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Your material reality is crumbling. We won’t help you, but talking about it for $200 and hour will solve it. Kbye
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/26 10:03 PM
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When you get right down to the brass tacks, racism, sexism, all the -phobias including against sexuality, religion, national origin, gender- all serve the owner class of society. These are all tools that serve to divide the rest of us against each other and ignore the growing disparity of wealth. This is nothing new! There are examples throughout history. I became interested in this subs topic because I was seeking an answer about why so many young men are voting for Trump and what he represents…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/25 04:17 AM
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I don’t disagree with you. I’m also not on board with expecting women to become trad wives the right wingers want.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/25 01:25 AM
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Misandry is the correlation of misogyny only against men. It’s a simple concept. The fact the modern feminism doesn’t acknowledge it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. Please keep in mind that this is left wing male advocacy. We want equality. We want all people to be seen and treated as equals. We do not look to a return to a past of rigid gender roles prominent in the ‘manosphere’. We are just tired of our advocacy being shouted down or labeled misogynistic or toxic. This is a male space. I think …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/09/25 09:59 PM
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Whatever our individual feelings about pornography, in the US it is a protected form of expression. Personally, I don’t have strong opinions about sex work other than that we should generally allow people to freely make choices for themselves so long as it is without coercion. Sex trafficking should be universally condemned but otherwise I’m fairly indifferent to sex work.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/09/25 09:30 AM
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The patriarchy benefits the owners of society. I don’t feel that it benefits me at all and rather reinforces the idea that being a wage slave is the only acceptable way to participate in society. Fuck all that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/25 04:21 PM
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I agree, I’m not sure what the outrage is about. Our politicians are a representation of the body politic, and when attitudes change the parties must change or risk falling out of favor. Democrats have leaned too far into identity politics for too long, and they’ve on the balance abandoned both the working class and men in general. Course correction is what we need, so why get upset when that starts to happen?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/25 07:48 PM
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As a not rich person it would be nice to have an American political party that isn’t an arm of corporate America instead of what we have. Stop the moralizing from either end and save the middle and working class. I’ve been telling my liberal friends and family for years that identity politics will cause the very situations they are trying to avoid. They are deaf to it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/25 03:23 PM
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I’m here because my boss took a no call no show seriously and contacted my sister who found me on the edge of death. This was a year ago last spring. I’ve never withheld this information from my psychiatrist and I can say honestly that she never tried to commit me or anything else. I’m on the correct medicines now (after a bit of trial and error) and have been diagnosed with Audhd, and I have a new lease on life. I understand the reticence as my sister had to nurse me back to heath because I ref…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/25 02:30 PM
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Like the notebook, this is a “romantic” movie about a woman who cheats on her fiancé.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/25 06:47 PM
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Perhaps not. You can’t deny that since 1981 when the top tax bracket dropped from 70% to 28% the wealth of the United States has become more and more concentrated into the hands of the ultra rich.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/25 04:02 PM
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I don’t understand what point you’re trying to make.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/25 04:59 PM
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These refrains of white people bad are standing in the way of both economic and racial justice
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/25 08:22 AM
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These edge cases are held up to promote division between us. We marginalize these behaviors in polite society and have for decades. By reinforcing them you are directly contributing to maintaining the status quo. You can point to bad actors in any demographic and say this is why normal people can’t trust each other. It’s a tool wielded against the working and middle class to keep us divided. If you insist on continuing to do this you’re either a willing tool or a useful idiot.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/25 12:46 AM
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The opposite side of the coin seems to be true as well, these over the top entitled young women on TikTok taking about how all men are trash or only men that are over six feet tall and make six figure salaries are acceptable- I feel both of these toxic types are being elevated in social media to appear to be more common than they really are and to draw others into these kinds of damaging behaviors. The argument used to be that conflict drives engagement but it seems more likely that the opposite…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/25 09:57 PM
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Agree. Also it’s clear to me that forces that are invested in creating barriers and distance between groups are affecting us in ways we don’t appreciate enough. See Facebook’s Cambridge Analytics and the rise of Tictok culture. Both of these platforms run on algorithms written and maintained by people that perhaps do not have our best interests in mind.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/25 09:34 PM
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Western women are not ready to have this conversation. Clearly, the sweeping societal changes of the last 60 years have had unintended consequences. Wage stagnation and cost of living inflation have compounded those issues. Men are retreating from higher education and women are replacing them, but those gains are questionable: the cost of college has exploded and the degrees are rapidly losing value, and blue collar trades have also lost economic ground; we are in a mess. I personally believe we…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/25 03:44 PM
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Nonsense. Men want family and healthy relationships as much as women. Check your biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:05 PM
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Oh I get it. You’re what block is for. Demagogue bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:41 AM
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Your insults don’t mask your idiocy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:40 AM
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Dude, if a woman has no compassion she would be a terrible partner. I said be patient not turn over the keys. Jesus Christ you reactionaries are tedious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:38 AM
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Right but a charming smile makes a man perfectly safe? Saying an awkward man could be a dangerous incel school shooter is basically saying every woman who wears makeup may be an undercover prostitute with aids syphilis and hepatitis c. Your argument is weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:37 AM
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Robotics, yet another field dominated by men. The misandry in this sub knows no bounds. I came here for a debate about gender relations because we cannot form any kind of class solidarity while we are busy bashing each other. Women and feminist men are not ready to have this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:02 AM
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I was respond to the statement “no one wants men”. Which is of course ridiculous on its face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:55 AM
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Good god most men would have to stop after a few simply from the chafing. I had to safely google this woman (who is Bonnie Blue), and while I don’t consider myself prudish I wouldn’t get near her for health reasons. That’s crazy to think banging a thousand men in a day is anywhere near acceptable even in a decadent society. Perhaps it’s a matter of personal preference. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:52 AM
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All of my adult life I’ve heard both men and women say that in order to attract a woman a man must have confidence. I think we have forgotten that conman is a shortened form of confidence man, a man that uses and instills confidence in order to take something they don’t deserve. You want men to take accountability and stop getting passed around? Who do you think these men are? They’re conmen that scam sex from women. I’m not saying that women need to lower their standards. I’m just saying, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:43 AM
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Ok look, I’m not endorsing this view so don’t bite my head off. I think promiscuity bothers some men because they view sex as something sacred to be shared within marriage, and promiscuity on either end cheapens that experience. More broadly, worldliness is also viewed with suspicion because a woman who has seen a lot can no longer be impressed by anything her husband could show her. They seem to be related.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:30 AM
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And if these 100-1 men are busy impregnating all the women who is going to feed them, build houses, build and maintain roads and bridges, transport goods, work all the trades, everything that men do in all male jobs? Because the men are going to be too tuckered out to do anything but procreate. Men and women are equal until it’s time to pour concrete or fix a roof.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:43 PM
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30-60% of humans living in Europe died during the black plague and humanity continued. Men aren’t more disposable than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:30 PM
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Build and maintain all infrastructure? Build all houses and apartments? Farm and transport food to every grocery store and restaurant in the country? Father children? Pay taxes? No?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:24 PM
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Ok you heard it here first, these rules women set are all bullshit. Do what you want, fellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:23 AM
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Kids tend to favor the father for evolutionary reasons, so the father is more likely to bond with the child. So most of the time a dna test is unnecessary. If your kid looks like an ex or a neighbor or a coworker, test that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 12:38 AM
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He communicated what he wanted. He didn’t know how she felt about him because he is not a mind reader. She communicated that they didn’t want the same thing. You think men are mindless automatons with no emotions or desires. She is not entitled to his friendship. You’re clearly not listening, you are ax grinding. I’m not going to argue with you, there is no point. You lack the emotional intelligence to understand that it’s ok for men to know what they do and do not want, that it’s ok for a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:57 PM
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The answer to your question is honesty. Honesty is why he tells the person he is bonded with the truth. He’s not looking for a friend, he’s looking for a partner. How is this so hard to understand? Men aren’t users because they want to be in a romantic relationship. If the feeling isn’t reciprocated he moves along because he respects her feelings. He isn’t demanding anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:43 PM
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Ok then, answer me this: say he becomes her friend. Some time later he meets an eligible woman who wants to be with him. How do you think she’d react if he told her he had a female friend who he once had feelings for? Do you honestly think this would help achieve his goal of finding a partnership, or that the friendship can continue without risking his new relationship? Wouldn’t it be better if they both went their own way? I think you don’t understand what entitlement means. Entitlement means h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:28 PM
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People want different things. She is not entitled to his friendship any more that he is entitled to her to be romantic. If he cares about her letting her go respects her wishes. If she cares about him at all she’ll understand it if he’s not interested in a friendship. There are no bad guys here, no victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:35 PM
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This is not true. Stop thinking you know what men want. You don’t know. Wanting to be in a relationship with someone they find potentially suitable doesn’t make a dude a creep or a user. Get a grip please.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:25 PM
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This is not true. You act like a man being interested in a woman means he doesn’t care about her. Silly talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:22 PM
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Men can be friends with women. It’s not wise to friend bond with married peers but otherwise it’s not unusual. Friend zone is reserved for a person that has an interest to bond romantically, not for all friends of the opposite sex. I hope you can see the difference. A boy meets a girl. There is no sexual tension because of any number of reasons- she’s not single, she’s not in the same age cohort, he isn’t single, he isn’t attracted to her, lots of other reasons- these are friends. A boy meets a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:04 PM
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I don’t think it needs to be overthought. From my own experience and from what I’ve read of modern male grievance, normal men are looking for a generally healthy woman who isn’t combative, is willing to meet halfway on action and discussion, and who will stick around through tough times to preserve an otherwise healthy family life with both parents. There are obviously bad actors from both genders. The acts they perpetrate may vary in scope and damage but the fact remains neither gender can clai…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:04 PM
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RIP your dms
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:15 PM
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And why shouldn’t they? The men who have been passed over, ignored, insulted and treated poorly by fickle women aren’t going to be the consolation prizes to these same run through women who at 32 now need a husband and a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:34 PM
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https://www.quora.com/Is-there-a-reason-why-many-men-give-up-on-dating-and-relationships-Is-the-dating-scene-difficult-for-them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:55 PM
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Reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:36 PM
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I’m not some trad guy looking for a trad wife. You like to be inked and educated and I respect that. What matters to me is whether a potential partner is trustworthy enough to risk what’s left of my future in order to be in another relationship and my physical requirement is only to not be obese. And I will absolutely never allow another partner to behave with little emotional regulation. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:35 PM
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Im you have no idea what I want from a woman. Im done arguing with you, you’re not worth my time. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:28 PM
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Like most women you fail to see anyone else’s point of view. No matter how well I’ve treated the women in my life they universally never listen, always have to be right, tell people what they think, get hurt by reading shit that into words that aren’t saying hurtful things, refuse to be challenged on anything, feel free to be verbally and emotionally abusive and generally act in a manner that would never be acceptable from a man. I don’t give a shit about tattoos and or body count. Many men with…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:26 PM
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I state an opinion and you tell me my opinion doesn’t matter because I’m middle aged and divorced. The same is true for me, since you choose to behave this way your opinion doesn’t mean shit to me. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:14 PM
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That’s exactly what I was doing. Or rather, I don’t feel the need to coddle people who name call and dismiss others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:10 PM
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Go on thinking you know what men want. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:59 PM
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You’re a rude and dismissive woman and indicative of why men aren’t interested in dating nasty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:58 PM
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This is a succinct view that seems right to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:43 PM
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I know I’m accountable and I’m not blaming all women, but I’ve settled in my past with chaotic relationships because the good natured women I’ve met weren’t interested in a relationship with me. I never had high standards for looks, only not interested in obese women. I always blamed myself because I’ve never amounted for much outside of a blue collar job and the inability to give my partners the attention they want and deserve, although I am humble and generous and safe. Only in middle age have…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:40 PM
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Women are losing their leverage because 50% of men are unwilling to play games anymore. As women age their history, like it or not, are held against them more than ever before. Respectable men who actually fill some of these insane standards that haven been ignored or hurt by women over their lives have turned the tables and over female standard of 6ft, 6 figure income bad boy has turned into a male standard of no tats, low number of sex partners and agreeableness. I don’t really care. I’ve chec…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:18 PM
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https://youtu.be/3nLX0CjMO-Q?si=3ceMbc-GQsXeJGQW
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:25 PM
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This is not a person who is looking for a solution, she’s just interested in complaining. Audiobooks, long form podcasts and YouTube about every subject she could be interested in, deep diving Wikipedia, there is no lack of intellectual stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:18 PM
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Lamotrigene has worked good for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:00 PM
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You carry a library of all human knowledge in your pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:30 AM
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Now you’re putting the accountability for shit women do on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:22 AM
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Hey at least that’s one. Men take the lead, 1-0
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:12 AM
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looks around for a black person to oppress Ah, well, guess I’ll oppress a woman instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:33 PM
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The other side of that coin is that men want the same thing women want, to be loved and respected and validated. It’s not hateful to want to be treated well by our partners, and a lot of complaints I hear from men about this aren’t being heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:14 PM
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I think this is a really good answer. I can’t speak for anyone but myself. I will not enter another relationship with someone who doesn’t follow the golden rule- treat others as I want to be treated. I am surrounded by women and I get along great with all of them, but all of my romantic relationships have been with women who started out sweet but sooner or later became hypercritical, looking for insults where none are intended, unwilling to be challenged on anything and needing her way or it’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:06 PM
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Of course being single is better than being in a turbulent relationship with a chaotic person. Do what you want, that’s not an option for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:49 AM
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I have never made any claims about an 80/20 rule or anything like it. Personally, I think the data could be incomplete or misunderstood or inflated. I could make some anecdotal arguments but I try to avoid that. Your certainty belies your prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:53 AM
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Talking to the the wrong fellow, but go off, king
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:44 AM
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This isn’t a court of law. This is semi benign propaganda on a small scale. Propaganda requires no proof. Your certainty belies your prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:39 AM
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I’m pretty convinced that we are living in a crisis era that won’t last forever. We’ll come out of it with a much stronger sense of community and society. That is, until the next batch of boomers come along and blow it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:03 AM
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Yeah, the reactionaries are frustrating. But I think they serve their purpose because the willful obtuseness disqualifies itself. I’m not arguing to try to change his mind but to perhaps open the doors for others to question their underlying assumptions for the sake of having a more pragmatic view.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:51 AM
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I’m relieved that the Democratic Party has reached perfection and there is no reason to question our underlying beliefs. Or should I despair that young men are inherently bigoted?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:35 AM
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He offered them a bunch of lies. We offered them that women would prefer a bear to them. Wake up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:05 AM
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I can’t upvote you twice ⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:03 AM
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I’m telling you as a democratic voter that other democratic voters and leaders turned them off to such a degree that they threw up their hands and walked away. We have take responsibility for the fact that we as a political body have turned our backs on the working and middle class. Trump lies and lies and lies about helping working men but at least it’s lip service that we don’t even bother with. Liberalism is failing because this version of it doesn’t give a shit about the working man. Thus, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:48 AM
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Shitty people often think everyone thinks like they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:39 AM
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Same. And people should still be nice to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:38 AM
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so is mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:36 AM
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Your lack of nuance and self reflection will continue to hurt your own cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:32 AM
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Not wanting to raise someone else’s child is not emasculating. What a silly thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:28 AM
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Men and women should have expectations of their partners. Sex, loyalty, peace, what’s wrong with those? If you can’t live in peace with someone who is loyal to you and is intimate with you what is the point of a relationship? And of course women should have expectations of their partner, including structure effort and resources. Entitlement is when either demands things without being willing to reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:25 AM
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I disagree. I’d rather say, decent men should behave like themselves and set some boundaries to protect themselves against those who would take advantage of that decency. And decent women should behave like themselves and set boundaries to protect themselves against those who would take advantage of that decency. I speak from experience in a way many of us do. Because of my own shortcomings I have allowed toxic women into my life because they were the ones who showed me attention. I better under…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:13 AM
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I don’t think he’s saying that, and even if he were, he’s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:06 AM
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A week ago I’d have agreed with you with a full throat. Now I believe it’s not that simple. I’m too old and cynical to be led along down some rabbit hole. But I think I can put aside what I naturally accepted to be true in order to attempt to understand the point of view of those I disagree with, and in this case, I think a lot of the grievances being expressed by men do need to be addressed. Just because some of those grievances are amplified by toxic people does not mean they are unfounded. Fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:51 AM
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I don’t understand it either. My feeling is that trump isn’t particularly appealing to many but that liberal identity politics revolts them more. Honestly, I think most of these problems we are trying to debate civilly are becoming more endemic because the most toxic voices are being elevated by social media companies that do not have western society’s best interests at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:43 AM
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So, can you look past the toxic people of both genders and consider the point of view of the other side? I’d call that empathy and emotionally intelligent, but what do I know? I’m a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:37 AM
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It’s not a threat, they felt like they weren’t being taken seriously and left. I don’t like it either. But I think it’s worthwhile to look at why these men felt this way and to take some accountability and course correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:35 AM
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Misogyny is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:30 AM
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Thank you. We agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:29 AM
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I’m in therapy twice a week. I’m also trying to be a realist and not an ideologue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:28 AM
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I think you don’t understand what misogyny is. Male advocacy is not misogynistic any more than feminism is the same as egalitarianism. It is not, because the purpose of feminism is to advocate and advance women’s issues, not to achieve equality. If male advocacy is misogynistic then the opposite must also be true, that feminism is misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:07 AM
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But where does it end? If even talking about male advocacy is misogynistic, what are the limits of feminism? Society isn’t perfect for men. We have legitimate problems that need to be addressed, and to deny that tells men that they must go elsewhere for answers. I’m a leftist and I think liberals in the US are so drunk on identity politics they are damaging their own cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:03 AM
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I’m trying to approach this topic in an unbiased way, and it’s impossible for me to think that in 2025 men have no societal issues that need to be addressed and it’s all toxic privilege. I think also that the reaction to minimize, demonize or ridicule any form of male advocacy is a big part of why young men are flocking to conservatism and even more toxic thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:55 AM
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I’m becoming troubled about the ease of which human beings are being classified as ‘high value’ or ‘low status’ or rated 1-10. This was unheard of 20 years ago and the whole she’s a 10 crap was rightly disregarded as misogynistic. Those of us that aren’t in the top .1%, the owners of society, we are not high value. We need to stop this shit and form some class consciousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:58 AM
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Feminism is not universally accepted because it does not actually strive for true equality. It is not an egalitarian movement. I truly believe that if egalitarianism was the goal reasonable modern people would not take issue with it. The problem I see with male advocacy is that many people believe that is reasonable to ignore men’s issues because they don’t exist. Modern men do have societal problems that should be addressed, and minimizing them or ridiculing them will push a lot of men into tox…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:51 AM
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I agree with everything you’re saying. I’m not just talking out of my butt. Women didn’t gain the right to bank until the 1960’s. The congress that passed these laws were absolute majority men. And so, while it’s true that women had to fight to gain a more equal position many men helped. The same was true with equality for lgbt people in the 90’s and 00’s. Straight people finally came to support them. This was also true for the civil rights movement. None of these have been completely solved, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:26 AM
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By and large, men have stood by and gracefully accepted equality for women. Please all of us, let’s find grace and empathy for each other. Let’s put aside the toxic people, both men and women, and continue to push forward together with mutual respect and empathy towards a future that will bring better outcome for all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:47 PM
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These things may all be true. Boys are 1-2 years behind girls in development but we never take that into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:34 PM
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You’re not listening. You are putting your feelings over what he said. He is saying what he means.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:24 PM
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If your spouse isn’t your best friend you’re doing it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:22 PM
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Last spring a TikTok video went viral in which eight women were asked would they rather meet a man or a bear while alone in the woods, and seven responded that they would rather meet the bear. Bears are not a common sight here, and barring some instances when wild animals wander in to town, it is extremely unlikely for an American to ever see one. An online debate started and most women and many men agreed that it would be better to meet the bear, because at least the bear couldn’t do anything w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:20 AM
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No. I mean, if we ignore the toxic people, the misogynists and misandrists, is it possible at this time to allow well meaning advocates for men and women to have honest conversations with the hope of achieving egalitarian solutions? Is true equality even possible, and is it possible for men to advocate for themselves in earnest without being labeled a misogynist? I feel the fabric of our society is being torn apart and I’d like to understand how we can come back together, not by reverting to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:28 AM
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I don’t understand why you would answer in this way. Do you believe that I am implying that we should take women’s rights away?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:01 AM
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Do you honestly think men treat women this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:59 AM
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If your choice of male companions treat you this way you should make better choices of what company you keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:51 PM
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Choose better partners
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:40 PM
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Avoiding any accountability whatsoever will not bridge the ever growing distance between the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:52 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:45 PM
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I hope that is true and I hope that once marginalized groups will be graceful with those whose in group were once dominant. Just because almost all of the people who hold all of the power are from one group, doesn’t mean that all members of that group are privileged. In fact, it seems to me that the opposite can be true. If the most powerful among us are white men, that doesn’t mean that all white men are given extra privileges. We are the competition and are expected to succeed and if we don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:36 PM
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Besides, the older generations have not all fought against the societal changes we are grappling with, and indeed were among the first to challenge old ideals and hierarchies. Gender roles, tribalism, human sacrifice and slavery, moving past these things as a society was a natural growth of civilization. The work isn’t finished; abolishing slavery has not in itself dissolved dangerous racial ideologies, and we need to continue evolving as a society and civilization. But we also need to understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:28 PM
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What would you say to a well meaning person who is interested in reaching a state of true egalitarianism? It’s neither here or there, but as an autistic man I am interested in your opinion about how or if it’s wise to advocate for males in a nontoxic way in the modern world. Is it possible to agree that toxic men and women should be marginalized so the rest of us can come to reasonable compromise and mutual understanding and respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:16 PM
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My question is whether the path we are on will lead to egalitarianism. The answer appears to be no. As a modern person raised in a gender-roleless family I have hoped that was what we were aiming for, but to me it seems we are not ready for that yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:11 PM
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I’ve been grappling with the question of whether there is a space for nontoxic male advocacy in 2025, and you make it clear that there are reactionaries that will make such debate difficult, even in a space that is set aside for such debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:58 PM
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You are again making assumptions based on nothing. But you know what? Never change, you don’t need to listen to anyone else’s opinions because clearly you know everything. Have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:52 PM
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If you are constantly being misunderstood, perhaps work on your communication skills and learn how to not respond to earnest debate with personal insults. Four years into Reddit with a +100 comment karma tells me all I need to know. ad hominem [ ad hom-uh-nuhm-nem, ahd‐ ] adjective attacking an opponent's character or motives rather than answering the argument or claim. appealing to one's prejudices, emotions, or special interests rather than to one's intellect or reason. Compare ad feminam.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:41 PM
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Grow up, this isn’t olden times and men are not responsible for the actions of other men, especially those that are long dead. This kind of crap would never ever be tolerated if the shoe was on the other foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:14 PM
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You’ve just called me a racist and a creep, your opinion means fuck all to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:36 PM
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Asking for mutual respect isn’t unreasonable if we want to live in a polite society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:25 PM
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I guess I should be racist then because I have been mistreated by someone of a different race.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:58 PM
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Giving a rude or ick response to someone approaching you in a respectful manner says more about the gracefulness of the woman and less about the creepiness of the man. Just be kind. Treat others like you’d wanted to be treated, it’s not an unreasonable ask, just as it is not unreasonable to ask men to take into account the vulnerability she is in at the moment. A respectful approach in a safe space is not creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:53 PM
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It’s unfortunate that the young generation aren’t learning the lessons of the mistakes we older people have made. All of this looksmaxxing, rating of people 1-10, trying to determine who among us are high value people, this is all surface level bs that will not help us as a society in any way whatsoever. It’s selfish and childish. It’s the self important thinking that they are part of the elite when nothing could be further from the truth. We are getting our asses kicked by the capitalists. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:45 AM
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I think that beginning with the beatniks, we as a society have yanked out a lot of bad legacy code out of gender relations, norms and roles but on the whole we haven’t been able to replace that with something new that works for everyone. For example, instead of having one income households with defined gender roles, we now have workplace competition between the genders. We have allowed society’s owners to pit ourselves against each other. One income isn’t enough anymore for the vast majority of …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:23 AM
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