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LifestyleMrColfax/r/seduction22/12/25 12:43 PM
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1

I guess he means all the stuff he needed help with he saved for asking the girls
/r/seduction21/05/26 11:13 AM
1

I'm in my 30s and invisible to women. I keep in shape (on the skinnier side which doesn't help) and I'm hygienic. I'm not really successful but have an mid level office job.
/r/seduction06/09/25 11:28 AM
1

I've tried bulking before and lifting as often as possible. I ended up fat without much muscle because I over did it apparently. Also the fat wasn't consistent - I looked weird, arse and stomach were fat but my arms and legs were still small.
/r/seduction21/08/25 10:23 AM
3

to that point Damn, so she was bumped from top spot
/r/seduction03/06/24 06:11 AM
3

lower your standards How low we talkin?
/r/seduction25/05/24 12:48 PM
144

If I run into a girl today I'm gonna say "Baby, you are cute. I would flirt with you but I'm waiting for Part 2"
/r/seduction21/05/24 06:30 AM
1

Can I ask re FWBs: do you have to maintain some sort of relationship with them (eg text them occasionally, send memes, remember their bday) if you want to continue being FWBs, or can you literally not communicate for weeks and arrange a session out of the blue?
/r/seduction07/05/24 06:04 AM
2

In this economy?
/r/seduction06/05/24 05:10 AM
14

Just remember: most people who don't go to the gym don't understand gym culture and pride. I can hit a PR and be really proud of myself but most non-gym people I would mention this too don't give a shit. However, if I were to say it to a gym goer then they would automatically appreciate the hard work that went in to achieving it.
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:42 AM
4

Begin by just being friendly with then and talking about school stuff, then if you are receptive Begin flirting
/r/seduction23/08/22 12:54 AM
1

I need one of those too What's she like?
/r/seduction23/08/22 12:49 AM
1

This might sound like a weird question but what do you think when you see yourself naked? Also, do you ever picture yourself having sex?
/r/seduction22/08/22 12:39 PM
2

You were onto something there at first, then......
/r/seduction22/08/22 11:49 AM
3

Average American woman= body count of 7. Average Finnish woman: over 20. You seen their partying Prime Minister?
/r/seduction21/08/22 01:41 PM
1

I see attractive girls at the gym every now and then. I always say to myself that I have no chance with them (even if they are single) as the gym is the very place where there are far more attractive and muscular guys than me.
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:09 PM
1

A nice haircut and style will beat muscles 4/5 times. I will say however that clothes do look better if you fill them out. I often will see clothes on mannequins or models (who are obviously built well), then when I wear them they look not as good.
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:32 AM
1

EDIT: I jus want to fuck a lot of college girls NSA Fair enough
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:08 AM
8

What about them thigh high socks?
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:00 AM
1

It's only a mistake if you do it twice Learn from this!
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:25 AM
2

Ain't nobody getting out of this bitch alive. You might as well send it. Eleanor Roosevelt quote, right?
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:24 AM
8

Same applies for job interviews. You can't overthink them but you also can't under prepare them and not be serious about it.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:31 AM
5

Awesome. Good luck and update
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:32 PM
3

Fair enough, but why does he sound like Daniel Radcliffe?
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:31 PM
6

Then what happened? Don't leave us hanging bro
/r/seduction12/08/22 06:20 AM
7

Hang on a tick - this guy is teaching about dating to a room full of women. Do they realise how easy it would be to get dates from guys, or am I missing something?
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:42 AM
8

Hmm, maybe that's why they do it, so that people don't approach them.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:23 AM
1

Yeah I must say Reddit has put me off but reading his makes it seem doable. Problem with me is photos and lack of. Can I ask how many times you got laid from dates?
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:19 AM
4

So the legends are true!
/r/seduction10/08/22 12:50 AM
1

Are you a doctor? By coworkers do you mean doctors and nurses?
/r/seduction10/08/22 12:15 AM
11

I imagine it wouldn't be difficult being in your 30s because if you find a fellow 30-something Y/O (or late 20s) they may want a FWB arrangement as plenty of people are very busy at that age. I have heard stories of people who are too busy with their careers to have a relationship but still want the release and relaxation that sex gives so an FWB arrangement is ideal for them.
/r/seduction10/08/22 12:13 AM
2

Plus a lot of good advice from people here that he is constantly knocking back
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:13 AM
3

Many people started going to the gym not being confident. It increases over time.
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:01 AM
0

I agree Rack or tits?
/r/seduction08/08/22 02:59 AM
2

Try saying what you are thinking. If you're thinking they are amazing then say that. If a thought pops into your head about how good they feel in your hands/mouth then say that.
/r/seduction08/08/22 02:58 AM
1

Thanks for this write-up man. I saw this in my feed and was distracted then later realised (luckily) that I hadn't read it, so went and searched for it. I'm really glad I did. This will be a big help for me when I delve into OLD. A lot of great insights and decent advice rather than the usual online dating is useless etc etc. Thanks!
/r/seduction07/08/22 11:49 AM
1

Plenty of guys who have experience finish quickly (some girls take it as a compliment). Just have to make sure she gets hers.
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:20 AM
1

That's like saying all of your bad qualities in a job interview. It doesn't give people confidence in "hiring" you. There might be some gems out there who would say that they are ok and will teach you on the job, but most won't.
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:18 AM
9

What this guy said. Who Dares Wins
/r/seduction02/08/22 11:06 AM
2

I've had sex with 5 women the last month (I know to some of you this is no big deal Yeah totally no big deal cries
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:07 AM
6

True. They just do stuff.
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:18 PM
0

This sub usually recommends guys hit the gym. Question: do girls like that?
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:39 AM
1

So some women struggle with pleasing another woman despite having the same genitalia? That's interesting.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:33 AM
2

San Diego I think
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:31 AM
9

"You miss 100% of the shots you don't got for" - Some Guy
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:43 AM
1

Yeah but that's you (and I would pick up on that) but many guys wouldn't
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:38 AM
3

Don't eat dinner in the bathroom
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:24 AM
2

That guy sounds like Noel Fielding
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:51 AM
0

Ok. Thinking back, she was never interested. I thought so.
/r/seduction12/07/22 09:38 AM
10

A lot of people don't realise this, that nearly all western countries - the US, UK, Australia, Canada, New Zealand etc - are very multicultural, and many many other nations have virtually no high levels of other migrated races.
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:29 AM
8

Panties practically melt off
/r/seduction01/07/22 09:42 AM
4

Better make sure your car is clean
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:54 AM
-1

Guys might not do it because opportunities rarely come their way (aka they are desperate). It could be that they have a high sex drive and can't resist.
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:27 AM
12

Maybe his brother is a pharmacist?
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:44 AM
1

Oh I forgot they did those things. Wonder if people get success at them
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:05 AM
1

I always look at building your physique and getting jacked as eliminating a disadvantage rather than creating an advantage, but some view it differently.
/r/seduction11/05/22 12:28 AM
1

Curious as to those two f-closes. Were they really into you at first or did it take time?
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:28 AM
3

Why is Switzerland the hardest?
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:26 AM
1

CrossFit is full of attractive women.
/r/seduction04/04/22 01:55 AM
1

Do you go down on girls? Focus on that and foreplay (explore her body with your mouth and hands) and that will prolong the session. Act like it's her birthday every time.
/r/seduction03/04/22 11:31 PM
3

Are you serious?
/r/seduction03/04/22 11:22 PM
51

"My priest said the same thing"
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:33 AM
1

Hey man I live in Australia. Country people aren't that use to other ethnicities. They mostly marry other people in the town and stick to Caucasians. The ones who move to the cities usually are more liberal and open.
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:19 AM
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Wrong. Australia is one of the most multicultural countries. If you walk around you see mixed race couples everywhere. Think of somewhere like Japan, which hardly has any foreigners in the country.
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:17 AM
136

That was an investment smash
/r/seduction29/03/22 09:37 AM
5

Talk to her
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:53 AM
1

What is kino?
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:51 AM
74

Are you actually moving or do you just say that?
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:44 AM
2

Plenty of people in your situation do it. Go out and do things
/r/seduction13/03/22 07:43 AM
9

For some people it would be
/r/seduction13/03/22 01:24 AM
3

Well if you don't wanna do it then don't, if it's too hard like you say (hint: it isn't)
/r/seduction13/03/22 01:19 AM
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People get laid easily when travelling, or so I've heard
/r/seduction13/03/22 01:10 AM
1

What do you play in the band?
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:00 PM
1

Work out and achieve an "Adonis" aesthetic This is a good goal to shoot for, but just start with small steps and appreciating that your body can look quite good after a year or two of consistent lifting. Then you can focus on the "Adonis" stage.
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:43 AM
1

Dis you meet them online or a mix of places?
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:59 AM
1

Does it take you long to hookup with a girl you meet at the gym or do you have to work on the chemistry for weeks or months?
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:37 AM
86

Ask him if he wants to come around to watch a movie. Human nature will take its course. If you place two boxers in a room, mostly likely at one point they'll start fighting.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:54 AM
1

What details do you note about the encounter?
/r/seduction27/02/22 01:09 PM
2

That is a decent amount for high school. I thought it would be difficult to get a lot in HS as every one would hear about it etc.
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:46 AM
7

Wow, at 12 I was playing with my Star Wars Lego. That is an interesting thought to have at 12. Do you feel pressure to get that last 7?
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:45 AM
6

Were they with someone?
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:09 AM
-1

It's a genuine concern. Imagine if you bought a partner a gift every week? Although nice, you'd wonder if it's a bit too much.
/r/seduction25/02/22 02:36 AM
2

Salty
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:31 AM
2

Was that pun deliberate?
/r/seduction21/02/22 09:17 AM
7

He doesn't go to the gym and gets laid - proceeds to tell the world you don't need the gym to get laid. Plenty of dad bods out there getting laid left, right and centre.
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:23 AM
1

When you get back what happens then? Do you escalate?
/r/seduction17/02/22 07:32 AM
2

Walk that fine line between showing interest but also not being too OTT with interest
/r/seduction03/02/22 12:22 AM
0

Haha, true. Kinda makes sense though.
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:37 AM
0

So they are basically saying they prefer to be filled up rather than have something that feels long in them?
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:06 AM
1

Is there one for girth?
/r/seduction26/01/22 11:37 PM
17

That would actually work I think
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:17 PM
6

I wonder what she was thinking between when you left each other and texting you?
/r/seduction16/12/21 09:05 AM
1

I hope so
/r/seduction09/12/21 12:27 AM
5

What do you mean specifically by 'got healthy'?
/r/seduction09/12/21 12:26 AM
14

My gym has medicine balls and fit balls, plenty of balls
/r/seduction08/12/21 09:36 AM
2

Not your fault. Just reading through a few and the guys there just casually telling stories that seem to relay that rape occurred.
/r/seduction02/12/21 03:18 AM
2

Few rape stories there
/r/seduction02/12/21 01:41 AM
1

I've never used Bumble - does it really cost $30 per month??
/r/seduction20/11/21 04:13 AM
35

Is this why they teach you how to tie knots in Scouts?
/r/seduction11/11/21 10:19 AM
1

Hit the iron while it's hot Hate to do this... 'Strike while the iron is hot'
/r/seduction10/11/21 03:20 AM
1

Thanks Also, any tips to escalate the conversation sexually?
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:25 PM
2

Make it about her or talk about things as opposed to interview style questions Any tips re this? How to make it less like an interview?
/r/seduction03/11/21 06:37 AM
3

Great work man. This is motivational. Can I ask how you phrased it when you asked her to hook up? Also, did you feel nervous/rusty when you went back home (ie. had it been a while)?
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:46 AM
6

She's probably really shy
/r/seduction30/10/21 01:48 AM
1

Yeah, third one is difficult. You can be great at conversation with anyone else and be really sociable etc, but there's nothing that assists you in knowing how to escalate conversation with a woman. With the second one there are unlimited resources out there to help you dress better.
/r/seduction30/10/21 01:44 AM
1

Not really
/r/seduction19/10/21 11:43 PM
1

How successful are you,? In which way? Dating?
/r/seduction19/10/21 08:19 PM
1

He’s definitely at home when he’s balls deep. What a line. Haha I guess it's like any passion or hobby - it gives me joy and enjoyment, and he is probably really good at it. He knows exactly how what to do before, during, and after sex. In multiple settings as well, not just the bedroom. He knows what, in particular, makes women tick. Stuff you’ll only know that if you actually get know female bodies instead of using women as a fleshlight. Would be interesting to know this. I mean I known not to…
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:36 AM
14

This is the advice you hear with dating as well. Just be the best version of yourself/improve and work on yourself and women will become interested in you. Well from my personal experience that is not the case. I would say I've reached 80% towards the point where I am where I want to be in life and so far zero interest from women. TBH I don't exactly want any interest at the moment because of said improving (gym, saving money, career) but even so people who think women will just flock to you are…
/r/seduction19/10/21 02:25 AM
1

Was he good in bed? Could you tell he had the experience of being with 100+ women?
/r/seduction19/10/21 01:33 AM
2

What kind of program do you do OP?
/r/seduction08/10/21 12:27 AM
0

Did you not wear protection?
/r/seduction06/10/21 09:15 AM
1

Seriously? Nothing?
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:31 AM
7

Gonna need more details bro
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:40 AM
24

Beat it raw. That friction heats up and bakes that raw scallop cod smell into your skin. I'm no expert but I don't think this is the case. Armpits can be very smelly if you workout alone but there's nothing to say they can't smell nice if cleaned regularly. It's not permanent - the human body is more evolved than that.
/r/seduction18/09/21 05:20 AM
3

Okayyyy
/r/seduction15/09/21 07:07 AM
3

How do you ask for consent for sex without sounding clinical?
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:42 AM
1

Have you thought about surgery? It could be expensive but may be a good investment
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:08 AM
1

What about PPL-Upper Lower 5 day split?
/r/seduction07/09/21 10:02 AM
9

That's exactly why clothing companies use well built/athletic models for their items (even the mannequins are jacked), because the clothes look good on them. Ever buy a shirt online thinking it looks good, then trying it on yourself and not liking it? Probably because the model made it look good.
/r/seduction07/09/21 09:59 AM
1

Learn to surf whilst playing an instrument and watch the panties hit the floor
/r/seduction07/09/21 05:42 AM
1

Cool What messages did you send?
/r/seduction22/08/21 12:23 PM
1

Did you both know each other prior?
/r/seduction22/08/21 05:42 AM
33

What a nice friend
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:10 AM
6

So the church was open?
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:06 AM
2

But I do wanna hear what you said to her
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:43 AM
11

I can go into state in 60 sec by doing push-ups on the street What does this mean?
/r/seduction14/07/21 05:31 AM
1

If she is comfortable enough to come back to your place, it will not be out of place at all to make a move on her. It’s your job to make the move, the girl will almost never do it first. In OP's update this exact thing happen, and well...
/r/seduction09/07/21 05:55 AM
2

Great work Keep us updated
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:31 AM
3

Are your married now?
/r/seduction06/07/21 11:43 AM
4

Clearly it is Milwaukee
/r/seduction30/06/21 04:04 AM
7

Correction: a finance girl that gives HJs
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:55 AM
1

If you dress well them women know you look after yourself and actually put in effort (things like children don't do), and have acumen. That translates into relationships, so not only are you looking good and feeling confident but you are giving off signals that you will be considerate, understanding and attentive in a relationship. Women like that. Women don't only get with purely attractive men. Physical attractiveness does tell you much as a person. This aint rocket science.
/r/seduction25/06/21 06:14 AM
1

It may be a trend but I honestly thought Bieber looked like a fool meeting a world leader like that. He looks like a child. Bit like when you see kids a weddings wearing a suit but they have sneakers on - cute because they look like kids. Meanwhile the adults will have dress shoes or boots on.
/r/seduction25/06/21 01:51 AM
3

Did you sleep with 70 women via dating? Surely not all the women you had a date with ended up in bed?
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:57 AM
4

What are open ended questions?
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:55 AM
1

Any update yet?
/r/seduction07/06/21 05:11 AM
5

Please let us know more, these stories can be interesting
/r/seduction07/06/21 05:05 AM
10

Too late!
/r/seduction07/06/21 05:05 AM
2

Also 35. I had no idea. I thought young girls didn't like guys in their 30s. Is it via OLD?
/r/seduction01/06/21 06:18 AM
1

Do elaborate
/r/seduction27/05/21 10:28 AM
6

I should be getting laid every weekend then (except it's only brushing twice a day for me, maybe that's why)
/r/seduction11/05/21 08:10 AM
6

Did you ask for a reference on that fact?
/r/seduction06/05/21 12:03 PM
1

Nursing
/r/seduction06/05/21 12:03 PM
3

Reddit subs, clearly
/r/seduction06/05/21 12:02 PM
5

A year and a half seeing each other at the gym. That's a long time. I can see someone for a few months then I'll never see them again, or I'll see someone for a bit then go months without seeing them then randomly see them again months later.
/r/seduction30/04/21 12:50 PM
1

To me it's not about being submissive but about pleasing and pleasuring the girl (plus I just downright like the thought of it even if she doesn't). That also would get a girl coming back for more.
/r/seduction29/04/21 02:16 AM
1

I guess the key is to enjoy it and want to do it, which is me. He seems like he didn't so never did it - what a shame
/r/seduction29/04/21 12:34 AM
1

How so?
/r/seduction29/04/21 12:33 AM
1

But that's my point. If you are getting sex from prostitutes then you are potentially still not being fulfilled (ie. eating a girl out is awesome).
/r/seduction28/04/21 01:23 PM
10

What about aspects of paid sex that isn't as great as sex without paying, ie. BJs? Not sure if prostitutes let you eat them out, etc either.
/r/seduction28/04/21 11:49 AM
5

Waiting for Godot haha nice
/r/seduction28/04/21 04:56 AM
1

My fiancé is super quiet and before we actually dated, I really wanted to see his reaction to seeing me naked for this first time. His aloofness created this giant mystery about what he would be like in bed. Gonna need more details here. What did he act like?
/r/seduction13/04/21 04:52 AM
1

What brand do you use?
/r/seduction07/04/21 02:11 AM
41

"Eat more pussy" always comes across (to me anyways) as a true indicator of a "try hard" sex meister. Every woman is different. That may be true but on the other side of the argument there is the fact that a lot of dudes aren't interested at all in going down, and you can really stand out from the rest if you do do it. In fact some aren't concerned with the girl's pleasure at all, which is a big mistake. Going down on her shows that you are willing to pay attention to her needs, whether you like…
/r/seduction06/04/21 09:55 AM
3

Can't believe a story written by a guy called 12_itch_dong?
/r/seduction05/04/21 04:07 AM
2

Can't believe a story written by a guy called 12_itch_dong?
/r/seduction05/04/21 04:07 AM
9

Have a social hobby where you can meet girls Such as?
/r/seduction19/03/21 06:03 AM
14

Rule of thumb is to always have a condom on you in your twenties Literally on you (your penis)
/r/seduction07/03/21 11:02 AM
14

Girls, wine, condoms, weed, milkshakes, Netflix amd chill - they don't teach you this stuff in Scouts.
/r/seduction07/03/21 11:00 AM
2

Definitely bring a milkshake. This is one of the fundamentals of proper social etiquette.
/r/seduction07/03/21 10:44 AM
4

Was thinking of taking a milkshake Are you 12?
/r/seduction07/03/21 10:43 AM
1

What was she like?
/r/seduction14/02/21 12:31 AM
3

What kinds of stuff was he saying?
/r/seduction14/02/21 12:27 AM
1

What did you say and do? We need details man
/r/seduction09/02/21 03:22 AM
7

Helps being an island nation with state governments working with the federal.
/r/seduction18/01/21 04:10 AM
3

Aussie here also We smashing covid Mark McGowan loves a night out and picking up chicks which is why he's so hard-lined.
/r/seduction18/01/21 04:07 AM
8

I can see that this is true The friends that I grew up with mostly dated and hooked up within one centralised group (obviously with people within that group as well as their outside friends, if that makes sense).
/r/seduction09/12/20 08:03 AM
3

Upvoted based on the last line
/r/seduction25/11/20 08:18 AM
28

I used that to my advantage. I now can fuck whenever I want to Ok, now gonna need the details on this please
/r/seduction15/11/20 07:17 AM
2

Congrats man I also haven't kiss a girl before (I'm a late bloomer as well) and I'm intrepid about how to do it. Did you read up and research how to kiss or did you just go for it? Did you enjoy it?
/r/seduction31/10/20 04:39 AM
1

fitter clothing... women find them sexy I guess All of those or just fitter clothing? IYO
/r/seduction26/10/20 06:29 AM
23

This guy hangs out in hostels picking up girls. Kinda like bragging about always winning blackjack when you're the dealer.
/r/seduction13/08/20 09:28 AM
4

The coochy part got me
/r/seduction12/08/20 04:11 AM
3

Guernsey?
/r/seduction06/08/20 01:20 AM
1

Ok. I might try that to see. I always lose the desire to go again after the first time.
/r/seduction28/07/20 03:08 AM
1

Ahhhhhh
/r/seduction28/07/20 03:07 AM
1

What hobbies did you take up?
/r/seduction28/07/20 01:58 AM
1

Congrat for addressing this facet of your life that you wanted. Onwards and upwards.
/r/seduction28/07/20 01:55 AM
1

Awesome work man Virgin here also. I have often wondered about the whole sex more than once per night, but I just assumed it was only capable mostly from those who are more experienced. Was it easy?
/r/seduction28/07/20 01:53 AM
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I have heard this. I am a virgin in my 30s and I often hear people complaining and lamenting that they haven't had sex in a year, 6 months, 2 years, whatever and I often think that's nothing to complain about (even though I'd love to have sex). It must be like chocolate - you don't know how good it is until you've tried it and then you have a taste for it.
/r/seduction28/07/20 01:44 AM
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I appreciate that
/r/seduction28/07/20 01:36 AM
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Ah. How nice. I was wondering if he was as charming and nice has he seemed to be in your earlier description. Sounds like a good time was had, and I'm sure you're on Cloud 9.
/r/seduction26/07/20 01:54 PM
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What was he like in that regard? (I'm hooked on this story haha)
/r/seduction26/07/20 01:42 AM
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Thanks for the insight. Oh really? I've heard that, that you just have to close your eyes and do it. It's strange because I think I am overthinking it because I wasn't always concerned about it but for some reason I think I will screw it up.
/r/seduction20/07/20 03:14 AM
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I have been waiting for that as well I guess because I agree that that is a better way of meeting girls. Man I have to ask what kissing was actually like? It's something I have a bit of reservations for/anxiety over (strangely, more than sex). Were you like me and have researched and looked at videos of what to do and what not to do?
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:11 AM
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Great work. Much inspiration from this. Can I ask how old you are? I too haven't kissed a girl or been on a date but more and more I'm thinking stuff it, sure I never had those teenage years where you would kiss girls at parties or play truth or dare, but I'm thinking I'll just try online dating and go for a date and just see where it goes.
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:04 AM
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Thank you so much. This is really inspiring. Not usually do I see a post containing both things I'm working towards: changing my body and dating/meeting girls. The bed thing is also cool haha. Such a great way to get a girl coming back.
/r/seduction17/07/20 12:14 PM
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I agree with this but it may risk looking boring and unimaginative if you were to be asked by her "what pets do you have?" and you reply "a dog etc etc, what pets do you have?" then "what do you study?" "commerce, what do you study?" then "how many siblings do you have?" "a brother and a sister, how many do you have?" See my point? Sounds robotic.
/r/seduction17/07/20 02:19 AM
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Great post. I'm currently in the process of improving myself physically (gym). What kind of bed do you have? What makes it comfy? Also are you able to please outline your body transformation journey and what you did? Seems like you lost weight and bulked up (a tan as well).
/r/seduction15/07/20 11:19 AM
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Are there any other good dating shows out there?
/r/seduction06/03/20 11:00 AM
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Pretty much no to all of those questions. But I am comfortable around women and I can talk fairly well to people. I have much progress to make. I intend first to get over my insecurities about my body.
/r/seduction19/02/20 02:03 AM
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Congrats on the sex. Seriously this is great progress for you, not just eith sex. I bet you feel like you can make big strides forward now in many aspects of dating and life. Newfound confidence. I'm a 33 year-old virgin as well. Although I wouldn't be surprised if I'm still one by the time I'm 34 in a few months. This gives me hope. I too am afraid I won't last long with my first time. wake-up fuck ? Morning sex? Nice
/r/seduction18/02/20 04:31 AM
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Innovative thinking
/r/seduction18/02/20 04:25 AM
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Fake it til you make it
/r/seduction08/02/20 04:37 AM
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How can one physically escalate more?
/r/seduction04/02/20 06:25 AM
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I like that. Sounds like you were casual and not too corny. Girls like that, and the smirking is a very good sign.
/r/seduction07/01/20 06:44 AM
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Good work. What was the push pull line you used?
/r/seduction07/01/20 05:35 AM
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I've never had that great of a naturally good smile. I inherited my mouth from my Dad's side of the family whereas the top lip sorta curves down instead of up, meaning I can never have a beaming easy still like most people. My sisters do which is annoying (they must have my mum's genes). Sometimes my "smile" comes off nice when I see photos etc when I wasn't trying, which is ok. I agree with what most people here have said in that girls are attracted to guys who are smiling, laughing or smirking…
/r/seduction17/12/19 07:03 AM
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It's interesting because, maybe I'm not a touchy person but I find hand holding to be quite affectionate and deep, as in something you'd do with someone you've know for a while. I suppose everyone is different. I mean some people literally have sex hours after meeting someone for the first time, and sex is pretty much the closest physically you could get to another person. I would like to do it because it sounds rather sweet but at the same time I don't think I'd have the conviction of pulling i…
/r/seduction12/12/19 06:45 AM
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That's a good one, I like that. I (M) have neither big hands or small hands (maybe the same size as a girl's) so I dunno if I could pull this off. My question though is how do you bring this up in conversation? I assume you can't just change the subject from whatever you were talking about to say my hands are small let's compare?
/r/seduction12/12/19 06:37 AM
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Oh wow, that's interesting. Sorry, one never can tell sarcasm via text. I've never been on a date but read and looked into videos etc on these techniques (only genuine ones, I'm not into that whole 'game' thing and being fake) - it's so interesting hearing from someone directly who has experienced it, especially a female. Any examples? I found I have done this approach from time to time in my life without knowing it, based on the fact I try to inject some humor into a lot of things. There's a fe…
/r/seduction09/12/19 09:47 PM
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Sarcasm?
/r/seduction08/12/19 09:24 AM
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Thanks This is what I kinda fear, the repetition. I suppose it's unrealistic to expect to find someone straight away but nearly everyone in my life has settled down with their 1st or 2nd partner. I suppose I just don't like the thought of constantly meeting people and I have never liked wasting time.
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:58 AM
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I thought push pull was giving her a compliment then breaking the "tension" with a joke or something. They say that a compliment put out there are left kinda hanging there and could be awkward, like you trying to hard or being too into her (or even fake)... but then by saying something funny or being self deprecating you are deflating the tension. But the key is still to say a genuine compliment so when she has laughed but also she'll remember and take in the compliment. It's a good way to be bo…
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:38 AM
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What if you're like me and not experienced at kissing and also at an age where you're expected to be?
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:18 AM
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I did get laid a few times but it is nothing to write home about Dear Mom, I got laid last night and it was pretty good, so good I had to tell you about it. Sincerely
/r/seduction06/12/19 02:48 AM
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This is true. Although you have to be careful not to act like you don't give a shit about her
/r/seduction01/11/19 04:23 AM
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I imagine he's rather attractive? It's interesting though because what is drilled into guys, mainly by ourselves, is the constant questions like should I text first, what to say, how often do I text, how to go about a date, what to say to flirt, how not to get rejected when going for a kiss, etc, etc, etc... it just goes to show there are some girls out there that might take all those troubles away from you. Would be nice.
/r/seduction29/10/19 04:43 AM
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That would be rough. I'm guessing 9/10 girls (or guys) would drink: either they truly find the other person attractive or they would just do it to be polite and not want to hurt feelings.
/r/seduction18/10/19 11:57 PM
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I like to think of the bartender just blankly staring at both of them waiting for them to stop talking so that he can take his order
/r/seduction24/09/19 01:24 AM
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I have a question, did the bartender ever get your drink or did he just walk away when you started chatting to her?
/r/seduction23/09/19 07:04 AM
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