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MountainClimax/r/seduction16/11/19 07:11 PM
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MountainClimax/r/seduction14/11/19 02:11 AM
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Get her in a semi private situation and be direct with her. It's more for you than her. To get resolution. If you don't do this you'll have her on your mind wasting your energy.
/r/seduction26/01/20 07:33 PM
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Don't ask that. IMO it's always a mistake. Just ask her out. If she can't because of her boyfriend, she'll let you know then. Many reasons. She might be in an open relationship. It's also a beta move. Like you want to be her boyfriend all of a sudden
/r/seduction26/01/20 07:32 PM
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Agreed, use this girls validation to pursue others. Nothing is gonna happen IMO
/r/seduction19/01/20 04:21 PM
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Girls like this are a waste of time. Just accept being flirty (funny) friends at best. She likes your attention and is using your desire for her own amusement. I gaurantee you she will drop her drawers for someone else but not you. Sorry
/r/seduction19/01/20 04:14 PM
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I picked up on that too. Cut that shit out with something like "I'm not gonna sit here and listen to this. I got shit to do"
/r/seduction19/01/20 02:32 PM
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You don't have to be a pickup master to get a girl. Many relationships form for other reasons. Girls aren't passive, they do the choosing too.
/r/seduction16/01/20 01:39 AM
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You might consider it a date... Does she? You might want to make a move earlier than later to see where you stand. Getting rejected on acid would probably suck hard.
/r/seduction09/01/20 04:58 PM
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In similar shoes. I find older women harder to get. Their guard is way up. Some of the advice applies, like text game. Also showing intention early, cuz they'll friendzone you faster. Harder to find casual sex with older women, in my experience.
/r/seduction04/01/20 04:05 AM
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You don't know what is going on in her life and she's not telling you. Maybe she ditched you for another guy, or her friends/family told her to avoid you, etc.
/r/seduction29/12/19 11:01 PM
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Depends what your aim is. Meeting new women is going to be a lot easier for you when you have a handsome friend. But he's going to take the hottest ones. As for relativity, if your friend was in a room of handsome men, he wouldn't stand out. But there are only so many women your friend can get so go for his seconds!
/r/seduction29/12/19 06:36 PM
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Looks matter quite a bit BUT it's not the whole story, and it's relative. Relative to the girl and relative to the guys around you at the time. One thing that irks me more than anything is when I'm flirting with a girl and making a good connection, a handsome guy just stands nearby and draws her away. It's easy to get bitter when some guys have it so easy just from genetics. Life ain't fair tho
/r/seduction29/12/19 04:25 PM
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Another thing they try to sell you is looks don't matter. Of course that opens up their audience and usually good looking guys don't need their help.
/r/seduction29/12/19 04:20 PM
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Guys are cool with girls being clear and to the point. Don't second guess, just go for what you want with him. Why would he want sex? Guys want sex more than anything else. If you let him, that's all he'll take from you.
/r/seduction29/12/19 04:17 PM
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No they can't.
/r/seduction26/12/19 07:02 PM
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Sometimes it's confidence that the future holds abundance. I can't count how many times I've thought "this is it, I'm done, girls are over for me" and then a month later I'm getting play. Gotta remember that big picture!!
/r/seduction15/12/19 04:19 PM
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3? Lol that is like homeless bum or mutated level. It depends on the girl and what her life is like that day. All the game won't help you if she has her mind set on having a 9+ in her pants. And the hotter the girl is, the more entitled she is to higher scores as a threshold.
/r/seduction08/12/19 01:27 PM
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I dunno man. Some people are pretty dumb and either forget or won't take initiative.
/r/seduction08/12/19 01:23 PM
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You have to find a way to overcome the awe. The awe of a beautiful girl can be paralyzing. I lost my virginity at your age and attractive girls are nice more likely to lose it very young. It's just a gender/age thing
/r/seduction08/12/19 01:21 PM
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You need more women to talk to. Eventually you say "fuck the strategies" and just communicate the way you want because of so much failure.
/r/seduction08/12/19 01:17 PM
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Girls became more attracted to be, and that helped my game.
/r/seduction08/12/19 01:11 PM
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Study text game.
/r/seduction06/12/19 02:58 AM
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You are too bland and generic. Say something more like "you look like you might be fun" vs "you are good looking". Then be fun to interact with. Like be someone she wants to know more about and experience more of. I'm not saying to fake it. Look at it from your point of view, if a stranger approached you. Why would you want to hang out with a stranger? Because the stranger thinks it would be fun? No
/r/seduction04/12/19 02:56 AM
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Well then I'll be even more fun trying not to get caught. Besides it's no loss to you.
/r/seduction03/12/19 11:36 PM
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It's true but it's not a major difference. Guys in general cannot be as good looking as women, genetically and physically women have more symmetry, clearer skin, curves, etc. When you see a guy and think he's just average... well he's probably still above average compared to all men. Women know this. They also can't all have a relationship with the top looking guys (but they will try and try until they wise up) so eventually the next rung down (average attractive guys) get next dibs. These guys …
/r/seduction03/12/19 11:31 PM
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Are you rich? Lol Also I find players who say they are ugly aren't usually being honest/cognizant about their looks.
/r/seduction03/12/19 10:37 PM
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Asian men can be quite good looking. Being tall isn't a prerequisite.
/r/seduction03/12/19 10:36 PM
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It isn't, but looks will get you in the door with the majority of women, so you only need minimum game and courage. Guys without looks can still get laid but they have way less options, have to wait for attractive girls to be in the right 'time' of their life to consider it, or be rich/famous, etc.
/r/seduction03/12/19 10:34 PM
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You will not have a problem, I gaurantee. There will be countless workers on the ship who will hit on you, nevermind the passengers.
/r/seduction03/12/19 10:29 PM
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Lol what. I'm over 40 and still horny as fuck every day
/r/seduction03/12/19 10:12 PM
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Depends on your work. I have a part time minimum wage job I don't care if I lose. Also I hate the phrase don't shit where you eat. I'm not shitting on girls when I flirt with them, maybe that's the attitude PUAs have tho
/r/seduction03/12/19 10:02 PM
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You sound like a rich person who can't decide what to buy at the mall. Man up!
/r/seduction02/12/19 10:38 PM
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After reading this post I turned into Brad Pitt and am getting 50 matches a day! It could happen to you
/r/seduction02/12/19 06:10 PM
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Same. They usually have nice asses tho.
/r/seduction02/12/19 06:04 PM
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You spent too much time with her. You should have called it a night early. Anyways it's not a major disaster. Give her some space, ask her out in a week. Don't apologise for having other girls on your phone. If she makes it an issue, you could maybe say "why, you want a relationship?" Also you need to give yourself some space from her so you can think of actual cool and fun stuff to do together and not turn creepy and weird
/r/seduction02/12/19 04:24 PM
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She probably hates that you never make a move.
/r/seduction02/12/19 01:50 PM
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Are you an SJW wimp? Maybe that's why she hates you. Just go up to D and whisper in her ear you want to give her the D
/r/seduction02/12/19 01:49 PM
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No one ever taught me about girls either and I had no sisters. For example I had no idea men were supposed to take the initiative or make the first move. Just that little bit of info flipped my worldview.
/r/seduction30/11/19 03:18 AM
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You banged two hotties by 21 and think you're blooming late? Dude, chill, you already got this. So many guys would kill to be where you're at. Study this material and stop feeling sorry for yourself.
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:58 PM
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I'm pretty familiar with girls like this. Coworkers are tough because they are worried if they do anything, you'll be weird at work. First step you gotta take is stop giving her as much attention at work. You have her number, good job, use that instead, use time when you are alone to give her attention. And I mean don't stare at her at work, no long goofy smiles, just be normal and friendly like before. When she was sitting on the chair, you can invite her to the couch. Verbally. She likes you I…
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:52 PM
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This is painful to read. She's given you all the opportunity a girl can give you. She's not going to make any more moves beyond what she's done. It's enough for her to be alone with you. Your next step to get out of the friendzone is escalate physically. Touching her hand, for example. But you can't keep hanging out and not making a move or eventually another dude will. You don't need to get on a date again, just make a move in your car.
/r/seduction29/11/19 01:59 PM
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Not what you want from them long term, what you want from them that day.
/r/seduction28/11/19 03:35 PM
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Why not learn it from them? Good way to have a conversation. I was seeing a young chick who didn't know who Arnold Schwarzenegger was. I found it endearing. So it goes both ways.
/r/seduction28/11/19 11:38 AM
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Are you talking too much about yourself? Removing mystery? Are you being too nice? Seems to me like you aren't being authentic. You aren't communicating what you want from them, truly. Try it next time and see.
/r/seduction28/11/19 11:33 AM
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I'm not an expert at picking up at the gym but I've done it before. You get in your head more there. You can't wait for choosing signals at the gym. Everyone is avoiding eye contact. You just have to go up and it might take a number of tries to even get her attention to get a word in. So don't wait for her to make eye contact, you might have to tap her shoulder or something.
/r/seduction28/11/19 11:24 AM
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I think this is bad advice. If you're a gym rat, maybe. Do you want to spend all your time talking to dorks at the gym?? If you're a trainer it's different. Nope. Just man up and go direct and stop wasting time.
/r/seduction28/11/19 11:21 AM
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Good game isn't rare. Good looking guys have it too. So when a girl has a choice between two otherwise equal men, she'll take the good looking one. It's not like uglier men have a special ability to be better at game. I dunno. I don't think good game is that rare. And if you have it you still have to compete with all the other guys who have it. Shrug. I'm always open to improvement and finding my flaws and weaknesses. But also being realistic
/r/seduction28/11/19 05:16 AM
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Who cares if you're in the friendzone?? Even if you are, it's up to you to get out of it by escalating physically. If you want to that is. You don't get out of the friendzone by talking.
/r/seduction28/11/19 03:13 AM
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You still have a vagina though right? Guys are totally into that.
/r/seduction28/11/19 03:07 AM
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| The better looking the girl the less she places value on looks. I just wanted to backtrack and say this is the dumbest statement I've ever heard in this forum.
/r/seduction28/11/19 01:35 AM
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I'm talking about fucking girls, not flirting or getting numbers. Yeah anyone can do that if they are confident etc. Actually sleeping with them? That's another story, and yes looks matter to a hot chick at that point. You have to be really extraordinary to overcome lack of looks to bed a hottie. This is my experience. I can get numbers, meetups, but half the time I'm getting turned down at the physical connection with some variation of "you're just not attractive enough for me" Why would they s…
/r/seduction27/11/19 02:50 PM
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You don't need to get in trouble though. You just need to have a friendly conversation, see if she's down to hang out, trade numbers. You're only going to get in trouble if you go sexual and she complains, or an annoying coworker is close up in your business. I work a similar job and get numbers and hookups from it. Just use common sense. Also, don't just converse with cute girls, converse with everyone. That way, when you are talking to a cute girl, it won't seem like you're playing.
/r/seduction27/11/19 02:31 PM
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Girls aren't going to give you signals in five minutes unless you're handsome. You have to build attraction. It can be done. Ask them what they're cooking up with those ingredients, etc.
/r/seduction27/11/19 03:27 AM
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No, it's because no matter how many people berate them for their behavior, there are a thousand more men ready to forgive them.
/r/seduction27/11/19 03:01 AM
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Good looking people in general don't need to behave because there are endless people who will overlook their behavior to get a piece.
/r/seduction27/11/19 03:00 AM
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ahh i thought you meant at "big league" clubs where wealthy people go I think the more attractive a girl is, the more looks matter to her (in general). It's complicated, it depends on a lot of factors, whether the girl is placing value on looks or not at the time. My strategy (being ugly) is to keep approaching until I find girls who are more open minded. I'm not going to pretend that it's a level playing field. I find where I can fit in. I get that you want ugly people to not worry about their …
/r/seduction26/11/19 04:36 AM
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If you keep talking and talking, you're removing mystery about yourself, and becoming nonsexual. She knows everything about you. You're a friend. You're a nice guy. That's what I mean by nice guy zone. Start being more unpredictable. Start talking less. Make her want to know more about you. Etc. Check out AMS on YouTube
/r/seduction26/11/19 04:29 AM
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Another thing to consider here is having a cameraman/friend around, encouraging you is a lot easier than approaching alone. And no, this guy may look average to men but he's definitely extremely good looking to women.
/r/seduction26/11/19 04:03 AM
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Yes. Ask if she wants to hang out. Who cares what her reaction is.
/r/seduction26/11/19 04:01 AM
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Same story here man. Countless times. Good thing is there will be countless more times. You're getting attached to girls you don't even know yet. It's tough. But if you got to know them, you might find out they are shitty. Who knows. The point is you don't, so don't beat yourself up so bad. I have a little seduction checklist on my phone that, if I read it in this situation, it helps me get over my fears. Part of your problem is focusing on one person you want to talk to. Of course that will pro…
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:59 AM
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What did it mean she "pets" you? Pet her back, touch her fingers, escalate physically and read her response, but don't go too fast. Don't try to talk her into something. Also sounds like you're entering nice guy territory. Get out of that. Find a flaw about her and poke fun at it (like is she frigid, or drinks some gross beer). Be more aloof and manly. Don't be a pushover. Stop being clingy, you don't need her. Etc
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:52 AM
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Don't do this.
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:49 AM
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In the big leagues looks don't matter? For most of us, we don't live in or care about picking up women in the big leagues, whatever that means. So what use is your advice for us
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:41 AM
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You're delusional if you think looks are only 10%
/r/seduction25/11/19 03:19 PM
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Women can be satisfied by an orgasm for days or weeks. Men want one every day.
/r/seduction24/11/19 03:14 PM
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I won't stop obsessing until my dick stops working.
/r/seduction23/11/19 02:10 AM
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This is just not my experience. You must live in a different culture than me.
/r/seduction23/11/19 02:07 AM
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Say something like "Maybe you should say yes" And then: "let's do something else if you say no. Pinball arcade" Don't get butt hurt if she says no. You just asked friend type stuff so you wouldn't get mad if your friend said no, you'd just try to reschedule and tell them they're boring if they never come out
/r/seduction23/11/19 02:04 AM
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look at attractive women in relationships. Their men usually are either average-looking or below average-looking. What are you smoking? I rarely see this. It happens, sure, but it's the exception.
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:27 AM
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I feel you. I feel like a fool for not learning this stuff earlier.
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:21 AM
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If that's the case he should still force the issue. Better to get strongly rejected than keep wondering
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:17 AM
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It's not just approaching hot chicks, approach every type of person.
/r/seduction21/11/19 02:53 PM
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I was generalizing. And I agree with him, but his text game is weak. Send 3-4 texts to arrange a meetup is not going to fly anymore, I just get ghosted if I did that, too robotic. But like I said, that probably works if you're wealthy and gold digger after you.
/r/seduction21/11/19 02:52 PM
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What I'm joking about are all the people who say looks don't matter much. But over and over again we hear from women that it's very important, in your case the #1 factor by far. Nothing wrong with that, just sayin. Guys are the same way, except they'll also pursue less attractive mates.
/r/seduction21/11/19 02:48 PM
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Yep but your moves should be not verbal and don't argue with her about dating. Just touch her hand gently or something like that.
/r/seduction21/11/19 02:18 AM
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We do get fight or flight with girls we are enormously attracted to. But instead of fear we are overwhelmed with astonishment. You gotta get that deer in the headlights out of your system. The only thing that works for me is many approaches.
/r/seduction21/11/19 12:48 AM
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I find when I lose a girl I can get so sad about it, I tell new girls "I just broke up with my girlfriend" thinking that will get me some social proof, but actually it turns then off because they're worried I'll be clingy and needy. So be careful leading with your recent heartache, even tho you wanna talk about it.
/r/seduction21/11/19 12:44 AM
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I used to believe this. Because a lot of girls I wanted I didn't get. So I thought if I fantasized about them, I wouldn't get them. Turns out I was wrong and I ended up getting some girls I was fantasizing about. It's all about getting the balls to approach and not being a needy creep.
/r/seduction20/11/19 10:05 PM
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I really like his book and advice, but his experience is going after upper class working women. The text-once-a-week strategy is for keeping gold diggers on hook.
/r/seduction20/11/19 04:22 PM
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Ahh the truth comes out :)
/r/seduction20/11/19 04:18 PM
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Then there's my type, get laid a lot but never through Tinder
/r/seduction20/11/19 04:10 PM
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I really like your comment. Probably downplaying or not realizing your looks tho.
/r/seduction19/11/19 04:12 PM
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Rarely do girls approach me. If I followed your strategy I'd be a lonely lonely man. But I'm not because I chase and have many girls as a result.
/r/seduction19/11/19 04:05 PM
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how I’d explain it to a future love interest Don't tell girls until you're quite far in with them. Part of the reason is you don't want to be a blabbermouth telling girls everything about you, is a turn off and friend zone.
/r/seduction19/11/19 02:26 PM
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Comprehension problems in this thread. What I said is you'll have more options with those attributes. Not zero options. FFS
/r/seduction18/11/19 08:46 PM
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Thanks. Another question, what physical attributes do you look for?
/r/seduction18/11/19 08:44 PM
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Couple ideas: You should be rubbing her clit over her clothes to get her revved up. Also I find some girls get turned on giving head, or use head as a way to inspect the dick before entry. Her pants better come off during head and instruct her to play with herself during.
/r/seduction18/11/19 08:43 PM
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The game is much easier to play for the good looking guys, that's my point. You still have to game, sure, but it's playing on easy mode.
/r/seduction18/11/19 08:40 PM
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How much does physical attraction weigh in when you hook up with strangers on Tinder?
/r/seduction18/11/19 04:59 AM
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Are you trying to talk them into it? You need to back off now and then. And say you are cool with how far you've gone. Be happy with any progress and she'll be likely to give you more. Be butthurt or angry when she stops you won't help, and neither will arguing.
/r/seduction18/11/19 04:46 AM
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Is it just me or are the majority of pickups near the spring? In winter usually girls have someone to hunker down with, come spring they start looking...
/r/seduction18/11/19 04:43 AM
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Being true to myself means I wanna get laid tho. Honestly dating isn't what i want to do lol
/r/seduction18/11/19 04:37 AM
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Amazing game can't get you what looks can though. That's my point. If you don't have the looks, then yes, be amazing at game, let's just not pretend you're going to have the same options.
/r/seduction17/11/19 06:10 PM
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Fit, groomed well, fun... Those don't rule out physical attraction. Women will still chase handsome men that are "a work in progress"
/r/seduction17/11/19 01:08 PM
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"Some" chicks, emphasis on some lol
/r/seduction16/11/19 10:47 PM
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We live in radically different worlds then, friend. My experience tells me otherwise.
/r/seduction16/11/19 10:44 PM
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Doesn’t matter how good looking you are, it’s pretty unlikely some girl is gonna walk up to and say “Damn. You’re so hot. Please, let me suck your dick.” This is totally untrue. Minus the last sentence, girls absolutely do pursue good looking guys. At the minimum they will place themselves in orbit with lots of smiles and signals to encourage pickup. It also heavily depends on the environment whether a girl will approach.
/r/seduction16/11/19 10:37 PM
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Also agree. Height is more an issue for tall girls, but even then they'll experiment. I basically rule out any girl taller than me, I'll only flirt with them for fun, maybe on the off chance they've 'lowered' their standards for a time. In girl-comedy movies there is the stereotype of the hunk who opens his mouth and is a crazy retard. Hard to have sympathy for a dude like that.
/r/seduction16/11/19 07:50 PM
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That is really misguided. As long as she puts out she can stay in my life as long as she wants. If she's a withholding bitch then she can take a hike. I'll bet most men feel similarly. Also who enjoys chasing bitchy girls? Not me. I'd rather chase a submissive girl. If she stands up for herself and is spunky that's a different story (a positive).
/r/seduction16/11/19 07:40 PM
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I agree with that. There's no universal formula. Just find the girls that fit your stats. :)
/r/seduction16/11/19 07:36 PM
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This is what good looking guys tell themselves so they can boost their egos. They want to think it's their actions and not their looks. Sure there are exceptions and ugly men should chase those, but let's not pretend it's an even playing field.
/r/seduction16/11/19 09:49 AM
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No I do think you can change SOME women's minds who are not initially attracted to you. But I know genetically most women will autoreject me based on my looks, and that handsome men have more choice (and therefore more 'luck'). It sucks when you aren't handsome but you can still carve out success, just try not to compare yourself with them because it will be nearly impossible to compete, just have fun and be grateful with your own level of success. I mean does it really matter if you're hooking …
/r/seduction15/11/19 10:09 PM
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You're supposed to say something like "I'm looking for a LTR if the right girl comes along"
/r/seduction15/11/19 04:36 AM
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Oh noes but I thought looks were only 20%
/r/seduction15/11/19 03:48 AM
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She's a stoner so I sent a funny weed meme :)
/r/seduction14/11/19 07:07 PM
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Meh I wouldn't worry about it. I like the conflict here.
/r/seduction14/11/19 06:23 PM
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One, there is no reason to tell them what you want, especially if they'll leave you because they think there is no LTR possible. Nothing wrong with just being happy. Don't hang out too much, once a week average is a good target. AMS on YouTube has some interesting advice.
/r/seduction14/11/19 06:21 PM
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Very interesting take. She also seems oblivious to the fact that the vast majority of men don't have standards so high that they won't include her and everyone good looking as her as sexworthy. We'd sleep with them all, not just the prettiest! Like we'd stop at the prettiest one, ohhh no we wouldn't. Lol
/r/seduction14/11/19 07:28 AM
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I see this as what the PC opinion is gonna be as seduction takes off in popularity. Mark my words, her attitude is gonna be the official line soon.
/r/seduction14/11/19 07:25 AM
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You've got oneitis with a girl you've never talked to. You've messaged her in social media. Next time you see her it's going to be awkward as fuck. You need to play it cool and aloof, not like you have some special connection.
/r/seduction13/11/19 03:37 PM
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You gotta call and rebuild attraction. I've had cancels via text that I turn around on call. Text becomes robotic and scary after a while.
/r/seduction13/11/19 02:43 PM
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Good news is you'll have plenty more chances in the future. I was a virgin until 19, not a big deal.
/r/seduction12/11/19 10:54 AM
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She was probably hung over the next day. And didn't want to tell you...
/r/seduction12/11/19 10:52 AM
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Looks do matter a lot, and handsome men will downplay it because they want to think they have mastered game or that they're smart etc. Now, I'm not a good looking attractive man, and I've gotten way more than my share of women. But I've seen time and again, women ditching less attractive men as soon as a handsome man shows up. Sure you still need game when you're good looking, but you can afford to make a lot more mistakes, women will overlook and forgive your faults more. You also get more choi…
/r/seduction12/11/19 04:39 AM
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They weren't going there with you, you just came along. So you shouldn't have expected to hang with them there. However, you could have struck up conversation with new people to show you weren't clingy, then came back to them later. Also you could have gotten a number at some point, but I know how awkward that is, and even so may have led nowhere. So, you should be still proud of yourself, just keep up that spirit, keep being adventurous, it will pay off in the long run!
/r/seduction12/11/19 03:51 AM
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You better get her number quick before she loses interest.
/r/seduction12/11/19 03:45 AM
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Actually I've had some rare nights where, I shit you not, most of the single girls at the party were trying to get with me. And it's always good. Now, I've never had Brad Pitt level success so I can't say but... I'd much rather be pursued by many than not. Sorry, maybe it's just me.
/r/seduction12/11/19 03:43 AM
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First you should be a bit more grateful at least you are getting laid. But you are leaving something out. My guess is you're being too nice, too many compliments, too needy, clingy. Saying how awesome it was and how you can't wait to see her again etc. Giving that clingy vibe. And so they think you're in love with them already and if you meet up again you're gonna be creepy/needy. I may be way off but that's my guess
/r/seduction12/11/19 03:34 AM
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Not me man. The only thing that slows me down is recent ejac. The longer I go without, the crazier I'm gonna blow. Diff biology I guess. That said, I don't do porn, rarely jack it, but if I don't get sex for a week+ I'm gonna get off one way or the other
/r/seduction12/11/19 01:19 AM
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Props though because you manned up there!!
/r/seduction10/11/19 03:31 AM
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Wtf. How did you meet this girl and get her number? Was she running a booth? Did she approach you? I once had a hot chick invite me to her hotel room. She wasn't there but Amway salesmen were. Lol I remember bringing a friend as backup and a gun too. Hot chick stranger inviting you out: red flags!!
/r/seduction09/11/19 08:39 PM
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It does hurt sometimes though. Cold approach not, but when you've got a girl at your place, for example, and she really has the time to lay into you, it can be awful. Still, nothing a few days won't cure.
/r/seduction09/11/19 07:38 PM
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Yeah I wasn't up front, should have told her my cock was too sensitive. Sometimes you only have an hour though, so second round isn't always possible.
/r/seduction09/11/19 06:35 PM
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There's a downside too. I held off for a week, then had a hottie over. Sex sucked for her because I was trying not to cum the whole time. She couldn't ride me for more than a minute or I'd just blow.
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:44 PM
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Watch some text game videos on YouTube.
/r/seduction09/11/19 03:22 AM
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Don't tell dates your experience level.
/r/seduction09/11/19 03:20 AM
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Great write up! Makes me wanna try this. Questions: Do you eventually move to warm water? Do you do this in the morning, or before you go out to approach?
/r/seduction07/11/19 06:21 PM
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| she then started asking hundreds of questions about me over texts that lasted until the night Dude this is a terrible mistake. You need to cut it off after a few questions. Too much info, you're losing mystery, what is there left to learn about you? Tell her you are too busy, don't like texting a lot, let's chat over a drink/whatever. You may have actually blown it with this one. But good luck, maybe you're the only one who has the balls to go after her right now!
/r/seduction07/11/19 05:37 PM
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This is advice for upper class guys who have a lot of gold diggers chasing them. However for the rest of us it's a bit different. Texting should usually have a goal of meeting up, but sometimes you need rapport or you're going to come off as too direct and creepy. Also when a girl starts digging for too much info that's when you cut it off, call her, and set up a date/meet, or you cut her off completely. Too much info is a turn off because it removes mystery about you. Never ends well.
/r/seduction07/11/19 05:21 PM
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I'd be careful of going to church with a girl. Probably won't end well. She'll learn everything about you to potentially turn her off, and the environment is super non-sexual (unless you're in some cathedral with dark hallways you can escape to) Use it as leverage. "Hang out with me first, church is too soon, I need to get to know you better first".
/r/seduction06/11/19 10:07 PM
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We should wing, lol. I have strategies for that. One is just, "hey what's new", don't ask them how they are, that's boring, don't ask about boyfriends, kind of ignore her, looking away at times like you have something fun to do, she's just a pitstop on the way, leave it aloof like that until you get signals. There's no rule you can't have more than one interaction with a girl like this per night. You can return and share energy to brighten up her night, leave her wanting more and missing you. Ne…
/r/seduction06/11/19 08:41 PM
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One thing I've noticed is I'll be flirting with girls and having a great time. Then out of the blue a smoking hot 10 will want my attention. It's at this point that I constantly fuck up. Because I'm not expecting it. Like it's so random and I've just come off a bunch of interactions that I'm analyzing. I was in the moment because I saw these girls and pursued them with purpose. Then I'm in my head but I have this social proof so the hottie is attracted to me, and she's chasing me, but I can't pl…
/r/seduction06/11/19 04:20 PM
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Keep going out and approaching! Good for you.
/r/seduction06/11/19 04:07 PM
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