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Did you pay for dinner or 50/50?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 03:38 AM
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Saying okay is just an okay response. If you're goal is to have her chase you then saying, "I wish you the best" or "That's cool" subliminally says, "I don't need you in my life and I can do just fine without you." They will realize you're not a needy person and have the strength/confidence to go forward with or without them as long as you stay no contact. That is a very attractive trait in the eyes of a woman. And even if she doesn't happen to ever get back to you, you retained your dignity and…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 04:10 AM
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I think not replying at all and going no contact may come across to her that you are too butthurt to reply. A casual, "Alright I wish you the best." is perfect. When you do this then go no contact it shows your strength and confidence which immediately get them interested in you again whether it was a shit-test breakup or not. What were some of the mistakes you made so we can learn from them?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:18 AM
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I dated a girl with BPD for a three months and I only saw Jekyll for 99% of the relationship. However, there were a few times where red flags popped up in my head and I thought to myself, "What the fuck?" For example, she is self-conscious about her food habits and I told her that peanut butter overall is not healthy and she yelled," Stop!" out of fucken nowhere. I literally saw her eyes change from mellow and innocent to what looked like demons emerging from her soul through her eyes. Crazy shi…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 11:34 PM
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So you're saying don't get involved? Also, you realize the severity of the mental illness is on a scale. You could have worse BPD than someone else. I dated a girl for three months and rarely saw her bad side. I'm guessing that she was putting on a front to show her best self while the relationship is new. It ended abruptly when I told her I did a certain drug and she painted me black and thought I was the worst person in the world. We haven't spoken since but we were pretty emotionally invested…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 11:30 PM
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How exactly do they fuck you emotionally if you're a strong man? How do they get under your skin?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 10:22 PM
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I'm early 20's with a strong mind. I've dealt with her before and she was like a lot of women I've met except she had more extreme emotions and mood swings. I have never seen any of the crazy shit I've heard about this disorder with her. I haven't pulled the trigger yet but if I were to see her as a FWB again I would cut my losses as soon as I see any real crazy.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 05:14 AM
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This girl has contacted me that I used to hook up with who has BPD. I'm thinking about just using her as a FWB again. There is no way I'm even thinking about a serious relationship.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:59 AM
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What did you do specifically to turn your marriage/life around?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 10:01 PM
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Where do you draw the line at answering a question honestly? It seems ambiguous to me. For example, questions like "Are you a player?" or "How many girlfriends have you had?" obviously don't get a serious answer. On the other hand, I've been asked "Where did you get that protein bar from?" when I brought food to her room and answered it straightforward. After I could tell it was a shit test that I failed. Shit tests can be very subtle. I've found that women will throw subtle domination shit test…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 04:58 PM
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That is why it so attractive to have boundaries and say "no" to things you will not tolerate. The majority of guys let women walk all over them so when they come across a guy that won't put up with their bullshit they gravitate towards him. Women craves boundaries and rules in a relationship especially the ones that haven't been told "no" for most of their life.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 04:38 PM
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Do you have any tips on being dominant in bed? Always looking for ideas besides the usual hair pulling, choking, spanking, etc.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:08 AM
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When you mean deep surrender do you mean being more dominant? Spanking, hair pulling, little bit of choking, throwing her around, etc.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:05 AM
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Ignoring a safe word is not cool.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 04:51 PM
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Give me some specific tips instead of just saying take control and be aggressive.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 04:49 PM
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Yup. I've failed shit tests and responded to them days later when I realized it was a shit test. It's better to pass them late than never. If I realize it was a shit test later I'll drop it at the right time and say something along the lines of, "I didn't like it when you did X the other day. Cut it out."
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 01:37 AM
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I'm in a similar situation except it was a 6 month break. I'm going to make her a plate again.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:36 AM
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Women who engage in shitty behaviour like being promiscuous, crude, bitchy, slovenly, unfeminine, etc. demand that you not judge them, because they want to be shitty people without the repercussions. They're looking for shortcuts. Women hate to be judged because it immediately puts them in a competition against other females. Low quality women love the idea of no competition by supporting feminism which tries to put all women on a even playing field. Instead of putting in the work to become more…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:46 PM
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"K" makes it sounds like you are a little child that didn't get his way.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 07:54 PM
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I've noticed the more alpha's a woman has been with the less tolerance they have for beta behavior. Even just being with one alpha can set a certain standard for all her future relationships.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 01:35 AM
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sometimes I just want to cuddle and hold her...Sometimes I want to stroke her hair while she lies her head on my chest. Look for girls that are LTR-worthy. They won't mind cuddling as long as you are displaying many alpha traits. It sounds like the women you are talking to right now are only good for pumping and dumping so naturally these aren't the type of women that want to cuddle. They just want to get fucked.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 08:53 PM
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I'm glad you're relationship success has improved immensely. Could you provide some examples of behavioral changes/life changes that made (examples) you more attractive to women? Saying thank you doesn't contribute anything to this sub and we all know TRP works.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 03:40 PM
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I asked her why she was suddenly so attracted to me and she said she noticed my confidence has gone up, I've become more assertive And I don't take any bullshit anymore... Specific examples of how you've become more assertive or how you've stopped taking some of her bullshit?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 05:14 PM
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Really well put. People on this subreddit stress being an asshole to get girls but all you have to be is a masculine man. Girls that want you to be a full blown asshole all the time are broken.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 03:22 PM
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Ditch the emoticons. That's how women text.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:28 AM
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How would you react if it was the same situation but it was a stranger? I had a plate invite me to her formal and she was grinding on other guys but went home with me. I remained aloof, didn't act jealous, and talked to other girls to pass the test but I felt it was a little bit disrespectful. What do you think? Also, this is a situation where we haven't talked about being exclusive yet (but that's what I was moving towards and felt like she was too).
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 04:21 PM
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You could have gave her one more chance after she came back and apologized. The fact of the matter is that she is single. She isn't your girlfriend. It sounds like this was the first time she has done something like that so you could have given her one more shot. Plates I've been out with have openly flirted in front of me. How to pass the test? Go talk to other girls, remain aloof, and don't be jealous. As long as she's coming home with you to fuck your brains out who cares if she flirts a litt…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 05:27 PM
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Not every girl rides the cock carousel in college. Sorority girls you should probably stay away from.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 04:01 PM
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Always be leading and doing what you want in every moment.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 04:59 PM
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She may be a 'good honest girl' but this girl is just not interested in you enough. It doesn't matter if she is a good girl or a whore. Girls that are interested in you will reply back in a fashionable manner. Find another girl.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 05:25 PM
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What do you think about a girl inviting you to her college formal and dancing with other guys in front of you (she was someone I was seeing casually at the time/ not a girlfriend)? I possibly want to make it serious eventually. In this situation I just walked away and did my own thing.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 08:12 PM
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What do you think about a girl inviting you to her college formal and dancing with other guys in front of you (she was someone I was seeing casually at the time/ not a girlfriend)? I possibly want to make it serious eventually. In this situation I just walked away and did my own thing.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 08:12 PM
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That's the thing...they have little logic when it comes to relationships. They rely on emotions, vagina tingles, and feelings to make their decisions.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 11:06 PM
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What are you going to do about it? However, if you've know the girl for a long time/it's a LTR then, "I miss you too" is fine.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 06:54 PM
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I don't talk about RP offline, I just do it. Examples of what you do now that you have swallowed the pill. How has your behavior changed? (Always lead, don't tolerate bullshit, do what you want, etc.?)
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 08:17 PM
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No need for the ultimatum but the age old no contact rule works wonders. Ignoring your ex makes them go crazy because it shows higher value on you and it makes their imagination go wild thinking of why you dropped off the face of the earth making her want to get back in touch with you. Patience is needed though.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 02:26 PM
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What does going on a road trip tell you about her?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 08:58 PM
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It's simply because all women want the top men. I noticed at college ugly women gave little attention to average/beta guys. Women feel entitled to the tall, handsome, alpha guy. To prove this, being a handsome guy I got attention from all the girls even the ones that had no chance. When a handsome guy goes after girls equally as good-looking or better they often find that these girls are after even better things making these guys go down the totem pole in search for women. To put it in perspecti…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 05:03 PM
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Same. Nothing wrong with smiling as long as you're not the guy grinning 24/7. Women are attracted to guys having a good time and smiling displays that.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 04:16 PM
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It is extremely important to draw strict boundaries in relationships. People are like kids. If you let them act shitty they will act shitty and not even realize what they are doing. When people act rude and fuck with you, they will slowly cause a shift in both of your minds that 1) they are above you and 2) you deserve to be treated like shit. I have someone I work with that act like a dick towards me because he perceives me as a higher "rank" than him. I have called him out to stop bossing me a…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 06:44 PM
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