MoxOmega Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Wife asked me to move out this morning… [ Removed by Reddit ]	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/24 06:44 PM
5	Headed for divorce in strange circumstance Never underestimate a soon to be ex wife, while you might think she hasn’t reached out or contacted a lawyer, it’s best to safely assume she has. A female in their eyes see a 50/50 split as a loss, majority want at minimum a 60/40 split in favor of them, if not close to 70/30. While you say your wife is generally a good person, all that goes out the window in a divorce, if she has the chance to take you to the cleaners, she will not think twice and will do it with a huge smile.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/23 05:16 PM
3	Seeking advice - Wife cheated, she doesn't know I know Strike first, I know I know, it’s a line from The Karate Kid/Cobra Kai, but it’s 100% true. Strike first and show no mercy! Because I can 1000% guarantee, and every guy on here will agree, if given the opportunity, she will crush you and not think twice on it.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/23 06:05 AM
1	How many of you have had an amicable divorce? It’s only amicable if you agree to her terms! The moment you say no, she will take the gloves off and it’s on. All soon to be ex wives, see a 50/50 split as a loss, for them being fair and reasonable is a 60/40 split in their favor. Thankfully Texas frowns on spousal support, my ex was awarded anything spousal support, she was pissed and her lawyer argued and argued and no luck. Protect yourselves fellow kings!	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/23 06:23 PM
2	Wife wants divorce, but promised if I changed we’ll be back together. Nope, she’s just buying herself time to lawyer up.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/23 05:41 PM
1	My wife just told me she wants to separate... after these holidays. Don't know how to react. Brother, 99% of the time, nothing is amicable. Not to steal from the Karate Kid movie, but it’s true, “no mercy,” because I can 10000% guarantee, if given the opportunity, she will crush you and not think twice on it.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/12/23 05:24 PM
5	My wife just told me she wants to separate... after these holidays. Don't know how to react. No female just wakes up one morning and says “i want a divorce.” She’s been thinking about it for at least the last year, and her girlfriends have more than likely been encouraging her. Don’t be shocked if she’s also been having dinners with another guy, maybe a co-worker or someone she met online or an ex boyfriend. The bad news is, she’s had time to plan and is ahead of you on that front. If you haven’t already, open an individual checking account, start moving your direct deposit into the new…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/12/23 03:11 PM
3	Sex while separated, do you consider it cheating? If your separated and divorce process has already begun, no it’s not cheating. But, some females will still consider it cheating and can use that against you if a hearing is needed in your case. But when they do it, it’s perfectly fine as they need to get on with their life, double standard.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/11/23 03:50 PM
1	Help I cannot stand parents who use the children as pawns to get back at the other parent, all that will do is hurt the child in the long term. Unless the other parent is breaking laws, drug dealer, sex offender, etc … there is no excuse to keep the kids away. With my now ex, her boys would always ask her “why cant we go see dad?” And she would reply with “because he doesn’t want to see you, he only wants to see y’all once a month,” which was bullshit, because he would always ask to see them and even…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/11/23 03:56 PM
5	Help It’s probably how he’s comfortable in saying it, honestly it would suck to keep saying “my mom and stepdad,” then having to explain the divorce, it’s just easier for the child to say “my parents.” When I was married to my ex, she had 2 boys from her previous marriage, and I always encouraged them to visit the dad on visitations (he only had 2 1/2 days a month, which was usually Friday night and returning them Sunday afternoon), call him when they did something good in school, but I always did tr…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/11/23 02:24 AM
3	If Your Getting Married In The U.S Remember These 3 Things True true, guess it depends on the state. My idiot ex tried to fight it and her attorney was a bitch, but the judge basically told them to get out of his face and read before you sign.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/23 11:50 PM
2	If Your Getting Married In The U.S Remember These 3 Things Prenup!	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/23 07:35 PM
1	Update Brother, do not confront her, that is the worst thing possible at this stage. Like many others have stated, bide your time, build your case. Start moving your most prized assets out of the house. Go open a new account at a different bank and move a portion of your direct deposit into that new account. What you don’t want to happen is, you confront her, then hours later she cleans out the joint accounts and leaves you penny less until your next pay day. Because there is nothing the banks can do i…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/23 01:23 PM
3	Need advice about this. AITA? She stopped being your wife long ago. No mercy!	/r/Divorce_Men	04/06/23 04:36 AM
4	What did you do? Brother, when a female initiates a divorce, she checked out of the marriage many months prior, a wife just doesn’t wake up 1 day and go “yeah, I want a divorce,” she’s been thinking about it at the very minimum for about a year. And there is NOTHING you can do that will make her change her mind. For me, I went to the gym, reconnected with my guy friends, put my focus into my work, I did everything I could to stay busy. Even though it was me who initiated the divorce process, it still took its to…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/06/23 01:53 AM
3	Getting revenge on my SBTXW and her affair partner Unless it’s Florida or Texas, I wouldn’t be so sure on the no alimony. If she hired an attorney or even gets one pro-bono, in some cases they might be able to get some type of support. Had a family member married/divorced in California, marriage only lasted 10 months, she was able to get alimony, $1800 a month for 2 years, that ended only because she got a promotion that increased her pay significantly.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/06/23 04:16 PM
6	Has anyone’s wife come back? She tried and I told her to go fuck herself.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/06/23 06:46 PM
4	She’s moving on It sucks, and we feel for ya brother. But, sadly she isn’t thinking about you or your feelings. She stopped giving a damn about you the moment she decided to go play hide the dick with another guy. Don’t go begging her to come back, all she will do is die laughing on the inside then go have a bigger laugh with her new dude while he’s telling her to bend over. All you can do, find things to fill that void of time, and I promise you … this time next year, she’ll be a thing of the past. Remember, y…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/23 04:54 AM
3	Wife is delusional No mercy! The first chance she gets, she will crush you. Push your attorney to get the court date and get the divorced finalized.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/23 04:06 AM
6	Why did she cry? My ex never respected me in the 13 years we were married. She would yell at me in front of her kids (2 boys from her previous marriage), bad mouthed me in front of them. When my sister graduated from high school, she bitched because I was going to the ceremony! I know I stayed way longer than one should, but I genuinely cared for her and her boys. Funny thing is, a few years back, I was on the computer looking at divorce lawyers, and she saw and said “oh big man, your thinking of divorce, please…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/23 11:56 PM
1	The NET costs of Divorce No way was I letting that bitch take what I sacrificed each paycheck for almost 12 years.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/23 04:45 PM
14	The NET costs of Divorce I knew divorce was inevitable in February 2020, and then Covid hit and put a temporary halt on the divorce. I used the CARES ACT to my advantage and withdrew $95k from my 401k, then took a loan out against my 401k for $40k, both checks I gave to my sister to hold in her savings account. Fast forward to Jan 2023, divorce is finally filed, her attorney only asked me for 2 years of financial statements, so I gave him from Jan 2021-Jan 2023, her attorney tried HARD to get alimony/spousal maintenance…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/23 05:52 AM
14	Does anyone else think alimony is BS? Alimony is bullshit! I thank God I got married in Texas and divorced in Texas 13 years later. While we separated, my ex moved to San Diego for work, and filed for divorce there 😂 My attorney filed here in Tx and the case was heard here in Tx. She filed in California to try and get alimony 😂🤦🏻‍♂️ Sucks that she got $42k from my 401k, but the judge denied her request for spousal maintenance, not once, not twice, not three, but four times!! And I kept both my IRA’s and investment accounts (that she…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/05/23 01:52 AM