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Ahh yeah a lot of differences state to state
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 07:51 PM
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You force yourself to stay calm and divert your attention elsewhere. There are better things to be done than worrying about something you have very little control over. Do everything correctly and don't give her any ammunition for a legal battle. Do not subject yourself to any setting which could be manipulated into your own demise. Women can lie about anything, call the police, and have you taken away in shackles. The law is built around taking you down, so do everything in your power to comple…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 01:13 AM
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If I had the time I would. I'm in the home-stretch for my degree and it's taking most of my spare time.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 01:11 AM
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I elaborated in another comment, it's a long story.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 01:10 AM
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There was a good description of AWALT in another post not too long ago about how it's very similar to how a gun should be treated. Always treat a gun as though it is loaded, and always view a woman as though AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 01:01 AM
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You are just wrong? It's in my final agreement, no party shal pay child support.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 10:59 PM
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That's shitty to hear.. I guess I don't know what would have happened. I had a good lawyer, he's the one who convinced her to no-show ultimately. It's insane that the justice system would ever decide to exclude a willing and able parent.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 06:53 PM
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I don't know your story, but you had to of done something very wrong to get in that position.. It'll come down to you convincing her that you are an integral/important part of your kids life. When she's getting that much money though I doubt she'll care much. I think it's a bit easier to avoid your scenario by being proactive immediately after it all goes down. It's better to be the one who files for divorce. Gotta get the temporary agreement and then find a way to get her to stick to it.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 06:46 PM
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After all of this I'm fairly certain I'll never marry again. If the laws change then maybe, but I really only see it getting worse in my lifetime.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 06:42 PM
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You have good points. I don't know who she'll end up with in the long run. She's shown to me that she can be a good mother so far though, and that she loves our daughter. I don't have justification to try and take my daughter's mother away from her. I'd like to think that having both parents play equal parts in her life will be the best option.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 06:00 PM
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It's kind of unclear the way I worded it, but I had discussed with her over the past few weeks how she doesn't need to go to the hearing if she just wants to continue as we have been. She would go back and forth between threatening to take my daughter and then agreeing that it should be joint custody/parenting. Actions spoke much louder than words in this case though, because for the entire six month temporary custody agreement she followed it adherently, and we communicated enough to ensure eac…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 05:29 PM
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I only wanted joint custody. I don't want for her mother to not be in the picture.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 05:17 PM
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I'm anticipating this also. I'm not really sure on how exactly to combat it other than continue being civil and dismissive of her negativity. Only time will tell.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 05:15 PM
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We were very well prepared for her to show.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 05:14 PM
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The divorce is final, neither party pays child support because of similar incomes and split time with my daughter. Joint physical custody means we have her half time and work together on decisions with school and such.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:01 PM
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Here is a lengthy explanation of the situation. I had someone request me to cross-post over here, as it may apply more directly to this community. This was in response to someone asking me to elaborate on what I meant by "holding frame". I had a moment of weakness where we'd taken our daughter to her three month check up together. At this point she'd realized her mistake and wanted me back. I wasn't ready to let her back in though, and this infuriated her. After the appointment we drove back to …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 02:29 PM
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Thank you, it's good to hear other successes. There are a few red pillers who'd gone through this who helped me out early on. The advice I'd received was priceless and helped me overcome some really dark times. Best of luck to you too, you sound like a good father.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 02:03 PM
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I wrote out a bit of it under another posters comment.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 01:59 PM
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Thank you! It really is expensive, but absolutely worth it. Between the split of assets and legal fees, it cost around $5,000, which is actually a bargain compared to others.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 01:58 PM
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I can't really give any suggestions as I've never read anything like that. I mostly stick to scifi, with Old Man's War and the Ghost Brigades being a couple of my favorites.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 01:56 PM
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Thanks! I'm glad I could help.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 01:54 PM
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Exactly this, I stayed calm, remained patient.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 01:41 PM
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It's really the best way to describe the situation. I had a moment of weakness where we'd taken our daughter to her three month check up together. At this point she'd realized her mistake and wanted me back. I wasn't ready to let her back in though, and this infuriated her. After the appointment we drove back to my apartment and she asked me again to take her back, I declined, and she started yelling at me, saying I'd never see my daughter again. She unbuckled my daughter and took her to her car…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 01:41 PM
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Thank you, it is an indescribable feeling of dread having someone try to take your kid away from you.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 01:06 PM
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Absolutely, my daughter will grow to view the world in a much different light now that I've secured my time with her. Had I lost her, she'd end up exactly like her mother, a beautiful, manipulative, power hungry man-eater. My ex grew without a real parental structure and I basically took her in and raised her over the last six years, or at least provided stable ground for her to grow on.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 12:58 PM
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How did you manage to lose your kids? I can't imagine losing my daughter. Joint physical/legal custody, lawyered up the moment she left.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 01:35 AM
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Would also like an elaboration.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:34 AM
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Cystic fibrosis? Maybe white noise? A fan?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 09:35 PM
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Can you recommend an app for tracking lifts/gains?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 01:12 PM
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What kind of a mother was she? Did she do okay? I have a 9mo old with a similar ex-wife, similar situation, and worry she may neglect or abuse my child.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 03:45 PM
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Any tips on how to handle a bpd ex-wife/mother of my child? I seem to be doing alright, but tips & tricks are always welcome.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 03:40 PM
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First time we got pregnant she miscarried, second time she got pregnant she was stuck at home, which was 70 miles from where she's from (where she knows anyone). We had sex every single day until and after she got pregnant the 2nd time, which was a month after miscarrying. The only guy she was sleeping with before me was Mexican. I am very white, and so is my child, which looks exactly like me.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 04:32 PM
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Thank you, I will.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 01:30 PM
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I didn't think about any of that, makes a lot of sense. Thanks man! Good to hear it all worked out so well.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 01:30 PM
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That makes sense, I know for a fact that I was very blue pill/beta up until a few years ago. I don't know that I'll ever trust another person again. I'm not sure that women specifically are untrustworthy, but I've had very bad luck with the few I've grown close to outside of my family.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 02:02 AM
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This is great to hear! How did most women respond to you having children? What age were/are you and your children (if you don't mind me asking)?
/r/askTRP06/06/15 01:57 AM
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I've only drank, I quite smoking cigs about a month ago (I only smoked for a few months after she left me, otherwise I had quit for over two years). I will stop buying alcohol for my home, but maybe drink with friends/family where it's "appropriate". I never get drunk.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 01:56 AM
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It's nice to hear this. I can't afford much babysitting yet, but my family is a huge help when it comes to sitter needs. I'm excited for when my daughter can walk/talk and such. I have a blast every moment I spent with my 3 year old nephew. I'll undoubtedly continue monk-mode. Literally every day she attempts to harass me in one way or another. I am considering some sort of recording device for any time I interact with her, as she's threatened to call the police on me more than once for absolute…
/r/askTRP06/06/15 01:54 AM
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She's cheated on me before, we'd been together for about 6 years on and off, decided to try marriage with a kid and figured why not? In retrospect I should never have wed or had a child with this woman. In the "12 ways to know your LTR is a slit" trp post she'd have at least a 9/12 of the listed and did a lot of bullshit manipulation like gaslighting/shit tests. I've been subbed to trp for a couple years now, and have always suspected it of her, just turned a blind eye and kept trucking along in…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 06:19 PM
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If I were to catch any hint of wrongdoing to my daughter she would lose any form of control immediately. I'm a very protective person. My ex grew up without her parents in her life, one imprisoned and the other into drugs, she seems to have abandonment issues and is never single for long. I try to keep a close eye on who she brings around my daughter. She's stated that she'd never let harm come to her though, as she'd suffered through those kinds of events in her younger years.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 02:39 PM
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I'd like to think I'm past anger. I was for a few weeks, but it helped me to power through school. I was too busy between school and work to let the situation bring me down. I may be slightly depressed now, but am working through that too. Going to cut the drinking.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 11:00 AM
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I'm fairly certain it's mine, looks more like me than her.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 10:59 AM
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I'm 23, 6'1 180lb decently muscular low fat, good looking. I only make $11/hr though. When she left me I was in the middle of my first nursing school semester while still working full-time, so I had zero days off per week, I'm assuming she just didn't get enough attention. She may have been on somewhat of a vendetta too as during her 9mo pregnancy I dropped from 215lb to 175lb in a lean cut, and was in the process of bulking back up. I'll have my lpn at the end of the year so I'll be making abou…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 10:54 AM
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Thank you, I've been doing this somewhat, drinking maybe a little too much but offsetting it with the gym. I'm not sure how the single life is with a 6 month old daughter though. I doubt it's the greatest? I've been monk-mode since she left me basically, thinking I'd might as well continue it through the rest of the year until I get my degree in December?
/r/askTRP05/06/15 02:02 AM
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She's not a horrible mother, just a bad wife/partner. I'm not really interested in full custody, half-time seems like the right thing to do for my kid.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 01:35 AM
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This is the kind of response I'd hoped for.. Thanks man, there's no way I'd take her back, this is the 2nd time she's cheated, just this time we were married with a child.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 01:34 AM
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Good god your intuition really saved your ass. Bravo!
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 03:31 PM
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Do you like money?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 09:48 PM
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