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| 1 | Little to no interest in women?Ah, thank you for helping me out with this comment. I can see that I have found myself in a place where it's hard for me to find a female attractive unless they are fit and intelligent. Unfortunately, the current state of America has made women like that in short supply. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Asked for girls whatsapp, she asks why not snapchat instead. Next?I don't have a number since I just use data. So should I just say something like, Nah, [insert acceptable chatting app] here will do just fine, or just ghost? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Currently reading "How to Win Friends and Influence People"; how do I show genuine interest if I struggle to care?I'll check it out. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Currently reading "How to Win Friends and Influence People"; how do I show genuine interest if I struggle to care?I'm good at getting people to talk. I typically steer the conversation, and ask questions to get the other party to respond. Even if, on the outside, I'm nodding or looking like I'm listening, I'm probably not paying attention unless they are talking about something that is of interest to me. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Why am I attracted to, for lack of a better term, "alpha females"?Are marriage type girls incapable of having a good conversation? Like, I guess I've never really sat down and focused on girls; it was not something I struggled with getting, so I focused on other things like going to the gym, my career, studies, etc. But I mean, the alpha type girls I find aren't being picked up from Tinder or the club. I meet most girls through friends. I'll be introduced to another circle of friends, there will be girls in the group, and the girl that tends to stand out the m… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Why am I attracted to, for lack of a better term, "alpha females"?I think their true nature is to be submissive, but the vast majority of people around them are weak or have no idea what they are doing. So perhaps they have this "alpha front" to deal with beta guys and other girls, but they don't have to put up that front with me and it's probably relieving for them to not have to try to take charge. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Why am I attracted to, for lack of a better term, "alpha females"?I've taken it to heart not speak unless I have to, or just STFU. I can deal with social situations, but I prefer not to talk unless I have questions or I am telling someone what to do. So, the concept of small talk, while not foreign to me, is draining and not interesting to me unless I find the person I'm talking to interesting. I've been described by these girls as a "bad boy", most people think I'm a fuck boy, and I'm emotionally distant and seem to ignore them. I am in fact, none of these th… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Why am I attracted to, for lack of a better term, "alpha females"?Well they don't act like alpha when they are around me. They act more submissive, but their demeanor radically changes around others. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Why am I attracted to, for lack of a better term, "alpha females"?I have gone for girls before, a lot of them submissive types, and I found them so boring. Like sure, they would do whatever I asked and I could have sex with them on demand, but they didn't seem capable of having an interesting conversation. The alpha girls are still all the above but are at least interesting to talk to. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?The study says 1 in 3 men havent had sex in the last year. I find this incredibly hard to believe, I dont think I've gone a year without sex for the last 10 years. The longest I went was maybe half a year by choice, and it was ended by a model who literally jumped me at a party I hosted. An unattractive dude can even get an unattractive woman. I know a woman who is not good looking, but is fwb with a guy she says has a small penis, and is also ugly. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Even my mom has beta orbitersBefore I reply, I'll just say I don't agree on this sub's opinion on guys and girls not being able to be friends. We are friends with people because we share common interests or somehow provide a benefit to them. If a guy friend asked me, hey, can you help me move? I would say sure. If a girl friend I know asked the same thing, I would as well. These are the friends of mine I know who do the same thing if I asked them. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you establish boundaries without coming off as butt-hurt?Okay, but when they've reached that threshold... then what? Just ignore them? | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you establish boundaries without coming off as butt-hurt?How does one withdraw attention? I've tried ignoring people before, then they just get up in my face and tease me about ignoring them. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | I want to fix things with my girlfriend. I'm the one who walked out on her, on her birthday.My own. I want to fit her into my schedule, at the very least, show some consideration for her. If you were to ask her what I care about, she'd tell you I'm an asshole who only thinks about his own schedule. And that's very true. I have no idea how to fit her in, and when I try to, I end up late to seeing her because I consider my priorities more important. I'm not here to game girls, I'm here to find a healthy LTR but I don't know how to do that when all I've ever been is selfish and worried ab… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 07:48 AM |
| 1 | I want to fix things with my girlfriend. I'm the one who walked out on her, on her birthday.I do or have already done all these things. The issue is I spend more time on my career, hobbies, and lifting, than my relationships with people, especially my significant other. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Bullied at the gymDang dude I wish I had discovered trp at your age. Barely doing the bar at 14 is perfectly normal. Good thing is at your age you get natural steroids. Lift smart, keep good form and you'll grow fast. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Bullied at the gymBest you can do is have an idgaf attitude. Everyone starts somewhere, I was a skinny arm fat belly guy starting out and now I'm the guy at the gym people come and talk to for advice or ask me if I'm on droids. It took 3 to 4 years to get here but it was worth it and if anything people who have seen me here since the beginning know I worked my butt off and are impressed by my progress. If you're actually physically being bullied, that's first of all immature as heck but also a massive shit test. … | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 01:57 AM |
| 5 | What do you make of this situation [woman flying to see a younger guy]Also it might have to do with her being from Korea. Sex is a fairly taboo topic and if people think you're sleeping around, it can damage your reputation. Reputation is everything in Korea, and if people think a woman is sleeping around, it looks bad for her. Chances are she didnt get the chance at a younger age, especially considering the reputation aspect may have even been stricter back then. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 08:31 PM |
| 2 | How to tell a Plate her pussy kinda stinks?What if this is every girl to me? I mean, it's not like foul or sour. I generally have never thought a pussy smelt good. They all smell and taste like blah. I'm a pretty clean person and clean all my parts very well, so maybe I just have an expectation, but I've never heard from a plate that I smell bad. In fact, most plates I've had particularly love the way I smell the moment I come back from the gym. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | You can learn a lot from those with dark triad characteristicsI felt slightly uncomfortable reading this because I noticed I have nearly all the traits listed for each category in the dark triad, although I've made and effort to not act in those ways because I've noticed the detrimental effect on my close friends ships and LTR. It is, however, true. I probably have approach 2 of the many girls I've dated. Almost every girl I've been with approached me first. And despite being called a terrible boyfriend through high school and early college by friends of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/18 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Why You Need To Get HugeFor me, lifting did two things. It improved my focus, and secondly, I suddenly stopped caring about trivial things. I would say lifting alone carries with it some amused mastery. Lifting alone gives you an enhanced mental state. The only con? I'm probably addicted to lifting. Can't go without it and other people comment about it in a negative way. But I could honestly care less. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/18 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird if your girlfriend hangs out alone with a guy friend of yours that you trust?Yeah that was my thought. My response was I dont really care if she hangs out. I'll do me and if she goes behind my back, shrug, because I can find someone else. If she's faithful, then great. I never say no, I just state my boundaries and move on when they are crossed. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird if your girlfriend hangs out alone with a guy friend of yours that you trust?Its a first time. I would say I'm almost losing my touch on how to respond when she asks me if she can go out since she almost never does | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird if your girlfriend hangs out alone with a guy friend of yours that you trust?I was invited but declined | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Constant negging from alphaIf you're getting annoyed, you're losing frame. With my friends, and even with people I don't know, we neg each other all the time. And we don't get mad at each other, we know it's playful banter that actually translates to the real world skill of dealing with shit tests from all places. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Who here has decided to quit alcohol? How has it improved or hindered your game?I don't drink because my health and fitness are more important. I may just have 1 if I go out but otherwise none. Every once in a while I do weed, but only to help me sleep. Game wise, alcohol helped me lower my reserved state faster so I could flirt more easily. I was already good looking so alcohol mainly helped me talk more. However, after I learned how to do that without alcohol, then it's pretty much the same. Alcohol still makes me less reserved faster, but I'm generally a reserved and mor… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to flirt with a girl at your workplace?I understand this which is why I don't even flirt with girls at my gym. However, I'm a pretty good looking guy and I get hit on at work pretty often by girls. There's even a gay guy hitting on me but I'm sure I can't report him for harassment otherwise I'll be labeled homophobic. I'm pretty professional with my co-workers; just this particular girl caught my attention. Would it still be a bad idea if I flirted with her after I left the company? It's a student job so I'm not going to be there for… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 01:13 AM |
| 1 | When did you notice that lifting increased you SMV?Within the first 3 months. While you won't get ripped or jacked in 3 months, your body will make some visible changes that are appealing. I started out with p90x. It still produced some results that increases smv. If you're trying to look like Thor, and you want to do it naturally, a minimum of 2 years and a strict adherence to diet is necessary. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 10:12 PM |
| 1 | You only need to be 20% better than the average male.Wow. I spend a lot of time in the gym so I think the average is a male that's physically fit. Also, most of my friends are physically fit. It's hard for me to imagine that this is the average because I spend most of my time with people who are much farther above it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/18 04:43 AM |
| 1 | You only need to be 20% better than the average male.As a fellow anime/manga person, one of the best music to listen to is anime music while lifting. It gets you super hyped up. Also, a lot of manga or anime is just a story. A lot of those stories involve some kind of underdog or just someone who overcomes adversity to succeed. I feel like you can learn a little from the story. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/18 04:40 AM |
| 1 | You only need to be 20% better than the average male.What if you play games for a living? Like, you actually make money streaming and making content on YouTube, etc... Sure, it's lame to play games or even watch, like someone else commented, but to be fair, sheep need to exist. For the streamers to make money, there need to be sheep that just like to watch the game. For CEOs to make money, you need a bunch of sheep with no ambition working in the office under him. I ask for myself, because although I workout, am an engineering student, and still r… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/18 04:38 AM |
| 1 | So, this is just AWALT, or is my girlfriend just weird?I guess I've been clouded because, as per your test, it's worked and she pretty much does everything I tell her to. I also keep my own head in the game as well; I run some level of dread as I'm in shape and occasionally hang out with other attractive women (and she knows). Perhaps her willingness to listen and follow is a result of my own behavior, and she's not actually as good as I think at all because she's just acting this way because of how I do things. But what I said was mainly that, I fe… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 05:19 AM |
| 1 | So, this is just AWALT, or is my girlfriend just weird?Why is the standard response to girl questions on here cheating? I have already confirmed she isn't. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 01:04 AM |
| 1 | So, this is just AWALT, or is my girlfriend just weird?Care to explain? | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 01:04 AM |
| 1 | To all the asian guys out there: stop fucking whining and LIFT!I live in a city where there are mostly Koreans and the vast majority of them are 6 foot plus and in shape. Extremely far from what would be considered beta looking. I'm Asian myself, only 5 foot 10, but muscular. I've dated mostly non Asian girls but from the Asians I did date, I've been told my facial features are not very Asian looking. The Koreans mostly date other Koreans but they all have very Asian facial features. One asian girl I dated who only dated white or black guys told me my featu… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | LiftTo throw out another suggestion, do Intermittent Fasting. Bulk with minimal fat gain. Cut with great muscle preservation. Spend most of the day in a fasted, focused state. Spend the other, smaller portion of the day eating your meals, instead of worrying about what 500 calories meal you're going to eat every 2-3 hours. In the years I've been working out, IF has been the biggest game changer for me. Lift. Diet. Recovery. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/18 07:22 AM |
| 3 | what to study?You're letting an IQ test tell you what you can do in life? You're also asking us if you should be a teacher or not? Here's the thing. You have to pick what you want to do regardless of what anyone else says or thinks and stick to it. And guess what? Whatever you pick, it's going to be super hard. But that's how men are made. You pick what you want to do and put yourself into it no matter how hard it is. You're also concerned about the risk or failing? If you don't take the risk, you fail automa… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 06:43 AM |
| 3 | What to do when you’ve lost composure and her respect in LTR?This is normal. An incapable man can earn no respect from anyone. You said it yourself that you were lazy and irresponsible. Her reaction makes complete sense. There is nothing you can do directly to a relationship to salvage it. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. Also, regardless of your life situation, you need to hold frame. Things happen around and to you, but you can be proactive instead of reactive. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Why do I attract a certain type of girl?Why would they hide it? I completely understand girls in their twenties not wanting to seriously date other guys in their twenties. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 06:28 AM |
| 0 | Why do I attract a certain type of girl?Everywhere. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do I attract a certain type of girl?Now that I think about it, a lot of them do have some daddy issues. Any way I can attract or meet girls with less daddy issues? | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Do normies or the blue pilled consider fat overweight young women as 'average looking'?Good thing college gyms are different. Most of the girls are young and fit and there are many of them. There aren't many guys because they are embarrassed to go for some reason but most of them are either really skinny or really fat. Being muscular in college seems to be a huge advantage because you're at least top 1% and the girls can't keep their eyes off you but I read on here there is some stigma against picking up girls at your gym. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/18 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Unicorns do exist, but it doesn't matter.I agree, as it is the same with men. The vast majority of men are currently beta cucks and as a result, women think all men are like that, but then there are those of us that aren't that way but being so takes hard work and dedication. It's like that with women, but like any human being, they can try to resist and fight against their negative instincts. The problem comes when a woman with unicorn-like tendencies is with a beta cuck. The negative instincts will be even stronger here and it will b… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/18 09:19 AM |
| – | What is the correct approach when your girlfriend hates your friends?What if she doesn't want to hang out with them but doesn't care if I do? There's only one friend she doesn't like that I hang out with; I stated below but he basically left his gym shoes on her bed and left a mess at her place after we hung out there. She told him she didn't like it, and he got mad and told her she was overreacting. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 06:40 PM |
| – | Racialised Preferences and the HamsterI think it has more to do with the personality than actual looks. I've dated a few asian girls that mostly dated white guy that told me, being asian but born in America, that my personality was masculine and like that of a white guy. Also that my looks were above average for an asian but normal if compared to a white person. I'm not sure if this is a bad or good thing that, even though being asian, I'm seen as more white as if certain personalities are attributed to a race. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/17 06:56 PM |
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