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Yeah fear of rejection is also a thing to work on. Like anything, the more you do it, the easier it gets. Tho, lemme tell you, missing out on the ones you really think you have a connection with still sucks donkey balls. Work on you, bruv. There’s nothing wrong with getting/being successful. Let everything else come later.
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:41 AM
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And no language barrier? So really you’re exactly like every other guy your age. Where do you meet like minded women? Well, start with your hobbies. Are women attracted to participating in your hobby? Kinda counterintuitive but very true, women enjoy listening to someone talk about something they love. The energy is infectious, know what I mean? It would be great to meet someone with a common interest, but even if you don’t have one just having something you are passionate about that you can str…
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:26 AM
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Basic questions to fill in our picture of you: How old are you? Are you in a urban, suburban or rural area? Is it strictly religious? Have a job? Have hobbies? Have friends? Female friends? Never considered online dating? (This was my crash course in figuring out who is open to anything more than just a conversation, subtle/vert flirting and getting over rejection. But real online dating is kinda dead now, so you kinda missed out there. Sorry)
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:58 AM
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Just my 2 cents…Stop researching. Try to meet and talk to women. You’ll be surprised how easy they are to talk to once you get past the fear of approaching (and rejection). This was and still is my issue years later. None of the studying you do matters if you can’t approach and talk to someone in a light and pleasant manner.
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:42 AM
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Guys do lie tho. That's why their defenses are always up. That's why being upfront from the jump is almost an advantage: they know what you want and can decide if they want to go along with it.
/r/seduction31/01/22 05:10 AM
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In my opinion, yeah. That's kinda shitty. Be upfront about what you're looking for. More often than not, girls will respect the game if they're attracted to you and are down for fun. If you lead them on, they get pissed with a quickness.
/r/seduction31/01/22 04:57 AM
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You've moved past the the game at this point. Now you're into the getting to know you and eventually the honeymoon phase. Connect with this person. Find out what they are into. Who their friends and family are. Make plans to see each other. Go places they like. If you are genuinely excited about taking them somewhere, that's big too. Explore each other and explore together. And really once you are where you are now, things just kind of take care of themselves once you're more than a few dates in…
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:41 AM
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I feel you. Read what you wrote below. Do what you gotta, even if you don't wanna. Put a different way, do what you have to do to get through the day, even if you know it's not the healthiest option.
/r/seduction13/10/21 08:14 AM
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Don't take this the wrong way, but that's life. This is how it goes. Some things that help... Figure out what it is you want to do. Try to make a plan for yourself to get to that goal. Make sure the points to your plan are small incremental steps (ie if you're going to start working out, you don't try to bench your bodyweight the second week, you work up to that goal slowly so you don't hurt yourself or quit because of the failure) that you can mark off as having completed (it helps to see your …
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:40 AM
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Why not do a real inventory of both of your traits. What does he do that you are not? Not to be crass, but your hygiene, clothes, hair style, facial hair, vocal tone, how you stand, where you stand, facial expressions, etc all add up subconsciously. Take a good look at him and yourself and see if there are some things you can change. Don't copy, per se, but tweak...
/r/seduction09/11/19 11:13 AM
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This. Boundaries, in a sense, are set in how you meet someone, if at work don't be a huge creep and go slow, in a more social context, you can get away with a bit more, but being respectful will always be to your advantage, other circumstances like internet hookups, BE EXPLICIT!, say what you want but don't be rude or pushy, respect is still a thing, saying what you want doesn't mean that coming off like an asshole is a positive. And in all things, be you! Don't get trapped into trying to be som…
/r/seduction02/11/19 01:24 PM
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Toilet paper coming out of your zipper?
/r/seduction02/11/19 09:13 AM
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No worries. Don't worry so much. And most importantly try and have fun!
/r/seduction02/11/19 07:16 AM
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I hate this beta shit. Stop talking about yourself that way. You weren't ready. There's nothing wrong with that. As for the girl, be honest. Or don't. She'll figure it out or she won't. If you want to make sure it's good for her, ask her what she likes and do that until she can't take it anymore. Talk and listen. Thus endith the lesson.
/r/seduction02/11/19 06:44 AM
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Change your self talk. You were over thinking, not being a bitch.
/r/seduction19/10/19 09:54 AM
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You won't know what it is or could be until you talk to her. Don't psych yourself out. If it's only a one nighter, make it a good one. If it's a possible relationship, follow it up. Doing nothing is the only way to make sure NOTHING happens.
/r/seduction19/10/19 09:09 AM
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It's good to recognize that. So, just to a couple things that you may not have considered when you were drunk: She was probably drunk too and didn't want to make a bad decision. OR, man, she might have just wanted a cuddle. Cuddles are dope. Call her (don't text), tell her you had a good time and see if she wants to hang out again. Go somewhere where neutral and just chill with a cool girl. Extra credit: having a friend who's a girl wingman for you is a huge.
/r/seduction04/10/19 12:40 PM
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Here's a question for you. Did you enjoy her company and do you want to see her again? Not every interaction has to lead directly to sex. Slow down and enjoy the journey.
/r/seduction04/10/19 12:02 PM
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No offense. I'm sure you intended this as a joke. However, depression is a serious problem as are all mental illnesses. In any way stigmatizing someone over their illness will increase the likelihood of them not seeking help and that's the last thing we all want, right? If a teenager (or anyone) says they're depressed offer help, not scorn. If you don't know how to help, find someone that does.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/19 03:41 AM
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Yes. People need to be very much in the moment to have an edge on perceiving other people's cues. Some do it more subconsciously and can't explain what they are doing. But it is more of an art than science. Police (and military) interrogators, mental health professionals, etc all have training to hone that natural ability. It's possible to develop it. It's like a muscle, it needs to be trained properly to work properly.
/r/seduction05/07/17 05:46 AM
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Not sure how much this subject has to do with seduction, but I'll play ball. In as much as I have a very hard time taking people's feeling into account (in the moment), I've seen first hand how this can be a problem. As far as I know, I am not on the autism spectrum, but I have ruined several romantic relationships by not reading my partners boundaries properly, and misjudging how my actions would be perceived. Perhaps I'm just a selfish asshole? Maybe.
/r/seduction05/07/17 04:25 AM
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You're psyching yourself out by over thinking things. You know girls are attracted to you. So, just go with it. If they want to be with you, they will be. If they don't, or you don't want to be with them, you won't. Move on. And keep moving til you figure yourself out. Just stop standing around looking down at your feet and wishing "what if...", it's not helpful and it will keep you back.
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:58 AM
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Is he a female? Is he going back to Saudi to live? Slightly different circumstances, no? Tho, yes, I did overstate my point. But, from what OP says, it's an easy assumption to make that she's playing things "safe."
/r/seduction01/06/17 09:35 AM
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That's a huge cultural divide, bro. Dating in Islamic societies isn't anything like what we do here. Even if she's interested in you, she could literally be killed for not being a virgin when it comes time for her to get married. All it takes is for the wrong person to make the wrong comment and she's done. Let this one pass. Be her friend of you really want to spend time with her. Get the feel for having "normal" conversion with a girl you like. Build your confidence in yourself. And maybe you'…
/r/seduction01/06/17 04:57 AM
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