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no you never ask that its something they would bring up...you just ask oh you have a brother, are you close? jesus
/r/seduction07/03/14 02:15 PM
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Ask her if she has any siblings...and go from there is she a middle or oldest or youngest, is her brother born w a disability etc...the family stuff is easy to get deep with right away and girls love talking about their family. And you get bonus points for seeming like a "family kind of guy" Start with siblings because it's lighter and less intrusive than saying "hows your relationship with your mom and dad" but it segue-ways nicely into mom and dad
/r/seduction06/03/14 04:05 PM
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Yeah it allows for fast and natural escalation
/r/seduction14/02/14 03:18 PM
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Yes!
/r/seduction14/02/14 03:11 AM
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I normally get the number after the bang. I try and take them home that night. If i can't then I get the number. This is playing. Don't force it if you don't want to simple as that. If they say "why do you keep touching my nose" I respond with a "because I like it" or a "Bc I want to" the first is more ambiguous. Ie she'll think does he like my nose or like touching it or both. Just carry on normal convo. And just as you pepper jokes. Pepper this.
/r/seduction14/02/14 03:10 AM
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This is not made for the first few sentences of interaction this is after you have built a opening rapport. Don't just go around bopping peoples noses. That --is-- weird
/r/seduction14/02/14 02:42 AM
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Who cares if she has an imperfection. Make fun of it then say you think it's cute
/r/seduction13/02/14 11:08 PM
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That's the point just keep going. So yore talking. About to make a joke go for the touch as you say the shitty joke that only a girl attracted to you would laugh at. If she backs away keep talking,,,so do you have any siblings (awe he's soo sensitive and caring) then crack some joke about her being the first/second/fourth borne and go for the touch again. She'll back away but be faster this time. Don't punch... tap. And this time if you hit it say hahaha got it and then jump right back into what…
/r/seduction13/02/14 12:02 PM
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Truth
/r/seduction13/02/14 11:56 AM
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High status is right I used to be the same. Low se chicks are easy and you "attract them" because you subtle for them fast. Y afraid to put yourself out there for the higher status women. Why Bc your low se too. And that comment you made after his saying you attract what you are proves it Don't be ashamed of where you are face facts and build.
/r/seduction13/02/14 11:56 AM
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Disagree with all three I'll start from the bottom just like where this article belongs Emoticons are for girls. Only use them if youre being a total jackass and need to lighten the tone a little. (Girls use emotis, are you a girl or a guy?) Try to be funny??? No your not text dating your texting to get something done. That thing is meeting in person that's your goal and that's all you text for. If you want to have a text dating go a head girls are always looking for dudes who will go back and f…
/r/seduction13/02/14 11:51 AM
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What's your life situation? How old are you? How many chick have you scored? Do you care about the last question? Did you lie to that answer even over the internet where no one knows you? What's your job? What's your plan in the next few months relationship wise? Don you want to fuck and chuck or find a gf? What was your relationship w you're mom and dad and do you have siblings? If so are you the middle or youngest? Answer those I'll give you my advise. Not saying I'm a genius. But I did neuros…
/r/seduction13/02/14 11:38 AM
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When an American chick says that's so random it's her way if expressing disinterest. Plain and simple. You have one option at that point and that is to blow her out and say something like "no it's not". Or "wow you life's pretty interesting then". Remember. She just shit all over you by saying "ohhhh wooowwwmthat soo random" aka " wow I don't give a shit what you're talking about but I'm trying not to be mean". Frankly it's probably your delivery. Go up to her and say hey nice shoes wanna fuck a…
/r/seduction13/02/14 11:31 AM
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Also. Make sure to keep verbal count as you do it. Not with numbers every time." Oh that's number four". " ahh another one ". " ah a few more and that will be ten" etc. never give the number you're on just play
/r/seduction13/02/14 11:25 AM
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read: Models by:Mark Manson you need to step out of the box, and this book, an easy read will help Look you told her you think she has a nice smile, that means you are putting yourself out there, that's whats important. Now run with it, be "out there" be available to get hurt, that's what women like
/r/seduction12/05/13 06:09 PM
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straight up: I talked to my doctor a while ago, the vaccine has only been in "the wild" for 2 decades for men...not worth the risk of side effects. You're better off treating the actual infection then getting a non multi-generational tested and studied vaccine. enjoy that pill boys
/r/TheRedPill28/04/13 03:35 AM
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Red pill is going to become seddit, categorizing everything and giving others "status" was the catalyst , now its the same cycle of shit on here too. Different shit but same cycle. RP is rooted in simply guys not subscribing nor giving a fuck, now we're slowly creating a self validating loop..
/r/TheRedPill24/04/13 12:02 AM
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Maybe she was looking to see if you were still STARRING at her the entire day. This one may be a hard one to swallow but you probably scared her- that's why she went to that group of other guys, for protection. If you looked at here more than 2x before approaching and more than 1x after she blew you off, you were staring at her "all day" in her mind. Or shes's shit testing you. Next time start flirting with other girls in her presence. Invite some hot girl from a bar to go climbing with you when…
/r/seduction17/04/13 09:46 PM
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this is a good jam
/r/seduction17/04/13 08:37 PM
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"hey come back here, wait for her to walk back these are my friends: Jim and Dave, we were just saying goodbye, later guys" and walk a different (not opposite) direction, "so where you headed?"
/r/seduction17/04/13 08:09 PM
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Just stop trying. You must be a funny person because sarcasm requires wit- you need to re-channel that now. Start making fun of yourself not her. I do it all the time. Monday night, I was at a bar talking to a attractive girl, she had on some leather jacket with little rounded studs allover the shoulders and lapel. After about 10 minutes of talking I said something along the lines of "you'r really intimidating me right now...with that leather jacket and those studs, I feel like a big dork next t…
/r/seduction17/04/13 08:04 PM
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None, by the time she's in my room she knows what we're there for, I like it silent so all we hear is the other person.
/r/seduction17/04/13 07:54 PM
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Don't cancel the date. How old are you and she? so we can give some age related advice Just be light on the lips when you kiss, i personally like to use my upper teeth and bottom lip to grab their bottom lips and i like to take my tongue and swirl it on the back of their upper front teeth. (chicks love that for some reason). I also like to grab their neck (firmly, but soft) while is kiss them because I'm 6'3'' and I like to be dominate and most girls with me want to be submissive. When you feel …
/r/seduction17/04/13 07:50 PM
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Stop kissing her on the dance floor. You only kiss a girl if you're pretty sure she wants to bang you. Simple as that. if she goes in for a kiss just smile and tease her a little, if she seems like she is going to eject after a while because she's a attention whore and wants to get her's that night, then you kiss her but on your terms. Take your hand grab her chin, and bring your mouth close to hers, pause, smile, sit there and take a few breaths, then take that hand and bring her chin towards y…
/r/seduction17/04/13 03:59 PM
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As everyone else has said you need to be more outcome independent. My advice, if you just cant shake it: start climbing the ladder. It's an old technique that works- but it is more of a band-aid on the problem than anything else. Basically you start talking to chicks you are comfortable with and slowly discard the uglier ones as you start to talk to/bang hotter ones. As you get hotter and hotter ones you become more comfortable. The problem is you still are assigning WAY too much value to looks …
/r/seduction17/04/13 03:45 PM
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J. Geils Band - Full House - Live 1 First I Look At The Purse - Song about only want rich women, don't care what they look like they just better have money 2 Homework - Can't be that good boyfriend you want, cant do the shit you want, i just want the fucking 3 Pack Fair And Square - I'm a single man don't try and make me different 4 Whammer Jammer - who the fuck know this song is awesome thought probably the best. 5 Hard Drivin' Man 6 Serves You Right To Suffer 7 Cruisin' For A Love 8 Looking Fo…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/13 02:10 PM
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Not surprised. A buddy of mine in college was slamming some girl for 6 months and she had a boyfriend. He knew and she knew he knew, the bf would take her to dinner and then shed call my buddy and fuck him that night. She was a 7 at best. I'm not going to degrade you or your pick up skill at all but i'm curious what in your hones opinion was the girl? was she a smoke show or fuckable. I've found that the dime pieces tend not to behave like this because they know at the drop of a hat they can get…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 12:25 AM
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Yeah I am living in Prague, and each interaction is different. It all depends on the girl. Not all czechs are the same, but the over all premise of me not talking much works wonders, it makes them comfortable to know I'm comfortable with just relaxing and silence.
/r/seduction23/03/13 06:24 PM
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my advice, be different. In highschool it was cool to fit in, in college it's cool to stand out as much as you can in a flamboyant way. (not gay, but kind-of). Just make moves on EVERYONE! any girl that shows interest try and lay. College is just a fuck fest, and anyone who says different screwed up. Also, a big thing in college is to just not care. Don't care, don't worry what her friends think, don't worry what the bros across the hall think, get a core group of bros that can wing you and you …
/r/seduction23/03/13 06:04 PM
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because seditt has become a dump. Full of people who get with fat american girls and think they have game because of it
/r/seduction23/03/13 04:06 AM
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well boohoo go smoke some more weed mr 420 and keep staring at you iphone, If you want to "better yourself" head over to r/selfimprovement I'm trying to get you laid.
/r/seduction23/03/13 04:05 AM
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Its not what you say but how you say it. true, I don't feel comfortable doing that so i avoid it.
/r/seduction22/03/13 07:17 PM
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True. Maybe in Miami it doesn't work. I'm not advocating spin every chick you meet, I'm say just shut up and relax. By all means read the situation, some chicks you can tell it will work on and some not, again, my point is the whole shutting up thing
/r/seduction22/03/13 07:09 PM
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yeah I used to do that, Im not hating, but I never had THAT much success with the thumb etc... If you are then good for you keep it rocking. To me it just put me in a show monkey frame I cant shake. Shit two or three weeks ago I was talking to a girl and her friend and was equally attracted to both and both to me, and some guy came and introduced himself and tried to do the thumb wrestle and it flopped. The girl told him she didnt want to and it made him look like a chump, not to say I put a lit…
/r/seduction22/03/13 04:15 PM
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yeah, just chilling out is the best game. If something in conversation comes up that I am very opinionated about or feel strong about I don't hold back I say what I want and feel. But never am I just talking to just talk, it's to either say something or express how much I want to fuck her. Not in such a lunkhead way tho.
/r/seduction22/03/13 04:12 PM
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naw, its all good to do this, just start walking in the door as you say it
/r/seduction22/03/13 04:09 PM
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I live in Prague. Are you coming to Czech Republic? I say that because only the Czechs call themselves central euros. Just relax, I have this happen to me all the time, just chill out drink your drink smoke your smoke and chime in when you can. Don't pester her to translate everything, if she offers by all means take part. I speak a few lines of czech and all the girls think it's cute and I'm done winning them over, then I can go back to not talking to boring people. There will be one or two (mo…
/r/seduction21/03/13 04:06 PM
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Staged, they do this shit at games all the time
/r/TheRedPill13/03/13 12:03 AM
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I'll agree, depending on the situation. If you're in a hipster city like San Francisco or Seattle, LA, etc. there are much more venues where you can dress like a scrub and still pull hot ass, (even "high-end" clubs you can get away with a "cool" tee). Each city however has a few upscale places, this is where you're going to find all the smoke shows. To even be considered, you need to dress fly because these girls come to up scale venues to find upscale men. Cities like London, Chicago, Miami, an…
/r/seduction10/03/13 04:58 PM
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Yeah stay at home, and when you say, "lets get out of here" just explain to the chick the deal and grab a motel or see if she offer to go back to hers. Find a nice cheap hotel/motel in the area that's got a non-creepy vibe.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/13 07:04 PM
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You have to show him. Start getting girls numbers, and makeout/lays in front of his eyes. He'll come to you asking you how you do it. It's the only way. It's that whole lead a horse to water thing....
/r/seduction18/02/13 07:23 PM
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They will fight it, kicking and screaming because you are telling them their method of interpreting the world and living life is wrong. Unless they are looking to change because of an event in life or a realization OF THEIR OWN. You cannot jam the pill down, only offer it, show you have it.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/13 02:47 PM
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down vote me then. I'm putting this up there to show how one person got it done. I wa surpised my self at the level of confedence i had but like i said its from thise stern vids. He just talks wirh no filter. Google julia roberts howardstern its sometime in the 90s he treats her like he treats everyone else and it blew my mind. If you got anything from it then good that's why I put it up. On my phone so sorry bout typos
/r/seduction08/02/13 10:43 PM
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some of the most insightful post i've read on reddit
/r/TheRedPill31/01/13 02:24 AM
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Yeah, that works for a logical situation....how many women do you know are logical? stick with the aloof good-timer and see how well that life is....sure around work life and personal life think logically stash your gold in your pouch, and make smart decisions. Around women, the emotional creatures, just have fun and don't hold anything against them. It's not her fault shes biologically wired her way and you are yours....you're lucky enough to be the one of the species that can recognize that...…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/13 10:03 PM
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I don't though--and I try not to make myself aware of the "harsh" realities. I am more focused on the opportunities that have opened and the new experiences I'll now be able to have--that's a major problem I've noticed with us as a community, we are like-minded people, and we tend to live in the past. That's why many of us are not naturals, we over-analyze past.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/13 03:02 PM
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Get over it! It will ruin your game, your relationships, and make you a biter person. Trust me I've gone through it. I grew up with friends who still don't get it (and some have just given up), a mother who told me to always be nice to women, a feminist (not grass eating hippie, rather the lawyer) and I was fat until my senior year in high school (18yro) so I was clueless going into college. I didn't swallow the pill until I was 20-21. And I was biter about it when I got home from college and pe…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/13 12:53 PM
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You know you should talk about what you are passionate about too. She doesn't want some herb telling her how cool everything she like is and does is. Ask her why she likes it and talk about other things too. Stop focusing so narrowly As for Ideas, tell her a story of something that happened to you lately. If you dont have one, get off reddit and go do something about it
/r/seduction12/01/13 04:54 PM
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It's not it's the opposite. If you're not funny don't neg because you'll sound crass and like an asshole or just robotic
/r/seduction12/01/13 04:49 PM
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Should you use negs guide: Keep score: How tall are you? 6'2" and above 1 5'8"-6'1" 2 5'7" and below 3 How good looking are you? 10's check you out (don't confuse this with them looking at you in disgust as you stare at them like a hungry dog stares at a steak on the counter) 0 6's and 7's keep eye contact with you as you walk by and 8's and 9's look you in the eye and check you out 1 Fat chicks check you out 2 The bum on the subways won't even look at you 3 how funny are you I make my family la…
/r/seduction12/01/13 02:48 PM
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The point being, even back in the day these men were telling us how pathetic it is when a guy spends 1/2 his pay and drools over "some doll" Joe, Mark, and all the other names they use are derogatory terms for a guy who's used as bait by others in a pickpocket, extortion or other traps. And "some doll" is used as "it's just some girl, as in there are plenty of others" Notice they do it with such class and style. That's how a natural or a good pua does it, they don't outright demean nor are rude …
/r/seduction12/01/13 02:30 PM
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Swing by and introduce yourself. Go knock on her door some time between 4-9pm and say hi. Ask her where she's from, if she's not from there say you have a busy schedule, but when you guys can, go grab a drink and offer to show her around If she is from there, say you have a busy schedule, but when you guys can, go grab a drink and offer to show her around :) YOU: Hey I saw you moving in the other day, and I've been meaning to come introduce myself, I'm just really busy with work and school... Re…
/r/seduction11/01/13 01:20 AM
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You live in London, go to a pub, preferably where you know the bartenders/staff or some friends might be there, grab a drink with her, If your friends are there introduce, and then pull her to a table close but not with your friends, unless they are fun and life of the party. Then go walk around the city. Google for shit going on in london, I heard it's a small city and not much happens in the music/nightlife scene there
/r/seduction11/01/13 01:14 AM
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How old are you? Serious question, if you want better suggestions tell us how old you are so we have an idea of what's available to you. Also, there is the tried and true time tested answer. What do you Macguyvar like to do? then ask her to join. I dont care if it's play video games, ask her if she wants to grab some wine and play video games with you. (keep that for date 2 or 3 tho)
/r/seduction11/01/13 01:09 AM
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He means don't have sms conversations. Either call and set up a date or use the sms to set up a date. ME: Hey, How was _____? Want to grab a drink tomorrow evening? HER: It was cool. :))))) what time? ME: 8:00 at place, see you there :) ~OR~ ME: I was walking through the park and saw some pretty flowers, thought about you :) want dress nice for me and grab a drink tomorrow night? HER: AWWWWW :))))))) yeah what time?
/r/seduction11/01/13 01:07 AM
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I can attest to OP. I don't want to sound like a prick. But I was fat growing up, and built up a good rapport of sarcasm, jokes, wit, and quips that I easy transferred over into game later in life. It worked well and still does depending on the girl. But I've come to a completely different conclusion somewhat lately. I am 6'3" athletic build, tan, and attractive face, arm, and body. Genes played a great part but I hit the gym and do sports. The older I get, I'm 26 now, I've notice that the more …
/r/seduction11/01/13 01:00 AM
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This will get lost and down-voted but I hope you read this. She was waiting for you to make a move and fuck her, you failed, you looked weak and timid in her eyes. Downvote me all you want but here's why: She's already signaled you MULTIPLE TIMES that she is fast and wants sex. So that whole date was her waiting for you to make a move. And when she decided to go to your place at the gas station, that means she decided shed have sex with you, plain and simple But you, high and mighty and big stoi…
/r/seduction11/01/13 12:44 AM
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Just don't try and fix her. Plain and simple. I've dated a girl with issues like this before, they will try and trap you in to trying to fix them. Don't do it, you'll get emotionally involved and will get hurt. But that said, she sounds hot and a great screw so have fun and wrap it up. Crazy chicks like this are usually great in the sack.
/r/seduction07/01/13 04:54 AM
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exactly
/r/seduction25/12/12 03:41 PM
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1) just be natural, like I said dance with your friends or by yourself in the crowd before to loosen your body up. I hate, HATE, HATE using "alpha" because I don't want you to think it means walking up with a puffed-up chest or some slick smooth glide, just be natural and do what ever feels comfortable, (think James bond if you really need a reference) 2) yeah a nice slow controlled spin 3)yeah if i get the number after I feel needy if i get it before, shes getting a kiss because she was a good …
/r/seduction25/12/12 03:40 PM
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You don't ask at electro shows. I go to tons and some of the most beautiful women I've hooked up with were from electronic shows. At loud shows it's all body language. THIS IS PRIMAL FLIRTING AT THE MOST RAW HUMAN NATURE. But don't fret, it's way better than the club because girls are in a much better mood and want someone to dance with generally. And there are generally a few thousand to choose from. To get the hottest girls, dance near the sides and back of the crowd, generally the better look…
/r/seduction24/12/12 03:11 PM
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I've been through this countless times. You'll snap out, and a good way to do it is go for both of them. Set up some dates with each different night, or if you really don't give a shit and want to snap out of it big time, bring them both out together. They work together and know each-other are they friendly? because they both know you'll be gone soon so neither is looking for long term with you. But before I break off into the fantasy of 3-way land back to your original newly acquired vag-gin-it…
/r/seduction17/12/12 11:52 PM
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If you're going to act like a man, expect to be treated like one
/r/seduction13/11/12 04:08 PM
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youre from sf bay area, Im sorry for you. I grew up there. the girls there DISGUST me. they all think they are 9's but in reality are 4's not to mention all stupid as bricks. dont get me wrong there are a few gems and when I come home to visit i meet them along with thir cock-blocking ugly friends, and remember why I moved out of there. The bay area sucks, bro no offense, it blows ass, move to Denver, or LA or better yet do what i did and move tto Europe.
/r/seduction20/10/12 03:13 AM
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Not trying to sound like a hater and props to the guy going out there and getting his. JEEEEESS COME BACK!!! PLEASE (could you hear the whinny needy tone in that voice??made me cringe) A drunk Auzzie girl kissing a random attractive guy?? I've never seen one of those before. /s Move along here people, not much to learn. Probably led to a few needy sms's and a "stop talking to me I was drunk" txt. Girls who do that will not sleep with you, and most likely not want to see you ever again. It's esca…
/r/seduction19/10/12 01:44 PM
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Yeah man, I dated a girl for 2 years because the first night we met I picked her up and held her in front of a pair of sprinklers going off at 2 in the morning and got her soaking and me pretty wet. (she was kicking and screaming at first saying I would never) She dropped her wallet and I looked through the field for it, getting soaked while she watched. (this was college) We went back to my place and shagged like primal animals for the next 2 years. She was a 9.5 too. My point, we didn't go cli…
/r/seduction19/10/12 01:17 PM
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You waited too long, four weeks???? Think about this, to her you have been sitting there staring at her number for 4 weeks. That is Creepy as shit. And not to break your spirits or any thing but, "call me we'll sort this out" is what I say to my girlfriend of 3 years after a big blow up, or to my portfolio manager when I here googles stock it hitting the tank and it's frozen. Go into class sit next to her, say, "Hey, I'm sorry if I was creeping you out [smile and make a little laugh], I forgot I…
/r/seduction19/10/12 01:09 PM
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I noticed one thing, and I also have a few suggestions. First I noticed this: (you said) """ I leave a simple message saying, "hey (name) its that_electric_feel.. I just got back from the gym, had some free time and decided to give you a shout. So yeah, when you get this, gimme a ring back. Take care.""" Why are you telling them you just got back from the gym? Do you think she cares? she is not thinking "WOW this guy works out thats sexy" she is thinking, "why is he trying to prove himself to me…
/r/seduction19/10/12 12:57 PM
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TL;DR- skip to number 4. I struggled with this for a ~2 year span; and did a lot of research on it asking many friends and acquaintances who were/are going through similar situations what they think the cause of this behavior stemmed from and what activates it, how they feel physically and emotionally etc. when they get these feeling of boredom with others. The long and short of it is, it's you. And worse off you now have this mindset that is self perpetuating. But it's all good because it's onl…
/r/seduction19/10/12 12:32 PM
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that is amazing, that just shows what balls gets you
/r/seduction19/09/12 12:29 AM
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What state/city? Try day game in the city and invite them to come to the bars in your area; they are somewhat "pot committed" at that point. "Throw a party" at your place, get people comfortable with getting out there. Not to hate but I left the burbs because that was a big reason. The burbs are a place to raise a family, IMO, not to meet (single) people.
/r/seduction19/06/12 10:32 PM
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You were quiet and strong eyed at the work shop. keep that vibe, just tone it a bit more communicative now that you are alone together. Think about the chemistry between George Cloney and Julia Roberts in Oceans 11, how did George talk and act around her? Slow speech, somewhat raspy, but ALWAYS said what he wanted to say with no hesitation- even when expressing his desires for her. To not sound needy it's all about how you say not what, the tone of your voice- where you make inflections and into…
/r/seduction16/12/11 11:43 AM
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I like it, thanks
/r/seduction25/12/10 12:22 AM
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Great article. I completely agree. But remember, the online seduction community gives the "canned lines" to (in the end result) give confidence to the afc. This confidence should be expressed in the body language by the time things start to click and the confidence and BL should come naturally. That said the article holds true, many people including my self over look(ed) this aspect.
/r/seduction16/12/09 09:30 AM
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