| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 171 | Use Tinder to work on texting girls | Mozhetbeats | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 09:13 PM | |
| 4 | Busy? Or just not into you? | Mozhetbeats | /r/seduction | 02/04/16 11:38 PM | |
| 0 | [FR] Message to the biggest AFC I've ever met (long read) | Mozhetbeats | /r/seduction | 03/12/13 11:59 PM |
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| 3 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"It wasn’t a test at all. He was being facetious. She expressed discomfort at your escalation. That never means she wants more. Use your head. Teasing does happen, but you should be able to tell if she’s just teasing from her tone of voice and facial expressions. Pay attention to how she responds to you making a move. Her bodily language and facial expression will tell you if she likes it or not. In this case, you didn’t even need to do that because she told you outright. “Awkward” isn’t a good t… | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:33 PM |
| 32 | Why do girls like being ignoredIt’s crazy to me that being actively engaged in a conversation comes off as neediness. | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | This myth is hurting your dating life (and most guys don't know about it)You will continue to have a sad sad life if you keep this mindset. It’s guaranteed. If you take responsibility and work on yourself, things will improve. It’s simple and true, but you are taking the easy route by blaming women and your genetics. Until you make that mental change, get off this subreddit. This self-pitying shit doesn’t belong here. | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 08:52 PM |
| 0 | This myth is hurting your dating life (and most guys don't know about it)Why do men who don’t get women think they know more about women than anyone else? It’s delusional. This toxic shit doesn’t belong in this subreddit. | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 04:26 PM |
| 4 | This myth is hurting your dating life (and most guys don't know about it)Armie Hammer, Chris D’elia, Jeffrey Epstein, Roman Polanski, P Diddy, R Kelly, Danny Masterson, Russel Brand…….. You gotta get off the internet bro. You’ve been sucked into a twisted alternate reality. False allegations happen, but it’s a tiny percentage of rape allegations. It’s something like 5%. Of course physical attractiveness is a factor in dating success, but I guarantee the negative feelings you have about women is having a greater impact on your success. And if you are ugly, then have s… | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Favorite responses when a girl says she had a dream about you?It turns the conversation sexual. Even if she likes you, you still gotta escalate. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Favorite responses when a girl says she had a dream about you?I prefer playful, and ask “What kind of dream?” Even if the answer is “not that kinda dream” it moves the conversation in the right direction. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 10:33 PM |
| 33 | Why do women have high physical standards when looking for a hookup but not so much when looking for a relationship?It’s definitely not universal. I’ll hook up with a less attractive girl on occasion, sometimes the vibe is right and we’re having fun, and sometimes just out of horny desperation, but I’m only trying to date straight-up babes seriously (mixed results lol). There’s definitely truth in hot guys (or girls) being harder to lock down, but also hot people often have baggage, ego problems, loyalty problems, money/career problems, etc., that a woman may not want to deal with in a relationship. I feel li… | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Does a very attractive and outstanding Asian guy make a differnece?Don’t over think it bro. You’re not trapped in anything. Of course there are beautiful Asian men that crush it with women. Just know that you’re one of them, and you’re a catch, so act like it and don’t grovel for women that would be lucky to have you. I’m not gonna say things like racism and heightism aren’t real and have an impact on dating life, but if you internalize that, it will affect your behavior and confidence negatively. You’ll miss opportunities that are right in front of you. You’ll… | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 06:46 AM |
| 59 | My coworker I liked rejected my kiss.After getting a series of soft rejections, he took her into an abandoned parking lot, recognized her closed off and uncomfortable body language, and still tried to kiss her. Bro. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Will a dick pic help me start a convo on snap?This sounds like you just want to expose yourself to women who haven’t consented and not actually to pick them up. Don’t do it. It’s creepy, and women talk. Plus, it might be illegal in Shanghai. Nobody here will be able to give you an answer on that. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 06:09 PM |
| 2 | What do I do if a client flirts with me at work in front of all my coworkers?You are personally petrified of being seen as a creep because of media. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 09:13 AM |
| 3 | What do I do if a client flirts with me at work in front of all my coworkers?I wish everyone would stop being so uptight about everything. People hardly know how to socialize anymore, and it’s making everyone anxious and distrustful. There’s a massive difference between flirting and sexual harassment, and it was well received in this case. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 01:23 AM |
| 1 | How to make a girl respect youDude, learn how to write in paragraphs. | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 01:17 AM |
| 8 | What’s something money buys that quickly increases SMV?The best case scenario is recovery in 1-2 years followed by a much faster decline than normal. The worst case scenario is hell, and it happens to a high percentage of people that get the surgery. Just accept your height and be confident in who you are. If short guys couldn’t get laid, there wouldn’t be short guys. | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 02:25 AM |
| 10 | What’s something money buys that quickly increases SMV?Wrong post. OP didn’t ask “how do you give yourself the uncanny valley look, impair your mobility, and subject yourself to excruciating pain?” | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 06:45 PM |
| 5 | What’s something money buys that quickly increases SMV?Hopefully you’re joking. Can’t pick up chicks if you can hardly walk due to debilitating pain. | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 06:43 PM |
| 12 | how do i confess my love?I’d recommend against confessing your love. That puts a lot of pressure on her. Just ask her on a date. | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 10:11 PM |
| 4 | What's your unpopular seduction opinion? Something you secretly think, but would otherwise be down voted to all hell on this subHow is that an unpopular opinion? | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 09:11 PM |
| 5 | Tucker Max Wrote a Dating Book? It's Actually...Good!That book is so obnoxious, I couldn’t finish it. The guy is such an attention-hungry tool. No way I would read a dating book written by him. | /r/seduction | 21/12/20 04:27 PM |
| 21 | Women Like Catching You Checking Them OutIm betting you don’t have a firm grasp on what constitutes sexual assault. | /r/seduction | 07/06/20 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Rejection is just soul-crushing for meWhat if you try to set a goal of intentionally getting rejected 100 times this month? Say whatever you have to to get rejected. Have fun saying ridiculous shit and make it a game. Re-wire your brain’s hardwired reaction to rejection. | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 05:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I get older women (age 30 to 40's) to take me seriously?Nothing works for everybody. I think I read it has a 53% success rate. I just started using it about a week ago, but it’s supposed to take up to a few months to start working, so I don’t know yet. Finasteride is a pill you can take. It’s supposed to have like an 80% success rate in stopping hair loss and like a 60% success rate with regrowth. My hair stylist says it’s pretty bad for your liver though. I’ve accepted that it might not work and I’m not going to cling to my hair if it doesn’t. A lot… | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 05:05 PM |
| 2 | What are the worst rejections you guys have ever had?Thank you | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 04:55 AM |
| 6 | I have a date but I lied about my ageWhy are you insulted if you pretended to be 10 years younger? That’s 100% on you. Its a pretty weird thing to do. | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 12:34 AM |
| 2 | I have a date with a tall girl and I’m nervous.Change the script in your head, man. I’m 5’7” and my ex was 6’. She wore heels all the time, so she towered over me. It made me feel like a boss. You’re the one going out with a model-looking chick. You’re the fucking man, and all the other guys are going to be jealous. | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 09:46 PM |
| 2 | 20 Small Talk Conversation Topics to Make Interactions Incredibly FUN and Engaging20 Small Talk Conversation Tips You’ve Already Heard A Thousand Times and ZERO Topics | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 09:01 PM |
| 2 | What are the worst rejections you guys have ever had?Does post lay rejection count? At Bonnaroo, I met up with a girl I previously met once. Her friends wanted to go home earlier, but I convinced her to stay till the end, then drove her back to Georgia. We laid in bed and fucked for a whole day. She said she wanted me to come visit her again, so we made plans for a month later. Month went by, and I drove down from PA, where I lived at the time. The vibe was just weird from the start, but I tried to keep a positive attitude and pressed on. I stayed… | /r/seduction | 18/03/19 05:53 AM |
| 23 | What a gay guy hitting on me taught me about seduction.This summer, I’ve been spending a lot of time with a female friend who is very attractive, and seeing all the shit she puts up with on a daily basis has really changed my perspective on approaching girls in public. Like dude, she’s studying, leave her alone. We’ve had to leave a cafe because a guy wouldn’t give it up, even though she was obviously ignoring him, and even after I said something to him. That kind of behavior only makes meeting people harder for everyone. Recognize and respect bound… | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | So, I'm a sophomore in college, is it possible for things to get better?This might sound cliche, but keep putting yourself out there, and learn from mistakes. If all you have in your mind is the end-result, you'll never get there. It definitely gets better, but you'll have to work on your don't-give-a-fuck. Learn to enjoy the ride and people will gravitate to you. | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 04:35 AM |
| -3 | What are some good out of the box responses for a girl playing hard to get?The chase is fun, bro. | /r/seduction | 20/08/17 09:38 PM |
| -2 | Makes my blood boil. This is what feminism looks like.It shows intellectual curiosity and capability at least. Post graduate degrees definitely indicate above average intelligence. And anyway, I still don't see any stats that show men are smarter on average. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/17 11:41 PM |
| 6 | Makes my blood boil. This is what feminism looks like.Do you have any statistics to support the claim that men are smarter? Women are more likely to get post-secondary degrees. I'm in law school, and we are outnumbered 40:60 by women at my school. It's incontestable that men are stronger and faster than women on average, and that's an obvious advantage in certain professions and back in hunter/gatherer times. However it's not the most important thing in our modern civilized society. Edit: Also, what exactly do you mean by normalcy? | /r/MensRights | 20/05/17 09:22 PM |
| 9 | The "We" FrameHaha this is the way to go with basically any work issue. We are a team and we're going to solve this problem together (even though you totally fucked this up and I have to save your dumb ass). | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 04:44 AM |
| 10 | 'Men work LONGER hours than women': Male employees spend 40 minutes more time in the office each day than female colleaguesI mean, technically, the hours that men work aren't longer, there's just more of them. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/16 12:58 AM |
| 1 | 'Men work LONGER hours than women': Male employees spend 40 minutes more time in the office each day than female colleagues40 (minute difference) / 480 (minutes in an 8 hour work day) = 8.33% | /r/MensRights | 28/06/16 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes I get tired...I know what you mean; my interests are pretty specific. It's hard to be active with a job and other responsibilities, but I think the best way to meet people with similar interests is to just do your thing and do what you enjoy, but do it with a social mindset. Have you tried finding a local outdoor sports club? You could also try connecting through online forums. Many have localized pages. And I wouldn't just focus on meeting women you are attracted to. Just get out there and meet people, both … | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Five years in the Game and Yes, it ALL comes down to ConfidenceYes. Just confidence. And being hot. But mostly just confidence. | /r/seduction | 24/04/16 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Busy? Or just not into you?It was a casual conversation. I'm not looking for pointers on how to ask someone to lunch, I just want to know how some other ppl react to that vibe I was talking about. | /r/seduction | 03/04/16 05:45 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Went to a club lone-wolf style...profit. | /r/seduction | 23/12/15 09:10 PM |
| 41 | I Think I May Have Found The Perfect OpenerGreat line. I'll definitely use this. There is another neg/opener that I use all the time. It is almost always available and it has never failed to start a conversation: You see a girl texting at the bar, go to the bar and order a drink (you are not there for her). Look over your shoulder and say, "Really? You are in this crowded bar, but you still have to be on your phone?" (Or, "...but you still have to be texting someone else?" try different variations). They always feel the need to explain t… | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 08:34 PM |
| 7 | Had three dates with a girl, have some questionsBe more spontaneous (or at least pretend). Have an event or restaurant or concert in mind and start a playful text conversation with her. If you can get her to say she likes sushi, say something like, "OMG there is this in-fucking-credible sushi place close by my place." Continue the conversation, and a few texts later say, "You know what, you should come with me to that sushi place tomorrow night." Or if you can make a playful bet on something, such as what a character on a tv show you both lik… | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 06:16 PM |
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