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| 7 | Wife of 20 years is uninterested in me.Its the Countdown to Divorce....Prepare yourself, protect your finances. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/11/25 05:13 PM |
| 10 | My (34m) wife (33f) Came home for the holidays and told me that she is no longer in love with me. Is there a way to save this marriage?I will make it short: If she doesn't love you anymore...There is basically NOTHING you can do to save your marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/25 04:56 PM |
| 13 | Would it help our separation if I got my wife something for Valentine’s Day?Do you go around buying your friends valentine's gifts or cards? So why would you start with someone that has moved on? BTW, women have no regard for soft attitude like this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 08:26 AM |
| 6 | Wife service me divorce papers after 11 years of marriage and 2 small children...New Divorcée here, DO NOT MOVE OUT!!! ... The system is already stacked against you as a father. The last thing you want is give your ex any reason to claim abandonment. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/24 11:20 AM |
| 4 | It's not going how she plannedPlease settle everything you can settle out of court...out of court. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/24 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Amicable, Not Messy, Possible?She's the saver? No wonder she wants an amicable divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/23 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Even Celebrity Men Get Screwed20,000 per month??? Does the wife not get a split of the marital assets??? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Fed up with divorce threats"Everytime we get into an argument, she threatens divorce" You are DEFINITELY getting a divorce ...Just a matter of time. However, you still have the chance to decide when the process starts and to start 'tidying up' your assets. By the way, Your wife seems like a cluster B. If that's the case, marriage will not get better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 03:13 PM |
| 13 | She's Not Yours, Its Just Your TurnIts because the most important factor that binds marriage together is the wife's emotions. The same emotions that are so easily controlled by hormones at least once every month. If you are aware that 50 percent of marriages end in divorce and that 80 percent of these are filed by the wife....The odds literally say DON'T DO IT! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Not divorced yet.Are you for real??? Do you actually want a divorce or are you just offended that you are left out? Cheating is still cheating irrespective of the genders involved. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/23 11:57 AM |
| 3 | She came home, f’ed up againShe blames you for her irresponsible actions... That's a big red flag. She will blame you for lack of attention the day you catch her bouncing on Tyrone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/09/23 01:36 PM |
| 2 | I felt guilty thinking about leaving her but thenDo NOT leave the house under any circumstances bar violence....It's called abandonment. I am currently going through a divorce and still living in the same house (I just avoid STBXW at all costs). You are setting yourself up for a financial burden by demonstrating that you are capable of maintaining 2 accommodations... Your wife would just ask to maintain the status quo instead of only one accommodation being the focus of your divorce settlement. Start tidying up your finances first. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/23 08:30 AM |
| 1 | 22M Getting divorcedWhy in the world would anyone want to marry in their teens/20s??? You married waaaay too young...I mean your wife was so young that she was even seeking validation from hormonal boys on CS-Go! Look forward to the impending divorce as a great blessing and grab it with both hands. And, afterwards...Go discover yourself, explore the world,, date around, pick up new hobbies. You've been married one, it is not obligatory that you try that mistake again. I am in my 50s...The vast majority of my male f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/23 08:08 AM |
| 1 | I hate the modern mindsetIn case you are looking forward to marriage for the first time...print out OP's comment and hang it on the wall and reflect on it everyday before you go ahead. The chances of this being you years later is higher than 50 percent. By the way, I am currently going through a divorce too...STBXW, like many strongly believes that her excitement and happiness trumps everything else and the grass is greener on the other side. (Our 2 children are petrified of life with both parents not living under the s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/23 09:50 AM |
| 9 | My wife wants to sit down and talk.Did you cohabitate before marriage? 3 months sounds way too behaving arguments. What happened to the honeymoon period? I am sorry but this marriage looks dead on arrival to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/23 08:13 AM |
| 1 | When did you guys know it was time!I knew my marriage was practically death when my country went into full COVID lockdown. We could stand eachother. We have two children, so I gave it one more year and basically mentally checked out afterwards. She filed and I simply said fine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/23 07:27 PM |
| 5 | Respond or IgnoreI would respond with a simple and formal; Thank you. No smiley face Icons and no phone calls ... And, keep all future responses, to Yes, No, No etc. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/23 07:19 PM |
| 36 | Wife wants to separate as she isnt in love with me any more and I'm brokenBe very wary of women that say "let's be civil about the divorce". It almost always means the opposite. Furthermore, Your wife letting you know that she does not love you anymore rather than wasting your life is a blessing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | So, my wife decided that enough as enough, we will get seperatedIt will only get worse. She will eventually kick you out. Then, you will wonder what made you waste your life with her. Trust me....it doesn't get better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/23 09:05 PM |
| 26 | Girl (31f) I (33m) was dating was a divorcee with history of making out with someone else while married - tried to plan around that history to avoid repeat, didn’t work out.Frankly, you should fix yourself too. No self-assured man should settle for a divorced woman who cheated on her ex-husband and blamed it on being drunk. The red lights were already flashing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/23 09:00 AM |
| 1 | I slept with my stbxwWoooooow.... You messed up😬 If you still had feelings for her...You should have seen the divorce to completion, given her some space/time and then hooked up with her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/23 09:19 PM |
| 18 | How many of you guys felt disrespected and it effected the marriage?"I've been raped by better men than you." Damnnnnn!!! ... Why would anyone with a beating heart say stuff like that?😳😳😳 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/23 07:16 PM |
| 4 | What would you do?"What do you think"??? 😳 Grab your balls out of her purse ... Have some self respect, man!!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/23 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Experienced wife going batshit crazy?Wow!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/23 12:14 PM |
| 2 | I’m 29 and feel like my wife is abusiveLeave...Leave...Leave!!! .. before you have children together. This disrespectful behaviour is just the appetizer for what is yet to come. My only regret is not leaving 10 years ago as i didn't want to be that dad that walked out on my daughter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/23 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Video Games in your 40s?It's a stand-alone headset. Search Meta Quest 2. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Video Games in your 40s?Get a VR headset instead. I suggest Meta Quest... Not only will you game, you will also feel like you are self -improving with the exercise apps. You will also meet thousands of people that you can watch movies with together (Big Screen), Go to concerts with (Horizon Venues). | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Would you marry again?Currently going through a divorce and I will have to say HELL FUCKING NO! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/23 12:20 PM |
| 5 | Are these good enough reasons for me (31M) to divorce my wife (31F)?DO NOT HAVE KIDS WITH HER... IT WILL BE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE YOU EVER MADE!!! It seems like you hardly have anything in common with her now.... Things will only get worse and then you will be trapped until the kids turn adult. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 01:55 PM |
| 8 | Wife changing her mindWhat's wrong with today's men??? Your wife was adamant about wanting a divorce only a few weeks ago, you have now discovered that she was being folded by another man. Now she is not so sure because she knows the settlement terms are not so much in her favour...and you want to give her the opportunity to change this? You are going to end up looking like a fool in a year when accuses you of domestic violence... Gets the police to kick you out of the house and starts the divorce off that setting. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/23 11:56 AM |
| 4 | I need advice.Sorry but I can't blame your wife. You literally handed everything to her on a place. I mean she has NEVER cooked for you and yet, starves you of sex!! what is there for her to look forward to when she predictively knows you will be the apron boy tomorrow just like yesterday? Man up... The ideal world where you hand everything on the platter unconditionally went out of the window with grandpa and grandma. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/22 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Planning for the endHonestly, I think you need a lot of self reflection. The fact that you say you don't regret having an affair after just months into a marriage but care to state that she forgave you anyway indicates that your apology was not genuine anyway. Don't waste your wife's time, divorce her... She will see it as a blessing later. Focus on your therapy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/21 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Divorce AdviceYou know for certain that another man has spunked your wife yet you have a dip in it... After filling for divorce?!? You just lost whatever scraps of respect she had for you. Actually, she would maintain some level of respect if she discovered that you have now acquired a side piece than have sex with her. Maybe the sex was meaningless to you, definitely not her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/21 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Do your ex wives try to come home from time to time to have sex with you ?Hmmmm... You are playing with fire here. Actually, your ex-wife sees you as weak. She knows all she has to do is show some flesh and you will come yapping like a sex starved bull....She is the one in control here. She is your Ex for a reason. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/21 11:00 AM |
| 2 | (29M) -Every conversation with my spouse (28F) removes the life out of me, & makes my heart race.. I’m completely tired of financially supporting this woman. We have no kids, no assets, nothing together. I feel bad because she’s jobless, but I am literally killing my self everyday in this marriage.There are millions of men that wish they are in your position where you share no children or major assets. You would be dumb not to leave ASAP. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/21 10:20 AM |
| 2 | HELP! see comments!Your wife sounds like she has Borderline Personality Disorder. Hence the irrational emotion and acute fear of abandonment. You need to silently leave without looking back or you'll end up emotionally depleted... worse still, you may end up walking into a suicide scene with her as the star. From TODAY start making your plans to leave in secret without giving her ANY HINT that you are about to leave her. Be ready to enter absolute No-Contact after leaving (prefably, move to another State and chang… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/21 09:51 AM |
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