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Most feminists are looking to be controlled and dominated sexually. It's that many of them have issues reconciling their kinks with their self perception/vanilla self and often feel uncomfortable with the idea of slut shaming etc. because they feel like the sexual liberation has happened and blah blah blah a woman who fucks a lot is still a good woman (she might be, but I wouldn't wife her). They want to be fucked like they are important, they want you to not be afraid to use them (most people d…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 11:34 PM
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good job, I was in your situation. Build yourself choice by choice, minute by minute. Judge your position relative to where you were, not just relative to where you want to be.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 09:01 PM
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I agree with your point, but I don't agree with your first sentence. With the caveat that there are plenty of women who get comfortable and lose sight of their mans value. High value male in an open relationship is an oxymoron though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 04:56 AM
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for a few reasons: 1) the emotional bond becomes devalued with consensual non monogamy/polyamory. Love is not that special when you say it to more than one person, and if a person is receiving "love" from more than one partner then they are more likely to leave relationships, as it becomes more about meeting their needs rather than the relationship dynamic. In a sense it's more hedonistic and egocentric. It's not love it's self aggrandizement. 2) Emotions and logic are two different things, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 03:38 AM
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most men choose monogamous relationships for the consistency of sex, and emotional attachment. I think the statement "high value man in an open relationship" is an oxymoron. that open relationship paradigm favors the female. It also devalues the nature of a relationship, how can something personal and unique (a nurturing relationship) be shared. The only situation I could see is if a high value man wanted the female to break up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 11:34 PM
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being in an open relationship devalues the emotional attachment though. What you share is no longer unique. It is a subtly narcissistic way of living. Surrounding yourself with partners that want/need you. Further, since that dynamic favors her she is likely to leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 11:30 PM
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A guy should only do this when he has high SMV. For example wealthy and young. Women will always have more options than you if you are average. Open relationships favor the female paradigm, as she is often seen as the prize. Never met/dated a girl who was in an open relationship that didn't have both an inflated sense of ego, and insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 11:26 PM
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the individual is clearly biased and delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 11:21 PM
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They aren't necessarily bad, but they can be. And those that are harmful are called toxic. guns aren't harmful until you pull the trigger. Individuals choose to behave, society doesn't make the choice for them. Don't make excuses for stupid people, you can't teach intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 11:21 PM
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but there are women that do this consciously, and there are some women who do this inadvertently by "following their feelings"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 11:12 PM
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It would be interesting to see what percentage of those men in top tier institutions were family legacies. Classicism and sexism are being conflated, I have a feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 11:03 PM
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slap it down with a pimp hand. but explain why. Don't reward unwanted behavior with codeling. Treat them like pavlovs dog, but explain why so they don't grow to resent you. If they still resent you, then they are not ready for the road ahead.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 04:17 AM
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The more good shit you get, the more jealous people will be. As you said, most people are losers.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 08:12 PM
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Nobody signed up for any of this. Nobody had any choice in being born. with regards to your relationship: sorry friend. They sold you a lie, those chemicals you feel don't last. Only alternative I've thought of is being selfish and putting yourself first. After-all sperm is a dime a dozen, your biology is better adapted for multiple partners. Hers is dependent on paternal investment. If you want kids, have a civil union, don't be afraid to divorce. If women are going to compare you constantly to…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 12:58 AM
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That was fucking brilliant to read. If I may ask how many years have you been in the office job realm? I just recently entered the workforce and the amount of office politics is ridiculous to deal with. But undoubtedly it is a skill worth learning.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 05:27 AM
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Thanks for sharing, was nice to read a positive story. I've been hard on myself lately, sometimes working hard and wanting a lot from life can be detrimental. I needed to hear your story.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 02:45 AM
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much needed, and I'm glad you pointed out the self sabotage. There are many "alpha-esque" males undercutting their "friends" for temporary gains. Very plugged in to the matrix. It for sure encourages isolationism.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 04:06 AM
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Jesus christ the amount of time that you put into this is absurd. This reeks of something lowly
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 05:02 AM
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My favorite part of the movie was when the purple haired chick and the old lady with the cane get all horny over the fighter pilot Alpha as the rebels were evacuating to the escape vessels, dam you fighter pilot alpha; you and your take charge attitude and strong frame. Post Wall Bitches Be Horny
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 02:51 AM
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For sure, we agree on that. Frame is consistency, and consistency is easy when you are honest with yourself. However it is still true that people will make up whatever interpretation is most convenient, based on their own biases. For example we assume most Chads get a lot of pussy, and relatively speaking they might get more than say a 40 year old virgin. But as Redpilled men we understand it's not just looks, however a female will look at a chad and assume alpha status. "Halo effect" My point b…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 05:12 AM
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People are very good at neutralizing negative interpretations of self, and justifying their own shitty behavior; and also very good at condemning others for similar infractions. Is a "white lie" still a lie? Are you now a liar? Technically? But you're not a bad person, right? What if you sold heroine? But you did it to feed your kids? Or killed a civilian that might've been a terrorist? Can you break down to me at what point I should feel bad for my actions? Everything is relative and context sp…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 12:17 AM
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Are you seriously surprised that a mens relationship/lifestyle forum has an unsually high incidence of BPD female warning posts? Redpill is a fringe ideology, therefore it's likely to have fringe personalities participate, of that I am not surprised. But to use BPD women as evidence of that, I don't really buy. Sampling bias imo.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 10:12 PM
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I agree for the most part. However there are situations where being dishonest or using disinformation is beneficial. After all it's important to keep your opponent off balance, and if you are always honest you become predictable.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 02:19 AM
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you just blew my mind. I guess it's better in this game to commit type 1 errors and be too strict than too loose. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Type_I_and_type_II_errors
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 05:59 PM
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Why would you want to pursue a LTR with a cuckoldress?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 05:04 AM
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romanian women are pretty easy, speaking from experience. They are also either really hot or really not.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 02:45 AM
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yeah I feel comfortable talking to male therapists, as I get the sense they can understand where I am coming from and will judge me less than a female would.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 02:14 AM
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I think you're missing a category: BPD women These females kind of fall in all the categories.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 02:17 AM
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Amazing job dude! Be proud! Your daughter unfortunately is going to be an issue for a while; hopefully you can try to lead her with patience. Try to be nonreactive, but firm yet approachable. Seems counter-intuitive, I know, but your X is going to poison her and you have to show through your actions that you are more than those things. Unfortunately your daughter might not really understand and appreciate you until she is older. BPD is horrible, I have been in a relationship with one and it was …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 03:25 AM
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I agree with everything you wrote; I'd just like to add two things: 1) women have more influence than men in that they have always been considered gate keepers/choosers of our species. This status does not waver with age/lowered sexual value because women are caretakers. They cater to the progeny when their sexual value is diminished passing along a nurturing environment necessary for optimal development; but most importantly cultural values that are reinforced. 2) Men do not have the same level…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 03:11 AM
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Though I agree with your point, the link that you share was fraught with inaccuracies and biases. I stopped reading after the first 1 -2 sections. 1) that guy is a hare krishna monk, extremely biased point of view. Given that their whole dogma (I chose that word on purpose) is to rebuke modern society. 2) He was making references about things that are actively studied. Such as awe, sensation/perception, and beauty. Claiming there's no scientific knowledge on these realms. There are countless rep…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 02:55 AM
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it's unfortunate. But most people don't want to hear the truth, they'd rather be sold a story.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 01:32 AM
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intangible, both are behaviors and stem from personality/conditioning; not physical traits.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 01:27 AM
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good for you, keeping productive helps and is healthy.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 02:22 AM
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thanks! step by step. Good luck to you too.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 12:52 AM
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For sure, I definitely agree and that's because mental health is stigmatized, for males especially we tend to anesthetize and bottle up. Feminists will tell you to share your feelings, that social constructions make it uncool for you to share your emotions (conveniently these same women will lose respect for you once you do, breaking the illusion of fortitude; there's nothing like being called a pussy by a girl). I think Red Pill pretty much has it right though: stop bitching, do something healt…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 12:47 AM
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yeah for sure, venting to others breaks the illusion of fortitude. Not only this, but others are often not trained to give proper advice or emotional respite. It's worth talking to a therapist.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 09:47 PM
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The thing is though that not all men are the same. Some are more insecure, machiavellian and narcissistic than others. I've had a hyper aggressive AMOG male friend talk shit about other males in my circle to me, behind their backs. In the hopes of making himself look/feel better. I realized then that this person was likely to do the same to me. After a lot of reflection, I realized that this person was very insecure and used gossip as a way of distracting attention from his own short comings, a …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 09:44 PM
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Started a new job. My income just tripled. Found an apartment that costs 1/4 my monthly income. Will be finally moving out of my mentally ill mother's home, by the end of the month. Gym has been consistent, I can almost deadlift two plates per side. I had a beta moment last week, and couldn't number close this classmate. But this week I cozied up to another one, and she took notice and got a little jealous. New classmate is pretty receptive to me. Number closed my coworker, but will not be pursu…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 09:24 PM
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this happened to me too. It's really important to have a strong frame.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 08:20 PM
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my point is that the sex positive ideology can be contorted, and is/has been. Charles Manson's cult was sex positive. I don't think his bitches were deranged, but he certainly was: and he did it under the guise of sexual freedom. It's like saying guns don't kill people, people kill people; but guns make it easier. I am sex positive, and I spin plates; sometimes in open relationships (i.e. polyamory). But I can say, from my lived experience, that sex positivity is not the be all end all; the comm…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 03:12 PM
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great report, and it looks like you learned a lot. My game suffers a lot with alcohol actually. You inspired me to go solo and practice.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 02:27 AM
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Just want to put it out there that "sex positivity" is also used to by pedophiles to justify molesting kids... just an fyi.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 12:12 AM
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Preach once you realize you have only control over yourself, the negative aspects of your life will start to motivate action, and as a result progression. When my mentally ill parent holds me back through irrational thinking, nagging, and general neuroticism: I throw myself into my studies and excel in school. When something doesn't work out with a female, I lift weights. When someone pisses me off at work, I focus on my job even more knowing I can outpace and out progress them. I NEVER let nega…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 12:03 AM
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worked on maintaining eye contact in the street: got a lot of positive feedback *caught women checking me out, few of them held my gaze too. went to all my gym sessions can almost deadlift 2 plates worked on my dbt, still find myself ruminating at times worked on my "side hustles" will probably start the process next month once my new job starts paying me approached a hot russian girl in my class, didn't close. But at least I approached and worked on my conversation skills a bit. ate healthier t…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 09:38 PM
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alcohol is a depressant, not surprising this happened. I can't drink like how I did in college, nor do I want to. I get very sloppy way too quickly, and like half way through the night being drunk stops being interesting (since all the dopamine has been released, and now my body literally has no more happy left), and I just get morose and dysfunctional.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 10:10 PM
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yeah great contribution. was insightful and useful. Some of the comments in this forum are cringe worthy. But not yours
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 10:04 PM
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The problem is both of them. You are right, OP is weak and needy. Probably because of his upbringing, codependency is a learned behavior. "queen bitch" is not an ok thing to be. OP should take solace in the fact that he dodged a bullet and didn't have a kid with her or something. Some of these personality disorder people are legit unstable and dangerous. At least you recognize some signs of NPD, and more importantly your own flaws.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 09:57 PM
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yikes.... 22% of his (low) income for the rest of his life (you know they're not going to stay together). I feel bad for the baby.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 07:16 PM
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Infatuation is blinding, the honeymoon phase always ends and then the real person comes to light. Don't feel bad, just implement (as you have in your story) the principles here. Your time and attention are valuable. Don't put up with that crap. you might be codependent. Look it up, it's fairly common but (not majorly) unhealthy. It seeps its way into all realms of relationships (platonic, romantic, professional) and sabotages your life experiences long term. People who grow up having to take car…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 07:10 PM
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you should look up the hedonic adaptation prevention model: it speaks about ways in which you can prolong joy. hedonic adaptation is this idea that the same mechanisms that promote recovering from a negative emotional state/experience are the same things that make positive states/moments of joy seem to dissipate quickly. I.e. if you ruminate on something negative, you're more likely to feel shitty longer. Versus if you savor a positive moment and try to focus on the specific things you appreciat…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 06:45 PM
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good for you dude. way to recognize her manipulation. I've been in relationships with weird power dynamics, it's really petty an unintelligent. You sound like you've got a lot going for yourself, congrats on the new job; and being able to 1) recognize the power dynamics, 2) being able to just walk away from an ex like that. The only thing I'd say is that it's never really worth plating an X. There was some emotional connection so some degree, assuming that you're now going to just ignore that as…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 06:33 PM
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well don't feel too bad, if you're broke and in college that's how it's supposed to be. as a man you have to earn everything in this world, all the more reason to be selective with how/who you spend that resource (time) on. invest in yourself. Get a workstudy job, get a job at mcdonalds. just get some income no matter how small, and save that money. Then reinvest in something that you can compound. but more importantly get some skills. That's what this time in your life is about, developing your…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 02:53 AM
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unfortunately yes. you can not put up with BS, true. but weather women want to admit it or not, money is important because it buys opportunity and experience. Nobody wants to eat at Wendys all day and go to the museum.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 06:28 PM
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dale carnegies book, how to gain friends and influence. It talks not about game, but basically how to get people to like you. most people enjoy talking about things that interest them, their accomplishments etc. someone with good game though knows how to manipulate the situation so that they are not the ones divulging the information, it's the other person. It's a subtle way for the other person to demonstrate their value to you, and also gives you an opening into who they are; without foregoing…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 06:23 PM
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sup everyone. Let me start by saying, this is my first post/interaction on a PUA forum since... 2009 ish. What have I done since then you may ask? get laid Study Evolutionary Psychology with Gordon Gallup JR. (look this fucker up) get my heartbroken (why date feminists when they're just mini princesses) graduate college get into grad school drop out of grad school get a good paying job quite good paying job cuz toxic and unfulfilling Get job as janitor quit job as janitor, cuz janitor... I have …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 11:48 PM
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