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Every pill has its points and it's relatable depending on your personal circumstances, however when that becomes your life dogma to express every single failure you had then congratulations, you have been indoctrinated. Relationships and Life isn't simply black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:31 AM
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No emotional baggage and depression?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:17 AM
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Unless they do not want to leave afterwards. Situation I was in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:59 PM
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That's how it supposed to be, but nobody dates like that anymore, not in the era of instant gratification. Women are well aware that their pool of options is skyrocketing between 20-30 so they don't commit until they secure a high valued male.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:40 PM
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Imagine being super hot but not being able to capitalise on it. I guess you get all shades of booty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:51 AM
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6.1 Average looking I'd say. Poor experience, overall maybe 30-50 matches after a month at most, 10 answers my starter conversation, 3 of them on average had a genuine conversation with me. I didn't manage to secure even one date, that was on multiple attempts at deleting and redownload the app throughout the years so if you tell me that heights gets you scores I will laugh at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:49 PM
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The best advice I can give you is this: get off the social media and move out of North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:11 PM
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I respect on the other hand women that are straight up honest. If a woman comes to me and says she's looking for the one and acts like a princess but it's promiscuous then I call her a slut. However, if a woman says she has sex freely and doesn't care if the one comes or not even if I don't score, I will respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:14 PM
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That's true, I've always said it. Men want virgins until they experience how shitty sex is with one. If you have patience to teach though or if the guy is in love that's another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:39 AM
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Sometimes all you have to do is ask..and show your credit card.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:48 PM
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Unadvisable, not worth the headache. IF you must, It's single use only, not reusable,
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:26 PM
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Some women do that, they tell you they are horrible and that you deserve better yet some men pursuit them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:57 AM
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Give women same level of testosterone as men have so they can of understand what is that they define as toxic masculinity. Plus extra bonus of more things to shave lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:55 AM
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I think that's alright as long as you don't penalise men for wanting the same. Many women actually do condemn men wanting to have multiple partners/occasional encounters, yet they are hoeing around themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:51 AM
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The problem is that some men are idolising women to the point that women would never be able to attain to that ideal. And once that ideals are shattered, OPs like this are born.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:16 AM
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Normal male testosterone levels range between 280 and 1,100 nanograms per deciliter (ng/dL) for adult males, and between 15 and 70 ng/dL for adult females. Once you understand this fact, you can comprehend why men cannot see women as friends unless they are absolutely unattractive for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:23 PM
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You guys got options?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:29 AM
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Hahaha thank you. It needed to be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:41 PM
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I literally dated a woman that hated/ had a stereotype on people of my nationality. I still pulled it out. It's hormonal man, disregard most of the "my type" bullshit. You need to be in the right spot at the right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 10:49 PM
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Oh yes, I love Aba & Peach as well :D good content right there bro! I wonder why she's still single... Well, more power to her I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:04 PM
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Dating was just awful in genera as a manl and terrible when dated very attractive women, even when scored, relationship was just terrible because the woman had crazy expectations and created conflict for frivolous reasons. I ended it before it went too far. Very glad I did. On the other hand the best relationships I had was with average looking girls because they actually cared, put effort into relationship and were genuinely fun to spend time with despite the fact that I didn't have an erection…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:23 AM
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That's why I'm saying there are certainly attractive humble women but I yet to encounter them, and I met a lot of women. Attractiveness plays a big part in someone's character, it makes you see the world in different ways than those who experience it without cashing in attractiveness card. Many other factors also influence character of course but I don't want to go into detail about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:10 AM
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I base my opinion on experience, that's data although limited still data. I dated many women and all of them had terrible entitled character whilst very attractive. Now, they are many women who certainly have good character whilst being attractive no doubt about that, but I never met them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:03 PM
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You keep telling yourself that if it makes you feel better about your reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:55 PM
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I love average looking women, I am average looking myself and dating was just awful. Men know exactly what I'm talking about. Average looking women are NOT for the most part arrogant, self-absorbed, narcissistic or greedy, but generally are family oriented, generous and down to earth, they do not expect you to be Brad Pitt kind of guy, as long as you're a gentlemen. I'm really happy in my 5yo relationship, my woman takes care of me, cooks,wants children, listens to my concerns and supports me wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:45 PM
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Do you realize there are lonely attractive women too? I personally never met them tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 03:54 PM
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When you're in your 30ies, attractiveness in your partner is a secondary thing, it is a bit shallow to think that they need to be your "perfect" fit too. Generally people like that remain single or divorced at best. If you're an average guy or girl, good luck trying to score a 10/10. I'd rather settle with a partner that gives me love, dedication, attention, have valuable skills and good character etc even if by beauty standards isn't a Victoria secret model. I found more happiness with average …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:21 AM
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Nah, I'd would say that women, as classical proverb says, do not know what they want, and generally what they want turns out to be what they don't deserve :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:25 AM
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Always alpha male, because women naively think that they can change a man, even if they get slapped with a big red flag multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:13 PM
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Man, who said I didn't like? I enjoyed my long hair but I want someone to like me for who I am, for my personality, not because I must fit their perfect frame. Women do exactly the same, they don't want you to like them only for their boobs and ass. The most shallow part was that we actually talked substantially and we seemed to be clicking but long hair was a deal breaker for her even tho she wasn't exactly 10/10 either, which I was willing to put aside for example. I just felt like changing. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:03 PM
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No, in fact I didn't. But maybe she thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:31 PM
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I wanted to cut my hair anyway, I didn't feel wholesome anymore. It wasn't because of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:05 PM
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I literally got rejected the other day on bumble because I had long hair. Long story short, I cut my hair soon thereafter and that same woman invited me on a date. I stated I would rather not date someone who is shallow enough to reject me because of how long my hair is. She immediately got offended and called me a prick. Yeah, eat dirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:54 PM
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Thanks for sharing, this was awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:45 PM
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I used to have ex-gfs that made their absolute best to sabotage my relationships, spit lies about me so my current gf would leave me because they were jealous or resentful towards me. This was very hurtful as I was always trying to leave the relationship in good terms but as soon as they found out that I had a new gf they promptly messaged them and told lies about me, why we broke up and that she should be careful about me. Some women can be absolutely brutal and unforgiving and will do their be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:46 AM
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Job does not define fidelity to your partner but your personality, values and family do. You got it right tho low self-esteem defines cheating most of the time, but not because dude has low paying or high paying job. There are men cheating on both sides equally. Yeah your friend can influence you to cheat but again it's all on you individually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:54 PM
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Finally, there have been way to many recently. I feel so excluded because I just can't relate to these toxic posts xD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:02 PM
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It's unbelievable how many people didn't actually see naturally occuring female beauty. Yeah most of the Instagram garbage you see on the internet is fake, but there are women that overwhelm you with their beauty and have literally 0 to 1% makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:53 PM
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I think your age and your limited experiences influence your rather poor opinion about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:26 PM
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By selfishness I meant satisfying only his needs, physical and emotional rather than materialistic. I didn't meant to dismantle this conversation down to patriarchal archetypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:22 PM
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But my friend, confidence and disagreeableness is what you strive for to my perspective, not arrogance and selfishness. There is a noticeable difference. Nobody will like the latter and although I see why you'd think that (world is full of cunts) by being selfish and arrogant your circles will always stay narrow and mostly filled with people who are just as arrogant and selfish as you are. I hope however that you surround yourself by people that empower you and help you step up your game rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:38 PM
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Yeah but you also become arrogant, selfish and have "I don't care" type of attitude which it's unpleasant to be around both for men and women whenever it's a friendship or relationship. To me, that's toxic and I would rather keep people like that away from my circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:16 PM
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True, also a man that wants only hookups suggests deep scaring or pathological environment. We are wired to be in mutually benefitting relationships. If you were unlucky to attract toxic women/men you need to revaluate both yourself, people you get attracted to and your environment before you make a bold statement such as "women are X, men are X"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:17 PM
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I see many people complain about women requesting 6ft tall men on tinder and bumble alike, solution is simple swipe left! Always did, always will. (I'm 6ft1)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:48 AM
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Beauty is subjective because no matter how attractive you are, you can still have unattractive character. Personally I have been with some beautiful women but they were empty uniteresting and quite frankly shallow Sheelas, not saying all of them are but seems like external beautify incentives lack of motivation to develop a strong character.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:45 AM
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I don't understand most of red pill/ blue pill topics like that, I assume it's mostly North American issue, although I have experienced them at least once with some women so not entirely isolated. My best advise and solution to these is: avoid women that have heavily indoctrinated minds like that and you will be fine. There is nothing you can do about it and it's better to just ignore people like that rather than fuel the fire. Eventually you can discuss it but if reason doesn't go through their…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:16 PM
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I love seeing these spoiled brats forever alone complaining how unfair it is that they can't find anybody with their unrealistic standards. I just grab popcorn and have a laugh especially when you can both clearly see and hear, they are barely a 6/10 themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 02:20 PM
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It's hard to explain that looks matter less than personality to someone who can't even date and blames it on looks. But hey, I wish you were as hot as the chicks you go after, so i could prove to you that dating someone just for the looks to be happy is probably one of the biggest lies they tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:46 PM
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How about settling for a regular Joe/Jessica and turning out that was probably the best choice you ever made?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 10:50 PM
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'clean criminal record" - I thought there, must be Eastern European and I guessed right xD Greetings from Poland!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:51 AM
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Isn't that like common sense? Surprisingly, I know, it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:35 PM
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Certainly not deserve, but they surely chose it volunteerly in order to profit from it, what they get instead is mental illness and depression. I do not think I should feel sorry for them, I pity them at best, clearly they signed up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:26 PM
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A study has established that excessive use of social media, in particular the posting of selfies, is associated with a subsequent increase in narcissism and low self-esteem, therefore depression is the only logical conclusion after that. Narcissism is synonym of the following idiomatic expressions: egotistical, conceited, bigheaded, vain, selfish, self-destructive. I do not think that hard work is a synonym of Narcissism. Hence why they get what they deserve or maybe rephrased; they get what the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:07 PM
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You get what you deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:35 PM
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I can stand by this quote, that's what I have always thought myself. My current partner got with me when I was "barbaric" to say the least. I had nothing. On my 5 years relationship, I managed to get a house, a car and suddenly I became valuable to women. Not even remotely interested in any of them since all they have to offer is their beauty which is expiring like the milk. Quite frankly, it's sad to see all these bachelorette in their mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:51 AM
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The only reason why I am in my 5yo relationship still, it's because I willingly decided to be, not because intuitively felt like it. As an avoidant, I can't trust my emotions. Intuitively I want to run away and have only one night stands. I couldn't be more wrong, relationship gave me security and stability I craved, but desiring other things that would never offered me that. What you describe, intuitive love, it's infatuation, not love. Love is when you decide to be with someone, not because of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:22 PM
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My standards are proportionally lowered with time in which I didn't get laid. Therefore longer I have been without sex, lower my standards are. Then my battery gets charged again and I have no sex for couple of months because of my unachievable high standards and the cycle repeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 10:30 PM
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So you guys have dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 07:39 PM
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I sense anger within you young padawan. In practice, it's not always like that. Plenty of examples where women asked me to quit my female relationships and I said if you want to end fair, you have to do the same. When they cared, they quit their male friendships out of respect for me. So, sorry, your extremist point of view is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 08:11 AM
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Marking yourself as high status... Do you mean just dressing "expensive" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:17 PM
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I mean secrets and lies come out eventually. If you won't tell your friends there is at least 50:50 chance your fuck budy may share it with his buddies. You may not find out until, well, party between him and you is over. You never know with whom you are dealing with to be fair. Other people's sex life should be of no interested to third parties but reality can be brutal. That's probably the hottest gossip topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 02:37 PM
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Darlin' if you gossip with your friends, be assured your friends gossip about you. Plus do your think having sex in a public bathroom is so discreet? As soon as one of my friend did it, the rest of the group was aware of it. Then it just spreads like fire 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:40 PM
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I think you're a bit bias because well, you're a man and you're a direct victim. If the roles were reversed, you'd be like: well deal with it ladies, rules of the market. Are you not attracted to the hottest woman in a bar or pub yourself? Just like the women you accuse to be attracted to the best looking lad or with high status? And if you could, would you not mingle with her instead with that average looking girl on the side with no friends? Men judge women based on looks, women judge men base…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:29 AM
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But when men change, not all women lose attraction, it happens of course but not 50:50, it's individual I think. You could say the same about men losing interest as soon as women get old/unattractive theoretically speaking. I think it's silly to think that your partner will not change eventually. Unless it's for the worst, that is not something you should discourage or bail out from. Then again, an attempt to communicate like adults should be the first thing to do. It's not like humans are like …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 08:19 PM
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Exactly, dates are like interviews, you show your best self and then go back to normal when infatuation settles down. So you should not trust your first instincts early in the relationship, you discover only like a year o two into living together how the real person is like so fair enough if you're into a relationship and you change your mind but getting married in the first year and then divorcing it's entirely on the foolishness of people who do it. The thing is as I said, people rarely stay t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:30 PM
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Fair enough but people change inevitably. Fair enough if you're in a relationship but if you get married there is a reason you say " through good and bad ". In the end, it also depends from multiple factors whenever is worth recovering or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:52 PM
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