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| 9 | I'll be saying this on the feminism sub tooIf that’s so, then the solution is not to spend your time sparring with the opposite camps; but, rather to reinvest your time looking for superior paradigms elsewhere. Right ? | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Why men should aim for at least 2 womenMutual love and commitment and genuine human interdependence, from which all good things in marriage and family and community flow. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/23 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Why men should aim for at least 2 womenBecause that is playing to not_lose. Not playing to win. Fixed fortifications are a monument to the stupidity of man. ~ George S. Patton | /r/MensRights | 16/08/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why men should aim for at least 2 womenBecause paying women doesn’t get you all the benefits of marriage. And because it isn’t all about you. Also, the underlying mental framework is the problem: women and children aren’t the enemy - they’re on the same team. And like a military leader sacrifices for his troops; like a police officer puts himself in harms way to protect the public; like a firefighter goes into the fire to pull others out - it is a man’s calling to serve and sacrifice for the women and children in his life. In any cas… | /r/MensRights | 16/08/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Why men should aim for at least 2 womenI am a military strategist. Ask me. Hitting the beach at Normandy is a vulnerable position. Jumping out of an airplane and landing behind enemy lines is a vulnerable position. Wearing a police uniform at a riot is a vulnerable position. Going into a burning building is a vulnerable position | /r/MensRights | 16/08/23 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Why men should aim for at least 2 womenInteresting. We’re experiencing some miscommunication. That isn’t how I would use the word “weakness.” What you’re describing is “vulnerability.” Vulnerability =/= Weakness If weak men place themselves in vulnerable situations, things are likely to go poorly for them. If strong men place themselves in vulnerable situations, things may go very well for them. If strong men refuse to place themselves in vulnerable situations, they are cowards. If weak men - recognizing they are weak - refuse to pla… | /r/MensRights | 16/08/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Why men should aim for at least 2 womenThat’s rather circular | /r/MensRights | 16/08/23 10:02 AM |
| -3 | Why men should aim for at least 2 women(1) No. (2) Men need to man-up and not play the victim. (3) This entire line of thought is juvenile and selfish. It misses the real point, which is that marriage benefits mothers and children. If you don’t want kids, don’t get married - fine. If you want kids, get married. ^ Solved it | /r/MensRights | 15/08/23 01:47 PM |
| -2 | Why men should aim for at least 2 womenMarriage is not the enemy. Toxic women are the enemy. Weak men are the enemy. Don’t blame marriage or The State. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/23 10:34 AM |
| 3 | Gen Z Male Social ProblemsI’d encourage a fresh swing at the hobby / pursuit strategy. I’m sure you’re wiser and more interesting now than you were in your late 20s ;-) And, if not, now is a great time to get interesting !! | /r/MensRights | 14/08/23 07:09 PM |
| 18 | Gen Z Male Social ProblemsOld millennial here. Observing younger relatives, I do think this trend is hitting Gen Z harder; but it’s worth noting what you’re describing isn’t entirely new. As you move through your 20s, I’d suggest building more relationships around specific common interests and activities. In my early 20s, I had a pretty good circle of friends that did anything / everything / nothing-particularly together. But into late 20s, the norm was either (a) co-ed socializing or (b) doing a particular thing with a … | /r/MensRights | 14/08/23 01:37 PM |
| 1 | What are some good Mens role modelsAnd a fulfilling, balanced life is more important than peacocking. Be kind. Be the bigger person. Show compassion. Take responsibility. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | What are some good Mens role modelsPublic figure: Gary Vaynerchuk Private figure: a man with healthy, fruitful marriage and family life in a community near you | /r/MensRights | 29/05/23 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Be a deadbeat.I don't want to link being happy or a decent person with believing in fairy tales and a dude in the sky Me either !!!! (That's why I'm not a pagan) | /r/MensRights | 22/05/23 10:40 PM |
| 5 | Be a deadbeat.That is my understanding of the data as well. In a society where cultural identification with religion far outpaces adherence to religious teaching, we would expect the stats to be diluted significantly. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/23 10:38 PM |
| 6 | Be a deadbeat.You raise an interesting perspective that I haven't thoroughly thought through. But a few off-the-cuff reactions: If you're right, then it should persuade many people to take a more serious look at religion / Christianity / Catholicism. I'm happy to throw my support behind that. :-) I tend to think that Catholicism / Christianity / religion are effective but not exclusive paradigms for cultivating healthy marriages and families. I operate and communicate (outside explicitly religious subreddit… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/23 06:32 PM |
| 0 | Be a deadbeat.Hey-o, Decimat ! | /r/MensRights | 22/05/23 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Be a deadbeat.Thumbs up, IhazA | /r/MensRights | 22/05/23 04:46 PM |
| 45 | Be a deadbeat.That sucks But I don't think resigning ourselves to Nihilism and trying to deaden our nerves with the hedonistic opium of the masses is a winning strategy. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/23 02:52 PM |
| 73 | Be a deadbeat.raising hand Married. 3 kids. Happy, fulfilled guy here. Just want to be counted. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/23 02:48 PM |
| 16 | Tell me what masculinity means to you in one wordService | /r/MensRights | 29/04/23 11:23 PM |
| 0 | What is being a man according to you?Becoming a husband - cultivating a healthy marriage; and father - cultivating a healthy family. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/22 11:26 AM |
| -1 | What's your opinion on the conscription laws?Well. I don't feel strongly about it. But the distinction is meant to capture that identical treatment isn't intrinsically the most fair. That's why there is handicap parking and juvenile versus adult courts and so forth. If there is a relevant inherent / immutable difference between two people, then identical treatment isn't fair - or so the argument goes. (I certainly think this argument can be abused) | /r/MensRights | 17/07/22 10:36 PM |
| -13 | What's your opinion on the conscription laws?I don't want my wife and I to both be sent to war. I want to be sent to war and my wife to care for my children while I'm there. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/22 10:33 PM |
| -17 | What's your opinion on the conscription laws?I want equity, not equality. I see no reason why society should ignore that men and women are different. So I'm fine with society and the laws treating men and women differently. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/22 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Girls want Superman, but they pass Clark Kent everyday.Or do they want Lex Luthar? Or are they too preoccupied being Wonder Woman? | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 10:16 AM |
| 26 | Women and children get rescued, men are meat shieldsHypocrisy: check. Justified juvenile tirade: Nope. Man-up. No appreciation or equity required. Aka: "Women and children first- even the ungrateful ones." | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 03:35 AM |
| 85 | There should be an equivalent to “mansplaining” for womenI use "womansplaining" all the time and enjoy it thoroughly. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 01:44 AM |
| 0 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?Thank you ! | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?No - we earned almost exactly the same when we dated and got married | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?Thanks ! | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 10:41 AM |
| 2 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?"Income constellation " ? | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?Thanks for sharing. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?All right - thanks for the exchange of thoughts. I'm still a little fuzzy on where / to what extent we're agreeing but with different words ... or if were actually substantively disagreeing ... In any case, I appreciate you sharing your perspective. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?We all have weakness's and Society exists because it allows us to specialize and delegate tasks. it's an oversimplification that is no longer required in the modern era. It seems like those two statements are in conflict(?) Since my children will grow up in society and - in all likelihood marry... And since, as you say, we all have weaknesses ... And, as you also say, society (and marriage) allows us to specialize ... ... it sounds like it IS still required (or at least advantageous) to cultivat… | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?encourage them to develop their strengths while teaching them to overcome their weakness Well is the goal to make them self-sufficient individuals, without regard to gender; or to make them good future spouses and parents and members of society? If my son is less sensitive and caring than my daughter - if that is a "weakness" of his that he doesn't play with baby dolls and model behaviors he sees his mother doing - do I need to push him to overcome that ... or can I just say "Yeah , no surprise … | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 08:05 AM |
| 0 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?Why do you say arbitrary if you acknowledge correlation - doesn't that mean it isn't arbitrary? And I worry a lot about what desires and capabilites to cultivate, in my children for example: is it better to raise my boys to cultivate their masculinity and my girls to cultivate my femininity; or is it better to raise them all to ignore / avoid / resist / overcome their biological, instinctive, and cultural inclinations? And how do I determine what is "better" - either objectively or normative? An… | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?What is your favorite source (eg book) on gender roles in agricultural societies? | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?How do you two define "traditional gender roles"? | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?I would sincerely appreciate if you can point me to one or more studies - thank you ! | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 07:14 AM |
| 3 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?A female breadwinner / male supplementary earner model is the exception (primarily because of female hypergamy). Women don't marry men that make less than them. I'm not contradicting you - in fact, I think I agree with 9/10ths of your comment. Incidentally, I recently found myself living that exception when a series of unforeseen events led to my wife earning 50% more than me and my subsequent decision to step back from my career to focus on "Household MANagement." Like you said, I'm not advocat… | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?they should not be gender roles. Sincere request: can you describe why they "should not"? | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?Do you see "equality" as necessitating "sameness"; or would you consider "parity" and/or "complementarity" as legitimate forms of "equality" ? | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 07:07 AM |
| 6 | Are most here big on traditional gender roles?women were mostly homemakers ... Of course this is a very modernist 20th century version. What do you think of 'traditional' gender roles? Do you long for the 1950s or something? I would be very grateful if OP or anyone here can point me to one or more credible source(s) on what "traditional gender roles" have been across cultures and over time. It seems like some people assert that 1950's in the USA was a period that serves as the key point of reference. However, I'm inclined to think that peri… | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 07:00 AM |
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