MrAlterior Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	How to handle the "You are at home all the time/You aren't even going out,are you ? " types of tests Alternatively, be a fucking boss and own that shit. look into her eyes and smirk "I'm fantastic fucking company. Why wouldn't I hang out with myself?"	/r/seduction	19/09/12 08:17 PM
3	How to handle the "You are at home all the time/You aren't even going out,are you ? " types of tests Yeah I have low self esteem I think it is mainly due to childhood problems Okay. and I can't do much about that can I. Actually, you can. I used to have low self-esteem, with the help of a therapist I worked through those issues and gained some new mindsets. Do you NEED therapy? That's for you to decide tbh. Can you make the change without it? Can you find the tools to change without it? Your life, your path, your consequences, your decision. Actually many of those issues had something to do wit…	/r/seduction	19/09/12 08:08 PM
7	ADVICE PLEASE! - Extreme one-itis that is ruining my life There are three things you need to come to terms with: You do not want to be her friend. You want to be her boyfriend. She does not want to be your girlfriend. Actions: Cut her from your life. You are being a chump. That's about you, not about her. She's slinging all sorts of ASDs at you as you're her friend and she needs to save face or someshit, I don't know, I don't get it, whatever. Point is, you're taking it as reason to get emotionally reinvested. Chump move. <3 Go be a fucking boss with y…	/r/seduction	19/09/12 07:53 PM
10	This is why you should say hi. Incredible short film. It means it couldn't possibly be any better than the misery that they know already. Pessimism isn't about believing that things are the worst they could be. It's about expecting negative outcomes. Perspective dictates expectations, which in turn effect happiness. Pessimism is in my opinion a defense mechanism. You see, when you expect negative things, you can't be any more miserable after things go bad, as that's what you were expecting all along. You avoid disappointment and resentment, the cos…	/r/seduction	13/09/12 12:17 PM
4	This is why you should say hi. Incredible short film. Perspective yo.	/r/seduction	13/09/12 06:00 AM
56	This is why you should say hi. Incredible short film. The optimist claims we live in the best of all possible worlds; the pessimist fears it to be true.	/r/seduction	13/09/12 12:57 AM
11	Hey seddit I've got a question that's not in the FAQ, kind of weird one. I will probably end up in the friendzone either way. Dump this attitude or you've already failed.	/r/seduction	08/09/12 05:22 AM
1	What the fuck do you guys talk about? FYI, sharks, particularly the big ones, eat at the surface. I'd rather be deep under.	/r/seduction	08/09/12 05:06 AM
40	Random Acts of Kindness Spending money on others is scientifically proven to increase individual happiness on the part of the spender.	/r/seduction	31/08/12 11:32 AM
3	Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test. Being rejected. Part of this deal. It isn't a big one. Feeling unattractive You need to fix that. feeling like I'm some immature boy You are acting that way. xP She's just one chick. Be her friend, or don't, it'll be okay. who women don't find interesting or lovable. Some random chick you picked up and dated one time doesn't want to fuck anymore and now you're uninteresting and unlovable... Self esteem needs some work. A no to sex isn't a reflection on your character. It's just a no to sex. It's…	/r/seduction	22/08/12 01:51 AM
4	Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test. Which part is frustrating? Not being able to bang the girl you don't find attractive physically? Be her friend. Date other chicks, stop over thinking. You'll be fine.	/r/seduction	22/08/12 01:42 AM
2	Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test. What the hell? You don't decide you want an LTR on a first date. Relax, have some fun. Get to know people.	/r/seduction	22/08/12 01:02 AM
6	Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test. Fake it at first. Pretend it's not creepy. Do the action with your best pretend face. Pay attention to how it goes. You'll soon realize many chicks are open to random interaction with confident strangers. Seriously, as long as you're human sounding and confident, you can talk to pretty much anyone. Not everyone is all that fun to talk to though, so go figure out who is fun. If you fuck it up, meh, you'll never see her again, no big deal. That thing you're imagining about chicks just not liking t…	/r/seduction	22/08/12 12:13 AM
2	Decided to get over AA. This is how it went Oh my fuck...	/r/seduction	18/08/12 12:07 AM
3	Decided to get over AA. This is how it went Look guys, there's nothing wrong with hitting on a girl you've never met and the result being that she seriously reconsiders her current relationship. That's what being successful at this shit is about. Deal with it. <3	/r/seduction	17/08/12 07:20 AM
38	Decided to get over AA. This is how it went He's a confident imbecile with a fantastically gargantuan chiseled body, who knocks straight to his point without ever missing a beat. We can all learn something from the way he opens. That's where the lesson should stop. Ever watched Johnny Bravo? He's abysmal at closing time.	/r/seduction	17/08/12 07:14 AM
2	(Playboy.com) How to tell if she is going to cheat. That's nice dear.	/r/seduction	10/08/12 11:40 PM
0	Daygame, after the opener It doesn't matter. You could say some fucked up nonsense shit like "God, I'm so happy it's not raining gremlins today! Isn't it great?!?" :D Say whatever you think is fun to say. Talk about shit that interests you. Have fun. Be awesome.	/r/seduction	10/08/12 11:37 PM
1	[FR] Younger girl (HB 9.5), I like her a lot, but she might be playing me? Oh yea, guys spamming her Facebook pictures with compliments, surely she must not be a virgin. xD Do you hear yourself? Food for thought: Could your friend be lying to you? To make you lose interest in her? You think you know your friends man.. but when it comes to a pretty lady showing some interest in you... Is he positive and encouraging about the whole thing the way a friend would be? Or is he just full of the negative crap like this? He might be jealous man.	/r/seduction	10/08/12 04:15 AM
1	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit I like short stories, I've written a few myself. :D	/r/seduction	09/08/12 05:51 AM
1	So I opened a girl on the train today... and didn't follow up. I feel terrible. It goes with the rest of my pretty face.	/r/seduction	09/08/12 05:50 AM
1	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit Ahh right, most of my conversational topics come from stuff I care about. i.e. I give many fucks about thinking ability. She was holding a book and she knew it was a heavy one, so there was some indication that she reads a bit there. If she'd said something like "I don't really like [the book], but it's better than doing nothing." I'd have skipped straight to something like "What, you leave your iPod at home today or something?" Which sounds like a closed question, but it's actually only just op…	/r/seduction	09/08/12 03:01 AM
1	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit I am in NZ, Auckland though. Sorry bro. <3	/r/seduction	09/08/12 02:47 AM
4	Long Story: I fucked a cheerleader from my university last night (solid 9 or 10) Here's my advice to Seddit, looking for some follow-up advice myself too not getting laid often leads to premature ejaculation. Bullshit. :D	/r/seduction	08/08/12 10:05 PM
-9	So I opened a girl on the train today... and didn't follow up. I feel terrible. My friend, with all due respect. I assure you, having a man break my shoulder so that he could hold me down to put several tears in my sphincter. All while assuring me, almost as an order, that I LIKED the searing waves of agony and invasion I was experiencing in my asshole and my shoulder for the longest few minutes of my life. That wasn't the funniest experience I've had. Nor was the combo of blood and the semen of a stranger running down my leg and sitting in my underwear to turn into a dried…	/r/seduction	08/08/12 09:53 PM
8	So I opened a girl on the train today... and didn't follow up. I feel terrible. Pro tip: Don't actually do this. Did it when I was 5, led to an awkward conversation about "appropriate places to take out my weewee."	/r/seduction	08/08/12 09:12 PM
1	So I opened a girl on the train today... and didn't follow up. I feel terrible. Good shit man! Said something despite fear! Fuck that stuff, it'll only hold you back. You're in no worse a position than if you'd said nothing. You did good. You tripped at the next hurdle, but that's okay. Think about why you froze up, work on that for next time. What were you scared of? Freaked out that you could actually have carried on this conversation?	/r/seduction	08/08/12 09:08 PM
1	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit Nothing pulls up votes around here like a good FR.	/r/seduction	08/08/12 08:59 PM
1	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit Yea someone else pointed that double out, wasn't sure where I'd asked when I was writing it, damn imperfect memory. Fixed it. :D	/r/seduction	08/08/12 08:03 PM
1	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit I didn't, my memory of the conversation isn't perfect. :D I wasn't sure where I asked. edit: aaand fixed.	/r/seduction	08/08/12 08:00 PM
1	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit Cool, cool.	/r/seduction	08/08/12 04:29 PM
5	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit Nothing gets a guy laid like that "I know way too much already" vibe. Amirite? ;D	/r/seduction	08/08/12 04:17 PM
5	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit Yea my mom isn't real tech savy, she doesn't get that catching a fresh cab with dice in the mirror to stay with her rich relatives doesn't keep me away from people up to no good makin trouble on the internet. Trying to illustrate my point here. You feel me?	/r/seduction	08/08/12 04:15 PM
2	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit I'm not so into it. It's such an easy game, little challenge in it. Plus, people start to want to fight about it, which freaks my mom out.	/r/seduction	08/08/12 03:15 PM
5	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit She in New Zealand?	/r/seduction	08/08/12 03:09 PM
3	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit Ahh yea, the 6 degrees of separation stuff is awesome! :D	/r/seduction	08/08/12 01:56 PM
1	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit A movie?!? Not even. That's what talking to girls is like on the bus.	/r/seduction	08/08/12 01:46 PM
3	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit Why you worried if you're not her boyfriend? Bit of oneitis going on my friend? :D	/r/seduction	08/08/12 01:38 PM
6	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit It wasn't even setup though! :D I didn't go into this going "okay, I'm going to ask her if she wants to walk on the beach some time." I just went "lets talk to her, see might be cool." Natural opportunity always presents itself sooner or later while you're getting to know a girl, the trick is not to push for it. Sit back, relax, let it come to you. Like catching fish! :D The opportunity to strike always comes sooner or later, for me anyway.	/r/seduction	08/08/12 01:32 PM
22	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit It sends a different interpersonal message is all. She's not going to have trouble explaining to boyfriend that the new guy on Facebook is some guy she had an interesting conversation with on the bus, vs, the guy texting/calling her is a guy she met on the bus - she might get some grief for that. Phone number from stranger = potential sexual suitor, Facebook = new acquaintance with friendship potential. The facts of the matter could be completely different to these, that's just the social messag…	/r/seduction	08/08/12 01:30 PM
6	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit I did ask her out. :) She said she couldn't because she has a boyfriend. Ignoring that is disrespecting her personal boundaries and akin to sexual harassment. I'm going to be her friend. She seems like the kinda girl who has cute friends. ;D	/r/seduction	08/08/12 01:00 PM
9	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit High five.	/r/seduction	08/08/12 12:51 PM
6	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit My stories never belaire. I do have other stories on here. They're not FR's though.	/r/seduction	08/08/12 12:50 PM
81	A Quote Important To All Of Seddit True story. FR follows. tl;dr - nutted up, made a hot friend who's interested but unavailable. I had a boring coffee date today - I need intellectual girls man, left me feeling pretty meh. Saw a cute girl standing at the bus stop while I was on my way home, she got on my bus and pulled out a thick looking book. My interest was piqued. I thought "I bet she'd be interesting to talk to" and then asked myself "so why not talk to her?" I contemplated this idea for far too long, stomach tying itself i…	/r/seduction	08/08/12 05:47 AM
4	7 things I discovered from Abercrombie & Fitch Sir, I do not believe you have ever been sexually harassed. You sound like one of those people that's never missed a meal going "Yea five days without food wouldn't be that bad." It sucks. It's deeply uncomfortable. Trust me.	/r/seduction	07/08/12 07:54 PM
3	What are some simple, fun games you like to play with girls? I was somewhat inebriated at the time I made that post. It appears I either misread the question or pressed reply on a different comment than the one intended. :D lolwat indeed.	/r/seduction	07/08/12 07:51 PM
8	7 things I discovered from Abercrombie & Fitch Actual genuine sexual harassment. You cannot fathom how it feels. It just makes you want to shower right the fuck now.	/r/seduction	07/08/12 01:42 PM
13	7 things I discovered from Abercrombie & Fitch grunts Touch good.	/r/seduction	07/08/12 01:37 PM
34	my "drug test" routine I'd smile, say "Well we know what's going on with you then don't we?" aaand you're good.	/r/seduction	06/08/12 05:08 AM
4	daygame materials I recommend you stop being a bitch and start doing it. How good are you at interacting with people? Does smiling at strange people make you uncomfortable? Does saying hi to random people make you uncomfortable? Does having conversations with random people make you uncomfortable? Does touching people during these random conversations make you uncomfortable? Does suggesting to random people you should hang out later make you uncomfortable? Find out where your discomfort is, get comfortable with it…	/r/seduction	06/08/12 02:45 AM
-6	What are some simple, fun games you like to play with girls? Dude, come on. It could be bullshit and you shouldn't care, because the idea is that you get to run your fingers up a girl's arm while her eyes are closed (this is going to give her dirty thoughts, unless you're shit at touching or out anyway) on the basis that some nerves might be a little weird.	/r/seduction	06/08/12 02:02 AM
2	What are some simple, fun games you like to play with girls? Raw strength game, no fair yo.	/r/seduction	06/08/12 01:59 AM
1	I feel like I can't be myself around my family and I just need to vent. Aww man, you made me tear up. :D I bet your mom did cry, in private, or when she was telling your dad about it. I bet it made her feel good. Rad.	/r/seduction	29/07/12 10:22 AM
1	Looking for tips on subway/public transport game. First I was nervous as fuck, HB7 brunette that worked in a cash exchange in the city, but wanted to travel really bad, was itching to gtfo of her situation. I asked her for her number, she said she didn't have a phone, but gave me her email address instead. I made the mistake of not contacting again soon enough I guess? I saw her a week later on the bus and she was kinda standoffish, never saw or heard from her again. Second one I did some warming up first, HB9 blonde, only asked her for coffee …	/r/seduction	27/07/12 02:07 PM
2	Guide to having a hot girlfriend So the projected attitude is "I don't need you, I just need your body." ??? I certainly hope its a pipe dream, that's a slave you want, not a girlfriend.	/r/seduction	24/07/12 07:37 AM
1	Asking for sex -- Men and Women opine You don't have to lie, mislead or ultimately hurt feelings to seduce girls. Learn how to do it.	/r/seduction	21/07/12 02:06 PM
1	Who got you into this? /r/random brought me here. It's a mixed bag.	/r/seduction	20/07/12 06:16 PM
0	How to stand out in a crowd? Take your pants off. No one forgets the guy that took his pants off.	/r/seduction	20/07/12 06:08 PM
1	Confused with myself... Ahh yes, the "woah boobs" effect. I think the next time I do this brain thing I'm going to make a big show of it and go "Woah, hold on. genuine I'm really really sorry. huge grin You have fantastic boobs pause and more smiles look at my butt, we'll call it even." Yea, I could get away with that.	/r/seduction	20/07/12 06:01 PM
1	What to say when a girl says "What?" after holding eye contact for a while. Her: giggles "What?" You: Kiss her. Her: "What?" You: "I like your pretty [color] eyes." Her: "What are you looking at?" You: "The prettiest thing I've seen all day." Her: giggles "What are you looking at?" You: "My reflection." Then grin playfully. Careful with this one.	/r/seduction	20/07/12 05:43 PM
1	Seduction though only text? Excuses excuses.	/r/seduction	20/07/12 05:19 PM
1	Seduction though only text? You're not getting it. Stop analysing and go interact. It's a guy, not a chessboard.	/r/seduction	20/07/12 05:12 PM
3	Seduction though only text? You're right. You don't know. So go find out.	/r/seduction	20/07/12 04:53 PM
1	I feel as if my "Nice Guy" persona is hurting me more than helping me Wrong attitude. "I'm going to start hitting on and flirting with girls because sex is awesome and rejections are okay." That's what we want from you. If you want sex, be someone girls can fuck. If you're uncomfortable being that person, you're not ready for sex with anyone. Caring is good, all the stuff you've got going is good, but there's no sex to it. It's heavy platonic. No penis, no flirt, not even a hint. You don't want to get your cock out when you first introduce a girl to it, that's too…	/r/seduction	20/07/12 04:45 PM
1	Seduction though only text? Sign post it? "I miss your voice." Give the responsibility of suggestion to him by subtly presenting a problem.	/r/seduction	20/07/12 03:53 PM
1	Looking for tips on subway/public transport game. Typical seduction methods? I've done this three times before finding Seddit. My opener is REALLY hard. I make some eye contact, then engage with a warm smile and say "Hi." then add a friendly open hand wave for good non-threatening measure. If they engage, I just... make them smile and laugh by having a casual and playful interaction I guess? That's standard isn't it? Twice I've re-routed their travel plans so they'd have coffee with me instead of going wherever they were headed. Be prepared for…	/r/seduction	20/07/12 03:41 PM
1	Seduction though only text? If you're both fantastic writers of love letters, can write them out by hand and seal them with a kiss and perfume, you can probably maintain desire. Otherwise I'd suggest a call or video chat, it's the personal touches that do it. Words alone are just so comparatively sterile.	/r/seduction	20/07/12 03:30 PM
1	Any beta guys feel a bit misinformed when it comes to seduction? Been having way too many epiphanies and its scaring me... /r/seduction has taught me that I'm actually really smooth and capable of being really successful with women, I just need to go out and meet them. My entire attitude has changed. My friends see it and see how well I'm doing with women, I think it frustrates them. They tell me I'm full of myself now and that I think I'm hot shit - and I do act that way, as well as manoeuvring myself into a position of social power the whole time. Chicks dig the fuck out of both aspects. Where before, I'd be jealo…	/r/seduction	20/07/12 02:34 PM
3	While picking up in a bar, how do i move the topic from an ice-breaker to more..."pickup-related" topics? It could be that they're intimidated by questions, it's more likely they're uncomfortable because they're telling you all this stuff about themselves and they don't know (or care to ask) anything about you in return. Being the one most invested in the conversation makes people uncomfortable. Ever had a girl talk at your for a couple minutes, then say something like "god you're so quiet!" or "I need to stop talking." or "Say something!" or they just stare at you? They're feeling that discomfort. …	/r/seduction	19/07/12 05:47 AM
2	[FR] 'state' is truly a controllable mindset. From Mr Cold/Nogame to F close. Soul sustenance.	/r/seduction	19/07/12 04:20 AM
2	To PUA's: Are you happy? I've been sitting here where I am, content, for a long while now. It's beginning to get to me. I'm not achieving anything. It's emotionally draining. Having things to work towards is a great idea.	/r/seduction	18/07/12 09:38 PM
4	To PUA's: Are you happy? Don't press about passion. You gotta tease it out. Everyone has it. Fucking, everyone. The boring ones are just more protected about it. Further, the fact that you're so intense about other people's passion says something to me. I know that when I was that intense about it all, it was because I wasn't chasing mine and I was unhappy for it, but who the fuck can deal with that kind of unhappiness? So I distracted myself by learning about other people's. Drop that ball. Chase your own passion. Peop…	/r/seduction	18/07/12 09:34 PM
3	To PUA's: Are you happy? Sorry to hear that man, sounds like it was a breakup that needed to happen for a long time. Try to be happy for your friend and your ex. Just because you weren't happy with her after so long, doesn't mean she doesn't deserve happiness. Do have a think about your happiness, what you want from life. Realise you probably weren't getting it where you were at. You'll be right. You sound plenty capable of making things awesome for yourself.	/r/seduction	18/07/12 09:27 PM
1	To PUA's: Are you happy? Depression is a feeling. A feeling people can feel for a minute, a day, whatever. It's when you don't process that emotion, work out where it's coming from and get value out of it it sticks with you for the long haul. Just like any other negative feeling. Yes, people stuck with it long enough start having their brain chemistry fucked with, it's the same for anger and sadness. Depression isn't just a clinical major. It's a feeling too. Source: My psychiatrist.	/r/seduction	18/07/12 09:20 PM
7	Girls don't care whether you "have your shit together" Pedantic mother fuckers? On Reddit? Surely not.	/r/seduction	17/07/12 10:07 PM
1	Some chick's crazy ex might be trying to call me. Details inside. Maybe he's a psychopath? Maybe she isn't in contact with him? Then again, maybe she's still fucking him and/or still has feelings for the guy. Life's messy, get dirty in my opinion, she sounds like she wants to see what happens with OP but isn't sure he's what she wants yet.	/r/seduction	16/07/12 11:39 PM
1	Watching Porn Of course we all know the differences I can confirm that this is not true. I don't pursue girls or sex eagerly enough or something. I just don't know what it's like.	/r/seduction	15/07/12 10:38 AM
1	Not detailed enough for an FR, but I decided to take a chance and be a total cocky asshole douchebag It's all about intent. If it comes from a truely harsh judgemental place, she'll pick up on it and respond negatively. If it comes from a confident place that says "baby, you gorgeous." Winner.	/r/seduction	15/07/12 10:17 AM
2	Not detailed enough for an FR, but I decided to take a chance and be a total cocky asshole douchebag Yea, big shit talking grin, eyes that say you want to cuddle and fun poking are a winner much of the time.	/r/seduction	15/07/12 06:05 AM
1	Need advice on daygame, first day on field ever. Hey! There's the right idea! Canned shit sucks ass. They aren't stupid. They see it. They may ignore you and carry on with whatever they're doing. If you freeze, oh noes! You'll feel embarrassed. So what? You're probably never going to see this girl again if you mess it up and sooner or later you'll run out of script or something you haven't planned for will come up, so fuck it. Stop trying to plan the situation. See what happens. Freezing isn't the end of the world. It's recoverable. You're new…	/r/seduction	13/07/12 02:28 AM
1	Lazyness, the unspoken drug of AFCs 3 in my opinion. /r/seduction /r/NoFap /r/hownottogiveafuck	/r/seduction	10/07/12 02:49 PM
1	Ask a girl out for some time this week. She says she's real busy but will get back to you...do you follow this up or wait and hope for the best? (x-post from r/askseddit) Night-time mini golf? AND arcade games? Me like. Yes. Thursday is good.	/r/seduction	10/07/12 02:21 PM
1	Lazyness, the unspoken drug of AFCs I know that feel. /r/NoFap Stop masturbating. Seriously. It can be frustrating as fuck, but it kinda makes you feel all hormonal and masculine, gives you this strange drive and makes you push past so much bullshit (or at least that's what it did for me). Then, you know, for the sake of science you'll masturbate and that drive will go away.	/r/seduction	10/07/12 01:20 PM
0	HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN: 4 Effective Ways to Turn On a Woman Happy to. :D Leading work just as well on men. "Come hang out." works far more often than "hey wanna come hang out if you're feeling up to it?" We're social animals, bred to follow, the language implies action on your part and provides instruction or request to follow you rather than a request for a decision or action for them to lead. The evolutionary tribal mindset favours following the leader rather than forging off in a new/different direction, hence questions like "hey, wanna come over?" be…	/r/seduction	10/07/12 12:51 PM
1	How to show you're available for a more than friends relationship? Nothing grabs my attention like a woman escalating. It's so fucking hot.	/r/seduction	10/07/12 12:11 PM
2	Ask a girl out for some time this week. She says she's real busy but will get back to you...do you follow this up or wait and hope for the best? (x-post from r/askseddit) You are my stalker and know where I live. This is not apparent to other people on the internet. Point stands. Awesome things are awesome. Do awesome things.	/r/seduction	10/07/12 11:48 AM
1	Ask a girl out for some time this week. She says she's real busy but will get back to you...do you follow this up or wait and hope for the best? (x-post from r/askseddit) No. I'm doing jujitsu because I LIKE doing it. Same reason I fish, same reason I play video games, same reason I like hiking in the mountains, same reason I like scuba diving. They're fucking awesome things to do. That's why I do them.	/r/seduction	10/07/12 11:26 AM
2	Ask a girl out for some time this week. She says she's real busy but will get back to you...do you follow this up or wait and hope for the best? (x-post from r/askseddit) You're not seducing her man. You're being her friend. I don't mean the sexy kinda friend where you might end up dating either. Sort that 'some time this week' bullshit out. Lead. Grab yourself by the nuts and be a man. You want to see a Movie? Which Movie? Pick one. Figure out when YOU want to go. Tell her that's when you're going and what you're seeing, ask if she's coming. Second, don't see a god damn Movie. Movies suck, you can't talk to her and seduce her with all that Movie holding her atte…	/r/seduction	10/07/12 05:05 AM
1	How to stop unintentionally intimidating woman? Relaxed looks confident. Confidence is an attention holder. Confident people don't feel weird or uneasy or fragile to be around. Don't give a fuck about looking like a fatty, push that stomach out there and say hi to a girl. :D I'm a skinny bastard (you can see many of my bones skinny), many women and men give me great shit about this. I give no fucks. My friend once made the sarcastic remark "dude, you're huge" so I just owned it and went "I'm enormous baby" and winked at him, laughter ensued. …	/r/seduction	10/07/12 04:17 AM
2	After a couple encounters with a guy, they seem to lose interest in me. Help? Could be anything. Are you reciprocating? I don't mean just answering the questions, but like, are you interacting back? Asking them about what they think, giving them a sense of value? Is there incentive for them to keep talking to you or hanging with you? Are you a rad person on your own? Is there something to pursue for them? Tell us a story about the last Mr X. We can probably help you analyse what happened. :D	/r/seduction	10/07/12 03:43 AM
2	How to stop unintentionally intimidating woman? Big and muscular is cool from afar, but during an approach or when in close proximity and giving full body attention it screams "I AM GOING TO SQUISH YOU LIKE TINY LITTLE BUG." Unless you're smiling with confidence and playfulness and that carries into your stride and choice of words and use of inflection. Then it's more like a "Hey baby, I'm going to put you over my shoulder and take you back to my cave, we're going to have an exceptionally carnal time, if you know what I mean." But there's an …	/r/seduction	10/07/12 03:31 AM
2	How to stop unintentionally intimidating woman? Two words. Body language. Relax your shoulders. Sit down. Place your hands behind your back gentlemanly like. Turn your torso just off centre so you're not facing them directly with your upper body until they read more comfortable, then turn back and gauge comfort, smile warmly and clasp your hands behind your back just after facing them with your torso, it reaffirms you're not a threat, imposing figures facing you like that can be quite intimidating. Go look up some non-threatening gestures. I …	/r/seduction	10/07/12 02:57 AM
1	Can't figure this girl out. Yea. Call. Congratulate her on her improved text response. Arrange to meet. Spice and fluff it as you like.	/r/seduction	05/07/12 03:26 AM
5	HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN: 4 Effective Ways to Turn On a Woman I got better. Instead of "Come with me." I say "Come." then put my arm around her back/waist or loop an arm through her arm and just pull her in the direction I wanna go. After a second or two of compliance, I turn my head and meet her look of indignation with an amused sexually suggestive smile. I have had this exact scenario met with "I bet you'd be really fun in bed." That's what playful aggressiveness is.	/r/seduction	05/07/12 01:03 AM
1	Are white knights overwhelming Seddit? Just because it's not working doesn't mean there isn't awesome sex and doesn't mean they don't want to stick it out and try to make it work over being alone (because in my experience they don't see it as being open to something better, they see it as being alone).	/r/seduction	05/07/12 12:49 AM
2	Are white knights overwhelming Seddit? Stuck as in looking for the right reason to leave the relationship they're not into rather than just leaving and being single. Or maybe that's the entanglement thing you were talking about?	/r/seduction	04/07/12 12:02 AM
2	fairly shy, and I usually only get anywhere with girls who are willing to make the first move, advice? Shower, put on your best you. Go the fuck to a mall or somewhere where women are. Say hi and smile to show you're not a threat. Do this to tons of women people, men too. Keep doing this till you're comfortable to have them walk away indignantly, see what happens and go from there. That's my plan. It's just science.	/r/seduction	03/07/12 09:11 PM
22	Are white knights overwhelming Seddit? The problem is "I have a boyfriend" isn't the same as "I have a boyfriend that I'm very much in love with, who takes awesome care of me and is an all around great guy." That's what AFCs hear when they hear "I have a boyfriend" though.	/r/seduction	03/07/12 09:02 PM
1	Don’t Be a Dick: The False Virtues of the Classic Alpha Male Yeah, I know this subreddit likes to moralize the alpha. No. My mistake. Violence and fear still often yield influence and control, respect is just a less violent avenue to achieve control. For my information, the fuck is the pussy test?	/r/seduction	03/07/12 04:32 PM
1	Don’t Be a Dick: The False Virtues of the Classic Alpha Male I have not come across it. These are my own conclusions. I might have a read. :D	/r/seduction	03/07/12 09:02 AM
3	Don’t Be a Dick: The False Virtues of the Classic Alpha Male Yea, destructive manipulation. Make em feel bad (punishment) for going out with the competition (undesirable behaviour). It's pretty simple to deal with if you can fish that message out of her though, given you approach it the right way for the girl in question.	/r/seduction	03/07/12 08:58 AM
2	Don’t Be a Dick: The False Virtues of the Classic Alpha Male Are you stupid? Think about what you're saying... because violent men get women, violence is an alpha trait? There are many non-violent men around with swarms of women fawning for them. They're all assertive, violent or not. Then you go on to say that anyone interested in this shit from an intellectual standpoint is by nature too concerned with... morality? to ever behave in a way that attracts women. Being alpha is about having influence amongst the group through respect. How you go about getti…	/r/seduction	03/07/12 08:07 AM
2	Don’t Be a Dick: The False Virtues of the Classic Alpha Male Which parts do you feel can be easily misinterpreted?	/r/seduction	03/07/12 07:38 AM
5	Don’t Be a Dick: The False Virtues of the Classic Alpha Male Isn't manipulative against people Here's the thing I've figured out, if you're not manipulative, you miss out on women. Seduction is inherently manipulative (not a bad thing by any means, hear me out). We are trying to influence the feelings of people for our own purposes, that is the definition of manipulation and that's okay. Manipulation can be an entirely positive and well meant experience. Helping someone out so they'll feel good is manipulation for example. Some forms of manipulation are m…	/r/seduction	03/07/12 07:34 AM
3	Don’t Be a Dick: The False Virtues of the Classic Alpha Male Think about it. It's not a scientific article, the portrayal is about persuading passive aggressive forever alones with a misunderstanding about alpha males to man the fuck up and be assertive rather than underhandedly manipulative. It's not about accurately portraying anyone.	/r/seduction	03/07/12 07:05 AM
3	A stripped down, easy to follow pickup method for all you newbies The first time I saw the videos by these guys, I was looking for what black magic they were using as I couldn't for the life of me just talk to women like that. Now I'm thinking they're fucking awesome and I need friends like them. I have some shitty friends.	/r/seduction	01/07/12 04:58 AM
1	[FR] 2 F-Closes this weekend Are you hitting on me?	/r/seduction	25/06/12 12:15 PM
7	[FR] 2 F-Closes this weekend Yea I feel you. These were all thoughts and considerations I was having while I was writing my post. My expression was conductive to discussion I thought, that was the point, though I came off as inflammatory. :D Your conclusion I needed to hear from someone outside my head. So thanks.	/r/seduction	18/06/12 02:46 PM
13	[FR] 2 F-Closes this weekend 5 lies bet goes as follows: Rules: 5 questions Lie to all 5, I buy you a drink. Truthful even once, you buy me a drink. Trick on your end is, ask 3 harmless and obvious questions. i.e. "What colour is my shirt." "What's the name of this place." etc. When third is answered right, spiel about "see, it's a really easy game right!" Act a little confused and ask "which question are we up to?" Get her to buy you a drink when she says "3." Advanced trick: Explain the rules and then make your first ques…	/r/seduction	18/06/12 06:01 AM
3	[FR] 2 F-Closes this weekend It's probably my sexual frustration talking, but this kinda approach doesn't sit right with me personally. I mean no offence to the OP in saying this, to each their own and all those other colloquialisms. It just all seems so shallow. These's no exploration of her values as a person or exploration of potential 'compatibility' if you will. So much of the seduction stuff I read on here is about sex as an end goal, rather than simply opening people up to you and having them be receptive. It seems s…	/r/seduction	18/06/12 05:55 AM
2	Ran into an alpha gay male (such a thing?). Here’s what you can learn from him. You're getting at the effeminate flippant limp wristed gay men portrayed by pop culture... They're the exception in my experience. Most gay men are indistinguishable from any other man, right up until a woman gets close enough that they're told about the sexual situation, or they start seducing you at the bar... I don't like bars for just that reason. I spend the night getting hit on by men. All of which I'd assumed were after a friendly chat. Nope, looking for a different kind of pleasantry.	/r/seduction	13/06/12 11:47 AM
2	Ran into an alpha gay male (such a thing?). Here’s what you can learn from him. Habitually awesome. I like that. Reminds me of my friend giving me shit recently about trying to be so awesome lately. It confused me, I'm quite a protected guy, really don't say much about what I think. Been opening my mouth and saying the things I think more often lately, maybe I am just awesome? Might explain why I have such an easy time talking to random people all the damn time. :D	/r/seduction	13/06/12 11:31 AM