MrClassyPotato Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’s I care. I appreciate women with a drive for improvement and a dedication to something, usually a career is a very productive channel for that given that it also makes money. I can't imagine being with a woman who has a basic job and does not want to do something more complex and improve overtime. I am strongly put off by complacency. Why do you think most men don't care?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 09:29 AM
2	The Red Pill is the most effective strategy for men in the world of modern dating. While I don't agree that misogyny isn't a deciding factor in a lot of cases, the Tate and RP fans went there BECAUSE they couldn't get laid, not the other way around	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 11:38 AM
2	Guys could put more effort into their dating profiles, pictures, and conversations to get better results. They are their own worse enemies. Very interesting article, idk if it's very extrapolable since it's 14 years old and has some big caveats at the bottom. Would be cool to have it replicated	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 04:00 PM
0	Guys could put more effort into their dating profiles, pictures, and conversations to get better results. They are their own worse enemies. It's a self fulfilling prophecy for sure. They will then complain about women being superficial and generic when they didn't put in effort to attracting compatible partners. A shallow presentation will attract shallow people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 03:48 PM
4	Q4M: what is an “all men are like that” type of generalization that you’re tired of OTHER MEN saying? This makes sense. It's the kind of thing that they need to overcome on their own; There is no woman in a relationship with you who is going to convince you that there are "good women"; what a disrespectful think to ask of your partner. Your analogy with the reverse is perfect. The unloveable insecurity too. They need to believe in themselves, be vulnerable, hope she likes them, and nope out if she doesn't. Putting the burden on your partner to make you believe you are loveable is insane for any …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 03:46 PM
1	Guys could put more effort into their dating profiles, pictures, and conversations to get better results. They are their own worse enemies. It’s important to display some aspects of your personality, it’s so weird that men fight this. Some men have so little self esteem that they can't imagine a woman genuinely liking them, so they only think in terms of maximizing the number of matches, because to them, maximizing their authenticity will get them 0 matches, as they believe themselves to be worthless. So the only way to get anything, to them, is casting as wide a net as possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 02:34 PM
1	Guys could put more effort into their dating profiles, pictures, and conversations to get better results. They are their own worse enemies. Sounds interesting, where is that from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 02:32 PM
5	Q4M: what is an “all men are like that” type of generalization that you’re tired of OTHER MEN saying? Weaker men are constantly droning on about being vulnerable. Most of us only need that occasionally, not all the time, and our partners let us without losing respect for us because we don't do it all the time and we're not insecure. I think the advice about being vulnerable is not about being emotional, or needing emotional comfort from the woman. That's what a lot of men think being vulnerable is, but in reality the "attractive" kind of vulnerability is not being afraid of speaking your mind, m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 02:28 PM
1	Women judge men's morality and merit on whether or not they are attracted to him Idk why red pillers and blue pillers alike want to oversimplify everything. No, it's not just charisma and personality. It's also obviously not just looks. Why do you grab the premise "visual attraction changes perception" and reach the conclusion "visual attraction is all that matters"??? There are many factors, humans are complicated af. You just found out one of many factors matters more that you thought, and another matters less. WHY do you take that to the extreme? Why is it always so black…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/24 11:18 AM
2	Q4M: Given the "ideal" wife/girlfriend/partner, do you genuinely enjoy providing? So you aim to give no tangible effort into the relationship? Why are you implying that the only way that men give tangible effort in a relationship is financially? This seems far from true, at least as far as the ideal relationship is concerned. It's kind of a femcel talking point in my experience, the equivalent of the redpill's "women are only good for sex". An opinion that can only come from deeply unsatisfied and cynical people who don't truly view deep value in other people or in relationsh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 04:07 PM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. I thought you were saying you were attractive, now I'm confused. In any case, why don't you bulk up if it bothers you? It's worth it	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 05:50 PM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. And how is that not personality? We can have a long discussion on what that means and it's not anywhere as bleak as you seem to think, but that literally proves that they care about personality. No one said they cared about an abstract ideal of a "good" personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 05:28 PM
2	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. The saying that women like personality is just straight up false Are you autistic? Last person that told me this was autistic lol. Like I genuinely can't understand how you can say that if you have normal human emotional intelligence/social skills. Maybe you're thinking about which men women are sexually attracted to and not thinking about long term compatibility? Even then what you're saying it's dumb, but I would see your point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 05:19 PM
5	"Most Women Don't Love Most Men" is natural - Most HUMANS don't Love most Humans You could easily make a selection criteria to pick a top 5% of women where the vast majority of men would prefer putting their dick in them too, that just means there's a relatively objective way to measure how attractive someone is. And it's obviously not true that it's the SAME type of man lol, there are just some generally attractive traits that most women like. The rest that is interpreted as women being unfair comes from the disparity in sexual libido. More men want to fuck than women so wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 05:11 PM
3	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. I am constantly bothered by how men around me seem to prioritize looks. Anytime I talk about a girl it's never "is she cool", it's "is she pretty/hot". It's never "tell me what she's like", it's always "show me a picture of her". Granted I don't talk to women about this stuff, but saying men don't care that much about body and face is delulu And just because men like a larger variation in body types, that doesn't mean they value body type less... it just means there's a bigger variance. Each ind…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 05:01 PM
2	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. Dude are you seriously arguing men don't care about women's bodies/looks and women don't care about men's personality? Do you like, know anyone irl? Any couples? Any women? Any men? wtf	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 04:33 PM
1	Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change. How skinny are we talking? Height and weight? I feel like this gets very easily lost in the conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 04:30 PM
1	How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers? he'd pay me to do manual labor	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 04:23 PM
1	How do you think the world would look if there were more absent mothers? How is any of that child abuse what, this is just downplaying real abuse or inferring stuff that isn't in the text	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 04:19 PM
2	Why is men’s dating advice “you are wrong”, and women’s “he is wrong”? For some men, it's hard to have true platonic relationships with women, especially when they are physically attracted to them. They just can't shake off the thought of dating/fucking them, that's why they choose to walk away. They don't trust themselves to be able to be real friends, which would either make them or the other party suffer, so walking away is the mature choice unfortunately. I don't know how common it truly is, but I have heard many men irl say it is impossible to have true male-f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 05:42 PM
1	If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south! I'll admit that women's mental health is very rarely a topic of discussion among real life conversations with other men (it still has come up over a dozen times), but I have literally never once in my life heard a woman in real life talking about men's mental health, and I have no idea where you're coming from with that. Admittedly I've had probably hundreds of times more conversations with men than women, might just be statistics (possibly the same thing has happened to you). Maybe it's a cultu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 02:48 PM
3	Why is men’s dating advice “you are wrong”, and women’s “he is wrong”? It's very hard to avoid catching feelings as a lonely man when you have no previous female contact, or if he does, it's still hard to not catch them if he's never opened up before and the girl accepts him. Until around 1-2 years ago I had no female friends, kissless virgin (social anxiety, low ambition, low self-esteem, poor social skills), it was very hard to not immediately jump to fantasy the moment a woman showed any kind of interest (even simply being nice). The irony is that becoming attac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 02:43 PM
1	If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south! Aren't you also being a hypocrite by saying it's ok for women to do the same as men as long as men do it? In fact isn't that by definition hipocrisy? Aside from that, as a man I think you are extremely wrong that most men, or even a minority of men only care about appearance. Yes it's important, probably more important than for women, but just talk to men, a matching personality is so much more important... You genuinely sound like an incel saying the only thing women care about is 6 feet 6 inch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 01:43 PM
1	If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south! Do you believe women empathize with men's struggles significantly more than men empathize with women's struggles? Or do you believe women's struggles are fundamentally worse? What's your perspective on this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 01:40 PM
7	Why is men’s dating advice “you are wrong”, and women’s “he is wrong”? Though I have discussed dating/relationships with guy friends too? The kind of men I'm talking about have no close female friends, maybe female acquaintances at best. It's hard to explain because by being a woman, you likely have never come across and truly learned about these men. It's not a dig at you or anything, it's just tautological - you can't be friends with men who have no female friends. I often wonder too about women with no male friends and their struggles. Do you think it's easier f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 01:27 PM
12	Why is men’s dating advice “you are wrong”, and women’s “he is wrong”? I think this is the biggest difference. A lot more men have no close friendships to discuss this kind of topic, and even among the ones that do there's often a lot of shame implied about struggling with this stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 10:57 AM
17	Why is men’s dating advice “you are wrong”, and women’s “he is wrong”? I just wanna say for any woman reading this, this guy does not represent all men at all lol, I promise many men actually care about personality a LOT	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 10:14 AM
1	A root cause of the issues in dating today is that dating advice is not balanced for pro-social men You think a guy who goes "hmm hmm" "that's crazy" while she talks is jsut as attractive as a guy who actively engages with her, has interesting conversations, makes her laugh? You don't think this makes him attractive? Are you autistic perchance?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 04:09 PM
2	A root cause of the issues in dating today is that dating advice is not balanced for pro-social men It's not that intuition is attractive, it simply allows you to be socially competent in a myriad of ways, which is attractive. Being good at communicating, understanding social cues, being able to articulate feelings and ideas, knowing when and how to do certain things is attractive, intuition allows you to build those skills. I disagree with OP, I think it can be learned with enough dedicated effort and practice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 04:04 PM
1	There’s nothing wrong with high standards. Did I say it doesn't? I've said that depending on (shitty) other life circumstances it may have no notable effect. I somewhat disagree, because it also matters in friendships, not just dating, and those are much less affected by status. I know I'm doing the "just give up and find happiness in yourself" meme, but I'm just saying self worth is useful outside of dating too. As for dating, maybe it would have a smaller absolute effect as with an average looking, 5/10 man, where attitude and personal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/24 03:56 PM
1	There’s nothing wrong with high standards. That only works when your status hasn't already been judged as low for whatever reason. How does this disprove the fact that self worth increases perceived worth? Do you believe that a 5'5 janitor is perceived as the same value, all else being equal, independently of his confidence and self worth? That makes no sense. Just because his baseline worth is low doesn't mean his attitude doesn't change his perceived worth, even if he can't become a "chad" or whatever. And before you imply that, what I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 10:33 PM
3	The best thing any man can do is to stop chasing women. Approaching, stating interest confidently, reacting accordingly isn't chasing. Trying to please her after she has rejected him or doesn't reciprocate at all is chasing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 09:15 PM
1	There’s nothing wrong with high standards. It's a function of both. High self-worth leads you to take self-respectful actions and avoid self-humiliative actions, which make you be perceived as higher value. It's not one or the other, they feed off each other. Being judged positively makes you more confident, and vice versa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 08:58 PM
–	Q4W: Are you aware that most young men these days are deeply ashamed of their sexuality? And among non-americans lol, that dude is being very myopic thinking this is caused by religion. Religiousness is falling while this sexual shame is rising; It's a dumb explanation	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 10:48 AM
2	Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issues You just made one of the most common covert contacts. If you could explain it to her well enough, she understands it and so women will understand our unique problem and we have a problem free life. Followed with some validation seeking that she could care less about. I understand your point and it could be true, but honestly I think I mainly wanted to formulate these thoughts to myself. I try to maintain a rational middle term between blue and red pill ideas, as I strongly believe that's where t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 09:22 AM
7	Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issues I don't agree with his "solution", but I wanted to clarifiy that me meant that without simping, these women would be incentivized to change into what OP considers "appropriate". He doesn't mean removing those women, he means no more simping => those women become "normal". Load of horseshit if you ask me tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 12:27 AM
4	Question for men. If you could fix men's biggest issues Let me try to explain his point in a different way. Most men deeply want female affection (physical and emotional, both), but a lot of them are insecure about their lack of success on that area. Frustration at not getting as much female attention as they'd like is what fuels a lot of negative male behavior. Incels and fuckboys fpr example, though seemingly complete opposites, both can have their behaviours explained by this insecurity. Because of this insatisfaction, men will turn to "dating tac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 12:21 AM
1	Stop posting female hate in this subreddit. Lmao this sub is hilarious	/r/MGTOW	13/06/17 11:47 AM