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I have only read the book. I wanted to watch it but I don’t think I could stomach some of the scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:33 PM
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Yes probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:32 PM
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I do agree with his initial statement. Not because “women are bad”. Women are lovely but finding love is not worth subjecting yourself to modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:25 PM
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There are no volunteers and I don’t chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:42 PM
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It was joke, us sexless men reading your comment and get angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:38 PM
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What do you think people did before porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:51 PM
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Another weekend staying at home and not increasing my count.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:30 PM
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Is it really? Attractive women don’t need the validation or attention from these subs. Ugly men for the most part know they are ugly so why would they post except to get their feelings hurt? Attractive men get less attention on social media than attractive women so it makes sense if they post more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:51 PM
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<image> Which one are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:14 PM
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I agree. I hate seeing people talking shit about the people that liked them on dating apps, Men or women, especially when they show their pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:13 PM
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<image> Another reason why dating is cooked. I love how F**KS is in all caps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:40 PM
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Nope. Still feels wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:03 AM
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All that IQ and you can’t figure it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:02 AM
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Hard to picture you with any other animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:02 AM
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Yep, I noticed after I read their other comments and opened their profile. Btw how come your name is beautiful_ falcon and not lion !!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:55 AM
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Eh I see what you mean and I guess I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:04 PM
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But I don’t think they see that as value. Men think they become valuable by getting shredded, having money, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:00 PM
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Eh these men don’t think that most women are more valuable than most men because men and women have different views on what make them valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:18 PM
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It’s interesting that this sub has women flexing their good sex life on men that never had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:48 PM
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Prepare for a date? As a man just put on clean (optional) clothes and maybe perfume.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:31 PM
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It’s funny to me that a lot of people think a prenup is an ironclad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:50 PM
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If you’re playing at club Brugge past the age of 22 you shouldn’t be anywhere near a national team like Belgium. Yes club Brugge aren’t awful but a team in a bigger league would snatch him if they saw potential in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:00 AM
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I mean you probably wouldn’t post about it if you know you would look bad. There’s also probably some bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:18 AM
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This isn’t even a good Belgium team. Some of their guys are from the Belgium league.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:05 AM
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Do we think these are real or engagement farming ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:54 AM
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Well only two months until football season starts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:52 AM
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I always walk/bike to the restaurant if I’m eating out. Makes me feel better about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:48 AM
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Last time I was on dating apps I saw someone using pictures I saw them use 8-9 years ago..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:37 PM
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I think soccer fans are much more respectable when it comes to international soccer. They get much worse when it’s club soccer and they are playing a rival team.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:05 AM
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I’m the opposite lol English fans on twitter are insufferable! Imagine if it comes home!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:04 AM
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Why would they spend time leaning about men if men are throwing themselves at them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:03 AM
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Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:18 PM
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Elaborate please
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:20 AM
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Is it just me or does it feel like in any online space the women are partnered up and the men are single? Tbf not just online. It also seems that every woman I was interested in irl is taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:04 AM
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Why is seeing someone you know is a risk? “Oh no, he is spending time with an attractive woman”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:31 PM
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Plague dogs Edit: Samson and Sally, Padak, and Watership Down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:35 PM
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I don’t relate to their statement but they might mean if you’re single and can’t get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:43 AM
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Dunno but I found out the hard way..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:05 PM
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Cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:04 PM
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“According to data around 2%-3% of people remain virgin all their lives” Who’s keeping track? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:28 PM
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Oh no! What happened to the last coffee date you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:57 AM
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My dms are open to all the European ladies 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:57 AM
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It’s sad for the Netherlands! If any women from the Netherlands wants to talk about it my dms are open 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:56 AM
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I’m sorry about the manspreading I do my best not to do it. The speaker one is so annoying!! I even see people on bikes and scooters blasting music from speakers ! It’s crazy !
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:44 AM
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this US super team made us all believe Paraguay were terrible…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:41 AM
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Better looking! Why would I choose to be less handsome haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:55 AM
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How do you want others to care about your struggles if you don’t care about theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:50 AM
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What? I’m not short
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:45 AM
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Been there. She said after I said something or the facial expression i made reminded her of her cousin and she can’t see me in a romantic way anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:44 AM
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Never !! Another night of staying home scrolling Reddit in bed. Protecting my body count !
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:39 AM
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People in Ancient Greek didn’t need much convincing when they saw how ships sailing towards the horizon disappeared hull first then the mast.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:42 AM
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Wasn’t it banned in the U.S like 100 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:39 AM
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If you can’t do that without alcohol then you might have a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:36 AM
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It’s intriguing to me that the flat earth theory made a come back. People proved the earth was round 4000 years ago or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:35 AM
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Good for them! It’s so bad for your body!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:32 AM
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If you have 1 million followers you can probably do ads for products.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:29 AM
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Are you gonna charge them rent?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:12 AM
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I dated a woman with around 35k followers. I don’t think she made any money
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:12 AM
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You think women care about people with IG followers more than men with successful careers? Please where did you get this fact from? I do think that some women find their lifestyle attractive or maybe they want to become famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:05 AM
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I thought you were a wolf expert 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:55 AM
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Thailand time 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:16 AM
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What’s your favourite wolf? These are getting pretty late!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:16 AM
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I would
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:42 AM
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/s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:39 PM
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Helloo wolf lady, medal please? 👉🏻👈🏻how is your weekend going?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:17 AM
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New rule because last season a Benfica player allegedly said something racist to a Real Madrid player while covering his mouth so now if you cover your mouth during a confrontation it’s a straight red. Türkiye is toothless in front of goal and unable to create.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:17 AM
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This Türkiye-Paraguay game is wild!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:57 AM
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What’s an example of attraction skills? I was thinking like approaching which I thought would probably be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:56 AM
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Do you think the attraction skills that work at a bar works at a coffee shop ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:46 AM
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Hello wolf lady
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:19 AM
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The extroverted charming guy doesn’t have to go to places just to hit on women.they know he is there to enjoy the activity from his behaviour and the flirting sort of happens sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:08 AM
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The Lion knows !
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:22 PM
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If you go there with your mission being meeting women the others can quickly clock that from your behaviour and you can only flirt with one woman otherwise you will be known there as the guy who flirt with women and they would warn them about you. When people say they met their partner doing x activity, they went there with the sole purpose of doing the activity. You only hear about the guy/girl who found a partner not the 10 who didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:18 PM
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Doing anything with the goal in mind is meeting women makes that activity not a good place to meet women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:11 PM
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You say nice guys but then you say they ask why should people put up with my shitty attitude. If they think they are nice guys they don’t think their attitude is shitty. I talked to a lot of people to realize that some people don’t care about being decent unless there’s something in it for them otherwise they don’t owe society anything. Men feel entitled to an average/ attracted partner because that’s what media told them. So many movies where an average looking guy has a pretty wife and they he…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:26 PM
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Oh you’re one of the people that believes drinking water is healthy for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:18 PM
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I would say the dasher. You’re not supposed to work with a baby in the car! I know we don’t know their circumstances but objectively they are at fault and they would have to rely on the good nature of people to come downstairs but some people may not be able to because of their own circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:17 PM
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I made a lot of female friends from dating! What made you think he is too young for you when you met him in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:24 AM
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I kinda relate. As a male who used to get female attention. ost of it was from women I’m not interested in so it didn’t really register in my head. The hard truth is in most cases only the attention you want matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:22 AM
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Since I discovered the daily thread I have been neglecting the ‘regular’ threads 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:19 AM
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You can be direct with someone without being mean. I grew up with a lot of mean or direct /tough love when it comes to teachers and sports coaches and it worked for me but it won’t resonate with everyone, some people might see it as a personal attack and focus on that instead of the message/advice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:34 AM
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+2
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:44 PM
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wtf is pissmogged ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:12 PM
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I got heightmogged today. I saw someone taller than me.. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:51 PM
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Is it the same when you think he is married or taken but he is indeed single?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:36 AM
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Oh they do unless they are shallow or as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:30 PM
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No let’s keep +6ft is the perfect height! If you take away my height advantage what else am I offering? 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:38 AM
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What’s an orbiter?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:21 PM
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Taking steps to change takes effort. Wallowing in misery doesn’t. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:02 PM
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Why is this scary ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:55 PM
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I do agree that most women don’t need to improve anything other than their self esteem and standards because guys already find them appealing. If women don’t find you appealing then you probably need to improve. It’s really that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:27 PM
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The other person need to find you attractive, women can find you attractive because of something you did, you don’t have to look like a chad. But some attractive people say or do something that ruin their shot like being rude to the waiter/waitress during the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:36 PM
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Big times
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:22 AM
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Or how the inverted full back covers for the mezzala when he pushes to the channels or make late runs into the box.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:03 AM
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The lion doesn’t concern himself with Fame lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:00 AM
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A- I’m not miserable. B- constant moaning and complaining about it is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:37 AM
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10s of millions in the U.S care about soccer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:56 PM
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Being on dating apps is just it a fun experience and I’m saying this as someone who used to get a decent amount of likes from attractive women. Talking to people online to get to know them before going on a date is more often than not a frustrating experience. First dates don’t seem exciting to me, maybe I have been on too many that they lost their magic. It’s very common to go on multiple dates with someone and everything is great but they were doing the same with someone else and decide to dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:12 PM
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No to all. Dating isn’t fun. The idea of being married is nice though. I’m here to fight against misconceptions such as women are bad and only want Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:31 PM
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It would add some animosity. I want friendlier vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:11 AM
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It would look ugly though. I think I’m gonna just have to get some courage and say something to my neighbour. Maybe become friends
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:49 AM
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I have a divider. A table my old neighbour bought. She didn’t use it as a divider but I rotated it to divide the space. It stayed as a divider since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:46 AM
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I can’t. I cant talk to them. I’m very shy especially if there’s a woman. If she looks at me I would panic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:22 AM
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I went to sit in my shared balcony but my neighbour is there with a girl( his gf?).So I closed the door and went back inside.. I really wanna sit outside 😔 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:01 AM
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Then how come guys not in the 20% are still lonely when they are older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:23 AM
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I don’t understand. Do they prefer ugly men or they go for the top 20%? Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:04 AM
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Congrats !!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:52 PM
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Tell us more about yourself so we can answer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:41 PM
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<image> Notice how none of them is about how they treat women or think about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:30 AM
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Maybe because they watch a lot of porn so they have issues orgasming any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:49 PM
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What main sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:13 AM
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Makes sense. It’s mostly a safety issue and also don’t want them seeing all sweaty and smell bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:57 AM
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I agree! I was surprised by that ranking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:49 AM
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Just went for a sunset bike ride! The small things can really improve your mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:48 AM
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Society acknowledges that men have it harder dating wise. Women give them advice but they don’t like the advices they are getting.. Condemnation of what? I think it’s clear that a lot of men do actions that deserve condemnation. Go browse any dating subreddit and read the stories and screenshots.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:23 PM
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Let’s say women have it easier than men dating wise. Why is the burden on women to care or fix it? Women still have difficulties in dating, different difficulties than what men are dealing with, and men don’t care nor are trying to fix them. Another thing I realized is pretty women are treated like gold, like this amazing superior being you shouldn't upset. Whatever she does, she is right and you are wrong for upsetting her. They didn’t ask to be treated this way. Men treat them this way. So you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:43 PM
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10 best and 1 worst actually she rated a date negative which is bowling date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:53 PM
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I understand and I understand when women online say they won’t approach men because of how it turned out for them in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:52 PM
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Free hole is absolutely disgusting! So is other parts of his post. “the only way for this to work is if she approach but still make him work for it to prove his interest in here” Personally I would probably perceive this as playing games and I wouldn’t entertain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:45 PM
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I don’t understand. I don’t think saying being good looking or successful/ambitious is considered attractive would be divisive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:23 PM
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Not Europe, I mean I saw reels about going to x country for the ‘culture’ or whatever and they show handsome men but it’s mostly a joke. It is a thing mainly in Gambia and Jamaica. Apparently a significant amount of Gambia’s economy comes from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:19 PM
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<image> Thoughts on this first date ranking?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:14 PM
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What if you’re desirable by people you don’t desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:03 PM
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Are you saying men can’t resist if they are offered sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:35 PM
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You’re assuming every man wants to sleep around which isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:18 PM
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By choice!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:53 AM
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Keeping my body count low 👉🏻👈🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:51 AM
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It’s not as straightforward. Some people catch feelings and it clouds their judgment and others would rather be in a situation than be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:13 AM
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Well then there’s something about you women don’t like and we can’t tell without meeting you and spend some time with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:56 AM
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Those attractive qualities aren’t exclusive to abusive men. Just attractive qualities that other men who aren’t abusive also have. Like being interesting, successful and probably good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:53 AM
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Do people think women pick some men because they are abusive? Abusive men aren’t being picked because they are abusive. Unpicked men can be abusive! They have attractive qualities and hide the abusive part.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:37 AM
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Too weird for me to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:33 AM
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Another Saturday night of staying home and protecting my body count. My future wife would be proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:21 AM
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my bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:13 AM
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I flirt with some of my female friends in a platonic joke way. I make it clear first that I have no romantic interest in them so they know it’s platonic. I don’t equate sending nudes with flirting. I don’t recommend sending nudes, especially to strangers! ESPECIALLY if you’re a woman! Guys literally send nudes in group chats thinking it’s a flex !
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:24 PM
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How am I supposed to know you did that lol I said maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:19 PM
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Maybe because you are friends and you are taking a step back from the friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:17 PM
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Because your question is irrelevant to your post. Your post is about ALL women not just pretty women. Saying that most women are pretty is a subjective statement that many men would disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:18 PM
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Most women aren’t ‘pretty’. Most women are a bit above average, average and below. Are you limiting women to just pretty women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:14 PM
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Well you just said that’s women’s type. Are you saying women don’t go for their type? Most women are with guys way far from that type.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:09 PM
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But you go outside and you see that most women aren’t with big muscular white guys..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:06 PM
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Why haha a man can’t have blue pill opinions and not go on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:05 AM
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You think we go on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:03 AM
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You said it’s an ick. wasn’t clear for me if you meant for you or in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:29 PM
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I thought about doing it after I saw this meme but I don’t want to download dating apps and I don’t want to catfish people. I like the idea though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:14 PM
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Even happy ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:05 PM
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a LOT of women are into anime so this isn’t a really common ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:04 PM
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This is nonsense. Women back then were expected to help in war especially if their city was under siege some even fought like Boudica and Joan of arc. And historically it didn’t go well for women if their people lost the battle..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:02 PM
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I thought it advances 30 min or so everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:33 AM
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Why is it not at the same time everyday? Is it so people at different time zones get a shot at getting a medal?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:21 AM
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Q4M: if you’re single,not by choice, do you think it’s entirely because of reasons out of your control or maybe some of them are within your control?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:43 PM
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It’s great being surrounded by people better than you. You can potentially improve a lot!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:27 PM
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That sucks! I only read and then they were none by her but planning to read her other books. What genre of fiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:04 AM
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Sworny enemy? who are you? :o your sworn enemy followed you to Thailand?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:50 PM
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Would you like to share more? Your comment was confusing haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:43 PM
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What do you want to be a giant irritant?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:40 PM
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Mine is iced coffee, summer and winter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:09 AM
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What’s your favourite coffee?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:03 AM
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Coffee date ? Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:58 AM
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What’s AI pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:52 AM
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Awe! a meet cute ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:38 AM
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Nope. Regular pasta! It still has some protein 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:34 AM
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Didn’t have protein yet. Gonna be chicken, pasta and cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:31 AM
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I don’t understand what’s wrong with this. Friends can’t do nice things to each other? Did he say he wants to date her or have sex with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:12 PM
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Can you give examples of these ‘boundaries’?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:19 PM
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Should they instead use AI to filter through profiles for them like hiring companies do with applicants?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:22 AM
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Oh only available during weekends? What kind of date would you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:52 AM
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I usually get pizza from domino’s. iI’s not the best but they have good deals and it’s within walking distance. Are there plans for date 3?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:47 AM
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Not my favourite pizza. I prefer my pizza with veggies. I haven’t watched Animaniacs since I was a kid!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:32 AM
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How can all men be married if they had no standards? I was told here that even below average looking women want above average looking men and women chase the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:30 AM
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I mean they have choices.. they choose to be single
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:23 AM
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What kind of pizza? What else happened in the date?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:18 AM
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A bit jealous! My dates rarely ended up with pizza..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:59 AM
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I don’t understand them. Why would you be friends with them then? Why not make your intentions clear from the start? You think befriending them first would make them want to sleep with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:54 AM
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Why are you following people you don’t know? Why would they follow you back if they don’t know you? I don’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:56 PM
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Oh I see! What was the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:52 PM
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The date is at his place?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:51 PM
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Update us
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:48 PM
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I’m loving it! I hate Arsenal so much
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:09 PM
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Do you recall what your answer was?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:47 PM
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It is a part of it. A lot of men put a great value in having a partner beyond just companionship and wanting a family. It is like a status symbol for them. They think having a pretty woman by their side would make other men respect them more and treat them better. I think the rise of the manosphere has to do with men seeing a lot of pretty women online that they can’t get. Manosphere influencers found an opportunity to sell these frustrated men a dream. You too can become a Chad and date the pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:57 PM
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You keep comparing apples to oranges. This in no way compares to being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:24 PM
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You need a job to eat and survive. You can survive without dating. Plenty of people did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:19 PM
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Idk about that, I think it would be an improvement. Men describing their ideal partner look wise is way more outrageous than when women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:18 PM
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My bad I misread this. “Men make women feel special via commitment.” But second part of the comment still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:17 AM
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Why would she owe commitment to someone she hasn’t met by that time? So women get criticized for not having sex with guys and they get criticized for having sex with guys? Men can’t have it both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:12 AM
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Why wouldn’t his virginity make her feel special? What’s up with the double standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:07 AM
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But my books and video games are at home! So is my ice cream!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:01 AM
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Gonna go on a whim and say they aren’t posting them for male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:48 PM
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No, you specifically asked me about neediness for their rights. In my comment i mentioned men neediness for specific things not for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:13 PM
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Maybe it’s because pigeons don’t have manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:57 PM
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Funnily enough I saw a post yesterday that claims there are way more and we did a bad job at tracking the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:34 PM
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Are you comparing rights to sex?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:43 PM
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I didn’t say there’s something wrong about posting about being lonely. I said the extremely needy posts. An example would be the way some people post about craving sex or how women SHOULD choose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:42 PM
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I’m much skinnier than the guy in the picture but I’m very self conscious about wearing “tight” shirts or being shirtless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:34 PM
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How would you prefer we express our desire for sex and relationship? Not the current way it’s being expressed! Putting aside the objectifying and rude posts/comments on social media, it comes across as very needy and almost feels like calling for women to take pity on you and letting you hit. Why does your gender mean anything to you Because they ruined our image! Because of the way men interact with women online women are very weary of men and when I talk with my female friends and male actions…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:32 PM
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Probably baggy clothes. I chose pizza and ice cream over a summer body. Edit: just ordered another pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:20 PM
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The way guys express their extreme neediness for relationships and sex is very embarrassing for our gender and gives me a massive ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:01 PM
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I get it. If having relationship or starting a family is very important to her then it makes sense she would put more effort into it at the expense of friendships. You are fine for not having the patience for it because of the way it affects your friendship. Sadly, seems like a lot of people on dating apps stuck in a similar cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:56 PM
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Well you can’t be blamed for having an issue you were diagnosed with and taking medication for! It sucks that your parent got cruel and didn’t support you. I’m sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:31 AM
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Honestly it depends. Like ye things happen, if it happens to you constantly and you have an excuse for everything or you quickly jump to finding excuses the. You might need to take accountability and you might be the problem. I can’t speak about you specifically, idk what you’re going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:19 AM
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Owning up to your shortcomings and not deflect blame or keep coming up with excuses. I used to play sports and I used to do that like oh I didn’t score because of this or I was actually trying to do this. . My coach pointed it out. Once you stop making excuses is when you learn. Edit: it also exists in dating, I’m single because I’m a nice etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:59 AM
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I paid once for bumble. Because it was like 50%. I got matches but I also got matches without it. I liked using the passport mode to see what the dating scene is like in other parts of the country. Edit: I disagree about it being the worst thing to happen to dating but I don’t recommend using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:25 AM
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The line for sex starts at the left Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:23 AM
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Viewing women as people?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:18 AM
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I disagree. I think the orgasm gap has to do more with selfishness gap, the rest is probably some women have harder time to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:17 AM
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Is the solution to male loneliness respecting women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:12 AM
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What is this supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:16 PM
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You mean our debt?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:53 PM
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<image> My algorithm is getting too accurate for my liking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:23 PM
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High school was probably the best years of my life. I used to play basketball, doing a lot of stuff with friends. Good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:44 AM
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Honestly it really depends. When I used to date I did really well on dating apps and people I knew irl asked me how to improve their profiles because it was a barren wasteland for them. They were getting almost nothing, only likes from women they didn’t actually like ( I don’t agree with the way they swipe).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:15 AM
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Maybe you are! Or they are social or they have good dating profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:01 AM
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I don’t because I refuse to participate in that, I don’t compare myself to men who are richer than me, better looking than me or have a partner or kids. I don’t care. I just want to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:12 PM
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Dating is such an unemployment/ work from home activity. Who has the time and energy to go meet people after getting home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:59 PM
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When I was on the apps I looked for the looks + good prompts. If you’re good looks with generic prompts and boring pictures, it does nothing for me. I don’t feel attraction from just looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:10 PM
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what if you meet someone who genuinely catches your attention in an ordinary place, like a grocery store? If you're respectful and honest about your intentions How is someone catching your attention at a grocery store? You like what’s in their shopping cart? If you’re cold approaching someone in a place like that it’s usually for their looks and women don’t want to be approached just for their looks. If you approached her just for her looks then you probably approach a lot of women and they aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:15 AM
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<image> I have been reconnecting with nature for over two years ✌️ My friends keep asking for dating updates and I keep disappointing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:46 AM
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Build your happiness outside of the relationships frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:41 AM
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I do not miss dating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:05 AM
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The bread looks good! What’s in the bowl?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:04 AM
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I think they do. From my experience they would swipe left if it’s on your profile otherwise you would get questions when you’re dating to see where you stand on feminism and women rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:34 PM
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I don’t think conservative and moderate women care about political affiliation as much as liberal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:27 PM
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Sorry for my disappointing answer then 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:25 PM
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I know that OP said be specific but you might have been a bit over specific lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:19 PM
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I’m tall, well above 6ft, and I don’t want to be valued for my height. I didn’t do anything to acquire it. I’m happy it’s part of me and for it to be part of the attraction. But to be mainly valued or want to be valued for it is very weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:16 PM
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How old is he? Where is he from? What are the other stuff? Sorry I’m invested in this plot after yesterday’s conversation 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:40 PM
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I don’t really care 😅 I have been approached for my looks and for my social skills. Doesn’t make a difference to me what draws her to me first or what she notices first. But I don’t want someone to be with me just for my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:32 PM
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My actions during the relationships. I want her to value how much of a good partner I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:26 PM
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Attraction is complex and men want it to be simple. “I think I look as good as her, she is less good looking than me, or maybe slightly better looking than me therefore she must be attracted to me.” It doesn’t work like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:47 PM
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Yes. Just because someone is a virgin it doesn’t mean they will be a bad partner or will be bad at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:31 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:05 AM
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There’s a big difference between giving someone a compliment and they aren’t into you and stalking them ! I doubt 14-15 yo are looking at these lists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:47 AM
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Because it’s not based on reality, people would read it and think they are doing it to make themselves feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:41 AM
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Why are we justifying stalking and creepy behaviour? They should know better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:37 AM
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Yea surprise her at work with flowers if you’re her partner not a stranger or an acquaintance!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:32 AM
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I have a feeling the men don’t think of it as stalking but as the beginning of a cute romantic story
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:29 PM
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Men also care though that’s what I was trying to say. This isn’t a gender thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:28 PM
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I googled it to make sure and it wasn’t fitness related. I thought maybe it’s a new thing or something lol I’m not the smartest tool in the shed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:25 PM
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I have heard it from a guy friend too. He wanted a woman with a college education. I think the belief is they have knowledge gaps compared to college educated people. I personally don’t care if they are college educated or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:24 PM
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Don’t give them ideas !!! 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:14 PM
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Probably negligible amount. When I lose weight I focus on diet not cardio. Cardio makes me want to eat more lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:06 PM
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Did the date happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:55 PM
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Ah okay, I feel that guys in that range are different than guys under 40 when it comes to dating and expectations from women. At least from what I hear on Reddit. But at the same time they say Gen Z is more conservative and misogynistic. Idk who to believe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:54 PM
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What’s your dating age range?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:51 PM
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What are the biggest differences you noticed between dating there and in the U.S?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:31 PM
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Are these compatible men local or foreigners? I’m not judging I’m just curious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:27 PM
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So you’re a passportsis ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:22 PM
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But I was told by men online that women care so much about my height :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:41 PM
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Some People are selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:21 PM
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It’s very rude to agree to a plan then ghost. If you aren’t attracted to someone why even like them on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:45 PM
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I’m sorry 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:35 PM
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Who would ghost or cancel on getting wings?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:33 PM
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What’s the plan for the date?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:30 PM
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Well I’m no chad. I prefer the lion 🦁
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:39 AM
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Being tall doesn’t make you a chad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:31 AM
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I’m a couple of inches taller
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:29 AM
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How did the people good at it learn? Seems like an excuse for their creepy or rude behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:29 AM
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Height. Otherwise I’m quite average lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:27 AM
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Is this the meat you got 50% off?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:05 AM
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Some people can’t have attraction without a strong emotional bond first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:44 PM
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They have high standards. High standards for relationships and low for casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:32 PM
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VERY pretty!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:20 PM
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I didn’t say they don’t like. I meant it was seen as a deal breaker before. I don’t know you, I just gave an example. Even if you don’t fit what men are looking for you can still find someone who likes you and get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:43 PM
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For example they could be telling you no man would take you because you don’t cook and based on their generation men expect women to cook. But it’s not something that men care about these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:34 PM
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I think their reference was men of their generation but this generation of men have different preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:31 PM
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If you attract women and you’re tall then you can most likely do it if you were short. Harder yes but not over for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:11 PM
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I have friends around 5’7 and they do pretty well with women. They aren’t conventionally attractive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:08 PM
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You said mainly which means the opposite is the exception and above average men are so numerous to be an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:44 PM
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That’s what you think but men select as well. Women select in the sense when a decent man ( I’m not talking a top 20% chad) is newly single or available women in his life and entourage would take notice and make a move quickly. These men also get to pick. Women don’t pick in the sense they have 100 unsolicited DMs from strangers, go through them and pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:37 PM
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Well you said the men don’t want them. How do you know the women don’t want them either If they haven’t shown interest in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:16 PM
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So They have options deemed by the “dating market “ to be their match? I removed the treat them like shit because it’s hypothetical and even you said “will likely”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:12 PM
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Weird but not a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:03 PM
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Can we stop using “men are lonely and sexless” to justify the poor way men treat women and make it seem okay. Fine you guys can act weird while the guys who treat women like people get to be with them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:56 PM
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It’s their fault they have very unattractive facial features? You don’t know what these women experience is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:47 AM
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I don’t think you all know what a lot of unattractive women look like which reinforces their claim when they say they are invisible to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:43 AM
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But non attractive women don’t start with attention nor have any options. You can read many posts about it on Reddit and there are subreddits about it. You’re excluding a big portion of women to make your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:56 AM
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There are no ugly women? A lot of women vent about being invisible to men and undesirable and this post supports that. Not to mention a woman can be pretty but if she has a really bad personality she won’t be chosen. So no a woman being unchosen isn’t a bigger failure. We should move on from this notion that men or women being unchosen are failures. There is more to life than finding a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:45 AM
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You decide what boundaries you want. A lot of women aren’t okay with their partners watching porn and they shouldn’t tolerate it if it makes them feel bad about themselves etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:59 PM
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Yikes! 3rd wheeling is not fan! Sorry! Wdym by you find a lot of aspects of human socialization to be a humiliation ritual? Do you have examples? I can’t think of any besides asking your friend to take a picture of you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:50 PM
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This isn’t a rule. You’re taking people’s opinions as rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:49 PM
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I heard a lot of people use bumble bff to look for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:46 PM
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You might be confusing an advice and a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:29 PM
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There are no rules in dating. No do this get a relationship. It’s all subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:24 PM
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Maybe we should start holding men to higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:03 PM
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Idk about that. There are studies that shows otherwise..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:50 PM
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If he loves you he would find alternatives to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:44 PM
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Women shouldn’t accept that men will watch porn no matter what. If it’s a boundary of hers she shouldn’t accept that her man watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:22 PM
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I think way less than 1/3 of users are women. Nice to see a post where women aren’t blamed for the loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:24 PM
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Didn’t you already post this a few days ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:42 PM
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I haven’t seen it up north.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 10:15 PM
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I’m not an American so I might be missing some context.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 10:11 PM
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Interesting criteria :p
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:44 PM
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Why Milwaukee?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:36 PM
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Ohh I love that! I do this at sports! I pretend idk how to play lol i don’t think I have a secret power, I don’t interact enough with people to do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:11 PM
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In this economy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:09 PM
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Some people look good while being overweight, usually when they know how to dress for their body shape and use the right accessories.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:04 PM
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Honestly I can see average dating app users falling for it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:06 AM
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I have friends and cousin like that. Not all women would hit on you but women would usually notice them and want to speak with them etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:07 AM
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You look fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:06 AM
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I do mostly agree with you. I think he has nice eyes but otherwise nothing standouts about him but at the same time nothing that society would consider a flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:06 PM
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I don’t get female ratings lol I was told by a lot of women I’m good looking but then you see women saying the first guy is average looking and I think I look worse than him lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:00 PM
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It’s not just his body, his face is very good looking. Better looking than 90% of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:41 PM
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I already watched the TV show.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:17 PM
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This guy is average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:48 PM
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Bro this guy is like a 7 or 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:48 PM
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I think she is the closest to perfect woman I've ever met Stop building up images of people in your mind that don’t exist in irl. She is a normal person like you. Building up people like this makes you hung up on them after being rejected and staying in places you don’t wish to stay at just to be in their orbit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:37 PM
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I consider myself average
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:48 PM
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The lion doesn’t concern himself with vague comments
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:57 PM
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Reading A Game Of Thrones and there’s a character who keeps referring to himself as the dragon. He keeps saying you don’t want to awake the dragon and it reminds me of when some guys refer to themselves as The Lion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:52 PM
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Why would anyone blame the mother? What can they accuse the mother of?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:54 PM
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I wasn’t interested in her😅 most women that approached me in person or made a move on social media aren’t women I’m into.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:06 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:02 PM
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I’m not attracted to men but I see as many good looking men as women. But men and women don’t have the same criteria for attractiveness I guess. Like women say x woman is good looking and I can’t agree at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:05 AM
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Women get approached in person more than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:40 PM
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You do realize that hitting on multiple women in the same environment would get you a bad reputation? They would think this guy hits on anyone, he doesn’t like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:43 PM
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Nice guys are usually self proclaimed nice which in itself isn’t an attractive thing to do and probably repulsive. Being a nice shouldn’t have anything to do with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:42 PM
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They say all kind of things about other men. Perspective on how men are in general or men in relation to dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:27 PM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:24 PM
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Because it sounds fun! I have a lot of female friends that I talk to about books and other topics ,send cat pics etc. Having someone you enjoy their company, laugh together and have food together is better than having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:33 PM
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B
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:05 PM
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Isn’t this harassment? I have seen this user @ multiple people on daily threads to ask them are you there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:39 PM
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Yes, it’s all about visible consent to being approached. You can see the women’s reaction when approaching her, if she looks like she isn’t open to the approach and talking and the person approaching disregard that and ask her out anyway then yes it seems creepy and uncomfortable. Even if the approach is the same, disregarding the person’s openness to approaching them based on attraction or other factors and doing it anyway is a negative behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:22 PM
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First of all, not being able to attract the person you want is a big issue. Why would you want to be with someone you don’t desire? You also have men swiping on your profile without reading what you’re looking for, for example saying I don’t want kids and getting 100’s of likes from men wanting kids. There’s also ghosting. Going on a date fearing for your safety, and yes safety issues are dating issue, I disagree with the person who commented otherwise. Men pretending they are looking for ltr bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:32 PM
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Just because dating issues are different in nature doesn’t mean they have unequal impact on people. Women’s dating issues aren’t a minor annoyance to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:19 PM
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No? I didn’t say women don’t have dating issues. There’s a lopsidedness in attention and it’s men’s fault for the way they swipe and DM female strangers on every app that has a message function. Edit: Men are usually trying to gain access to women. Women are usually trying to secure commitment from the subset of men they truly desire. One side is struggling for entry. Why are men aren’t seeking what they want from women they truly desire? Maybe they should just go for the ones they really desire…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:02 PM
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It’s funny to me how women are blamed for the dating issues when it’s men who are the ones responsible for this lopsidedness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:53 PM
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No problem. It’s a logical conclusion to come to lol the phrase is actually Latin not English
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:40 PM
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Post-hoc means after a thing or in this case like as a conclusion to
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:38 PM
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I don’t think this is true. It’s just for whatever reason women who approaches me first or show interest first usually aren’t women I’m attracted to. As for why they view them in a toxic light if they aren’t attracted to you but they would still have sex with you, they would be more forward and blunt because it doesn’t matter if you reject their advances since they don’t care beyond sex. I feel that it’s the same for guys who send sexual messages on dating apps early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:57 PM
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That sub is hilarious, the comments feel so surreal and dystopian.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:23 PM
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The primary way for an average male to express express emotions is through art?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:42 AM
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What’s an acceptable way for men to express their emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:23 AM
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I don’t think the saying came about because guys become more attractive but I think it was meant to imply that women become less attractive as they age much quicker than guys which is not a true statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:28 PM
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The use of the word had access in the title and paragraph feels wrong. Edit: it sounds like sex is something a woman gives you or let you do to her instead of it being for both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:17 PM
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Didn’t give it to you for free? Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:31 AM
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Slay! How?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:20 AM
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Probably people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:34 PM
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She gave the reason of her question then said, “let’s say” as an example. A lot of people fixated on answering based on anal instead of OP is interested in. She isn’t interested about their opinion on anal. I don't think most (normal) people here think in the way the OP is trying to lead them into. I don’t think she is leading them anywhere. There’s no gotcha here. You can just say no I don’t have an issue with it being anal or any other act.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:33 PM
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I feel that a lot of people are missing the point and fixating on anal..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:15 PM
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No, people are allowed to change their minds about things and set up new boundaries. I’m assuming it’s a different scenario because I won’t be asking for anal. Edit: just to clarify since I’m assuming I asked for a different thing, no justification is needed from her for saying no to something she did in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:18 PM
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What’s hma men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:13 PM
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💯 I mean visibly upset as in disappointed is fine but becoming aggressive or calling them names.. that’s how you know you dodged a bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:39 PM
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Okay but she was replying to the tweet. Your statement is unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:38 PM
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Even if a person doesn’t say these words irl, if you say them unironically online or think in this way behaviours of someone who says them would slip into their day to day interactions. I can tell x person probably think that way based on his interactions. Before you say I’m making assumptions based on their behaviour, the said behaviours are unattractive and probably an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:28 PM
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Les misérables? No book named Les Mis came out in my Goodreads search
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:24 AM
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Sorry I posted a comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:18 AM
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What’s your favourite book? Has to be fiction
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:17 AM
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It depends on how short he is, for example if he is around 5’5, he would appeal to less women but it’s not over, he can’t say the reason I’m single is I’m short, if it is then he isn’t trying hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:12 AM
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I meant using vocabulary like beta bux among other sentences, isn’t attractive to women and a lot of people consider it an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:47 AM
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What personal attack? lol I didn’t call you names or anything despite you trying to bait me. Edit: I thought you were the other user.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:36 AM
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Please read my comments in this read, I understand a similar question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:30 AM
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Calling people beta bux, among other things you said in this comment gives us an idea why you’re single also has to do with your personality. And don’t say now that I’m putting words into your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:29 AM
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Okay but what’s so unreasonable about that? There are women shorter than you and as attractive or less attractive than you. Go for them instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:25 AM
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What are you even talking about? I was giving an example based on what you wrote, maybe next time use a real life post example so I can give you the reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:18 AM
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Ngl I would get the ick 😅 Edit: the reason is it’s coming off too strong. Why do you like me? We haven’t talked yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:12 AM
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I don’t agree with a lot of posts in that sub, but their action came as a result of the formerly mentioned problematic comments. So these men can’t claim the high morale ground nor they are doing nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:10 AM
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What kind of gaslighting is this? So you’re making an unrelated statement? If so why are you bringing it up then since there are women shorter and less good looking for you? You’re making a statement that doesn’t have anything to do with your dating woes? If you think 99% of women want these men is the reason you’re failing to date? Then you’re making a wrong assumption that women only want to date men above a certain height and looks thresholds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:08 AM
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What’s wrong with women wanting someone taller than them and is attractive? There are women shorter than you go for them? There are also women as attractive as you or less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:44 PM
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Are we going to pretend these guys don’t post any problematic hateful comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:40 PM
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No it’s not because he says he is unwanted. But when you say 99% of women only want a man taller than them and is attractive, we start to see an issue. Women can’t have reasonable standards? What if someone tells you can’t ask for an attractive partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:35 PM
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not successful enough, people act like it must mean he is lazy, entitled, misogynistic, insecure, or defective in some deeper way. No, people don’t make this assumption just because someone is rejected. When it happens it’s because of something else he said when he vented or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:22 PM
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What’s the long term benefit for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:16 PM
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Oh you don’t want to know what some of these people think..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:07 PM
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Why would women do something that won’t benefit them? Why would they want to increase birth rates? I think women are happier when they aren’t obligated to partner up with someone and they get to make a choice. instead of women observing the men, looking at his money, job, looks, humor, friends etc. What’s left to filter by? Personality ? That’s the bare minimum not the only criteria. They should only filter other men through how men filter out women. How do men filter women? Usually people who c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:00 PM
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You just can’t have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:03 AM
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I’m just saying being 6ft or tall won’t make women give you attention
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:32 AM
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I have been on dating apps. Tall Men don’t get the amount of likes you all think they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:26 AM
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If only women liked tall men as much as guys think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:11 AM
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Men are free to partner up with older women. There’s no ethical reason for them not to. None of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:11 AM
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I’m not saying it’s how it should work, it’s just how it works, as a young person you can’t say I’m not gonna contribute to the system if you want to live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:08 AM
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That’s how taxation works, you don’t get a choice if you’re working.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:02 AM
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Because they paid for it under the promise that they will get a pension when it’s their turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:00 AM
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It’s not about declining population, it’s about the biggest portion of the population is expecting to receive their pension and a lower number of working people are expected to pay for these pensions, civil services etc. How much do you tax these people? 70%?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:54 AM
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Won’t be pretty how?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:31 AM
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Are you okay with having no pension and worse not free healthcare if you’re outside the U.S?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:11 AM
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Why is this a question to women? Do women need to convince men to have kids? Seems like women don’t want kids as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:06 AM
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50/50 because it would be good for them to spend time with the mother if she isn’t an unfit mother. Also good for the mother if the divorce is amicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:23 PM
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He also left other comments worthy of ban in the screenshot you shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:13 PM
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Please report him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:11 PM
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As a man I can guarantee you that we don’t see this as the point of life so please don’t speak on behalf of all of us because a few of you hold this belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:30 PM
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Earning a lot of money doesn’t equal being respected. You can be respected by shallow people but not everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:45 PM
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Sad. You think jobs such OF managers and influencers screams commend respect from people? Edit: I’m not saying influencers shouldn’t be respected but as a job it’s a good example as the pinnacle of a job that should be highly respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:39 PM
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A lot of people do a job because they like it and it’s their passion, flexible schedule or bring them a lot of money. Most men don’t pick their jobs based on how much it will impress women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:34 PM
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I think because these people think about relationships and sex most of the day hence they can’t fathom someone single filling their lives with other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:15 AM
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Banned from r/dating and r/askmenover30 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:55 AM
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The problem is if I’m friends with a woman I can no longer see her in a romantic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:54 AM
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Anime and videogames aren’t seen weird hobbies though. Are these interests a secret?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:57 PM
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What weird hobbies and interests do you possess ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:46 PM
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Weirdo how?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:35 PM
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In the case you mentioned, your friend would notice these things about you and set you up and that happens nowadays!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:24 PM
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Your effort and aid should be telling him how to change and become a nicer person or whatever his issue is, not to introduce him to someone else and make that poor person suffer. If he refuses help then that’s on him. There’s a thread on Reddit, something like, why is that one friend single. Go take a look why people won’t aid a single friend by setting them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:08 PM
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No I’m saying people won’t have issues with others who held black pill beliefs if they didn’t kept calling women and men who do well hateful things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:04 PM
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If his friends know someone who they think would be a good match for him they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:50 PM
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I think these things exist today, I got asked by many friends for them to set me up and saw friends trying to set up a friend who has difficulty meeting people . Here’s the thing though, your friends won’t set you up with their friends if they don’t you’re compatible or they don’t think you would be a good partner. That’s the reason why most single friends aren’t helped by their friends in dating or they don’t know anyone single for you. I can’t comment on the professional matching services but …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:50 PM
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Thank you! Honestly from what I have seen a lot of them clearly think two closely related pills make a lot of sense not opposite pills, but I didn’t want to say so in case it’s against the rules..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:27 PM
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Hold on. You said broke and ugly then say looks are king! Where did the broke part go? You can still get the into a relationship broke and ugly if you have a job but it is very challenging and you need other great attributes, don’t expect your partner to be amazing in looks though or rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:22 PM
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Help them get a chance to get into a relationship how?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:19 PM
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If you aren’t pursuing her then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:46 PM
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Ah yes my statement is valid and yours isn’t because I said so. Here’s the thing men and women rate attractiveness differently. When you see a guy and think he is above average in looks they might think he is below average. And it also differs from person to person. Let’s assume these women dating men far more attractive than them. Why is it the women’s fault and not the men for dating people ‘below their league’, assuming they are only dating for looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:45 PM
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No no you said I can’t insert the statement above , you can’t insert this one. Maybe if you’re looking at influencers examples. I’m looking at people I met in university etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:32 PM
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You are free have whatever beliefs you want, if you think this prove your black pill then fine, the issue is when you whine and be rude to people for their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:30 PM
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You can’t insert unattractive women put the same important in looks as average or attractive women either. It’s simply not true if you see who they are dating on social media or if you take a walk outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:26 PM
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Don’t want to 😭 lol We barely knew him and met him only a few times, he didn’t say anything. He still hangout with the other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:25 PM
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Men also can know a person’s personality by the way they look and their body language. A lot of people are good at hiding who they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:47 PM
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Go for people with similar looks to you? Don’t tell me how less attractive women want a hot attractive 6ft 6 abs guy, if you go outside you can see it’s false.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:44 PM
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Walking hypocrisy? I honestly don’t even know what black pill is exactly supposed to be but y’all acting like it’s a great injustice not wanting to date someone with nothing to offer. You also act as if all people have the same standards but they don’t, you just fail to meet the different standards people have. Edit: if you’re such a supporter of the black pill why is your flair set to purple pill? I don’t understand these flairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:28 PM
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The ones that are being mocked, aren’t being mocked for being chronically single but for being vile and hateful towards ‘Chads’ and women. I have a friend who never been in a relationship and he is good people, he has a lot of friends from both genders and they don’t make fun of him for being single. That behaviour is very common, I was just giving a real life example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:24 PM
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Women continue to date people with attractive qualities. Some of them are cheaters, abusers and some are great men. Guess what? these people don’t lead by I’m a cheater and an abuser, people aren’t mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:21 PM
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If you’re broke and not particularly attractive why would she want you? The least you can do is be respectful and nice + some attractive qualities. Relationships aren’t charity to be handed out to people lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:17 PM
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Their personality is making it hard for them because some guys all their care about is sex and are big mad because women aren’t letting them have sex, you can feel it by the way they’re answering questions here. Some guys who are chronically single for whatever reason and want a relationship are so desperate it’s off putting to women, the ones who are mass asking out women. These women won’t feel special, you don’t care about them as a person, you just want a woman. Not to mention a lot of men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:01 PM
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It’s fine to have a type, but don’t whine and blame people when your type doesn’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:36 AM
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Oh! Is there a prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:38 AM
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I don’t understand lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:33 AM
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I edited it to avoid confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:26 PM
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If you go on a date with a very attractive woman, would you pay or go 50/50?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:20 PM
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It’s very reasonable! Your effort in a relationship or date shouldn’t be related to how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:01 PM
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Honestly I don’t even know anymore, I see people flared as purple pill, no pill or even like yours ‘normal guy’ and it could mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:20 PM
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I’m glad you had an amazing father !
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:18 PM
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Banana tits??! Raising another dude’s kid is the biggest fear?! I’m starting to think idk what purple pill flair means.. I wish one day we stop seeing raising step kids as a negative thing. There’s NOTHING wrong with raising a kid who isn’t yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:06 PM
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According to the study, assuming it’s true. Not women but 78% of women. Maybe 78% of women are great looking. They are matching with men who liked them. So blame these men? I’m tired! Why is it a great injustice to pick from the best options that liked you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:17 PM
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If you’re presented with options you’re going to select the best ones. Why is this hard to grasp? Or seen as a great injustice? Friends showed me some of the men they match with, trust me they aren’t all chads. I have seen them match with overweight men and men I wouldn’t consider good looking. So to know for a fact that women only choose the TOP men in terms of looks and status is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:09 PM
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Idk about being the SAME, but this isn’t a good argument because all profiles aren’t the same. so men with bad profiles won’t be selected nonetheless. Do you want every men to be selected regardless of his profile? Edit: not to mention that a lot of men are probably aren’t even shown to a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:01 PM
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but they have the world view that women are choosing subpar men and then blaming all men for it. I was replying to this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:24 PM
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Even 100% of women, 200k women can’t all date the bottom 80% of men, 800k men. It’s just not feasible and you all gonna cry about the 64% left and so on. There are simply waaaay too many of you on Dating apps. You can’t force women to join online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:16 PM
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Plenty of ugly men who don’t hit the gym in relationships with women. What’s your excuse? Maybe the external circumstances is in your control and you’re aiming for the wrong people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:10 PM
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Not good also means morale incompatibility. we don’t blame external circumstance. My dude, Reddit is filled with men whining and complaining about external circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:05 PM
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There are wayyy more men than women on dating apps if there are 1 mil men and 200k women, I read somewhere in the past that men outnumber women like 5:1 on dating apps probably even more depending on the area, then 78% of women, 156k of women are competing for 20% of men, 200k men seems balanced to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:02 PM
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So men are telling you to choose better, what does it have to do with women then? If women are telling women to choose better then that’s between them. Allergic doesn’t mean bad, but it’s not good for you. I’m not falling for your rage baiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:56 PM
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Told by men or women ? I don’t think I saw a woman tell a man to choose Better. Buffet means nothing if you’re allergic to like 95% of the food there. I advise men not to settle with what they can get .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:45 PM
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If you pay attention women aren’t just blaming the men they are dating, but the men who send them rude messages online, their creepy inappropriate colleagues or strangers etc. So blaming isn’t just about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:39 PM
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I post it in the jokes section
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:34 PM
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These people don’t lead with I’m a serial Cheater who abused my last seven gfs ! People aren’t mind readers!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:33 PM
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People don’t tell men to choose better because they aren’t here complaining about choosing the wrong partner, they are complaining about not being picked. Men tell women to choose better because they imply that they are choosing the bad boy red flag willing instead of them the undesirable nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:32 PM
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Choose better = choose me I’m a nice guy👉🏻👈🏻🥺, btw if you don’t I’m gonna be mad at women online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:26 PM
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I used to get nervous and anxious about exams for topics I’m good at so I totally understand. Think of it this way, if it’s 4 weeks then you won’t cover that much material and you will probably crush it 💪 Edit: plus you already took stats before so you have advantage over others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:18 AM
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Stats are pretty easy. It’s normal to worry but it should be fine!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:14 AM
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There’s more to life than approaching girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:14 AM
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I have female friends who say I hate men but they don’t hate me and they aren’t attracted to me..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:04 AM
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If Your daughter is married to a serial killer you wouldn’t have any feelings about it? Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:54 PM
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Maybe favourite view means, I would date this person or men that women consider hate women don’t consider themselves to hate women. This statistic still seems made up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:45 PM
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I didn’t say to let them or not. I said how do you feel about it. Parents have positive or negative thoughts about who their daughter/son partner is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:38 PM
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A nice spot to read a book!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:36 PM
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Question for men. How would you feel if your daughter is dating a man who only values her for her body?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:06 PM
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I thought you meant I want to passport bro but I can’t. What’s smv?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:50 PM
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Why passport bro then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:42 PM
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Fine I will bite.. what behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:22 PM
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Keep saying stuff like this then wonder why you all are single, why is there a male loneliness epidemic and why don’t women care about our venting and feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:49 PM
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There’s a difference between being allowed to be physically attracted to women’s bodies and reducing women to just their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:31 PM
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I think you’re getting downvoted because ‘having regular access to a hot woman’s body’ is frankly very disgusting and objectifying thing to say, not because men aren’t allowed preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:23 PM
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I get that, but these people say stuff like I won’t do x because I don’t have any benefits which shows in their daily lives, conversations etc even if they don’t outright say it and it’s not an attractive quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:04 AM
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Social skills for relationships isn’t just about getting good at talking to people. You can be good at talking to people and present yourself well but you aren’t a good person and always vile things so most people won’t want to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:53 PM
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They said I don’t put any effort into dating and expect him to do all the work? Even if a few of them said that, I went on dates where she paid for the whole date or brought me baked goods from their work etc. I’m not saying some don’t expect that kind of dynamic but definitely not most of them. I didn’t say selfishness is unique to men, don’t twist my words.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 10:02 PM
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I don’t think I have seen any women say this on this sub and if some do then they aren’t for you, not to mention this isn’t my real life personal experience. Also I wasn’t talking about dating. Do good things in your community, friends, neighborhood etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:50 PM
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For saying sometimes you should do things without receiving anything in return because it’s good?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:46 PM
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First date is easy because it doesn’t take much for a Lot of people to say yes to it. They get to know you on it then decide you ain’t for them. With online dating they might use older or edited photos to get a date and naturally there won’t be a second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:28 PM
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From my conversations here, I realized that a lot of men are single because they are unkind, they won’t do something good without benefiting from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:25 PM
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I think movies can be a problem if they lean too much into a social dynamic, since a lot of people think that’s how it works in real life. Ye I agree someone’s hotness isn’t a deciding factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:13 AM
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You mean my theory is illogical or their logic. t’s definitely a stereotype if you can call it that that the attractive guy is a player and bully while the good guys finish last. Movies definitely didn’t help, especially the ones with high school jocks and ‘nerds’.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:05 AM
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Fair fair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:00 AM
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A dork how?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:43 AM
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I think the logic could be that either the chad is working a non lucrative job or unemployed so they don’t want to settle with him meanwhile the average looking guy doesn’t have the look so he has to compensate for that with money. I think that’s why they say something like she settled for her husband and Chad is her true love or whatever. Other theory is Chad has a good job and all but don’t want to settle down for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:42 AM
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But he would be picked for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:38 AM
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What’s the context?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:07 PM
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Idk man, I do vent to female friends sometimes, usually not about dating and they didn’t weaponized against me later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:36 PM
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The thing is a woman most likely won’t make a post asking why are males gaslighting me when I vent. If she vents she would vent to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:42 PM
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It’s weird to call women females then vent to women. Why not vent to your male friends in your life or in the other subs. Why do they have to vent to women or women have to care about their dating woes..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:37 PM
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That’s a morale failure then. You shouldn’t just care for that reason alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:30 PM
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The thing is I think men need to do better mostly when it comes to being a good person. Here’s the thing you say studies show men are better at handling emotions.assuming these studies are correct, single men with red pilled views aren’t among these men. You think emotional intelligence is crying more which is ridiculous. You don’t need to meet the standards you have for dating, as long as you aren’t whining about being single. Also I had more success on dating apps when I was unemployed. So thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:01 PM
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They are picky about looks because they see having a hot partner as a status thing. They feel embarrassed being seen by not so attractive women. That’s why they ignore not attractive women in public or befriend them. They don’t want people to think they are dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:38 AM
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I think some have high standards for the wifey and lower standards for side actions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:57 PM
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😭 surely some have friends ! I wanted to say they care about their social image that’s why guys would only message some women at night and invited them to their apartments on the first date. They don’t want to be seen with them even if they are attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:49 PM
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Key is based on what they share here. But they care to impress their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:41 PM
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Men are picky when it comes to relationships but unlucky about hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:34 PM
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He seems to have a lot of women are bad videos. How is this normie media?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:41 PM
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The u.s and Japan are concerned about the birth rate to maintain social security and tax payers, not concerned about red pilled men getting a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:32 PM
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I’m curious what happens after the tipping point though. They think the government would say, enough is enough every guy gets a gf, and she must be hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:00 PM
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Normie media 😭 of course they are talking about it they are worried about people falling into it. Here’s the thing though, talking about people having less sex doesn’t mean they are supporting the red pill or saying it’s right. The only one I saw months ago was making fun of young guys instead of supporting them. Calling it the stay at home son epidemic. Dr Debrah soh doesn’t seem to be ‘normie’ media. Can you link the episode? Is she talking about them as in these red pilled say it’s hypergamy …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:39 PM
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You said masculine role models. You could learn from your mom if she is a single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:27 AM
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It’s not about having a positive example of masculinity? I think it’s mostly lack of learning how to be a decent person or what to value. If you grow up in a house where your dad doesn’t help your father you may not want to help your partner when you grow up because that’s how you know relationships work. Or if your mom does everything for you. I think parents should sit with their kids and teach them how to be decent and independent. But sometimes this isn’t the reason. It’s not always the pare…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:23 AM
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The math isn’t mathing my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:47 AM
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Let’s assume this is true. It’s a bad thing that people have similar financial opportunities and they don’t have to partner up with someone out of the need to survive?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:45 PM
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I was unhappy isn’t stupid. He could be making her life miserable. Is he helping her in the house, with kids etc? I doubt anyone just leaving their partner for just being bored. Could be over simplification and it’s the same as didn’t feel anything. What are the reasons to losing feelings. I don’t want to call it stupid but the norm for Lots of parents seems to be to stay together for their children. Is it a good thing? Who knows.. especially if they fight in front of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:43 AM
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You found stupid, doesn’t mean they are stupid to them. Can you provide some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:35 AM
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Pretty sure I read online people calling men who raise kids who aren’t theirs cucks or something. Obviously I don’t share their opinion. His logic is probably men are desperate for relationships that they will wife up single moms which is a bad thing because it raises women’s standards and women with kids can leave their partner for another guy they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:33 AM
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I think he wanted to say women would be more willing to leave their partners because another guy would pick her. Which is silly leaving your partner isn’t easy on the mom and kids. You wouldn’t choose that without a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:07 AM
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Depends on where I’m going and how I’m feeling, I could dress in a suit, oversized hoodie and joggers, retro soccer jerseys or all pink. And men and women say I dress nice. I’m not trying to tell any story to others, I dress for myself and what I think is nice and I try to look confident in whatever I’m wearing but that generally by posture and how I walk not necessarily clothes. I don’t dress for others. I don’t think so, strangers usually start conversations with me in public but lately mostly…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:38 AM
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I think it’s ridiculous that men expect women to fix their issues. Most men issues can be fixed by these men themselves including loneliness. If not then by therapist. I think the men companionship is awful is exaggerated. Most men have good friendship. Doesn’t mean we don’t care about those who don’t. Ditch the bad friends and Look for better friends who value good things!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:21 PM
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Manosphere advice and blue pill advice aren’t for the same goal. Most manosphere advice is for shallow goals, Lamborghini, money, party with girls and get laid a lot. That’s not what the blue pill advocate for. Also advices don’t work for all people. There’s no one true tested way for success no matter what dating coaches are trying to sell you. You aren’t entitled to someone having a relationship with you or casual sex with you. If you’re doing things like getting female friends to get a gf the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:55 PM
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Almost everyone is speaking from a place of privilege compared to someone. It would be stupid if I say something like “ ugh I hate all women are interested in me I wish I was shorter”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:21 PM
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I’m not referring to an example I witnessed, but if you scroll social media you can see the sexualization of goth presenting people in posts, reels and comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:53 PM
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I’m not saying it’s worse or wish being shorter. That doesn’t mean our feelings are invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:50 PM
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Or when their friend tag them in a post that says ‘ Do you like him or is he just tall’ 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:13 PM
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I’m around 6’5 and can relate, it’s annoying when they make it seem like your height is the only thing important about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:11 PM
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Fair, I’m not saying I’m objectively right. I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:05 PM
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I see what you mean. The goth thing was an example. Because if you dress like that you’re not looking to be viewed in a sexual way but some men might assume so. Basically I saw sexualization as taking something inherently something non sexual and making it sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:28 PM
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Sexualisation is more than just bodily for example the current sexualization of people from certain cultures or goth representing people. If you’re dressed goth it’s not surprising for a guy to come to you and start saying sexual shit. Objectification is more about physical traits I think. I could be wrong though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:19 PM
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My self worth isn’t tied to anything. I’m a person therefore I have worth and respect. But to give an answer based on your motivation. Being a positive influence in my community like smiling at and helping strangers, being there for people I know. I guess continuously seeking knowledge too makes me feel more valuable’ to myself. I believe self worth should be tied to inner things and not materialistic stuff like being rich or having a nice body.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:13 PM
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I can’t relate to this but I think there are two types of people. People who do all of this to be appealing to women to find a partner and start a family. For others it’s just a flex to be wanted and also sex, they probably don’t care about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:59 PM
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I’m saying genuinely make effort to be a good person instead of faking being a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:05 PM
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How about instead of being fake, work on being a nicer, more pleasant person? Saying unhinged things at work isn’t being real, being rude isn’t being real, if it is then you should change. You should know when to speak and when to remain silence. If you don’t say anything it’s not being fake. The effort you put into learning how to be fake and playing games put it into being a better person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:50 PM
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It’s the same thing for guys too. Obviously the first thing a person notice is usually your looks. But if a woman keeps mentioning a feature in you or your height. Then it doesn’t feel great because it feels like they are with you for that one reason and not you as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:54 PM
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I don’t think standards are necessary tied to attractiveness. You do see attractive women with not attractive men. What men find good looking isn’t necessarily what women think is good looking and vice versa. Not to mention it varies by person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:31 PM
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I’m honestly baffled that contributing to society has anywhere to do with genetic stake. You contribute to society to be a positive influence in your community and because doing good should correspond to your value and ethics. Contributing to society in what? Having a good job? You’re compensated for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:28 PM
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I’m a man so I know what men are told. Not all men are told the same things and even if you’re told something doesn’t mean you should follow it without questioning. From your description of RP you want to be rewarded for doing something by getting a woman or x thing should result on women wanting you. That’s just not how it works and women aren’t obligated to choose the men that according to society say they are valuable men because they have good jobs or do x things. Women have the right to cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:23 PM
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Makes sense. I had the opposite happen to me. I was told I’m a woman larping as a guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:53 PM
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Usually because they write the way they think women act despite being told over and over here that women aren’t like that. And also you can tell in most cases from their writing style and vocabulary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:47 PM
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If you think the majority of women want that then I doubt you interacted with a woman in a long time. And for the second point, my advice is to stop consuming alpha male and maxing content. Those don’t translate to real life. If your entourage irl are like that then surround yourself with less shallow people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:29 PM
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It’s understandable as in people have a naturally need to be coupled with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:21 PM
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Pretty sure a lot of women feel judged for being romantically unsuccessful especially if they are the last single friend. Okay they can get any men but why would they get a man they don’t want or wouldn’t treat them how they want to be treated? Would you want that? It doesn’t sound good. I also think you’re excluding a lot of not attractive women. If you browse this app for a bit you can see women saying they are invisible. Your self worth depends on what you make it depend on. If you’re insecur…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:20 PM
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Obsessing over a partner isn’t healthy but the need is understandable. Obsession over casual sex signal jealousy, attention seeking and often leads to mistreatment of women especially from guys who can’t get it ‘without trying’
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:12 PM
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Your values and what brings you happiness should show you what to prioritize in life. How come a lot of women who are romantically unsuccessful decide to stop dating, but for us guys if you’re romantically unsuccessful you should sulk and think you’re worthless instead of focusing on other aspects of life that might bring you joy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:58 PM
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Not how pre selection works
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:39 PM
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I do understand it because you get these reels on Instagram about you should date a high value man and such. But from personal experience and what I hear from my female friends I agree with you. It’s just unlike what people here would want you to believe not all women go for the same kind of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:39 PM
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The point isn’t to make you desirable but to fix the shallow need to be the centre of attention. Sleeping with a woman won’t make you desirable to a different woman. Women don’t look at men who sleep with many women and say oh wow I didn’t know so many women wanted to sleep with him I should do it too!! And honestly if you’e telling women that you sleep with many women they would think it’s a weird thing to say and they won’t sleep with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:35 PM
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Obsessing with being extremely desirable isn’t good and honestly probably a reason to go to therapy. If you’re not desirable at all then it makes sense to work on your character and look within reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:31 PM
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Men obsession with casual sex is truly astonishing to me. Like I understand being obsessed with wanting a partner if you’re failing at dating, but being obsessed with casual sex is just weird, seems like an unhealthy obsession and screams I want attention, the goal is for women to give me attention because I’m jealous of the attention they and some men get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:25 PM
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I think what he asserts is, women want ‘high value’ men and by not selecting other men, these men feel inferior because it’s hard not to tie yourself to your dating status. Still very sexist post though and my advice for OP is therapy to work on tying your self worth on things more important than their dating status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:14 PM
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I live in a western country where during hangouts people often divide bills equally but back home people often do stuff like pretending to go to the washroom and instead pay the full bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:45 AM
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I don’t personally relate to him. But yea they usually say something like next one on me, they insist on 50/50 or want to pay the full bill. Very rare when a woman doesn’t acknowledge the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:42 AM
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I get that but I would pay for a stranger if I had a conversation with them if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:30 AM
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Paying on a date doesn’t make you a paypig. There’s a difference between treating women you know on a date and giving women you don’t know money online..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:27 AM
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Fair. I encountered women who insisted to pay 50/50 and some wanted to pay the full bill. I let them after saying no it’s okay I got it once. I don’t want to fight on who’s paying. One time a woman was surprised I paid for the full bill, she said she had to pay for her and the guy before, multiple times. They didn’t offer to pay..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:50 AM
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As someone who used to pay on dates when he used to go on dates, we don’t do it so she would fuck us afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:39 AM
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Can we not fetishize people with neurological disorder?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:48 PM
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I think there’s a line between being mature, enthusiastic about dating, and not ignoring red flags and being burnout from previous relationship experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:06 AM
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Whilst I don’t agree that women over 35 are crushed, but lots of people over 30 are jaded with dating. I didn’t think this is the reason women here think he would say. They usually list that men go for younger women because they are easier to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:59 AM
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It’s crazy how much some men in this sub are jealous of women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:30 PM
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But I remember it being said here that women don’t want to settle for the ‘average’ guy! The 10/10 guy or nothing I guess. I’m getting conflicted answers!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:55 PM
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Im confused, how can he be too passive for your taste if you’re looking for a beta husband? Beta inflation gone too far? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:44 PM
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You’re comparing being unhealthy with not being with a guy they don’t want? lol I don’t have anything else to say to you after this statement lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:51 PM
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Well if they can’t get him and they don’t want to settle, it’s their business, you can’t force someone to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:44 PM
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Why can’t red pill men get their heads around the fact that people want to date the best person they can find, I’m not just talking physically. Why should people be with someone average if they have the opportunity to be with someone amazing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:59 PM
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They absolutely make effort, I was often able to tell if they are pretending to be interested or are actually interested. On the plus side if she didn’t make any effort the maybe she saw you as someone who’s non threatening!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:54 AM
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Posts on this sub made by Red pillers keep surprising me! And not in a good way..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:48 PM
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Was? He messed it up? It actually doesn’t, I’m 6’5 and very single lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:38 PM
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Is he part of the top 10%?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:31 PM
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I did mean someone who’s interested in them and who might have approached them if he knew they are interested. Just because someone is interested in you doesn’t mean they won’t take you for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:46 AM
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Well the most complaint I see if you approach a man first he shows less effort and possibly takes you for granted, which kinda makes sense since people try harder to impress those who are probably not into them. I think women still approach men first if they think he is act or I don’t like using this expression but I don’t have another way to say it, ‘out of their leagues’, most of the times I get approached by women is from women I have no interest in. Edit: I think a lot of women do give hints…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:41 AM
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I disagree, I know men who grew up around women and had female friends and were single. Women just aren’t interested in them romantically. Meanwhile I knew others who had stranger women interested in them often because they thought they were attractive. Nothing wrong with being attracted to certain men and not others, but men aren’t attracting women because they didn’t have female friends nor communicated with women is just wrong. I guess having female friends would help if they think you’re a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:24 PM
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From the replies on this post, if a woman posts online why aren’t men approaching women anymore, show her this post lol I know women aren’t monolithic but men don’t want to guess who’s open to approaching and who isn’t. Even if she seems approachable she could just being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:36 PM
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That’s also fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:27 PM
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As a guy I wouldn’t ask a woman I’m friends with out. I saw enough women posting about how bad it is when they think they made a genuine friend and their friend was waiting to shoot his shot. I’m not going to contribute to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:26 PM
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So men should settle for women they aren’t attracted to? I think being with someone you don’t desire isn’t a good way to start a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:53 PM
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I’m not buying it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:55 PM
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From this comment and your comment history, I’m 99% sure you’re a man using a woman label to add fuel to the fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:08 PM
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Successful experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:14 AM
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Are you speaking from experience? Is this what you had to do to get in a relationship , or are you speaking about what it takes to be successful at dating whilst being unsuccessful?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 01:57 AM
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Idk man, I’m not from the west and had no issue getting dates in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:18 AM
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Most passport bros and passport women are use their power advantage to get a more attractive and/or younger partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:15 AM
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Passport bro in training 😆 I can’t with some of you all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:12 AM
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I mean ye, people can see you’re attractive but you they can’t see your personality till they get to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:15 PM
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I think a lot of women marry for financial security, not just women some men do it too. Be it the guy is able to upgrade her lifestyle or because life is too expensive when you have a single income.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:02 PM
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I talked about this with a friend recently, if your wife has to treat you like her son ie clean after you, take your appointments etc. She won’t desire you as a partner in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 06:58 PM
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A lot of people marry for security or out of convenience, they are willing to sacrifice love if someone is willing to cook, clean and have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 06:55 PM
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I think some men who give advices here or make some wild assumptions about women while presenting them as facts of what women want, have probably never been with a woman romantically before or went past the initial flirting stage. If you tell them otherwise then you don’t know what you’re talking about or you’re listening to women and they don’t say what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:27 PM
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Dude there are women that give bad advices online but implying that women advices typically turn you into simps and lead to you getting controlled and abused, is just nonsense. How good the advice is depends on the person, not the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:03 PM
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Sorry I have to ask after this take..Are you really married ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:12 PM
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I just feel that most people here aren’t keeping an open mind nor want to change their opinion, they want their opinion validated and if you say something that doesn’t fit it then you’re wrong.I still come here to share my opinion but reply to clear any misunderstanding but I’m not entering in a fruitless debate with people saying bad things about others which is usually men talking nonsense about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:04 PM
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Ye of course. I keep seeing don’t ask a fish how to fish when a woman gives a dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:58 PM
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I mean I enjoy them too and I’m not a woman 🤭 my female friends talk to me about their dates, their marriage etc. Of course, I just feel that it attracts men struggling with dating, which makes sense if they are red, black pilled or maybe purple pilled hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:57 PM
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I agree, the majority of partnered men don’t spend their time on Reddit, more specifically Reddit subs that discuss dating. However, partnered women seem to enjoy this kind of discourse, I’m not saying they shouldn’t, it’s just a funny observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:51 PM
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In my comment I talked about passport bros and similar mouvement, moving from NYC to upstate new York isn’t the same. I think the first part of the first paragraph holds some truth to it in most cases if you aren’t a minority where you live, if you fit the average beauty standards where you live then your personality or and politics are what’s probably holding you back, but I wouldn’t consider it cheating if you move from for example somewhere dominantly democrat to a republican city.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:21 AM
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I have never seen someone saying you should be able to successfully date where you’re born. In the case of passport bro or passport gals and similar mouvements, most people don’t have an issue with you trying to date outside where you’re born, the issue is there’s a power inbalance and that might lead to abuse, probably financial abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:12 AM
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I would say at home by their husbands/bf
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:28 AM
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I didn’t check their comment history but reading the post I didn’t believe op is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:14 PM
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I’m pretty sure this is a man, this doesn’t look like a woman’s writing style to me and also the account is two weeks old. I could be wrong tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:13 PM
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I get what you mean. I think ideally you shouldn’t think about a real person while “having a great time” but if it’s fictional character then I think it’s fine but I wouldn’t tell my partner. I do still think it’s technically a bit of an emotional cheating but it’s harmless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:16 PM
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To me yes, if it’s not to you then you should do some self reflection to see why you hold any rich abuser to a higher regards than someone with great character earning an honest living.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:12 PM
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This is interesting, I consider watching porn of other people as some form of emotional cheating or betrayal. Desiring other people sexually won’t make your partner feel great about themselves. In the case of fictional characters I wouldn’t call it cheating but it’s still very hurtful since they have unrealistic body types or parts. I wouldn’t recommend consuming porn in a relationship or while being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:58 PM
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Where were these rules stated ? IMO high value is about what you have on the inside not shallow things like money and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:53 PM
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Maybe it’s just me but I wouldn’t necessarily call a cheater a high value man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:46 PM
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Absolutely not, I don’t think a lot of people here if not all are interested in changing their mind,they aren’t here with an open mind, they just want their beliefs validated and are very convinced that the opposite opinion is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:05 PM
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It’s not that simple. Every woman has her own non negotiable and might be looking for something completely different than another. Just be someone women find interesting, pleasant to talk to and they have to find you somewhat attractive, the last one varies a lot from woman to woman because I’m convinced some women would absolutely not care about physical features if you’re well kept and show effort, I did talk to such women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:29 PM
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Being a nice guy isn’t enough! What else do you have going for you personality wise or look wise?Women probably aren’t seeing a reason to be attracted to you, and it’s not because you’re too nice. You’re not entitled to a relationship because you are nice and think of women as people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:40 PM
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Do you mind further elaborating ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:37 AM
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Yet another men pretending to be an expert on what we men want and don’t want. I talk to a lot of female friends about dating and they absolutely want emotional intelligence. Do some people also want emotional validation sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:58 PM
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I mean I personally don’t think it’s acceptable for men to be promiscuous especially if they want a non promiscuous woman. I read men saying men can be promiscuous but women can’t because it’s much harder for guys to get s*x. Which is nonsense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:32 PM
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I replied to this in more details to a comment with a similar reply to yours
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:29 PM
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I see your point, it crossed my mind as well. Ultimately I associated couldn’t handle it with freaking out, keep bringing it up in the future, keep asking how he compares to them or decides to end a relationship. But ye you both are right, my reply could be put under the label ‘can’t handle it’ too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:22 PM
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I was replying to you saying “ if I had any partners before him, he wouldn’t have married me” so I assumed no sexual partners at all. I think seeing some men on Reddit talking about how it’s not okay for women to have a past but men can influenced my initial comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:17 PM
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It’s not that we couldn’t handle it, at least me personally, it’s more like you don’t want to picture them in your head having s*x with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:07 PM
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Not all women would mention but it would be silly to break up a relationship if she mentioned she had sexual partners before you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:05 PM
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I don’t think it matters, there are way more other factors that matter in a serious relationship than if a woman had sex before in a previous marriage, when she was a teen or a long term relationship in her 20’s. You can have whatever standards you want but don’t shame people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:49 PM
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I don’t ask about past sexual partners either , I’m okay with her having past sexual partners but I don’t wanna know the details
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:40 PM
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IMO men irl don’t ask questions about past sexual partners. It doesn’t matter to them as much as men on Reddit say it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:28 PM
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I mean ye men won’t approach a woman they don’t think is attractive ( some do hopping she would be desperate for sex and they are wrong) but I think they are more likely to approach a less attractive woman over a more attractive one if she is very approachable, Tbf unapproachable looking women still get approached but mostly by the guys they don’t want them to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 09:19 PM
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I don’t personally endorse clubbing and partying but there did miss on social experiences. Another aspect is people since they are kids are getting dopamine all the time from social media, video games, p*rn etc I think that killed their motivation to socialize with others outside of their gaming group and now they are adults with no social skills they don’t know how to interact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:43 PM
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I agree, but these days a lot of people not just women who want to be approached don’t look very approachable (I’m not just talking in dating context or saying that women who say they don’t want to be approached secretly want to be), people are more introverted and antisocial. It’s easier as a man to say I’m just not gonna approach anyone anymore, maybe a woman will approach me at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:34 PM
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I wouldn’t say looks but how much he is into you, and looks play a big part when it comes to attraction but it’s not the only factor. If you’re attractive but you’re not fun to talk to I’m not gonna put any effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:54 PM
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These are men who probably won’t find a partner, I think these are outliers ( same as most men in this sub). Men need women for companionship and also this is a part some of you might hate but to start a family if he wants kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:54 PM
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What did you do to meet people instead of using dating apps? Or did you just give up?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:50 PM
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Then maybe frame it as a question for provider men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:38 PM
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actually it isn’t complicated, a lot of men want a relationship but are also open to hookup if they think the woman is attractive enough to sleep with but not date, introduce to friends etc. So when they put looking for a long term relationship they mean it if you’re good looking enough I guess. I do blame the dating apps too since on apps they have “access” to all these women and what’s stopping them from looking for both a relationship and hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:37 PM
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Not just unattractive men get told that, unattractive women too. They assume someone who is on your “level” look wise would like you if you are a good person. When I go outside I see couples that I consider both of them unattractive so don’t hit me with the unattractive women want Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:57 PM
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People here seem to be shocked when attractive men and women have some social advantages. How is this surprising lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:32 PM
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This ☝️, like 99% men who post here about what women want are clueless about these things cuz they talk about situations they never experienced. A confident attractive men lovebombing a woman by telling her “ I miss you bae” would make her cringe and be seen less attractive unless the woman also is a lovebomber and comes off too strong too soon herself as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:07 PM
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actually in a way I think that porn is a reason why courting is almost non existent. Back then if a man wanted to “fulfill his desires “ he had to find a woman to be with him so he had to put a lot of effort and court her because there’s no other alternative. Nowadays men have other means, they can watch porn and see as many naked women as they want so they are less motivated to pursue women. Yes it’s not the same experience but it’s way less effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 12:17 PM
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Oops you replied while I was editing my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:06 AM
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Kinda hard to treat someone special male or female when dating apps made it normal for people to go on multiple dates a week while seeing you and also the economy sucks, we are on survival mode with all the layoffs Edit: the fun less serious answer: same as women levelled up, became educated and joined the work force earning more or as much as men whilst men still expect them to do most if not all house shores. Men are adapting with the times when it comes to dating, doing 50/50 and no more cour…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:48 AM
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I didn’t say when he asks her for a first date, a lot of guys would keep doing “nice things” to have interactions with the woman until they have the courage to ask her out and when she rejects them then you hear stuff like “if you want to know where all the good guys are then check your friendzone”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:16 AM
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You can be both nice and awkward but it’s a different kind of awkward when doing something nice because you like the woman even as a guy I can spot it when I see it. Edit: for example being nice because he wants to ask her out he will try to prolong the interaction in an unnatural way and he might stare at her too long but if he is just being nice the interaction just ends and he goes on with his day without extra talking or staring etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:04 AM
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I think you can tell my body language, how he treats other people and the vocabulary he uses when talking to her because most of the time they are awkward around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:59 PM
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This seems to be another guy speculating what women look for in a guy or how they judge guys without listening to what actual women have to say about the matter. You said men overrate women so seems like this is a men problem to solve not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:32 AM
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I find that people that usually “throw themselves at you” are people you wouldn’t find attractive. I can relate to that, most women that approach me or give me signs in real life or send me fb invite or follow requests on IG are women I wouldn’t want to date. So i definitely get that women have to put effort to get the men they desire, it’s not as easy as just existing and going through your DMs. Edit: seems that men and women are more likely to approach someone if they find them more attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 11:03 PM
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Ye I understand. My question was like if you feel say its 70/30 with child care or house shores what bonus would bring it back to 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:02 PM
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What kind of bonus would you like to have ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:56 PM
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Absolutely, for me personally hanging out with my female friends, fulfill the “itch” for female companionship so I don’t go on a date since I can get a better experience hanging out with a female friend. Even though it’s not the closeness you mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:55 PM
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Fair enough, usually when I read about women saying he has to add something to my life, they mention that they get companionship from their community etc so I’m confused about what else they expect him to add if they’re a fully functioning adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:49 PM
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So maybe we should stop expecting men to add something to women’s lives and vice versa beyond companionship since they both have a fulfilling life on their own?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:38 PM
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men don’t offer anything really That’s kinda interesting, what are they supposed to offer? I’m a single guy who hasn’t asked a woman on a date since his last relationship. I live alone, cook, clean, and have fulfilling friendships with men and women. Using the same logic What can a woman offer or add to my life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:25 PM
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I keep seeing this brought up on Reddit. The first paragraph is NOT just a female friendship thing, male friends do act that way too. If your friends don’t, look for better friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:14 AM
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I think some people think all options are bad to cope with being unfulfilled in life or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:20 AM
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I have a feeling OP thinks option 2 is the good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:56 AM
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Sir, this is purplePillDebate ..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:50 AM
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1- Why is marrying a woman with multiple past partners a bad thing? What if he also has multiple past partners? 2- Even if you aren’t married you still need to divide assets after a breakup as if you were married. Depending on where you live and how long you have been together and in case you have kids, you pay child support in like every country. Why are all types bad??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:46 AM
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But some women do cheat on the guy they wanted! I want to sympathize with you and I do, seems like there are a lot men acting in an awful way online towards women but your point of view of men are bad women are good makes it hard to. Maybe I’m misunderstanding you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:20 AM
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I get that the house shores part is expectations kept on women today from the era before women joined the workforce. But it’s actually white collar jobs , women always worked, everyone worked, even children, some women get to be housewives and didn’t work but I don’t think that’s a common experience worldwide throughout history. But I do understand your sentiment. The loyalty part, women cheat too, cheating isn’t a men specific issue and some women go specifically for married men and men in rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:56 AM
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Who cares what they say? I feel that men who say stuff like this can’t get women anyway and men who can largely don’t care. I just don’t like your statement who the actual problem here, the problem isn’t gender specific + there isn’t just one problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:40 AM
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You said the man she desires but it’s a problem if the man she desires isn’t him. They are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:47 AM
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No you don’t understand, she must only desire him and be willing to have sex with him but not other guys, if she did that for other guys then she isn’t wifey material, he thinks he is that special. Men and women are the problem in dating, a lot of men aren’t the way you portrayed men in your post and a lot of women aren’t amazing either and have a lot of qualities that make them bad partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:11 AM
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This ☝️ bringing up your virginity or your sex life around people is weird and loser behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:29 AM
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I think because historically most men didn’t struggle with dating or marriage and despite the fact that a lot of men are chronically single nowadays for different reasons the assumed default status for an adult male is being in a relationship, so if you say you never been in a relationship or with a woman then you fall below the average male. But I don’t see why you should be going around telling people you’re a virgin, you want sympathy or you trying to bait a bad reaction from them? I feel tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:27 AM
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Idk what to tell you, when I said older I didn’t mean women in their 70’s+, besides I have a friend who wanted to set me up with her best friend and a girl I know that said if I lived closer to her city she would go on a date with me ( I didn’t say I wanted to go out with her) and these are good looking women, so maybe I got something and not nothing like you said. Some guys seem to be doing the equivalence of a baby throwing a tantrum in hope they will cave to his demands instead of listening t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:53 PM
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I get that not being desirable for relationships or sex makes you feel that people look at you like a loser. But maybe if it isn’t about sex, you should go to therapy or something to untie your self worth from what people think of you. Don’t live your life for other’s approval. Not caring about being chronically single also gives the confidence and appearance of someone who’s sexual active, one of my friends once said my body count is surely over 20, whilst that isn’t true and couldn’t be far aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:54 PM
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No because the most pressing issues are the ones you’re disregarding in the first paragraph, men and women aren’t on the same wave length when it comes to politics and dividing responsibilities in a relationship, no amount of third space is fixing that. The solution to the “money issue” to choose economic policies that decrease the cost of production? It’s not that simple and honestly it seems to be partially written by AI if not fully.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:41 AM
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People thought in the past I was a woman pretending to be a guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:05 PM
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Maybe they don’t but men are so much faster to get out of there. Well if that’s your opinion then so be it. I think some people online are starting are intentionally misinterpreting videos like this when discussing them because men hate women and women hate men content goes viral, this also apply to the recent vogue relationship viral article. I want to tell people not to fall for the gender hate and gender wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:02 PM
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You’re the one comparing apples to horses lol it’s about the enjoyment of activity not your partner. basically men don’t enjoy spending a long time in grocery stores that’s what the video about that’s just the truth, we just have a list go directly to what we need and go out, most women enjoy the Costco experience and would like to take a tour there which is fine but boring to most of us. It has nothing to do with liking their partner nor with refusing to shop for groceries. Not saying all men l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:52 PM
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That’s not what that video about! In that video men didn’t mean do they enjoy spending time with their partners, the video was do they enjoy going to Costco shopping with their partners and they don’t like it because it takes long and they get bored there in the store, if they go alone it takes much shorter time. This is comparable to if women were asked if you enjoy listening to your partner analyze football/basketball game for an hour or two and if they respond no men go online and say women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:35 PM
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Idk man, besides maybe a minority of women making content online, it seems that women are working on themselves then they get disappointed when they want a relationship because men aren’t doing the same or at least not to the same level. And I say this as a man who doesn’t really work on himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:25 AM
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I feel that this whole male loneliness epidemic is misunderstood. Mainly because a minority of guys are vocal online. No, men don’t want women to fix the “male loneliness epidemic”, men in real like don’t even refer to it as a male loneliness epidemic. I knew a lot of single guys in the past and none of them blame women for being single. Men are single because women don’t like the current “male culture “ and a lot of guys don’t like it either. By male culture I mean the sport betting epidemic, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:47 PM
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Well that’s how dating used to be before apps. Maybe not closeness but focusing on one person at a time. Now you just open an app and you have 100s of men matching with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:38 AM
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because men who think like this probably get 1-2 matches a month, they don’t have the choice to talk to multiple people so they think it’s unfair the person on the other side can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:11 AM
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Do I like it ? No, but should they stop? Also no! Why would they not go through their options to find the best partner for them? It sucks for you and guys in general cuz they have less options but it’s great for them. A lot of men who say they shouldn’t plan other dates when talking to someone would probably do the same thing if they have the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:59 AM
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You might be onto something because some women online would bring up leagues after breakup and giving an ugly guy a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:37 PM
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Leagues tend to refer just to looks and women seem to value personality more than men when it comes to attraction. Dating apps are superficial by nature you can match with an extremely attractive person and have better personality than they aren’t showing in their profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:34 PM
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Fair fair. I don’t know what the love doctor has to do with this tho. I do play a similar role for my girl friends when it comes to their dating life or marriage but has nothing to do with my interest in these subreddits. It’s just entertaining seeing what these losers posts and sometimes I comment an advice or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:20 PM
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Because they have more stakes in the “game”, see what single men think about them or affirmation on giving up on dating? While partnered women focus on their relationships, work etc rather something that they don’t have to deal with. But I guess I was wrong lol I mean ye there are single people who go out all the time to meet people or just have fun. But there are men and women like me who just stay home after work and maybe hope somehow meet someone in their living room lol I want you to unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:17 PM
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Sure but I thought that they would be too focused on their relationship and life to care about what single bitter men say, especially since they aren’t in the dating market. It seems that partnered women care about this kind of content more than partnered men. A man would probably say “ I am in a relationship, I don’t care what these men or women say about relationships.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:11 PM
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Sure sure it’s funny women in relationships seems to be more interested than single women, maybe this sub is a bad example but for example the passport bros sub has partnered women arguing there with men and it’s not necessarily a “normal” dating sub. Again partnered women can browse and post in whatever subs they want it’s funny that they seem to be outnumbering single women in these subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:02 PM
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It’s kinda interesting that a lot of women in relationships are very active in subreddits where a lot of red pill, passport bro and “incel” ideologies are being posted and discussed. Not saying they shouldn’t be there, it’s just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:49 PM
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Most men when entering a relationship with a woman don’t wonder if she is a hoe or not. For some reason it’s something men who can’t get into a relationship seem to fixate on. I don’t think you know what cuckolding is if you think not caring about a partners past means you’re a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:22 AM
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💯! I’m convinced this type of posts here made by men who never been in a relationship, because who wants to be with a man with these ideas, then they write what they think they would feel/do in a relationship as a shared men experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:10 AM
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the male equivalent most men would agree is if a woman claimed to be low count You think men see this as the biggest betrayal?? I mean if they were religious and she said she is a virgin or something then sure. But men who actually get in relationships don’t care about body count, it’s not something you would ask a woman. If you asked and she for something didn’t stop seeing you and lied about it then it’s a betrayal but there are bigger betrayals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:54 AM
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I noticed that when men make these type of posts they only have attractive women in mind. When I go out I see plenty of women dating men yall would probably consider beta buxx but for reason yall don’t think it counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:17 PM
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The way you described the red pill ut sounds like a way to not take accountability. Which is ironic since a lot of them say women avoid accountability all the time. I do agree that some people been abandoned by all types of community but those are really rare. For a lot of them include sure there are people in their community they can reach to for support if they didn’t close these doors themselves by being obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:27 AM
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Sure frustration from women. But women aren’t really doing anything to them, they have frustrations from women because they have agency and standards? Seems unreasonable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:23 AM
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Sure, if you’re lonely because you’re desliked and bad with people then maybe instead of becoming red pilled seek therapy or other forms of help? seems like something they could work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:17 AM
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Average person, doesn’t mean their qualities are average in scale, a “5/10”, for example if the average person have poor social skills, no hobbies doesn’t mean women should date him because he is average so he isn’t that bad. Maybe a less attractive woman would be open to dating them but they probably won’t look past it because she isn’t a “5/10” when it comes to looks and that’s probably all they care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:14 AM
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I think if you’re a RP men then you probably don’t have much going on in life, at least not romantically. I feel that people who do either identify with the blue pill, purple or just don’t care about pills. I see that adopting red pill ideas comes from frustration and resentment, usually towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 03:58 AM
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Men don’t refuse to acknowledge that, people who think like op do lol sex probably isn’t in the top of things that make a relationship with women beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:24 AM
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I never encountered a woman like this. I have a feeling you saw some reels or something online and yall are talking about it here as a personal experience or facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:15 AM
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This post is very misogynistic and demeaning to women 🤮 The way you’re talking about women in relationships and sex you come across as someone who has no idea what he is talking about and this is all a work of fiction not based on experience. Yes a minority of women don’t perform in relationships but most women do. I think way more men don’t perform in relationships than women. You’re confusing what you think women would be in a relationship with men they aren’t interested in. Women absolutely “…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:07 AM
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Pretty much. You think a woman who would have a conversation with a guy harbouring such thoughts in his brain would find him attractive? It sips into conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:07 AM
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I think they want a reason to be mad at women, why else aren’t they picking them if they aren’t just dating alphas while the nice guys are in the friendzone ( btw the stuff he lists in the friendzone part is their fault, the woman didn’t tell them to give her special treatment). The second part is i think how he imagines he would behave if he was able to attract women whilst not being a nice guy. Picking extreme examples to show how dating is broken and how nice guys suffer in this dating enviro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:03 AM
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His post is red pill fiction, I stopped taking it seriously after “alpha” the I read the insult virgin men. Women don’t do that, they want it to be true to have a reason to be mad at men . Some women do avoid virgin men because they don’t want to teach a man in bed and teach him how to do relationship emotional and actual work not because they are disgusted by them or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 12:48 AM
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These people are clueless they don’t know how relationships work. They want to be loved for existing. I would like to see if they get a partner would they still love her if she doesn’t provide emotional and domestic labour.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:56 PM
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Don’t speak on behalf of your gender, we don’t all share this incel esque perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:48 PM
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Because his intention seems to be gotcha see women want to hookup with Chad then settle with the safe nice option when they are old bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:49 AM
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So this is a confirmation of your intention..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:13 PM
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This sounds like fishing for an answer that would suggest woman want to hook up with the hot men then settle for the nice safe option.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:26 PM
0

Because probably they either can’t get to date someone “equal or higher” or they want a partner who they can walk all over and treat them better than someone in “their league “ would but mostly the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:41 AM
5

Fair fair, I met some cool engineers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:35 PM
7

Of course, I went to engineering school and I met some who were quite obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:46 PM
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Men who claim they are logical or smart are probably the most obnoxious group of people I meet and they have a hard time forming relationships probably because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:23 PM
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Women now are more educated and don’t need to get married to survive or not to bring “shame” to her family. A relationship for women now a want not a must or something they are forced to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:44 AM
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I actually agree that they are dating less because they realized the evils of the other gender. There’s a compatibility issue between men and women these days and I think the people on both ends consider the other evil or at least very undesirable. Example, women consider men voting against their rights in the U.S as evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:25 AM
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I disagree because it’s very hard for women to find a man sweet. sharing the same values as her is a big part of being “sweet”, if she thinks a guy doesn’t care about women rights or other issues ( it varies from woman to woman) then guess what? He isn’t considered sweet! These days men and women are very divided when it comes to values, so a lot of men you consider as sweet women don’t. Hence to them he isn’t a good man according to your criteria for good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:02 AM
2

Interesting, I didn’t look at it from that angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:26 AM
12

Idk where are these women they talk about. I was gonna say social media influencers demanding provider husbands but these people are probably making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:04 AM
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That’s silly! Nowadays women are probably more ambitious than men career wise. The women I know who demand a “provider” partner are very career oriented and independent. Funnily enough, I think men who say that say women are freeloaders, men have harder jobs and men are providers, they neither have a harder job nor are providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:38 PM
1

Honestly I have never seen this so called female mating strategy and male mating strategy. What comes to mind is women being more thorough when vetting potential partners and men getting whatever they can ie swiping right on everyone on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:06 PM
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I disagree. This is neither male vs female nor younger vs older there are enough people under 30 only looking for serious relationships and “older” people only look into date around not to be considered a rare minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:11 PM
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Care to elaborate? A lose- lose situation unless you’re also asexual. Dead bedroom relationships aren’t good. No one choosing this irl unless they are desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:34 PM
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I understand. Don’t worry about it, it happens. I agree with your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:48 PM
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You might have misunderstood my comments especially the first one lol I was quoting their point of view. I’m not one of them!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:27 PM
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I don’t agree that ignoring women and focusing on working on themselves is a good advice for these men. That’s how you end up with men emotionally stunned, no relationship intelligence and entitlement for women because they did all the “right work” so women should be attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:21 PM
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Aww thank you! It might change again if I come up with something better with Chad in it. Exactly! You bring up a good point about “the village “. Hard to rise kids if you live in a small condo that you probably don’t even own whilst having no one nearby to help you if you need help. I think in general people are no longer offering to help without expecting something in return. “Why would I be your village if I’m not planning to have kids and won’t need a village?“ I don’t necessarily think peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:41 PM
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This might be more complex than it first seems. Back then people had a lot of kids but kids were expected to work and contribute to the family at a very young age. Now having kids isn’t bringing families money or labour but it’s costing them a lot of money. I think this is a big reason. A lot of people say they want to have kids but can’t afford to. I also think the birth rate is dropping because of contraception, finding a suitable partner. women are no longer forced to marry nor to have kids i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:43 PM
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How did you come across this superior wisdom? Have you seen who women match with? Or Internet heresay?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:54 AM
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My dude I wrote that they don’t much with “8’s” or “9s” except the good looking ones! Stop making baseless claims and spreading internet misinformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:44 AM
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I mentioned that I saw their matches, no men out of their league and they can do better..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:42 AM
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I mean based on dating apps and chaads who lower thier preferences for a casuaal hoookup some mid women may feel that thier loooksmatchh is a good looking top 20% men My average looking friends aren’t matching and hooking up with chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:13 AM
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There’s this myth that very attractive men or what you call the top 20% settle for women way less attractive than them. I have a lot of female friends, good looking and less good looking. I have seen their partners and people they match with on dating apps and guess what, the not so good looking ones aren’t matching and dating the “top 20%”, just your average looking dudes. Sometimes I tell them you can do better! When I go outside I don’t see good looking men with average looking women. Yes you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:00 AM
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I think he means they don’t take accountability for their actions that repulse men. Which makes no sense cuz women seem to be repulsed by these men and these men do whatever they can to get into a relationship with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 08:41 PM
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This makes a lot of sense. The only point I want to make is I think they don’t want women to settle for them, they want to change what women find attractive to match what they offer. “ it’s not settling! She shouldn’t be attracted to or choose the tall handsome guy. She should be attracted to me because of what I offer. I don’t want her to think she is settling. I want her to find me more attractive than him. What I offer is what should be considered attractive.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:08 PM
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Oh if a female friend have a romantic interest in you and you’re single, you would get clear signs, it’s rare that you won’t, so don’t go around asking out friends who didn’t flirt with you, that’s how you get friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:41 AM
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Women aren’t supposed to have any standards according to you all? You can be average looking and a woman would like you, especially if you met in public and your personality showed through some sort of act of kindness or something not towards her or approaching her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:33 PM
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These shows and movies are probably written by men, so they show what men think women want lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:17 PM
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What’s wrong with an average woman if she is nice and makes you happy. Things like education, higher income and higher social background ranges from secondary factors to non factors but would be nice to have I guess Edit : typos
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:08 AM
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