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| 2 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.Doesn't your first paragraph kinda imply that if you want a woman who is both sexually voracious and feminist and egalitarian about her views on sex, it would be smarter to select for women that have casual sex and have lots of previous experience? I don't care at all about body count, but it's super important to me to feel sexually desirable, and the idea of accidentally getting into a relationship with a woman that represses her desire for me is my idea of a nightmare. I'm coming at this from … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 06:55 PM |
| 6 | The primary biological drive that has driven male ambition for all of human history is WOMEN (to attract a mate/secure a wife/and provide for a family), and the fact that its out of reach for men today is why they are opting out of society2016 election dems won the popular vote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 11:05 AM |
| 6 | The primary biological drive that has driven male ambition for all of human history is WOMEN (to attract a mate/secure a wife/and provide for a family), and the fact that its out of reach for men today is why they are opting out of societyWho would men be going to war against? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 11:04 AM |
| 8 | The primary biological drive that has driven male ambition for all of human history is WOMEN (to attract a mate/secure a wife/and provide for a family), and the fact that its out of reach for men today is why they are opting out of societyActually, the happiest countries have some of the lower birthrates. Denmark, Iceland, Sweden, the Netherlands consistently rate as the happiest countries on Earth and their birthrates are just as bad our worse than American ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Men would have a much better time dating if they believed that they were actually the prize.I sort of struggle to see the difference between that and being a passport bro. The whole point of being a passport bro is to go to countries where men can more easily get a traditional woman if they aren't poor, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Women are OK with men decentering them. There is much more pushback from menWhat social safety nets specifically are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherConsidering Nazi propaganda portrayed Jewish women as reducers of Aryan man, I find it hard to believe some of them were not sexually attracted to Jewish women lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherDo you don't think people rape who they find attractive? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherDo you think you need to think highly of a group of people to be attracted to them? How highly do you think the Nazis that raped Jews in the holocaust thought of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Dating for months does not automatically mean a relationship.Because the less you assume about people the better. People during your college age had far less exposure to the idea of sleeping around or not dating with the idea of exclusivity so that was a safer assumption back then. Are you seriously asking why you should not assume humans, a social species that isn't naturally monogamous, are not dating multiple people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.He does not care enough that he feels it is some big societal issue that is preventing him from achieving his goals. He does not need romantic relationships to be happy, and if he does decide to be in one, he will vet the woman to make sure her views are compatible with his. What is difficult to understand about this? It's not some ancient truth but clearly it's in need of repeating because men like you deny it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismI mean, I do ultimately think women prefer life now to when gender roles were more in effect, regardless if some of them wish men were approaching more. I think women expect traditional roles far less than they used to. But even still, if they decide they decide that the only man they want to date is some rich 7 foot tall dude who simultaneously treats them equally but also adheres to all male gender roles, what's the issue with that? It's unrealistic and silly, but they are allowed to stay sing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismWhat does handling it "responsibly" mean? How is not approaching not responsible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:55 AM |
| -1 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismI'm not familiar with said article. Regardless, I don't think women believing they notice a lack of good men represents any actual regret or desire to change dynamics on their part. But like I said, I still don't think any significant portion of women is saying or thinking stuff like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:38 AM |
| -1 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismThose are ragebait engagement posts and not at all reflective of how women actually think. Tiktok is not real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I agree that pregnancy, especially difficult ones, can take some recovery time. I would like to point out that baby formula exists so women don't necessarily have to nurse at all, but I get your point. Honestly, my desire to have any hypothetical partner actually birth my children is pretty low. I tend to not really have the severance for it that lots of people do, so I think I'd only go along with a partner that wanted me to if they promised me I could have it my way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I mean, for me personally I don't really want kids, and if I did I'd be okay with adopting. If I ever got another woman pregnant it would pretty much only be because she convinced me to do so and pushed past my hesitations of her being pregnant causing her to not work, so I think in that scenario it wouldn't be hypocritical for me to want her to be the provider. I've actually pretty much already decided I only want kids if I can be a SAHD. What are your thoughts on them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Oh, I thought the idea was that you guys would both actually get a surrogate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.So you're saying you'd actually want to be in a relationship with an actual SAHD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.We're playing the "if things keep going at the rate they've been going it will not be rare anymore" game. Y'know, anthropologists kinda make a living off of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 10:29 PM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Sure, just like women in the workforce or in the education system. These things don't happen overnight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Why would they not just both pay for surrogacy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.The rising number of SAHDs would disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 04:41 PM |
| – | Do women realize that many adult men just don't have people they consider friends?Search up "male only book club". They exists and aren't controversial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 07:22 PM |
| – | Men are actually dating upAmbition is sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Men who dated "experienced" women, how do you deal with the fact that your partner likely hooked up with guys hotter than you?Not really. That's the entire point of reddit. You could've dm'd them if you actually wanted it to be private. There is no butting into a conversation on a public message board meant for discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Men using external non invasive mediums to boost thier looks should be as normalized as it is for womenIt is normalized for men to wear makeup? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Just a reminder that you're not a monster for wanting sexIf women were nearly as horny as men but only for "Chads", there would be "Chad" prostitution rings. The fact that there aren't means that women aren't as horny. Many men find being sexless very difficult while more women do not. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/25 12:01 AM |
| 0 | Just a reminder that you're not a monster for wanting sexDude you are proving my point lol. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/25 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Just a reminder that you're not a monster for wanting sexThe fact that when women are horny they can get men easily, but men can't get women easily when they are horny, means men are hornier than women. Women can have sex easier than men because the number of horny women is less than the number of horny men. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/25 08:00 AM |
| 5 | Just a reminder that you're not a monster for wanting sexMen would mate with female monsters, too, if there were as many of them and if those monsters wanted to have sex with them. I think the existence of prostitution and onlyfans proves that men are more horny on average. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/25 12:22 PM |
| – | You can't demand femininity without gender rolesAs a relationship dynamic to strive for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 12:07 AM |
| – | You can't demand femininity without gender rolesIs it reasonable do you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 12:05 AM |
| – | You can't demand femininity without gender rolesIf you don't like feminine women, is it okay to want to split bills(or even have them pay for you)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 12:04 AM |
| – | Men who have no luck dating, why are you still trying?So if you met a man that had the "personality of a woman" you'd fall in love with them? If you met a man that was sweet and emotional? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 01:27 PM |
| – | Men who have no luck dating, why are you still trying?But all of those things you listed you can do with a man. You can be part of a team, live your life with them. If that's really all it's about, the gender shouldn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 01:23 PM |
| – | Men who have no luck dating, why are you still trying?You could do all those things you listed with a man🤷♂️. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 01:12 PM |
| 4 | Appeal to nature arguments and what humans historically did are dumbit is more beneficial to be strong, than it is to be weak Patently false. We have loads of instances of creatures evolving to be smaller and have weaker immune systems because the extra calories required to maintain such structures wasn't worth the trade off. Same with intelligent creatures becoming dumber because intelligence wasn't required for their survival and they evolved simpler, more efficient brains and nervous systems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You ThinkI mean, I wouldn't be so sure. I know more and more men in the gen z age range that just don't seem interested in dating. Masturbation seems to quell their urges well enough, and they're more focused on video games and stuff like that. Seems like men and boys like that are getting way more common nowadays. As for saving the human race, again, I wouldn't be so sure. Sure, birthrates are down in the Western world, but it'll never get so bad that the species will be in danger of going extinct. Arti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You ThinkEh, I don't think women should be punished for being evolutionarily successful. I most men should just go extinct and let the species evolve uninhibited. We may be seeing that happen already, as I'm seeing more and more men talk about being happy single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You ThinkWell, maybe men have run their course evolutionarily speaking? The whole point of evolution is that beings that aren't suited for their environment die off and those that are thrive. I guess it's just time for men, as they are now, to go extinct already and make room for the next improved iteration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 06:38 PM |
| – | Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men?So? What difference does it make. No one even knows your relationship status unless you disclose it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 02:01 AM |
| – | Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men?Is your entire life dependant on how women see you? I can't think of anything that is less important to me than what women think about me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 01:09 AM |
| 6 | Opinion: Biggest benefit of dating men over womenIf a straight man said "I still want to fuck women but don't think they're worth the trouble of dating" would you call them not straight? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Male sexuality wouldnt be demonized if men werent using it to excuse bad behavior.I mean, no one has the right to not be insulted or ostracized(depending on what ostracized entails). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Male sexuality wouldnt be demonized if men werent using it to excuse bad behavior.Oh, I am involved in genital mutilation. Making wieners go bye-bye is my favorite pastime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Rejecting anyone for any reason is fine, the end, dating is inherently selfish, discriminatory and judgemental.Not really. As long as most men work, society will pretty much function as normal. And the same men that are so distraught by not having girlfriends are not the same men that could deal with the consequences of not working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Rejecting anyone for any reason is fine, the end, dating is inherently selfish, discriminatory and judgemental.I mean, maybe for redpill/incel weirdos that value relationships over everything. Normal people's issues with society has nothing to do with ddating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Male sexuality wouldnt be demonized if men werent using it to excuse bad behavior.My man, I know you think that all feminists/women are out to get you and manipulate you into cutting your dick off or whatever, but what she's saying is literally just basic logic lol. If more men want sex with women than women want sex with men, and we need to find a way to give all men as much sex as they want, what would be the only way to fix that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 09:09 AM |
| 3 | Men need to learn to be happy being singlePffft socialist bullshit😂 you're adorable. And no, I'm saying that having a nuclear family and pair bonding by having a gf is a figment of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn to be happy being singleYou do realize that the nuclear family isn't a creation of evolution, right? No great apes is naturally monogamous and your desire for a wife isn't some biological mandate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn to be happy being singleYour instincts also have no concept of caring about things on the species level, that isn't how evolution works. You evolved to seek sexual pleasure because those that sought it happened to reproduce more, but it isn't like your DNA has an awareness of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 02:02 PM |
| -2 | Men need to learn to be happy being singleBut any mentally healthy human can be more than happy being single. Maybe not as happy as they would've been if they were in a good relationship, but happy none the less. In fact, research shows that the sorts of people that are happy in relationships are also happy single. Basically, the most mentally healthy people are the ones that are fine being single. Being so obsessed with getting a gf that you'd let it just entirely consume you is pretty dumb, lol. It's your choice to make, but acting li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 02:00 PM |
| 0 | Men need to learn to be happy being singleWe're talking about survival on the individual level, not the species level. If everyone suddenly became sterile that would make every individual human no more less likely to survive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 01:51 PM |
| 0 | Men need to learn to be happy being singleThe difference is that any healthy human being can be happy being single as romance isn't a basic human right but freedom is. I'm single and have never had a relationship and I'm happy as can be. I don't know whatever this nature you talk about is, but it doesn't exists within me. I'm not aromantic or asexual, but having sex or a relationship certainly isn't a requirement for a good life. Sucks to suck, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 01:49 PM |
| 1 | How would the world change if men only had medium to low libidos?Can't be obsessed with it that much if lots of developed countries are facing a birthrate decline. I'm not trying to insult you, but I genuinely think this is a case of someone who is chronically online not realizing that everyone else isn't like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 01:32 AM |
| 1 | How would the world change if men only had medium to low libidos?So do normal men, lol. I don't really think the majority of men hold getting pussy and playing Dota 2 as the most important things in their life. Maybe on reddit, but certainly not the majority of the men I talk to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How would the world change if men only had medium to low libidos?Yet I am the hardest working person the planet chasing vagege. So what I'm saying remains true. For you. None of the men I personally know value pussy to that extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | How would the world change if men only had medium to low libidos?Have you ever considered maybe you're just lazy in general? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Women saying that men would be more attractive if they were more confident is a double-bind.Do men pick based on virtues instead of looks? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)2/2 Also… I’m not sure how emotional expressiveness helps. When I was young… which granted I’m a millennial, I needed goals and ambition. I needed to be told I could achieve things and an outline of how to do it. I don’t think I ever felt like I couldn’t cry about my problems, it’s just that crying never helped me. Actually in particular I was on a basketball team at 12 and nobody would pass me the ball because I sucked. I cried about it a couple times that season. Didn’t change anything. My gra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)1/2 I'm glad you find my perspective interesting! I'd say I'm pretty happy with my life trajectory. I have a part time job I like at a museum and in like two weeks I'm going to attend community college for English with a focus on creative writing. I'll do community college for two years and if I do't fail any classes I have assured admission into a university to get my bachelors. I actually feel like my life is only just starting now, haha! Y'know, when we talk about if men should be more femini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)Be careful what you wish for. I could blabber on for ages about this topic haha. Anyways, personally I agree with the above poster that masculine gender roles are what is holding men back in this world. My own personal experiences tell me that the men that are suffering are doing so mainly from a lack of social connection. Studies pretty clearly show that men are much more likely to say they don't have any close friends than women, and when they do have friends they consider close, those friends… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)I'm 19, and I don't see this among the people my age. I think this depends heavily on the crowd you run in. Me and my friends are all super progressive and against any sort of gender role, so most of us actually think the world is moving in the right direction for men and boys like us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 08:40 AM |
| 0 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)Lots of skin care chemicals are anti-aging and will actually make their skin look better than it would've looked if they had just done it naturally. You must be dating women that don't wear sunscreen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 08:36 AM |
| 4 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)Nope, and women do them anyways and it massively improves their appearances and the perception people have on how how they are. Men should probably start doing the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 08:16 AM |
| 1 | How would the dating world change if all men became happy/content being single?None? But I wasn't talking about onlyfans women or whatever. I was talking about women in general not having leverage because men don't care enough to fulfill whatever requirements they have. I don't really care what pornstars do, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 06:35 AM |
| 2 | How would the dating world change if all men became happy/content being single?This response is sort of incoherent. Men wouldn't really care about who women were hooking up with if they were fine being single. They'd just do their own thing and have women do whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 06:11 AM |
| 1 | How would the dating world change if all men became happy/content being single?But wouldn't women also lose any leverage if men didn't care if they were single or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 12:59 AM |
| 12 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)If their issue is not being seen as more attractive? Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 12:49 AM |
| 1 | When is a reasonable time and a good reason to ask for a DNA test?You're arguing with the wrong dude, lol. I'm the opposite of tough and masculine and I never pretended to be otherwise. You mistake me for the repdill dingdongs in here. But while we're at it, what I'd REALLY hate is to be a prudish woman in a world post-sexual liberation. How does it feel knowing you'll never be able to stop the porn or prostitution industry? Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 11:33 AM |
| 1 | When is a reasonable time and a good reason to ask for a DNA test?I don't need to. I can just get the DNA test done, as is my right as the apparent biological father, and avoid any trouble. Unfortunately for you, knowing for a fact that a child that is supposedly yours is actually yours is not the sole right of the mother. You aren't entitled to be informed of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 11:27 AM |
| 1 | When is a reasonable time and a good reason to ask for a DNA test?I don't think snooping on a partner's phone is that bad if you have reasonable suspicion that they're up to no good. Those two scenarios aren't comparable at all. A phone is private property that belongs to one person. But a child's DNA is information that both parents are entitled to regardless of the other parent's feelings in the matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 09:56 AM |
| – | CMV: the woman is the prizeWell, at least your imagination is vivid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 12:45 AM |
| 2 | “More women should start approaching men” and the average guy would still be invisibleSure, I think anyone who would date most of the opposite gender isn't being discriminatory enough. Gotta have standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 03:23 PM |
| -2 | When is a reasonable time and a good reason to ask for a DNA test?How is getting a dna test untrustworthy? Its his child, right? He has a right to know the genetic makeup of said child whenever he wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 03:21 PM |
| 3 | “More women should start approaching men” and the average guy would still be invisibleMeh, my ideal partner doesn't care that much about commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 03:18 PM |
| 13 | CMV: the woman is the prizeThis is one of the many reasons I can't understand why any man would want the traditional lifestlye. I hate the idea that my worth is reduced down to being a protector and a provider. What a sad existence! I don't value submissiveness or lack of previous partners at all in my relationship and I think those are dumb traits to want in women. I would much rather date a woman who views me as the prize at least as much as I view her as one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 03:16 PM |
| 6 | “More women should start approaching men” and the average guy would still be invisibleWhy would a man need a woman if he has to be jury? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | “More women should start approaching men” and the average guy would still be invisibleJust because its never happened to you doesn't mean it never actually happens. A lot of women aren't actually attracted to cavemen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:37 PM |
| 6 | “More women should start approaching men” and the average guy would still be invisibleI've heard of lots of women say that they asked their current boyfriends out because they were too scared to do it and they thought it was cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Most heterosexual women are homoromantic.Maybe. I just can't help but feel like thats sort of....pathetic? I can't imagine being so reliant on a group of people's approval that I'll do anything for them despite thinking they're evil. So much of the redpill stuff is so obviously projection that its kinda funny. Look, I'm a man, I hate statements like "all men are x", but anyone who thinks men aren't on average responsible for more horrible stuff in this world is delusional. I don't blame men as a whole for this, I think there are societ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:26 PM |
| 5 | Most heterosexual women are homoromantic.I'm coming to the conclusion that most redpill/blackpill men don't actually believe the stuff they say. They may think they do, but I think that deep down they realize what they say can't be true in an intellectual sense. If they believed any of the things they say about women they would never ever want to be in a relationship with any of them. Hell, I wouldn't even want to talk to women if I thought half the shit they say was true. No amount of pussy would ever be worth having to "manage" anoth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:04 PM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileAgain, I'm glad you have an active imagination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 11:37 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileI didn't do either of those things, but its good that you have such an active imagination! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 11:35 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileIf a man saying he's happy without a relationship is self-hating, so be it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 11:26 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileYou absolutetly can. Women are statistically very happy single, so are many men. The fact that you don't wanna do the work on yourself to be happy is just laziness on your part. But even if that were true, a woman still wouldnn't be required to give men any sort of attention or affection. It would be his responsibility to do whatever she wanted so she decided of her own free will to spend time with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 07:50 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileDoesn't change the fact that its not women's responsibility to fix it. If every man would burst into flames if they couldn't have access to women it still wouldn't be their job to fix lonely men. As much as the men here want to absolve themselves of any responsibility, it will always be soley their responsibility to fix their own loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 07:44 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileGot no money and women have been far more emotionally supportive of me than men ever have. And this is true in general as women provide much more emotional support in general than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 07:42 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileWhatever makes you feel better about refusing to acquire any sort of emotional intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 07:30 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileWomen DON'T play a role in it. Women will never be responsible for lonely men being lonely. It will always be up to the lonely man to solve his own issues. Women can be happy single, I as a man can be happy single. Men are just going to need to learn better ways of living. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Neither gender is more socially skilledNot when it comes to friendships. If that were the case, they wouldn't have more friends than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 07:15 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileI had a feeling you were from Menslib reading your comments. The only think I will say is most men aren't like you and your ilk. I browse the subreddit but don't consider myself a member. Those guys are far too forgiving of how toxic masculinity is. They aren't nearly radical enough. And I know most men aren't like me, most men haven't broken out of their indoctrination to view relationships as their sole reason for existing. Most men desire relationships with women which necessitates following … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 04:15 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileEvery man fears of being seen as one, there is no lol here. I'm a man and I don't fear being seen as a rapist, lol. Most normal men don't. And you're not answering my question. How would women seeing men as rapists stop men from hugging each other? You're bringing up random things that have nothing to do with each other. I don't know what she said but I didn't like it so I stopped. I think taking action without knowing things is the manosphere rite of passage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 04:09 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileNot only us but we are seen as creeps(rapists,molesters etc) by the society Vast majority of men aren't seen as any of these things. And I'm talking about you giving affection to other men. Do other men believe all men are rapists? lol. I can't give anyone hugs even my mom called me out years ago during my early 20s when I used to give her hugs. I haven't hugged anyone since. Weird. I'm a man and I've never been reprimaneded for a hugh, and I'm not good looking or anything. Your mom is probably … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 04:01 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileTrue, but it'll be up to us to change that. One of the most freeing feelings in the world is being able to break-free from harmful conditioning thats been beat into you since you were born. If you know that you and lots of other men are in need of more hugs, you should be the one to give them those hugs! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:52 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileThen men should befriend other men and start hugging them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:47 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileI'm a Gen Z men and the only group of people I feel are persecuting me are the group of people(overwhelmingly mostly men) that insist on pushing redpill ideology and insist its impossible for men to forge intimate bonds with other men. The idea that some dumb tiktok trend about men and bears would be more offensive to me than the actual societal concept of masculinity that is forced on me is hilarious. No one who actually cares about men gave a shit about the men vs bear stuff. That is such a no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:46 AM |
| -3 | Neither gender is more socially skilledI don't believe you Even if that is true, again, having women not think you're gay shouldn't be worth downgrading your social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:35 AM |
| -4 | Neither gender is more socially skilledThe fact you put enough stock into what you think women think about you to downgrade your social skills isn't good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Neither gender is more socially skilledRandom anecdotes you make up about your life don't disprove the fact that men report having far fewer close friendships than women. You can deride those friendships all you want, but women are much happier with the social lives they build than men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:26 AM |
| -4 | Neither gender is more socially skilledWell, women are statistically proven to have closer friendships, so maybe being "fake" is actually good to a certain extent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:24 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileThere is not a single redpill or redpill-adjacent man who gives a shit about men beyond the possible benefits that they themselves would achieve if men were elevated. They'll complain about male loneliness but in the same breathe talk about how they don't care about friendships with other men, or that other men intrinsically lack the ability to emotionally connect on that level (how sad), and somehow women are the callous ones? But that fact that they're so selfish and lack social skills actuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:13 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileThis is the single biggest issue facing men, and most of them don't even realize it. Putting stock in masculinity and the masculine way of acting requires you to make friendships that are objectively sub-par. Having your friendships be based on activities and competition whilst not being able to open up emotionally is a recipe for a sad excuse of a connection. No wonder lots of men are so desparate for a relationship! I was until I realized not having a romantic relationship isn't the same thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Oh, I have no doubt lots of men feel the same, I know I did once. My point is I don't think its actually an innate inveitable trait in men. I think if men learned to be more social with each other and stop putting women on pedastals then they'd be much happier being single than they currently are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Again, I think this is a you problem. I have so many things that make my life worth living besides sex. I have friends, hobbies, goals. Sex ranks so low on the totem pole of things that make me happy. If sex is so important to you that life without it would make your existence meager, I just think that means your life isn't very interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Apparently you'd rather be a man with no self-control, lol. To say that being able to not be miserable without having sex means you have low T is a pretty incredible statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Yes, but now you're being a bit pendantic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.The point is that plenty of human men are able to live happy lives without chasing sex from women. I've never had sex in my life and it hasn't really effected me at all. The fact that you can't be happy if you don't have access to women for an extended period of time is honestly pretty unhealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Without women we're not satisfied. Without women life is not complete. That's just how it is. I'm a virgin male and I'm perfectly happy without a woman in my life. Sounds more like a you problem tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Men are not entitled to sex. People are also not entitled to food, shelter or water either One of these things is not like the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Women are clearly not indiferent towards men as a collective because things like feminism exist. One of the points of feminism was to give women more rights so they weren't systematically forced to be reliant on men. Now, in the west at the very least, men are far more dependant on women as a whole than the reverse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.I'm one of those heterosexual men, so you're wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.But it is there fault if nothing is done about it. Its not their fault if their baby does something dumb, it is their fault if they don't fix it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:42 PM |
| 3 | There is nothing wrong with a man wanting 50/50 in a relationshipWomen initiate the lion’s share of break ups and divorces. They replace men constantly. Women intiate most divorces, but men and women intiate a similar amount of non-marriage breakups. Funnily enough, women are less likely to remarry after divorce, so men actually replace women more often than not. They can stop being single and sexless at any moment of their choosing. This brings emotional satisfaction knowing it’s entirely up to their choosing. But continuously choose not to. It almost seems … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 10:12 PM |
| 4 | There is nothing wrong with a man wanting 50/50 in a relationshipWhy on earth would a woman settle for a shitbag when, according to you, she could instantly replace them? Women deal much better emotionally than men being single and sexless, so to suggest being hot alone is enough to make the majority of women overlook everything else is pretty incredible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 10:03 PM |
| 4 | There is nothing wrong with a man wanting 50/50 in a relationshipIf only women got their needs met by most hetero-normative relationships. Studies show that women take bigger hits to their income, are abused at higher rates, and are more likely to not remarry after divorce. Doesn't seem like its the great deal for them that you're portraying it as. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 09:55 PM |
| 0 | There is nothing wrong with a man wanting 50/50 in a relationshipThe number of relationships where women earn as much or more than their husbands has been increasing for a long time now. Pretty telling, considering the fact that women only recently gained access to their own finances and finacial equality. If women were so opposed to paying for themselves, things wouldn't be bouncing to parity this fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 09:53 PM |
| 2 | There is nothing wrong with a man wanting 50/50 in a relationshipMaybe if you're a redpill dude and see everything as a transaction where you're always trying to get ahead. In the real world, tons of couples have equitable 50/50 relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 09:51 PM |
| 7 | There is nothing wrong with a man wanting 50/50 in a relationshipWomen would just be prostitutes if they were only after material and couldn't stand men. I will forever be glad I don't subscribe to the weird cult of misunderstood evolutionary biology that so many redpill/blackpill dudes follow religiously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?I've been masturbating daily for a looooong time and my soul feels better than ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?Orgasms for men are a need If only there was a way to have an orgasm by yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.We've refined the method for raising and giving birth to children, as well. The proccess of a woman getting pregnant and giving birth is much less perilous than it was in the past. Plus, sperm can now be collected and frozen, and the creation of artificial wombs seems like its just on the horizon. Men and women don't really need to interact with each other that much if they want to produce children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 11:57 AM |
| 5 | Women complain about traits of high T but don't want any side effects of a low T maleAt the very least, it certainly makes you much more prone to being a shitty person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.I'm a male virgin, and what OP is saying is completely true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:30 PM |
| 0 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Then they can't complain about anything related to dating. They want it more, so of course they should pay a higher price for getting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.None of us would be here without throwing spears at animals, either. We don't need to blindly follow in the steps of archaic humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.I'm a guy who has had chances to have sex and refused it. Honestly, sounds like a self contro problem on your end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.I'm an under 30 male with unfer 30 male sex hormones and I don't care if I get laid or not. Masturbation takes care of the physical need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:20 PM |
| 1 | If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders.To be honest? No, no I don't. I think men are taught to hide their emotions more than women, but I think they have them all the same. I think thats why men are more prone to violent outbursts or 4x more likely to die by suicide. I think we have emotions but we are taught not to show them as often, giving the illusion of being emotionally stable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 12:54 AM |
| 1 | If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders.What type of emotion are we talking about? Anger? Probably men? Other emotions? Probably women, but I don't entirely believe this is not in part the result of socialization. I also reject that men and women are monoliths, so even if men were on average less emotional, some men will be more emotional than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 12:39 AM |
| 2 | If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders.Are you aware that men and women are different? Women tend to be more neurotic than men, so expecting you to be more emotionally stable is just expecting you to fulfill the basic default that you're already born with as part of your gender. Are you aware that all men and women are individuals and don't conform perfectly to their gender stereotypes? Notice the word "tend". People have all sorts of bad tendencies, doesn't mean we expect less of them because a certain group they belong to has certa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 12:28 AM |
| 1 | If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders.Uh, that bar is so low it's like being expected to not eat to much. If you can't even manage that then relationships might not be for you. Its at least higher than whatever the bar for my partner is, since you are expecting me to by default be better than them in this aspect. But most women do want to feel like they can lean on you when times are tough, and if you're always an emotional wreck, you'll fail that basic requirement. Nothing I said contradicts this. You didn't say men should be emoti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 12:22 AM |
| 2 | If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders.Do you expect yourself to more emotionally stable today, than you were yesterday? The same? Or less? About the same. Of course there will be fluctuations. Some days I'll be less in control and other days more, such is life. Emotional control isn’t a prerequisite for a relationship. It however is such a beneficial skill, that one should hone it regardless of relationship status. Agreed, I wasn't saying I'm not trying to be emotionally stable, I'm saying that I shouldn't be expected to be MORE emo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 10:54 PM |
| 12 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.I think the thought is less "having hobbies will get you pussy" and more "having hobbies will give you purpose in life so you don't make getting pussy the only thing in this world that matters to you". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 06:30 PM |
| 1 | women who complain about dating only have themselves to blameNah. I am just burned out on being kind for over a decade and still being treated like a slug on the ground. Again, that isn't something a genuinely kind person would say. Genuine kindness is not conditional, nor is it contingent on getting a sort of treatment back. The fact that you call being kind being wasted effort means you were only kind so you could get something. But I do support you in getting more self-care. I honestly think a big problem with incels is that they don't have any self-ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 04:49 PM |
| 0 | women who complain about dating only have themselves to blameThen you were never a kind person to begin with. Kind people aren't kind in the hopes of getting something back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders.Are you unable to comprehend that men could like the company of a woman without the ulterior motive of fucking her? No, because for the men here that is the only reason they ever willingly interacct with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 03:01 PM |
| 1 | women who complain about dating only have themselves to blameIf someone told me that my worst fear as a man should be to be married to a gross schlob of a woman, I'd tell that man he has no idea how bad things can get if that is literally the worst he can come up with. Yeah, that's all well and good. The difference is that men are much more prone to violence and much more physically able to cause it when they want to. There have been much more men that have kidnapped/murdered their partners than women, so the risks are pretty different. The worst male par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 02:57 PM |
| 15 | If you are not traditional, but you want traditional values, you are hypocrite. This goes for both Genders.I think I would rather be single than be in a relationship where I was just automatically expected to be more emotionally stable than my partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 02:49 PM |
| 0 | women who complain about dating only have themselves to blameBut considering the fact that women are much happier single and deal with breakups much better, I'm not sure them having a high separation rate is really a strike against them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 02:39 PM |
| 3 | women who complain about dating only have themselves to blameOr maybe the incel weirdos that post here really are that horrifically nightmarish to be around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 02:35 PM |
| 6 | most women want to be freed of all traditional female gender roles, but they want men to conform to male gender roles that benefit women, and abandon male gender roles that harm women"Telling a man to 'man up' is the gender equivalent of telling a woman to get back in the kitchen." this is a very interesting point and it is sexist telling a man to man up and he's got a right to call it out and complain about it. However I wouldn't quite call it an equivalent, as "man up" is essentially telling men they have a duty to be strong, something that has a much more positive connotation, whereas get back in the kitchen is about women's role as lesser. I'd argue that when you tell a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 12:54 AM |
| 0 | What's wrong with being a cuck?Just curious, were any of those men cucks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 10:24 PM |
| 0 | Women will defend women no matter whatI know this probably doesn't need to be said, but this guy specifically just refuses to see reality. In a previous post of his he complained about women wanting men to pay for dates, then wouldn't engage with the fact that surveys show more men think men should pay for dates than women. He posted a study that he tried to use to say women don't have empathy for men, when that same study actually showed men have LESS empathy for other men than women do. Nothing will ever convince this dude that he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Women will defend women no matter whatAnd they wonder why no one takes them seriously. LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever view men as "good breeding material", and do you find it troublesome, or gross that men subconsciously see woman that way?Gotta make sure their offspring get the most vitamin D, duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 09:38 PM |
| 3 | If wealth is your only USP, then dont complain about gold diggersLikewise my opnions have been formed from roughly two decades of observation, but I understand everyone has different experiences. Agree to disagree! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 05:00 AM |
| 3 | If wealth is your only USP, then dont complain about gold diggersWell, I think those social phenomenon are slowly going away, lol. Recent studies suggest that 45% of heterosexual marriages now have both the men and women either earning a similar amount, or the woman earning more. And I disagree about it being an innate drive to provide for women. Maybe for their children, but I think women have that, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 04:30 AM |
| 2 | If wealth is your only USP, then dont complain about gold diggersIt’s not a if the situation were reversed thing because it’s a distinctly masculine trait. Men with resources enjoy giving to the women they love, and those women recognizing their worth. Sure, but how much of that is societal and how much of that is innate? All of those songs you listed happened within the context of the culture that we've always had. I think one of the biggest issues with the redpill and all this other stuff is that they assume that all men and women are the exact same. For in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 04:00 AM |
| 1 | If wealth is your only USP, then dont complain about gold diggersIf you were rich, would you enjoy if your husband/boyfriend valued you for your resources? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 03:30 AM |
| 0 | The problem with modern marriage is that there are 0 repercussions for cheatingYou are too terminally online if you think women's cheating is more tolerated than male cheating. Men taking mistresses has been all but expected until like 100 years ago. You take dumb articles you see in online women's magazines way too seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 11:55 PM |
| 5 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themBut this isn't about men wanting to fight, its about men being forced to. I think two people who don't want to get drafted to die in a war would probably be equally incompetent at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 01:39 PM |
| 1 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?You can if one person makes a lot more than the other and then you both willingly sign a marriage contract. That's sort of how the entire thing works. If you don't like it, you don't have to get married. You're putting the cart before the horse. Men want to be these things because women find them attractive. Don't do the thing women find attractive is hardly a great strategy. 45% of marriages now have either the man and women making a similar amount, or the woman making MORE than the man, and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 01:35 PM |
| 0 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?That is not all love is lol, are you saying your parents wouldn't love you if you were fat broke and ugly? Obviously romantic love is different, but the thing of value you can provide is a good personality. The redpill specifically says that women can really only love men in the way a child loves their parent(or the way redpillers think children love their parents) and that men are somehow different. Its malarkey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 01:30 PM |
| 4 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?Not filming random couples and basing my opinion of how the entire human race dares apparently makes me a cult member. The more you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 04:15 AM |
| 6 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themThis isn’t exactly what I was talking about but this study showed that women are less likely to want to help men who cry vs women who cry. This is also true of men too. Well, that sucks! I agree that we all need to be kinder to men and our emotions, and that society can treat us really shittily about it. But your study actually says men are way worse about this than women: The most intriguing result lies in the two-way interac-tion between gender of the participant and the depicted per-son when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 04:09 AM |
| 5 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themI’ve heard there are studies that have shown that women lose respect for their man when he cries. I can try to find that. Please do! I'd honestly be surprised if any reputable study proved that. Well forced conscription is currently happening in Ukraine and Israel. Didn't those countries already have conscription? It’s the phenomenon where people don’t want to admit to something negative in a survey. For example, it’s really hard to get someone to openly admit they’re a racist on a survey even i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 03:51 AM |
| 3 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?Because I think basing your opnions of how the world works on "social experients" and pictures of couples taken at certain events is pretty dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 03:45 AM |
| 12 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themMost of the time I’ve heard that said by women who had their old time partner finally open up emotionally and she gave the cold shoulder. I sort of don't believe this. Its pretty well known that women score higher on emotional intelligence and empathy than men. Can you give me some examples? Dismantling the draft is unrealistic. A war might happen so we need to be prepared to mobilize in case of that. Its unlikely that forced conscription would be successful in the modern era, as human rights ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themIt really depends on what sorts of circles you hang out in. If you're dating women that really value traditional masculinity, then they probably won't, but I think those women make horrible partners anyways. Someone waiting for you to make the first move shows they would be a lazy partner. When I was trying really hard to appear like a dominant guy who was super manly, I never got asked out, because the types of women I would've appealed to were exactly those types to have regressive views on ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 03:17 AM |
| -1 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themI don't think that a lot of these guys realize that when you try your hardest to appear as masculine as possible, you're going to attract women that want that. Once you drop that facade, you can certainly find women that will make the first move or split the check. More and more women are doing both of those by default now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themI mean, in terms of traditonal dating gender roles things are already changing. Most men on here are just wrong when they say that no women make the first move or pay for dates, that hasn't been my experience at all. If you only want super feminine women like these dudes do, then yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 03:05 AM |
| 17 | Women uphold the “patriarchy” when it suits themRespectfully, I think you're letting the rantings of a minority of obnoxious women online cloud your judgement of what most women/feminists actually believe. Men sharing their emotions and being vulnerable, “women aren’t there to be your therapist!” I'll agree that I've heard some women say this in situations where its callous to say. But, most of the time I hear women talking about this its about random or not well acquainted men coming up to them and just dumping all of their trauma on them, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?I mean, what about them? If you record couples in places I tend to think most people look average, men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 02:48 AM |
| 3 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?You know, interacting with these people is really interesting because I feel like I'm sort of getting the experience of what it would be like to talk to cult members. Just completely sure of things that are obviously false because they really want it to be true. Its fun, but really scary at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 02:47 AM |
| 1 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?Its an article with a bunch of studies linked, I'm sorry you didn't feel like reading it. And I don't think the examples you want really prove anything. Of course in environments like dating apps and clubs, where people don't know each other and can often only judge by looks, people will be judged by looks. Looks being the main thing in those scenarios doesn't really mean a whole lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 02:32 AM |
| -1 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?Hey man, if you want to keep believing what your subjective experience tells you instead of the actual evidence, thats your perogative. You can read this if you'd rather read some actual evidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 02:27 AM |
| 5 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?If the man makes less money, he's more than likely not getting married in the first place. On top of that, a woman suddenly making more money than her husband is one of the highest predicators of divorce. Both of these are becoming less and less true as more women enter into college and overtake men in the business/earning world. The percentage of marriages where women are the higher earner has increased a lot over the past couple. 45% of marriages the couple either makes a similar amount, or th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 02:22 AM |
| 2 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?Want evidence, type men who got divorced in the reddit search bar and see what men are talking about. Despite what redpill people think, anecdotes will never be aequate evidence. I don't think you want us to start using reddit to shape our view on the world, anyways. You can just as easily find stories where women talk about how abusive and horrible their male partners are/were. Sure, divorce is understandable. But divorce is less likely to happen if the man places himself in a position to choos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 02:19 AM |
| 2 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?Whether looks matters 100% or 95%, it’s irrelevant practically speaking. You're right! Its a good thing I never said that. If you have a group of 100 random dudes who are sexually unattractive to women, nearly all of them are sexually unattractive because of their looks and height, not because of their personality. If you have a group of 100 random dudes who are sexually unattractive to women, I'd assume it has to do with a combination of them having both unnatractive looks and unappealing perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 02:16 AM |
| 5 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?This is actually false. Women are much more likely to end up in poverty after divorce, and their standard of living is much more likely to decrease after divorce despite the fact that they initiate far more often: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5992251/ I assume you have evidence of all the things you say men suffer from divorce at the hands of women, right? Alimony is only paid out to spouses with fewer resources from a divorce. If the man made less money, he'd be entitled to the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 02:04 AM |
| 5 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?I don't think anyone argues that looks don't matter. Obviously most people have physical characteristics they find attractive and are going to prefer someone who has those traits over someone who doesn't. But the black pill seems to suggest that looks and genetics are the ONLY thing that matters and that every single person finds the same things attractive. This is clearly bunk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 01:57 AM |
| 7 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?I don't understand what your studies are meant to prove. The first one says that women who marry as virgins are more likely to not get divorced, which makes sense because women who marry as virgins are most likely religious, and religion tends to frown upon divorce. The second study literally says the opposite of what you want it to: This study suggests that increasing women's education, particularly primary school, could help reduce the rate of divorce among women. To reduce the divorce rate, f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 01:54 AM |
| 1 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?I agree with the parts of redpill that any 12 year old would agree with that the redpill likes to pretend it invented. If the redpill was just generic self-help I wouldn't have an issue with it. The problem is that they sprinkle in batshit insane nonsense along with it. Its good to work out and care about your body? Good. Women are genetically incapable of loving men in the same way men love and all of their love is based on respect? Complete nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 01:47 AM |
| 3 | What Kind of Evidence would change your Mind about the Red Pill?Work on your body (self explanatory) This idea is not unique to the redpill at all. Pretty much any generic self-help advice for men or women will tell you to exercise and work on your body. Keeping frame, women don’t respect wimps who fold. Once again, not being a wimp is advice that is given out pretty liberally to both men and women. “She’s not yours it’s just your turn”. Spent way too much time being sad wondering what I did wrong when it is just female hypergamous nature Not being sad at be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellI think its a bit of a stretch to say that partaking in activities you may not love to meet people is "deceiving others into liking me". You don't have to pretend like any of those activities are your favorite thing in the entire world, just don't be a complete kill-joy. Making friends as an adult male that works full time is certainly nearly impossible if you decide you'll only spend your time doing things you find exciting. I think the same is true for women, honestly. I don't think theres any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellSo you admit it isn't impossible to meet people to be friends with, you just don't want to. I know lots of women that aren't particularly interested in things like knitting or crochet, but learned it anways just to have a social activity to do. I'm not saying you're lazy, but I honestly think the main reason women have more friends than men is because they value company more, and will put more effort into maintaining social ties. Lots of men don't seem to be willing to go outside of what they al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 09:05 PM |
| 5 | The real reason being a pick-me doesn't work is that these women are often insecure and don't know how to push for what they wantI could be misremembering wrong, but if I remember the women that push that book are usually the same ones who argue velhemently against women doing things that men have traditionally done, like paying for dates or making the first move. I think thats dumb, and usually those women are insufferable, but I may be remembering wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellI don't mean to insult you, but I think that says more about the groups you hang out with than anything else. In my experience, its been the exact opposite. In school you're forced to be around certain people, regardless if you like them or not. I friendships made in school to be more similar to how I imagine relationships in prison to be. Friendships I've made at work have been way better because we're both adults that are better at communicating. Again, I think if you believe that friendships … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:33 PM |
| 6 | The real reason being a pick-me doesn't work is that these women are often insecure and don't know how to push for what they wantI have never seen any woman push that book that wasn't batshit insane. I haven't read it myself, but if it's adherents are anything to go by, it seems like it advocates for essentially women's version of redpill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | The real reason being a pick-me doesn't work is that these women are often insecure and don't know how to push for what they wantYou know, outside of the redpill tradcon circles, its easy to find women that genuinely don't want to get married and would straight up tell you no if you told them you wanted to. I don't understand why the people that want to get married can't stick with other people that want to get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellThere are places where you can survive without making six figures lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellI think an issue lots of men have is thinking of friendships and connections in terms of "status" and "totem poles", that's not how any regular human being should think about these things, and it only really applies in places like school, prison, and sometimes work. I get its hard to make friends, but joining meetup groups or clubs in your area is always something you can do. Forget about women for a second and focus on your platonic connections. Are you saying there is no place a guy could go t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellSure, I agree its harder for men to make friends than women, but I think its possible if you try to go about it in an intelligent way. Instead of relying on being invited or starting a bowling league or something, I think its a lot eaier to try and join one of the already established clubs/meetup groups in your area. Obviously if you live in the middle of nowhere this won't work as good. And if you have to work yourself to death to survive that also makes things difficult, but to pretend like it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:18 PM |
| – | Are there any legitimately redpilled women on this sub? Are there redpilled women anywhere?I don't think apes have agency, haha. I think redpillers think women actually have MORE agency than men. They don't say this, but if you actually look at what they say I don't think you could come away with any other conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 04:19 AM |
| – | Are there any legitimately redpilled women on this sub? Are there redpilled women anywhere?Personally? I'd rather be a sex object that isn't completely dependent on getting validation from the opposite sex to not drive me to suicidal depression, which a lot of redpill men seem to think men are. Don't get me wrong, I think the world they want is worse for women than men, but I think the implications of what they're saying and the worldview they subscribe to paint men in a worse light than it ever could women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 04:01 AM |
| – | Are there any legitimately redpilled women on this sub? Are there redpilled women anywhere?Its funny, despite these guys thinking the redpill is advocating for men, I think the redpill dehumanizes men just as much if not more than women. All of the people here that call themselves redpill seem to believe that men are essentially these big dumb animals that only want sex and whos lives wouldn't be worth living if they couldn't get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 03:52 AM |
| – | Are there any legitimately redpilled women on this sub? Are there redpilled women anywhere?If you're talking about the discord for this subreddit, I think I encountered her. For as bad as the subreddit is, the discord is another beast entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 03:47 AM |
| – | Are there any legitimately redpilled women on this sub? Are there redpilled women anywhere?No, but that isn't what the redpill is about in the slightest. The redpill is, at it's core, a group of men who lack social skills/support misunderstanding evolutionary psychology following the advice of grifters that will make them miserable. I don't think I have ever heard of someone who calls themselves redpill actually being grounded in reality. The last thing any man calling himself a redpill needs for improvement is a gf, what they need is more emotional intelligence and a mindset where th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 03:45 AM |
| – | Are there any legitimately redpilled women on this sub? Are there redpilled women anywhere?There isn't any legitimate redpill woman that isn't a grifter/goldigger. The reason you see "bluepilled" men and not redpilled women is the redpill is batshit insane, and the bluepill is anyone who doesn't believe the insanity. The only way a woman would pretend to believe in that stuff is if she was getting something from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellI think its nice you talk to and see your friends so often! But I also think its a bit worrying that you can only cry when you watch a sad movie. I used to be like this my entire life, and I eventually realized it was because I was a bit emotionally stunted/neglected and uncomfortable with my own emotions. I'm not say this is true for you, but I think lots of men tend to just assume they're naturally unemotional when a lot of the time its that we've all been taught to suppress our emotions. And … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellI'm glad that you have friends that you can tell personal stuff to. Honestly, even though you dropped out of high school, I think that fact alone makes you more impressive than most men. Of those 15 friends, how often do you contact them? Have you ever cried to them? Do you know their plans for the week, or even the month? How often do you guys hang out and talk about your feelings? I think men wouldn't care so much about having a romantic relationship if they didn't essentially rely on one to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellAre those people truly close friends or just mere acquaintances? I find that male friendships are often distant and low effort, which I don't think is conductive to fostering emotional intimacy or teaching you the skills you'd need for a romantic relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 12:01 AM |
| 10 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellI wonder if being extremely socially underdeveloped due to neglect manifests symptoms similar to autism. Lots of the men here claim to have no friends and no interest in any sort of relationship other than romantic relationships with women, so I can't imagine they've gotten a lot of practice on how to act like normal members of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:59 PM |
| 8 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellI don't know what men you go out with, but if the men around you base their friendships on "status" they're probably the wrong people to try and befriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:56 PM |
| 4 | How do those who claim to be feminist justify pushing for gender roles and having more benefits when it's convenient?And what state is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 04:24 PM |
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