MountainousCapybara Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	What is the longest you have ever been in a committed relationship? 3 months at 15 years old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 07:28 PM
5	If you’re an autistic guy and can’t date, it’s NOT YOUR FAULT So by sole virtue of trying Im supposed to be winning? Damn if that's the case then Im winning for 5 years straight, what a nice streak.	/r/MensRights	14/07/24 10:53 PM
10	If you’re an autistic guy and can’t date, it’s NOT YOUR FAULT I have the same exact problem, I have a very expressive face and multiple times people commented on the way I tried to smile or express my emotions, sometimes it looks funny but most of the time just uncanny. I have to constantly mind my expressions to mask properly.	/r/MensRights	14/07/24 12:35 PM
13	If you’re an autistic guy and can’t date, it’s NOT YOUR FAULT Masking can only get you so far, one slip and the facade that you build turns to dust and even if it doesn't one way or another you can't mask 24/7, they will see you without your mask.	/r/MensRights	14/07/24 12:32 PM
25	If you’re an autistic guy and can’t date, it’s NOT YOUR FAULT Once again a great post, I always enjoy reading them and the sources. It really does open your mind to the plight of non-NT people in our society and particularly men. A few years back before reading about how differently we are treated I wasn't aware of just how bad it is and I tried to ignore the difference in treatment I get from people but now I know, and my experiences validate the claims in your post, what a sad world we live in.	/r/MensRights	14/07/24 08:44 AM
–	When did you realize you were unattractive and doomed in the dating world? I quess that would be 3/4 months ago after getting ghosted again, before that I still had hope and some resolve to keep going with dating process but now I think I'm ready to finaly give up, I'm not a man women want and that's okay. Now I'll just keep to myself, there are better less tiring things to focus on than dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 09:19 AM
–	Should We All Just Quit Dating Period I gave up on dating after trying and failing for 5 years, everyone around me encourages me to keep trying but at this point I see it as a waste of time. Maybe keeping to myself will put me on a road to be more content with my life, only time will tell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 09:09 AM
3	What advice should be given to kind traditional men who seek relationships do in this dating world? Yeah this check out with my experience too, ever since I turned 17 I wanted a serious realtionship and now after 5 years of trying and failing I feel like I'm ready to give up on dating for some time, I refuse to do any hookups or situationships so I'll propably just stay single for a while longer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 07:40 AM
2	What would it take to change your mind? Damn I hold basicaly the same beliefs as you do, height and face being very important but you can't forget about a good personality and being all-round good person + being neurotypical and I also don't treat women as any lesser than men. All of these beliefs were shaped by my experience with dating and relations with other people and I don't think they will change much. It's nice to see other people like me in the wild.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 09:25 AM
11	You don’t have to be top-tier, just not bottom-tier. (Reposted) When I take a minute to compare myself (short,skinny,autistic) to my male friends I also feel like I am bottom tier. It's awful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 03:09 PM
–	„Just go outside and look at couples, bro. Black/red pill is bs” so I did… I'ts the same at my college town, I've noticed that all of my female friends are paired up but a lot of my male friends are still single. I was even speaking about it with my best friend and she said she also noticed that. I know It's bad to compare myself to others but as time goes on It gets more and more tempting to do so. My taller friends didn't put a lot of effort into dating and still got results and the same goes for my autistic female acquaintances as the also paired up rather quickly. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/24 12:02 PM
–	Do men even like women anymore? Brilliant post, Im saving it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 08:48 AM
1	Having a list of positive traits/achievements isn't enough for successful dating. I've tried to be a traditional and masculine man my parents raised me to be but it never felt right, something always felt off. But I gotta say that this approach got me a few dates and even a brief relationship but still keeping the mask on is just too hard for me. I'll see what I can do with masking less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/23 11:48 AM
4	Having a list of positive traits/achievements isn't enough for successful dating. Thanks a lot, this change of approach may be the thing that I was missing. I'll keep trying to find my niche.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 09:43 PM
12	Having a list of positive traits/achievements isn't enough for successful dating. Wow Im starting to feel the same way at 22, either change myselft and mask to attract women similar to me or don't and seek more masculine women. I just don't feel like I can keep the mask on forever it's just not my nature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 08:31 PM
3	DISCUSSION: Are autistic men just "lazy" when it comes to dating, friendship and employment struggles? As a autistic man I don't struggle with forming friend or acquaintance bonds with people, I have big friend circle comprised mostly of women with a few NT and ND men sprinkled in so I think my social skills are not that bad. I don't really hava a stable job yet as I'm still attending university but on summer break I work at a veterinary clinic where I come in contact with various people and their animals and once again I never struggled with working with both clients and patients even though I a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 10:22 AM
30	Actually a man still being inexperienced in his 20s can be a red flag... Wow this post just fills me with hope for my future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 12:32 PM
2	Does anybody else feel ostracized from their supposed genders “nature” I feel you, Im also very far removed from what my gender stereotype encompasses both in appearance and behavior which made me feel judged by men and women alike. It's tough to find your crowd but I belive that people who fall outside of gender norms are out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 09:07 AM
4	What are successful autistic guys doing differently likely? I was wondering about the same thing for quite some time, I like to think that Im quite social for an autistic person, I've got extensive social network both at home and university but despite that and years of trying to find compatible people and build deeper connections I wasn't able to succeed with that. At the same time my male peers have little problem finding relationships both short and long despite the fact that they are way less socialy active.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 09:56 PM
3	CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselves Honestly that's what I fear will happen to me and my friends once I finish my degree and return home to my little mountain village, we will drift apart, each in their own little world. And meeting new people and putting yourself out there right now is pretty hard as I don't enjoy drinking alcohol or loud crowded places and it will get harder as the time goes by...	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 05:13 PM
6	CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselves Finding people who share your enthusiasm and passion is hard. At the start of the university I've made a great effort to meet new people and expand my social net and I still do but after over 2 years I only met 1 person who shares and matches my enthusiasm. But that was just because of luck. Repeatedly throwing yourself into the vortex of social interactions and events without any direction or expectations doesn't sit with me well but I don't really have any other choice. All in all I sympathize…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 04:36 PM
14	CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselves I feel you. I still try to go out and socialize with friends or acquaintances but after years of failure my motivation wanes. Most of my friends are in relationships some are even getting engaged all the while I still stay single. I guess I have to keep trying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 03:18 PM
2	Question for blackpillers. Do you have any aspirations or goals outside of mating and dating or have you just accepted your station and are waiting for it all to end? Can be anything short or long term. Thank you, all best for you too.	/r/AllPillDebate	12/11/23 06:49 PM
2	Question for blackpillers. Do you have any aspirations or goals outside of mating and dating or have you just accepted your station and are waiting for it all to end? Can be anything short or long term. From nearly all of my rejections it was mostly my size (Im 5'4, 116lbs), they said if I was at least a bit taller I would be a good pick and other platitudes, Im also quite introverted and propably non-NT but judging by my extensive and diverse friend and acquaintances group my personality isn't so bad. I think, Im at the very least bearable.	/r/AllPillDebate	12/11/23 06:28 PM
2	Question for blackpillers. Do you have any aspirations or goals outside of mating and dating or have you just accepted your station and are waiting for it all to end? Can be anything short or long term. Thank you, honestly dating isn't something I try to focus on anymore, I've tried multiple times and failed. Dating at my university is in theory really easy for men due to simple demographics(Women compose 90% of all students) but I didn't have any luck. Now I just study more to become rodent and lagomorph specialist.	/r/AllPillDebate	12/11/23 04:59 PM
2	Question for blackpillers. Do you have any aspirations or goals outside of mating and dating or have you just accepted your station and are waiting for it all to end? Can be anything short or long term. I want to finish studying at the university and become a veterinarian, then move back to my village work there for a bit and after that propably immigrate to Iceland.	/r/AllPillDebate	12/11/23 04:38 PM
1	Would you rather be a tall, good looking (high functioning) autistic guy or a short unattractive neurotypical guy I would choose to be the short, NT guy, I'm already quite short but at least I would be NT.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 07:52 AM