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ADVICEMotznRoth/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 10:44 AM
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MotznRoth/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 06:56 PM
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Incredible relationship, however we still argue from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:29 PM
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That's good to know. Thanks. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 01:38 PM
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Um, what about us married ladies? I am 36. My husband and I have been together for 7 years, and married for 3.5. I strive to treat everyone with kindness, acceptance, and respect. I hope being in my mid-30s does not make me still a Karen by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 05:45 PM
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Some people may enjoy being regarded as a sexualised being; others may not. Who knows? Personally, as an ugly woman, I go out of my way not to be noticed, save in the instances where I am being paid to perform. However, the fact that my husband finds me attractive is wonderful and validating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 05:40 PM
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I'm ugly and happily married to a gentleman who treats me like absolute gold, and finds me beautiful..so I suppose naturally preferences can vary greatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 07:10 PM
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My husband and I are not poor, and are certainly not limited in what we eat. My diet was fairly decent before I learned I was pregnant. Then I began eating more like my husband, which is to say atrociously (he is pretty chubby, I don't care because he loves me and I love him), and I have become slightly overweight bmi-wise myself (26). :( I suppose if I do not gain any more weight throughout my pregnancy I will be doing alright, as long as I dedicate myself to losing a decent amount, and toning,…
/r/RedPillWives14/11/20 06:42 PM
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My job is a nonstop workout for 9.5 hours per day, Monday to Friday. When not on the job I am rather sedentary (though I walk a lot). Being pregnant, I don't know if intense and fast cardio would be the best for me right now, but I am open to die as as long as they aren't harmful to my baby. I'll also admit my diet is currently a bit rubbish.
/r/RedPillWives14/11/20 06:05 PM
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My jawline is a bit boxy, but is not recessed. I would be better with masseter botox to be honest. Or v-line surgery if I had the courage. I have already been mewing for a few years, and it has improved things slightly. My nose is my biggest failo, and that could be fixed with nasal dermabrasion/rhinophyma surgery followed by an extreme nose job. I also need a lip lift (overly long philthrum) and possibly a brow lift and temple enhancement. After that perhaps I could be nearly average.
/r/RedPillWives14/11/20 05:53 PM
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Literal. I am very facially unfortunate, to the extent that I am all but unemployable for respectable positions. :( To be fair, once Baby arrives I plan on fixing that with a few cosmetic surgeries.
/r/RedPillWives14/11/20 05:47 PM
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I married a man who did not make enough to support me at the beginning of our courtship, but since we have been married he has made more than enough. Without my additional income we would not be able to afford many luxuries, especially with a baby on the way, but we would still have no trouble getting by. As someone who values privacy and has always had a somewhat extreme fear of homelessness, in addition to lacking the self-confidence needed to apply for a decent job and the face required to pr…
/r/RedPillWives14/11/20 05:17 PM
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A better question: Why would a gentleman target an ugly woman, date her for a lengthy period, possibly months/years until he somehow manages to get her into bed, and then dump after the eventual pump? I've heard stories like this, and the level of deception involved is a bit depressing. Is there a valid reason behind this sort of behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 07:33 AM
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Haha I understand how it might not seem immediately connected. In any case, throughout my first five relationships I never really "fell in love" with the guys I was dating. Rather, I projected characteristics of fictional crushes onto those guys and remained infatuated with the "idea" rather than the person. My husband was my sixth boyfriend, and the first with whom I genuinely fell in love.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 08:59 PM
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When asked I made it clear that once I was absolutely certain of love and commitment, sex would happen as a selfless act whenever, wherever, and however it was desired. For what it's worth, my husband is a fellow demisexual, so we are on the same page.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 08:54 PM
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Fictional - sexuality refers to my having developed crushes almost exclusively on fictional characters and archetypes, rather than real, living human beings throughout my childhood and a good few years into my adulthood. I've never heard of fictisexuality, to what does that refer?
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 08:52 PM
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I am demisexual, and classified myself as fully ace/fictional sexual before meeting my husband. I would be upfront about this when first getting to know a guy, and even mentioned it on my OKC profile back in the day. That way, there was generally never any confusion or offense. When I met the occasional gent who tried to take my asexuality as a challenge, I ghosted. My husband gladly waited until marriage (over 3.5 years of dating) for me. That is a sign of true love. :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 06:46 PM
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My husband and I met 7 years ago, and have been married for 3.5. He is 4 years younger than me, and he is absolutely established, grounded, caring, a fantastic leader and breadwinner, and will without doubt be a wonderful father to the child we are expecting. If this guy checks all of the boxes despite being younger, and you are happy together, please pursue this!
/r/RedPillWives26/10/20 02:07 PM
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No problem. Eugenics is hateful twattery, and I cannot believe people in this supposedly "enlightened" day in age are arguing in its favour. I am of Ashkenazi Jewish heritage. Six million of my people were slaughtered in the name of "cleansing the gene pool" - - less than 80 years ago. If my great-great grandparents and their families had not emigrated to the US before the Third Reich's rise, my family would have been among those murdered. My mum might not be the paragon of feminine facial beaut…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:45 PM
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u/LeJacquelope, thank you for your additions to this thread. You raise many good points about the all-too-screwed-up priorities of modern society, and I appreciate your willingness to refute eugenics. Alas, I fear many of your arguments here may fall on deaf ears. Please know that some of us are on your side, and will fight right alongside you for the future of humanity and the rights of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:57 PM
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Based. While I acknowledge we begin our lives with a certain set of genetic strengths and weaknesses, I am an advocate of and firm believer in "nurture over nature".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:54 PM
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Thank you so much, u/cast-away-ramadi06, for existing. The world ought to be inhabited by more kind-hearted people. The fact that you consider women, above and beyond all else, to be your fellow _human beings_, and treat them as such, means so much. Thank you, once again, and continue spreading hope and positivity throughout the world. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:36 PM
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I am part of a few groups here and on Facebook that my husband regards as "Conspiracy Theory" groups. While I can see why he holds this opinion, I see a lot of common sense discussions taking place in these groups which many people are afriad to have elsewhere, in the current climate. In any case, one gentleman in such a group seemed particularly knowledgeable about what's to come. He phrased it something like this: "While Covid is a real disease, the lockdowns and other measures we are taking t…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/20 05:37 PM
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Thank you, u/Jiatingzhufu, that means so much. I am so excited for you and your fiance, and your upcoming wedding! I have a feeling your marriage will be brilliant. <3
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/20 05:00 PM
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I will admit, it has taken me longer than many to start a family. This was partly due to an extremely traumatic childhood, which left me a very immature young adult. While I spent my 20s in a series of LTRs, I did not even consider marriage a possiblity until the age of 27, and did not meet the man who would become my husband until age 29. By the time we married, I was 33. I am now 36, and pregnant with our child. It's been a long journey, but please wish us luck.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/20 04:55 PM
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My husband is aware of TRP. He despisea it with a vengeance, but likes the ideas so long as they are not labeled.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 03:16 PM
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Did I offend someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 12:38 PM
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I understand. I'm glad you acknowledge your being a good person, and that you don't see the point in being willingly shallow. You would be surprised about how many people (male and female) are willingly shallow. Some people are disgusted by their workplace hiring anything other than conventional beauties and hunks. It sounds like some sort of dystopia, but unfortunately scenarios like this exist. I would like to think they are the exception, rather than the rule. Have you read the work of Daniel…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 04:16 PM
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Thank you. You keep denying that you are a good person, but as far as I am concerned, the fact that you are aware of your bias and do your best to put it aside when considering people for non-sexual relationships says a lot about your character. It says a lot about genuine kindness - - about wanting to do your best to help all of your fellow humans succeed in life, regardless of genetic fortune. You may be shallow, but you are also really benevolent. You seem to believe this is typical of men in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 01:52 PM
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It wouldn't be rejection. I have never been rejected, because I have never approached a man. But I am married, so that is irrelevant. I absolutely adore my husband, but have immense social difficulties. Friendship is absolutely golden, and people willing to befriend those who they don't consider attractive are amazing. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 11:54 AM
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And for platonic friendships, or when hiring for a job unrelated to physical appeatance, how much difference does physical appearance make?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 05:58 AM
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Not a model of course!!! I did have a side business performing before the lockdown, however. I sang and entertained people living in care and nursing homes. It was going well. I look forward to rebuilding said business once lockdown restrictions are lifted to a greater degree. I take.decent care of myself (could be thinner, but not actually overweight),.and do put in effort witj clothes, hygiene, etc. I cook and clean. I do a lot for my husband, and he does a lot for me of course. I adore him an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 02:02 AM
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You're not a bad person. As far as I'm concerned, reasonable weight prejudices are far less cruel and more open-minded than rejecting someone because of their face. Barring certain metabolic disorders, weight is somewhat within our control. Facial features are far less malleable without the aid of cosmetic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 02:52 PM
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Thank you for being so honest and having integrity. Those are great traits for not just dating, but every situation!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 12:43 PM
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Not only are you a wonderful person, you have inspired me to lose weight and get in shape for my husband. He is very loving but he deserves better. I have a 23 bmi with a good. WHR, which makes him happy, but it is now my goal to begin seriously working out and eating less carbs, and to get down to 20. I adore my husband, and he deserves for me to show it in more ways. :) Thanks you for the inspo. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 12:41 PM
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Not only are you a wonderful person, you have inspired me to lose weight and get in shape for my husband. He is very loving but he deserves better. I have a 23 bmi eoth a good. WHR, which makes him happy, but it is now my goal to begin seriously working out and eating less carbs, and to get down to 20. I adore my husband, and he deserves for me to show it in more ways. :) Thanks you for the inspo. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 12:41 PM
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Sounds fair enough. Thank you for your perspective! From my experience on here men do have a finely tuned eye for "ugly" (not deformed, just ugly), so you may well just be nicer and more open-minded than the average bear. I have a wonderful and loving husband despite being pretty facially screwed, so he must function similarly. I try to explain to him why in order to obtain better/more respectable employment I will need cosmetic surgery (that is the only reason I continue to work despite his wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:42 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that. You definitely have a very good heart! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:38 AM
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Fair enough. What about average (bmi 19 to To 23) girls? What about girls what are not overweight and are not even chubby but do have some bits of fat distributed to the you know what's and behind? It is a matter of perspective I think. Also would you be courteous enough to tell the girl in question that you were only interested in hooking up, rather than let her think you were interested in dating? If you did not make that clear you could end up inadventantly using the girl, and that is probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:37 AM
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Depending on what you consider grossly disfigured, that may very well place you in the category of "wonderful human being".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 11:33 PM
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Thank you, dude. The world needs more of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 11:29 PM
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Well yes; not wanting someone that obviously unhealthy is understandable. However, weight is fairly within the realm of a person's control to some degree or other. Their facial features are not. People who are capable of looking beyond appearance are a rare and special breed, man. Thank you so much for bringing your light and love to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 11:27 PM
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Yes. Say her face was disharmonious or asymmetrical, or she had a few weird/outsized facial features, but her body was nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 11:14 PM
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Ah, okay. Well thank you for willing to be friends with people of all facial phenotypes. Honestly that means a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 11:12 PM
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How would you react toward a woman of exemplary character who happened to be facially unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 10:53 PM
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As a f*gly lady who treasures platonic friendships, thank you so very much. You're a good person. The world needs more like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 10:51 PM
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Thank you. Thank you so much. May I please give you a virtual (((hug)))? You are such a wonderful person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 10:47 PM
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It seems that you are open to platonic friendships with us facial uggos. That means more than you think. A lot of people do not consider us suitable for that. So thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 10:46 PM
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G-d bless you for looking beyond appearances. Just the fact that people like you exist makes me so happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 10:38 PM
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I think you are incredibly kind and thoughtful. That is a rare trait in humanity; thank you! I personally feel having their ego obliterated might prove beneficial for some women. If they come to understand that they are facially unattractive, and consequently come to learn about lookism, they may gain a better understanding of their particular brand of misfortune, and set about on the path toward improving their circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 10:35 PM
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Thank you so much!! It's not until the 19th, but I must seize the day on my day off!! :) :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 12:46 PM
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Well I don't feel like a liar. I know what I feel, and it is 100% absolutely love. I am absolutely so thankful to my husband for his love, and will never refrain from showing him my gratitude and devotion Right now, I am putting the finishing touches on the photo-story book I've made for our 3rd anniversary. I hope he likes it. Of course I will get him a game and some rare transformers collectibles as well. :) :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 12:42 PM
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What upsets them? That a lady with a less attractive face managed to find a happy and loving relationship, or that love exists at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 12:28 PM
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Why would that make anyone upset? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 12:23 PM
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To me, my husband is the most beautiful, wonderful, loving, amazing, and yes, ATTRACTIVE man on the planet! <3<3 <3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 11:30 AM
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My husband and I are both demisexual. We are only attracted to people after getting to know them, regardless of physical appearance. To me, he is the most handsome man in the world, and to him I am the most beautiful woman, despite us being pretty objectively plain. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:04 PM
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I am now reminded of the Phineas and Ferb episode with Dr. Doofenschmirtz's Handsome-inator. For a childrens' cartoon, and played for laughs as it was, that episode was pretty based with regards.to lookism. Also oddly enough I don't find Doof ugly!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:10 PM
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"Ugly Immigrant Women"? Do please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:44 PM
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Hiya!! I also took a stats course long ago, though not quite as long ago as yours! I am impressed with how much you remember, concept-wise. Oddly I first became interested in stats before taking that course at uni, because I was fascinated by psychometrics. But I digress. From what little I remember (and I am too lazy to engage in actual calculations atm, having just finished a 12-hour shift), it would seem the vast majority of humanity would range from a 4.0-6.9. 1s and 9s would be extreme outl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:37 PM
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You are right. I am removibg the thread. I am so sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/20 04:08 AM
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Thank you so much!! <3<3
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/20 10:06 PM
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I really didn't think about it in this way. You are right -- my friend did not tell me how long this lack of intimacy had been going on. I'm trying to mentally consider what I'd do if my husband stopped cuddling, hugging, and kissing me, spontaneously dancing with me, lifting me up and spinning me around, etc...I would feel depressed and unwanted. You are correct -- this could go far deeper than simple "lack of sexytime", and this could have gone on for years. If that is the case, and if attempt…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/20 10:03 PM
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I hope everything works out for you, dear. Your fiance must be pretty amazing! <3<3 I'm 36, and my husband and I will enjoy our 3rd anniversary on the 19th of August. He is absolutely everything for which I could have ever wished, whether sex is involved (it is, whenever he wants) or not. But being demisexual, I suppose my perspective is not an extremely common one. I feel that a relationship -- a true, deep, and lasting human connection and true companionship -- is far more powerful than sex. H…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/20 09:55 PM
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a) I didn't tell my friend that I was saddened by her decision. I want to be supportive, so I was kind and comforting to her, and asked how everything else in her life was going. b) I would not tell a man that such a decision was wrong, just as I did not tell my friend that. I would likely still find the situation a shame internally -- particularly if his wife was a goo woman who supported and cared for him deeply.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/20 09:41 PM
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All of this is wonderful advice! Your father was a wise man. My parents divorced when I was very young, and I was raised by a NASA rocket scientist mum who, genius that she is, was not always the best at common sense. You are so lucky to have this man in your life, and grown up with such advice. I'll bet this helped you become a fantastic and well - rounded person. :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/20 07:28 AM
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Placing female phenotype along a bell curve would not make 3s an extreme rarity. Rather, 3s would account for approximately 13% of the population. 2s would account for about 6%, and 1s would comprise 1-2%. You most likely see 3s, and below, every day...you just do not tend to focus on them because while they are a decent amount below average, they are not deformed to the level where they "stand out".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:32 PM
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As someone who is happily married but puts as much stock in platonic relationships as my romantic one... Thank you for your willingness to be friends with people of all genders, regardless of physical appearance. That honestly means so much, and indicates to me you are a lovely, caring person. Thank you for bringing so much love and kindness to this world. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:26 PM
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Me too!! I would rate her a 5.5 - 6. How is she a 3/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 10:23 AM
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Both are viewpoints, and all viewpoints are valid. Hence, neither is inherently less valid than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:43 PM
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Seeing as I'm a straight female, I would not. Were I a lesbian or a straight male, I would certainly consider that if the transgender woman was a nice person and genuinely cared for me. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:41 PM
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I've never really been in this situation. I'd say now that I'm on the other side of the ocean from most of my friends, and have only a few true, close friends here in the UK, I'm closer now to that situation than before. It's not too bad, honestly. My husband is my absolute best friend, in addition to the love of my life. Still, it is far, FAR preferable for each member of a couple to have a few good friends of their own. :) It's all about balance, I think. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:35 PM
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My husband is a training coordinator for a large local hospital. However, if he was the same person -- with his same personality, intellect, massive heart, and off-the-wall sense of humour -- I would adore him until the end of time whether he had chosen to pursue a career as a doctor or a gravedigger. :) I see ALL jobs as holding value to society -- and some classically "blue collar" jobs (firefighter, police officer, and EMT, to name a few) hold far more value to society than many "white collar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:24 PM
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That is me in the profile. Per my husband, I am no longer allowed to use harsher language to describe my face than "unconventional", because some of the rather horrible things I've said about myself have broken his heart, and I do not like doing that of course! Thank you for saying the reason I gave to support marriage is understandable. If you truly love someone, and are seeking a future with that person, it's best to know their true intentions! Needless to say, I 100% hit the jackpot with my h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:20 PM
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For an... "unconventionally-faced" person like myself, it offers the only possible form of assurance that a gent actually likes you and cherishes you as a person, and is not attempting to "pump and dump" or otherwise cruelly use you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:01 PM
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36-24-36 is not average. It is a perfectly proportionate hourglass. And surgery or not the result was beautiful. Do not forget, Scarlett Johanssen has also been surgically helped. Her nose is QUITE different to the original model.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:47 AM
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Her features were gorgeous IMHO. Definitely an example of classic beauty in face and body. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:30 AM
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Hmmm... This is an interesting theory, and it actually may hold water. I am mostly a recluse, and try to avoid interacting with "Karen" sorts when at all possible. I believe in youth, this sort of self-awareness varies in beautiful girls/ladies. Those who are kind and sweet go through their childhood and young adulthood thoroughly unaware that the world is not universally as kind as it is to them. This probably changes once they hit the wall, and realise the world no longer responds quite as fav…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:28 AM
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u/Throwaway230306, this book club sounds wonderful! May I take part? :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/20 06:42 PM
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Thank you. My husband certainly thinks so. Opinions vary. Honestly, your kind words mean so much. xx
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/20 06:31 PM
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Thank you, u/nameyname3. I'm glad you're able to see the beauty in everyone. That means so much, <3
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 01:00 PM
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Thank you so much, my love. You're obviously a very kind individual, and the world needs more of those. <3
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 12:56 PM
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Thank you so much for the kind words, lovely. I would much rather be "jolie laide" than just "laide", so I'm glad you can see people that way. Thank you for being such a lovely human being. <3
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 12:54 PM
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Thank you so much! I found this entire reaponse very uplifting and hopeful. I will look into therapy. CBT did help, but the results were really temporary. I'm really happy to hear your kids are growing up in such a body-positive household, and with such wonderful and loving parents. On another "note" (haha), do you have any song suggestions for me? :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 09:51 PM
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Hi there, First off, I'm glad you've enjoyed my videos. It's good to know my silly little singing experiments are liked by some peeps. :) I can only apologise about your having to encounter this self-worth crisis/vent in the process! I honestly have been attempting a greater degree of positivity, and it's worked in real life and on most of social media...but unfortunately, Reddit always seems to end up with my vents and rants when I'm feeling low. So again, sorry about this. My husband is not ha…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 02:59 PM
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Women do sometimes play games, but men are not without guilt either. It's a shame people of any gender feel the need to "game" or "trick" one another. That's not what relationships should be built on. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 02:39 PM
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That sort of behaviour scared me out of meeting guys in the past. I wonder how many others feel similarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 09:30 AM
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I'm demisexual, but identified as 99% Fictional-Sexual/Romantic before meeting my now-husband (I had only fallen in love with one former bf out of 5, and it was because said former bf reminded me, persinality-wise, of a fictional character with whom I had long been enamoured. Hence, I never had to worry about problems like this. Guys who were kind and friendly to me were kind and friendly to me, and I responded to then with (generally aromantic, but romantic when we were in a relationship) affec…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 09:29 AM
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No. I have platonic male friends, but stay well away from my exes. I am married to the most wonderful man in the world, why would I need to talk to my exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 09:24 AM
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This post saddens and mildly irritates me. "I'm bored" is NEVER a good reason to leave a relationship. This lady's husband sounds absolutely wonderful, and they've built so much together. I hope sge returns to her partner, and that comes to appreciate what she has. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 09:22 AM
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That's a healthy attitude. I have no doubt you'll be very successful in all of your pursuits. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 08:33 PM
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Point well made, lovely. Thank you, personally, for walking the path of light. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 12:57 PM
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Thank you, u/masterdarthrevan. Despite your sith namesake, you obviously have a heart of gold. Thank you for being you, and treating all of your fellow humans with kindness and respect, regardless of external appearance. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 12:05 PM
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u/TheBookofSeil, as a happily married, "less attractive" person (I am not allowed to use extremely harsh language to describe myself, per my husband), I am really happy to hear this is possible for some people aside from my husband. This gives me hope for humanity. Please have a virtual (((hug))) and plenty of positive energy! Thanks for being a kind and accepting person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 12:01 PM
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Male.or female, size only matters with regards to a person's heart. <3
/r/RedPillWives04/07/20 11:54 AM
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Hi there lovely, and thank you for the kind words. I'm honestly happy for you. G-d/whichever deity/deities you might believe in smiled upon you in this life, and blessed you with a gift transcending pretty much any other. Or you simply won the genetic lottery. congratulations, and I mean that with all sincerity. I would not wish the life of an "unconventional-looking" (as mentioned, I am not allowed to use harsher terms, but I'm guessing you understand what I was trying to convey) female on anyo…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 08:36 PM
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Hi again, Wow, I love the quote that you shared! It raises such a good point -- as humans, we tend to become mired in competition -- when character matters far more. Just being a good, kind-hearted, courageous, and loyal person still has a real meaning to some people -- probably those people who are most worth getting to know. Please don't hold yourself to modern, largely artificial beauty standards -- although I have never seen your pictures, I guarantee 100% that I would find you beautiful. Be…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 09:05 PM
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u/WhatTimeisCowboyTime, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom, and for your kind words. I know opinions on human attractiveness vary, and it's good to keep in mind that even if we are not everyone's cup of tea, we are somebody's perfect brew! I suppose that's how my husband must feel, and I certainly feel the same way about him. <3 As a child, I was heavily bullied, especially in middle school. Strangely it wasn't usually my looks that were criticised. People latched onto my bizarre personal…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 08:51 PM
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Wow, u/sweetcharlotteay, that is wonderful advice. Thank you for the words of wisdom! I agree; happiness should not be based on physical appearance alone. My husband also never fails to let me know I am desired, even when he finds me washing the dishes in a Totoro kigarumi; that is definitely something to appreciate. congratulations on all you've accomplished as a family: you have truly cultivated great happiness, and I am oh-so-happy for you!
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 07:44 PM
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Hi there, I know you just intended to give an honest opinion and didn't intend to be nice, but I still thank you for your input, and have trouble not seeing your perspective as nice, because it is so much kinder than anything I've said to myself with regards to appearance. <3 I do have a husband whom I absolutely adore, and who adores me just as deeply. Still, I would like to do my best to become the woman he deserves. Ultimately, any procedures I do receive will be in the name of self-care. I a…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 07:39 PM
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Haha I am not on instagram as such but my plushies are occasionally. Thank you for saying I have a beautiful voice, and I'm gladyou enjoy it. While I am grateful for a working body, I would like some work done (rhinoplasty first and foremost, followed by lip lift, strategic fat transfer, and --if needed -- double jaw surgery). This will be an act of self-care. Are you really willing to be a reddit friend? And, were we in closer proximity, would you be willing to be an irl friend as well? In any …
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 05:32 AM
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Thank you for the "rather average and even pretty" comment. " To be fair I received a very honest critique in DM which put me at a mid-4, which is only slightly below average. He did imply that a rhinoplasty with a good surgeon could take me to a mid-5. That gave me a lot of hope. :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 05:17 AM
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Thank you. I could never be mad at you...or anyone else. Thank you so much for your kindness. Hopefully with the procedures I have planned I will become at least average-average, or even cute! :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 11:53 PM
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Hey there, thanks for the kind words, once again. Cosmetic surgery in the modern age can actually do some pretty amazing things. I hope to have temple and forehead implants, nasal dermabrasion followed by a rhinoplasty, a lip lift, doubly jaw surgery, and targeted fat grafting. If competently performed (and I definitely plan on doing my research and interviewing the heck out of a selection of specialists) , those surgeries can completely transform a face for the better. Thank you for clarifying …
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 11:27 PM
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I actually have almost no confidence because of my appearance and, when not at work, am a shut in, and a wallflower. Awww...I thought my voice stood out, lol. :) Also, thnak you so much. <3
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 10:31 PM
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I'm already all of that. My only personality failo is mental illness. Still, I would rather look like an acceptable human being on top of being the best person I am every other way. As another poster suggested I view every measure I plan to take as an act of self-care, and a way to become the best version of myself, and best woman, I can be. <3 Thank you for the words of wisdom and encouragement. They mean a lot. <3
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 10:25 PM
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Thank you so much for the kind words. It is nice to know that opinions vary, and that some are positive. <3
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 10:23 PM
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Hi there, Thank you for saying I'm not ugly. I suppose opinions differ between people. Oddly enough, you aren't the first person to tell me I have this particular lookalike. Like Ms. Tonks, I am a definite Hufflepuff. Are there really people you have seen who are *g%y? I have honestly never seen anyone I'd consider %g$y physically, though I've definitely seen ugly behaviour, sadly. :( In any case, thank you again for your kind words. They mean a lot. <3
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 10:16 PM
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Your comment about becoming a knock off Kardashian gave me a boost. I've put aside £5,000 and am hoping that can buy enough filler to make me even slightly less u@#y. :) I know that was not the point of your comment, but it was uplifting to hear. I have personality to spare, and I'm plenty sweet and kind, but I would rather be normal-pretty than the other any day. <3
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 05:10 PM
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Hi there, That is me singing in all the videos I've posted. Thank you; I'm glad opinions differ. <3
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 05:01 PM
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Thank you, lovely. Do you think that a few cosmetic procedures could objectively improve things, or am I beyond hope in that regard. Also, if you have watched any of my singing videos, does my voice help? Thank you for your time, perspective, and -- always -- your kindness.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 12:59 PM
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Thank you so much. I am trying. Kindness always helps, and I never take it for granted. So thank you so much for being kind! <3
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 12:27 PM
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Hi! It is lovely to meet such a genuine and lovely human being. <3 I would love to DM if you are up for it. Would you be open to sending the first message? That way, I will know for a face that I'm not annoying you! <3 Th Pygmalion Effect sounds interesting. I've heard of it, and once read a study involving students performing at a higher level due to teachers' expectations. It qould be interesting to learn more. <3
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 12:23 PM
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Thank you so much my love, for the kind words and advice. It really meant a lot. One minor nitpick, though: you mentioned having "a bod after 36". I only turned 36 in March, so I am AT 36, rather than after. <3 I enjoy drawing and painting as well, and adore making handmade cards and presents for friends! Might you link me to some of your art? I would love to see! Also, thank you for saying I have a beautiful voice. <3
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 12:08 PM
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Awww...I'm sorry to hear your singing voice is not being appreciated. What are some skills and talents you have and enjoy? :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 07:51 PM
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I suspect I may be tut-tutted for unhealthy eating when I describe the meal I prepared for my husband and myself tonight, but...I made us Burger Ramen. I got the idea when my husband and I were watching the Ace Attorney anime (we're fans of the game series), and one of the characters mentioned "Burger Noodles". At that, I saw my husband's ears perk up. So basically, Burger Ramen is an OTT ramen bowl with noodles, chilli oil, beef stock, and Chinese five-spice blend, topped with 2 Angus burger pa…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 06:52 PM
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Thank you for this thread, u/learningtomom! I will admit I am still coming to terms with ageing. I only learned about the "Wall" at 27, following a few google searches. To be fair, hitting the Wall has not impacted me as much as it may some other ladies. I have never been conventionally attractive, unfortunately, so while I always had male attention (both romantic and platonic), it was not one of the defining points of my existence. At 36, I am not treated very differently from how I was at 22. …
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 10:06 PM
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Very cool! Happy almost birthday; I hope the crisis has abated by then. I like that term too. Millennials span 1981-1996, so it's a really large range! Haha much of my childhood was digital (we got the internet when I was 10), and I quickly became an addict! However, my mum is a NASA scientist, so this experience may not be a typical one for a child in the mid-90s. Also, of course, the internet back then was not what it is today. And I did not receive my first cell phone until I was 17 (and it w…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 08:37 PM
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I turned 36 in March, when is your birthday? Hooray for Early Millennials! :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 05:45 PM
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Thank you so much! <3
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 05:41 PM
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::Lmao that sounds like exactly the kind of superficiality that I hate about ::my generation. I can just hear it now: ::"Sorry, you can't be friends with us, we need someone better suited to get likes for my insta" Haha, how old are you? Because as an 80s-born/early Millennial, this is sadly common in my generation too. Only since social media was not a thing 'till we were in our mid-late teens, so many of us still know on some level it's wrong, and deny it. I think people who were raised with s…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 01:06 PM
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Oh my goodness, it's such a relief to hear that. Believe it or not, some people are only willing to make conventionally attractive friends. I suppose the rationale behind that is not wanting to be seen/associated with someone others deem to be lacking due to physical appearance. The fact that you have not succumbed to this mindset, and welcome friends of all appearances, warms my heart. <3 I moved 3500 miles, from Cleveland, Ohio to Lancaster, UK. There's been a bit of culture shock, but at leas…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 08:54 PM
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Oh my goodness, I wish you the best of luck in your quest! My husband and I are trying for our first. I know I started late, but we did not meet until I was 29. It takes some people a little while longer to find their destined love, I suppose. <3 I really love your username, btw. You could start a vlog with that title. Your toddler and you could document your many new adventures. I'm sure it would find quite a fanbase! <3 Oh, and happy birthday. <3
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 05:42 PM
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My husband was an utter darling, willing to wait as long as was needed. He waited until we were engaged (18 months) for any sort of real sexual activity to take place, and actual penetrative sex was not on the table until our wedding night (3 years and 7 months after we initially declared our love to one another). <3 How else would I be certain of his actual, pure and sincere, love? <3
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 03:37 PM
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Thank you so much. <3 "Post-wall" is an expression for the point at which a woman is no longer considered desirable as a marriage partner to the majority of men, or something similar. This point generally ranges from age 25-35, depending on whom you speak with. Seeing as I am happily married, this is not a problem for me. However, in case there is a strict upper age limit on your friendships, I figured it was best to let you know.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 03:32 PM
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My situation is a bit similar, though it is further complicated by my residing in a different country than the majority of my friends (I emigrated 3 years ago to marry the Love of my Life). What are your criteria for friendship? Would you be open to friendship with someone who's incredibly kind to all, decently talented in a few areas, quite bright, and incredibly devoted to her husband, but is..."unconventional-looking" and post-wall (36)? If those factors are not dealbreakers, I would absolute…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 03:00 PM
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If you would like to enjoy a fun outing while finding unique pieces and developing an individual style, I would recommend charity shops (that's thrift stores for those in the US). I know those words may conjure up images of dingy old cast-offs, but in today's modern thrift store climate, you're likely to find flawless pieces for a fraction of the costs you'll encounter in stores. I would absolutely not purchase jeans at these sorts of places, but anything else is fair game. <3
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/20 09:58 AM
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Hi there! I'm a happily married 36-year-old female. I've never been conventionally attractive, so I reasoned at some point in my teens that it would be rational to consider and accept a future alone. I fell in love with a succession of fictional characters, and never developed real-life criteria beyond, I suppose, kindness and attraction to me. I went on a few dates and to school dances with male friends during high school, but none of these friendships evolved into anything further. During uni …
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/20 09:49 AM
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You look absolutely lovely!
/r/RedPillWives23/06/20 07:35 PM
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You have just mentioned a few of my favourites (Mrs. Midwest and Lauren Chen are brilliant). I must check out the other channels you mentioned, particularly those with recipes. <3
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 06:49 AM
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I know! Right now the world is polarised in so many ways, but we should not let it ruin our friendships. Just because people have different views to us does not make them bad.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 03:27 PM
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That doesn't sound like a nice comment at all! Is there a chance your boyfriend was just joking, or trying to get a rise out of you because he finds it cute? It sounds like you need to have a discussion with your boyfriend about these.comments, find out why he's making them, and let him know you find them hurtful!
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/20 10:58 AM
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I am 36, and almost everyone in my age bracket has rather extreme, far-left views as well. I suppose there is a rather wide age range of folks who have this sort of mindset. I offer my friendship to whomever treats me with kindness and respect, regardless of age or political affiliation. Equally, I make every effort to listen to and empathise with every point of view. However, at times I feel the need to bite my tongue.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/20 10:53 AM
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Someone who is a "freak" like you mention is not someone who would go to the trouble of starting a relationship. They are soneone who would likely resort to a criminal act. So no; not a nice person. Someone who should get therapy to avoid preying on anyone. I do believe true love can be found for people who are disfigured, though. Additionally, that term may not jold the same meaning for everyone. But I get you, and respect what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 05:22 PM
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I didn't say I am an incel. I identify with femcels because of my unconventional face (someone suggested I stop using the other word due to the potential for unforeseen consequences). Yet as a married female I will not claim the title of femcel. Femcels do not claim to be anything but voluntarily celibate. All the term means is "female celibate". Females do not generally desire sex without romantic attachment. You are entitled to your opinion of course, but I do not believe any human being to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 05:01 PM
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I'm a happily married "phenotypic should-be femcel", who deeply identifies with the community due to my unconventional face. I've never had trouble dating (my now-husband was my sixth boyfriend). Suppose I must be "settling for my league". It may be easier for me than most, as I do not find anyone to be unattractive (save myself). Maybe other foids have a narrower range of human attractiveness, or are more visually-oriented. Opinions and priorities vary. I do not disagree with the "all femcels a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 11:02 AM
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Why is anyone who's post-wall a Boomer? A Boomer is defined as anyone born bwtween 1946 and 1964, which I believe is considerably older than the Millennials and Xennials to which you are referring...? But I was born in 1984; I'm an ancient sack of irrelevant sh*t. In fact, my dementia has pribably progressed to the point wherw I kmow longer know where I am or what year it is anyway. Can you please direct me back to the memory care unit, sonny?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:36 PM
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Very few people are actually ugly. I am one of the unfortunate exceptions, and sadly happen to be female.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:45 AM
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For truly ugly women who know they are truly ugly, being used for sex is a major fear. Thus, we will not willingly put ourselves into that situation. Less self-aware ugly women may think being used for meaningless sex is actually a compliment. I feal sorry for those women, but I suppose not being aware of their defects makes them a bit less crippled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:17 PM
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It's funny how the perception of "hot" can vary from person to person. When I have been shown pictures of so-called "hot" guys, my reaction has generally been "yup, that's a human". Maybe it's due to my being on the asexual spectrum, but I've fallen for words on pages and strange animated characters before I've fallen for anyone real, let alone "hot". What woman would consider being used as a f*cktoy and discarded a privilege anyway, "hot guy" or not? Especially if she's ugly? Certainly she know…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:32 PM
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OP, I hope you wake up tomorrow with the body and face of one of us "fat, ugly women", eat your words, and puke until only kindness remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:03 PM
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Haha he mostly hangs.out on r/simpsonsshitposting and such anyway. Whenever I mention RP philosophy he pays no heed. When I go blackpilled, he advises I go in for anoyher round of CBT. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:25 PM
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To me.she looks around 40ish. Not young, but not an "old-ass lady" unless we've gone back to the Dark Ages. I work in nursing homes (thank goodness I'm starting a better job shortly). I'll show you some "old-ass ladies"...80, 90, 100, reeking of wee and soil with skin as thin as paper and senility for days; bedbound or wandering around while beating random nurses up due to paranoid delusions, facial hair like a forest and voice like a foghorn...THOSE are "old-ass ladies".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:14 PM
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Bwahaha they're my husband's type too apparently but please don't tell him!! XD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:06 PM
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As a married female on the asexual spectrum (thus not really too looks-inclined at all), I'm still developing my natural feel for this. It seems really strange when I see what seem to be cute girls labelled "plain" or even "ugly".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:47 PM
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I have seen all sorts of different women held up as "pretty" and "ugly" -- sometimes the very same photo can be judged as both by different parties! Some people (self included) only find people truly physically ugly if they do not look as if they might be saved by skin care, dental work, weight loss, and surgery. Others consider aomeone ugly if they are not an instagram model. I suspext the standards od most fall in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:38 PM
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Hmmm...I find her ugly, but not terribly so. She is correctable through weight loss and dental implants. It would probably also be a good idea not to make such a strange face when having your photo taken!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:33 PM
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I was hoping for a photo of what you consider ugly. It is somewhat, though not entirely, subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:29 PM
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Link me to a pglhotographic example.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:22 PM
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Please don't call your sister a loser. Even if she is obese, and even if her accomplishments do not live up to your standards, you are family. You should support and help her, encourage her to lose weight, and help her achieve more. Perhaps her bf is not a loser either. Is she happy in the relationship? Is he happy? Ultimately, shouldn't that be what matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:21 PM
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That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:01 PM
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XD all that jazz. Basically "thanks, and whatnot".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 01:21 PM
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Thanks and atj.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 12:58 PM
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Okay. I won't argue with you. I've 4 shows to prepare for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 12:52 PM
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You know what? Yes; it does go against my agenda. As a female with, I suppose, own-group preference, I would like all females to attain a life in which they can feel truly happy. I would like to help all ladies who feel hopeless out of hopelessness and out of poverty -- both material and emotional. But you know what? I'd like the same for men. I just want the world to be kinder, and more empathetic. I firmly believe that EVERY human life has value, and all humans should be treated as such. I am …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 12:47 PM
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Gonna be real here -- I am not proof. I am plain/slightly ugly in the face, but not hideous. For me, a LOT could be fixed with a rhinoplasty and facial contouring, and I do "clean up" quite well on the rare occasions when I dress nicely and makeup is applied -- if you ignore the nose. Though in my 30s, I have excellent skin even if it does not adorn the best skeletal structure. My body is curvy and slim, if not fit, and many consider it quite attractive. Long story short, I am facially a low-tie…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 09:50 AM
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More men would date that than you think? I suspect any man willing to date that would want either a meal ticket (which Bearded SoBo would likely not be, as most employers would allow her appearance to prohibit them from offering her a job) or a punching bag (which I fear may be how a lot of Bearded SuBos end up). The real Susan Boyle has probably ended up with a few suitors. Post-fame, she's cleaned up a lot and honeatly looks like a pretty normal/post-pretty-but-fat 58 year old woman. And with …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:45 AM
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That is a relief. Probably explains why I have a loving, educated, funny, supportive, gainfully employed, and (in my opinion) handsome husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:37 AM
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What about a woman with a legitimately hot body, slim but curvy, and an ugly -- but not deformed -- face? Where does that fall on the scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:53 PM
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Photo examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:58 PM
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That is very interesting. Might you send me a few pictures pf women considered 1s, 2s, 3s, and 4s?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:47 PM
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Hmmm...alright; I thought there was perhaps some sort of way to statistically.measure attractiveness.on the 10-point scale. Is it more arbitrary, then? Can you link me to some examples of people you would consider 4 or below, and therefore "unf*ckable"? I really am curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:45 PM
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I have a normie to slightly above side profile; then I turn toward the front and my overly broad nose comes into effect. Sometimes the side is much nicer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:28 PM
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She keeps herself in great shape, keeps her figure at any cost, makes sure the breasts and bum stay perky at any cost, takes care of her skin, and when she has saved enough money (by 30-40) finally gets a nose job and fillers to contour her face. Learns makeup. Becomes attractive for the first time in her life. Retains extreme kindness and humality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:26 PM
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A 4/10 is only slightly unattractive; not truly ugly. A 4/10 face is more attractive facially than 40% of the female population. A truly ugly person would most likely fall into the 1-1.5 bracket or below, wouldn't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:23 PM
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Your claim that 80% of men would settle for a femcel-level woman makes me wonder what you define as a femcel. Many of us femcels/ex-femcels/phenotypic should-be femcels have legitimate facial deformities. Many of us are disabled, or on the autistic spectrum. Others have hormonal imbalances such as PCOS. My sneaking suspicion is that your image of a "femcel" is a cute but not conventionally beautiful girl in dowdy clothes with glasses, a ponytail, and no makeup. That is ONLY a femcel if she is me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:26 AM
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Okay. Are you referring to the fictional characters I've had crushes on? If that's hypergamy as fantasy, I can respect as much. Though I do feel ashamed. I do not fantasuze about other men though...I fantastize about better job opportunities and spcial acceptance. I fantastize about being perceived as HUMAN, at the side od the same man. I am not a femcel...not necessarily even a former femcel. Just a phenotypic should-be femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:12 AM
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Thank you. I'm glad you're happy as well. My expectations were never extremely high to be honest. I have a husband, a summa cum laude BA, and a full-time job. I am paid to sing and perform on the side, and my homemade cards and crafts bring others joy in addition to my acting and singing talents. I have a few true friends. Long story short, while I may have gotten the short end of the genetic stick lookswise, my level of skill/talent in certain areas seem sufficient to justify my continued exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 09:14 PM
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My husband would be extremely bothered by what you said, and I'll admit it breaks my heart a tad as well. My husband does not like the idea of my attaining plastic surgery and making what modest improvements I am able, because he does not see any need for it. However he has also confessed that if it is the only way to improve my self esteem, he will allow me to indulge. I would never leave my husband in a thousand years, were we to live that long, so long as he would have me. I expect the same f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 11:48 AM
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Femcels may have issues, but they also tend to treat every fellow human being with absolute kindness, because that's all they really..."have the right" to do. Unless they have by some miracle become conventionally attractive (not going to happen to us trufemcels), their risk of behaving in an evil manner is slim to nil.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:52 AM
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Not if she is actually a decent human. Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 05:19 AM
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I'd appreciate my asexuality following me into manhood and mot really find sec a big deal. I would hope my husband would stick around though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 07:09 PM
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As a conventionally unattractive woman (I refer to myself as a "man-faced haglet"; I probably hover at a 0.05 facially) I agree 100%. We uggos are used to truly being "just friends" with guys, and love the heck out of it. I am happily married, and overjoyed to have a life companion...but being, by necessity, completely nonjudgmental of everyone save myself has resulted in many wonderful friendships which are just as valuable as what I share with my husband.
/r/seduction05/12/19 01:18 PM
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Really? Honestly? I think that is the fantasy of every femcel...a gentleman falling in love with them due to their loving heart, intelligence, talents, accomplishments, etc., and then having the guy love them so much that they will help transform the femcel into an acceptable human. :):)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 05:58 PM
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Honestly, these standards sound reasonable. It seems strange that the average American lady is borderline obese. Granted I have lived in the UK for the past few years. Would you date a 5'1",120# lady with 32E-26-37 measurements, sized UK 8-10/US 4-6? Or would that be too fat for you? I am happily married, but attempt to maintain an acceptable body despite extreme facial hideousness. Is the above size acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 02:46 PM
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Thanks; that made me laugh. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 10:17 PM
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Thank you. I had better be wrong about the extent to which my appearance negatively impacts my life...for my husband will not allow me to get plastic surgery, and even says it would anger him if I put aside £2000 for a botox/fillers makeover. :( For me, a rhinoplasty and tasteful filler augmentation could potentially be life-changing, but my husband denies that lookism exists or negatively impacts my life at all. Additionally, this was the first "respectable" (white-collar) job for which I inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 04:20 PM
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I actually interviewed for a position with the local city council last Tuesday. I was unsuccessful. I was told that I gave a fantastic interview, but that the post was highly competitive and one or two applicants gave answers and provided examples which were just bit better than mine. I suppose, since this interview was for a public entity and since I was judged by a panel of 3 (2 women and 1 man), none of whom appeared exceptionally pretty or youthful, and I was graded on the same form/scale as…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 11:28 AM
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Thank you so much!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 10:15 PM
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I'm already undergoing CBT. It can present new ways to cope...but alas, it cannot fix unfortunate facial features or a witch skull.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 08:15 PM
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I have a Summa cum Laude BA, but it is in a rather useless area (English, French, and Urban Studies). The one post I have held which made use of my skills was with a foreign language learning startup, and said post was woefully underpaid. You are correct about ugly people inhabiting every sphere of the workforce, but due to my ugliness, which I believe puts me in the bottom 1% of humanity, I lack the confidence to apply for anything but the lowliest of positions. Hence why I currently find mysel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 06:04 PM
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He is wonderful; an absolute angel with the most caring heart of anyone I've met. He loved me so much he imported me to the UK so we could spend our lives together (we initally met online). I frequently worry that people will see us together and wonder why the heck he would settle for me, but thus far his family and friends have welcomed me with open arms. O.O I do act and sing...being competent at something reminds me that I have worth, despite a lack of genetic fortune.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 03:17 PM
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It is. It bars me from applying for posts consummate with my education, and compels me to hide behind either my phone or my husband in public (except onstage, when I get to hide inside a character or use my voice to make people happy).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 02:50 PM
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As an ugly, manfaced 35-year-old woman, I generally avoid initiating interactions with anyone not obviously over 50 (of any gender) so I am not thought "creepy" or a predator, and to avoid inadvertently giving people the impression of "harassment".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 02:41 PM
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I keep hearing this urban legend about nursing home sex. As a nursing assistant who's worked in such facilities for nearly 2 years, I've never witnessed it. Please share your stories; I am intrigued!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 09:14 AM
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Our mini-discussion has actually helped me realise that while OP made a mistake in his situation, he is not a bad person. He asked the lady for consent before they slept together, and made it clear this would be a one-time thing. She agreed, and both proceeded with their activity. OP even regretted his behaviour later. This was a far cry from my experience. OP may not have used the best judgement, but he did not set out to cause any harm.
/r/seduction22/06/19 08:31 AM
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Thank you for your empathy.
/r/seduction22/06/19 08:01 AM
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Yes. I reported the guy to the police the next day. He was not found. I don't think much of an effort was made. :( It was my fault for accepting a ride and a drink from a stranger while ugly.
/r/seduction22/06/19 07:21 AM
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Had people attempt to use me for sex? Of course. I said no. Sadly I have also been sexually assaulted, removing any element of choice in the matter. probably because being ugly made me an easy target.
/r/seduction22/06/19 04:49 AM
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I look like Shrek or worse, but make a concerted effort to be nice and empathise with all points of view. That being said, this post saddens me. I really wish OP had not lowered his standards and had left the woman in question alone...:*(
/r/seduction31/05/19 07:30 AM
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If it is "consensual" sex under false pretenses, using any form of deception, it is not fully consentual. If the girl/woman/lady/foid agrees to a one-night stand and has no false hopes of dating, also knowing you are not physically attracted to her but just desperate for sex, then no wrong has been committed. Otherwise, using.ugly females for pump and dumps is 100% WRONG.
/r/seduction30/05/19 08:49 PM
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On behalf of ugly chicks everywhere, might I politely request that you leave us fuglies alone? We may not meet your aesthetic standards, but our emotions and intellect are just as valid as your own. If a girl isn't dating material, she shouldn't be material for use and abuse either. Sorry for interrupting, but thanks for reading!
/r/seduction30/05/19 02:31 PM
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