality. The last 10 years have made the juice absolutely not worth the squeeze when approaching women in reality. The risk of them feeling assaulted is just too high. I understand on an intellectual level that the majority of women wouldn't care. But it only takes one bad actor to claim assault to ruin your entire life and future on words alone. I'm currently in a long term relationship and enjoy it grea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Question for RedPill: do you not believe humor, personality, great conversations together, similar tastes etc. plays a significant role?I think a lot of that does play a role. But NOT online. If you approach women in the real world it can make a world of difference. If you're an average oe below average guy, you could be the funniest and smoothest man alive, but be an absolute zero for online dating. My advice to all guys is stay off the internet and try to find people in reality. I know its significantly harder to find people. But if you have a less than 1% chance online, your odds jump up to at least 50% in reality if you're s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | How many of you sincerely prefer the average women without makeup?I do like a woman who wears makeup and is skilled at its application. I really do prefer it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Why aren’t men fighting for their rights the same way other groups (who’ve claimed inequality/discrimination) have?Significantly? Lol. More like entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | I think MGTOW is kind of hypocritical.Like any movement, there are going to be broad differences of belief amongst the members. Take feminism for example. There a feminists that want equality amongst the sexes, and there are feminists that are just hateful misandrist. This isn't to say it's limited to feminism. Far from it. This applies to all groups and belief systems. There are Christians that are lovely people, and there are Christians that will harass you for not believing the things they do. There are atheists that are totally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 08:16 PM |
| 5 | Why Don't You All Go MGTOWThe abject and boundless human stupidity is hardly limited to male thirst. Humans would find any other reason to be terrible to one another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Why Don't You All Go MGTOWI seriously doubt that. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?But he is leaving you alone. He didn't force you to come to Reddit. He didn't force you to read his comment. All of that was your choice. You might not like what he has to say, but you're the one who made the choices to read that information in the first place. He isn't out in public shouting at people and forcing them to hear what he has to say against their will. All of that was done by you. Or whatever. I dont actually care whatsoever. Just that sort of mentality really confuses me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Is it really that common for women to be turned off by seeing a man they are in a relationship with crying? Can this one thing destroy relationships?Sounds like you're a true MGTOW without some of the ancillary toxic baggage. Good for you man! I'm not being a smart ass either. I wish I could do it. Lol. But I'm too extroverted for such endeavors. Maybe when I retire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:48 PM |
| 3 | case study: jim halpertHe's been laid by several beautiful women in the show (I'm not counting Angela). Hardly an incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:41 PM |
| 2 | case study: jim halpertYou win the internet today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Would a British accent help you get laid in the US?I would say it would help. It wouldn't seal the deal by any means, but it would give you a 10 to 20% advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls on Bumble hotter then the girls on Hinge?That app sounds like absolute misery for any guy below an 8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Have you ever called someone out for derogatory comments or harassment of the opposite sex?Me too, but super rare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Study: Having an attractive partner makes no difference in a woman’s reported relationship satisfactionAh. Then we are in agreement actually. The wording of your post either misled me or I entirely missed the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | There is a disconnect between men and women. Online dating is deepening the divide.Cosmo Kramer would never do something like that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 11:29 PM |
| 1 | There is a disconnect between men and women. Online dating is deepening the divide.I have been saying it for years and years now. The problems between the genders isn't due to the genders. It's due to economics and technology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 11:27 PM |
| 6 | Study: Having an attractive partner makes no difference in a woman’s reported relationship satisfactionNo, but I wouldn't consider it a threat either. Just because a man wants nothing to do with you except sleep with you, that isn't a threat. Unless he does threatening things to you or actively behaves in a way that makes you feel threatened (stalking, incessant staring, inappropriate behavior, etc) , saying a man wanting only to sleep with you even if he isn't all that attracted attracted you is threatening is just hyperbolic in my opinion. But I'm not trying to disparage you. You feel how you f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Study: Having an attractive partner makes no difference in a woman’s reported relationship satisfactionIf that's how you view the world that's gotta be tough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | If you hold that women are hypergamous, can you explain in detail what do you mean by that? What exact traits women as a group are seeking to what degree in men that makes them hypergamous? How is what men do is different than that?Can you provide any links or anything to demonstrate that polygamous societies skew toward violence? I'm not asking due to any gender issues. I'm genuinely fascinated by the anthropological stone that upturns. I'm not trying to say you're wrong or anything, but I really want to read that documentation! I love that kind of historical/anthropological research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | If you hold that women are hypergamous, can you explain in detail what do you mean by that? What exact traits women as a group are seeking to what degree in men that makes them hypergamous? How is what men do is different than that?It depends on what he ate that day. Hyuk hyuk! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him?What do these acronyms stand for? HVM and FDS? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 10:14 PM |
| 5 | Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive?Lol! Okay, thanks for the information. I honestly didn't know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive?Just out of curiosity what does a post with just an "X" mean? I'm not trying to cause trouble, I really want to know. I havent seen it before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 09:56 PM |
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