| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Separated about to reconcile but wife has told me she slept with someoneThis man seperates. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/23 11:30 PM |
| 4 | Tell me the good things about getting divorcedLess hair clogging things. My savings rate married was like 10% on 2 incomes. I kept the house, and on 1 income my savings rate is 25%. So you get to keep more of your own money. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/10/23 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Today is sock day.6 months | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/23 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Today is sock day.Oh this life moves one direction : forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/23 11:21 PM |
| 9 | Does your ex refuse to see reality, understand what she did?Lol that sounds familiar | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/23 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Determining home buyout amountIf it has negative equity, I believe she gets zero. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/23 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Determining home buyout amountIs she on the title? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/23 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Drinking problemIf she’s introducing your kids to a new man after 3 months after divorce, and dropped the “not happy anymore” on you … it was 100% an affair. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/23 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Update: STBXW introduced AP to our kid already.Lol, it’s like you’ve read my mind. They actually work together. He’s very senior to her. However, I know if I stir up shit at her work, she may be fired.. which can actually fuck me over in terms of child support. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/23 06:47 PM |
| 2 | “What if?” The prelude to affairs and divorceI’m saving this. Well said. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/23 08:38 PM |
| 32 | Did you ever feel like getting back together with ur ex?Masturbate before seeing her. It helps clear the head. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/23 02:44 AM |
| 1 | When did the feelings of grief end for you?Good stuff. Thanks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 01:19 PM |
| 3 | When did the feelings of grief end for you?Thanks for the insight. I owned the house outright before, but added her name to the title when I refinanced in 2020. Stupid move, gave her claim to a ton of equity. Now it’s done though, mine again! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/23 03:07 PM |
| 1 | STBXW introducing kid to affair partner, and we’re not even divorced.So they work together. Apparently, he’s the office “flirt” … and according to his wife (yes, we talked), he may have a history of stepping out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/23 10:14 PM |
| 1 | STBXW introducing kid to affair partner, and we’re not even divorced.I so so so hope so. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | STBXW introducing kid to affair partner, and we’re not even divorced.I could honestly see this happening. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/23 07:12 PM |
| 0 | STBXW introducing kid to affair partner, and we’re not even divorced.Thank you | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/23 06:39 PM |
| 6 | Respond or IgnoreNo contact. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/23 07:11 PM |
| 2 | If you could go back in time to one year ago...Lol at the time I was a naive young man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/23 03:19 PM |
| 4 | If you could go back in time to one year ago...Get her name off the house. Start stockpiling cash. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/23 03:04 PM |
| 7 | Soon to be ex is requesting all pics of our kid since separation?The wrath of an ex wife is unpredictable. Any new information is a reason for drama. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/23 12:46 AM |
| 10 | Soon to be ex is requesting all pics of our kid since separation?Lol she’s asking for that too. She’s been out since March. Claims she may have forgot something. I’ve had 5mo to wipe any trace that a woman ever lived there. She wont find a thing but still insists. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/23 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Did Anyone Else Divorce a Slob?Huge slob and hoarder! After I kicked her out, she lived with her parents for about a month. I probably tossed a DOZEN trash bags of waste paper, empty makeup containers, apparel boxes, you name it. Then found dozens more boxes of just junk that she kept for years in the attic. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/23 10:05 PM |
| 4 | Divorce happens little by little and then all at onceThis is 100% my experience. 12 total years, 7 in marriage. It took her 3 months to flush it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/23 08:36 PM |
| 3 | South Carolina divorceSounds like she’s cheating again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/23 10:30 AM |
| 3 | STBX Wife is not telling mutual friends about her affair partner - correct record or no comment?Tell the truth. In my experience, I struggled with the same thing. Most of our mutual friends distanced themselves from her, and frankly she stopped investing time in their friendship anyway… probably out of shame. If it makes you feel better, let the truth be known, it definitely helped me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/23 03:10 AM |
| 6 | Ex wife wants to meet up for a beer and talksITS A TRAP! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/23 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Wife says she has “Outgrown our Marriage”I feel your pain. My story is similar. Lawyer up! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/23 12:42 PM |
| 66 | Wife says she has “Outgrown our Marriage”That's 100% affair talk. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Anybody ever regret getting divorced because you never got as good sex again?Same. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/23 10:48 PM |
| 2 | My wife is going on a dateMine did the same thing. It was an EA when I kicked her out. Then became a PA 2 days later when we were “separated.” | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/23 12:37 PM |
| 11 | My wife is going on a dateIt was probably on the ready beforehand | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/23 02:21 AM |
| 23 | My wife is going on a dateSounds like an affair to me. Move on my dude. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Rant: Soon to be ex-wife keeps moving the goal post for child custody for the most trivial reasons.I think it’s her mom. I know she’s been hounding my stbxw to take full custody of my son for absolutely no reason. The woman is in total denial that her daughter even had an affair. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/23 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Rant: Soon to be ex-wife keeps moving the goal post for child custody for the most trivial reasons.Already have attorney. Already using OFW. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Rant: Soon to be ex-wife keeps moving the goal post for child custody for the most trivial reasons.That's been the case so far. Every time she broadsides me with a new reason and moves the goalpost it starts with, "I WANT..." | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Rant: Soon to be ex-wife keeps moving the goal post for child custody for the most trivial reasons.She makes her own money and is supporting the kid fine. I mean cutting her off from dissolving our assets + house equity. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Rant: Soon to be ex-wife keeps moving the goal post for child custody for the most trivial reasons.I'm thinking about cutting her off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Rant: Soon to be ex-wife keeps moving the goal post for child custody for the most trivial reasons.The current schedule is 50/50. Edit: I haven't totally paid her for the house yet. I have stated my intention to pay her a lump sum, which is already in an escrow account to an agreed upon amount for the house; which she has agreed at a significantly lower price than market. The lump sum will be paid in full before the court date. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Rant: Soon to be ex-wife keeps moving the goal post for child custody for the most trivial reasons.I suspect that is going to be the case. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Divorce Anxiety! How to manage?Already tracking daily time when my son is in my custody. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/23 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Divorce Anxiety! How to manage?I have one on retainer, as does she. I had mine draft up the original agreement, and she flipped out, and hired one for herself. Since then, the theme she's had is, "I'm doing what I can to stick up for myself." Yet, I have to keep reminding her, the parenting agreement is about establishing what's the best interest for our son, not her "Sticking up for herself." | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/23 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Divorce settlement - finally.. but something's bugging me - ventingI feel you. My ex’s parents have had all kinds of opinions about my divorce that aren’t based in reality at all. First they think I should GIVE her the house to raise our son. A house I bought 5 years prior to the marriage. Later they think she should get a chance to buy the house for half the equity (less than the balance of the mortgage).. that went away. Now they think she should have full custody of our kid. Also no reason for that in my state. It’s like they get under her skin / into her he… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/23 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Thinking about telling OBS about ex-wife’s affair. Concerned about retaliation.I’ve thought about that. The first piece of evidence I have would be enough to set off her radar. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/23 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Thinking about telling OBS about ex-wife’s affair. Concerned about retaliation.Lol, I know it was his idea to make sure their affair was well hidden from his wife.. so I take that he must know the consequences will be severe when she finds out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/23 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Thinking about telling OBS about ex-wife’s affair. Concerned about retaliation.I’ve only been told to keep it quiet until the divorce is final. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/23 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Thinking about telling OBS about ex-wife’s affair. Concerned about retaliation.Yeah I drafted a very straightforward letter to send to her via social. Basically giving her the ability to decide how to proceed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/23 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Thinking about telling OBS about ex-wife’s affair. Concerned about retaliation.Oh there’s nothing sexual about the evidence I have. It’s just her admission to the affair, and revealing how much he wants to leave his wife for her, how much he wants to be with her .. etc etc. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/23 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Thinking about telling OBS about ex-wife’s affair. Concerned about retaliation.I am a damn good father, and there’s no evidence to prove otherwise. My kid loves spending time w me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/23 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Thinking about telling OBS about ex-wife’s affair. Concerned about retaliation.I thought about that.. how would a lawyer / judge think if she retaliated through the custody agreement because I told her AP’s wife? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/23 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Thinking about telling OBS about ex-wife’s affair. Concerned about retaliation.Other Betrayed Spouse | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/23 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Thinking about telling OBS about ex-wife’s affair. Concerned about retaliation.How? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/23 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Feeling like a teenagerSage advice! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/23 07:28 PM |
| 11 | Anyone else’s wife lose her mind after kids?Raises Hand.. right here. It’s been even worse during the divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/23 01:34 AM |
| 12 | Don’t worry fellasThis is exactly my thought. Right now my STBXW is being so easy to negotiate on divorce matters. She wants it done quickly (probably so she can keep screwing AP with less guilt), and is basically giving me the house for about 1/10th of the equity she should have. Is letting me keep most of the stuff in the house, and is bending over to keep custody at 50/50. It's kind of hilarious when I think about it. At the same time, I can't wait to drop the nuke on AP's life with the PAGES of evidence I hav… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/23 01:24 PM |
| 19 | Don’t worry fellasOh he's really going to shit his pants when I tell his wife... just waiting for the divorce to be final on my end. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/23 12:03 PM |
| 14 | Don’t worry fellasThis is exactly what I needed to read this morning. Mine STBXW thinks Prince Charming is her married AP, who after seeing him for 5 months, is still “thinking about” leaving his wife. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/23 10:43 AM |
| 56 | Female “psychologist” tries to ban guy she wants from having any Slavic female friendsI think FDS refers to this as a “Queen” | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/04/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | You get what you deserve...If it makes you all feel any better, the comment I made above finally got me banned from FDS. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/03/22 05:30 PM |
| 98 | You get what you deserve...Must be an FDS disciple. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/03/22 11:26 AM |
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