MrBlue351990 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Happier after divorce 100% for me too. I no longer care what my ex does day-to-day anymore. Freedom feels amazing.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/25 03:55 AM
1	I don't know how to get out. Wow it sounds like we are married to the same person except for the income part. My divorce is pending. If i were u I would get out now and even live in the car if needed until you get your own place.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/06/25 09:04 PM
1	Take Aways Family is a major factor that I’m going to consider in the future. I grew up in a family where marriage was long term and that included extended family. Everyone in her family was divorced.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/25 03:09 AM
6	Take Aways Meet your potential future spouse’s family. Get to know them and their history just as much you know hers. Family can be a red flag. My ex-wife’s family is awful.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/25 10:33 PM
7	Wife said she wants a divorce for autonomy. I am in the same boat you are in brother. Married 14 years share 4 kids and 2 dogs. The only difference is I initiated the divorce due to her verbal abuse and past cheating however when she asked for a divorce 2 years prior it also came out of the blue. There may be another man involved if there were no prior warning signs and she did not communicate any of these issues of your past with you. Impulsively asking for a divorce especially after a long term marriage generally means that there is som…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/25 07:39 PM
7	Why is it so difficult finding true love? This is the only answer to the question.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/25 07:02 PM
11	At a loss Dude appeal that. I would also sue her for defamation of character.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/25 07:35 PM
18	Very happily married and wife suddenly in big rush to leave Move on brother. I was married 14 years now 35M. My wife cheated one time in 2015 and her behavior mirrored your wife. Fast forward to 2022 and it got worse. Long story short I am filing this week and not looking back. She is a narcissist just like my soon to be ex. These people have zero compassion for those they hurt and are soulless creatures. Move on my friend and be happy with someone else.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/05/25 02:42 AM
2	Feels like day 1 again… You’re feeling like this due to shock my friend. I experienced the same thing when my wife said she was divorcing me 2 years ago. Guess what? I am the one initiating it now and I am filing early next week. You’re not a failure. You have 2 children that probably see you as superman. Put on your cape and get over this tough time you are in. It is temporary and you will come out of the other side happier with a new sense of purpose with the desire to do things that you couldn’t do when you were mar…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/05/25 03:20 PM
1	Am I going insane?? I wonder if we are married to the same woman. She sounds like a narcissist. The world revolves around her. She’s the main character in every situation and every scenario. That is really crappy that she got your son involved in this the way she did. It’s important to talk about it with the children, but you need to do so calmly and do it together not behave like a child and have a meltdown the way she did. I hope for the best for you. I’m going through a divorce right now after 14 years of marria…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/05/25 06:18 AM
6	Wife Wants Divorce, Affair? I am going through a divorce as well, but I initiated it. My wife cheated one time in the past in 2015 but I have no evidence of any other occurrences. Your situation sounds exactly like mine. Only my wife started working Amazon graveyard almost 3 years ago, and our intimacy has basically been nonexistent and before that it was very frequent and I also get criticized and yelled at and verbally abused the same way you mentioned in your post. She is more than likely cheating and your wife is also.…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/05/25 12:26 AM
2	Wife wont move out of the family home that I own. Change the locks when she leaves and stack her stuff neatly on the sidewalk.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/25 07:40 PM
2	What do you think of my wife? Am I over reacting Get out dude trust me. She sounds just like my soon to be ex-wife. 35m and 34f. Married 14 years and she is a hardcore narcissist and emotionally very abusive. It will only get worse the longer you stay. There are literally millions of women out there that are exactly what you want in a marriage don’t settle for these toxic manipulative women. I am filing for divorce this week. I stayed way too long.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/25 03:14 PM
1	How long did you wait? What was your reason? I felt the same way. I am 35 and share 4 kids with her. But she is very verbally abusive and is terrible around the kids. My mentality is if i get my own place and when its my week with the kids they will have that peace and quiet away from her. I was terrified of how it would affect the kids but they are older now and more understanding because they witness her behavior.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/25 03:21 AM
3	How long did you wait? What was your reason? How many years and how many kids? I am 35 married 14 years and share 4 kids with her. I am filing for divorce this week. She cheated on me once in 2015 and we decided to reconcile and continue in the marriage. Fast forward to 2022 she got a warehouse graveyard job and thats when things got worse. She grew distant started doing shady things on snapchat and leaving work at 1am to hang out with friends and lie about it. She is verbally abusive and feel more and more like i need to protect my kids f…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/25 02:37 AM
3	Almost Got Killed Last Night May not want to hear this brother but she isn’t the woman of your dreams. There are so many women out there that will love you for being you and not hate you. I am going through a divorce after 14 years of marriage and sharing 4 kids and she also claims to hate me. I came to the realization that she is not my person and the real person is out there waiting for me. You will find your dream woman bro trust me.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/25 12:21 AM
2	My Story and Some things I wish I knew Before Filing and During the Process This is 100% my situation and would like more feedback as well. I am 35 married for 14 years and 4 kids together and my wife started doing the same things, leaving often dramatically, changing her appearance, leaving work early in the middle of the night without telling me to hang out with her friends amongst other things I haven’t filed yet, but I am getting ready to this week and would like some additional adviceto add some additional context. She doesn’t want to go to counseling and she has c…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/04/25 09:43 PM