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| 0 | live your life and love will come. relationships aren’t everything. | Advice | Mozz_stix_ | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/23 05:05 PM |
| 0 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is? | Mozz_stix_ | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 04:01 AM |
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| 1 | Is the education system rigged against boys?i find that incredibly interesting, especially because in youth boys and girls are known to have extremely differently behavioral styles. although if we completely eliminate one or the other, it seems as though one of the genders fall behind | /r/MensRights | 25/08/24 01:48 PM |
| 1 | My mom's gender equality beliefs caused me lifelong struggles and damage as a boy and later as a man.i feel that’s an incredibly strong generalization. that aside, what do you believe the solution is? | /r/MensRights | 25/08/24 01:39 PM |
| 2 | My mom's gender equality beliefs caused me lifelong struggles and damage as a boy and later as a man.there isn’t, unfortunately. i had no idea you worked as an organic chemist! its unfortunate you had to stay so long in the field knowing what was happening. i’m glad you were able to identify it and get out when you could | /r/MensRights | 21/08/24 12:23 PM |
| 1 | My mom's gender equality beliefs caused me lifelong struggles and damage as a boy and later as a man.ohh that’s a good point. do you think the same could work for a single mother household? | /r/MensRights | 21/08/24 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Just a question #notallmenthe negativity towards #notallmen comes from the perspective that the hashtag seems to be in rebuttal to the fear women feel in society, rather than in support for men who are accused. while it’s possible the hashtag can be used to support those men and have no malicious intentions, many people use it to discredit the experience of women. women also feel a negative perspective towards #notallmen because of the constant fear instilled in women. while not all men are rapists and it’s rare for some… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/24 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Sincerity in modern dating is dying. Men should live for themselves.i personally believe the issue is online dating. not only is there a disproportionate amount of men on dating apps compared to women, but it’s incredibly difficult to connect over a screen. there are plenty of women out there looking for a best friend as well- ones that only talk to one guy at a time. it’s easy to get caught up in the idea that most women want to date a bunch of guys and go on expensive dates when that is what gains traction online. i agree on the living for yourself!! when you … | /r/MensRights | 21/08/24 03:48 AM |
| 0 | My mom's gender equality beliefs caused me lifelong struggles and damage as a boy and later as a man.why do you feel that men need to take charge in areas other than their own life? why do you view those women as weak? | /r/MensRights | 21/08/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | My mom's gender equality beliefs caused me lifelong struggles and damage as a boy and later as a man.i understand your perspective and whole-heartedly agree that children should not be taking medication so often- but as someone who needed medication for mental issues in their youth and was overlooked for years due to my behavior not wanting to be seen as not normal, please don’t discredit how helpful it can be for those who need it. obviously children are easily affected by medication- but those who need it NEED it. self discovery is no where close to the symptoms and effects of traumatization … | /r/MensRights | 21/08/24 03:37 AM |
| 1 | My mom's gender equality beliefs caused me lifelong struggles and damage as a boy and later as a man.do you believe a single father could raise a girl into a woman? | /r/MensRights | 21/08/24 03:33 AM |
| 1 | My mom's gender equality beliefs caused me lifelong struggles and damage as a boy and later as a man.it’s because women are conditioned to have to BE quiet. as much as there is a much better encouragement for individuality and breaking gender roles among girls- there will still always be the subtext of societal expectations. it’s just not as blatant. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/24 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Can short men ever be sexually attractive?yes. the man i’m head over heels for right now is considered below average. i love him for his personality- not his height. i still believe he is attractive wholeheartedly | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/24 07:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I leave the Black Pill?i think it’s important that black pills goal IS to make you feel this way. black pill is not made to make you feel better about yourself. it is made by insecure men who want to throw their pain around and make others insecure. so while it’s okay that you’ve fallen into this rabbit hole, remember that it doesn’t benefit you and you need to get out as soon as you can. it’ll be hard- but you can do it. i think one of the biggest comforts is that beauty is subjective. many celebrities that people wo… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/24 07:42 PM |
| 1 | 50% Divorce Rate Busted, Your chances of divorce aren't equivalent to that of a coin flip.makes sense. thank you for clearly that up! | /r/MensRights | 01/01/24 06:12 PM |
| 1 | 50% Divorce Rate Busted, Your chances of divorce aren't equivalent to that of a coin flip.i don’t think it’s right to blame men. and honestly i think it’s better if everyone is picky. i know men deal with a lot of bullshit and it’d be better to avoid the bullshit all together. same with women. i also think everyone should have the right to divorce whenever they want. it’s okay to change your mind. it’s okay to be picky. and it’s okay to not want to be married any longer- no matter what gender you are. i wish women having a high divorce rate wasn’t the focus. i wish it was “men are be… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Education loans…are you implying women about vote? | /r/MensRights | 01/01/24 05:14 PM |
| 1 | 50% Divorce Rate Busted, Your chances of divorce aren't equivalent to that of a coin flip.yet by that ideology men are the relationship holders. i don’t agree with that idea- i believe both genders have an equal amount of say and ability to provide sex and/or a relationship. but either way- a woman giving you sex shouldn’t be the reason you get married. and if you go on a dating app for sex and expect to get married from that you are in the wrong place. also aren’t dating apps historically just full of men? to my knowledge there are a lot of issues with bots and low count of women on… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/24 05:02 PM |
| 1 | 50% Divorce Rate Busted, Your chances of divorce aren't equivalent to that of a coin flip.what’s wrong with her making more than you? | /r/MensRights | 01/01/24 04:58 PM |
| 1 | live your life and love will come. relationships aren’t everything.by what? | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/08/23 02:20 AM |
| 1 | live your life and love will come. relationships aren’t everything.your issue is you’re comparing your path to others. it’s unlikely your first kiss will be at 60. you doubt yourself. you aren’t unlovable. someone will love you sooner than you think | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/08/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | live your life and love will come. relationships aren’t everything.funny, i have none of that yet i say these things. | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/08/23 01:40 PM |
| 1 | live your life and love will come. relationships aren’t everything.i don’t think this group is inherently full of hatred. it’s possible the societal rhetoric has geared my thoughts in that way. personally, i see resentment and hatred at about the same level. i think i would call it hate because of the large amount of anger geared towards women. i agree- when men speak up they are often silenced. however i think a large reason why is it’s reactionary towards women speaking up. many men do so not to actually call attention towards their specific issues- but to co… | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/23 10:08 PM |
| 1 | live your life and love will come. relationships aren’t everything.i agree- not everyone find purpose the same way. i just wish those here would realize they aren’t going to find it by hating others and hurting themselves and those around them. i wish those here could see that it is possible for everyone- it’s just not always the same path | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/23 08:32 PM |
| 0 | live your life and love will come. relationships aren’t everything.what empirical evidence? id love to hear it | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/23 08:30 PM |
| 0 | live your life and love will come. relationships aren’t everything.it really isn’t. i’m not telling you you will see your love at first sight and all will be great. obviously love is messy and attraction is too. life is rough. but putting your self worth on how much you get laid and bothering people for being happy isn’t the way to get love | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/23 08:29 PM |
| -2 | live your life and love will come. relationships aren’t everything.but he isn’t getting love- he’s getting laid. he’s getting lust. it’s not the same. if he were getting love, he’d be in a truly healthy long lasting and happy relationship. but he’s just getting one night stands. those aren’t love. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/23 08:28 PM |
| 2 | live your life and love will come. relationships aren’t everything.but is it truly a nightmare to die without families or children? your purpose isnt to pro-create. plenty of people are happy without children. and we die alone anyways- no one comes with you when you pass. i don’t see an issue with dying alone. dying with peace comes from true fulfillment in your life and being proud of what you’ve done for yourself (and if possible) the world- not from just having someone by your side. plenty of people die with people by their side- yet hated their life | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/23 08:27 PM |
| -1 | live your life and love will come. relationships aren’t everything.i’m not a leap or a troll. i am a man. i present as a man. i am treated as a man in society and day to day life. i don’t disagree that love is linked with attraction- but as per my post attraction is personal. so many people on here think that women want one kind of guy and that’s why they don’t get laid or in a relationship, but everyone’s attracted to something different. someone who is ugly to one person is attractive to another. and you can get love through friends and family. i’m pretty sur… | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/23 08:25 PM |
| -3 | live your life and love will come. relationships aren’t everything.but you haven’t even explained why one would die alone? not to mention the same goes for ANY advice on here. so approaching women wouldn’t work either. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/23 08:22 PM |
| -4 | live your life and love will come. relationships aren’t everything.did you not read the bottom of my post? i’m not a chad. i am unattractive. i am a man. there is no “attracting females” in love. love is about personality and care. not lust and physical appearances. and almost no 60 year old would be a virgin. even if they are- that’s okay. sex and love aren’t needed to live a fulfilling life. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/23 05:18 PM |
| -6 | live your life and love will come. relationships aren’t everything.no you won’t. it’s what i’ve done and i’m certainly not alone. also what’s wrong with that? we all technically die alone. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/23 05:16 PM |
| 0 | What do you guys think of the femcel phenomenon? To what extent might it hold true, in relationships not sex?i actually think timothy charlemagne is ugly myself! but maybe that’s just me. i don’t like strong jaws very much | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/08/23 02:12 AM |
| 0 | What do you guys think of the femcel phenomenon? To what extent might it hold true, in relationships not sex?i disagree. i find “chads” to look absolutely unattractive and appalling. i hate muscles. i hate sharp jawlines. and their behavior is disgusting. almost always some form of sexist, racist, or homophobic. i’m not interested in some body builder frat boy, but maybe that’s just me. i’ll stick with my twinks xx | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/08/23 01:30 AM |
| 1 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?😟 get help… | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/07/23 09:08 PM |
| 1 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?respectfully, yuck. i think you need genuine professional help. you cant change your age- and you cant become peter pan. i still don’t know what the words mean- but i have a feeling they are something very gross | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/07/23 08:31 AM |
| 0 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?Peter Pan syndrome isn’t an official diagnosis and can possibly be treated through therapy and other lifestyle changes. it is not something that justifies dating younger women and potentially damaging them. and i don’t know what chuuni means, but i don’t think i want to. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/07/23 02:21 AM |
| 0 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?the term “trans age” is a direct joke at transgender people. it is used to mock them and create a sense of idiocy of the label. it is also used to make transgender people seem “crazy” or “out of it”. it has been used a million times. one cannot identify with a different age than they are- and i’m not necessarily telling you to go with women your age. i’m telling you to not go after newly turned adults who’s frontal cortex aren’t fully developed. they are much less mature than you and are at an e… | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 08:13 PM |
| -1 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?i do not welcome transphobia and hate into this conversation, thank you. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 07:38 PM |
| -1 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?ah so i see i’m afraid you are exactly the individual i was referring to in my original post. those are young women who are not as mature as you scientifically. it is wrong to be with them. i will no longer be continuing this discussion with you- as you are not who i was looking for answers from and have your mindset rooted in borderline pedophilia | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 05:46 PM |
| 0 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?i don’t really bully anyone. i only presented it in my post because i know it’s the route many people take. i’m really here trying to gain and ground of understanding and seeing what those who are incels feel they might need and what could actually be productive. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 05:03 PM |
| 0 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?i do not think women going to university is an issue, and plenty of women go to university and get married. can you expand on why you think that would solve the problem? | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?i understand why you would want such a thing, but i don’t think one can force sexual attraction. you simply like who you like and that’s it. although i do agree that i’m sure there is someone out there for you. is the issue soley sexual, or is it also romantic based? | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 05:00 PM |
| 1 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?i’m glad that such a list isn’t harmful to others- and many of the points are excellent for your mental health and well being anyways. but i’m concerned about your seemingly set mindset that a majority of women automatically hate you? do you think you could share some experiences or reasons why you have that mindset? also i do want to say i think that the strategy of simply being respectful and only interacting with women when needed is very mature and i’m glad you and many others take such an a… | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 06:31 AM |
| 2 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?i understand, many individuals in a group mean many solutions are probably needed. i completely agree with the statement that we need to stop demonizing those who can’t get relationships, who are lonely, etc. however one thing i see commonly when it comes to hurtful behavior towards incels is not the fact that they are lonely in itself- it’s other actions executed by the individual that are frowned upon. as with any group- im sure there is a common theme of a generally disliked behavior among in… | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 06:25 AM |
| -2 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?i sympathize with those are are judged in such a way daily. i myself was bullied and ostracized for many years and know how it feels. and thank you for the explanation, it helped a lot. i understand, i can see how such a boogeyman would develop. i apologize for the generalization- it had no harmful intent. i’m not very sure how to be specific- because I’m unsure of when they would need to cope. i think i worded my question wrong. when you said that the solution is to just mind our business and l… | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 06:12 AM |
| 2 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?i would like to also add onto this as i am autistic and male presenting myself- along with having mostly male traits when it comes to personality and interactions. while i’ve ran into the same struggles ever since my very young childhood- i’ve found that those who are incapable or interacting with me due to my autism or find me off putting are simply not for me. i cant count the amount of times i’ve gotten weird looks, rejections before i’ve even said anything, been ostracized by simply talking.… | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 06:02 AM |
| 1 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?i think that’s a very good point. i know online dating can especially have a more harmful view towards individuals and be toxic in many ways. i personally don’t know anyone with such a problem, but i think it could be helpful for anyone i might interact with in the future. i also appreciate the article! i will look into it | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 05:48 AM |
| -3 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?i do genuinely appreciate your insight and the experience you shared- especially when you mentioned the fact that the biggest issue was people bullying incels before they were even incels and hating on who they were. it’s given me another perspective. however i do have to say i don’t enjoy or appreciate you calling other people sex objects and throw aways, especially if it’s only based on who they might have had sex with and how many times. i personally think it is wrong to judge a person on suc… | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 05:43 AM |
| -1 | If bullying/being crude towards incels isn’t the answer to stopping such behavior, what is?i completely get what you mean. i’ve seen a lot of younger guys fall down that path simply because they admired people like andrew tate who spread such awful misinformation and messages. hopefully soon there will be a much better role model getting popular. i completely agree and think stepping away from a community like that would help a lot. i also think such intense internet groups can be a problem on either side. sometimes i find myself getting too deep into something and realizing once i ge… | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 04:31 AM |
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