An interesting question. "Life is a Game and no one should be dependent on anyone", if they are it's their own fault. Sad but true, and a painfully hard lesson to learn for romantic types like myself.
pretty acurate and realistic. The world you describe is a Realist/Nihilist one, and unfortunatly the one that exists. I like to think there is some magic "5th" category where True Love at first text awaits but I guess I'll settle for 1-4.