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| 7 | how frequently you turned on about men you see in public ?I’ve never been turned on from looking at a man (or a woman). Doesn’t matter and it’s and actor on the screen or a person next to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Why do some women find it so much more difficult to orgasm than others?I don’t know but I wish it was different. Penetration feels like nothing special to me, it’s just not pleasurable. So I never orgasmed. And I don’t have a death grip of any kind because I don’t use toys and I don’t really masturbate. Sex just doesn’t feel good. I will definitely never feel what my husband feels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 04:13 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of Orion Taraban?He also said in one of his videos that women are there to serve and support men in their dreams, never the other way around. If I ever had any respect for him that video would make me lose it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 10:50 AM |
| 4 | how interest are you about what men like?No I don’t. I just do things I enjoy or things I’m passionate about, and I don’t do things that I don’t like or that seem awful. I just never asked myself if producing music, or colorfull makeup or being ambitious would make men’s penises hard. I do those things because I want to, not because men don’t find them attractive. I never worried that men expect weird kinks in bed, or even blowjobs. I don’t do these things because I don’t want to, not because men want them and I want to do something ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 08:51 AM |
| 6 | how interest are you about what men like?I’m not really interested. I’m ambitious and I never cared that men would see me as a cold cat lady (and I still got married). None of my hobbies are stereotypically feminine and I never stopped doing them when I saw countless of men being angry about modern women losing femininity. I don’t do most of the sex acts that men think that are mandatory, I refuse to be anything but vanilla. This is something I decided as a teenager knowing that men expect more. I don’t wven give blowjobs. I like color… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 07:02 AM |
| 3 | What do you have to offer?I agree. But also my point was that men don’t see anything that women do as real, genue interests. They will respect male nusic producers. Or male artists, or game dedisgners. But they will not take women who do these things seriously, they will just assume that women do it to get men’s attention. They don’t like the idea of women having goals and passions. It’s the same with women listening to metal, playing the guitar or pretty much anything other than stereotypically feminine interests (which… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 12:05 PM |
| 13 | What do you have to offer?Also with hobbies, no matter what women do men will not see it as a passion or even hobby. For example, I produce music in my free time. I follow a lot of women who are also music producers. The amount of comments men give us that we only do it to get male atrention, or that our hardware is actually our partner’s hardware is ridicolous. Growing up my brother used to tell me that I was dumb and didn’t have any interests. I made music, wrote stories, created my own computer games. He still didn’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 07:49 AM |
| 1 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.Many women don’t experience that or have to spend lots of time to figure out their pleasure. And for many women it doesn’t happen during penetration so they have to masturbate during sex or be pleased before piv, while piv still doesn’t provide orgasms. Men have it easy. In general most of them can just put it in and orgasm. I never had to learn how to please my husband it was that easy. I don’t even have to touch his penis, I never give blowjobs and he still orgasms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:57 PM |
| 1 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.Oh, I know that lesbians have more pleasure. But also lesbians have sex differently. I’m straight so I will not do it like a lesbian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:52 PM |
| 1 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.For me arousal doesn’t change anything, piv still feels like nothing special. The feeling is just neutral, like stroking an arm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:41 AM |
| 1 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.Thrusting back doesn’t bring me pleasure. It’s still thrusting. Just having a penis inside isn’t pleasurable at all, no matter who does the thrusting. We did try this. And I meant that I wouldn’t be able to stimulate my clit on him in many positions, doggy is one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:15 AM |
| 2 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.Well, I don’t think that penetration would suddenly feel better for me with another partner. When I talk with my friends most of them agree that piv feels like nothing special. I’m in different groups for women who don’t orgasm and pretty much all of them agree that penetration is the last things that they enjoy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:10 AM |
| 1 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.I tried, that’s how cat was explained when we read about it. I didn’t enjoy it. And in other positions it’s not possible so even if it worked, other positions wouldn’t feel good. But it doesn’t work. The correct angle and pressure is just not there now matter what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:01 AM |
| 3 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.I mean, the only reason I don’t associate sex with pleasure is that sex never gave me pleasure. Before I lost virginity I thought that sex was something amazing and pleasurable. But having this belive didn’t make sex good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 10:57 AM |
| -1 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.We tried cat and grinding in general, it doesn’t work at all for me. I never found the right angle or pressure, it never felt good. Oral sex will not make penetration pleasurable and orgasmic so it doesn’t fix the problem, I will still not enjoy piv. And I don’t give blow jobs so it wouldn’t be fair to agree on oral for me anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 10:56 AM |
| 0 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.He can touch my clit during sex but it doesn’t feel great when he has to move at the same time and keep his tempo, and most angles make it even worse. We tried it in many positions, I never enjoyed it. In missionary it’s impossible, in other position the angles changes constantly, same with pleasure and it just doesn’t feel right. So what’s the point? And it doesn’t change what I said. I never had to learn how to please him, we never had to learn and experiment or use toys to make him cum. I nev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 10:35 AM |
| -1 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.I think that orgasm gap is mostly biological. I will never enjoy sex as much as my husband, I will never be able to like sex because of that. But I never blamed men for it. That’s why I think it’s unfair to expect women to want sex, have it often, and enjoy sex as much as men. Men are better built for pleasure, it’s not their fault obviously but it is the truth, orgasms in general is much easier. So why would I want sex if only my husband orgasms from it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 10:08 AM |
| – | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himSure, but my point is that it’s not always possible. I thought I knew everything. I was excited about sex because I was told that it was pleasurable. I did think that I had all of the information and if someone told me that I didn’t, I wouldn’t listen. Because I was so sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:51 PM |
| – | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himBecause it doesn’t feel nice for everyone. Penetration feels like nothing special to me, I get zero pleasure from it. But I do have sex the way you described, I let him do it and just lay there. But it’s not enough and he stops because I don’t show signs of enjoyment. So I don’t think that this is a solution for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:12 AM |
| – | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himIt’s not that easy. I didn’t know what sex would be like before I got married. But when I finally had it it wasn’t pleasurable, there is nothing in it for me. I still do it if he wants it but it’s ok to not enjoy it and refuse it. Sex is better for men so they also should understand that women will want it less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:07 AM |
| 2 | Why is the media women consume always sexual?I’m not asexual and no, women’s worlds doesn’t revolve around relationships or drama any more than men’s. Men are dramatic and men do gossip, I’ve spent too much time with my brother, friends, men at work to tjink that men don’t gossip or create drama. Men are more about sex then women, men are more sexual, sex is what motivates them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"Yes, but it still doesn’t change how penetration physically feels. Why would it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Would women still get married if they were legally mandated to frequently have sex with their husbands?I remain married and I have sex with my husband even thought I don’t enjoy it. I did belive that sex is a duty in marriage but I also thought that it would be pleasurable and that I would enjoy it so I didn’t mind it. But If I knew the truth, that I wouldn’t enjoy penetration then no, I wouldn’t get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Why is the media women consume always sexual?I can comment it if I can only talk about my own experience with certainity and maybe from experiences of other women I talked to. And for me the idea that women are only sexual sounds ridiculous. The last thing I would say about myself is that I’m „only sexual”. Sex doesn’t provide me pleasure, I mever orgasmed during intercourse, I could live for years without having it and I would be just fine. So there I made a comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 09:34 PM |
| 13 | Why is the media women consume always sexual?Also, many women don’t read smut at all. I’m in multiple book spaces for women where romantasy or stuff like acotar are openly hated. I personally never managed to read a single book like that and I read a lot. And women how tons of other hobbies but men never acknowledge them. I produce music and the only time I’m able to openly discuss it is when I do in in closed spaces with other women who produce music. Men love to joke that our hardware is probably actually our partners hardware or once th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"I know that there are exceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 05:54 AM |
| 0 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"No, admitting. I will never enjoy it as much as he does, I will never be able to just have a quicky and love it. I will never be able to enjoy him being inside of me the way he enjoys it. He doesn’t have to figure out how to orgasm. He just puts it in and he orgasms. He doesn’t have to masturbate during sex to finish, or make sure that he orgasms with a toy before we start. He just enjoys the main thing. I don’t have to touch him, I never had to give him oral sex or learn how to touch him. He do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"Yes, men and women are different. And men are better built to receive pleasure during sex. Orgasm gap is a thing. And men don’t hear that they should touch themselves to orgasm, or to use vibrator while a woman uses them for her pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"Sex is more for men than for women because men get pleasure much easier. Even many women who agree on oral have to learn how to feel pleasure from it. In general, men acheive pleasure easier and quicker. It’s not their fault but sex is for them more. My husband would have to spend at least half an hour every time before sex to make me even feel good. Using my hands or vibrator would make sex pointless. Why would I do it if I have to pleasure myself? Nobody expects men to orgasm from their hand d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"I’m not saying I’m good in bed. I’m saying that men’s pleasure is the default and that their bodies are better built for pleasure because they don’t really have to try to get it. If I decided to have sex now I wouldn’t orgasm, but a man most likely would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"Obviously. I never said I blame men for this. Sex is better for men but it isn’t their fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"And sometimes they should do stuff for others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"I know it’s a biological reality. I’m nit blaming men for it. I’m just saying that sex is easier and better for men, in general. But it isn’t their fault. And penetration doesn’t stimulate my button. This isn’t my fault.I tried riding, it doesn’t work for me. Having to masturbate during sex will not make me happier. Admitting that sex is for men and I don’t need to love it or be advanterous to please my husband made me happier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"Well, yeah, I don’t. That’s the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:57 PM |
| – | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"How is is entitled? Seriously, how? And I am self aware. I understand the difference between men’s and women’s experience. I don’t blame men for biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:56 PM |
| 5 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"I mean, I want to orgasm during sex. Why else would I wsnt to have sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:55 PM |
| 5 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"It’s not just my issue. More women can’t orgasm than men during sex. In general sexual pleasure is easier for men. Orgasm gap is a thing. Many women need to masturbate during sex to orgasm. You know how many times I was told to just touch myself? Men don’t need to ise their hands during sex to orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"I’m not being forced. Sex is just a part of marriage. That’s what I meant. I just do it for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"I am having sex. I shouldn’t need more. My husband doesn’t need anything orher than penetration. I don’t even touch his penis and he orgasms. Men don’t need to „try things” to feel good. That’s the whole point. Sex is in general more for men. Their bodies are better built for pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"My friends’ husbands and other women I talk on in different spaces. Also, it’s not a secret that men have a much easier time orgasming. Orgasm gap is a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"The point is to orgasm during sex, not during foreplay. And men don’t need to orgasm before. They often don’t even need „before”. I never give my husband blowjobs. Ever. And I don’t give handjobs, he still orgasms every single time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:45 PM |
| -1 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"I’m married to I kind of have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"My point is more that men have a muxh easier time orgasming. Maybe with age some men need more to get aroused. But they, in general, don’t need to experiment and find ways to orgasm. They just orgasm from penetration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"I’ve been married for over ten years, we are both in our thirties. I don’t have to perform anything more than regular penetration and he still orgasms. I don’t need to find other ways to stimulate him and he orgasms every single time. And I don’t do oral sex or handjobs. It has never been the case for me, I never orgasmed during sex. I’ve never even been close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"I am having sex. Having sex is suppoused to be already pleasurable. I shouldn’t have to struggle and look for things that may or may not work. I shouldn’t have to spend half an hour before sex to feel good. My husband doesn’t need to do anything other than penetration. We never had to figure out his pleasure. I never had to touch him and look for different types of sex acts to make him orgasm. He just puts it in and he orgasms. Juat the fact that, in general, men orgasm by default makes sex easi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"Sure, some men have problems in this area. But in general men orgasm easily and don’t have to discover what nakes them cum. They don’t have to experiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"Well, I do think that what men have is better. My husband doesn’t have to try if he wants to orgasm. I never had to learn how to please him, it was that easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:45 PM |
| 4 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"Clit is not stimulated the way it should be during penetration. I don’t want to masturbate during sex or be fingered before. It still will not make actual sex better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"Maybe, but it’s not women’s fault. It’s nobody’s fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"I also ride him and he orgasms. I don’t orgasm when he fucks me. And the point is that he never had to experiment to feel sexual pleasure. But I would have to do god knows what to maybe orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:14 PM |
| 5 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"And I was talking about actual sex being easier and better for men. Why would getting sex be easy gor men if women in general get less out of it? It wouldn’t make sense, would it? And I didn’t criticize men. It’s not their fault that sex is in general more for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"I mean, it’s true. Men orgasm much more easily. I mever had to learn how to please my husband, it was that easy. How is sex harder for men? You think they struggle more with getting orgasms than women? Seriously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:04 PM |
| 0 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"I just don’t, I hate that it creates a power dynamic. I don’t want my husband to be submissive in bed and I also don’t want to be submissive for him (that’s why I don’t give blowjobs). And I don’t want to feel cum in my mouth. And also, the most important part, I don’t want to spend too much time on foreplay, the idea of having to move to penetration after I finish would destroy the whole experience for me. If I get mine, I want to relax, to do more sexual things. Growing up I was told that sex … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"Fingering is just boring, I don’t see anything sexy in laying there and being fingered. I never liked the idea of oral sex, I would never want to give blowjobs either. I like the idea of penetration but in real life it jusy doesn’t provide any pleasure. It sounds good but is actually disappointing. And even if fingering or oral worked, I wouldn’t want to have to have them everytime we have sex. I don’t want to spend hours in bed. And my husband doesn’t have to. Like I said, he enjoys anything we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 11:50 AM |
| -3 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"Yeah, but that’s the point, I would have to experiment and invent or discover this thing. And it still may not happen. He never had to do it, he orgasmed the first time we had sex. He didn’t have to learn what he likes because he likes the basics already. He never had to experiment. I literally don’t do anything other than penetration, I don’t even touch his penis and he still orgasms. But I get nothing, literally nothing. And I don’t want to have oral sex, it’s not for everyone. I would never d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"No, it’s normal, penetration is better for men than for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 11:23 AM |
| 3 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"I don’t feel any shame, I wasn’t even shy when I first got naked in front of him. I’m not self conscious at all. But it doesn’t make penetration more enjoyable. It’s just the fact that sex and sexual pleasure are easier for men. I never had to learn how to please my husband, I don’t give him blowjobs or handjobs and he still orgasms every time. But I would have to experiment and probably masturbate during sex to acheive pleasure, which would make sex pointless. And being on top doesn’t change an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 11:15 AM |
| 5 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"Sex is easier and better for men. I will never experience anything my husband experience when we do it. His pleasure and orgasm are guaranteed, I never had to learn how to please him and I was a virgin, it was that simple. And I get nothing from sex. I’m in many groups and spaces for people who never orgasmed during sex and it’s all women. Sex IS easier and better for men by default. The orgasm gap exists for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 11:02 AM |
| 3 | Orgasm gap is just experience gap.I only slept with one man, my husband. I still never had an orgasm and I think that sex sucks. I didn’t need to get more experience to think that. Sex often isn’t really good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Does your husband get any special treatment (sexually) that your exes didn't have access to? Or do they all get treated equally?Well, he gets sex. I never slept with other men so I would say that this is the ultimate special treatment. But he doesn’t get blowjobs or anything kinky, no weird things, no bdsm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 05:00 PM |
| 7 | If the orgasm gap wasn’t a thing and you orgasmed every single time you slept with someone, would you increase your casual encounters more?I wouldn’t have casual sex but I would not avoid sex and I would initiate. It would definitely make me more interested in having sex in general. Now I don’t really think about it because it’s not for me, so I just do it when my husband wants it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 10:47 AM |
| 1 | The majority of sex should be oral sex performed on women.Sex is just a part of a relationship. If I got divorced and dated someone else, sex would be expected anyway. What else am I suppoused to do? In my marriage I don’t have do give blow jobs or do any other sexual acts. The only thing we do is penetration. If I dated someone else I’m sure it would be expected that I do other things in bed. Now I don’t have to, I don’t even have to use my hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 05:45 PM |
| 0 | The majority of sex should be oral sex performed on women.Yeah, and it doesn’t end great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 02:39 PM |
| 0 | The majority of sex should be oral sex performed on women.Well, I’m married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 01:36 PM |
| 1 | The majority of sex should be oral sex performed on women.I don’t think so, I think oral is quite disgusting. I never give blowjobs to my husband and I don’t allow him to go down on me. I don’t enjoy penetration but just penetrative sex is better than doing something I think is gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Slutty women are more relationship material than traditional or conservative womenI’m not slutty and I waited till marriage and in my case it checks out. I don’t like sex because it’s not pleasurable. I was interested in it before I had it because I was interested in pleasure I thought it would provide me. I have friends who waited as well and most of them don’t orgasm either. It’s an inside joke at this point in our group. I do think that there are women who waited with sex and still love, just in my experience the opposite is also gery common. Anecdotaly, when I say to my f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 05:13 AM |
| 0 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?I do have desire for sex. I do get horny. I just don’t get pleasure when sex actually happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?No. It’s impossible to enjoy sex if I have to please myself while he can orgasm thaks to me and my body. So what could I do? I can’t chage my biology. Me using my hands would not make sex enjoyable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 09:22 PM |
| 0 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?If I masturbated during sex then I would be enjoying masturbation, not sex. And men wouldn’t want to uave sex if they had to use their hads to orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 09:10 PM |
| 0 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?It’s not that I actively don’t want it, I don’t mind it. I don’t feel abused, I just don’t orgasm from it and don’t get some enormous pleasure. Many women don’t orgasm from penetration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?He does know that. He tries to make it better, he tried tons of positions but I just don’t enjoy it. It’s not his fault but It’s not my fault either. It’s pretty common for women to not orgasm from penetration. So many men are in a situation where they have sex that the enjoy much more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 12:10 PM |
| 0 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?I don’t want oral sex. I would never do it for him either. I shouldn’t have to have oral to enjoy sex. Oral is an addition. Wnd yes, we have different biology. Biology makes sexual pleasure much easier for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?He does orgasm from it. And I can’t chage it. We tried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 12:06 PM |
| -1 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?I don’t want to masturbate during sex. He doesn’t have to use his hands so why should I? If I have to please myself during sex while he doesn’t then it’s unfair, isn’t it? That’s what I mean, men don’t need to masturbate and to other things to enjoy it. They can just put it in and feel good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 11:52 AM |
| 4 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?Sex with other men would also consist of penetration, wouldn’t it? Being with another man would not change it. Also, not orgasming during sex is very common for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 11:34 AM |
| 5 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?Many women don’t enjoy sex and don’t orgasm from penetration. It’s ok and needs to be discussed as well. For me, being told that sex is amazing messed me up because I was so surprised and ashamed when I finally had it and there was no pleasure. It made me ashamed. It took me and my friends years to admit that we don’t like it. You know how many times I heard that I’m a bad wife and that they pity my husband because I don’t do oral sex? From women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 11:07 AM |
| 6 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?I didn’t say that all women don’t enjoy sex. I said that many don’t enjoy sex. I regularly talk to women who are similar to me, including most of my friends but also many women online. And many women don’t orgasm during sex. Constantly hearing that not wanting sex is so weird while men orgasm and enjoy it much more easily is annoying. Of course I don’t want sex if I don’t get pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?No need to be dramatic. Many women don’t enjoy sex. It’s not that uncommon. It’s not great but I didn’t choose my anatomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 10:15 AM |
| 6 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?I don’t think that I ever had a high sex drive but also sex doesn’t really feel good. I also would rather read a book in a nice place than undress and be penetrated (apologies for being too graphic). I love my husband and I do it for him but it’s obvious that he is the only one who benefits from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 09:18 AM |
| 4 | Is having sex similar of a good laugh for women?I sometimes do get spontanously horny (for example while eating oatmeal or even doing nothing) but I don’t know if my cycle has anything to do with it, I never looked into it. So my answer is maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Is having sex similar of a good laugh for women?That depends. I think that different women experience their sexuality differently. I never get horny, seeing a handsome mand on the screen or in real life doesn’t make me excited. Sex is not a need for me, I have it because my husband wants it. But when we didn’t do it for over half a year I didn’t really notice. Male naked body doesn’t arouse me either. When I talked to my friends, most of them said similar thing, that they don’t get excited from looking at a man or a male body. One said that s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Do women really rarely orgasm with men? Even with ones they feel highly attracted to.I’m healthy, I checked with multiple doctors. My hormones are fine. I never felt „primal attraction” towards anyone in my life. But I do think he is attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Why do heterosexual women often have problems with not wanting to have sex?I know that the only function of clitoris is pleasure. But the point is that clit is not stimulated during penetration. And masturbation during penetration is the last thing I want to do because men don’t have to use their hands to orgasm during sex, they can enjoy the main thing. If he orgasms thanks to my body then I want to orgasm thanks to his body, but that’s simply not possible. Sex is easier and better for men, so that’s why I don’t enjoy it. It’s simply unfair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 03:54 PM |
| 7 | Why do heterosexual women often have problems with not wanting to have sex?Most people don’t go to bed with a partner to masturbate. And even if some men masturbate with their partner, it’s not the default way to have sex. The main event during sex is penetration. Men wouldn’t be happy if they had to use their hands every time instead of orgasming from sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 01:43 PM |
| 7 | Why do heterosexual women often have problems with not wanting to have sex?Maybe. But it explains why may women don’t want that much sex. Men wouldn’t want it either if they had to ise their hands to orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Why do heterosexual women often have problems with not wanting to have sex?I did want to change it, we tried evry positon that was suppoused to focus on woman’s pleasure. The didn’t work. I know tha clit is the source for women’s pleasure but penis and penetration don’t provide that. And I refuse to please myself during sex if me don’t have to please themselves. In general I think that sex is for men, otherwise women’s pleasure would be the center of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 07:42 AM |
| 7 | Why do heterosexual women often have problems with not wanting to have sex?Then what’s the point of sex if I have to please myself? That’s exactly why I don’t enjoy sex, because penetration doesn’t please me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 07:30 AM |
| 4 | Do women really rarely orgasm with men? Even with ones they feel highly attracted to.I don’t masturbate, and I also slept with only one man (my husband) and I never orgasmed during sex. Penetration provides zero pleasure to me and I don’t have death grip. Not haing any comparision doesn’t change anything either. Many women don’t orgasm during sex. It’s quite normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 07:21 AM |
| 12 | Do women really rarely orgasm with men? Even with ones they feel highly attracted to.I never gelt aroused from just looking at a man, doesn’t matter if it’s an actor or regular dude on the street. So at least in my case I don’t think attraction matters when it comes to orgasm. I also never had an orgasm during sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Why do heterosexual women often have problems with not wanting to have sex?Yes, to be honest that’s what I expected from sex. I don’t do oral because I never liked the idea of it. I don’t touch my clit because I don’t want to masturbate during sex while he can just enjoy what we do together. He tries to touch it but it’s hard to do it for him while he penetrates so I don’t enjoy it to be honest. I just think that sex is better for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Why do heterosexual women often have problems with not wanting to have sex?I don’t really masturbate. I don’t orgasm from foreplay because I don’t do oral sex. So foreplay is kissing, massages etc. I would rather orgasm during actual sex, I don’t like the idea of orgasming before everything starts. I always imagined that I would get pleasure from actual sex to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Why do heterosexual women often have problems with not wanting to have sex?I couldn’t know what sex was like because I had it, could I? I thought that it would be pleasurable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Why do heterosexual women often have problems with not wanting to have sex?I don’t, I never did. But I’m not the only one, many women don’t orgasm during sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 11:38 AM |
| 15 | Why do heterosexual women often have problems with not wanting to have sex?Because sex isn’t really pleasurable for me and for many women. I never felt anything like my husband feels when we do it. It’s not fun. I could do it just for him from time to time but men want sex more often than once a couple of months. And in that case it’a hard to enjoy giving because it’s beomes a chore. If I orgasmed durng sex and felt pleasure during it then I would want it too. But that’s not the case. Men enjoy sex more and it’s easier for them to acheive pleasure. So why would I want … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 04:07 PM |
| 1 | There will never be a solution to stoping men cold approaching women. Because certain people of a gender demographic suffer from cognitive dissonance.It would be awkward and he already destroyed my me time and my mood. I felt awkward, it’s not a nice feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 04:45 AM |
| 0 | There will never be a solution to stoping men cold approaching women. Because certain people of a gender demographic suffer from cognitive dissonance.I wasn’t afraod that he would hurt me. It was just awkward. If I stayed there I would have to seat there awkardly finishing my coffee and I wouldn’t be able to read my book, because he would still be there after embarassing situation. He destoyed my me time anyway. Being cold approached makes me feel awkward and embarassed. It’s not the same as beng asked for direction on the street. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 02:18 PM |
| 5 | There will never be a solution to stoping men cold approaching women. Because certain people of a gender demographic suffer from cognitive dissonance.Not every woman is the same. I hate being cold approached, it stresses me out. I usally pretend to be interested, give my number and then ghoast the guy as soon as he texts me. Once I was having a lovely me time at a cafe and some guy approached me. I had to stop drinking my coffee, pretended that I wanted to go for a walk with him and then jumped on the bus as soon as it appeard on the bus station. And I’m married, I still feel too stressed and awkward when it happens. My husband knows and laug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 07:47 AM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menWhat people? Men? A really large number of women don’t orgasm from penetration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 12:33 PM |
| – | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menSex isn’t that pleasurable for many people, especially women. I can list a thousand of things that are more pleasurable than penetration. Current system allows people to do other things as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 12:16 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill advice for women is lameI never desired a man. Or a woman. I don’t get aroused from looking at a penis or male body in general. I didn’t know that people could feel like this about other people until I read some threads on reddit not that long time ago. And I’m married. I don’t understand how seeing a penis should make me horny because it simply never happened to me. Watching men in porn dosn’t arouse me either. O checked my hormones multiple times. Everything is in perfect norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you hate being a woman/wish you were a man?Yes, I hate being a woman. I hate periods and I hate the fact that If I want to have a child I have to give birth, breastfeed and sacrifice much more tha my husband. I also hate that treating wome as second class citizens is the default for societies and it really destroys me. I hate the fact sex is much better and easier for men. My husband orgasms every time and I never had to learn how to please him, it was that easy. I never had an orgasm during and I would have to use toys or masturbate dur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?I mean, he can do whatever he wants. I’m just asking what’s the difference between a woma who did things before and refuses to do them now and me, who never did any of these acts. My husband also doesn’t get these things from me. Should he question my love to him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?If she didn’t think it was degrading but didn’t like the things she tried before then it’s understandable that she doesn’t want to try them again with him. And why does it matter if she did or didn’t try it before? I will never agree on anal sex, or oral sex, or outside sex or many other kinds of sex. Why is it acceptable for me to refuse these things, but not for a woman who tried them before? The result is the same. He doesn’t get things that presumbly his friends get. Or other me in general. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?Some of us just aren’t into kinks. I never slept around, I only had sex with my husband. I will never, ever try anything related to anal sex, I won’t do oral sex and I will never agree on anything rough, no porn sex etc. I would never do it for anyone, I just don’t want to even try thse kind of things. It’s not settling. I don’t expect him to degrade himself for me either. I love him but loving a man doesn’t mean that I hae to degrade myself or put myself in pain for his orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 09:56 AM |
| 0 | Why male and female heterosexuality are so different?But she is right. I don’t watch porn because it’s obviously for men’s pleasure and it’s their fantasy. Especially if it’s a woman moaning from pleasure while giving blowjobs or being penetrated while a man stays silent. It’s impossible for me to belive the the woman actually orgasms in this situation. So why would I watch it? It doesn’t matter if it’s a straight couple if what they do doesn’t cater to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 11:48 AM |
| – | Women gaslight men into using sex toys, while shaming male porn usageI don’t use toys and I never had an orgasm during sex. Not using a vibrator doesn’t mame penis suddenly feel good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 08:59 PM |
| 1 | "Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real?He tried but the angles in most positions makes it hard or impossible for him to do it right and keep his tempo. He tried different angles in different positions, it didn’t work. And I don’t want to masturbate during sex because then what’s the point of sex? He doesn’t have to masturbate to feel good when we are together either. Holding a vibrator or touching myself wouldn’t make the problem disappear. I don’t want oral, I don’t do it for him either so it wouldn’t be ok to expect it from him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 09:25 PM |
| 1 | "Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real?Even if I orgasm on my own it will not change the situation. He wouldn’t be able to recreate it with his penis during sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 07:27 PM |
| 2 | "Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real?I was taught that sex was something beautiful in marriage, I don’t have trauma. I never felt any shame either. It just isn’t pleasurable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 06:25 PM |
| 2 | "Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real?We’ve been married 10 years, we tried every position. And he can’t stimulate my clit during penetration. Sometimes sex will be always bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Can we stop shaming men for having a 99% physical attraction "trigger"? It's not "shallow," it's biologicalI did many, may times. I have a brother, I work with men. I’ve heard it may, many times. Growing up with my brother and his friends made belive that me hate wome in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 02:27 PM |
| 3 | "Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real?I also waited till marriage and I never enjoyed sex once, never orgasmed during it. And my husband is also very caring, he would try anything. And we also have a deep relationship. And sex still sucks. So it’s not a rule. At this point I wish my body wasn’t „tha sacred”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 07:58 AM |
| 3 | "Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real?I got married as a virgin and while I love my husband there is zero satisfaction in our sex life. Waiting didn’t save us from it. Many of my friends waited too and bad sex is an inside joke at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 07:53 AM |
| 1 | "Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real?I only slept with my husband, I waited till marriage. I never enjoyed sex and sometimes, when I feel really down about it, I do wonder If I made a mistake because maybe there would be someone out there who would make it good. But in general I doubt it. I have friends who don’t enjoy sex or who think that sex is nothing special, so if so many women in my life don’t hesitate to say it actually sucks, then I don’t think that I would orgasm if I slept around. I can’t imagine enjoying sex, I don’t th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 07:25 AM |
| – | PIV sex doesn’t get you arousedBecause I don’t want to lay there while he fingers me, I don’t find this sexy at all. And I still would know that in a moment I would have penetration anyway. And penetration still wouldn’t be pleasurable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 01:18 PM |
| – | PIV sex doesn’t get you arousedI never said that all women don’t orgasm from penetration alone. But most need something additional which often means having to masturbate. And this alone for me sucks and this is why I think that sex is for men in general. And women often need to learn and explore while men ca orgasm from the beginning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 12:08 PM |
| – | PIV sex doesn’t get you arousedMajorty of wome orgasm thanks to themselves. And majorty of wome have to learn how to orgasm and many women never orgasm with a partner. Sex is better and easier for men. It’s not men’s fault but it’s the truth. Men orgasm from the main sexual event easily without having to masturbate. If I have to masturbate to orgasm the. My experience is obviously worse than his. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 11:57 AM |
| – | PIV sex doesn’t get you arousedNo it’s not. Majority of women have to teach their partners how to mae them orgasm, har to masturbate during sex or have to orgasm during foreplay. Or need a very specific position while me orgasm in pretty muc every possible configuration. It’s easier to please penis than vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 11:52 AM |
| – | PIV sex doesn’t get you arousedIt’s not. Men get pleasure easily, every positinon makes them orgasm, they don’t need to masturbate during sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 11:39 AM |
| – | PIV sex doesn’t get you arousedSex is something I do for him then, and I don’t lie to myself that it’s equal for us if he gets pleasure thaks to me but I have to please myself. I can’t enjoy myself if I’m angry that it’s not fair and that his pleasure is easier and better. So I prefer to just do it as a gift for him. And for me clit stimulation doesn’t make penetration feel better. It make me feel better in general but penis in vagina still feels like penis in vagina, which is nothing special. The feeling of penetration itsel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 11:36 AM |
| – | PIV sex doesn’t get you arousedNope, it really isn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 11:30 AM |
| – | PIV sex doesn’t get you arousedHe can’t do it with his penis and it’s hard for him to do it correctly with his hand in most positions. And I will not masturbate during sex because what’s the point of sex if I have to please him AND myself? Plus it still wouldn’t make penetration better, I still would orgasm from my had, not thanks to penis. So penetration still would be useless and me doing it by myself would just be coping. My pleasure would hae nothing to do with sex still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 11:11 AM |
| – | PIV sex doesn’t get you arousedI mean that masturbation woludn’t make sex better, not that I would masturbate by penetrating myself. I could masturbate daily and sex still wouldn’t be pleasurable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 10:52 AM |
| – | PIV sex doesn’t get you arousedI never slept with other men but I doubt that it would be different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 10:25 AM |
| – | PIV sex doesn’t get you arousedHow? I didn’t masturbate in ten ten years and when I did I only used fingers for a moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 10:14 AM |
| – | PIV sex doesn’t get you arousedNot anymore. I never really try that too after being a teenager but it wouldn’t change anything. Penetration wouldn’t feel better if I masturbated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 09:59 AM |
| – | PIV sex doesn’t get you arousedYeah, men get much more from sex then women. Penetration feels like nothing special to me, it’s as insignificant as stroking my arm. But my husband enjoys it a lot and orgasms while I never experienced anything like that. That’s one of the reasons I don’t watch porn. I will never take any video seriously where a woman moans and a man doesn’t when I know for a fact that it it was real, he would enjoy it much more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 09:40 AM |
| 1 | The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness.Sex is penetration. Nobody wants to lay there andbe fingered after everything is over. It sounds awful. Not everyone wants oral sex. I don’t give my husband blowjobs and I don’t want ti be eaten out. And in general I actually think that sex is for men because they enjoy it much more than women. So I’m ust saying that sex is pointless for me, it’s mosly a favour for men unless someone wants a child or like additional things like oral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 06:53 AM |
| 1 | The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness.If I ride him he orgasms. But I don’t. If he penetrates me, he orgasms. But I don’t. He orgasms using my body. So why would I have sex if I can’t orgasm usng his body? What’s the point od sex if I have to please myself anyway while he can just enjoy what we do together? Men aren’t expected to masturbate to orgasm during sex. So should women have to so it? What’s the point of a man in this case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 06:28 AM |
| 2 | The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness.Then what’s the point of sex if I have to please myself anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 10:56 PM |
| 5 | Ladies: Do PiV orgasms feel more intense or emotionally connecting than clitoral orgasms?We’ve been married for 11 years. We are very close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:22 PM |
| 7 | Ladies: Do PiV orgasms feel more intense or emotionally connecting than clitoral orgasms?I only slept with my husband and I for me sex isn’t connecting at all, there is nothing special about it. I never had an orgasm, I don’t enjoy sex and we still have a great bond. Jumping on a dick is the least special and pair bonding thing I can think of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 09:03 PM |
| 0 | Why do women advice men that if they want a great sex life, they should marry a promiscuous woman? Why does a man need to MARRY a promiscuous woman to benefit from her sexual experience and high libido?No, I don’t let him do oral on me because I wouldn’t want to recoprocate. Also, I’m just not interested in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 12:50 AM |
| 11 | Why do women advice men that if they want a great sex life, they should marry a promiscuous woman? Why does a man need to MARRY a promiscuous woman to benefit from her sexual experience and high libido?I was a virgin when I got married and I also just lay there! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 04:11 PM |
| 9 | Why do women advice men that if they want a great sex life, they should marry a promiscuous woman? Why does a man need to MARRY a promiscuous woman to benefit from her sexual experience and high libido?This doesn’t have to be the case. I was a virgin when I got married. I refuse to try kinks and one of the reasons I waited was me hoping that I would not have to do some things in bed (in a sense that I wouldn’t have to suck a penis and so on). My husband definitely doesn’t have porn-star sex with me and he never will, there is zero will in me do act like that. On the other hand some of my friends who had a many partners told me that they pity my husbad and that I should try this or that in bed,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves.That’s just one of my interests. It allowed me to get insights into, for example, pre war Finland from the source (old magazines and documents), daily life of women of XIXth century Poland and many more intersting things. It’s definitely more intersting than, for example, cars or watching footbal games. You don’t have to like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 01:58 PM |
| 5 | CMV: There's nothing for women in traditionalismI agree. EverytI heard about traditional roles sounds limiting and suffocating. What about my hobbies? My interests? My aspirations? I do love the fact that I don’t have to submit. That I also get to come home to a meal cooked by my husband or that I get to do the things that interest me without worrying if they are feminine enough (I saw some awful posts of redpill women that made me thankfull for being a feminist even more). I live in a partnership, we bith give a 100%. I get to fulfill my asp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves.I produce music, design my own game and collect cool things. For the last thing I created a whole community where we share and talk about it, we regularly meet and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 10:10 AM |
| 11 | Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves.Pretty much all of the women I know work on themselves and have cool hobbies. Including me. The most interesting people I know are also women. We are ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 07:55 AM |
| 8 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.Ok, and most of my married friends are unhappy, some got divorced soon after having kids. I’m married and we are quite ok but we have problems and I don’t think I make my husband happy. And I’m not enjoying myself either. Relationships don’t guarantee happines. My friends struggle, my brother is an awful husband, my dad was an awful husband and same with both of my grandparents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 05:27 PM |
| – | Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex.I’m not asexual but I agree that sex is gross in general. Most sex acts just look ugly and many are degrading and unhygenic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 06:12 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.I don’t have medical issues, I checked. My hormones are also fine. I trued masturbating when I was a teen but I didn’t orgasm and using my hand didn’t seem sexy, so no, I don’t masturbate. I do jave vibrators but they make me numb really fast, I don’t like them. It’s nor just me. Many women don’t orgasm from sex. It would be ok if it happened from time to time. But for many if us every sex is without orgasms. And yes, penetration isn’t that pleasurable, there is nothing special about the way it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.I have. I said that most men in general orgasm from sex and even if they don’t penetration feels better for them. Penetration is nicer for penises than it is for vaginas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 05:36 PM |
| 2 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.Most men can orgasm from sex and expect to orgasm. And even if they don’t orgasm men in general get more pleasure from penetration than women without having to use their hands or toys. Men get a lot of pleasure from the actual act in general. I never had to learn how tonplease my husband. He orgasmed the first time I tried and I was a virgin, it was that easy. And I never orgasmed or never felt actual pleasure during sex. And it’s similar to many women I talked to. Do you know what’s the most co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 04:39 PM |
| 2 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.Of course it is about orgasms. Men wouldn’t want sex if they never orgasmed from it. Jumping on a dick doesn’t give me any benefits or great feelings. I don’t get „mental high” from it. If there is no orgasm then what’s the point? I’m notvthat altruistic to only be satisfied with his enjoyment. Not if it’s suppoused to happen more than once a month. Men wouldn’t want to have sex if sex meant holding a vibrator for her without getting anything in return. Mental satisfaction wouldn’t be enough if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 11:06 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.I had it the other way when I and some of my friends confessed during women’s group meeting that we don’t enjoy sex. I heard that It was my fault, that they pity my husband, that I should just please myself during sex and if I refuse I’m an awful wife. In general, on different forums, women who enjoy sex accused me of being cold, boring or an awful partner. Telling them that I don’t like oral sex felt like admitting to commiting a murder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 10:59 AM |
| 3 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.Sex is about orgasms. Men wouldn’t want to have sex if they never orgasmed from it, or if they had use their hands every time to make themselves feel good. Orgasms are required to enjoy sex. That’s what sex is suppoused to be for, pleasure (and procreation). Toys are unnacceptable for me because what’s the point of sex if I have to please myself anyway? He doesn’t have to, so why would I? It would be only ok if he had to use toys or his hands every time as well. For many women sex is something m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 10:41 AM |
| 3 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.Sex is better for men. It is what it is. I never had an orgasm. It’s the same for many of my friends. We bery often discuss how much we don’t want tosex because sex is a chore. My husband definitely enjoys sex much more that I do. I’m in many groups for people who can’t orgasm. 99% participants are women. Many women actually don’t enjoy sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 10:19 AM |
| 3 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.That’s fine. Sex is better for men and in general men are build better for orgasms. So it makes sense that they do more, they Also benefit more from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to itSo how is bad sex better than no sex? What does bad sex provide that makes it better than having it at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it?No, I’ve never seen him doing any of these things. And sex was supposed to be providing pleasure. If I have to please myself then sex is pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 08:43 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it?I never said I don’t put any effort. I do things to please my husband, I don’t expect him to masturbate during sex. So why would I masturbate? What’s the point of sex if I have to do it by myself anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 06:23 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it?So what’s the point of sex if I have to masturbate to feel good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 06:27 AM |
| 15 | Titanic is not a romantic movie, it's a movie bout a 304.If she is forced to be with him then obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 11:55 AM |
| 1 | When you think women’s lives revolve around men, you’re projecting. Here is why.Most women don’t resd trashy books. Many, but not most. Yes, I have friends. Who think like me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you resent being "at the mercy of your employer?" Or serving a "corporate overlord?"I don’t. The only thing I know about my great grandfather is that he was abusive so I refused to even acknowledge him and as a kid I destroyed the only picture we had of him. I don’t know anything about the rest of my family from that generation and I don’t care, I don’t even know their names. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:02 AM |
| 5 | Do you resent being "at the mercy of your employer?" Or serving a "corporate overlord?"Acheivements or respect are also important to me and I’m a woman. It’s not only male thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 07:50 AM |
| 1 | When you think women’s lives revolve around men, you’re projecting. Here is why.By good literature I didn’t mean trashy romances aimed at women. Yes, many women read shity romance books. I didn’t say it wasn’t true. Just like many men watch porn and watch trashy movies. But many don’t. Many women have valuable interests. Just because there are women, including your wive, who read mind numbing trash it doesn’t mean that all women do. There are many women who actively advocate against books like this. I’m one of them. And yes, there is something wrong with watching reality tv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 07:37 AM |
| 8 | When you think women’s lives revolve around men, you’re projecting. Here is why.And many women don’t read and don’t watch trash. I never read those trashy books and don’t watch trashy tv, don’t watch porn. Same with pretty much every woman I know. A lot of women actively criticize these books, there are whole youtube channels run by female creators and forums dedicated to trashing these awful books that your wife reads and writes, and promoting good literature instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:28 PM |
| – | Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ?I mean, for me a person who is „mid” is someone who for me, personally is not really attractive. So he must be less attractive than other men TO ME. In my opinion, he is even less than mid. I don’t care about any objective ratings, if there are any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 02:46 PM |
| – | Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ?Because people have different tastes. In my opinion Pedro Pascal has a really ugly face. Please ther women may think that his face is beautiful. It’s subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 01:17 PM |
| 0 | Women do not like sex (not as men understand sex)No, sex just isn’t really pleasurable for many of us. I enjoy good food or video games even when I had a bad day. I don’t enjoy sex even when I have a good day because it’s not pleasurable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is a net harm to women and women are better off decentering men or entering relationships with each other.It’s not that easy, especially in doggy style. It’s just not the right pressure and angle, and it’s hard to do it right and keep correct tempo during penetration. I don’t enjoy it. It just doesn’t work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is a net harm to women and women are better off decentering men or entering relationships with each other.It’s hard to do it in most positions in a way that feels okay. Most angles don’t allow it or make it really hard. And there is tempo etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 08:32 PM |
| 5 | Male sexuality is a net harm to women and women are better off decentering men or entering relationships with each other.Well, I haven’t. But it’s common. Most women don’t orgasm from penetration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 08:34 AM |
| 5 | Male sexuality is a net harm to women and women are better off decentering men or entering relationships with each other.I’m married. And my husband would love to give me oral but I don’t want to have oral sex, and it still wouldn’t be a solution. I would still be orgasming just from oral while he would enjoy the main event in every position. It would be similar to saying „oh, just use toy before”. Doing additional stuff is not a solution. The point is that men enjoy the main thing without any problems or experiments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 07:21 AM |
| 7 | Male sexuality is a net harm to women and women are better off decentering men or entering relationships with each other.Men don’t have to spend as much time as women do. For men itd easy. And they don’t need to use their hands to orgasm during sex, just like many women are told to do. Sex is for men. Sex is easier and better for men. It’s not men’s fault but that’s the truth. I get nothing from penetration, I never had an orgasm and the advice I was given was to use toys or touch myself. Like how is this a solution? I just refuse to do it and to pretend that doing everything by myself is a good solution. Men don’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 07:06 AM |
| 6 | Male sexuality is a net harm to women and women are better off decentering men or entering relationships with each other.You kind of agreed with the OP Men don’t need to learn how to orgasm. And they don’t need to teach others how to make them orgasms. They will enjoy every position. I never had to ask my husband how to make him cum and I was a virgin. It’s so easy that with zero experience I managed to do it. On the other hand I never had an orgasm. No position works. I would have to soend a litnof times figuring it out and then pretending that it’s as good as what men get. Not worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:39 AM |
| 3 | Male sexuality is a net harm to women and women are better off decentering men or entering relationships with each other.It’s in general better for them. They don’t need to experiment to orgasm. They don’t need to stimulate themselves with hands to orgasm during sex, they can enjoy pretty much every position. They don’t lie to themselves that masturbation during sex is as good as what the other partner gets. Sex is for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Male sexuality is a net harm to women and women are better off decentering men or entering relationships with each other.But sex is better and easier for men. Most sex acts are better for men and men don’t need to experiment to orgasm. She has a point here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Accountability and MenOf course they should. I support my country is n not letting them in because of belives and behaviour of many of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Sexual frustration seems to have very different meanings depending on whether it’s men or women talking about itWhat I meant was that sex without orgasm is pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 06:40 AM |
| 3 | Sexual frustration seems to have very different meanings depending on whether it’s men or women talking about itSo why have sex if not for orgasms? And don’t say connection because there are better ways of connecting with my husband than jumping on his dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Wife told me she prefers chocolate to sex. Is this a common experience with women?Well, yes. Because sex isn’t pleasurable. I don’t have a feeling of dislike towards sex, it just doesn’t provide what I was told it would. So it makes sense to prefere something more pleasurable over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Wife told me she prefers chocolate to sex. Is this a common experience with women?I did want to have sex before I tried it so I don’t think so. Sex just isn’t pleasurable but it doesn’t mean I didn’t have needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Wife told me she prefers chocolate to sex. Is this a common experience with women?I don’t know what that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 08:06 AM |
| 3 | Wife told me she prefers chocolate to sex. Is this a common experience with women?It’s doesn’t have to be the truth. For example I didn’t know I wouldn’t enjoy sex before I got married. I thought it would be pleasurable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 08:33 PM |
| 6 | Wife told me she prefers chocolate to sex. Is this a common experience with women?Yeah, kind of. Chocolate always tastes good. Sex never felt good to me. So yeah, I also prefer chocolate. I still have sex because I’m married but it’s not a treat or something I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 08:24 PM |
| 1 | I think men project their desires onto women, and that's why some of them are jealous of women's ability to get sexAnd there are plenty of women who don’t. Many women don’t orgasm from penetration. So sex sucks for many of us. I just refuse to lie that intimacy or closeness are enough of a reason to enjoy it. Another man would not make any difference. It still would be penis in vagina no matter what, unless he changes completely biology. So yeah, I definitely can bash sex. Especially since it’s better for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 04:54 PM |
| 2 | I think men project their desires onto women, and that's why some of them are jealous of women's ability to get sexNo, I said that I have only been with one men. I’ve been havingesex for years, with him. So I jave many years if experience in having sex. So of course I can complain about sex as a concept. It sucks. It would suck with other men two. It’s still penis in vagina, kissing, touching and licking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 04:28 PM |
| 1 | I think men project their desires onto women, and that's why some of them are jealous of women's ability to get sexOf course I can. I still complain about lack of pleasure, I still say that sex sucks. I’ve been having sex for years now. Of course I can complain and say it sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 04:10 PM |
| 7 | I think men project their desires onto women, and that's why some of them are jealous of women's ability to get sexI never had casual sex and I also complain about those things. I don’t need to sleep with more than one man to think that sex sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 09:39 AM |
| 9 | Men try to solve the problem, women try to avoid blameSame for my father, my brother and a guy from my previous work who destroyed his keyboard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 09:31 PM |
| 13 | Men dont understand Sexual Attractiveness and Attractiveness is differentYep, confrontational men make me want to leave the place. I stopped talking to my brother because he is like that and my friend’s group kicked a guy like this out. I have no respect to men who aleays act like they are fighting with something, can’t have a normal conversation without turning it into a lecture and so on. I don’t have respect for them. I also cringe every time I see clips from fresh and fat or those other alpha idiots. They make me feel embarrased for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 06:35 AM |
| – | The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax.For me penetration does nothing, it’s just in and out feeling without any pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 09:05 PM |
| – | The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax.Pleasing myself is masturbation. If my pleasure comes from my hand than it has nothing to do with him, doesn’t matter if he is also there. Self pleasure = masturbation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 09:04 PM |
| – | The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax.I don’t even know what pink pill is, I chose it because it seemed better than red pill. Masturbation is self pleasuring. So if I give myself pleasure then I’m the author of my pleasure, it has nothing to do with him. If my finger gives me orgasm then it doesn’t matter that penis is there. Just having a dick inside doesn’t make the whole experience better. No one expects men to jerk of during sex. So why would I? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 07:44 PM |
| – | The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax.Because it isn’t worth it. If I’m the one who gives me pleasure then what’s the point of a partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 06:34 PM |
| – | The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax.What’s the point of sex if I have to do it on my own? The idea that I would have to masturbate to orgasm destroys the whole concept for me. I don’t expect my husband to jerk off to finish, so why would I? It makes sex pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 02:15 PM |
| – | The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax.I can, there is not a single position I tried that made it comfortable for me to use hands. Plus I hate the idea of having to do it on my own. If he is using my body to orgasm then it’s only fair if I’m using his body. I don’t see anything sexy about being the only one who is used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 01:29 PM |
| – | The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax.Then what’s the point of sex if I have to pleade myself anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have unconditional love.Please, men wouldn’t stick around if they didn’t get sex. When I said that I don’t enjoy sex men gathered to tell me that they hope my husband will leave me and that they would never stick around. The fact that I said that my marriage is happy, that we laugh a lot and love each other’s company, and never argue didn’t matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Motherhood is disrespected from both the left and the right — no wonder women are having fewer kidsNo it doesn’t. If it did they wouldn’t say that men earned their rights and freedom and women got it for free. They wouldn’t say that men built civilizations and women didn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 02:33 PM |
| 4 | Motherhood is disrespected from both the left and the right — no wonder women are having fewer kidsIf mothers are expected to submit to men and don’t get the dame voice or time for themselves as men get after they come back from work then they are not respected. And even if they were, it’s useless. If I’m not seen as a independent human and if I’m expected to submit and be obidient if I’m a traditional mother than this „respect” is trully worthless. If making money means I get to be my own person then of course I will value making money more. Obviously. The right doesn’t respect mothers. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 10:53 AM |
| 7 | Motherhood is disrespected from both the left and the right — no wonder women are having fewer kidsThe right doesn’t respect motherhood. The right tells mothers that they need to submit to their men and that men should make final decisions because men work hard. They don’t see giving birth and creating a human as something worth of high respect and freedom and they never did. Traditional societies see women as lesser beings than men and always did. We know this from literature, surveys conducted among people, religions, documents and so on. We also know this because in today’s world we still … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Most Marriages Need Systematic Cultural, Societal and Economic Constraints to SurviveIt’s better than being in a shitty relationship. It’s better than being with a man who doesn’t remember about birthdays, refuses to take care of kids regularly and expects blowjobs when his partner is on her period. It’s better to be alone than being with a man like my father, brother, most of my husband’s friends or any man from my job. It’s better to be alone than be with a man who calls women bitches. Or with a man like Myron from fresh and fit. Or with a man who watches red pill podcasts and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Women should stop having sex for freeForeplay is not sex. And I can’t tell him what I like because I’m not a man, I don’t know how to penetrate to make it good. And I don’t want to have oral sex. I shouldn’t have to do additional stuff to enjoy sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Women should stop having sex for freeI’m not a man, I can’t tell him how to penetrate. I’m married, completely not having sex with your spouse is not a real option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 08:42 PM |
| 0 | Women should stop having sex for freeI would like sex if I orgasmed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Women should stop having sex for freeWell, if it isn’t pleasurable than it sucks. I get a lot of intimacy and closeness but it doesn’t make it pleasurable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Women should stop having sex for freeI don’t agree that women should become sex workers but I also think that „sex for physical contact” is bullshit. I never had an orgasm. Intimacy and closeness don’t make sex worth it, no orgasm means that sex sucks, at least in my case but also in case of many women I talk to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Men live life on easy modeWomen need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Dick in vagina doesn’t do that. It’s not my fault. Most people know and understand that penetration is mostly for men. Only here I have men saying that in general women orgasm from penetration. The rest don’t agree with you. I wish orgasming from penetration was the main way to get pleasure. But it isn’t. So sex is for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Men live life on easy modeFor me there is no point in sex if there is no orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 05:22 AM |
| 0 | Men live life on easy modeIt is what it is. Most women don’t orgasm from sex. It will never happen to me an many other women no matter what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Men live life on easy modeNot really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 09:13 PM |
| 0 | Men live life on easy modeSure, because it’s better to not have sex than have unpleasurable sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Men live life on easy modeIt’s only 20%. Most women don’t orgasm from penetration. And many women say that penetration feels like nothing. Including me. For me there is nothing special about sex. If I wasn’t married I wouldn’t have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Men live life on easy modeOrgasms are much easier for men. Sex is for men. Many women are just unable to orgasm. It’s better to not have sex than have unpleasurable sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Men live life on easy modeNo, having sex and not having an orgasm sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 07:58 AM |
| 7 | Why is it becoming common for people to post fake ai photos of sad lonely older women?My mother cried that her life was over many times after my dad’s another shitty tantums. She is married and deeply miserable while my father doesn’t give a shit. I’ve never seen her happy in my life. Many if my friends are miserable in theri marriages and are on therapy or planning to escape. I got married at 20. It’s not happiness and fullfilment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 06:16 PM |
| 11 | Why is it becoming common for people to post fake ai photos of sad lonely older women?And if they settled down early they still could end up with the kind of men I mentioned. My mother settled down early. Same with my grandmothers and many if my friends. I settled down as a virgin at 20. It doesn’t make us happy, my mother lost her life, my friends are trying to live again after divorces or are stucked with me. Who expect blowjobs on their period and don’t allow them to go out without kids. Settling down early is not a magical way to have a proper partner. There is not enough men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 05:28 PM |
| 6 | Why is it becoming common for people to post fake ai photos of sad lonely older women?It makes sense that if they can’t be with the kind of men they want then it makes sense that they stay single over partering with men they can get but don’t want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 05:16 PM |
| 16 | Why is it becoming common for people to post fake ai photos of sad lonely older women?Being alone is better than being in a bad relationship. Being alone is better than being in a relationship with a man who doesn’t remember about birthdays, thinks that his time and rest is more important than his wive’s, thinks that doing anything with his wife is torture, or expects regular blowjobs. It’s better to be alone than to be with a man who thinks that he deserves rest more than his wives who is taking care of a baby. It’s better to be alone than to be with a man like my father, both m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 10:13 AM |
| 3 | Women, how old are you and what is your preferred age range when dating?I’m 31, my husband is 31 as well. I wouldn’t want anyone older than 5 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 08:56 AM |
| 0 | Are you actually sex-negative or positive?I think that all kinks are wird, not all of them are bad. But most are bad. Every kink with pain, degradation and so on is sick in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 08:54 AM |
| 0 | Are you actually sex-negative or positive?I don’t think that sex is bad so I guess sex positive? But I do think that most kinks are bad, I will never try anal sex or rough sex or stuff like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 06:32 AM |
| 13 | Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men?Yep, I tried watching porn. It was disgusting and awkward to me, there is nothing appealing about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 08:12 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who subscribe to RPW philosophy: do you fear your husband will eventually just leave you for a younger woman?Men call women prudes or not-wife materials if they refuse oral sex. Men definitely call vanilla sex bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 07:57 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who subscribe to RPW philosophy: do you fear your husband will eventually just leave you for a younger woman?Usually fun sex = non vanilla sex for people. Which means kinks. Kinks are mostly painful or degrading . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 07:41 AM |
| 5 | For those of you who subscribe to RPW philosophy: do you fear your husband will eventually just leave you for a younger woman?Women are already told to be private sluts for their and engage in painful things and if they don’t want to do that they are prudes. That’s why I didn’t find it funny. It’s ok to have normal sex. Men orgasm anyway, unlike women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who subscribe to RPW philosophy: do you fear your husband will eventually just leave you for a younger woman?My comment referred to your last sentence about „sloppy oral”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 04:28 AM |
| 6 | For those of you who subscribe to RPW philosophy: do you fear your husband will eventually just leave you for a younger woman?The idea of doing degrading and painful things in bed only so my husband doesn’t leave me doesn’t sound appealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Saying "Don't worry, you still have plenty of time for kids" to women who are like 35 is bad adviceMy parents had me in their forties and I never onced thought about wanting younger parents. It never crossed my mind, ever. I had no idea how old my friend’s parents were either, nobody really talked about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Inter-sex Resentment Is Caused (at least in part) By How Both Sexes Have Irrational/Contradictory Desires For The OtherI don’t have be poisoned by anything to not find sex pleasurable. And there is nothing to teach, it’s still penis in vagina. Nothing special and not mich room for change. I’m not going to engage in fetishes or anything like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 12:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Inter-sex Resentment Is Caused (at least in part) By How Both Sexes Have Irrational/Contradictory Desires For The OtherMost of my friends waited till marriage. We often joke about how bad sex is. You know how many times we orgasmed? Zero. I never said that another guy would be better. I’m saying that waiting with sex doesn’t make it more pleasurable or interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 07:58 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Inter-sex Resentment Is Caused (at least in part) By How Both Sexes Have Irrational/Contradictory Desires For The OtherI got married as a virgin. Sex isn’t more special or pleasurable to me because of that. I still don’t enjoy it. It doesn’t matter that I can’t compare it to anything. I’m not happier just because I don’t have past experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 05:46 PM |
| 1 | how much internalized shame do you think you experienced from purity, sexual, and ect expectations?I didn’t have sex until I got married. I didn’t wven consider doing it before because I thought it would destroy my life. I wasn’t told that sex is bad tho, I never felt ashamed. I was told my whole live that sex is something beautiful and pleaurable in marriage, that it’s good. Bullshit. My first view times made me schocked that it wasn’t good at all. And then also I still had to do it because I was married. I don’t enjoy sex. I never felt pleasure from it. I’m not sure if those things are rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 02:13 PM |
| – | The Orgasm Gap: A Double-Edged Sword for MenNo I can’t. That’s why I think that sex is for men and when I do it I do it for my husband. Penetration gives me nothing. I’m not going to pretend like masturbation suddenly makes sex good. If I orgasmed from using my hand then my orgasm would have nothing to do with my husband anyway. So it still wouldn’t be fair. If I ride him he orgasms. If he fucks me I don’t orgasm. Me masturbating to orgasm would be only fair if he had to use his own hands to cum as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 01:01 PM |
| – | The Orgasm Gap: A Double-Edged Sword for MenI am touching and stimulating him. I’m riding him, touching him, his orgasm is my responsibility. No, I’m not stimulating myself. I don’t like the idea of pleasing him AND myself. And I don’t like masturbation anyway. If I have to masturbate to orgasm during sex then my pleasure has NOTHING to do with my husband. It’s obvious. I do think that sex is more for men. And me pleasing myself wouldn’t change that. Penetration still wouldn’t be pleasurable even if I orgasmed from my finger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:47 PM |
| – | The Orgasm Gap: A Double-Edged Sword for MenIf I have to please myself during sex then sex is pointless unless we agree that sex is a chore that I do to please my husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:29 PM |
| – | The Orgasm Gap: A Double-Edged Sword for MenSo what’s the point of sex if I have to masturbate anyway? No one expects men to masturbate during sex. So why should I? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 10:25 AM |
| – | How do men view sex?Not everyone can orgasm with a partner. Or at all. I can’t. I’ve been married for 10 years, I never enjoyed myself during sex. He know that I don’t like it but telling him didn’t change anything. I still don’t enjoy it. I didn’t know it would be this way before I lost my virginity. Sex is for him and that’s the way it is. I wish it was different. There are other ways to pair bond. Focusing on sex can be harmful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 04:20 PM |
| – | How do men view sex?Nope, I’m right. Reddit men are damaged in the head (and obese). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 01:24 PM |
| – | How do men view sex?Mamy women don’t enjoy sex. Majority of women need to masturbate during sex to orgasm, they need clitoral stimulation. I just refuse to do that. Redddit is a bunch of obese, loser men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 01:18 PM |
| – | How do men view sex?I’m not broke, obese or depressed. Sex just isn’t pleasurable. And it’s not abnormal. Many women don’t orgasm. Sex is better for men. It’s ok to admit that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 01:16 PM |
| – | How do men view sex?No it’s not. Not for everyone. I never had an orgasm. Penetration doesn’t feel good, it’s neutral. So how could sex be one of the most pleasurable things in this case? Sex is great for you. For many people it isn’t. I can think of a houndret things that sre better than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 01:02 PM |
| – | How do men view sex?Nope, not really. It took me years to tell my husband that I didn’t enjoy sex. He had no idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 12:58 PM |
| – | How do men view sex?Yep, I’m similar. I waited to have sex and I was told that it’s something beautiful and pleasurable. Wrong. It’s not in my case. It’s just dick in and out, multiple times. At this point I can’t imagine how sex can be pleasurable for me. It is for my husband and I definitely could never enjoy it like he does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 12:57 PM |
| – | How do men view sex?So I’m similar to OP in a sense that sex doesn’t give me pleasure and I definitely don’t see sex as a way to be as close as possible. I feel more connected to my husband when we hug. Jumping on a dick is far from romantic and doesn’t give me any feeling of bonding or intimacy. Maube physically we are close but feelings around it aren’t that special. Hugging or just talking is much better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 12:54 PM |
| 4 | Seeing sex as a cold and objectifying thing is wrong. Sex is, in reality, the exact opposite of that.Well, I’m one of those people. In theory I’m interested. But when it comes to actual sex it just isn’t pleasurable. So there is nothing to like about it for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 12:39 PM |
| 1 | No matter how you shift the goalpost, getting satisfying sex is easier for women than it is for men.I would rather not do it but I’m married. Doing it doesn’t make me happy or satisfied. It makes me feel badly everytime I do it, not feeling pleasure from sex literally destroys my mood for couple of days. I feel better when I don’t do it. It’s just another chore, like washing dishes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 09:53 PM |
| 1 | No matter how you shift the goalpost, getting satisfying sex is easier for women than it is for men.I still have sex and it gets me zero sarisfaction. It’s just something you do. It doesn’t mean it’s good or valuable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 08:53 PM |
| 2 | What guys really wantI’m from Poland. The point is that it doesn’t lead to arousal. I see attractive men. I know they are attractive. But they don’t arouse me. Well, I don’t belive that most women get horny just from looking at a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:52 AM |
| 2 | What guys really wantBut no one is talking about surpressing sexuality. They just don’t get aroused from seeing a dick. All of them use or tried to use sex toys and they are open about it, all of them have sex and are also open about it. They just don’t get horny just from seing a male body. Or any body. They were surprised then I mentioned it, they didn’t understand why would I see it as a big deal. Even when I went to sexologist he didn’t see it as an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:28 AM |
| 2 | What guys really wantNone of them tries to act pure. We talk and share about many things that could be embarrasing. They were honest. I will belive them over men telling me that I should experience initial attraction or lust from seeing a male body. And why wouldn’t they be honest? Why would they share more intimate and embarassing things but not something insignificant like this? Saying that male bodies don’t arouse me isn’t embarassing to me or something I shouldn’t want to be honest about. It’s normal. I’m a woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 05:19 AM |
| 2 | What guys really wantI never met a woman who asked a man out. But I’m not american so maybe it’s just something you do. I would never ask a man out. It’s not normal here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 10:44 PM |
| 5 | What guys really wantIt’s not about crush. It’s about physical attraction, wanting to have sex. I did have crashes. But I never felt aroused or wanted sex from them. I got butterflies but no lust, no sexual thoughts. Same with my friends. I asked them about lust, wanting sex. Not liking someone. But also no, none of us ever asked a guy out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 10:30 PM |
| 3 | What guys really wantDefinitely not all of us. I never experienced it. Not even once. I didn’t know that it’s a thing until I started reading about it on reddit, mostly from red pill dudes. When I thought that there was something wrong with me and asked my friends if they experience it, all of them said no. Not a single one of them felt initial, raw attraction. They even agreed that in general naked bodies or bodies in general don’t turn them on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 10:21 PM |
| 6 | No matter how you shift the goalpost, getting satisfying sex is easier for women than it is for men.It’s not. I’ve never had an orgasm and that’s the reason I don’t like sex. Many women use sex to find a partner. Or they just have some issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Women wield a ton of access to sex. But, it's pointless to argue about it.The point of sex is to orgasm during sex, not from doing other things. I don’t like oral. And no one would expect him to require handjobs to finish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Women wield a ton of access to sex. But, it's pointless to argue about it.I’m not a man, I don’t know how to penetrate myself. I can’t tell him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Women wield a ton of access to sex. But, it's pointless to argue about it.The only reason I don’t want sex is because it isn’t pleasurable. If I orgasmed I would want it all the time. Massages are super pleasurable and I want them all the time. Them being easily available to me don’t make me want them any less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 01:10 PM |
| 1 | If feminism is targeted at true equality between men and women, why aren’t more western women targeting regressive societies?Poland isn’t perfect. It doesn’t mean that we should let misogynistic men in. It’s in my interest to have less sexist men in my country. Btw. Poland is much less conservative than people think. Being a submissive wife is not a thing here. Things that you listed are exactly why we don’t want these men here. You just proved my point, thank you. We are not submissive. Men aren’t our liders, men aren’t better, aren’t superior and don’t deserve to rule over us. That’s why we want less men who think l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 08:32 PM |
| 1 | If feminism is targeted at true equality between men and women, why aren’t more western women targeting regressive societies?Of course there are misogynystic cultures. If a culture puts men above women and gives them more freedom it’s misogynystic. Also islam is sexist as hell. I don’t care if women living there are ok with being second class citizens. It doesn’t make it ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 10:22 AM |
| 1 | If feminism is targeted at true equality between men and women, why aren’t more western women targeting regressive societies?No, I think that there is a big chance that men from misogynystic cultures will be misogynystic even when they come to Poland. And Middle East is mostly misogynistic. Well being of polish women > safety of sexist men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 09:43 AM |
| 3 | If feminism is targeted at true equality between men and women, why aren’t more western women targeting regressive societies?I focus on them. I don’t want immigration to my country from Middle East and Africa because I don’t want misogynystic men coming here. All of my friends are feminists. All of us supported our goverment when they didn’t let immigranta from Polish-Belarus border in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Since ageing is inevitable - why are women still being pushed to marry and have children young?I was a virgin when I got married. I still will not do most sex acts. I don’t watch movies that seem bad or boring. I will never watch fight club for this reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 05:20 AM |
| – | Why are some men hateful of women when other men are their biggest competitors?If my pleasure is my responsibility then what’s the point of sex if I have to do it alone anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Why are some men hateful of women when other men are their biggest competitors?If I was a man maybe I would agree. Pleasure would be granted. But as a woman I think it’s not worth it It’s better to not have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 06:04 PM |
| 0 | Why are some men hateful of women when other men are their biggest competitors?The probability of sex being bad is much greater than sex being good. At least for me, but I’m sire for other people as well. No pleasure makes no sex better than having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 06:21 AM |
| -3 | Why are some men hateful of women when other men are their biggest competitors?No it’s not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 02:36 PM |
| – | Women have the option to not think about men. Men don’t have the option to not think about women.I know that it’s common. I also get attacked for not being sexual, as if it was my fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 09:53 AM |
| – | Women have the option to not think about men. Men don’t have the option to not think about women.Well, I don’t think about sex and I don’t really feel the need to have it. And I’m married so the opportunity is here all the time. So it’s possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 09:30 AM |
| 1 | The disconnect between the genders when women lament how common it is for men to be critical of themMen express those preferences towards every woman that dares to do anything publically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 08:36 AM |
| – | How old were you when you knew whether or not you wanted to have sex with a person?For me romantic love was never equal to wanting sex. When I had crashes I never thought about fucking those men. It’s true for me now as well when I’m married. My sexual fantasies aren’t about about sex acts but about different feelings. I don’t picture actual person but feeling warm, feeling amazing etc. I actually didn’t know that people were aroused just from looking at somoene. I found out that that’s a thing couple of years ago. I never felt that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 02:59 AM |
| 1 | What it means to be settled for sexuallyI don’t know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 02:47 AM |
| 2 | What it means to be settled for sexuallyI mean, it’s hard because when if it’s not enjoyable it’s hard to not see it as a chore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 02:47 AM |
| 7 | What it means to be settled for sexuallyNot everyone can cum. I can’t. I don’t feel pleasure during sex. It’s not sad, it’s normal for some people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:35 PM |
| 3 | What it means to be settled for sexuallyI never delt lust. I never felt aroused by looking at a man. I’ve been married dor ten years. Yes, I don’t enjoy sex. But if I waited to experience lust I would be called a bitter cat lady. So I can’t win anyway, can I? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:33 PM |
| 1 | What it means to be settled for sexuallyWell, I never experience lust. Ever. Love doesn’t change anything, I’ve been married for ten years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:31 PM |
| 1 | What it means to be settled for sexuallyNot everyone can do that. I never felt raw attraction. Ever. i never felt aroused by looking at a naked man. Or a man in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:19 PM |
| 1 | What it means to be settled for sexuallyIt’s hard to do it couple of times a week. Doing it from time to time? No problem. But jumping on a dick regularly, and showing enthusiasm and so on becomes really tireing when there is nothing in it for me, ever. I just can’t see it as something enjoyable. Sex without pleasure is just bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:02 PM |
| 15 | Do you oppose or support men being able to legally cut ties with children not biologically their’s in the case of late stage paternity misattribution?Obviously I support it. It should be the default solution. I actually think that if a mother knew that he wasn’t the father and didn’t tell him, she should be punished somehow. The best I can think of is just giving him money. Expecting anything else from a man in this situation would be unjust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 09:31 PM |
| 0 | The female orgasm is a mythWell, I think that sex in general for men. That’s why I hate this view that in healthy relationship should happen often. Why? Only one person actually benefits that and there i no equivalent of this advice for women. I treat sex as a something I do for my husband. I never had an orgasm and sex doesn’t provide me any pleasure. I know many women that are the same. Most of my friends are like that and I’m in different online groups for women were lack of orgasm is one of the main topics. So I don’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 05:16 PM |
| 9 | women are screwing themselves over by supporting feminismWhy would you be doing most of the housechores? When I give birth it will be more than any man will ever do and I will not do any chores for half a year. My husband does most of the cooking and for the past couple of months he was the only who who cleaned because I didn’t have time. Just find a capable man, not a manchild. But yeah, if you find a traditional man you will have to take care of your baby AND cook and clean. Because he will think that this is your job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:46 AM |
| 11 | women are screwing themselves over by supporting feminismMy husband cooks 99% of the time. And for the last three months he was the only one who cleaned our apartament because I took two courses and didn’t have time to help him. And men aren’t leaders. Men who say they are leaders are pathetic, look at all of those cringy manosphere guys. None of them deserves any leadership position. Also, women always worked. I would never want to live in any traditional country. I would rather die than live in Pakistan, Iran or any other place like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:41 AM |
| 21 | women are screwing themselves over by supporting feminismI would be screwed if I had to live like a traditional woman. And I grew up christian, got married at 20. I love making my own money. I love accomplishing things. I love not having to do weird sex stuff so my husband keep providing for me. I would hate having to cook daily being up 24/7 with babies without a day off for myself. I’m happy feminism happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:09 AM |
| – | "Choose better" - What warning signs does Redpill think there are for abusive men?Again, so? Why would you expect to be fucked for doing something good? I’m also not that ugly and men never simped for me. Men did simp for my beautiful friends even when they didn’t do anything good. My friends can just exist and even be rude and they still get men. I never experienced that, I’m average. Average women are not bombared with lust and praise either. So what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 12:29 PM |
| – | "Choose better" - What warning signs does Redpill think there are for abusive men?So? You didn’t do anything as drastic and opinion-shaking as he did. If you did what he did people would be supporting you as well. If you are ugly then they probably wouldn’t talk about fucking you. So what? Men don’t simp for ugly women either, no matter how good they are. Nobody ever simped for me either and I do a lot of good things in my free time. So? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 11:08 AM |
| – | "Choose better" - What warning signs does Redpill think there are for abusive men?So what? Men also simp more for attractive women. Him being attractive for many women is just additional good thing about him. I personally don’t find him attractive at all but I also made many comments about wanting to fuck him. Just like many men. I’m not even american but I love the fact the working class tries to do something with your sick healthcare system. Ao yeah, I will like every meme praising him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 11:01 AM |
| – | A significant cohort of single childless women are about to hit their 40's. How do you think it's going to affect the conversation about navigating modern relationships?I’m saying that it’s better to be alone. Not everyone can find a good partner. For many people the choice is between being single or being in a not-so-great relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 08:58 PM |
| – | A significant cohort of single childless women are about to hit their 40's. How do you think it's going to affect the conversation about navigating modern relationships?I’m not just talking about abuse or infidelity. Like I said, being alone is better than being in a not-so-great relationship. The men I mentioned weren’t mostly abusive. But they are often angry, make shitty jokes and love making fun of women, or just suck in regular interactions in general. I also mean men who don’t understand that a woman should rest for view weeks after giving birth and expect her to cook for him because “she stays at home”. Or men who believe that only their hobbies marry an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 08:21 AM |
| 13 | A significant cohort of single childless women are about to hit their 40's. How do you think it's going to affect the conversation about navigating modern relationships?I’m 31 and married but in general I think that it’s better to be alone than in a not-so-great relationship. I grew up in a quite conservative environment. Many of the women I knew my whole life were cheated on, or beaten or just neglected. Only last year I found out about three affairs in my former church. Many of my friends are married with kids and are completely miserable. And I would definitely prefer to be alone than be with any man from my work, or with any man from my friend’s group or my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 09:40 PM |
| 10 | Why do women always seem to have a problem with another woman at work ?When I worked in a restaurant I was the only woman in the kitchen. All men were dramatic, nervous and gossiped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 07:14 AM |
| 4 | Why do women always seem to have a problem with another woman at work ?The worst people I met at work were men. The most emotional person I met at work was a man. The worst boss I had was a man, I almost sure that he needs psychiatric assistance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 07:13 AM |
| 4 | You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly ImmediatelyDoesn’t matter, if I was a single 50 yo, they would just say that I’m an old cat lady and destroyed my life by not lowering down my standards. They wouldn’t hate on me for not giving some men a chance because I must have met a willing man at some point. The point is that if I waited to feel lust I would remain single forever. And single women over a certain age are attacked for it and called post wall hags, cat ladies and so on. Red pillers don’t ask single if they ever felt lust by any chance. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 07:42 PM |
| 1 | You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly ImmediatelyWhy not? If they saw I was single they would call me a post wall hag with ridiculous standards. They wouldn’t ask if I experience lust or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 07:27 PM |
| 3 | You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly ImmediatelyI never felt lust. Ever. I can be around attractive people and I see that they are pretty but I don’t feel anything I could call lust. I don’t get excited from looking at someone. I’m 31. If I wasn’t married I would be called a post wall old hag who’s standards are too high. But now I also can’t be trusted because I got married young without getting aroused without a good reason? Women can’t win. And no, women aren’t guaranteed sexual fulfillment. Women are guaranteed sex that doesn’t equal fulf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Oral sex is degradingI don’t have any kinks and not everyone has to have kinks. I definitely don’t want to “expand my horizons”. I prefer to be boring to eat someone’s ass or sperm. Or to choke someone, wtf. Life is not porn and I don’t need to act like a porn star. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Oral sex is degradingI know that there are people who like it. So what? It doesn’t mean that I should do it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Oral sex is degradingI slept only with my husband. But yeah, I prefer to be the worst lover in the world than to eat ass. It’s ok to be vanilla. It’s definitely better than doing disgusting things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Oral sex is degradingNo, I never saw sex as something connecting. I mean, I did before I had it. After I lost my virginity I learned that it’s not amazing or orgasmic. It’s something I do for my husband because I don’t get pleasure from it so there is no enjoyment. Maybe I could enjoy just from seeing him happy it if it happened once or twice a year but sex is supposed to happen often and then it’s hard to only focus on his pleasure over and over again. There is nothing beautiful about having a dick inside. I though… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Oral sex is degradingNo I don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 06:19 AM |
| 6 | Telling women not to change for men is actually toxic adviceI’m assertive and I’m married. Being assertive doesn’t mean being masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Oral sex is degradingFrom what I know most women orgasm from stimulating their clits. I also got a vibrator and never had an urge to put it in, it feels much better on the clit. Most women stimulate their clits to orgasm, even those who like penetration. The most popular toys for women are the ones they can put on them, ot inside them. Regarding sex and closeness, I feel that it’s much better for men, so that they can feel good. I definitely feel more closeness from watching a movie together or going out. Sex is for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Oral sex is degradingOf course it’s out of question. It’s ass. I wouldn’t eat even my own ass no matter how clean it was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Oral sex is degradingI agree that expecting oral sex is weird. It gave me so much stress at the beginning of my marriage because I thought I had to do it. I don’t think that my husband is responsible for his orgasm, I think that the reason we have sex is for him to orgasm. I don’t orgasm so I don’t like sex but when I do it I do it for him to cum, it’s definitely not his responsibility to take care for his own orgasm when we are together. If it was then what would be the point of sex? But in general I think that sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Oral sex is degradingI was never excited to swallow cum, not for my husband not for anyone else. Even before I got married I thought that it was disgusting and promised to myself that I would never do it.the thought of swallowing something like this is just repulsive. Doesn’t matter who produced it. I would never swallow his spit or sweat either so why sperm? I also think that swallowing anything that comes out of a woman is disgusting and I never allowed him to do it either. So it’s fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Oral sex is degradingI agree. That’s why I hate blow jobs and I never allowed my husband to do that to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 07:49 PM |
| 21 | Why old school patriarchy worked and feminists are wrongIt’s an example. I’m Polish, I live in Poland, I know examples from my country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Oral sex is degradingI actually agree. Well, it’s maybe not degrading but disgusting and I really can’t understand how people don’t see that. And they try to make sex too cheap and easy. Every time I say that I never had an orgasm and ask for advice I’m told to let my husband eat me out. So instead of him actually giving me pleasure they expect me to do something like this. I also tried to give blowjobs to my husband because I was brainwashed into believing that I need to satisfy him like that. But I hate doing it a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 05:28 PM |
| 14 | Why old school patriarchy worked and feminists are wrongChances are that he would get a wife that he wouldn’t even have to respect. It’s a good thing that these awful times are behind us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 05:22 PM |
| 21 | Why old school patriarchy worked and feminists are wrongTestimonies from women living in Poland from the beginning of the 20th century say otherwise. Women weren’t happy and often didn’t marry because they were horny. They married because they had to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 05:19 PM |
| 1 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?No one ever asked me that so I don’t know. Maybe I would say that it’s better to call me but honestly knowing me I wouldn’t even think about it too much and I would just tell that person to contact me however he/she wants. I usually exchange social media and phone number and then it just happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 10:03 PM |
| 0 | It is a red flag if you notice a girl has thousands of unread message notices?I do it. I don’t know why, I just do. I don’t like talking on communicators, I don’t like typing and I don’t like feeling like I have to react to someone’s tiktok or meme. I just get overwhelmed when I see notifications. I still have many friends, I don’t feel like my social life suffers from this. When I want to hang out I just call people. And they call me if they really want something from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: would you prefer to live in a world where penetration was taboo?I don’t like penetration but I wouldn’t want to have oral sex. If it was the default way to have sex I would have to do it. And I’m married so I have sex anyway. Penetration is less troublesome than other acts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 06:03 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who wait to have sex, what influenced you to make this decision for yourself?It was how I was raised. Most of my friends did the same. I didn’t really think too much about it back then. Now I know it was a mistake. I should’ve had sex at least once before marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing.I see why weight lifting. And I get the chocolate thing as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing.Well, I only had sex with a loved one and never experienced it. I think that different people have it differently. For me the main source of it would be sport or just fan time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:16 PM |
| 0 | Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing.Ok, my bad. It’s surprising, I would say that it’s men who experience this more since they orgasm from sex and have more pleasure in general. I don’t experience that. In general when I think “oxytocin” I think gym, or running or chocolate. I never heard a woman saying that she had an oxytocin euphoria after sex but many times I heard my friends saying this after gym or hiking together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 07:34 PM |
| 4 | Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing.Sex doesn’t really provide that. I get more oxytocin from running. Sex for women is different than it is for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.Male sexuality is not my concern here. My concern is that there are new ways of dehumanizing women. These robots are not treated like another flesh lights other sex toys. They are described as women replacement that will be better because, unlike awful western females, these robots will submit and serve men. Listen how many men talk about it. It’s no better than sick muslim or christian opinions about women. It’s dehumanizing. Not surprising tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 09:40 AM |
| 3 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.Then why are voices about women being useless, awful for not being submissive, and about women deserving to be replaced or removed from society so common? Similar retororic is often raised in the context if sex robots. They are not seen by these men as just sex toys. They are desrcibed as easy replacement for whole human beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 09:16 AM |
| 8 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.No, that’s to how many men talk about it. I recently saw a popular polish redpill youtuber eho was pretty much talking about the need of removing women from society and keeping them out of the view. I saw many men saying that robots will replace women easily because they will not talk back and will cook, clean and suck dicks. This is dehumanizing. This is seeing women as servants who malfunction if they try to life independently, for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 08:57 AM |
| 5 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.And I don’t care about how attractive men are when they say it. I saw a pastor who was physically attractive who said the things I wrote. It still made me feel awful and disgusted, his looks didn’t change anything. I don’t know how taliban men look. I still feel awful when I read about the things they do. I have no idea how attractive those Polish men were. It still made me feel sick. When I see men saying that they will replace women with robots I don’t even think about their attractiveness. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:53 AM |
| 11 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.Yeah, it’s the same feeling I have when I read about Taliban men taking away even more of women’s rights. Or when I read how Polish men at the beginning of 20s century were taking about how women are inferior. Or when I listen to American pastors saying that women need to submit and were made for men to serve them. It’s not “oh noo, they don’t want me!”, it’s “ wow, they REALLY don’t value women as people. That’s disgusting but not surprising”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.Communication will not suddenly make it better. I can’t “communicate my way” to a different physical sensation during sex. It will not change how it feels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.Most women can’t orgasm from penetration. Most women need additional clitoral stimulation to orgasm which actually makes their hand responsible for their pleasure. It’s not a myth. It’s a common knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.Penetration is not that pleasurable. So I don’t see why would it be wild. If I can’t get orgasms from penetrative sex then I would have to get them from masturbation during sex which I’m not going to do because it would make sex pointless. And being fingered after sex doesn’t sound appealing at all. Men wouldn’t want to have sex if they didn’t orgasm from penetration. So I don’t see anything wild about it. Like I said, most women don’t orgasm from penetration and many don’t get pleasure from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.It’s not that easy to stimulate it correctly in most positions while he is trying to keep tempo, angle etc. it just doesn’t work for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 04:34 PM |
| -1 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.Most women don’t orgasm from penetration. It’s normal. Vagina is not the same as penis, most of our nerve endings are in the top of our clit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 04:30 PM |
| -3 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.Well, no amount of me thrusting back will make me feel pleasure during penetration. I will not orgasm from it. So yeah, he feels more pleasure anyway, even if it’s not the best in the world. He orgasms. He gets his pleasure. So even if he needs to put work during penetration to feel good, he puts this work for HIMSELF. And gets pleased by my body. So I don’t see how this isn’t generous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.I don’t have any specific fantasies, like there isn’t any position or thing that I would want to try more than others. But I know what things I don’t want to try. I rarely masturbate because I don’t orgasm from it but if I do I just think about masturbation I guess. I can’t tell if I think of anything particular. Foreplay is ok, kissing and stuff. I don’t want to do oral if that’s what you mean. I’ve been married for ten years. If I was supposed to enjoy sex I already would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.I tried all the positions except the ones that looked obviously uncomfortable or ridiculous. And none of them really worked, there is no difference in terms of pleasure for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 03:09 PM |
| -1 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.Why? It makes sense. Sex is a part of marriage so we do it. I don’t orgasm from sex but he does. So when we do it, we do it for him. I don’t get pleasure from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.Many women don’t enjoy penetration that much. It’s not as good as it is for men. Yes I did talk to a sexologist. It didn’t help too much, just told me to stimulate clit during sex. So pretty much useless advice because it would be me pleasuring myself anyway making sex pointless for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.Yes. And having penetrative sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 12:17 PM |
| 0 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.Well, yeah I don’t care about penetration because it doesn’t bring me pleasure. So I don’t see the point of doing even more. He gets his pleasure anyway. And me thrusting back does not make it better (I tried) so what’s the point? It wouldn’t be fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.I don’t thinkt it is. It was never basic to me anyway. And when I was taking about loosing my virginity and sex in relationship, it was always in a context of penetration, all the other things were additional and optional. I mean, I wouldn’t have oral sex during my first time. When I got married I didn’t see oral as something normal in the same way I saw penetrative sex. I don’t let my husband eat me out and I definitely don’t give blowjobs without a special occasion because it’s not basic and d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 10:53 AM |
| -8 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.Ok, but why? He already feel pleasure. I will not feel pleasure even if I thrust back because penetration doesn’t make me orgasm and doesn’t really feel good. Most women can’t orgasm from penetration. So not only he lays on me and uses me to feel good but I also am supposed to do additional work? I mean, from time to time, maybe. But in general it doesn’t sound fair at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 10:39 AM |
| -9 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.True, but also men should understand that very often having a lot of sex is not realistic and should cut women some slack as well. When I have sex I do it for my husband. If he expected me to have it couple times a week it would be awful and he would be asking for too much. Because we do it only for his pleasure, so I do all this work for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 10:35 AM |
| 2 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.I don’t think that oral is basic. Penetration is basic, anything else is additional and shouldn’t be expected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.There is orgasm gap and penetration doesn’t provide orgasms to most women. And I still never let my husband eat me out because I think that oral sex is disgusting. It’s posibble to not enjoy penetration AND to not agree on oral sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 10:30 AM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?I slept only with my husband, I was a virgin till marriage. I never agreed on kinks, fetishes, bdsm, anal etc. Oral rarely on can’t be uncomfortable for me. I just refuse to try these things. So how does it different? Why would I be the bad one if I tried these things before him and decided that I hated them but I’m a good one because I never did them? The only difference is that in the first scenario I would know that I didn’t like them and in my actual life I don’t want to find out. It just do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesI don’t know, I never had an orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 10:18 PM |
| 4 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesNo because women’s anatomy is nit his fault. And I refuse to do oral or stimulate myself during penetration and pretend that it’s as good as sex for men. I just accept and see sex as a favor I do for him, just a part of being married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 09:27 PM |
| -1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesWell, I’m talking about penetration. This is sex. I don’t do oral sex. It’s natures fault that penetration doesn’t give most women orgasms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 09:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesSex just isn’t pleasurable for me, most women don’t orgasm during penetration. So it’s natures fault. I have sex for him. If he didn’t want it I would be ok with never having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 08:48 PM |
| 0 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesDuring sex his orgasm is on me. The reason he has sex is for me to make him orgasm. If his orgasm was on him then he would just masturbate. His orgasm is his responsibility if he masturbates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 08:00 PM |
| -2 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesSex doesn’t give me pleasure, It doesn’t provide orgasms to me. I have it for my husband. And I don’t agree. His orgasm is on me. If I wasn’t responsible for his orgasm we wouldn’t have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 07:35 PM |
| 3 | If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date.I never in my life felt initial attraction towards anyone. Bodies just don’t turn me on, I didn’t even know that there are poeople who feel ready for sex just from looking at someone. I see that someone is pretty but it doesn’t make me wet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 01:54 PM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.Well, it’s not. It would be ok from time to time but having sex only for his pleasure couple of times a weeks is another chore. But when you are married you have to have sex so it is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 09:20 PM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.Clit is responsible for women’s pleasure. If I stimulate it by myself that I’m doing the most important part. And it is masturbating. No one would expect men to stimulate their own penis during sex. So why should I do everything? Of I have to please myself then my pleasure has nothing to do with my partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 04:53 PM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.I’ve only been with one man. And he cares, we tried all the positions. But sex is better for him because he is a man. I would have to stimulate my clit during sex, thatvthe advice I get. And I refuse to do that, I’m not going to masturbate. He doesn’t have to masturbate to orgasm so why would I? And if I have the than what’s the point and f sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 04:25 PM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.But I’m right. Sex is about pleasure. Men wouldn’t be happy if sex ended before they orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 04:12 PM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.Orgasms are the goal of sex. Men wouldn’t be satisfied is sex ended before they orgasmed. But this is a common experience for women. So if I have sex it’s always for my husband. Not for me. Because he orgasms. So I don’t see why would I have to do even more things if itd already for him be default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women?I just agree that women suck and being a woman sucks. I did everything redpill says I should. I married at 20, I was a virgin. I still hate myself and I’m still bitter. Because I am ambitious. I hate being seen as a potential mother. I hate being seen as a submissive wifey. I hate hearing that my ambitions might not work well with being a mother (I don’t want kids). I hate my biology. I hate being a woman and btw getting married doesn’t mean fulfillment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 03:36 PM |
| 0 | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.Sex is for men, their pleasure is the default. So yeah, I’m not going to do all of the weird sex stuff because he might be want a little more pleasure. Blow job is more than enough. He orgasms, I don’t. So really I can’t feel bad for men who literally are built to enjoy sex and get pleasure easily. Nobody tells men to stimulate themselves when they can’t orgasm during penetration. Because sex is for men and they don’t need to do additional stuff to enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 09:50 PM |
| 5 | The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards.I know. And it would be ok if they focused on that because it’s a valid criticism. But the outrage that I saw was about her being ugly, fat (wtf) and a woman. The amount of comments saying that it will be dishwasher simulator and that games are for men and men don’t want to play as women were sickening. Here the main problem for them IS that she doesn’t have a penis or does’t make their penis hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 03:40 PM |
| 2 | The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards.Women were writing comments that they don’t want to play with male dishwashers? Or that male character’s weren’t making them wet? Please, men had character’s games catered to them for years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 03:36 PM |
| 2 | The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards.It wasn’t just about Geralt, not in Poland anyway. When I saw men’s comments they were saying that they could play as another character if it wasn’t a woman. Things like „I don’t want to play as a chick” or „I don’t want to play as a dishwasher” are said all the time. And also that games are for men and other bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 03:19 PM |
| – | Why do women seek sexual relationships with men?I’m one of those women. Penetration isn’t more pleaurable that having my head stroked. It definitely doesn’t make me moan or crave it in general. It’s just meh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 03:08 PM |
| – | Why do women seek sexual relationships with men?Some of of us don’t know how it really is. I really thought that I would finally magically orgasm during sex. It wasn’t until recently that I actually learnes that penis is not what makes us feel good. And I’ve been married for ten years. It’s not like before marriage someone told me the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 03:05 PM |
| 10 | The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards.Yeah, recently they shat themselves because of new witcher trailer. And obviously there were comments that Ciri is ugly, old and not sexy. Other comments were that games are for men and they don’t want to play as a woman etc. So playing it will give me even more pleasure now, and I was already excited about new Witcher, I grew up with Sapkowski. And did you see recent Myron’s meltdown about women playing overwatch? He got so emotional it was ridicolous. And men like this make me want to keep pla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 03:01 PM |
| 6 | Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?Because many of us are not unhappy. I’m married. I got married at 20. If I wanted I would have kids by now. But I don’t wanti to, I never once had sex without condoms. Wanna know what is taboo? Women with kids who regret it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 04:27 AM |
| 6 | Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?Yep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 03:42 PM |
| 13 | Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?I’m married, I’m not looking for anything. But no, I wouldn’t want to be a traditional woman. I enjoy working on my goals and aspirations and not being in a second place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 02:23 PM |
| 16 | Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?I got married at 20 and I’m bitter. Marriage is not a path to happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 01:15 PM |
| 20 | Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?Not everyone like old men. I was never into older guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How would you feel if you found out your man has never "simped" for you or "spoiled" you like he did his exes (and even casual hookups)?Nah, it’s degrading and one of the most dangerous sex acts. A man asking for it is does not love his partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 04:49 AM |
| -1 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageShe probably doesn’t think the sex is good. Women know if they don’t enjoy sex, even if they are virgins. Women also fake. I didn’t have experience at all before I was with my husband. And I don’t enjoy sex anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 07:16 AM |
| -2 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageI slept only with one man and not being able to compare it to anything doesn’t mean that I think that it’s great, I still don’t enjoy it. Do I know how sex with other people feel? No. Do I enjoy the sex that I have? Also no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you're part of the 70% of women who never orgasmed from PIV, are you okay dying without ever experiencing it?Clitoris is a main soutce of female pleasure. It’s just a fact, scientific fact. Most women can’t orgasm from penetration alone no matter how much you hate it. It’s not leftist bias, it’s just a fact. Id it was different majority of women would not need to touch their clits and would use penetration as a main form of masturbation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 10:26 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Well, I cut contact with my brother for having misogynistic beliefs. He is an anti feminist and I’m pretty sure he is into redpill, but I don’t talk to him anymore, I stopped talking to him three years ago. I would also cut contact with a friend with such beliefs. If my husband believed these things you mentioned we would probably get divorced sooner or later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Would you want to go back to life before the Sexual Revolution?No, never. I like being able to have passions and goals other than submitting to my husband. I like having my own money and not being the only person responsible for cooking and cleaning. I like having freedom to do what I want in my free time and I like not having to have sex. I wouldn’t want to live like both of my grandmothers who were abused by my grandfathers. My grandmother said that she wished she could grow up again in modern times and that I’m lucky. My grandpa once said that women are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Women had nearly flawless PR until social media which has inadvently led to the RedpillSo what? Women are still put under men, are to be submissive, in silence etc. And doesn’t matter that they are female saints. It doesn’t change the fact that women were called inferior, compared to a bag of shit and the church didn’t have a problem with it. Islam also has somefemale figures that are praised. So what? It doesn’t change the fact that islam also put women under men and sees them as inferior and defective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 01:19 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Nah, I said many times that I would never date a muslim man, or a man that grew up in Africa or Middle East. All of my friends say similar things. It’s normal to not want men from misogynistic, backwards regions. When my country closed borders with Belarus to prevent refugees from those regions coming in literally every woman I know approved it. We often say that letting these men into our country would be a nightmare and a mistake. I was never called racist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 12:01 PM |
| 10 | Women had nearly flawless PR until social media which has inadvently led to the RedpillWomen never had flawless reputation. Women were always considered inferior, catholic saints even wrote that women are a bag of shit, that women should be ashamed of being who they are etc. Chinese culture called women useless tree branches until they had a son. Women were seen as too emotional, too dumb and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 11:02 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: If you're part of the 70% of women who never orgasmed from PIV, are you okay dying without ever experiencing it?I also begged my husband to penetrate me. To make sex more fun for him. It doesn’t mean that I needed a dick inside me. All literature doesn’t confirm this. Books focused on female pleasure focus on clitoris. And I didn’t only talk to women on reddit. I talked to my friends, to women in many different forums, everywhere. And it’s a common knowledge that penetration is not it for most women. Mostly in this sub men try to convince me that penetration is a one. In every other space people understan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 09:31 AM |
| – | "women love sex, maybe they just don't like it with you..."My man prioritizes me. But it still means that I would have to experiment and explore how to orgasm. He never had to do that. I never had to learn how to make him orgasm, I just did. I would have to explore, try tons of things and rely on couple of ways to feel good while he can naturally enjoy the experience. So that’s the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 11:33 AM |
| – | Why is there a disproportionate amount of vitriol toward female gym goers/content creators?Well, yes. When I wear baggy pants or oversized t-shirt it sticks to my body uncomfortably and I feel more wet. I definitely feel more comfortable now with leggings and tops. Nothing hangs, nothing moves, I have full range of motion and it’s more comfortable. In the swimming pool I would also feel more comfortable in leggings and top than sweatpants and t-shirt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 11:30 AM |
| – | "women love sex, maybe they just don't like it with you..."The point is that men are designed to feel pleasure easily. Sure, they also have preferences and things that enhance their enjoyment but in most cases the basic thing works. They don’t need to learn how to orgasm. I know that there are ways to make sex more enjoyable for women and that many women can finally learn how to orgasm. But that’s the point, they need to learn. Men have pleasure (in general) by default. It’s more natural for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 07:36 AM |
| – | "women love sex, maybe they just don't like it with you..."I don’t think I’m asexual, I still get spontaneous need to have sex. Men’s bodies are better designed for pleasure, that’s my point. Men don’t need yo learn it or explore it in general. They can do it to make it even better but even basic stuff would please them. I did try toys but womanizers and similar don’t do anything for me and vibrators get boring and tiring after like one use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Why is there a disproportionate amount of vitriol toward female gym goers/content creators?I used go wear my husband t-shirt and baggy sweatpants to the gym because I didn’t feel the need to buy actual gyn clothes. Some time ago I got leggings, view gym bras and no one. They are much more comfortable. When I sweat I don’t feel the wetness on my body as much as I did with t-shirts. Leggings are much more comfortable than sweatpants as well because of the sweat. And overall these clothes are much more comfortable than adidas sweatpants and regular shirts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 04:54 AM |
| – | "women love sex, maybe they just don't like it with you..."I agree in general. I don’t enjoy sex. I think that sex is for men, it’s designed for their pleasure. I never had an orgasm and many women have problems with orgasming. Men in general can just put in it and they will enjoy it. I hate that that’s the case, I hate my anatomy but there is nothing I can do. I know that there are women who enjoy sex from the beginning but I think it’s a minority. Most women hear bullshit advice like just “masturbate during sex” or have to spend tons of times figuring… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children?I am bitter, of course. Why wouldn’t I be? Yes, making fun of someone is shitty unless this person actually shows that they enjoy it. And yes, men complaining about their partners the way they complain make them shitty partners. Talking about how stupid their wives are, or how ugly they are is shitty. Going to the office at 9:30 -10 intentionally to finish work at 17:30-18:00 to not spend too much time at home with sick baby is shitty. And they brag about it. Not just one of them, multiple of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children?Yes, they are. They are combination of the things above. I see it daily, I hear what men from my work say about their wives or girlfriends. I see how my husband’s friends treat their wives and girlfriends, I also hear what they say about them. I know how my grandfathers treated my grandmothers and how my brother treated his wife. I have a hobby very popular among men and I listen how they talk about women in their lives and see how they treat their partners if their partners also engage in this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 02:30 PM |
| 8 | Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says.The whole world definitely doesn’t think that women are wonderful. Even religious don’t think that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children?Relationship makes life better only if it’s good. Being with a man who expects blowjobs daily, who doesn’t clean and cook, who gets angry easily or who is stubborn and always needs to have a final say would not make my life better. And most men are like that. It’s better to be single than in a bad or even not so great relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children?I’m 31. Most of my friends who complain talk about their husbands and want divorce. You wanna know who doesn’t complain? My single friends. Having a man does not make a life better. Having a great men does, but a regular man? No. I would never want to be with someone like my brother, or my father. I would never want to be with any man from my work. Having a guy at home who wants sex daily no matter how tired you are, who spends time complaining about stuff, or who gets easily angry, or who insis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children?What provision? I make my own money. I don’t know a single woman that gets is supported by her husband. And even if he gave me money for giving birth to a child I would contribute much more and sacrifice much by giving birth than he would for making money. So I would contribute something more important anyway. And what security when relationships fails? What do you think I would get? Protection from what? I take care of my own problems. He also gets companionship. He also gets loyalty. And he ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children?How do women benefit the most? I got married at 20. I never slept around. Marriage is obviously most beneficial for men from my experience. Especially sex. Sex is for men, it’s literally designed to male them orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Men want a woman that can be both a mother and a wh..., and whats wrong with that?I don’t want to be a mother for my husband. I also don’t want to be a whore. Men can want whatever they want but calling women whores is not encouraging, it’s disgusting. Even if it means being a whore just for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Traveling is such an unattractive and red flag trait in womenI travel constantly and I pay for all of it. I’ve been also married for ten years. And I’m ambitious, have other hobbies, make my own money and so on. I’m not fixated on traveling but I definitely love the excitement of planning, preparing and then getting to know new places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 07:48 PM |
| – | If womens' value takes a nosedive at 30 and they are undesirable, why would women want to marry in the first place?There is no need for authority. Men aren’t above me. Sometimes I have a final say, sometimes he does. Most of the time we decide together. His opinion, goals and ambitions aren’t more important than mine. Why would they be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Men's advantages vs women's advantagesYep, being a woman sucks. I hate everything about it, especially my anatomy. Being a woman destroys my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 09:32 PM |
| 1 | If womens' value takes a nosedive at 30 and they are undesirable, why would women want to marry in the first place?I’m just saying that there is not point of following men. Why would I do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 01:47 PM |
| 2 | If womens' value takes a nosedive at 30 and they are undesirable, why would women want to marry in the first place?Why would I as a woman submit at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 07:14 AM |
| 2 | If womens' value takes a nosedive at 30 and they are undesirable, why would women want to marry in the first place?No man in this world is more competent at everything than me. I will always know more about something. Plus no man will ever give birth so I don’t see why should I ever be submissive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 07:09 AM |
| 6 | If womens' value takes a nosedive at 30 and they are undesirable, why would women want to marry in the first place?It won’t make me attractive. I’m not going to lie to myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 10:32 PM |
| 6 | If womens' value takes a nosedive at 30 and they are undesirable, why would women want to marry in the first place?So what if m it will survive the wall if my husband can’t find me attractive? I married at 20, I’m 31 now. I can’t even learn to enjoy sex because I know I’m not attractive anymore. I heard that I was getting too old at 23. If I knew about at 20 I would just stay single. It does destroy everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 09:05 PM |
| 3 | If womens' value takes a nosedive at 30 and they are undesirable, why would women want to marry in the first place?Yeah, but women almost immediately become unattractive. I stopped being attractive before I even noticed I could be attractive because I turned 25 and then 30. So the question makes sense. If I knew at 20 that in 5-10 years I will not be attractive I wouldn’t get married, I would be alone. Knowing how it is makes marriage and sex impossible to enjoy. I don’t like sex also because sex is for men (most women don’t orgasm). But I can’t be sexy or flirty because I’m not attractive and unattractive p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 08:16 PM |
| 2 | If womens' value takes a nosedive at 30 and they are undesirable, why would women want to marry in the first place?If my husband wouldn’t choose me now, then he is not attracted to me. That’s why I can’t enjoy sex and never learned how to like it. I was 23 when I heard that I was already too old and that my life was over. I was already married by that time but I never felt attractive since then and I don’t believe that my husband can find me attractive if men in general think that women over 30 are post wall and old. I can’t enjoy sex if I don’t feel sexy. And I can’t feel sexy because I’m 31. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themMy former manager (a man) was informed that another guy from our team was harassing women and the only thing the manager did was telling new hired women to not talk too much to this guy. For over a year. It was another manager, a woman from a completely different team, who took it seriously and took care of it and made him fired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?I go to the gym regularly, I lift and take care of myself. It doesn’t help much. And while he loves me he might not think that I’m hot anymore. Men themselves say that they can have sex even with women they don’t find hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?My imagination is not that strong. I can’t pretend to be someone else. It would not give any effects, I would still feel unattractive because I would still be me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?I would rather be attractive. I can’t enjoy sex if I don’t feel attractive. And I know that I’m not sexy because I’m 31. So my husband can’t enjoy sex because he wants me to enjoy it as well and I don’t. I don’t care about being a mother material if he isn’t also attracted to me. So what if he thinks that I bake good pies if he doesn’t think I’m gorgeous and would prefer to have someone else in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?Same but I wish that I was a man every single day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?They like and respect other men more than they like and respect women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 09:56 PM |
| 7 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?I wish I was trolling. I’m not. It’s men who told me that. It was a man who told me that my life was over at 23 because I was getting too old. I see men writing that women at 30 are expired everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?If most men I see say these things and other men agree then why would I think that my husband thinks differently? If it’s a common sense that women like me are unattractive then I’m unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?He never said anything like this. But he is a man. If I hear that women aren’t attractive over 30 then he can’t find me attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?It’s the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?All men think that women expire at 30 and are unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?Men respect other men and enjoy their company. Pretty much men are the default human, a full person. Men don’t really like women but they like sex. So it makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?Am I not supposed to believe men when they say that I’m old and expired? I saw tons of stuff on the internet, listened to hours of redpill podcasts and was told similar things by my brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?I got married at 20 and reading stuff like this kind of destroyed me and my happiness in marriage. I stopped feeling attractive at around 22-23 because I was getting old. I never enjoyed sex and can’t learn how to enjoy it because I’m too old to be sexy. If I knew that men don’t like women over 25 before I got married I would stay single forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?Sorry, it wasn’t my intention. I found about it years ago and it destroys my marriage to be honest. I also always hated the fact that I’m a woman and reading about this made me hate myself even more. I haven’t been happy since I was like 22-23. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?I don’t think it’s true. And if men don’t think that women like me are attractive then I’m not attractive. My husband is a man so he also can’t think that I’m hot. If he wouldn’t want me if he met me now, then I’m not sexy in his eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Do men see women as "expired" after 25 now?Yeah, that’s why I can’t learn how to enjoy sex with my husband. I’m 31 and I know that men don’t find women over 30 attractive, so I can’t feel sexy and if I can’t feel sexy I can’t enjoy sex. I couldn’t enjoy sex before because I learned about the wall before 25 and I knew that I already was less attractive to my husband and that everyday I’m becoming worse and worse. So it really sucks because it destroyed my ability to learn how to enjoy sex. But it is what it is. I don’t blame women for not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Made a post about how modern feminism has in part , played into why many young men fail to reach the standards of the young women. Think I'll make a different claim, but in the same ball park. Women are more solipsistic in dating( especially younger ones).I didn’t say she married, I said she found a man while being in prison. And yes, you can get married in prison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 07:55 AM |
| 3 | Made a post about how modern feminism has in part , played into why many young men fail to reach the standards of the young women. Think I'll make a different claim, but in the same ball park. Women are more solipsistic in dating( especially younger ones).I mean, they got married in prison. Not to other cult members. Even Jodie Arias found a man in prison. After brutally murdering her boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Made a post about how modern feminism has in part , played into why many young men fail to reach the standards of the young women. Think I'll make a different claim, but in the same ball park. Women are more solipsistic in dating( especially younger ones).Female prisoners get men all the time. Manson’s murderers didn’t have any problems with finding husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveI agree, It’s perfectly normal to only want “regular” sex. Vanilla is not worse than any other flavor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveI don’t think I agree, no one expects that men will use toys or their own hands to orgasm during sex. So I don’t why I would have to do that. I’m not going to use toys or stimulate him AND myself. It’s not fair and makes sex pointless and shows that it’s more for men than for women. Because men don’t have to experiment or spend times exploring what can please them. They know immediately, it comes naturally for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveIt’s degrading in my view. And I’ve read to many posts from men saying that anal is hot because it makes their women submissive and can be painful which add to the submissiveness of it. They openly talked about feeling more powerful during it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 10:05 PM |
| 4 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveHusbands get fulfillment anyway. Women often don’t. I never had an orgasm, my husband had tons of them. Sex is for him anyway, sex in general is more for men. Could they have stronger orgasms? Or even better experience? Maybe. So what? They still win and have it better than women. And yeah, when I say porn like things I mean extraordinary stuff. Obviously I know that porn can have missionary scenes. This is not what I had in mind at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 07:08 PM |
| 4 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveI don’t like blowjobs. I do it anyway but only a regular ones. So no rough blowjobs, no deepthroat and stuff like that. This is what I consider porn like. Other things that I would never do is anything painful, degrading or rough. So no name calling, no bdsm, no anal. You know, nothing like porn, nothing hardcore. No power play. I don’t care how other players are playing. They might be doing anal sex. Or handcuffs. I’m not going to do that. Sex is not supposed to be uncomfortable. I never allow … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 02:37 PM |
| 5 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveWhy condolences? Would you degrade yourself for a woman’s pleasure? If not, should I send condolences to yours partner? By wild sex I mean degrading things, like anal sex or bdsm. Pretty mich anything that puts me down or in pain for his pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 08:52 AM |
| 4 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveObviously by porn act I don’t mean missionary. I know people can record it and put it on the internet. By porn act I mean anything degrading. Or anal sex. Anything that is about a man that puts me down. Anything „dirty”. Pretty much things that are more about man’s pleasure that can put a woman in pain, are dirty or slut like. Also, it’s just a preference but for me if a vibrator does all the work than a man has nothing to do with woman’s orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 08:49 AM |
| 6 | Women Will Be Sexy For Money, Attention But Not For LTR LoveSo? Women aren’t satisfied either. Men orgasm much more often than women. I didn’t have a „hoe phase”. I got married at 20. It didn’t change anything, I never gave wild sex to him just because he was my husband. I wouldn’t give „wild sex” to anyone. So no, I’m not sexy for my husband but I’m also not sexy for money or other men. Btw. I understand that by sexy you mean wild in bed. I do take care of myself, I just refuse to do porny things in bed. I’m not going to try this shit. Most women aren’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 09:51 PM |
| 7 | Are there any women who have helped out their male friends after they were falsely accused for something by another woman?A guy from my previous job was fired for being a disgusting pervert. I was one of women who complained against him. I know for a fact that he believes that he was falsely accused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Misandry hurts women.Catholic church saints compared women to a bag of shit. All cultures put women down, some straight said that women were useless tree branches unless they gave birth to a son (China). Women were always considered inferior and even the source of evil that needs to be controlled, otherwise we destroy civilizations. Men in general always hated women. They built religions based around it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 02:09 PM |
| 4 | Misandry hurts women.So if women hate men they have a legitimate reason. The hierarchy that you mentioned is enough for me to nit care about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 02:05 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Ran-through girls make better partnersYeah, I always cringe when I see men saying that a woman without experience will want to try things. Why the fuck would I want to try kinks? Or other degrading things? The benefit of me waiting was that I wouldn’t have to do those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 08:55 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Ran-through girls make better partnersWaiting with sex doesn’t mean that a woman will try things with her husband. I got married at 20, I was a virgin. I will never explore kinks, no anal or bdsm bullshit. My husband doesn’t get to hurt me just because he is my husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?I objectively also look better probably because I’m super fit now, have long hair, clear skin and so on. But I’m 31 and I can’t stop thinking that it makes me unattractive for him. Because if all men think that a 31 can’t be attractive that so does he, even if he says otherwise. I even felt disgusting when I tried to masturbate or read some erotica, like I’m too old for that. Men were telling me that my life was over since I was 23-24. It obviously wasn’t actually over because I accomplished a l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?These things are said during podcasts watched by millions of people. They are so common that O can’t escape them even on groups dedicated to music production or historical fashion. Or even language learning. It’s everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?For the record, he never told me that I’m too old or ugly, he says that I’m the most beautiful woman he knows and so on. But I can’t help but think that he only says that because he has too. Like, I’m 31 so I can’t be actually, truly sexy. And if I can’t feel sexy I can’t relax during sex. Doesn’t matter what he thinks if in general I’m objectively unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Women can't have it all..Considering that most societies are misogynistic, especially middle eastern and african societies, there are much less good men available for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Women can't have it all..Yeah, I got married at 20. Now I’m 31. I work in my dream field, I spend a lot of time on my hobbies, I have an apartment (paid over half of the prize my myself). I don’t have kids but I don’t want to be a mother. I never had unprotected sex so it was never “I tried and never got it”. If I ever agree on having a child, I will agree only on one kid and my husband will take half of the maternity leave (it will be paternity leave). I already have it all and I will continue. I have everything I want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Women can't have it all..It’s not coping, it’s just the fact that being married or having a man in general is not a ticket to fulfillment and happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Women can't have it all..Men also need to invest tons of energy into their relationships to make them good. When they don’t, they get divorced as it happens for many men I know now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Women can have it allYes, I know women who have it all. View of them. The difference is that they refuse to everything regarding childcare by themselves. Their husbands stay with kids couple of times a week, when kids are sick these husbands also take time off from work etc. And the most important, they don’t have many kids in general. Most have one. I have it all and I will continue to. I don’t have kids and I don’t want a big family. If I ever decide to get pregnant it will be a one time thing. I simply don’t want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:49 AM |
| 15 | Has TRP affected your willingness to date?I don’t date because I’m married but it did affect how I view men and how I think men view me. Don’t get me wrong, I always kind of knew that many men don’t respect women as people, I grew up in a super conservative environment, and misogynistic politicians were also the norm in my country. But reading red pill spaces and listening to red pill podcasts made me believe that every man I meet thinks I’m a whore with 45IQ. Whenever I meet a group of people during my hobby event and there are men, I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you assume or think groups of women having fun together must be “degenerate” or sexually motivated?Sometimes there is alcohol, define skimpy dresses. I wear shorts and short skirts during summer. And? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you assume or think groups of women having fun together must be “degenerate” or sexually motivated?There are tons of single men where I do my hobbies. I often event talk to them and cooperate, like we do music together or meet in gaming jams. Btw, I also party. I never cheated. Not once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Do you assume or think groups of women having fun together must be “degenerate” or sexually motivated?You didn’t specify the type of event. You just said “goes out more than 6 times a year”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 03:52 PM |
| 0 | Do you assume or think groups of women having fun together must be “degenerate” or sexually motivated?Ok, men’s responses here show me why male opinion doesn’t matter. You guys are ridiculous, projecting hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 08:06 AM |
| 7 | Do you assume or think groups of women having fun together must be “degenerate” or sexually motivated?This is ridiculous. My life didn’t end once I got married. Or course I will travel to hobby events and with my best friends. He does the same. I never cheated once. I never even felt tempted to do that. None of my friends cheat when we are together. And with whom? Ourselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/24 07:59 AM |
| 0 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorBullshit. Me not being awesome in bed and actually not enjoying sex destroys my marriage. Men certainly do care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 03:51 PM |
| 2 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorReally? It’s definitely not my experience. I married as a virgin. I’ve been married for ten years now and I almost live in a dead bedroom. Turns out sex doesn’t bring me any pleasure and it creates a lot of problems and tensions between us. And when I talk to my friends who also were virgins before marriage they all feel similar. None of us have orgasms and we actually have a running joke about sex being a duty (we don’t really think that it should be but it kind of feels like it). I left church… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 03:49 PM |
| 4 | Men have a biological clock as wellI do, western world is already better now that it was a 50-100 years ago. I would never want to be a woman in the 50s. Less religion = better society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Men have a biological clock as wellI demonize men who don’t take it seriously. I demonize religious men (regardless of religion but islam is the biggest cancer now), all charlie kirks of this world, conservative men and so on. These men certainly do not care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 03:20 PM |
| 7 | Men have a biological clock as wellI talk about most men, including men here. I criticize conservative men, religious men, middle eastern men and so on. And no, most men don’t share 50% of house chores and child care, not in my country and I highly doubt that it’s the case in the US. It is changing, it’s still not enough and it still doesn’t mean that women are respected as much as men. Also, it’s american men who make tons of videos about “husbands should have a final say”, “women shouldn’t have a right to vote”, “it’s men who b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 02:29 PM |
| 9 | Men have a biological clock as wellMen don’t respect women in general, especially not mothers. Men don’t think that stay at home mothers deserve to have a final say in family, or that they deserve time to decompress or time for hobbies. Men don’t think that women contributed to societies, they think that only men built civilizations and that women should be forever thankful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 01:55 PM |
| 3 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorI’ts ok to be vanilla. This obsession with bdsm and weird positions is awful. Not everyone needs to do those things. And it’s ok of you jave a harder time orgasming. Most women an orgasm easily as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 08:48 PM |
| 21 | The fearmongering about modest women being a bad choice cuz they are bad in the bed is absolutely ridiculous and it denotes massive pick-me and porn rotten behaviorNot being able to compare him to other men doesn’t mean that she will be satisfied. I got married as a virgin. I know that I don’t enjoy sex, doesn’t matter that I can’t compare my husband to anyone else. Do I feel pleasure? No. So am I satisfied with my sex life? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 08:44 PM |
| 1 | The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own FaultI don’t blame men, I blame nature. Sex is for men. I’ve been saying that for a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 03:55 AM |
| 1 | The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own FaultBecause many women can’t orgasm during sex. I don’t insist on orgasming either. Because it’s too much work. It doesn’t mean that I’m happy or satisfied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 01:51 PM |
| 1 | The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own FaultMost women want pleasure. Many women also fake and act during sex. Many women say that they don’t need to orgasm and that closeness or whatever bullshit is enough and then they complain to their friends or on the internet. Sorry, I never take men’s word about female pleasure seriously. Because I know that most men have no idea what many women actually feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 01:29 PM |
| 2 | The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own FaultMajority of women most likely faked it. Sorry, pretty much all of my husband’s friends and husbands think that they are good in bed and that their women are satisfied. And I know for a fact that these women actually aren’t, they often fake it. Just like my husband thought for years that I loved being penetrated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 01:20 PM |
| 1 | The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own FaultBecause most women hear that sex is not about orgasms. I’ve heard that I shouldn’t focus on orgasming even beforeI got married. Most women wouldn’t definitely prioritize orgasms if we could. But we can’t. Women want to orgasm. That’s why it’s a never ending topic on every female forum, even on websites dedicated to selling clothes (vinted). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 01:18 PM |
| 1 | The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own FaultMy husband didn’t make money and I didn’t marry him for money. I still never orgasmed. I never felt aroused just from looking at a man, any man. Men’s bodies aren’t arousing like that. At least to me but also for all the women I talked to. If I waited for someone who aroused me I would end up single and be called a bitter cat lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 07:25 AM |
| 1 | The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own FaultYes, I do believe that. Men wouldn’t want sex if they knew that there chances of orgasming for them were low. When I talked to my friends who refused sex with their husbands or boyfriends, they refused it because they never orgasmed. I don’t enjoy sex BECAUSE I don’t orgasm. Being penetrated for 20 minutes is not that fun. It’s fun for my husband but I can’t pretend that that’s enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 05:17 AM |
| 2 | The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own FaultHow do you know it’s like this for most women? Most women because when I talk to women in relationships life in online, most of them prefer focus on their clit. Also, many women could fake during sex with you. My husband thought that I loved penetration for years. My friend’s husbands were also bragging about fucking their wives so good (not to me, my husband told me what they talked about). And I wanted to laughed because their wives and I pretty mich agreed that penetration does nothing to us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 05:13 AM |
| 6 | The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own FaultI would prefer tender loving because in your scenario it would bring me orgasm. I never had an orgasm during sex. So even wild sex or passionate sex would suck for me. Now the only thing I care about is orgasm, if it mean that I would be.just laying for 20 minutes in complete silence I would take this over passionate wild sex every time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 09:40 PM |
| 5 | The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own FaultWould they? Penetration does nothing to me, never in my life I thought “this feels amazing”. It’s just meh. It’s the same with almost every woman I talked to. No, correction. It’s the same with every woman I talked to because I can’t remember a single conversation when someone said that they liked penetration the most. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t agree on oral sex. But most of my friends who do would prefer it over penetration every time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 09:36 PM |
| 12 | Trad wife movement should be encouraged.I’m not stoping women from doing anything. But I was forced to live traditionally at the beginning of my adult life, I wasn’t presented a choice. It took me years of being miserable to escape. So sure, women shouldn’t be stopped from living the life they want. Tell that traditionalists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 08:19 AM |
| 18 | Trad wife movement should be encouraged.I was raised to like it, just like all of my friends. We were told all of this “husband is the head of his wife, submit, serve, blablabla” bullshit. We all rejected it. It never looked good. I definitely would never want to live like my grandmothers, or my mother (even though she made moneys she was still traditional and miserable) or like my friend’s mothers. Having a grumpy husband who thinks that his time is more important, his ideas and thoughts are more important and that only he deserves t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 07:25 AM |
| 0 | "Chinese Foot Binding" could have been women's own faultThat’s not true, even lowest levels of concubines didn’t have mutilated feet. Prostitution was one of paths that could wait for a lower class girl that didn’t have mutilated feet and wasn’t a good enough wife material because of that (and usually because of other reasons, but destroyed feet unfortunately helped). Having binded feet was a way for girls to have a „normal” life and to avoid being a low level concubine or a prostitute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 08:28 PM |
| 15 | "Chinese Foot Binding" could have been women's own faultFoot binding was specifically for men. It was required for women so they could get a chance at better marriage (or marriage at all sometimes). Remember that these times were really anti-women in China. Women were taught that they were useless until they had a son. Girls were taught they they were useless tree branches. Women didn’t have too many options. Men desired mutilated feet. It was considered more intimate than vagina by some. It was said that these feet reminded them of their own penis. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Have you ever "calmed down" or become less sexual as you got older?I got more interested in sex at around 30. O wasn’t promiscuous, I got married as a virgin. When I was 20 I didn’t feel desire for sex, I didn’t think about it. I didn’t feel aroused from looking at men, or naked men. I had sex but I never initiated because I never learned how to feel pleasure. A year ago I started feeling suddenly aroused and experienced desire for sex. But at this point I can’t feel pleasure because I don’t know how. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 07:37 PM |
| – | Men aren't attracted to their aging partnersMaybe there are expectations, like with everything. But in general sex is for men. Women’s pleasure is an afterthought, men are priority when it comes to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 05:46 PM |
| – | Men aren't attracted to their aging partnersThey just don’t want kids and mention it sometimes when people in comment tell them that they will die alone with cats if they are 30 and travel. Like I said, I was called a cat lady for saying that I don’t submit to my husband and that I’m still my own person with aspirations after marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 04:34 PM |
| – | Men aren't attracted to their aging partnersFrom what I see men call every woman who is single and ok with with it a cat lady. Woman says she doesn’t want kids? Cat lady. Woman travels the world? Cat lady. Woman wants to have a successful career? Cat lady. Woman says she doesn’t want to submit and serve men? Cat lady. Even I was called a cat lady and I’m married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 02:15 PM |
| – | Men aren't attracted to their aging partnersOrgasm gap in general shows that men are winning. Most women don’t orgasm from penetration. I don’t treat sex as currency. It’s just something we do for him, his enjoyment. He orgasms, I don’t. I don’t get anything for it, it’s not a currency, if anything it’s a selfless act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 02:11 PM |
| – | Men aren't attracted to their aging partnersSex is mostly for men and gives much more pleasure to men than to women. So sexual intimacy is still something a woman gives to her partner. It’s not really a benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:30 AM |
| – | Men aren't attracted to their aging partnersI’m married and I still agree with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:24 AM |
| – | Men aren't attracted to their aging partnersOk, but if men prefer to change partners then women not being married should be seen as a better opinion, instead of being called cat ladies, right? A cat lady avoids bring in a relationship with a man who wants to fuck other women because he is bored. And most men will want to do that. So being lonely is a win in this case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:23 AM |
| – | Men aren't attracted to their aging partnersThe post just explains why marriage is abad idea. Yeah, many men will not leave their wives. But so what if they will both like them? I watched my mom, my grandmothers and my friends mothers being in unhappy marriages with men. Who didn’t like them and corrected them even in front of other people. It is better to be alone, even lonely, than with a man who doesn’t like you anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Q4w: Please skip this post if you don't like the options. You can either be an never-married successful employee or be a mother and wife? Choose one.I got married at 20, as a virgin. The plan was to be together forever and I guess still is. And after 10 years I do regret it and wish was my life was different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Q4w: Please skip this post if you don't like the options. You can either be an never-married successful employee or be a mother and wife? Choose one.Being a sahm that homeschools and has to submit to her husband sounds like a nightmare. Would I be able to pursue my hobbies? Go out with friends? What If I don’t feel like having sex on a particular night? Or don’t want to give blowjobs, never? Will my husband still provide money or will I have to do anything he asks, even sex acts I don’t like, to not end up hungry? So yeah, if I had to choose I would choose career, although what you wrote doesn’t sound ideal. In general I don’t sacrifice for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 11:07 AM |
| – | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?Nah, it’s always better to be single than in a bad relationship. My grandmother wasn’t happy with her husband when she was 70 and 80. He was annoying, screamed and criticized her all the time, left shit stains on the toilet so bas that she was embarrassed to invite people to her house. She had to clean for him and cook, otherwise he would start whining. She was doing everything to be far from, she signed up to different interests groups and would spend as much time away from him as possible, eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 03:51 PM |
| 1 | q4a how much of sex is acting for you?I used to fake all the time, so I guess all of it was acting to me. But I never dirty talked or roleplayed or anything like that. I just thought I was supposed to moan so I moaned. Now I don’t do anything special, usually just lay there or ride. I don’t feel the need to say anything or to moan so I never do it. I definitely don’t try to play any role or anything like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 10:59 AM |
| 3 | The sex you see in porn sets unrealistic expectationsMaybe it depends on the couple. For me it is unrealistic and I think it’s a good thing. I would never want to have to do the things that happen in porn. I tried watching it maybe twice and it was awful both times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 05:44 PM |
| 7 | Kids effect men and women differently on the dating market place.Yep, another reason to not have kids. I would go through all this effort to be seen as a used car and not respected by a society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 01:37 AM |
| 4 | Q4W - Why is there hesistancy to acknowledge how good you currently have it?I acknowledge it often, we live in the best times ever. Usually I say it as a response to men crying about our civilization being destroyed because of women’s rights and other bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 01:31 AM |
| 1 | "Most men are bad/selfish in bed"From my experience most people are offended when they hear that. Some say that sex is mostly for women and so on. Once someone told me that saying stuff like this is misogynistic which sounded crazy to me. For me it’s the exact opposite. Acknowledging that sex is for men, so in my case for my husband, helped me actually stop lying that I enjoy it too and I stopped engaging in all of those different sex acts. Now it’s clear that I do it for him. He doesn’t do me a favor if we do it. It’s freeing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 08:32 PM |
| 2 | "Most men are bad/selfish in bed"Why? It’s common for women to not orgasm during sex. Penetration is literally created for men’s pleasure. It’s natural. It sucks but it’s natural. Sex is for men more than for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 05:20 PM |
| 2 | "Most men are bad/selfish in bed"I don’t think so, he is the one who always starts it. But even if, he orgasms. I don’t. Sex is for him anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | "Most men are bad/selfish in bed"Ok, my husband tried and I still don’t enjoy sex. Sex is just more for men than for women. Men’s bodies are designed for pleasure, they easily orgasm from the main act, penetration. I would have to do oral sex probably or use toys to feel pleasure. So it sucks. I’m not saying it’s men’s fault, more like nature’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 05:08 PM |
| 1 | "Most men are bad/selfish in bed"Well, yeah because he gets pleasure while I do all of those things and get nothing. So I don’t really feel motivated to ride for long because it gives me nothing anyway. He still orgasms, I don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 05:04 PM |
| 2 | "Most men are bad/selfish in bed"Sex is mostly for men. Their bodies were created to receive pleasure, so they are the default recipients here. I don’t know if men are bad in bed, maybe it’s more like for us feeling pleasure is not actually that natural. The main sex act, penetration, is just designed for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Women have nothing to gain by dating men, CMVNo shit. I wrote it with those men in mind who believe that being alone is the worst fate for a woman. No it’s not. Having a shitty or not so great husband is much worse. My mother isn’t happy even though she is married. Her single sister is happier and leads much better life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Women have nothing to gain by dating men, CMVIt’s always better to be alone than in a mediocre or bad relationship. Marriage doesn’t necessarily make life better, it’s often the opposite. I see too many unhappy women in marriages. My mom is not happier than a single woman her age because she is married. She is miserable because of her marriage. Same with both of my grandmothers, my two best friends and myself. Men don’t make our lives better in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Women have nothing to gain by dating men, CMVYeah, I think that being in a relationship is better than being alone only if the relationship is actually good. I would rather be lonely than be with most of my friend’s partners. My friends turned from being in general happy and curious to depressed, always angry or miserable, without a moment for themselves. I would also rather be single than with most of the men from my and my friend’s group. I would also rather be single than with any man I work with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 06:25 AM |
| – | Q4W: Are you aware that most young men these days are deeply ashamed of their sexuality?People around those men? The whole culture around them? Men being sexual is seen as expected and natural. Women can be sexual without being called whores only if they cater to a particular man. Women are even told that if they don’t give blowjobs they deserve to be cheated on or divorced. And desexualizing games does not mean that men’s sexuality is demonized now. It’s just making games for others as well, not just men. I’m also a gamer, I would definitely appreciate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 06:14 AM |
| – | Q4W: Are you aware that most young men these days are deeply ashamed of their sexuality?I wasn’t aware because it’s the opposite to what happens around me on daily basis. Men are praised for their sexuality where I live. Women are not. Women are expected to only be sexual in a way that pleases men. Men are the default, their pleasure is a priority, women are an afterthought. It’s biology, nature created us this way but it does suck. And nobody actually told me this before, so I had to learn the harsh truth by myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you prefer to date in the West or in the Middle EastThe point is that when men say that women from this or that country are good wives, they mean that we are submissive, don’t have ambitions and are raised to serve men. Which is offensive and simple not true. This is what polish men mean when they say that we suck. If it isn’t your opinion then I apologize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you prefer to date in the West or in the Middle EastJust wanted to say, that’s regarding Poland it’s nit true. I’m Polish, we are not submissive trad wives waiting for a man to serve him. Men here complain that we are awful and say that only Asian women are wives materials, which males it even more funny. So please don’t use us in you trad wives fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?I’m polish, I live in Poland. Birthrates are not rising here. Wtf are you talking about. We have the fastest shrinking population in Europe. https://forsal.pl/gospodarka/demografia/artykuly/9544670,kryzys-demograficzny-w-polsce-trwa-populacja-kurczy-sie-najszybciej-w.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?I don’t want to go through pregnancy and birth. I don’t want to risk having my vagina ripped, or hemoroids, or or c section. I hate the idea of giving birth and having to immediately care for my child without having the time to rest and recover. I hate that I would have to sacrifice everything while my husband would be able to live pretty much as before. I hate the fact that I would have to forget about my passions while he would be able to continue his. If I was a man I would have kids. But as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?I just see the reality. I’m inferior because I’m a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?I never said that being around women is a better experience. I’m only saying that being a woman suck. I suck because I’m a woman. And being a part of a harem is not a flex. Those women didn’t orgasm either. And didn’t have a chance to have their own harems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?And men still don’t feel with inferior bodies that women have. It’s like you are free of so much burden because you don’t have our shitty anatomy. And you are not inferior to all men. You still get to be superior, plus you don’t get periods and can actually enjoy sex without faking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?Sex is better for men. Penetration brings most men to orgasm. Men don’t need to masturbate during sex to cum. They don’t need to „explore themselves” to feel pleasure. Sure, it helps. But it’s not a requirement. I’m not saying this to make you feel bad. You should be happy about it. I know I would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?I know that men threaten other men. And it doesn’t negate men’s biological superiority. Men still are stronger, their bodies don’t suck, they don’t menstruate and don’t get pregnant. They enjoy sex by default and having kids is not this giant, body damaging sacrifice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?You are still strongly than women. I don’t know how tall 5’8 is, I use centimeters and meters. But you are still stronger than me even though I lift regularly. Sex brings you pleasure by default. You don’t bleed monthly. Your body doesn’t suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?I’m doing fine despite being a woman. It’s better to feel inferior compared to some men than to feel inferior to all men, half of the population. As a man my body wouldn’t work against me and wouldn’t be so week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?Most men can get partners. And when they do, they get mich better experience. Because sex is designed to please men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?I don’t think so. I’m doing objectively fine. I have a good job, I own my own apartment. And all of this despite hating myself and having inferior body. And if I was a man I wouldn’t feel inferior and my biology wouldn’t be a one big obstacle. My life would be much better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?Men don’t need to masturbate. Sex is what gives them pleasure. Average woman never orgasms during penetration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?Ive heared that orgasms are stronger for women than for men and men can also have kinda shitty orgasms. I don’t really think that it could be measured. But even if, I would prefer easy, small orgasms every time without having to do tons of work, explorations or using toys, over amazing, mind blowing orgasms that might not happen, or happen rarely and require much more effort. If an orgasm is pushing a stone over the tip of the mountain, a womans mountain is a lot higher and more satisfying and w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?Yeah, it’s awful. It destroys everything. Like I really am an afterthought nature. Men get to orgasm and their job is done. If I wanted to have a kid I would have to have sex, no orgasm, and then carry the burden for nine months and beyond. I would be left with all the physical consequences. It’s just awful and it’s one of the reasons why I hate my biology and being a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?How exactly are you rebelling? Being single and hooking up? Not having children? Being educated and having a career? You are in the era where that's been perfectly normalized. Women who marry young and start families are the rebels now. Sorry, the times have changed. We rebell by doing we want despite hearing that it makes us worthless, brainwashed or that we destroy civilization. Again, it's all about others' perception. You are feeding your own delusion of powerlessness like it's middle ages a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?Women do rebel now. And it’s just a fact, the more we rebel the more we hear that we are brainwashed. Men cry that women destroy societies if they don’t want to submit. Being weak makes me inferior. Men see me as inferior. Maybe they will help me and be happy that they aren’t me. They will not respect me and will likely want something in return. Also, my weakness is used as a reason why women shouldn’t have equal rights by many people. Imagine saying "so what?" to something many men absolutely s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 07:35 AM |
| -1 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?Being weak makes my body inferior. And makes my life harder as I have to ask for help more. So what if I can find a willing guy if I try? I still wouldn’t orgasm. But he would. So what’s the point? Sex is for men, so the fact that this one thing is easier for me is not beneficial. Men still have it better. And most men find partners. And orgasm. Men would also care if they heard that they will be cat ladies or that they are worse at something because of their genitals. Men do care a lot about pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 07:09 AM |
| 0 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?I never said anything about being a „chad”. Even average men orgasm easily. Aberrant men don’t have period, don’t need to destroy their bodies and risk health to become a parent, don’t get called a brainwashed feminist if they want to pursue their aspirations and in general men are taken more seriously than women. In other countries women are treated as second to men. As if it’s the default setting for humans. I don’t see how I have it better than average men. I’m weak, I have periods, sex is cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?Because sex is better for men. That’s how we were built. And we still need to have sex regularly to keep marriages and not destroy our relationships. But don’t be surprised that women see it like that. Men orgasm easily. Women don’t and usually need to masturbate, meaning they have to do everything by themselves. So sex is not worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?Yeah, it sucks. I think that sex was created for men. I have a feeling that I’m an afterthought of nature. The fact that I would have to experiment and masturbate to orgasm during sex while he can just put it in destroys any will in me to work for it. And it kills me that sex is obviously better for men but women still need to act in relationships like they love it as much and have it as often as the other partner wants to not be replaced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 05:53 AM |
| -3 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?I hate being a woman and having a female anatomy. My life would definitely be easier if I was a man. I wish I was a man because men are stronger, are taken more seriously, don’t have periods, their bodies were created to serve them, not a baby. If they want to be a parent they just need to orgasm. I would have to be uncomfortable and in pain for months if not years. Sex was created for men. They orgasm easily, women are built as an afterthought of nature when it comes to pleasure. Women need to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 05:47 AM |
| – | If you claim men are angry at women because women treat them badly, why is it hard to accept that the opposite is also true?Yeah, I think it’s understandable that we feel this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 11:02 AM |
| 2 | If you claim men are angry at women because women treat them badly, why is it hard to accept that the opposite is also true?Yes. Literally yesterday I had a conversation about not wanting middle eastern men coming here. Everyone agreed, not a single person said that thinking like this is unacceptable or something. It was a casual conversation while we were having beer and fun in general. It’s pretty normal to talk about it. Especially after border crisis and more people from this region trying to come here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 09:26 AM |
| 10 | If you claim men are angry at women because women treat them badly, why is it hard to accept that the opposite is also true?I don’t know. I openly say that I wouldn’t date muslim men and men who grew up in Africa or Middle East regardless of religion. I would never date a migrant or a refugee from that region because many of them are sexist, treat European women in a shitty way and don’t want to leave their backwards culture or religion behind. I don’t care that there are probably some of them who aren’t like that. And no one ever said anything about it to me and I voiced this opinion many times. Usually people were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:05 AM |
| 0 | q4w: Do you think your sex/head game is better than an experienced sex worker? If not, why should a guy choose you over a sex worker?He shouldn’t. Especially since being a god woman that doesn’t sleep around before marriage will not give her pleasure later either. So there is nothing in sex for her and there is not point in being good at it. Sex is mostly for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 01:37 AM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsThe only reason why I don’t want to have multiple kids is because it sounds exhausting and pregnancy and post partum sucks. And as a woman I would have to sacrifice everything for many years to be there for those kids 24/7. I could have many children probably. I got married at 20, I’ve been married for 10 years. I just don’t want to because I’m a woman and being a woman and making babies sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Behaviors create gender roles, not the other way around.The second guy would not make me feel relaxed. I would feel that I have to perform all the time my „womanly duties”, cook everyday, have sex even when I don’t want to and try sex acts I don’t want to try because he provides for me and I would have to adjust and keep work for keeping my place. The second guy sounds much more relaxing, I could be myself and not stress all the time. I could say no whenever I’m tired or just not in the mood because it wouldn’t threaten my wellbeing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Men really need to stop dating women who can't have orgasmsPleasure comes more naturally and easily for men. Women need to learn it (usually). And often use additional things to feel good. Some pleasure is not the same as almost guaranteed orgasms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Men really need to stop dating women who can't have orgasmsMajority of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone. They need fingers, toys etc. Sure, it’s possible. But naturally sex is more for men. They can just put it in and enjoy it. Many women need to learn how to like sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Men really need to stop dating women who can't have orgasmsWell, I don’t want him to do all the work. And I also don’t want to do all the work. Maybe he could bring me to orgasm before sex but then what’s the point of sex for me? Even if I orgasmed before penetration, it wouldn’t make penetration more interesting for me. I definitely wouldn’t want to still try all of those positions. It’s not that fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Men really need to stop dating women who can't have orgasmsWe tried fingers during sex but it’s hard for him to do it the right way while he is penetrating. It’s hard to keep two different types of tempos and right angle and other things at the same time. Using toys during sex would mean that I would be masturbating and he would be fucking me. So what would be the point of sex for me? He would agree to it but I don’t like the idea. Like I would have to do both, stimulate him and stimulate myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 11:27 AM |
| -1 | Men really need to stop dating women who can't have orgasmsYeah, but penetration is the main event. I wouldn’t want to be fingered after sex, it just seems awkward. And not everyone wants to be eaten out. Besides, penetration is sex. Orgasming from anything else is not orgasm from sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Men really need to stop dating women who can't have orgasmsMost women can’t orgasm from penetration alone. We have clits but the tops of the clit is not inside of vagina. Men orgasm easily from penetration. Women don’t. And yeah, I don’t want to be fingered or eaten out to try to orgasm. I would have to be eaten out or fingered everytime I have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Men really need to stop dating women who can't have orgasmsMost women don’t orgasm from penetration. It’s normal. Women have much more problems with orgasming than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 07:34 AM |
| -3 | Men really need to stop dating women who can't have orgasmsOrgasm after penetration would not be an orgasm from sex. And again, not everyone want to be eaten out. And laying there and being fingered is just awkward. Imagine, he cums and then she lays down and he uses fingers. It sounds ridiculous. Sex is for men. If it wasn’t, women would orgasm easily form the main event, without having to experiment and do many different things after or before sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 07:22 AM |
| 0 | Men really need to stop dating women who can't have orgasmsAnorgasmic women are normal. Penetration doesn’t stimulate head of the clit. What else can you expect? And not everyone wants to try oral sex, so it’s not a solution. I would have to masturbate probably to orgasm and it’s not a solution. Most women can’t orgasm from penetration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Men really need to stop dating women who can't have orgasmsWell, I never orgasmed and I’ve been married for ten years. I can’t orgasm with a partner. Top of the clit is not stimulated during penetration (I tried all the positions). It’s nit really my fault, I can’t change my anatomy. So it can be impossible for many women. You have no idea how common is this problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Men really need to stop dating women who can't have orgasmsSex is for men. Of course women will have problems with orgasms, we are built differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 05:48 AM |
| – | Would you want to be a man?I wouldn’t be expected to focus on being just a wife and a mother. I wouldn’t be told that I’m a brainwashed feminist for having other aspirations. I wouldn’t listen about my ticking biological clock and duty to find a husband to not be a bitter cat lady. I’m married btw. It didn’t make me fulfilled or a complete woman. I wouldn’t be shat on by men on forums dedicated to my hobbies, I wouldn’t read that women aren’t actually interested in music production or game design and that we just do it fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 11:46 AM |
| – | Would you want to be a man?Yes. It destroys my life, it’s always on the back if my head. Being a woman sucks. Everytime I read posts from men saying that women should serve them and be submissive, I hate being a woman even more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 11:31 AM |
| – | Would you want to be a man?I didn’t say I feel nothing, it just isn’t pleasurable. When I stroke my hand I feel everything but it also isn’t pleasurable. Most women can’t orgasm from penetration. Many women need specific positions and angles to find a small spot to feel something pleasurable. Men still have an easier time during sex and they have much bigger chance that they will feel pleasure. Even if not every orgasm is mind blowing, it’s still an orgasm. Many women need to learn how to feel pleasure and it usually mean… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 10:58 AM |
| – | Would you want to be a man?I hate being a woman. I always hated it. I get nothing from sex. Sex for men is much easier, they don’t have to learn how to orgasm. I’m less respected and seen as inferior. I get periods. Pregnancy and post partum sucks. Taking care of a newborn sucks. My aspirations are seen as something stupid or a proof that I was brainwashed. I’m supposed to stay cute and obidient and serve others. I hate that. I also hate that talking about taking my rights away is so normalized. And that most women in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 10:22 AM |
| – | Would you want to be a man?Yes it does. Penetration isn’t really pleasurable, so I get nothing if I don’t orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 10:12 AM |
| – | Would you want to be a man?I never said that’s it’s men’s fault. I’m jist saying that women get a worse deal. I never had an orgasm and I’ve been married for 10 years. There is nothing in sex for me, I don’t see the point of having sex if I don’t orgasm. I have it only for my husband. Penetration isn’t that pleasurable you know. So no orgasm means I get nothing. My friends are not interested in sex either. And „surprisingly” they also don’t orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 10:11 AM |
| – | Would you want to be a man?Men’s orgasm is almost certain. Many women can’t orgasm at all and have to learn it, most need to stimulate themselves during sex to get there. I never had an orgasm. If I wanted to have a child I would have to have sex, be uncomfortable for 9 months, be in pain during birth and them be exhausted after birth while my husband would just cum and then forget about any fatigue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing?Men’s careers don’t arouse me either. There is nothing sexually appealing about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?I am, how else would I know that it doesn’t work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?For me it never happenes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?I’m married. I promised to myself that I will not have oral sex even before I lost my virginity. I broke my promise for my husband but I still hate doing this. And I definitely don’t him to do it on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?I’m a woman. I don’t want to do oral, not everyone has to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 01:32 PM |
| 7 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?It’s a common experience. Many women don’t orgasm at all. Sex is for men mostly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 07:18 AM |
| 23 | Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO?No they don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 08:48 PM |
| 4 | Why do men demonize women over 30 so much?Why? I’ve been with my husband since I was 19. When never slept around. But I don’t have kids because I don’t want to. Why do I deserve to be shit on? What is so awful that I do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Why do men demonize women over 30 so much?It matters to me. I can’t get aroused because I’m 30 and I hit the wall. I’ve been with my husband since I was 19. Now I don’t believe he finds me attractive if I can’t be objectively attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 05:27 AM |
| 7 | Is Anti-Immigration/Refugee Sentiment Partly Fueled by the Fear of Sexual Competition?Anti-imigration sentiment is fueled by justified fear of other cultures and beliefs that are not compatible with ours, not some sexual competition. I don’t want to have tons of muslim, misogynistic men in my country. Or women covered from head to toes pretending that they do it because they want to. I don’t want people who came to my country and hate my culture at the same time. I don’t want people from Africa who don’t want to integrate and are misogynistic as well. That’s the reason I’m agains… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 05:43 AM |
| 0 | Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it.It’s quite common at least among women I know and many women from different forums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 07:50 AM |
| -1 | Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it.Well, I’m not. I never got aroused by just looking at another person. Looking at attractive men (or women) does not make me horny. Naked bodies don’t make me aroused either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 03:33 PM |
| 5 | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material womenNo? I don’t feel like that. Penetration does nothing to me, most women don’t orgasm from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 06:07 AM |
| 26 | Women DO fashion for themselves.I agree. I know for a fact that men hate many modern trends. I wear them anyway because I love them. I also love vintage pieces or experimenting with men’s clothes. I love heavy and colorful makeup which men hate. But I get tons of compliments from other women who in my circle also have interesting styles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Men here who are worried their LTR/wife had a 'wild past' or had hot, uninhibited, monkey sex or hardcore BDSM with her hookups but starfish, lights off, socks on, missionary sex with you.... I have a questionHaving normal sex doesn’t mean that someone is a prude. I don’t want to pretend that my husband hates me during sex. Having to do painful, porn-like things to your spouse is weird, nor regular sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 07:05 PM |
| 2 | This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen"Of course I try to find out why I don’t enjoy it. And of course I talked to him many times. He obviously noticed that I don’t enjoy myself and asked many questions. We tried all the positions and none of them worked. So there is that. He doesn’t act needy. But he also doesn’t enjoy sex if I don’t enjoy it, he wants me to moan and things like that. But I will not fake. And that what makes him resentful. I can’t figure out why there is no chemistry. I had no idea there was supposed to be chemistry… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 07:37 PM |
| 28 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menTbh i never felt lust or anything like this towards anyway, even men that objectively should be super attractive, have nice face etc. Some people just don’t feel like that. I don’t get aroused from looking at people. Looking at Harry Styles or Henry Cavil doesn’t make me horny or aroused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 01:57 PM |
| 4 | This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen"It’s not useless. It destroys sex and bad sex makes husbands unhappy. I don’t enjoy sex at all. There is literally nothing I can do to change it. And I will not fake to make it more enjoyable for him. And he doesn’t want sex with someone who doesn’t enjoy it and doesn’t moan. It destroys my marriage. No amount of non-sexual quality time spent together can change it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: If you're part of the 70% of women who never orgasmed from PIV, are you okay dying without ever experiencing it?How? Clitoris is responsible for pur orgasm, the top pf clit is usually the most sensitive part. Penis doesn’t stimulate that. When we masturbate we stimulate our clits, not vaginal canal. And many women have problems with orgasms and need manual stimulation during penetration. I will never orgasm from penetrative sex. It’s the same for literally all of my friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 12:30 PM |
| – | Identical twins shows blank slate equalism is wrongOf course daydreaming and running around is a typical girl behavior. And we got punished for it as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Identical twins shows blank slate equalism is wrongGirls are punished for daydreaming and being loud or energetic just as boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 05:27 PM |
| – | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usMost women think that manosphere is exactly what I wrote. These are the things we heard and saw, this is what goes to the wider public. I have no idea what fresh and fit’s opinions on men’s issues. The only thing I know is that they think that women are inferior, should speak only when asked, be submissive and that it’s ok for men to cheat. Same with other creators. Red pill subreddit isn’t any better. What are their views on other issues? I have no idea and I don’t care. I will not sympathize w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usI’m literally married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 11:21 PM |
| 10 | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usCalm down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 01:48 PM |
| 13 | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usI don’t have to, he is not pathetic and emotional like you. And doesn’t base his life on what imaginary creatures say. I hope you will find your balls though. Hint: praying will not help you grow them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 11:32 AM |
| 20 | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usI didn’t submit and I’m married. Also, your religion only dictates your life, not mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 08:32 AM |
| 108 | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usRight, it has nothing to do with those men saying that women are inferior, that women should submit to men and serve them, that women working on their goals are cat ladies etc. It also has nothing to do with calling women whores, plates, bitches. It also for sure has nothing to do with saying that it’s ok for men to cheat, that female pleasure is unimportant, that our rights should be taken away. Riiiight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 05:35 AM |
| 2 | It is great to be born a man.All of the things you said still didn’t make women be as respected as men. It still didn’t save women as a gender from being seen as inferior. Also all of the things you mentioned are also what holds women back. I don’t deny that making a human is a great power but I would rather not have to do that to have a child. Men have a much better deal in this aspect as well. They get to orgasm (many women don’t, I never had an orgasm in my life) and have a child without changing their lives too much. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 07:51 PM |
| 3 | It is great to be born a man.In general I know these things. You know, I understand that I shouldn’t base my value on what other people expect of me, especially men. And I don’t, I never once even tried to become a stereotypically feminine woman to fit in. But the thought that I’m still an inferior being in the eyes of the world is hard to ignore. The fact that this view is so common across all cultures crushes me on a deeper level. We needed a whole revolution to change it in our part of the world but it’s so natural in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 04:26 PM |
| – | "you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argumentI never experienced anything like this, this is the first time I hear about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 02:14 PM |
| 2 | It is great to be born a man.No, I still hate it. I actually hate it even more the more I work on fulfilling my career aspirations or on my passions. Even on forums dedicated to my hobbies there are threads about how women and only pretend to be introverted in musical production, that we are only there to suck up to men or that pur brains are only wired to cater to children and husbands. Polish is a gendered language, so I usually use male forms of words. But when I forget myself and use female form I’m treated like shit. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 12:02 PM |
| 1 | It is great to be born a man.This is probably a troll buy I don’t blame you. I hate being a woman. I hated it since I remember. I hated hearing that my husband will be the head of the household, that I need to obey because I’m a girl. I hated that my plans and aspirations and hobbies were never taken seriously. I hated hearing that I have to be a mother and give birth. I hate the way my body works, I hate my monthly cycle, I hate the fact that If I ever give birth I will have to sacrifice everything, be in pain and become t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 10:07 AM |
| 7 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?No it’s not. I can live without sex just fine, I will die without water or food. It’s the same for every single person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:50 AM |
| 1 | people's point of view about sex changes when it comes to modern womenI did date other men but I never used a dating app or hooked up with anyone. I was a virgin till marriage. But even when I was meeting with other men I didn’t feel aroused. I met tons of men in my life, at school, at work or as a date and none of them made me horny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:02 PM |
| 1 | people's point of view about sex changes when it comes to modern womenI’m married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | people's point of view about sex changes when it comes to modern womenYeah, I don’t know. I don’t think I’m asexual but looking at men (or women) just isn’t sexually exciting. Tbh I didn’t know that people felt like this sometimes until I started reading reddit. I had no idea that some people were ready to have sex justice from being next to someone. It just never happened to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 04:33 PM |
| 2 | people's point of view about sex changes when it comes to modern womenThis really depends on a woman. I never felt the need to rip a man’s clothes off. When I talk to my friends about sex, we usually complain that sex is overrated, not that we desire it. There are probably women who enjoy it be sex is for men (in general). If it was for women, it wouldn’t be so hard for us to feel pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Us women always have orbiters, yes us older ones tooNo, not always. I don’t have any and I never had any in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Do guys ever call their girlfriends or wives out for only having 'duty sex'?Yeah, I wouldn’t cheat. Cheaters disgust me. There isn’t really anything else that I could do but cheating is not the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Do guys ever call their girlfriends or wives out for only having 'duty sex'?Yes, I think never. I mean, I never had an orgasm and never felt pleasure. In my opinion this means that sex wasn’t good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Women who spent your 20s discovering yourself, what did you discover?Reading this made me regret even more getting married at 20. I only know what I don’t like, I don’t remember experiencing real joy or just being alone and enjoying myself. I’m happy for you that you got to experience all of this. It sounds like heaven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 09:32 AM |
| 2 | Do guys ever call their girlfriends or wives out for only having 'duty sex'?I only ever had duty sex (got married at 20, I was a virgin) and I didn’t even know it at first. But sex was never pleasurable so what else could I do? I was kind of called out by my husband in a sense that he noticed that I didn’t moan, and he wanted more of that but without me faking it. But without faking it I can’t react the way he wants me to so nothing really changed for 10 years. I did agree on trying different positions and they didn’t work, so yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap.Many women never let a man to penetrate their ass. And feeling sexy is not a need. I never felt sexy, I’m fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:15 PM |
| – | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.Then don’t do anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you're part of the 70% of women who never orgasmed from PIV, are you okay dying without ever experiencing it?I just don’t like giving oral sex, so I don’t want my husband to give it to me either. I tried to masturbate long time ago but I didn’t orgasm. But still, even if I agreed on oral sex or fingering, I would still have to have penetrative sex. And it just makes isn’t pleasurable. It’s just a penis in and out. So I still wouldn’t orgasm during actual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you're part of the 70% of women who never orgasmed from PIV, are you okay dying without ever experiencing it?Never. I personally don’t agree to oral sex, for the rest I don’t know what exactly they do in bed. But in general none of us orgasms. It’s a running joke in our group at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 12:05 PM |
| – | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.That there is no point i having sex if it’s not pleasurable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you're part of the 70% of women who never orgasmed from PIV, are you okay dying without ever experiencing it?Poland. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap.I don’t want to sound rude, it’s really not my intention, but many of them could fake it. Many women really do fake and men usually can’t tell. My husband had no idea for years that I didn’t orgasm. He thought I really enjoyed myself. His friends were often bragging about making their wives scream during parties while those wives were confessing to me and other friends that they didn’t really enjoy sex or just never orgasmed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 09:24 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: If you're part of the 70% of women who never orgasmed from PIV, are you okay dying without ever experiencing it?No, penetration is the last thing needed to orgasm. Penis doesn’t stimulate the top of the clit. Our source of pleasure is outside of our vagina. Expecting us to orgasm from penetration is like expecting men to orgasm without touching the head of their penis. Or from only stimulating their balls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you're part of the 70% of women who never orgasmed from PIV, are you okay dying without ever experiencing it?Well, none of my friends ever orgasmed. Same with me. Whenever I talk with my friends or with some new group of women, usually they all admit that they never orgasmed or in general don’t enjoy penetration at all. Usually after we had some wine. Maybe it’s country specific but If I had to base it on my experience, majority of women don’t orgasm during sex. Pretty much every female forum in my country has super long threads about not being able to orgasm. Even forums on portals with clothes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 08:15 AM |
| – | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.How? Sex is for men. Many women can’t even orgasm during it. There is nothing in sex for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap.I never had an orgasm. Pretty much all of my friends also never had an orgasm. Can some women have multiple orgasms? Maybe minority. But many women struggle to have even one. Sex and orgasms are in general men’s thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap.What? No, we are not multi orgasmic. Porn is not real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 06:42 AM |
| 10 | Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap.Why would we do that? Why would I have sex if it means I have to masturbate anyway? What’s in it for me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Sex is really only a physical need...Yeah, I’m married but I don’t feel the need to have sex at all. Never had. I never had an orgasm, I never feel the desire to have sex. When I left for work for over half a year and lived in a different country I didn’t think about sex at all. Many people are perfectly capable to live without it. It’s totally ok to not have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Women hate other womenI prefer female boss. Two male bosses I had were mentally unstable or just plain stupid. Also, it’s women who supported me and helped me in my life. My best friends are women. It’s men who disappointed me and still disappoint, never women. I read often posts from men saying that women hate other women. As if men wanted it. In real life it’s not true. I also prefer company of only women than only men or mixed genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 06:06 AM |
| 0 | The low bar for men is reflection of women's actual value in dating marketYeah, because sex is not pleasurable. So of course I will not want it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 09:49 PM |
| – | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.Are you kidding? Everyday I read on the internet, literally on every platform including reddit that 30 yo women are old, post wall, expired etc. And that women who file for divorce are divorce raping their husbands, have too much baggage and will be bitter cat ladies. I’m not going to do it to myself. Plus, it’s not my fault, I was literally raised to get married super early and told that it would be the best thing for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 01:42 PM |
| – | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.So I’m not called a post wall cat lady who destroyed her marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 01:37 PM |
| – | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.Women can also stay single. It’s better to be alone. I settled super early, at 20. Now my husband lives in almost sexless marriage because I can’t get aroused, never even had an orgasm in my life. Settling is a bad deal for women and a bad deal for men who were settled for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 10:22 AM |
| – | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.Would this unattractive man be ok with no sex? I think it’s better to be alone than with someone I don’t like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 10:20 AM |
| 11 | The wall is a fact and you don't do women any favors by denying itSure, but so what? Settling down early is not any better. I settled down at 20, and I didn’t even want kids. I settled down because I was afriad that I would be this stereotypical spinster if I didn’t. I heard similar points that redpill says, they were just said to me by my family and christian school. It was a giant mistake. It was a mistake for pretty much all of my friends who settled young. All of us regret it and pretty mich hate our lives. But be were talked into doing this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 10:12 AM |
| 6 | Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininityThat’s simply not true. Women were seen as inferior, even by catholic philosophers, ancient philosophers, by regular people, by classical writers and more. In many cultures today it’s still a thing. Even today feminine job is seen as less deserving of rest and free time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininityNone of the things you wrote shows that femininity is not seen as inferior to masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 02:33 PM |
| 8 | Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininityYes it was considered inferior. Greatest philosophers said implied that women are inferior, uncomplited men. In China women were considered useless tree branches. Polish classical literature is full of examples where women are being proved to be inferior to men. Catholic church which was dominant for centuries has saints who also believed in women’s inferiority. These are just view example. Women had to be feminine. But were also considered as less than men because of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 08:08 AM |
| 1 | How do y’all feel about the wade Wilson situationSame with ugly women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 07:39 AM |
| 2 | How do y’all feel about the wade Wilson situationReally? All the time? Most of those men are already somewhat attractive visually. Chris Watts, Ted Bundy, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 05:39 PM |
| 9 | How do y’all feel about the wade Wilson situationThere are more men than women. And female prisoners also get tons of attention. Like I said, they even find husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 02:23 PM |
| 12 | How do y’all feel about the wade Wilson situationMen marry killers that are in prison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 02:08 PM |
| – | Women who never were considered attractive enough for LTR in their peak (20's), should better give up on dating overall.I was never beautiful, never had bubbly or cheerfull personality, I also never had family oriented values. I still got married at 20. I’m a wife but I’m not a wife material according to this subreddit. If I got married even though I never actually cared about marriage, women who actually want it will find a husband without a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Why "just date someone from your social circle" is often poor advice for nerdy, socially awkward, sexless men and why cold-approaching as many women as possible is betterWell, sometimes it will work, sometimes it will not. I ghosted every single man that cold approached me. I gave my number every time, once I went for a quick walk right after he approached me (not because I wanted to, I was just being nice). I never was interested, I just didn’t know how to say no without it being awkward. So it’s not a perfect solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 08:52 PM |
| – | Western women's dating options are shrinking.Having a husband I don’t like would not make this time any better. Having to serve a grumpy, old husband all day sounds like a nightmare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 08:08 AM |
| – | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.He is ok. Marriage is just a part of life but it’s normal that people have ambitions beyond that. There is nothing wrong with the fact that I want to acheive my other goals. And he is not narcissistic. He doesn’t expect to be the center of the world. It’s the same for him, marriage wasn’t his dream and only goal in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 04:35 AM |
| – | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.The only judgment I get is from men. And the least happy women I know are women who got married. Your post was a pile of bullshit. Women do have ambitions and dreams. We don’t live to be wives. I’m married. Marriage didn’t make me a fulfilled woman. I never felt that I achieved what I was supposed after I got married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 08:10 PM |
| – | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.What a bullshit. I do and always had dreams that were mich different from getting married. My dreams are getting successful in a subject I’m passionate about since I remember. I did get married I don’t feel fully at all. Because marriage was never my goal, it’s just a part of my life, not the reason I live my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?I don’t know, I see tons of complaints from American women about this. It’s American women who tought me the term „primary parent”. Also, it’s American men who love to talk about female submission etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?Poland | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?Some do but it’s not enough usually. I don’t really care if he will change a diaper from time to time if I still will have to be the default parent 24/7 and ask for permission to go out without a child. Fathers keep much more freedom than mothers, that’s my point. And I don’t want that, so I’m not having kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?No, because it’s too much of a sacrifice for me. If I was a man sure, why not. I could definitely be a father. My kids would have my last name, my job would be easy. But as a woman I would have to be pregnant, give birth and be in recovery, come back to pre-pregnancy body as soon as possible to not be considered disgusting or lazy. I would have to sacrifice the things I love and time for my hobbies and myself while my husband would rest everyday after work. He would be able to go out, I would be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:57 AM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.Men absolutely didn’t invent menstrual products for women. Women used menstrual products, maid tampons and sewed pads for centuries. Some men took the idea and manufactured them, but so did women. Many women produced and manufactured menstrual products well. Men in many cultures made women feel ashamed of menstruation and menstruating women were considered unpure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:12 AM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.Nah, very often it’s just the way it is. There is nothing he can do to change it. Many women don’t orgasm, it’s very common. I talked with to s of women like me. Some even tried for years to enjoy it and nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:16 AM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.Sex is mostly one sided when we consider only the „main” part of it, which is penetration. Sure, there are ways for women to enjoy it but by default sex is good for men and not for women. Very often women need to learn how to enjoy it, need to fond special techniques or just be ok with orgasming only with fingers. I’m not saying it’s always the case but it happens often enough and it was the norm for centuries. Sex is for men. We can try to make it also for women but by default it’s fun for men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:14 AM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.Everything is fine, I even checked my hormones. I don’t masturbate anymore. And many women are like this. Most of my friends also don’t orgasm, we even have inside jokes about how bad it is. Plus I took part in countless threads on different women spaces about not enjoying sex and not orgasming. It’s so common it’s normal. Because sex is for men. And men know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 07:33 PM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.Sure, many women want it. And many struggle and don’t enjoy it. Every women’s space has topics about trying to orgasm. Women have to have sex to not get divorced and called post wall hags who destroy families. Sex is definitely something men do to women. Even language around it suggests that. He fucks her, she gets fucked. Sex is about men’s pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 07:23 PM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.Yeah, men have it better. Men know that they will be pleased. I have to have sex even if I don’t orgasm, otherwise no relationship for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 05:21 PM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.Well I don’t see being able to have sex easily as a benefit. I don’t get anything out of sex. So I definitely would not acknowledge it because I don’t get male obsession over sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 03:30 PM |
| – | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.Sex is absolutely something women give to men. Men get pleasure instantly. Women don’t. Many women don’t orgasm. I never orgasmed once. Sex is absolutely something I give to my husband. I get nothing out of it so I never pursued it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 03:28 PM |
| 9 | A woman listening to Red Pill influencers and taking their advice to heart is a sure way to attract abusers and narcissistsWomen did work anyway, they had to. And yes, domestic violence was so common in many cultures it was considered a family business. In China women were literally thought that they were useless tree branches until they gave birth to a son. In Poland women were taught about male superiority and female doctors had many troubles of getting jobs because even their superiors didn’t want them to work in this profession. Domestic violence was so common that both of my grandmothers were abused in two diff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 03:20 PM |
| 4 | There is nothing inherently wrong with Patriarchy. There is nothing inherently right with Matriarchy. They are equally neutral.Patriarchy is very good at painting women as inferior and dehumanizing then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Women, what percentage of you would "pursue your own pleasure" while your country collapsed (due to your refusal to give up some of your own time / effort to do something that would stop the collapse)?I would do many things. Definitely things that wouldn’t require me to be pregnant, give birth and being a primary parent. Especially if it meant to have multiple kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Why do women say they can't find a good guy?Yep, women weren’t respected to the point that they were taught that they were useless tree branches (China), or they couldn’t go to the bathroom in public because their place was at home, and they couldn’t divorce their cheating husbands unless he was obnoxious, while their husbands could divorce them (Victorian England), or they were told to leave quietly if their boss raped them if they worked as maids (also England). Or they walked around with vaginal prolapses from non treated birth wounds.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Some men's obsession with deflowering a virgin is stupid but the argument made against it are even stupider.I never said that. I’m just saying that having a virgin doesn’t mean that she will not know when sex doesn’t bring her pleasure. I’m not satisfied just because I waited. I don’t have any comparison but I know that my sex life sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Some men's obsession with deflowering a virgin is stupid but the argument made against it are even stupider.If she will not enjoy sex he will not enjoy it either after a while. I live pretty much in a dead bedroom situation because I don’t like it. Like it or not, sex is about both people, not just men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Some men's obsession with deflowering a virgin is stupid but the argument made against it are even stupider.I’m a woman. He tought me what he likes. But turnes out I don’t like what he likes. So it’s good for him and pleasureles for me. I didn’t need to have sex with other men to know when sex isn’t satysfying for me. I don’t have any comparision but I knew when something doesn’t feel good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Some men's obsession with deflowering a virgin is stupid but the argument made against it are even stupider.Sex doesn’t have to get better. I got married as a virgin. It was never good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 06:02 AM |
| 5 | Some men's obsession with deflowering a virgin is stupid but the argument made against it are even stupider.I got married as a virgin. Sex never got better. Not for me anyway, maybe for my husband. So you are wrong, it’s definitely possible for it to be bad all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 06:00 AM |
| 6 | I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest groupBeing alone is definitely better than being in a crappy relationship. Many people are unhappy in a relationship. My mother would be much happier if she divorced my dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it a man's responsibility to turn a woman on?I lived in Warszawa, Opole, Zakopane and in a small village in Lubelskie. Didn’t notice any difference when it comes to young people’s mentality. Way of lives was sometimes better, sometimes worse but Warszawa definitely isn’t like seperate coutry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 05:50 PM |
| – | Is it a man's responsibility to turn a woman on?Most women can’t orgasm from penetration. We have clits for orgasms. Do you expect men to orgasm without stimulating the tip of their penis? And orgasming for women is much harder in general. I never got to orgasm during sex once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Is it a man's responsibility to turn a woman on?Warsaw is definitely not like „it’s own country”. It’s stereotypically Polish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 01:46 PM |
| 5 | The trad-con and manosphere assertion of femininity being inferior is why many women turned away from femininityTraditional men see them as inferior as well. A breadwinner gets a final say, gets to rest everyday, get to decide how money are spent. A woman who stays at home is supposed to submit and serve her husband because he makes money. Making money seems to give more privileges than taking care if kids and cooking. Also, many women don’t want to support. I want to be successful, I want to be the one who acheived something and be praised and proud of myself. I don’t just want to be in the shadow and si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 08:11 AM |
| 2 | The trad-con and manosphere assertion of femininity being inferior is why many women turned away from femininityFresh and fit said that men are better than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: How do you feel about Pick MesI also like black coffee and drink beer but I’m not a pick me. I don’t put men first and I don’t cater to them, I don’t see my husband as my leader. Pick me is a pathetic woman like Pearl Davis, not a woman who happens to like one coffee over another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 06:38 AM |
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