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2	I work as a glassy in a bar and haven't had much luck picking up or meeting new people. What are some tips for to interact with girls in this kind of setting. I havent worked in bar myself, but I once saw some guy who wasnt paying much attention to his (same as yours) job, but instead was keeping people entertained all the time. Once he came to pick up our glasses and he first asked how we doing. Then he asked mind if he joins, and just started talking. I think it is up to you to start the conversation - atleast I wouldnt start a conversation with a woman who picks our glasses. Not because of her job, but because I (and probably most people) assume th…	/r/seduction	03/02/14 10:25 PM
2	So, just got out of a 5 year relationship. If your mind isnt concentrated on the girl, dont waste your time on her. Or if you want to, waste it well - why not to do something you really enjoy, or just want to try. Go skating, bicycling, picnic - somewhere where you clearly have sonething to do yourself while enjoying her accompany. It makes her feel appreciated, and connected to you too, when two little bit awkwardly are out of the usual comfort zone. It works for me; I didnt know I can enjoy just sitting in train and seeing landscapes o…	/r/seduction	03/02/14 10:19 PM
5	Going back to her place Try to trick the conversation to be about her, and especially why is she there. What makes her want to live right there, what kind of apartment she has (and tell what kind is yours - she need to relate to you to be ready to invite you over), jokingly ask if its the place where 'all the magic happens'. Just make her look at you and the same time talk about her house - it creates a signal, green light on her mind about you and her apartment. Which leads you to her apartment.	/r/seduction	03/02/14 10:11 PM
1	oneitis help, please! I know it sounds stupid, but if you try to talk (by yourself) to a picture of a woman, and then try to imagine what she probably answers, you know what to improve. If you think she is going to reject you - work on your confidence and the fear of rejection. If you fear the situation (classroom) , try to ask her out for coffee outside the class. Recognize your "weaknesses" and overcome them. I am being honest - you might not get this girl. But if you overcome your fears, you are going to be a lot …	/r/seduction	03/02/14 10:07 PM

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