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Nothing is necessary but death We choose our own paths by the unnecessary choices we make
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 04:56 AM
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“Very common”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 04:54 AM
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Why would it be better to be sober Literally any feeling you want there is a drug to emphasize it You can always lay in bed in the morning and see if you enjoy each other’s company sober, go for brunch or maybe pho if you sleep late enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 04:52 AM
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This is exactly it Tradcons are redpill aware (accept the same premises) but they reach different conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 06:17 AM
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Ha I guess Idk I could always tell if girls caught feels for me or not. Some FWBs didn’t and I mean that was okay we still had what we had. Sometimes wished it coulda been more but what can ya do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 04:21 AM
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Yea it’s definitely something to watch out for
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 02:01 AM
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Usually girls who are very attracted to the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 12:31 AM
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Yeah I mean at least a girl who’ll play the part, not super hard to find
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 12:29 AM
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has much lower barriers of entry which women from every corner of the world could fulfill 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 12:29 AM
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How much do you put it on that guy to take responsibility for his own life tho? I mean he’s the one seeking out relationships with stable “nice” girls instead of prioritizing sexual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 12:23 AM
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She’s within her rights but a guy in that situation should really think twice about whether he even wants that girl in his life— she obviously isn’t that into him But if I’m going to be honest I’ve certainly kept seeing girls like that at least as side girls
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 12:20 AM
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lol you can probably get like a sorta okay apartment and some food
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 09:33 PM
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My girlfriend is a musician and she wrote a song about me lol Kinda neat , definitely brought some value to my life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 09:26 PM
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It’s an honest question idk People place a lot of value on that and i often wonder if they’ve even thought about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 09:25 PM
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This is a debate sub, can you connect it up for me? I have my own ideas about why it works but I am not sure what YOU mean
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:36 PM
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Lmao not true at all NSA is definitely a thing. Or hell even girls who will pay for a broke guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:32 PM
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Hm idk I’ve known short guys who are good with women They’re definitely outliers tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:29 PM
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I’m not sure how anyone can read this and not think what you are calling “sluts” are the ideal women lol , the picture you paint of them is the most flattering of the three
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:17 PM
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Why do you care about your genes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:07 PM
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Ok well idk that much about it , I’ve just seen some before after pictures on plastic surgery subs that were pretty big transformations 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:00 PM
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Oh god if he’s that worried about it he can just get some fillers or something
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:54 PM
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Eh - being very fit will make a guys face look much better
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:52 PM
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Hey I feel you Honestly for me it’s all about balance. I try to find a good balance of experiences and things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:11 AM
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Oh man wait until you eat at a high end sushi restaurant Damn that’s good fish
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:04 AM
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There’s no want about it, I am a decent human being I’ve done some bad things tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 03:52 AM
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Ok that’s fine but my goal is to select against both
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:39 AM
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Exact opposite of what I’ve found to work , which is turning hookups into LTR Then again I don’t need to filter out guys “just looking for sex”, I need to filter out women who are frigid or sexless
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:25 AM
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Lmao Does she even know he’s interested in sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:22 AM
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Yea I agree with some premises and disagree about conclusions Here is where i disagree: Best approach to “dating” is treat it casually, wait til she catches feels, then make her your girlfriend “Courting” her is stupid and doesn’t work, and worse it selects for women that aren’t that into you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:17 AM
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Just how people are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 04:15 PM
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Who cares averages are for average people , the average guy makes $50000 a year Come on, people can do better if they have talent and apply themselves. That’s who all this rah rah shit is for, the people who are falling short of potential
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 07:31 AM
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Money works to the extent that you use it to make a great life. Physically healthy and strong. Active. On a mission. Money greases the wheels of anything you want to do Status too if you really have a passion for whatever gives you status. and she does too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 07:25 AM
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Lmao yeah but She doesn’t date older guys that guy was different because some reason Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 07:19 AM
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None of this matters if you like the actual person in front of you a lot I don’t mean you particularly, you might have some very particular preference, my point is, you can’t universalize this, there are a lot of women who just meet a guy, really like him, and put all their requirements out the window
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 07:14 AM
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This is such an abstraction what does it even mean Everything changes when there is an actual person in front of you. If you like them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 07:10 AM
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How do you not know any girls who date older men it’s seriously so many of them Oh yeah if you ask any of them tho, they don’t date older men, the ones they dated were just exceptions lmao Yeah no shit, if you’re an older man you definitely have to be the one she’s making an exception for, it’s definitely not easy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 07:07 AM
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I disagree I like this place because I’ve connected with a lot of the people here and i like a lot of y’all. Ppd is full of interesting people from different walks and I’ve learned a lot about all kinds of stuff just being here Anyway I like this topic and it fascinates me, I come to it with an open mind and a life of experiences, I just like discussing the ideas, I’m not super concerned that it’s gonna make me bitter or whatever Ymmv tho ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 10:57 PM
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Yea it is what it is Honestly that life was such a wild time, idk how to explain it, it’s sorta how I see casual sex life, it’s a shitshow, it’s a wild time, it’s fun but it’s taxing, there are a lot of wild emotions at play
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 03:11 AM
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Yea I mean tbh I also take it with a grain of salt when I hear that stuff too. Some people carry on a little too much If something bad happens to me, relationship, otherwise, whatever, bad day at work, idk, I mostly deal with it myself, downplay it, and get on With my life. But you wonderful folks at ppd get to hear my stories y’all are my favorite
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 02:27 AM
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Sounds like contracts 101 No third party beneficiaries to the agreement between donor and sperm bank
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 02:10 AM
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Maybe you just don’t end up with that kind of person I wouldn’t really call them abusive relationships because they were very short lived but I’ve dated all kinds of girls who’ve hit me, pulled weapons, came to my house uninvited, made threats, did crazy jealous shit, God I have some stories Probably a lot of that is just what happens when you’re a barfly and do lots of casual sex without commitment. Usually I just stopped talking to her I’m sure they’re out there latching on to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 02:05 AM
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Yea but my point is that life would get much worse in general
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 01:58 AM
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Oh come on it’s still going to be worse for you living in a mad max world you’re a lawyer and you have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 03:57 PM
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Lmao I’ve been on tinder in Europe you can’t be more wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:32 PM
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I’m thinking porn over the last 20 years or so has been behind an 18 and over paywall, and mainstream society (boomers) probably aren’t aware how accessible it actually is now. P I’m sorry was this written in 1996 What are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 04:58 PM
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It’s just that “good behavior” gets you into this whole world of signaling And frankly there are certain good behavior signals that make a man look desperate and where he’s much better off just to signal DNGAF than to play along as a good boy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 01:34 AM
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Yea lol definitely selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 07:50 PM
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Sure I agree I’m just countering OPs view
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 06:57 PM
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I don’t really see it as hypocrisy. It would be hypocritical if she advocated for some kind of “dating equality” while doing it, but I don’t think that’s a given
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 06:51 PM
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“Subtle” 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 05:15 PM
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Yea I mean what’s key for me is that she wants to be a part of it, the last thing I want is someone I have to force to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 04:53 PM
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I’ll CYV An attractive girl can be completely non traditional, and still expect to find plenty of men who will treat her in a traditional sense. I’m not sure what more there is to argue? There are men out there who will do it if she’s attractive enough, I’m not sure how you can think there aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:58 PM
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I’m pretty bossy and full of myself. I have particular ways of doing things. I have a pretty forceful personality and I’m not easy to get along with. I am kind of a demanding person tbh. Some people might see all that as a con but whatever, there are plenty of people who also prefer it. It’s just me 🤷🏻‍♂️ I love my job and my work, I have great hobbies that I enjoy, I’m fit, I’m active, I have a good balance in my life. I eat very well. In general I’m pretty happy. I’ve found peace of mind and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:48 PM
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Yeah- I’m sure there is a lot of overlap between high sociosexuality and dark triad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 05:54 AM
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How so? I’m not sure I’m following you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:59 AM
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I think some guys are just really chasing it down from the moment it turns on, I know I was chasing at 14. For me it’s unrelatable that anyone went through puberty and wasn’t going for it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 07:41 PM
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Being an asshole with a seat at the table is better than being excluded If the only way you can get a seat at the table is to be an obnoxious jerk then you’re better off being an obnoxious jerk Better still to be a good man who brings a lot of value that said it’s a tougher row to hoe than just being cocky and flashy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 07:37 PM
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Yea that’s fair most girls don’t like huge roid monsters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 07:35 PM
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There is no “roid body” You can make a mixture of steroids which makes you big, lean, cut, ripped, shredded, and on and on and on literally any body type can be crafted via some specific cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 06:12 AM
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lol “roid bodies” as if there isn’t a prescription for any desired physique
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 04:19 AM
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The terms have their own meaning here I didn’t get it at first either It doesn’t really make sense But whatever every place has its own jargon
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 04:15 AM
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Yea like I said I’m just countering OPs point: There are definitely some people who can give good dating advice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 02:55 AM
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I mean, these guys would be able to bsck this up with lots of detail and an appropriate level of tough love about how these things could improve a man’s dating/sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 08:26 PM
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Oh okay Yeah that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 08:22 PM
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I don’t understand the club clothes reference Could you explain? without context, I would think that “club clothes” meant like specific clothes that you would wear to a club as opposed to like hiking or the beach or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:43 PM
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I mean I can’t speak for them, I’m not a dating coach lol My guess is that for general advice they’d say something like, “you need to talk to more women,” “you need to demonstrate your intention more clearly with women” and “you need to be more fun” as those are three big areas where guys could generally improve
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:38 PM
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Yea absolutely, I agree. Some stunners in here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:34 PM
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Absolutely lol I read a similar page on Facebook and it’s a gold mine. If you read it a while you sorta see who is posting what Also I mean if you’ve been around here for the picture day that’s fun too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:16 PM
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Idk I know a couple dating coaches They can give good general advice to anyone, and they can give good specific tips to a person with a little knowledge about them (like just taking a look at them even)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:14 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 05:29 AM
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For me about 35
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 08:52 PM
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Agree I did best in my early 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 11:43 PM
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Good times
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 03:43 PM
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People like a bit of mystery, your norms for dating are robotic and weird
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 03:38 PM
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You haven’t established anything lmao You’re crazy, how can I tell someone what I’m interested in with them if I haven’t yet figured it out myself? You think I meet someone and immediately know exactly where things are going to go?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:34 PM
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lol yeah I don’t actually think cocky funny humor is morally bad But I do see that goody goody types see it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 01:25 AM
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Is it really black and white thinking when I recognize it as an incomplete dichotomy with limited value and it’s one of many ways I look at the thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 01:17 AM
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I mean, in the archetypal nice guy/asshole dichotomy these are asshole behaviors not nice guy behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 12:15 AM
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Lmao how is it a lie You have the most absurdly high standards of self knowledge and self disclosure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 12:13 AM
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Nah being intentionally obnoxious and dickish got me more attention from women Cocky funny is like girl crack lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 06:02 PM
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Lmao my friend pays $800/mo for ONE KID lol he isn’t rich either he makes less than me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:57 AM
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I’ve always enjoyed Europe it seems like the quality of girls I can get there are just insanely better Maybe tourist effect tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:51 AM
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When I meet girls my vibe is highly sexual and forward If she asks I tell her that I’m open to a relationship with the right girl If we’re at a stage where I’ve determined she’s not that girl, I’ll tell her that but I will let her know I’m still open to having some fun Anyway it’s not like I have an obligation to do any of this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 12:09 AM
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That’s the thing, I’m NEVER only using her as a brief fling I’m dating her and determining whether I want to date her further , and figuring it out as I go
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 06:14 PM
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Yea I chased for a while and I’d say I have a healthier approach to it now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:43 PM
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I tried really hard to do that, my first girlfriend from high school was great and we were a good match Problem was that I wanted to chase I’d have always been left wanting more, it wouldn’t have worked. For me i wanted to know how it worked to go out and pick up girls
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:08 AM
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3 to 6 months
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:07 AM
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It is not the price of admission Buying a girl dinner makes it less likely that she’ll have sex with you, showing provider traits up front in general makes it less likely
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 09:39 PM
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I think for me the big one was how girls act like “being a good guy” really matters for getting women and it’s just not true Saw it the other day, a friend made a meme making fun of fat girls, a these girls showed up in the comments saying “yeah if you think this about women you’ll never get any girls, somebody teach this guy how to talk to women,” but really this guy does extremely well with women sooooo idk Anyway that sort of thinking is super reinforced by many many women and in media when f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 07:13 PM
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I budget every calorie too It’s not hard to work in 325 for half a bottle of wine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 03:28 PM
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Come on, you’re so close
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 09:45 PM
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You kinda answered your own question I'm just confused about why if a guy is happy to have sex with a woman, he wouldn't be happy to have sex with her again or to hang out with her if he finds she has a good personality and he enjoyed the time they spent together. Hm why is it that he doesn’t want to spend time with her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 09:32 PM
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Hey bro my SMP is like half country girls who are harder than me so hey
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 08:07 AM
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Oh well in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 08:06 AM
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Like that’s hard at our age lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:36 AM
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Oh, well I live in the American countryside so ymmv I really don’t know many foreigners
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:34 AM
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I don’t care about someone’s single case study of one emotional experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:30 AM
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member of organized crime, Yea Huge turnoff for women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:39 AM
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If you’re a big group of guys acting dgaf retarded you get the same respect
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:38 AM
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What kind of red pilled foreigners? All the foreign tradcons I’ve met seem SUPER virginal Like I don’t even know how to express less abundance than that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:36 AM
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In herb Sherman’s I’m right about everything, he tells the compelling story of a man who threw himself into the dating scene and experienced both this and many other situations and realized that there are quite a few variables and that general ststements must be crafted broadly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:31 AM
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I flair as purple bc I generally agree with RP , but I want kids which means marriage for their benefit I also think RP is kinda edgelordy and takes too harsh of a tone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:27 AM
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They’re kinda paranoid about it in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:26 AM
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This is a misunderstanding about men They’ll fuck women if they’re attracted , it’s just that the threshold for atttraction is low. Just bc I’m attracted to a girl doesn’t mean she has a personality that I like enough to spend time with her. Really the two things are pretty unrelated
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:49 PM
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Guys that say that are operating from an equality mindset, they think, I’d be happy to have a girl who just wanted sex and so they think a girl would be happy with they same
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:47 PM
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I think women are pretty quick to lob that as an accusation tho. I’ve had women accuse me of that countless times when I really was open to a relationship if we ended up being compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:46 PM
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Ime men who have options are not that superficial, they choose women based on BOTH looks and personality. Looks for casual sex, personality for any kind of commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:44 PM
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lol in high school I chased relentlessly , I had literal virgin friends who would give me so much shit about how the girls I was seeing weren’t good enough, cracked me up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:40 PM
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Uh, and people don’t do that in precommitment stages of meeting someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:31 PM
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Oh ok let’s apply that same standard to any of the other terms that ideologues constantly try to redefine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:31 PM
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It’s meaningless bc it’s an amorphous view that isn’t really related to feminism, or any ideology really, it’s not committed to anything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:30 PM
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The Bible’s full of RP truths Mainstream Christianity tho is pretty BP
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:21 AM
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It’s the same
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:20 AM
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A lot of the rp men here will tell you it’s the best way to get a relationship, I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:19 AM
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Lmao there’s that motte and bailey
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:17 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:17 AM
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Ya lol I’m dating a “feminist” like that She’s feminist as much as soda commercials are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:15 AM
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I don’t really care My current girlfriend identifies as a feminist, in a meaningless “girl power” way Her politics are like lib center or maybe center left Hmm why do I date her, she’s cute, big fake boobs, smart, has a good job, adventurous, athletic, fun, she adds to my life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:14 AM
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I don’t think that I do think it’s kinda sleazy tho. Let’s be real it is, I’ve slept around, it was pretty sleazy, it was basic and kinda low, it was certainly not me fulfilling some high and noble aspirational ideal of humanity or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:13 PM
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If you think it’s 100% uniform you have no understanding of women I’m like a 5 and I’ve still met plenty of women who think I’m hot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:05 PM
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Lmao like I’m here for your approval
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:48 PM
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Ok but any average guy is a hot guy to some women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:48 PM
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Hm I guess I look at it differently bc very few women get raped or murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:16 PM
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You don’t consider the hormones, period stuff, childbearing, etc, a drawback?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:00 PM
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It’s too basic a level of understanding, I guess. Like it’s nice that she’s impressed, but I’d prefer something more personal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:51 PM
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Ew. I mean that’s the whole thing, guys talk about “how easy women have sex,” like, how easy they can get some dick thrown at them? Hey bro, you can get some dick thrown at you too if you want it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:30 PM
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Right? The response to feeling doomed is to say oh well fuck it, I guess I’m doomed, and get on with life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:25 PM
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Lmao no absolutely not Why would I want to be a woman First off I love having a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 03:18 PM
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Ty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:59 PM
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Those with plenty will be given more while those with nothing will have even that taken away Matthew 25:29
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:54 AM
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Yea much better not to marry in the first place What a world, if I’d been born 20 years earlier I’d probably have been married 3 times already lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:49 AM
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Not my experience at least if we’re talking like 5-10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:41 AM
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Yea I mean it’s just fantasy to think every girl is going to do that For me I just try to find the ones who see me as that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:35 AM
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Yea I like that, supportive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:32 AM
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I mean I value my body a lot, and the vast majority give zero fucks about it, thems the breaks The wholesome moral of this story is that someone out there will share your values and love you for it, whatever it is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:31 AM
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It’s weird how we say “impress” because I’d never want a partner to be “impressed” with my job, but if she’s interested, understanding, if she appreciates what I do, I do like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:24 AM
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I don’t know how I buck the trend so much but I do like when a girl has some money, it’s fun to be able to do stuff all the time instead of living poor and/or paying her way all the time Still not in my five traits I look for tho so maybe I’m not challenging your view all that much (loyal, sexual/adventurous, smart, low maintenance, artsy/crafty in case you’re wondering)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:51 AM
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We are too advanced there will only be descendants and successors, pending major catastrophe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:46 AM
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Yea that’s the nature of high t
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:44 AM
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Being able to sustain dissonant ideas is the key to a good life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:42 AM
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Some do, just gotta find em 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:39 AM
1

Religious revival Or some other authright movement
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:33 AM
3

Become very fit, make yourself be social and outgoing, play sports Get good at makeup lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:30 AM
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I don’t mind some of it I helped a friend clean her family’s garage Got some physical activity, did a good deed, they bought me a breakfast burrito, I mean all in all it’s a win
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:27 AM
1

Yea lol this whole thing threw me for a loop when I got here Leadership = beta traits
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:26 AM
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The only "effortless" sex is rape. If you're having sex, you did something somehow to get it. Lmao what
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:25 AM
1

Eh if it’s been like 10 years since they’ve seen you, you’re like a different person as far as they know A lot of old high school classmates hit me up in my late 20s. No thanks lol. Had better girls at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:21 AM
1

I mean, it does happen
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:17 AM
1

I mean sorta The ideal girl is a girl who is so into me she breaks the rules Realistically tho who cares I really only care that she’s super into me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:16 AM
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Ime if she’s not up for it quickly she’s not that into me and really won’t be up for it that much at all Even among girls who eventually became girlfriends or whatever, those kind of girls either weren’t that into me or they were frigid Literally the only exception in my life is my first real girlfriend, we waited like 6 months. But we met when we were 14 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 05:14 AM
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I am interested in romance and sometimes commitment, with the right girl I figure it out as I go, I don’t believe in committing to a girl right away and sometimes you have a little short romance but it’s not meant to be anything more I try to show by my vibe and actions as to whether I see her as just sex, or maybe potentially more, or if I see it as something serious. If pressed I’ll use words but that’s usually for people who don’t know how to read vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:50 AM
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Uh no where did I say that I don’t string women along, I’m upfront about my intentions and whether I see a future with her or not I’ve had a lot of great times that were never meant to be more than a fling, and it was mutual not selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 01:31 PM
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lol I’ll razz a lot of the people here with some “women this” and “women that,” bullshit, it’s whatever tho, those are mostly quick generalizations about the kind of women i don’t want to spend a lot of time around Deep down I’m a romantic and meeting a woman who stands apart, who I really like and who really likes me, it’s neat, it’s fun, it’s an adventure, it’s probably one of the greater thrills in life Who cares if we aren’t going to get married. Married? Lmao that isn’t the adventure, that’…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 11:51 PM
1

Doesn’t really matter Not really my call is it Roll of the dice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:19 AM
4

Not really my experience, girls that like me want to pay over and above Girls who don’t like me wanna spend my money sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:18 AM
2

Yea thank you that’s my experience It’s mostly well off girls from good families, generally with their own careers that do this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:13 AM
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Idk a lot of them are career girls w their own money
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:11 AM
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Idk I’m a lawyer My lawyer friends enjoy “the finer things” My outdoorsy friends mostly work labor , or they did when we were younger and they’re smart and moved up Not a rule tho. Of course there’s white collar guys who can hang. Just not many
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:10 AM
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I think you’re missing the point “RP is amoral” means that knowing how this stuff works is amoral, and it’s up to the individual as a moral agent to decide how they use it, to make their own moral judgments
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:11 PM
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If you can’t see why her features are flawed there is no point in having this discussion To be clear: I’m not saying she’s UGLY, I’m saying that she has features that are far from the standard in many ways Now compare that appearance to her actual charisma and in motion, in film, it’s a stark contrast from like “ok good looking ish” to “extraordinarily charming” Here is another example: people with powerful personalities are often mistaken for being several inches taller than they actually are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:07 PM
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It’s so weird this one friend who was a Chad in high school is now like obese and a super cringy simp I guess that’s what happens if you never really think about how any of this works
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:05 PM
3

Women literally never on the whole prefer younger men At least in the “studies” y’all value so much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 04:04 PM
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I mean ugly can kill charisma so that’s going to be rare I’ve known plainish girls tho who were extremely charming God look at Marilyn Monroe if you want the example par excellence
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 03:46 PM
2

Few of my ONS led to relationships But most of my relationships came from ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:23 PM
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Idk man I’ve got a sex drive Once it turned on, I was chasing Kind of a blur looking back
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 06:54 AM
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Just go out and do shit lol You aren’t going to win by specializing in girly shit, a better approach for a guy is getting the basics of hygiene skincare etc down, and then specialize in doing awesome manly shit I went fishing last weekend and hiked over some mountains, it was a lot more fulfilling than flossing and moisturizing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:52 AM
1

“All the time” I mean I’ve been approached and gotten laid from it and what not It’s still a fraction of the billion approaches I’ve done myself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:33 AM
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In any way, sure Mostly not in a porn fantasy way tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:31 AM
2

Or some kind of charisma, frame, forceful personality, humor, charm, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:26 AM
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Yeah I’m a man I don’t get women by being pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:24 AM
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Can’t say Depends on the girl I’ve really enjoyed FWBs, I’ve really enjoyed relationships, I’ve really enjoyed ons. And others have been crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:18 PM
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Depends on the blowjob, depends on the sex In general sex, I agree with your analysis in broad strokes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 08:12 PM
1

I ❤️ my haters
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:11 AM
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No I don’t resent being attracted to women I love it , it’s exciting and fun
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:50 AM
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I’ve seen the tinder of a fat female coworker with very little going on in her life, plenty of fit good looking dudes hitting her up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:48 AM
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What are trends and generalizations
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 02:46 AM
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Women don’t lie when they thing you’re just a fling They frequently self disclose for some reason and it’s always a retarded high number
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 02:44 AM
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Idk man whenever I’m single girls try to lock me down I think it’s bc tbh I bring a lot to anyone’s life around me, I’m always on the go, I’m doing fun stuff, I’m a driven person and I make things happen, I’m definitely going to give a lot of that to a romantic partner, just by virtue of being there she’ll get a lot of me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 02:41 AM
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I mean if your position is, “men own your shit,” I can respect that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:50 AM
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No I don’t really care personally but it’s a subject of debate here often
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:49 AM
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Yea that’s fair I do try to pack in some kind of little surprise for just like a regular outing though. Not always but when I can For a day trip I mean at least an idea of where to go, or a knowledge of a particular place. Idk for me day trips are often day hikes which may require permits or parking passes, at the very least just knowing where to go
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 09:16 PM
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Didn’t say it couldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 09:13 PM
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Any kind of trip or real outing requires extensive planning , even like a day trip I guess you can just wing it but usually it’s much better with some idea of what you’re doing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 08:09 PM
3

Rare is the person who likes doing any kind of work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 08:08 PM
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Let’s take a step back If you believe that there is something wrong in society when so many men can’t meet anyone, and if you believe that something should be done about it, at that point, it’s just a question of “what should be done?” If you don’t believe the first two then of course you’re not going to get to the question of what should be done. I think tho it’s sorta bad faith if you claim to believe the first two and you just want to argue against literally any proposed action, like why not …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 08:04 PM
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Ah isn’t that the story of our human condition
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 09:34 PM
1

Yea I love sluts they’re great for flings, ONS etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 08:07 PM
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Lmao I mean a bunch of guys here think things like being a party girl and doing threesomes are flaws I’m willing to forgive that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 04:25 AM
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Yeah true bad vagina is bad vagina could be 18 could be 30
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 04:23 AM
3

Beta bucks can be like a component of your strategy I have money I just have a nice life, nice clothes, good food, nice house, I can go do fun stuff often and not sweat the cost. I’m also fit and active and strong and healthy, in part bc I’m well off I don’t think women necessarily want me for cold hard cash it’s more about what I can do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 04:23 AM
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lean on her harder and tell her to leave if she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:35 AM
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I don’t feel threatened, more disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:56 PM
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Lmao imagine relying on “technical sexual skill” to keep a partner interested Sounds very female
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:29 PM
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Lmao good luck w that All women are “bisexual”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:27 PM
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Don’t care about women lol, at all. Depending on what her history looks like it’s probably a plus Tbh tho I don’t care too much about history, only if there’s some weird change in character, or something like that, “oh I used to do threesomes but now I just wanna settle down”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:27 PM
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Work on your personality and fitness Don’t be a bitch learn to count your macros be highly active, socially and physically This is basic advice if you aren’t there yet work on the basics before trying to move up to any sort of higher level
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:16 PM
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Don’t date me then that’s fine When I was plating women, I told them I didn’t want to date them, they were the ones always pushing for more Maybe ask women, why do you try to date guys who obviously are just having fun
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:10 PM
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I guess it’s a question of how much do they care Relative to women, men care less
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:01 PM
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I’ll CYV a bit because I mostly agree A person is less valuable if they aren’t sexually attractive, but only in that particular sense. A highly valuable person is well rounded and valuable in many respects; if some elements of value drop out, then the person is less valuable. Could be wealth, could be intelligence or style or humor, could be sexual attractiveness But yeah the whole “chad is the superior human” stuff you see here a lot is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 09:08 PM
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Oh my god thank you I’ve been hammering on this “Chad is the ultimate superior man” bullshit here for as long as I can remember, and I think you’re the only person I’ve ever seen express the same
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 09:06 PM
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Yeah no it makes sense it’s just weird AF to me how this all works
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:00 PM
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eh I’d be like a B+ at best
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 02:59 PM
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Lmao you should see the protests here, like a big party People wanna socialize covid 19 fucked it up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 06:35 AM
2

Like 50 or so I don’t really count anymore I sure don’t remember all of them. 20 or so that I have real memories with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 06:32 AM
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Yeah lol people carry those archetypes in their heads and it isn’t too hard to work them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 06:30 AM
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I wasn’t getting laid much and then i started doing weird aggressive shit like announcing myself when I came into a room and “scare girls game” and it worked, idk how you can explain that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 06:28 AM
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It definitely helps in the workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 09:07 PM
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Lollll
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:48 PM
1

The more you learn about the world the more you hate how the world works. Theres a reason why intelligence is correlated with depression. That’s just another hill to get over bruh, it’s just another thing you’ve gotta learn about the world— how to remain happy in spite of what you know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 05:47 PM
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Yeah I like to debate and to see others debate For me growing up there was good and bad. Im lucky to have had a good family. But getting to where I am both in my career, carving out the life I want, and in personal relationships, a lot of that was pretty turbulent emotionally at least viewed from the inside, on the outside I try to keep it to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:55 PM
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As I’ve gotten older I have found the key to happiness is low expectations. Let’s me be pleasantly surprised with how things work out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:49 PM
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Eh I’m just here for shits and giggles My days of struggle are behind me and I’ll probably be happy and satisfied for the rest of my life, I “stay hungry” so to speak but let’s be real that’s just something we tell ourselves No amount of reading ppd and taking jabs at the various characters here is really going to affect my real life. Tbh I haven’t been here as much lately and I kinda miss y’all. Much as everyone says this place is toxic I think it’s kind of a neat community
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:04 AM
2

You may not like it but this is the ideal male body wash
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:55 AM
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Lmao I thought you meant your wife bought it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:47 AM
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I meant face/skin specific stuff but yea I agree with all this. And oil for my body. I’ll be the first to admit that one is a bit indulgent but I’ll be damned if it doesn’t make my skin feel healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:45 AM
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No sunscreen eh Just seems like a basic caution And retin a just made my skin all around better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:20 PM
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There are three skincare products that everyone should use soap sunscreen retin a Fight me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 09:50 PM
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Eh I’ll CYV For a lot of women sex is no big deal and if they’re at some place where sex is gonna happen they just do it, no big deal, no end in mind, it just happened
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 02:57 AM
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lol when I was a kid I saw these mating dance diagrams of birds and I thought it was so weird But it all makes sense in time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 02:55 AM
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I think it does move the margins a bit I mean like a girl whose family has lived that way for 20 generations is probably more into it than some girl straight out of a hunter gatherer tribe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 02:53 AM
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Ime most guys trying to pick up girls just want to find a cool girl to make their girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:08 AM
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“Equity” 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:18 PM
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Doesn’t equity require clean hands
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:44 PM
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The sheer amount of times I’ve seen women provoke men knowing there will be no consequence I guess to be fair Duluth is just an institutional version of the same sort of white knight-ish incentives that have been around forever
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 03:04 AM
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because I’ve seen videos of women doing it on the internet and I’ve seen women express that reasoning irl I don’t believe “all women likely do x on the regular,” I believe that “this policy creates a substantial incentive to do x, and as a result many women do”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 12:26 AM
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Ok I agree but if people create one more incentive it moves the margins of course there are many variables
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:38 PM
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You’re thinking too small this is a general truth about all humans, we respond to incentives Incentivize murder people will do it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:49 AM
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Yeah very fulfilling lol tell that to the women you dump right after sex because they have a weird vagina or something lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:52 AM
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Whenever I’ve had a one night stand, I mean it at least involved a bit of flirting, entertaining her, maybe dancing, some kind of “showing her a good time” for an hour or two at least That is some kind of companionship and human contact, admittedly pretty basic but it’s something, and a hell of a lot more than what incels are getting from women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:49 AM
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Uh I mean it follows a very well established pattern Incentivize behavior, it happens more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:44 AM
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How can anyone not have encountered women who intentionally provoke men knowing they’ll face no consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 01:16 AM
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I’m not going to argue with someone who’s arguing in bad faith goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 10:59 PM
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No I’m implying that the known presumption of male as aggressor likely has the effect of encouraging violence by women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 10:33 PM
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Nah there are definitely tips and tricks that can improve performance It’s like yes I could figure out how to do lots of things via guess and test but why? That’s an incredibly ineffecient way to learn things, particularly if you have some sort of good reference material to consult
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 07:35 PM
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lol oh yes history What’s your take on the adoption of the Duluth model and the amount of domestic violence incited thereby
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 07:31 PM
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Holy shit it’s purge I haven’t been here much latey and thought “wow this place has gotten really sloppy”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:48 PM
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Uh this is dumb I don’t want civil unrest, I point out that it’s a problem that happens when too many men have no stake
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:47 PM
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Like just a fuckbuddy I mean I’ve done that sure Your title says non marital btw
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:44 AM
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lol what even is it to be held accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:40 AM
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Depends on the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 11:52 PM
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I agree it’s dumb tho like why not just get a gun Also kinda cruel to use it on a black bear
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 02:44 AM
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lol yea in my bar going days I met girls who carried
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 12:45 AM
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That isn’t true Well at least your statement is ambiguous, it’s not legal to use it on someone in self defense but you can definitely get bear spray Kinda weird when you can just buy a gun lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 12:43 AM
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Lol ok gotcha Yeah it’s a fun game to play
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 03:49 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 03:46 AM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:54 AM
3

When you are an asshole to other men, is it done with a smile or what. Like my friends and I talk shit to each other but in context it’s clearly a joke, were just razzing each other, we aren’t like actually bordering on a fight whenever we hand out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:49 AM
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False just world bullshit I was a super “nice guy” in high school I still genuinely enjoyed the company of female friends, girlfriends, ONS, hell I probably enjoyed them a bit more than I do now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:46 AM
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Assholes: Another way to frame it is that if you get girls by being a complete asshole, you end up with girls who are into you at your worst and most selfish, who are really super into you sexually (because why else would they put up with it) and you have hand Anyway real talk, I’m an actual person not a cartoon caricature, there is depth to my life beyond what most others will ever know. I don’t really care how somebody judges me based on a short interaction, if they think I’m too forward or th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:44 AM
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Yeah I’m just arguing trends idk why the internet is so pedantic about that Like yeah ok there are plenty of exceptions, so what? I’m not saying it’s an iron law of nature it’s a general trend
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:37 AM
1

Hey thanks! What a time eh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:36 AM
1

What’s stopping you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:13 PM
2

Depends on the race/ethnic group really
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:10 PM
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Haven’t been here much lately Used to be here like every day Hope y’all are safe and well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:06 PM
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I’m a big believer in many causal factors so while I agree, I’ll also add the following: Most women are not able to clearly articulate in a socially acceptable way the sorts of nasty aggressive shit that turns them on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:05 PM
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Lmao oh please Women like getting dicked down that’s pretty different
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:02 PM
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Right the only guy who “be nice” is good advice to is like some fucking psychopath who won’t heed it anyway lol me after age 32 or so 🙋🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:01 PM
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I always get shit when I bring this up, but, whatever “Scare the shit out of her” game is one of the most fun things you can do and it works surprisingly well lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 10:57 PM
1

Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:44 PM
1

Why do you flair purple
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:37 AM
2

Baby steps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:46 PM
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No I flair as purple pill for that reason, I value red pill knowledge but I lived that life for long enough, and I’m at a point where I’m looking to settle down That said i mean if I’m single again that’s what I’m gonna go back to, IMO that’s the best way to get a good relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:45 PM
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Yeah but a degree of narcissism is healthy and will lead to more success than being selfless
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:33 PM
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My time spent really chasing was simultaneously both: the most social and fun time of my life, I made tons of friends and had more fun than I thought was possible, it was the wild life one of the more stressful periods of my life. Lots of sleepless nights, lots of questioning where I stand, just a rollercoaster of emotions I think a lot of people’s problem is that they want the first without the second, they want the stability of a guy who stays home and does nothing with all the fun of the wild…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 08:28 PM
2

Observations
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:52 AM
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Just have Threesomes bro
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:08 PM
1

Sometimes you bb by just falling into a girls niche Do you know how many sorta smart girls “always wanted to be a lawyer”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:12 AM
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Lmao yeah women’s bad choices are never applauded
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 03:20 AM
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This is a cmv so I’ll CYV It’s dope when a woman has sex w me instantly It’s cool when a girl has something to offer as a friend and she participates in the friendship It’s profitable when girls are productive employees I love it when girls think I’m the shit We could go all night with these
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 03:19 AM
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I guess it depends how big of a deal it is in her life I wouldn’t want to date a girl obsessed with it either way, pro or anti
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 06:11 PM
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Is it a CYV if I characterize your point more darkly ? I know businessmen who hire the absolute bottom of the barrel people, people with no skills no options, nothing. Why you ask? Because those people won’t be able to leave, they’re the building blocks of your kingdom of shit, you can’t count on them for much, but you can count on them to be stuck with whatever shit you throw at them And so on and so forth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:58 AM
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in my experience masculine short men do fine. And at the extremes there are like short gangster guys who get tons of pussy Less masculine short men do not do well and then they get trapped in this downward spiral of whininess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:52 PM
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I really do agree with you at a high level and this is great advice for people who aren’t that into fitness But that said as I got older, lifting heavy became a lot less appealing and I’ve gotten so much more out of postural focus in lifting, lower weight in the 8-12 or 12-15 rep range, and just generally focusing more on functional fitness activity like backpacking and rock climbing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:01 AM
1

Most fat guys think they’re strong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:58 AM
1

Comparison is the thief of joy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:57 AM
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May I add category 4: Girl meets guy, he’s just having stupid fun times, it’s all meaningless but it’s a night out, he’s fun, she rolls with it? She ends up back at his place because some reason, and then having sex with him because, “hey why not” and it just happened Does anyone here even go out lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 03:10 AM
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It’s not that hard it’s more about what you’re willing to do to get there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:52 AM
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Scare girls game is your strong suit and when it works it’s both sexy and hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:12 AM
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Why tho I mean if you can get hot pornstar sex and threesomes and worship why would you be satisfied with anything less
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:10 AM
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Who the fuck are you to comment on the male experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:04 AM
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I’ll CMV a bit Skinny ain’t shit BUT if an ugly girl is ATHLETIC AS FUCK That’s still pretty highly desirable to a lot of guys. She’ll have a niche but she’ll do much better than the average girl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:09 AM
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It’s a strategy for getting a bunch of casual sex, is it not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:06 AM
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Ok that’s fine I’m just speaking in generalities Shouldn’t have to constantly make that qualification but here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 07:44 PM
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Howdy 👋🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 05:31 AM
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I do agree Although id refine it to just general fitness Go spend a few hours a week in a rock climbing gym and weekends on the trail, you’ll probably be more attractive than a gym rat Also one critique of lifting is that a lot of guys who lift still look really fat and they delude themselves about their level of fitness
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 12:30 AM
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It can be a negative trait in pursuit of certain ends Almost any girl wil slow her roll if she thinks you’re being super gentlemanly or loving or respectful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 12:28 AM
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Well, I’m glad I settled into a relationship when this all went down that’s for sure lol She can kinda be a pill sometimes but we have our own houses so if she’s being a bitch I can just go home
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 05:38 AM
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Idk every approach is it’s own thing Physicality matters idk not just look but vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 01:47 AM
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Ime one night stands lead to five night stands lead to relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 01:20 AM
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I don’t claim to understand women but they do seem to like being scared 🤷🏻‍♂️ Idk the ideal partner is part companion part fuckdoll
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 01:16 AM
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Who would, getting fucked would be awful lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 12:57 AM
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Ok 5% 1% whatever the point holds It’s always more than the guy thinks it is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 12:55 AM
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I guess I agree I don’t think women really love dick the way I love titties and pussy tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 12:54 AM
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lol absolutely not It’s that less attractive men aren’t willing to take rejection after rejection until they find the women who are attracted to them Suppose an unattractive man, attractive to 20% of women. He just has to put the time in to find them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 12:42 AM
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Lmao so what you can create a vibe in 2 seconds Especially if it’s something primal, fear is a big one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 12:20 AM
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No because attraction is an emotional game that only partially depends on physical attractiveness If you know how to play the game you can create something primal just based on vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 12:03 AM
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Micro level no macro level yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 11:51 PM
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I mean for me I didn’t have a problem getting laid in high school but like- in my 30s I know I’m way more attractive in terms of broad appeal, I looked like a little boy back then, and “age 30 me” had a way easier time getting 21 year old girls than age 21 me did Going out at age 30 I’d always ask girls to guess my age and they always said like 25 Also to be fair I’m kinda ugly which probably looks better on a man than on a boy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 11:37 PM
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Probably part of why were here at ppd I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 11:28 PM
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Yea very similar concepts For me I try to see the value of different frames as much as possible even ones I don’t really believe in
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 11:24 PM
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Well lol relationships are a series of power plays
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:53 PM
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Welp it looks like I’m a combo of me and my girlfriend during this corona shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:51 PM
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Yes Male I expect her to be spontaneous and whimsical bc I value that but have a hard time bringing that side of myself out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:50 PM
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Ok so what All things considered it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:46 PM
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In real life, normal people who do open relationships don’t talk about it openly or make it a thing, or if they have to talk about it, it’s “just having fun” or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:43 PM
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I’ll CYV Women love possessive men, women are disgusted by men who would share them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:41 PM
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Dude we all wish we were gay. T Lmao no we fucking don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:36 PM
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Hell no Women have it easier Men have it better
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:38 AM
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No it’s the opposite Instinctually I love them for it, you are heavenly Intellectually I’m indifferent to it, it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:29 AM
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Anyone has a right to be upset by anything They can dislike chocolate ice cream or they can love shit sandwiches Anyone else can judge them for it, walk away from them as a person, take themselves elsewhere. Or they can patronize it and encourage it, totally up to them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:13 AM
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🎩
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:43 AM
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Hey Lilith I like your posts and I hope you’re having a good quarantine Anyway this is technically a cmv so I’ll take a crack at it We can never really understand the other gender, we aren’t in their head, women can’t understand how all consuming the male sex drive is, they just can’t wrap their heads around how intense it is for a young guy. Nobody can REALLY see the world through another persons eyes, the best they can do is sorta think about it and treat them with respect and abide by social …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:39 AM
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Yea I mean I’m an egocentric ape What do you want from me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:26 AM
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Yes society needs a bunch of fucking cads everywhere that’s a great long term eugenic plan
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 12:41 AM
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God how many times do we have to explain this Whore for me, virgin for everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 12:39 AM
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Doesn’t bother me personally but I do see it as a societal problem on a large scale
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 12:37 AM
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I’ll CYV Vagina envy does exist these days Go look at all the nerds on reddit talking about how much better it would be to be a woman, ew. What a world I generally agree tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 12:24 AM
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God if I could show you some of the pictures of girls who made my heart race with excitement when we first met
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 05:51 AM
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God women are so picky
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 08:46 PM
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I believe it’s useful to be aware of these tendencies. Women can do well be being aware of the extent to which guys are on the prowl for something new, maybe be a little cautious with that “friend” and be aware of what impression he might have. Similarly men can be aware of the extent to which she might lose attraction during a series of fuckup, maybe be a little more cautious with grand sweeping statements of love that she’s made a few months into a relationship I don’t think men are always out…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:33 PM
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Ok then scrap it and design a better one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 05:09 PM
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Oh I didn’t realize anyone was forced to read purple pill debate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 08:33 AM
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Just my personal experience but I always had much better results leading with casual sex and then letting FWBs develop into relationships If I led with relationships and LTR material girls found it off putting. Based on that, guys who can’t get casual sex are fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 08:31 AM
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stop humanizing them it’s a fucking machine You’re basically describing a poorly designed machine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 08:26 AM
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I don’t believe that someone who goes out of their way to talk shit really doesn’t give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 11:52 PM
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Fair enough I agree that does happen I think this being a debate forum does lend itself to kinda blowing things up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 11:36 PM
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Yea I mean good riddance to marijuana prohibition But point taken I know it goes beyond that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 11:33 PM
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Hey these are interesting topics and well, as I said at the outset of our thread here, I do agree with a lot of what you said, still it’s interesting to flesh some other arguments out a bit, so thank you for indulging me while Ive attempted to do that. My understanding is that many nonwestern countries have, in terms of economic growth, greatly exceeded growth rates of the west. They haven’t surpassed the west yet, but they’re closing in. I don’t know what that means long term- a lot of people d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 11:29 PM
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I believe crime is very low is it not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 11:00 PM
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Hypergamy as a concept helps a guy get laid because it hits home to guys that most girls aren’t going to have sex with just anyone, the way guys might, and so they can better target their efforts. Another way to look at it for relationships is to remember that for many women, if she sees you fail too much, she’ll move on, which for many guys is counterintuitive to how they themselves view the struggles of their partner I’m not sure why you think resentment necessarily follows from understanding …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 10:56 PM
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The only matriarchal societies I’m aware of are some backwards tribes Isn’t patriarchy simply put marriage 1.0? Honestly the definition of patriarchy is so nebulous that I have trouble following it but my understanding is that marriage 1.0, emancipation of women, and patriarchy all go hand in hand It’s not a racial point at all, poor whites don’t value marriage, UMC blacks do value marriage, I think you’re reading too much into that argument The west has grown in the last 50 years but the rest h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 10:20 PM
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No they would just do a religious revival or some shit Plays way better to human sense of fairness than fucking mass rape
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 08:18 PM
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How would you respond to the argument that men are net taxpayers and women are not? Doesn’t that indicate that everyone is not working for themselves, but rather that some are providing and and some are being provided for?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 08:10 PM
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Your link says those countries are where women married late and had small families Doesn’t that Support poppy’s argument
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 08:04 PM
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First off I think you’ve made a great post and I agree with you. But let’s see if I can argue against you the most successful societies 150 years ago and at every time from agriculture until then were patriarchal and the least successful societies of post agriculture humanity are matriarchal comparing American subcultures that value marriage versus those that don’t paints a pretty bleak picture I don’t know how much the west has grown in the past 50 years and how much the rest has grown in the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 07:44 PM
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what do you think a bunch of young upset men with no sexual outlet do, a bunch of pissed off down and out men, full of testosterone and feeing like the world has spat them out? There are a bunch of things that happen historically, and they’re usually not good — crime, war, terrorism, extreme politics, extremist religion Look a lot of times it doesn’t matter if someone’s gripe is legit or their own fault or whatever, just the fact that they feel fucked over can be enough to cause problems
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 07:23 PM
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A good concept of male nature (or masculinity) and female nature (or femininity) is very helpful in understanding relationships, communication styles, in cultivating masculine-feminine polarity in relationships, understanding intersexual dynamics, social games, etc It probably is not the most useful for something like assessing someone’s workplace performance. Although it might give some insights there, it’s probably not the first thing you should be looking at or the thing you’d want to weigh m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 07:17 PM
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This is not what alpha means in TRP “Men’s alpha” is like more or less TRP beta In TRP jargon alpha means sexually attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 06:07 PM
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“Alpha” in TRP simply means sexually attractive to women “Alpha male” is a sexually attractive male It is jargon and it isn’t being used in its common sense Anyway wouldn’t learning to develop those traits just be a step towards a BETTER life rather than a FANTASY life? Like why do you have to take it to a ridiculous extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 05:37 PM
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Yes those are useful frames as well But they are frames that are already popularly endorsed in media and in polite society, so I mean to me they’re a little less interesting Look for me, even tho these are different and in some ways contradictory lenses through which we view the word and approach life, it’s valuable to be able to see it both ways, or multiple ways whatever the case may be. I don’t even honestly care that much which one is “more often right” or whatever, for me it’s more about fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 05:21 PM
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Some people just resist everything they read others try to see the value of it even in a limited sense, it’s whatever 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 08:13 AM
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Ugh I know I like to pick my produce too It’s still fine tho I don’t have any real complaints
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 05:08 AM
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I read that 50% of people who get it are completely asymptomatic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 02:49 AM
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I’m just paying the extra fee for grocery delivery
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 02:47 AM
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Uh yeah I said a group of dudes in that sort of situation, talking sex strategy and talking about getting laid Lmao no shit it’s gonna be a different dynamic than talking about other topics Anyway men, particularly young men full of T, enjoy posturing, razzing each other, trying to be bad asses, older men not as much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 01:59 AM
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I mean this comes back to “male nature” I’m not talking about what should or shouldn’t be, I’m talking about how a bunch of dudes generally will act in that sort of situation, in my experience those guys are gonna try to look tough and badass and dgaf, act edgy, etc To me it sounds like you’re trying to write a bunch of expectations on to that situation that are unlikely to play out in reality And hey I’m all for idealism in proper doses. Let’s not get carried away tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 10:57 PM
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I mean I guess some people are aware of it and control it Like I said it’s a spectrum, most people are in the big middle where the exhibit it to a degree Also I mean TRP is (1) radical tone and (2) a bunch of dudes talking to other dudes what do you expect For illustration have you seen what the tone of FDS is like
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 09:43 PM
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I look at them as tendencies which are either checked or unchecked to varying degrees in a given population More broadly I look at “male nature” and “female nature” as being a spectrum which is exhibited to greater or lesser degrees by different individuals but which does reflect the nature of males or females to some extent. Some more some less but most fall in the big middle
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 09:16 PM
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Depends on the acts I guess but there’s definitely an element of it. By definition it’s not loving sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:12 PM
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But what did he say to his friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:12 PM
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There’s this little thing I practice called cognitive dissonance I believe that me and mine are angels, the predestined, while they and theirs are the wicked and cast out I don’t really believe this in earnest, but it is certainly a useful frame to understand and practice if you want to know human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:11 PM
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Eh I think there’s a big split on this here “Official” RP position is that it’s just an observation about female nature, I’d say about half of RP folks take that position, “it’s just how it is” I mean— look— RP is saying men are polygamous I mean that’s ripe for the assignment of value judgments right? For me its all about context, there’s a good and a bad to it, I don’t think that unchecked hypergamy or unchecked polygamy really lead to a good state of affairs. They are elements of our natures …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:06 PM
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Who is saying any of this is better or worse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:51 PM
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Question Have you ever just been able to keep the lesser girl as a side chick and if you had that option did you do it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:50 PM
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Doesn’t cause a lot of bullshit drama Isn’t a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:26 PM
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Loyal, adventurous, low maintenance, artsy, intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 11:39 PM
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Goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 07:46 PM
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CMV There is a particular strategy which has the broadest appeal Why is this so hard to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 06:28 PM
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No I don’t take it that far I would just prefer that they didn’t talk shit, didn’t punch down, etc It’s uncouth and low I don’t care for me personally I can handle myself but some of these guys are so down and out, I don’t understand how anyone can pick on them, it’s cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 04:48 PM
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Yea I mean work is likely the great equalizer here , someone regardless of their background starts spending a lot of time in a given job or profession, they interact with those people, run in those circles, date and marry accordingly, so on and so forth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 06:33 PM
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I mean my whole point is just that we can’t draw too hard of boundaries with this stuff, sure, by and large people stick to their class but it also is not completely unheard of for there to be class mobility, it’s somewhat commonplace Anyway to answer your question my take is that prosecutors come from all kinds of backgrounds but their kids would most likely be raised UMC I guess it kind of raises another question - how you define UMC. I take a pretty broad view, something like the top 10-15% o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:31 PM
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I mean A prosecutor will marry a cop A guy who does insurance paperwork who grew up UMC will marry a girl at that same job who grew up LMC Stuff like that is more what I’m thinking of here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:06 PM
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To be fair this topic lends itself to that discussion I hardly think about them irl either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:05 PM
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Well I don’t know any personally but I see them on tinder, sometimes they follow me on Instagram or whatever. I know they’re out there
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 04:49 PM
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You realize that there are small cities right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:58 PM
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Oh god like middle class and upper middle class are even that far apart Y’all live in a fantasy world, l1, l2, g2, g3 people interact, date, intermarry all the fucking time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:44 PM
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Lmao 0-60 real quick there
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:41 PM
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Yea maybe in a world where people are honest about women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:46 PM
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Lmao comically wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:45 PM
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First off who’s talking about falling in love Anyway if I liked her personality and I think she’s sexy, why WOULDNT I see if it could be more than just friends? Just seems natural to find out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:44 PM
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No It just means she’s attractive I don’t understand your logic, like, if a girl is genuinely interesting I just wouldn’t be attracted to her? I’m guessing you are a girl, here is the thing you’re missing, men have testosterone and thus they have a sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 07:01 PM
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Yea that is kinda true I mean so are alpha traits tho , lol not that hard to go larp as a player and get laid like that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 07:00 PM
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Lmao I thought it was super weird too until I found out how many girls demand it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 06:08 PM
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Are you not familiar with it? it’s a basic psychological principle
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 05:42 PM
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Beta traits get you relationships but not sex Alpha traits get you sex but not relationships No girl is like “oh my god you’re so responsible let’s fuck NOW”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 05:08 AM
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Human psychology 101 Loss aversion bias We expect it to hurt more to lose what we’ve got than it feels good to get it Likely evolutionary because a bad thing happening to can end you forever but a good thing happening to you can’t improve your lot that much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 10:46 PM
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Yeah I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 10:45 PM
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do they actually feel entitled to it tho? I don’t know how you can see that internal state, if you straight up asked them “do you think women are required to give you consent for sex” they’d probably say no It’s a reading of the tea leaves to use a trendy shame word
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 09:31 PM
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Eh not as bad I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 09:28 PM
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It’s always gonna be a part of my appeal, look I’ve got a lot going for me, I just really want to make sure that is not the only thing, or not the majority part. I want a girl who is into me physically, who gets hot for me, who thinks I’m sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 08:38 PM
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Wow, talking to two dozen friends daily sounds exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 08:36 PM
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Yea I think most guys reach a point where they’re satisfied with what they’ve done and so they kinda move on to something else
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 08:34 PM
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One thing that really always worked for me when I was learning to pick up girls was like, either to just really disagree with them about something vocally and insistently, or when I talk about something I liked and really go over the top carried away with it, idk girls seem to like that Frankly I am a bit more chill than that but hey a lot of the world has no chill I’ll also disagree with you tho, people can be chill and also be super committed to self improvement, learning, advancement, they ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 08:31 PM
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Contradiction in terms
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 08:25 PM
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Well clearly they don’t feel entitled then right, they know that they are not entitled to rape and they face imprisonment if they do it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:58 PM
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Obviously men don’t feel entitled to sex, if they actually felt entitled to sex they’d just rape
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 02:42 PM
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Boy bands lol To teenage me, those guys seemed gay, like a group of overproduced guys who do singing and dancing routines together, it was just like wtf. I’m from the country if that helps paint a picture For me it was never really “I was lied to,” it was more like “I can’t make the pieces fit together” like I understood many parts of attractiveness but some of it I just did not understand as a cohesive whole and it took a while to figure out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 10:21 PM
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Yes of course I don’t do anything expensive, it’s always just drinks I usually do “I’ll get the first round, you get the next.” Like with a wink and a nod, like it’s kind of a challenge I would especially do this if I really liked the girl, because in my experience I have a lot better luck splitting than I do with paying. Paying for stranger girls is lose-lose
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 12:30 AM
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You approached directly like “hey I’m into you” or more indirectly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:29 AM
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Nah I have high self esteem and I love myself and my life I’m realistic about my looks tho. I’m like a 5
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:28 AM
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Yea I mean like an approach, initial meeting, first contact
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:27 AM
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How does that explain anything They’ll still get approached more often indirectly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:27 AM
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For me when I was an awkward young man , it was a total game changer realizing that many girls get quiet and awkward because they’re into me! Like I mean sometimes it can mean they feel uncomfortable with me or a bad approach but sometimes it also can be “wow I like this guy hah I’m a lil nervous”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 09:01 AM
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Yea that is my experience and observation It’s often hard to tell who is speaking with much experience around here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 08:51 AM
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Yes I agree but that’s indirect isn’t it? Like they aren’t coming up like, “gimme that dick boy” or at least not most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 08:49 AM
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Nah it’s up to him, it’s whatever who am I to judge Idc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 08:46 AM
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Bars Tinder Social media Festivals and concerts The beach and the trail The gym Believe it or not I’m a giant introvert and I really prefer my own company and that of those close to me. But I’ll shoot the shit too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 08:36 AM
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I agree and I hadn’t thought of it that way- it’s primal. Good way to analyze it. I guess that’s why it works, we all have that in us, we aren’t so far removed from animals. But a little distinction can go a long way, I get you. Idk for me, I believe in the full range of human experience and so I want a girl who appreciates me as both primal and refined each in its time and place. I’ve met a few so I mean I know I’m not the only one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 08:34 AM
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Have you adjusted your views about women based on how they’re characterized in trp Why or why not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 10:40 PM
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I don’t think you understand AFBB Promoter is typically high status and solid game
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:18 PM
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Some girls do this I just find less prudish ones our values don’t match
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 03:19 PM
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lol that is one of the most rationalized-to conclusions I’ve ever seen, bravo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 03:00 PM
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The male version of hypergamy is not looks, it’s many women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 02:59 PM
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I’m not interested in that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 06:36 PM
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Yea tbh I do t really like to talk about it in graphic detail
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 03:57 PM
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Yea that’s fair I’m more on team “its just how people are” tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 03:01 PM
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What? I didn’t say anything about whether it’s good for society or anything like that, I’m just talking about desires
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 12:57 AM
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Men are polygamous Most men would much rather simply add a new partner to the mix than swap them out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 11:49 PM
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Lmao you should see the things girls have said about and done for my ugly ass
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 11:47 PM
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Very little, it’s a sort of ceremonial type thing without any real backing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:18 PM
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absolutely false, lmao “would likely produce autistic or Down syndrome babies.” Yea like a tiny percentage probability
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:14 PM
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Higher chance sure but still the actual percentage born within birth defects is tiny
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:13 PM
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I did way better in my late 20s and early 30s but I got lean, upgraded my style, got my first real job, learned how “game” and flirting works. I’m not a Chad I’m just a regular guy. I’m like a 5, kinda ugly to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:10 PM
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Why? That sort of woman is the most likely to be able to carry her own weight
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 05:16 PM
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No you’ve got it backwards I’m vetting for whether she’s into me and not a prude Yes I want someone who is into me as nsa or casual sex And are you asking if love can come before sex? Like a real love? How can you possibly “love” someone you haven’t even had sex with yet? You haven’t even scratched the surface at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:21 PM
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You can get consent from vibe and physicality too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:37 AM
1

Easiest way to meet lots of women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 10:34 PM
1

Still wrong A girl will make plans with an average guy sober and then have a drink or two to loosen up while out It’s not a big deal and your moralistic overtone is weird to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 10:34 PM
1

Don’t tell them with words Tell them with vibe and physicality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:38 PM
0

Yeah hookups happen while drinking No shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:37 PM
1

lolllll
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:32 PM
2

“Everyone is different” is a stupid cop out There are obviously trends aren’t there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:39 PM
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So you would have found these men more attractive if they had been shorter, more asymmetrical, or had a weaker jawline?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:46 PM
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Uh then why do women hook up all the time with averageish guys who are in the right place at the right time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:58 PM
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Counterpoint my hobbies are traveling, backpacking, and cooking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 05:53 PM
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Just stop dating so much bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 05:50 PM
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Yea I mean that’s just a different aesthetic, there’s tools for whatever it is a person is chasing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 04:45 PM
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Subsidizing them at my expense apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 04:40 PM
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I mean all the top athletes, best fighters, etc are on steroids too It def gives an edge even to a fighter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 04:38 PM
1

Hang out in public places Do activities outside Talk to the women there Show intent, not too little not too much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 04:35 PM
3

lol yea
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 11:48 AM
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Yup the best thing you can do to get lots of casual sex is have good logistics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:16 AM
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lol yeah women are all so different there are no trends whatsoever to what they like, gtfoh And if venting is toxic, then what are you going to do in a frustrating situation that doesn't have a solution, where you just need to do it for X amount of time and be done? Shut up and do what you gotta do, focus on the good and stop thinking about the bad, literally the saying is “grin and bear it” Seriously go read some positive psychology it’s brilliant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:36 AM
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Is it fake if it fees natural for me to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:34 AM
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They can be sexier than they were
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:34 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:33 AM
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You’re looking at it all wrong Any guy who had spent any decent amount of time actually going out, talking to girls, trying to get them to come home with him, he OBVIOUSLY knows it isn’t one size fits all. What RP is for a guy like that is going to be is like a set of tools, “here’s some tips and tricks and things that work, they’ll help alleviate some of the chaos that women bring,” but no guy in his right mind is going to think it’s like a 1-2-3 formula for success Anyway you saw the tips and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:51 PM
2

A lot of flirting dynamics follow that pattern just not in an explicit way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:34 PM
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Because for women when it goes right it’s a whole wonderful experience created just for them and tailored just towards them, of course they fucking love it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:18 PM
3

Bullshit fatalism , any man can improve his lot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:17 PM
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You can be attractive to women without being the sexiest man alive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:16 PM
2

🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:15 PM
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“Best man” in terms of attractiveness is female frame, our humanity is more than that, and a healthy, productive, capable man doesn’t view himself that way Just for a second imagine the sort of men who lead the world in politics, arts, science, and now imagine they’re sitting there crying themselves to sleep about being inferior human beings and wishing they were models, lmfao gtfoh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:13 PM
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I mean “faking it” is kind of a weird description bc sometimes I’m like pumping myself up or having fun with stuff that I’m saying or sounds I’m making. Is sex a performance? Yeah in part
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:05 PM
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Well that’s fair I guess. Still a weird thing to be concerned about imo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:03 PM
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It just depends lol It’s usually not moaning tho, usually I say things that I think will make her feel a certain way, especially if we are just warming up Although I guess if I’m like getting a blowjob or getting tickled or if she hurts me, in any of those situations Id make involuntary noises. When I eat pussy too if I’m really into it I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:00 PM
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that sort of man is out there too lmao, like he’s literally signing his life away to someone else, it isnt just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:55 PM
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For me it’s kinda funny bc women have all these weird bizarro world definitions of what things mean, the other day a girl on here told me that a guy might want to “marry her just for sex” Like how does that even square up lmfao, it’s like talking to someone from a different planet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 02:51 PM
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Maybe the ones who are into it just don’t wanna get all graphic about their sex stuff, while the ones who aren’t feel free to say “oh yea that’s not my thing”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 02:42 PM
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Like a girl on a farm maybe? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:03 AM
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You are making a totally different argument than op
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:27 PM
2

But status hypergamy is like as pro-civilization as it gets
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 04:32 PM
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Isn’t hypergamy usually directed at status, good job, shit like that? You seem to be confusing hypergamy and attraction, which are distinct
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 06:06 AM
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Ok bro short-short term versus short-medium term is that better God everyone is so fucking pedantic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 06:03 AM
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God y’all are such stupid partisans
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:24 AM
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depends what type of status Girls do like a guy who is “in the spotlight” so to speak, like a performer, a local celebrity, being “known” in a scene that she cares about, winning competitions that she cares about, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:39 PM
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That’s not true at all, girls do approach attractive guys more often than unattractive guys, but they still do indirect approaches more often than direct
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:36 PM
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Let me answer your question with a question If I get into a relationship, how long til I get bored of the same girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:47 PM
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Lmao yeah maybe like 10% of the time Women approach indirectly FAR more often than directly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:46 PM
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Most of the time when women approach, its indirect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:44 PM
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Women’s approaches are usually pretty indirect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:38 PM
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One thing I’ve noticed is that when girls approach, they usually do indirect approaches, ie they usually don’t come up and show a lot of clear sexual intent, rather they just approach and start talking to me about something. A lot of those times, she is approaching with sexual intent, she’s just maintaining some plausible deniability or she’s too afraid to be direct or thinks that’s a bad approach or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:37 PM
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Yea that’s life! You never know where it’s gonna go Anyway tho I mean, baking is a whole other game. I know very little about it other than it requires real precision. You learned that all on your own?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:15 AM
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kinda sad story but one of my best friends really was a genius in the kitchen. In college we basically would just get high and cook like every night, he didn’t teach me everything I know but he really got me started. At one point he told me, “meals like this, you can’t get this in a restaurant,” and it always stuck with me. Its been like 10 years now. Cancer. RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 05:19 AM
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One of the biggest disappointments of getting good in the kitchen is that restaurants generally fail to impress me. “I could do better” 💁🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:33 AM
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God where I’m at Chinese food sucks and it’s just cheapest of the cheap sugary sauces and breading
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:47 AM
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So what’s the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 02:19 AM
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Annoying my girlfriend by calling it “valentimes”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 12:34 AM
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Why was it anxiety inducing? You didn’t know where you stood with him or what
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:28 PM
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We have some ridiculous arguments on here don’t we
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:11 PM
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Plenty of girls at the climbing gym have big forearms
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:10 PM
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She likes the struggle lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 06:05 AM
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See I don’t see sex as superficial, quite the opposite really
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:42 AM
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I guess so idk I’m high sex drive so I want a similar woman I suppose if I were asexual I’d want a similar woman too. Or maybe not? What’s the drive? I guess for me I bond through sex (sorta) so without that it wouldn’t be the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:42 AM
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Lmao that’s an impossible standard Why would he marry you if ALL he wants is sex? “This guy would commit his life to me but it seems like all he wants is sex” wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:23 AM
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Why would you WANT a relationship without sex Like I guess I’d have a friend like that but never in a million years would i want a sexual relationship like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:20 AM
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Yea I mean that’s all it is really , it’s a set of presumptions about who I am based on my career, some of it is kinda accurate Anyway it only really works as a coherent whole bc I fit the bill Funny story one time a lawyer friend and I did a whole night of these retarded sendup approaches like “ay ladies we’re lawyers” it was dumb as shit but we had a good time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:02 AM
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No I’d never lie I’m an angel 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:47 AM
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Maybe you just don’t understand the concept of moving margins
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 09:48 PM
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Is it tho? I mean it seems to help w FWB relationships why would they care
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 09:19 PM
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Yup it’s a decent career for a blue collar kinda person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 07:39 PM
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I’m sure that is a part of it Sometimes tho like what I’ll see is an idealistic girl who “always wanted to be a lawyer,” and settled for something else Another one is sorta intellectualish girls who see it as a sort of good nerdy career where I get to use my mind at work I’m not sure this stuff is really “attractive” per se but it works as part of a coherent package (ie I’m otherwise fit, well dressed, healthy, have good hobbies and social circle)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:50 PM
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I’m not even trying to argue it, I’ve just seen it and I wondered what the response was since you were claiming to know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 05:55 PM
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You kinda lose credibility in this argument if you can’t address that, I thought you had heard it all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 05:44 PM
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Yea it’s just a bunch of romantic narrative they carry around in their heads about what a lawyer is lol I don’t think you’re wrong, welll idk maybe there are some girls into accountants too who knows. For me it’s more about being able to create a coherent narrative that aligns with an attractive archetype, for me, lawyer works like that. For some other guy it might be a cop, or a vet, or a promoter, or a musician, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 05:42 PM
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I disagree, I’m a lawyer and there’s a pretty solid subset of girls who are super into that. To be fair tho if I’d been a cop or a vet or whatever there would probably be a bunch of girls into that too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 05:35 PM
3

Why do vegans all look so sickly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 05:30 PM
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Romantic candlelit dinner at home
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 05:10 PM
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It’s like a smart kid who fucks around in school or a great athlete who does a bunch of drugs, etc etc, they had potential to have a lot of value (yea even something shallow like beauty is valuable) but instead they chose to waste it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 05:07 PM
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lol what are you talking about you’ve grossly misinterpreted my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 05:06 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 04:26 PM
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what are your thoughts on wasted potential I find it a bit sad, tho I don’t really think about it too much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 04:18 PM
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Yea same as like a fat girl with a petty face , what a waste Truth is tho I’m only responsible for me and they’re responsible for them, so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 04:17 PM
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Nah bro I’m a pretty lanky guy but rock climbing definitely builds my forearms, that’s pretty common
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 03:20 PM
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I will disagree in a limited way I really don’t think “most people are turned off by very fit women,” go look at popular Instagram models, their physique generally is kinda gymratty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 03:18 PM
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What I’ve been working on lately is getting a good pan fry/sauté without using a crazy amount of oil. I’ve gotten the hang of it and it’s delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:51 AM
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Maybe power play is their kink
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 11:25 PM
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$17? Is that supposed to be a lot for a dangerous job?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 11:14 PM
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well most people don’t want to raise someone else’s kids
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:39 PM
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I believe labor supply for a given job depends on wages not “lol lazy Americans won’t do jobs” If the wage goes up people will do them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:29 PM
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Yeah same, it’s good to take things in moderation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:25 PM
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Hell yea I like the way you think A lot of these guys would do well to pick up a backpack and get some trail miles in
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:11 PM
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I try to take it in moderation but in all honesty I don’t like to eat pizza more than a few times a year, it’s kinda gross in a way when you’re used to eating healthy high quality meals
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:09 PM
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If you know how to cook it’s great If you don’t, ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:08 PM
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Most youngish girls (like late 20s by now) have the vaccine at least in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 05:55 PM
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Uh yes, concerns about being fertile apply to the vast majority of people only a tiny % of people (tradcon or not) will ever seriously consider adoption
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 05:45 PM
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Birth rate is an argument about competitiveness, economic forces, demand for immigration, etc., nobody is arguing that Americans will “go extinct,” they’re saying that Americans will have less American children, there will be a “labor shortage” as declared by economic experts and politics will result in importing foreign peoples to make up for the “shortage”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 05:44 PM
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Do you see it discussed much anywhere It’s kind of a small fringe thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 04:40 AM
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False premise, they often are, probably the most or one of the most likely groups to be open to it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 04:31 AM
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Agree to disagree I guess If it’s so not bad why do you use a euphemism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:48 AM
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I mean it is pretty crazy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:47 AM
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I think many people would be disgusted by a person who’d do that even if they no longer did so
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:08 AM
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I think many people would be disgusted by a person who’d do that even if they no longer did so
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:08 AM
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So it would matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:19 AM
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Nope gross either way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:15 AM
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Hypothetical: your partner once enjoyed rolling around in shit and eating it, but no longer does and suffers no physical illness of any kind from having done so. Does this matter in your assessment of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:12 AM
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It’s gross
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:09 AM
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Lmao right I see this stuff like “superior human being” and I’m like wtf My value as a human being is much more than how attractive I am, frankly I think it’s kinda low to look at it like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 11:08 PM
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Nah, I live a life I’m proud of and that’s what matters to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 11:03 PM
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Yes lol women get off on seeing men exercise power
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:59 PM
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Yea tbh I’m kinda scary looking at times, I have an ugly but masculine face. Some of the men in my family look like fucking monsters and I apparently got that gene Best thing I ever learned to do was play it up. Somehow that takes the edge off and almost makes it a sort of game. If I downplay it, many people take that as me being defensive and having something to hide
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:07 PM
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7 Personality is pretty important to me, I wouldn’t want a relationship with someone who doesn’t live up to my 5 personality qualifiers I do have a looks threshold tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:22 PM
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Those women also likely get a considerable halo effect when compared to some average looking man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:21 PM
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oh, ya sure, I mean I don’t think they are necessarily linked in any situation ever But they are linked in the US at this point in time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:15 PM
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I said this in my top level reply - to me the overt sexualization is sorta ok, like nice and affirming but it also has its drawbacks, altogether it’s just kinda no big deal. Together with the halo effect tho, I mean yeah it’s great only a fool would rather be invisible and ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:05 PM
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They come together Like are we supposed to read the original question as “so how would you like all the negatives and none of the positives of this thing?”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:01 PM
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The same halo effect that comes with being viewed as attractive more generally
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:38 PM
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Are they also giving me all the halo effect shit that comes with it Sounds nice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 02:41 PM
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I always take it as kind of a compliment It’s not a big deal either way but yea it is nice to have. Also just in general my experience when people think I’m attractive is that even if I don’t want to have sex with them they still see me as more competent, a better friend, good at business, etc etc, than I really am so yeah of course I like for people to think I’m attractive and thus I mind my appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 02:39 PM
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everyone knows there are general trends and pretending otherwise is a huge cop out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 02:37 AM
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Ok that’s fine but usually those make a point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:57 PM
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ITT: human rationalizing machine in full force
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:38 PM
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Yes I obviously have, it is a part of the mainstream media in which stuff like FDS is outlier but acceptable and similar male centric points of view are verboten
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:35 PM
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String you along until you’ve spent enough time together that she’s become someone in your life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:27 PM
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Oh please like the choice of commentaries isn’t a statement in itself Does not represent the views is just disclaimer bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:24 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:47 PM
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Psh no Demisexual isn’t a thing bc it literally just describes everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:22 PM
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I’ve seen like three episodes ever but the women were extremely trashy Trashy women generally can’t see how trashy they themselves are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 12:26 AM
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💁🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:35 PM
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lol I wish If it were that way nobody would complain about child support
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:29 PM
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Uhhh actually 📱💻🖥
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:25 PM
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Ah yes the noted beacon of efficiency, the court system
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 11:50 PM
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In my experience both men and women exaggerate the costs and work required to do anything but women exaggerate costs far more, and are much more likely to deem luxuries necessities I will consider as an alternative hypothesis that people are mostly just grossly incompetent and wasteful; that would fit my experience just as well tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 11:35 PM
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I mean what if her pussy is weirdly shaped or something Could be anything tho, maybe she has a funny birthmark I don’t like I don’t know I’m trying not to be too gross right now but this stuff happens, Ime maybe like 5-10 girls I’ve been with have really had what I’m looking for so if she doesn’t have it, then what? now I’ve gotta break up with a girl I’ve been seeing THREE MONTHS?! Jesus why put yourself in that position Sex is the foundation not a garnish
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 02:52 PM
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Lmao sure how’s she gonna work on a pussy that isn’t a good fit There’s a million little variables like that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 02:41 AM
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lollll I mean it’ll move the margins it won’t work miracles
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:38 PM
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The penis
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:08 PM
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No I’m not even sure where I saw it Maybe referenced in a book that I was reading? Idk to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:08 PM
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The sunk cost fallacy moves the margins in almost any decision
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:07 PM
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Nah it does make him more likely to commit Sunk costs fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 07:59 PM
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I like to get it out of the way I dont want to be with someone I’m not sexually compatible with. And I’d like to find out if we’re sexually compatible before I’m too attached and the attachment will make that decision more difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 07:58 PM
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He definitely reads it, idk his precise level of engagement
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 07:53 PM
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I disagree, I know a guy who is a mgtow , he’s basically just a bachelor he does very well with girls but he ain’t gonna commit (or, at least not until some indefinite point in the future)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 06:54 PM
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I saw a study a while back where they rigged people up to brain monitors and had them play some competitive games What they found was that the reward centers of the brain lit up most not at the time where they won the game, but rather, at the part of the game where they established that they were winning Sort of an allegory for “the juice isn’t worth the squeeze” Another way of phrasing that is like — love the process Ps I’m not angry at women in general or anything like that. I do have a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 06:51 PM
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Ya
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 05:08 PM
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Nah I’m religious as in I was raised with it, go to church a couple times a year, and think it’s a good message. My experience is that quite a lot of religious people just see it as symbolic with a wink and a nod. Frankly I find those games a bit tedious but humans gonna play games
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:51 PM
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lol what I’m religious and it’s basically just a way of looking at the competing forces in the world, all the metaphysical shit is just figurative or symbolic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 12:24 AM
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Yea for sure I’m really only reporting my own experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 04:45 AM
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Basically a girl who I think is attractive plus: Loyal, sexual, artsy, low drama, smart ie, good character and someone who id be good spending lots of time with, has traits I see as good for a family
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 04:44 AM
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I disagree that’s just not what I’ve seen At least in terms of general trends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 04:23 AM
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I mean if anything guys who can’t get sex are the ones who are much more likely to see sex as sweet and innocent and loving
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 03:50 AM
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I just mean in general In general women like rough raw sex that puts them in a position where they’re fucked, pounded down, slammed Sure we could talk about all the kinds of sex and they’re not all that way but what’s the most common
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:49 AM
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lol oh yes women’s go to, shamey judgment Look there is sensual sex too but like The good sex, like, the hard sex that makes her yelp and where she’s laying there with glazed eyes afterwards and looking at me like I’m some god, that sex IS degrading to her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:42 AM
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Yea I mean have you ever fucked a woman I’m not sure what part of that isn’t degrading
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:18 AM
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Yup absolutely I could say it more explicitly But we all get the point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:11 AM
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We don’t view sex as inherently degrading We view getting fucked as inherently degrading
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 01:39 AM
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lol oh Yea I agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:14 PM
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I agree that women should have the option of leaving their abusive husbands of course I just don’t agree that other people should be required to pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:25 PM
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Did you mean to address that to me? I like the incel content lol it’s fun to argue against it. Oh well I do t make the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:35 AM
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Yea that’s an interesting point I do not support policing these sorts of things. Let people carve out their own thriving, whatever they think that is. Maybe I guess if we’re talking fraud or coercion but I don’t think these things are that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 04:00 AM
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I buy into virtue ethics so let me frame it that way Do you see those people as thriving? Are they exceptional human beings? Do you think a lot of people would look at them and say, “wow, now that’s living”? Do you think they are doing well at balancing the many competing and contradictory forces we all face? In my personal opinion it seems like they’re way too involved in weird sex shit, most people would see it as low, indulgent, dark, disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:48 AM
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Ohhhh you’re not talking about an actual power imbalance but just some other meaning that you’ve given those words?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:25 AM
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Whaaaaa meetup wow that’s something else
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:01 AM
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You’re legitimately asking how it’s a power imbalance in a normal person vs a celebrity or a very rich person situation? Lmfao how is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 01:43 AM
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So is dating a millionaire or a movie star That’s like women’s MO, finding a guy who has a lot more going on than them and latching on to it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:00 PM
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Good reason not to “respect” women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 04:52 AM
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Doesn’t really matter to a point If she is neurotic tho that’s bad Aggressive and overconfident is bad too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 03:58 AM
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This happens to you all the time? It’s very specific lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:24 PM
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I got a free beer the other day Still enjoyed it quite a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:45 PM
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Individual men and individual women can empathize but by and large yes Honestly it isn’t that hard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 02:50 PM
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Discipline is freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 02:48 PM
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I don’t think it’s really that out of the ordinary to just go out all the time and drink all the time and meet a bunch of normal girls, like not ig models by any means, but definitely a few who are quite attractive, a few with good careers, a bunch who are just fun, down to party girls. Yeah some are super crazy or whatever, but really how many, like probably just a couple
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 01:49 AM
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Nah if she rejects you for moving too fast it’s like a 90% chance she’s gonna also reject you if you take it slow, if she doesn’t like you it’s literally always too fast so just find the one that is actually into you and enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 01:42 AM
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Yea I agree with you but I’m high machivellianism lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:29 PM
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lol “set in stone” is that what you call it when someone won’t stop overeating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:16 PM
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Lmao high levels of Machiavellianism to characterize that as not malicious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 08:16 PM
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I’m 35 and I’ve aged out of one scene and started coming into another. Idk about elderly people but there are plenty of middle aged people out and about. UMC middle aged people anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 08:05 PM
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Different club
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:42 PM
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Can’t beat em join em I guess Idk for myself I do lift but really I’m pretty small and it’s never been an issue. I care more about pushing myself on the trail than in the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:05 PM
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Yessir I do like party girls I’ve always been into the party life myself even as an introvert so of course those are the girls I’ve dated most and would see as a good partner. I usually prefer girls with a sense of moderation tho, girls who see party life in balance with hard work, nutrition, etc, not just like a complete lush
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 06:53 PM
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ask girls what they like, as in to show you pictures, it’s gonna be guys on PEDs because media and pro sports set that as the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 06:47 PM
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Lmao ew fat person smell
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:05 PM
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A big big big one is bad diet advice Like there are so many people offering quick fixes and peddling misinformation that even for someone who wants to get fit, it can be tough to sift through all of it in order to find a few grains of truth For me learning to count calories was the best and the easiest thing ever, honestly much easier than anything else. It takes like 5 minutes a day after you get the hang of it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:59 PM
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It does kinda suck when obese people can’t do basic human things I feel for them, it must suck to get to that point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:56 PM
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True hatred of women is so rare as not to exist What the modern left calls misogyny yeah it’s just human nature, the left likes to go on these crusades and purity tests whereby everyone is deplorable and they’re competing to show they’re not so
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:26 PM
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I mean it takes effort for the first couple years until you learn to do it. After that the time requirement is minimal, it’s just like a minute or two on top of what you’re already doing I can visually estimate portion sizes, calories, ingredients, etc more or less just looking at and tasting my food. I log all my calories in about 5 minutes per day I do love food though and it’s a significant hobby of mine to be good in the kitchen so ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:24 PM
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We can’t use general rules to predict every last situation we can only tell what is the more likely outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:26 PM
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lol true doesn’t mean some guys can’t offer some perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:36 AM
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It ebbs and flows
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:20 AM
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Something guys especially TRP can offer is that they’ll tell it straight and not dress it up soft for these girls A lot of girls could use some of that in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:14 AM
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I like to debate, I like to see a good debate smackdown, and this topic is of interest to me. Over time I’ve come to like a lot of the characters that hang out here as well
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:33 PM
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Because that’s what women respond to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:44 PM
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Ah so it’s a little tongue in cheek then it sounds like
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:21 PM
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Blackpill instagram sounds miserable. What even is it just black pill memes? My ig is like nature pics and fitness stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 03:51 PM
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Lmao how does that even make sense If all he wanted was sex why would he marry the girl I swear women define “all he wants is sex” as “he wants sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:55 PM
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RP isn’t about respecting women The RP advice for a man is be a man that she respects, and treat her like a little naive girl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:28 PM
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Who honestly cares What are the costs of this sort of intrusion into people’s lives, we are seriously going to maintain a whole social monitoring apparatus just to make sure 15 year olds don’t take pictures of themselves Jesus Christ Just look the other way and go on with your life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:24 PM
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3 obviously 2 is plate worthy not relationship worthy 1 I can already get except hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:18 PM
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It’s perfectly consistent if you think you’re better than other men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:07 AM
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Ya I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:17 PM
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✨ smart, sexual, loyal, low maintenance, artsy ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:52 PM
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I don’t chat on OLD , 3-5 fun messages and “let’s meet up for xyz” In real life I like disagreeing with girls, it can be playful and fun. Yea it sucks on chat/text
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:51 PM
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lol what is the relationship between the amount of people who do something and whether it is reasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:34 PM
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Anything above bmi 23 excepting for a few fitness outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:32 PM
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Girls don’t wanna admit that’s them so they come up with a story
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:16 PM
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“Aw that’s too bad I’m sorry it went like that for you” Idk what do you expect me to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:38 PM
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I’m not sure how you got that out of my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:06 PM
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By and large this is a niche topic that people look into very deeply
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:05 PM
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No nobody cares lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:59 AM
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Go out and talk to real drunk ass women in bars they aren’t nearly as harsh judges as blackpills theory claims
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:35 AM
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What timeframe tho Pre and post agricultural revolution are very different and even then we would be painting in broad strokes compared to say “America 1955”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:00 AM
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Maybe 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:12 AM
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Yea to be honest who knows I’m just arguing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:07 AM
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A guy who gets pegged inspires the same emotional response, no dick involved
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:04 AM
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Look you can’t have it both ways I mean either there are gendered differences or there are not, right? It’s self serving to pick one gender’s beneficial gendered differences and say they’re valid while tossing the other’s aside
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:02 AM
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Such high n count dominant women are so rare as to not exist And they are likely less disgusting than the men they dominate although I mean that’s not saying much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:01 AM
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I don’t believe in female equivalents See eg “looksmatch”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:47 AM
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Yea maybe idk I think it’s the submissive aspect that people don’t respect
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:46 AM
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I find that hard to believe but hey who knows. Ime women think it’s gross if a guy has ever had loads dumped into him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:13 AM
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Hey to be sure I don’t have any kind of numbers I think it’s a pretty common view tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:12 AM
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Not really any kind of “logic,” I’m just saying how people view it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 03:05 AM
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A little dramatic imo Maybe constantly a little sore or achy, not constant pain
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:36 AM
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Yea I budget an hour to get ready in the morning, could probably do it a little more quickly but really that’s about how long it takes I’ve noticed big differences in makeup skill between different girls, some take 30 minutes to look presentable others take like two hours
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:35 AM
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Getting dicked down is not the same activity as giving a dicking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:27 AM
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lol what are you smoking A man who is a “receptacle” also gets disgust reactions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:24 AM
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Well experience tells me you know this stuff pretty well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:19 AM
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uh first off- yeah obviously they do lol what world are you living in Anyway my point is that judges have a lot of discretion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:59 PM
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Yes It’s kinda something you have to learn to pick up on, there is a smallish subset of girls who get really closed up and shy if you approach them, not because they don’t like you, on the contrary it’s because they’re into you and it’s scary and their response is to kinda freeze up. I also met a girl once who’s IOI was being a dick to me, like just talking shit. I mean really the shit you see out in a bar scene can go a lot of ways, it’s a crazy world out there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:57 PM
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Women get pumped and dumped because they suck in bed, have weird outlier vaginas, or because they’re so unbearable to be around you really can’t bring yourself to hang out with them You think most normal guys meet a cool girl with a great body and mind blowing sex and then the next day they’re just like “ha fuck that bitch I never wanna see her a gain.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:48 PM
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I don’t know how anyone doesn’t like cooking You can make exactly what you want, try new flavors or old standbys, dial it in exactly how you like it, usually it is better than most restaurants, and it’s cheap af
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:27 PM
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Just not be dicks about it lol I see a lot of women kicking guys who are down, it really rubs me the wrong way to see someone punch down like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:01 PM
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huh Interesting. And yea I agree this is something that we don’t really hear about. I always just assumed that some people were freaks and some people were chaste similar to now, just behind closed doors
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:57 PM
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On paper
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:52 PM
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How can you know this? I can’t imagine this is actually well documented Wouldn’t there just have been some couples who had lots of sex and some who had little
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:47 PM
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How I see it is something like— A complete absence of dark triad traits will make you a naive fool so you have to at least have an understanding and ability to work within those frames. Yeah if you go out and over apply it you’ll look like a cringe fool but if you can’t even see the games people play you’re not in a good position either TRP is about teaching the naive how to work within those frames I do share some of your criticisms of the tone, it really often does come across that way. On the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:33 PM
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I don’t think anyone is saying the theory gets you laid, its the application that matters Eg knowing that being fit is attractive does very little, spending the time in the gym and making your body strong and aesthetic does quite a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:26 PM
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One case where it’s a good strategy is with a girl that you already have Trying to come up with things that will “work” with her is usually a pretty good way to keep her invested
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:23 PM
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Grocery store is a union job
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:50 AM
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See I love food; I’ll try anything many times even if I don’t like it at first. There’s a whole world out there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:49 AM
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I really doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:48 AM
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What good is dwelling on it going to do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:05 AM
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Liking sex with conditions is still liking sex less
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:05 AM
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I own a house
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 12:10 AM
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26 year old Why do I have to support her if she already has a job at a grocery store?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 12:05 AM
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I’d rather just work out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 11:03 PM
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Also, currently women are more often the breadwinners in households, I don’t believe that for a second, you’re telling me it’s more common for a woman to support a man than a man to support a woman? Based on what?! Ime it’s extremely rare that a woman makes enough money to support a man, and those sorts of women generally look for men MORE ACCOMPLISHED than themselves not less so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:28 PM
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That isn’t what it said lol it was more subtle than that But yes it was in bad taste and I deleted it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:35 PM
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Yea none of those factors really make sense to me either, like, the poorer they are to begin with or the less they worked, the more they’ve already gotten via this relationship. Alimony just extends that after the marriage ends
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:51 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:47 PM
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Yea agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:46 PM
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Yea true acknowledge it sure, nobody is saying be blind to your problems. Problem is that online it’s like 95% victim mentality, people just hit their limit of hearing it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:32 PM
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Yea but dwelling on your disadvantages and acting like a victim is absolutely a losing strategy. Makes everything much worse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:14 PM
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Yup I can think of several examples of guys like that I’ve known in my personal life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:12 PM
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Idk I mean I guess it depends on other things, I’ve known little guys who were tough badasses, like 5’4 and I definitely wouldn’t fuck with them, so someone like that— probably not a problem. I’ve also known guys who were 6’ and big pussies. That said all things equal I think anything less than 5’8 is gonna be in short range
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:11 PM
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Oh yeah I like that divorce part, kinda weird but hey we’re all a little freaky
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:05 PM
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yea I only ever would marry someone with similar earning capacity. It’s still a stupid law
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 01:09 PM
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Also no wonder a woman wants to divorce you “that pussy is mine” Jesus how awful can you be? Lmao ime women love when you say that kinda shit to them. Hell even dirtier
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 01:05 PM
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I always see this argument like “alimony is RARE, it’s only like 15% of marriages” and I’m over here like “yea I’m easily in the top 15% of incomes sooooo”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 01:03 PM
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Yea a girl who actually likes sex isn’t going to look at it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 01:00 PM
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making men wait for sex helps to filter out men who only want sex. This is fundamentally wrong, I want a loving relationship most but only with someone who is high sex drive and sexually compatible, so I screen hard for that. I don’t want to have attachments to women who are incompatible so I try to have sex quickly so I can get that issue out of the way And no I don’t feel like women are required to give it or some shit. I want sex with a high sex drive woman who’s really into me, who wants to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:55 AM
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Whimsical girl who is highly sexual. But she’s an outlier among whimsical girls in that she’s loyal. Maybe does something artistic, plays an instrument. Smart but not too smart. Low drama, stoner type maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 12:13 AM
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i disagree One, if a girl likes you she just picks up your interests. God the number of girls who became “little me” as we dated it’s funny Two, what do “things in common” even matter lol you think a girl is going to be into it if I tell her how I’m super into makeup? Or fuck if I tell her I’m just into Netflix she’ll probably think that’s boring even if it’s all SHE ever does
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:42 PM
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Why is this a q for bluepill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:21 PM
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Men almost always have some sort of interesting project going on Women can be really whimsical in a heart warming way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:20 PM
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How do you possibly consider that a 65% success rate You actually went and fucked all those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:16 PM
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I personally am satisfied with my own sex life Doesn’t mean I can’t see there’s something going wrong in the marketplace
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:10 PM
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The whole point is to lay her quickly before she thinks too much about that, just be attractive and meet whatever girls who are looking for something right now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 05:29 AM
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The fuck should I know, I’m not gay Women apparently like getting fucked, that seems awful
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:49 AM
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Also romantics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:29 PM
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I’m an older millennial but TRP reflected the lessons I learned in the dating world before reading it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:00 AM
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I guess my point is that most people believe in some sort of AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 11:08 PM
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Without debating what they are, would you agree that there is some set of traits common to women and which distinguish them from men, that all women share to some degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 11:01 PM
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I think lived experiences are mostly self serving narrative, it’s not that I’m blind to them it’s that I think usually you can understand the world better by looking past the narrative and taking “just the facts ma’am” type approach
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 10:24 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 09:58 PM
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Jealousy leads to haterism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 09:57 PM
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lol I have no idea who they’re talking about with these “PPD women” My experience with women here is that theyre mostly either redpill aware and a little sassy or bluepills who like to stir the pot I guess I do get a little bit of an upper middle class vibe but not like soccer moms at all, this topic is like the opposite of what those normies would be into On the flip side of it tho I also don’t see the typical “ppd man” that lots of people here argue against either
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 09:53 PM
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It can be meaningless It can also be extremely meaningful, depends on the context of the relationship really
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:19 AM
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She’s a Virgin? What am I, 15 Why am I bothering with this shit No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:53 AM
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Well if he’s using me as an example he’s gonna fuck the crazy one because it’s fun and after it blows up be kinda weirdly half in love with her for years to come
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 01:24 AM
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I’m kinda religious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 01:20 AM
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Right it’s more like they don’t know what it’s like to have people that they don’t want trying to get at them Though I mean tbh a lot of girls overdramatize it, it’s not that bad, like who cares, and dumping a nut into some girl you don’t really like isn’t the end of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:37 AM
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It’s defined in the sidebar I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:17 PM
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Men very rarely think of such women as better than themselves, admire them, follow them, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:17 PM
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20 different women offering to take me home. I would behave exactly like those "naturally hypergamus" women do. Any man would. No we would not. I would play them off each other and try to fuck a bunch of them at the same time Why are you so intent on making it the same? your comment is like right there on the cusp of saying that men’s comparable nature is polygamy rather than hypergamy but you don’t In a premodern world chads would have a bunch of bastards, they wouldn’t RAISE them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:15 PM
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Sex can be an incredibly intimate act
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:05 PM
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lol you aren’t required to stay in relationships with people either
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 06:25 PM
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Nobody in their right mind thinks leaving a sexless relationship is abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:26 PM
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Bipolar girls aren’t “creepy” I don’t know what DID is Personality disorder could be anything Occasional psychosis again not “creepy” and certainly won’t present as beautiful while she’s like that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:12 PM
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You have gotten the socially accepted script completely backwards Coolidge effect is shamed and seen as “not ok” by most Women’s hypergamy is generally accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:57 PM
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My girlfriend does have breast implants and they’re great
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:53 PM
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Imo if she’s severely mentally ill she will never be like 10/10 beautiful How is she going to dial in her diet and fitness? Learn to do makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:52 PM
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yeah in some gotcha made up hypothetical In real life a beautiful woman is never going to be creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:52 PM
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First of all online is the easiest way to get laid If you have anything going on in your life it makes it super easy to look cool and interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:51 PM
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being able to get consistent sex only by having a committed monogamous relationship is struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:50 PM
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Yea I mean tbh I’m a grown ass man and my emotions aren’t really anything crazy. Probably the worst objectively is occasional mild anger, maybe frustration or impatience are better words My last breakup really fucked with my head but I didn’t tell girls I was dating about it, I mean unless I didn’t care about them leaving lol, then they were my fucking sounding boards. Once I got over that I was completely comfortable expressing my emotions bc my emotions are normal comfortable stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:19 AM
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What like a business partner? Yes I don’t have any problems with a lady lawyer if she’s competent Wouldn’t have sex w her bc I’ve fucked a coworker enough times to learn my lesson. Too old for that kinda drama anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 11:15 PM
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Measurable is accountable Immeasurable is unaccountable bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 10:23 PM
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Not at all If you eat a healthy diet, which 90% of people don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 12:19 AM
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I mean my parents always showed me a lot about the world without putting too much judgment on it, like “hey wow entertainers and athletes sure are beloved aren’t they? Hmmmmmm that’s interesting”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:07 PM
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Eh I mean it’s more about playing to your strengths I have an ugly masculine face I do better by coming off VERY aggressive on first blush and only showing my softer side in small doses or in the context of a relationship. If I open with kind or gentle, people don’t know what to do with it, it’s like some kind of broken monster lol Maybe a pretty boy can open girls being “feminine,” but that just won’t work for lots of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:58 PM
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Research and studies have the flaw of being conducted in an environment that is tremendously biased in favor of conclusions they’d like to reach Anyway by your theory Asians should be fatter despite all that bc shaming is so counterproductive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:55 PM
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It’s a very common condition known as “me me me”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:14 PM
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I wouldn’t ever talk about this stuff w my kids explicitly I would expose them to science and biology and the animal kingdom though, give them enough to connect the dots
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:13 PM
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Men don’t want relationships as much as they want consistent sex. It’s a means to an end for many men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:04 PM
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I don’t believe that Plenty of real world examples disprove it Look at Asian cultures and the lack of obesity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:01 PM
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Shaming has a deterrent effect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 12:48 AM
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You literally just argued that machines and robots will do that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 12:31 AM
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I don’t know what you mean “find time” You go to bed every night don’t you? Wake up in bed every morning? There’s the time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:46 PM
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Then why do we need a high birthrate or imported foreign labor
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:12 PM
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Idk the answer to that, answer that and you’ve solved a lot of problems
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:57 PM
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I like lower birth rates it means higher value of labor and thus more of the pie for the working man, and more for my children and others similarly situated The people bitching about low birth rate and clamoring for infinite imported cheap laborers are someone else Anyway wouldn’t the solution to your posed problem be a more equitable marriage bargain rather run social shaming of men who refuse to engage in an unfair marriage bargain
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:01 AM
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I got girls from winning a debate tournament lol. I got girls from having an article in a local arts magazine Girls see a guy who stands out or is acknowledged in some way and they latch on to that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:40 AM
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lmao and here they are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:09 PM
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I wear a jersey when I go watch football It’s just a fun way to be part of the crowd if you aren’t into fandom don’t look too deep into it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:10 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:50 PM
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lol my experience is that women pry until you talk, not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:56 AM
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I would date a girl who was into or at least open to other girls, that’s always been a plus
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:54 AM
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Yea of course I like to sleep over I only get ready at my own house tho, I’d rather wake up early and drive home and go to work from my place
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:52 AM
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Depends I mea when I met my first girlfriend we were both sophomores in high school and we were wild about trying new things out When I meet virgins in bars they seem like scared little girls
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:31 PM
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Sure, I agree. Funny world we live in
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:29 PM
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Irl too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:23 PM
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They point is that they don’t really hate it bc they could do something about it, really it’s a choice they’ve made and they like to emotionally burden others by complaining about it “shit or get off the pot” as they say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:21 PM
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Get other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 12:37 AM
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Majority Ime
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 11:58 PM
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What are you talking about? Have you ever seen men in love? They are starry eyed idealists
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 11:35 PM
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I disagree man, at least what people think of as “chads” being tall, steroids big, square jawed, etc etc All those things will work the numbers but a nerdy guy can still easily have plates if he knows how to play the game, keeps it fun, keeps fit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 09:31 PM
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1 male 0 female lol Occasional guests of both genders, about 50:50 It’s my garage When I went to a real commercial gym it was 90% men, in the weight room. Rock climbing gym Id say about 60:40 surprisingly large amount of women there. Yoga studio is about 85% female.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 08:56 PM
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It seems like social media, the internet, smart phones, etc, give the liberal/left media a lot of ways to get in at people. This stuff is ubiquitous even for people who don’t take it seriously. I know quite a few blue collar millennial men and I’d say they’re at least sort of exposed to feminist dating stuff even if they think it’s garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 08:45 PM
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How is this a ppd post Seems more suited for trp
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:33 AM
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Oh cool yea I have some connections back that way as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 07:41 AM
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Ya it’s pretty dark
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 06:43 AM
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I honestly don’t know where I pick up half the shit I say
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 06:42 AM
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California, you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 05:09 AM
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A lot of people watch porn to see intense crazy shit that is gonna F them up on an emotional level
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 05:01 AM
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yeah I’m just razzin you , we have a good time here. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:57 AM
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I think you gotta distinguish two types of saying what they like There’s big picture stuff like guidance on what to do, general strategy etc, “oh yeah I love it when you dance with me” And then there’s small scale stuff like “daddy choke me NOW” where basically it’s just now the time where the choking has to happen, it doesn’t even mean they love choking or whatever they just need the thing now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:55 AM
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And low SMV men increasingly frustrated by losing out in the open SMP could find crazy religious shit attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:51 AM
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lol the rest of “us” huh You and i both argue about this shit daily 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:30 AM
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I really wonder whether the US will have another big religious revival at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:21 AM
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Random dudes who tried to bang you tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:21 AM
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lol So much characterization of what happened
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:21 AM
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Years later I don’t remember 99% of approaches I’ve done, and I’d be shocked if they remember me , and it would be uncanny if they somehow know a bunch of intimate details of my life Fair credit tho maybe the other poster isn’t exaggerating in any way, and we’re in the presence of an exceptionally gifted individual 🎩
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 11:11 PM
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There’s that storytelling again Way off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 10:55 PM
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🤔 I don’t know what to make of that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 10:30 PM
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Lmao how do you know so much about the lives of random dudes that hit on you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 10:22 PM
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A great deal of concern, criticism, offense taken, is just a thinly veiled expression of jealousy Intuitions come first, moral reasoning comes second, as a post hoc rationalization to justify the intuition
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:19 PM
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Real beta revolution will be a religious revival
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 11:25 AM
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I’m not saying that NO mgtow says that I’m saying that mgtow core belief doesn’t include that It’s just sort of confusing the players, I man whatever were pretty far in the weeds at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 11:14 AM
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Go look at the comments on a Facebook post when topics like “dad bods” come up. People will step over themselves to say how attractive it is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:23 AM
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Idk it has 41 upvotes Anyway i guess we’re back at the problem of “mgtow core belief” vs “typical reader or r/mgtow in practice”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:32 AM
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Mgtow don’t do it to like “hurt society” or “hurt women” , they just personally think commitment isn’t worth it for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:17 AM
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Bullshit For a healthy man, even a few months is an extremely long time to not have sexual contact. Six months is the beginning of incel territory
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:08 AM
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I’ve ghosted a “three date rule” girls after lackluster third date sex I honestly don’t understand what they get out of making it go to three dates. We both just got more attached than we should have before finding out the sex sucked. If we’d just banged it out the first night we’d have gone our separate ways with much less attachment and complication. Seems like these girls just torture themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:18 AM
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lol yea in real life they’ll just get a kid from some loser and then rely on the state for support
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:02 AM
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I mean I’m like a 5, I’m average height, I’m skinny. I do ok on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 03:19 AM
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Lol nice. Yeah it’s weird for me bc I see myself as super wholesome but honestly in the dating world I’ve never had good luck with letting people see that side of me early on. That’s cool that you can make it work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 12:43 AM
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Lmao this is like the polar opposite of my tinder game. Your image sounds super wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 12:11 AM
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lol just qualify her on it Like talk up how you only date smart girls Good chance she’ll try to impress you with what a big nerd she is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 12:01 AM
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Not really there are all sorts of free shit you can go do Farmers market Hiking/nature trails Local festivals/fairs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:59 PM
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My best years for dating early 20s women were my late 20s early 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:54 PM
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Yes, what’s your point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:49 PM
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Is anyone really “sexualizing” teenagers In my own life, as soon as it clicked on around 13 or so, I was sexual. Didn’t have a choice in the matter. Seems like that’s just sort how our biology works. Pretending that teens are not sexual is a nice polite lie that we tell, and yes teens should be protected to a degree, but let’s not get carried away
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:39 PM
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It’s generally the best way to understand responsibility for people’s actions. People are responsible for their own actions. Ultimately I don’t care if someone does something because it’s his fundamental nature or because he made a free and willing choice to do it, whar does it matter, he did it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:00 PM
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I’m just gonna say Reciprocity is one of the cornerstones of human behavior It’s completely natural that when someone tries to game others, others will game them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:42 PM
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The individual person is the best place to assign responsibility for the things that the individual person does Even if there is some fictional element to it, so what. What’s the alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:34 PM
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How It’s just good pictures of me and a little cocky-funny humor
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:32 PM
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It’s not their fault? Whose fault is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:30 PM
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I had the same experience— people were always much different over text or chatting than when you actual meet them What I did was avoided doing any kind of extended chat or texting Really just used it as a swipe, match, send like 3 messages or so, and then get the number to meet up for a drink and see if we click
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:42 PM
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I do fine on tinder I’m like a 5 It’s all about creating an image. My tinder profile is so much more attractive than I actually am lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:39 PM
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Men (most people really but men are worse) generally suck at image crafting and social media. Their pics are lame and don’t tell a story or sell an attractive archetype
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:38 PM
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Also I mean it’s just a normal way to open up other topics Weather leads to hobbies, travel, pretty easily Traffic leads to where people are from, family obligations etc I kinda see small talk as a gateway to the deeper or more personal topics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:59 PM
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5 minutes of small talk. Do people even do that? If the conversation can’t elevate to something personal or meaningful within a minute or two I’m out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:55 PM
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Yeah that was my experience as well, Eastern European girls at my uni were generally more open to nerds than the American girls were
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:53 PM
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Also jealousy-haterism
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:43 PM
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Huh it just clicked why my parents put so much emphasis on being well rounded
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:41 PM
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Yea I definitely do But your pics aren’t a good representation of this debate, the fatness equivalent of a hideously ugly person is like bmi 50
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:35 PM
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Well first of all it’s a debate sub so I’m arguing Anyway yeah actually I have thought about this quite a bit, ultimately whatever drawbacks a person has in life, they do have them so it’s best to just suck it up and move forward. It demonstrates good character. How is that shallow? It’s like the opposite I will note that I’m not perfect. I screw up. But I mean I’m honest with myself that my failings are failings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:24 PM
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lolll Yea or they’re just crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:19 PM
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Decent body but fat and ok face definitely beats hideously ugly in my book
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:16 PM
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Counterpoint some athletic girls with average faces, are just downright great people to be around bc they’re sporty and fun. Sometimes a person brings more to the table than just their looks, ie RMV. I’d definitely consider those types attractive enough, I also would not fuck a goat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:12 PM
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I’m not sure what you’re referring to specifically but I mean if you’re sick you deal with it and get back on it when you’ve recovered. Everyone has their ups and downs And yeah aging will happen to us all but keeping fit is one of the best ways to keep that in check
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:03 PM
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Was there anything that you did like about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 07:56 PM
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they are linked in fact but there is not an inherent link between the two. It’s more that most people have shit diets and accumulate fat over time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 07:53 PM
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You think caring about fitness is shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 07:49 PM
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Op lies!! Sex is dooooope Especially threesomes or whatever, I fee like the level of showing off and ridiculous fun is just through the roof at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:31 AM
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we arent in 1993 anymore. Aren’t we though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:20 AM
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Politicians who have been in for several terms have some degree of independence from their machine, they’re much harder to primary than a first/second term politician
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:07 AM
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Hey I’ve been dating a 4’11 girl One thing I didn’t expect is that a small subset of guys approach me in a really weird way about it “Damn she’s really little bro, nice”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:04 AM
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Term limits create machine politicians with no independent mandate and completely dependent on their machine Great if you just want your vote to be for “Democratic Party person #284728” each time or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:00 AM
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Lmao imagine thinking that complaining is a good strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:05 PM
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F
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:27 PM
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Lmao right Ime women are anything but frugal, honest, modest
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:19 PM
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By your reasoning I’m looking for a whore with a heart of gold
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:17 PM
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Psh I never assume shit is about me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:11 PM
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Whaaaaaa
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 06:33 PM
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Housekeeper does my entire house (admittedly a small house) for $60 I do keep it pretty tidy tho
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:51 PM
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Ime most people pick up after themselves, save for a few gross slobs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:48 PM
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Yes there is a woman who cleans my home She is my housekeeper, she charges $60, she gets it all perfectly clean in about an hour and a half Myself I pick up and keep it neat, she does deep cleaning Girls that come over usually tidy up a bit as well. Most people who aren’t slobs do that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:43 PM
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Don’t forget Serbians lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:38 PM
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I’m American. I’ve been with a couple dutch girls. Not much different from Americans from a city tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:35 PM
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Maybe like 10 years ago lol, I was always pretty smart and fit but I just couldn’t “crack the code” with casual sex, the things I didn’t understand was “what look was attractive” for a guy (to me all guys kinda looked the same) and I didn’t understand the specific sorts of asshole behavior that women are into
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 10:21 PM
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Why not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:55 PM
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As framed and in the context of the various threads here it definitely leans that way
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:53 PM
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People have a right to try to persuade others and change their minds
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:51 PM
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Surprise surprise people aren’t great historians of their weaker moments and bad character traits
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:25 PM
1

Ppd uses a specialized jargon where words are often similar to but not quite the same as their dictionary definitions The differences are meaningful
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:13 PM
1

How would you define submissive then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:44 PM
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It’s about having situational awareness. Some situations lend themselves to random input, musing, brainstorming, etc, some don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:24 PM
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Isn’t a bitch Knows how to be pleasant Knows when to be pleasant Can set her own shit aside and go with the flow
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:46 PM
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Wiggly/loose body versus tight body How she responds to jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:44 PM
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My experience in good relationships with warm women is that they very rarely refuse sex, like maybe a few times a year. OP makes it sound like this woman is routinely or frequently refusing which to me sounds frigid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:12 AM
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I guess my point is that I’d take fiery bitch over frigid bitch (if I had to pick one of these manufactured drawbacks)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:00 AM
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Lmao maybe ideal for you, I hate fighting Ime lots of women play a game of “I’m a bitch, put me in my place” and there is definitely a sexual side to it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:57 AM
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Ethical?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:43 AM
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Like I said this is based off “good relationships” in my life, so for the ones I really liked 3-4 times a year is about right, for bitchy/frigid women there’s always some reason why
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:50 AM
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Y’all are getting sick 3x a year? Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:22 PM
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I’m looking back at what I consider “good” relationships, I’d say quarterly or a little less is about how often a quality girl has some real issue that would stop her from having sexual. If she is always sick or always having some issue going on, always at her worst, I don’t want to deal with that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:39 PM
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Yeah I guess so
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:31 PM
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Yea lol idk about secret internal states , all we are is what we present to the world
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:22 PM
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Idk I think a reasonable, non-“excuse making” turn down rate is maybe a 3-4 times a year. Like quarterly or so seems about right. If that’s what you mean then yeah, probably option two. Any more than that—if you’re looking for a reason you’ll find it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:19 PM
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lol same
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:16 PM
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I would pick number one if she were enthusiastic during the sex and the “clearly not enjoying it” or “acting distant” after was something that I personally never saw in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:13 PM
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First one - open resentment (bitchy), doesn’t like sex (frigid) Second one - turning down sex frequently or routinely (frigid)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:11 PM
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Tbh both of these have elements in them that make me think they could be frigid or bitchy which for me are the big things I don’t ever want in a woman. In all honesty I just want a warm and sexy woman, like my hypothetical 3rd option but in the same spirit with these stupid drawbacks is something like “loves sex, never turns you down, but sometimes you have to pick a fight to get her in the mood” LOL and I’d choose her over the first two
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:53 PM
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What’s your idea of really active?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:13 AM
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Ime paying women for dates just gets you women that are less likely to have sex I’m not sure what guy even wants those women. As a guy I do not care about what strategy works for women I don’t want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 03:25 AM
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Ime most guys I know who did casual sex had a very realistic vision of it as a mostly drunken shitshow with rollercoaster ups and downs People who never did it see it as a crazy sex fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 03:22 AM
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Older 15 years- me 33 her 18 Younger 16 years- me 26 her 42
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 03:54 AM
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It’s only kind of tangentially related to this topic area but still I mean for me it’s definitely formative as to how I view the world
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 10:41 AM
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They call it entitled to sex as a social game, human moral judgment basical works by virtue signaling and gaming others into a lesser position Have you read any Jonathan Haidt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 07:08 AM
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Aw bro you shouldn’t na deleted this it was good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 05:44 AM
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Reddit, where even big ol nerds are normies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 04:41 AM
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Oh ok got it Imo that’s kind of a mischaracterization usually made as an accusation by the girl bc they’re grossed out by the guy sexually and want a social reason to distance themselves from him in a way that doesn’t look so shallow, my perception is that those type guys typically want both friendship and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:57 PM
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lolll closest for me is that I’ve used “I’m not that type of guy” as a silly flip the script line/game when I was out trying to pick up girls Always got a kick out of that one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:54 PM
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That story isn’t even internally consistent Why would you be friends with somebody that you wanted only for their body
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:46 PM
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I mean if you’re using typical Reddit definitions of the wild life, the second guy smokes weed now and then, goes to parties, and has had a couple ONS, that’s not far off from who I was at that age, so I’d definitely be able to relate to that better. I enjoy video games but I can’t really relate to making it my only thing, putting it over having a sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:35 PM
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Next Why is she saying either of those things to me Fuck her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 05:28 PM
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When I was in my teens I wanted to see what would happen if I didn’t masturbate well it turns out after a few days it just comes out in my sleep which is messy and gross. So yea I guess a few days
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 05:27 PM
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I really love how whimsical and silly women can be Also the way they get all wiggly and giggly if they like me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 08:43 AM
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If you’re looking for something to complain about you’re always gonna find it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 08:41 AM
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Yes absolutely my beliefs have been super refined since I’ve been here, and some of the people here have recommended reading which has shaped my worldview both in sex dynamics and otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 08:34 AM
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lol been doing this for a lotta years
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 08:31 AM
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I don’t really eat random meals, if she knows me she knows that I’m probably going to cook a nice healthy dinner in a couple hours I’m probably looking at her like wtf do you want to eat in the middle of the afternoon for, you fucking slob Yeah I’m kind of a dick tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:32 AM
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Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:11 AM
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Ime fit girls pussy taste waayyyyyyy better than fat girls
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:07 AM
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Yea I am viscerally disgusted by fat people, in the sense of, I have an intuitive and pre-thought reaction of disgust at the morbidly obese. I don’t really care on an intellectual level, and other traits might be redeeming for example there are some people in my line of work who are obese and yet I still respect and admire them for their expertise and professional judgment Tbh I don’t see how a girl in a relationship with me could ever really get that fat, and if her personality changed such tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:24 AM
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Simple not easy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:12 AM
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Women don’t like serial monogamists?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:09 AM
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If I say I can take it or leave it, then I can take it or leave it, I’m not gonna be disappointed or frustrated
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:20 AM
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Holding frame is one way of earning tokens and losing frame is one way of spending them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:57 AM
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What usually works is like “hey I love x but it’s not a big deal it’s whatever”, and then back off, many many times she’ll bring x to you on a platter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 11:21 PM
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What I’m attracted to isn’t a decision
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:44 PM
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It could be that someone enjoyed your friendship and company as a married woman who was off limits, but now as a single woman who has rejected him, he doesn’t. Relationships change. I don’t see why the change invalidates what came before
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:35 PM
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lol bc obviously they’re not as good at it as they think People remember every time that they did something right and chalk it up as how skilled they are, and excuse all the times they got it wrong as outliers, flukes, things that can be explained away
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:25 PM
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How can I “be hypergamous,” I don’t will my sexual nature
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 06:31 PM
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To lots of guys particularly incels and blackpills, “good genes” just means “the genes women select for” They are consumed with the idea of pleasing women, it is their highest vision of their humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 03:20 PM
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I never know who those posts are directed at, 90% of the women here seem perfectly appropriate for a debate forum. Idk I don’t think you are mean
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 03:17 PM
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ou. This is extremely sexist that you expect the women on here to just sit here and listen to your stories How is it sexist they expect men to do the same thing It’s selfish for sure but it’s not sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:59 PM
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Yea I agree lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:47 PM
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normal male sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:29 PM
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Lol right ON AVERAGE men work significantly more than women do We can do this all day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:25 PM
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I follow like 5 or so models on Instagram They have interesting pics and it’s kinda neat to see them Sometimes I even double tap to like I don’t think too much about it Not really a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:18 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 01:51 AM
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Are men putting less effort? Seems like it’s just different effort, ie gym and fitness and game now where it used to be more about status and money Anyway the answer to your question is another question: why are women so much easier now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 12:35 AM
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Imagine having dick so bad lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:02 PM
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Yea same. It was no big deal, in my case she was just a normal girl with a normal level of being into other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:02 PM
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If she’s attractive and into my dick, I don’t care if a girl identifies as a “lesbian,” if anything it’s a plus, they all are anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:57 PM
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I know several guys my age who are dating/married to UMC girls 5-10 years younger than them. They all seem normal and well adjusted. I myself have dated a couple of such girls and they seemed fine to me. Came from good families Honestly this post just sounds like FSM shaming bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:54 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 03:52 AM
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yes to repeat myself normal people do not call what they do polyamory even when it’s effectively the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 11:34 PM
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Attractive people do the same shit, they just don’t label it or make a lifestyle of it, they say “oh I’m just having fun”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 03:38 PM
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I don’t find “lingerie” particularly attractive but yeah I like when she dresses up in a variety of outfits, sure. When she wears different clothes or styles that’s like almost like having a different girl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 10:33 PM
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The last one doesn’t make any sense In my relationships I always have sex more or less every night and/or morning when we are in bed, how is that a bad sign lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 08:25 PM
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I don’t consider myself high value, I’m just another schlub, and frankly I’m shocked that I’ve done as well as I have Maybe it’s a good thing that I stay hungry like that tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 05:05 PM
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They’re jargon used here at PPD, they have a specific technical meaning and are defined in the sidebar
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:20 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:17 AM
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Probably, have you ever listened to me tell stories about myself lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:00 AM
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I’m of the opinion that the internal thought process doesn’t really matter, what matters is how it looks to others. When we listen to people narrate their own lives we should be skeptical. Admittedly my views on what are the proper ways of interpreting behavior play exactly into what you're describing. For the most part I think men have much better standards of “fair play” than women do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:57 PM
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Yes. In many cases, a man who is an outside observer can see what’s going on better than a woman who is narrating her own life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:37 PM
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In general, what people say about themselves is more bullshit than what others say about them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:28 PM
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Lawyer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:23 PM
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It’s just easier in general to observe others and see what they’re up to than to do so with oneself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:22 PM
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Hell yea that’s awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:20 PM
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I have learned SO MUCH in my job, I have really turned a corner in my career and I feel like I’m becoming an expert in my field
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:18 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:16 PM
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Yea it’s bc “lived experiences” are just a bunch of garbage self-serving narrative, it isn’t really hard to look at someone’s behavior and see what’s going more clearly than they see it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:15 PM
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Dope
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:46 PM
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Yup it’s a very similar game
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:46 PM
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lollll Fun tip if you ask people to take your picture like it’s a photo shoot a surprisingly high number of them will get really into it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:33 PM
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Fair enough are they all quality work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:32 PM
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Sleazy and forward without shame is 95% of it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:41 AM
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That’s what I don’t get though If women are after safety, if soft and stable “beta” gentlemen is really what they’re after— why is it so much easier to be successful with a sleazy “player” image than a good guy provider type image I do way better in a low cut v neck and jeans than in a fancy suit. The first leads to hookups and the ball is in my court; the second leads to let’s take it slow
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:15 AM
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I’m not good looking, but dating apps are still a great way for me to construct an image that is more attractive than I actually am lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 04:38 AM
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Good points Ime you can sniff out the good ones from the bad ones over time, they always show their true colors
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 04:33 AM
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Exactly why social lies are a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 04:18 AM
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I’ve always done OK. I had a cute girlfriend in HS, a few ONS (few and far between) up to age 25 or so. I had a steady girlfriend in college and after. It was always ok but less than I really wanted 28-35 on the other hand were absolutely wild. I did way better at that age with women across the board, even girls in their early 20s. Like orders of magnitude better. I have a million crazy stories from these years like “life is stranger than fiction” type stuff, honestly I never dreamed it could be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:53 AM
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Reddit attracts a very particular type, pretty different from people I meet irl
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:08 PM
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Eh I mean I’m a millennial I can definitely see the commonalities between myself and my generation and the differences from gen x and gen z, I’d be blind not to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:01 PM
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Tbh I don’t really hate tattoos Mild distaste to don’t care is probably the range of my feelings towards them. Sometimes I see some pretty cool ones I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:59 PM
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lol that’s exactly what I’d say to do, move on But uh many of the girls here get upset about that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:18 AM
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Trashy Also lol everyone with tattoos has AT LEAST one tattoo that they really hate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:08 AM
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lol everyone exaggerates the cost of everything to the extent they can get away with it. Dollar cost, emotional cost, time cost, everything apparently is just life’s labor to hear people talk about it Trick is just to find someone pleasant who does so less
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:53 AM
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Yes I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:30 PM
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Can’t get laid as much as they’d like by random new hot girls Which see the beauty of a statement like that is that it’s all guys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:28 PM
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Yea for me I like to choose my relationships from hookups, imo it’s the best footing to start a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:24 PM
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Should be a q for women, idk why a girl would keep coming back to that but they sure do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:20 PM
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See for me cool hobbies are something that I like but I don’t consider it necessarily “high value.” I don’t think most men really care
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:17 PM
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Fit, athletic, nice body, sexy, pleasant, smart, socially adept, educated, UMC, wants kids
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:15 PM
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Ime I had the most success on tinder by keeping things informal. “Hey let’s grab a drink”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:13 PM
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I’m not sure what there is to debate here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:07 AM
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Yea but they select for low quality dudes just bc they can dominate them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:06 AM
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It’s so weird to me their whole strategy is like being the king of shit mountain
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:15 AM
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“Dates” Is that really what they are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:12 AM
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I’m a lawyer, I bill way more than $150 an hour, and getting fucked by gross dudes for money sounds like a billion times worse than what my job entails. God 40 hours a week of that? I’d rather die
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:27 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:28 PM
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Just sounds very narrative-y
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:08 PM
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Why do people bristle at any mention of their animal nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:41 PM
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Reads like fiction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:38 PM
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Ime even girls who hold out for 3 dates are stupid Here’s what happens I’ve done all this work to get that lay, so I do it And then we aren’t sexually compatible, for whatever reason sex with her is just average,, nothing to write home about I’m out, I’m not calling back, goodbye. And now we got way more invested than we should have to find that out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:38 PM
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Yup much cleaner life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:02 PM
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lol my lawyer friends vs my hiking buddies Tbf those guys live a lot harder lives, do labor for a living, etc, so it makes sense that they’re dirtier
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 06:09 PM
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Jesus Christ this thread is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 06:07 PM
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I mean a lot of nose jobs are like “good looking —> stunning” it’s not like these girls are ugly in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:28 PM
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I know she had plastic surgery done, lol they’re great. Would I stay with her? Yea obviously, it’s a plus
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 04:07 PM
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lol for me I got the big picture strategy I just didn’t understand the tactics So like I knew to be fit and all that just took me a while to learn how to actually flirt. High school was basically me going to parties and getting drunk and earnestly asking girls to get with me. Hey it worked sometimes tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:32 AM
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Eh you’re painting with a broad brush Lots of fit, strong, healthy, educated, smart, socially adept girls who’ll do that. It’s a big world
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:26 AM
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It seems like you’re saying that a real high value woman wouldn’t play the plates and casual game Which imo is orthogonal to high value. There are high value wome who do and high value women who don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:18 AM
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lol but you’re defining high value by female standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:13 AM
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First off the guys that go to TRP already know how to do relationships, they are GOOD at beta comfort they just need to learn attraction Second the best relationship narrative is “I thought it was just a fling but then it turned out to be so much more” The last thing a man wants is a relationship where he’s just a friend and not a lover, it’s essential to understand attraction to have a good relationship So I’ll qualify your post. TRP is great for finding a girlfriend. If you can make an informe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:08 AM
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RP 101 women see 80% of men as below average
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 02:01 AM
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I think this is where we can draw a big distinction Being bad at sex can be used to mean like “I suck at sex, I’m sloppy and gross and unskilled” or it can be used to mean “I’m a selfish lover” My comment applies to category 2 not category 1
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:03 AM
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Ime it’s like basic women with nothing really going for them that will do this. Still tho I mean if all you’re after is sex who cares if they’re basic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:11 PM
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Why would anyone WANT TO listen to another person complain lol like there would have to be something wrong with them That said though you’re overreaching, I mean, family cares, friends care, people in helping professions care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:34 PM
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Wrong wrong wrong There are a boatload of women who will keep coming back for bad selfish sex even just casual sex, if they think you are hot. You don’t even have to be that attractive just enough that they think of you that way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:14 PM
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lolllll spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 04:10 AM
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I would tell them something like Well you gotta put in the work to be attractive and apparently you’ve still got some work to do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:59 PM
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What my parents did was put me in situations where I could observe the world for myself, and ask me questions which gently prodded me to make the observations they wanted me to make It’s a good way to teach kids things, it isn’t overbearing or heavy handed, and it certainly isn’t “sexualizing” themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:41 PM
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Big brain me over here doin both lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:03 PM
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Doesn’t it fuck up your feet I mean I switched to barefoot shoes really the opposite direction and I absolutely love it, my feet feel strong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:00 PM
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Young men buying viagra = performance enhancing drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 04:54 PM
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I mean that does happen a lot, but you certainly can’t force it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 04:20 PM
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No you got it, for me marrying young was definitely wrong, I couldn’t have done that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 04:08 PM
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No she just really wanted a family, and she wanted to get birthing out of the way while she was young. She already had a government job lined up when we finished college so her plan was to start having kids after she took the job
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 04:07 PM
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Yea for me that’s definitely wrong. Oddly enough for me looking for “the one” was something I did both when I was too young and naive to know better and when I was older and experienced enough to really know what it meant
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 11:55 PM
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I had a great HS girlfriend that I even stuck with for most of college, it’s just she wanted kids when we were 21, I wasn’t ready for that as I didn’t really know how to get casual sex consistently, it always bothered me and I was never going to feel satisfied with myself until I figured it out Anyway I don’t hate the dating scene per se, I do wish it was like snap my fingers easy tho. Such is life tho I mean that’s the nature of the beast. I also don’t like inexperienced girls just my two cents
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:30 PM
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Yeah it’s pretty lame to blow up on her for it, what you should do is just have a good time and when she leaves don’t call her again, move on to the next, find someone who’s more into you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:45 AM
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Vibes are more authentic than words
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 05:25 PM
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Men are responsible for aging!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 01:10 AM
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Yes that sounds exactly like the kind of woman I want to select against lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 01:07 AM
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How rich we talking like UMC rich or like a billionaire? I’d obviously choose to be the billionaire, like uhhh I could literally do anything I wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:01 PM
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Lmao right like 90% of people “make exceptions” it just depends on what they’re willing to bend for
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 05:24 PM
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Tbh I don’t know how anyone can gain and lose like that it sounds miserable to me. But then again by design I eat almost the same macros every day
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 05:23 PM
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Imo the best way to start a relationship is on a casual footing So initially yes it’s just about sex, doesn’t mean I’m not open to or looking for more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 05:03 PM
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Big split in this category will be people who think it’s normal to eat until you’re painfully full. I know lots of people who do so regularly it’s gross
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 05:15 AM
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Oh please you should know as well as anyone how much you’d have to pig out to put on like 50 lbs And being active all day like backpacking or something, hiking a real mountain? Good luck even eating maintenance calories
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 05:11 AM
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Yup exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:13 AM
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Extra credit: yes don’t pay for shit, only see women who don’t expect you to buy anything for them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:11 AM
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People hate thinking for themselves, they don’t like to see things for what they are, they want to create narratives and stories that are much more interesting than the facts Thus if you play the right games it really isn’t that hard to lead people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:26 PM
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Right I might talk about my job in a relationship when I really know someone, but with a new date? Unless shit really went down in a relatable way like that day why would I
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 05:50 PM
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When I think of feminism I usually kinda sort what the poster is talking about into a couple different categories: Facebook feminism, girls rants, lists corporate marketing labeled “feminism” various forms of academic “feminism” What adherents of these various things believe are very different. The first is mostly rah rah women and boo hoo men, the second is similar but it also says you gotta buy shit. The third is intellectually interesting to me but not really what I consider many people on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 08:26 PM
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Well yeah when I approach a girl in a meat market type place that is the whole point. I wouldn’t approach a girl the same way if a different context
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:32 PM
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Well ymmv but for me 28-35 was wild and beyond what I could have ever imagined it would be
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:32 AM
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It’s all good on to the next Maybe we’d be friends but ime that’s rare
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:31 AM
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Hm yeah that makes sense. I don’t think it really works the same way for guys to only focus on their own looks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:30 AM
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I would think the natural response would be reciprocity If I’m engaging with a woman on purely sex level, she’s coming back with the same and assessing me accordingly. She might take it or leave it but it’s not inherently degrading to either of us, it’s an honest proposition
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:45 AM
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Wouldn’t the underlying biology be extremely relevant to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:35 AM
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My understanding is that most animals only have sex when in heat and the masking of that period (as with humans) is relatively uncommon- ie we are a unique case
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:32 AM
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Nah for me I find online easier, I think OLD gives an easy way to create an attractive image PPD is really the only place I “socialize” online, by and large my friends are people I’ve met through RL activities, Friends of friends, or from childhood
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:31 AM
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why? I think i agree but I’m kinda on the fence. It seems like at least a useful framework even with faults. Maybe a good target for a relationship but not for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:26 AM
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TRP “alpha” does not mean the same thing as alpha in common usage, it’s limited to attractiveness and really doesn’t imply being rich
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:25 AM
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Snapchat girl filter fucked these guys up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:22 AM
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Equality before the law is what we should strive for Sexual dynamics isn’t the proper realm for equality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:17 AM
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Wait until late 20s The power dynamic switches Enjoy it until you’ve had your fill. You can probably do stuff like threesomes with early-20-somethings, one night stands with girls 5-10 years younger than you, or whatever tickles your fancy, eventually you’ll be satisfied with it and move on Hint it’s not as awesome as you might imagine it to be, it’s really not a sustainable lifestyle for the long haul
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:13 AM
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The most feminine girl I’ve ever known didn’t think sex was a big deal and she had no issue with having sex right away Pretty common imo, to me it seems like girls have two ways that they talk about sex — to some people they say it’s not a big deal at all, it’s whatever, to others it’s super built up, it’s a BIG DEAL usually when they have an appearance to keep up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:05 AM
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Oh and let me add Even tho I’m aging out of the bar scene I still do go out a lot, ime many bars have a clientele ranging from about 21-35
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:02 AM
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Plenty of young girls in the local activity group that I run
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 01:57 AM
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We are doing ok but imo we are a little too divided lately
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 06:52 PM
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It’s a balancing act in the United States I think we do better when we focus on unity and commonalities myself, or at least that’s what we need most right now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:35 PM
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It would certainly be something to look into I have read convincing arguments that European homogenous ethnic societies did more so than the current US
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 05:03 AM
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lol saying something isn’t hard is gatekeeping now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 10:33 PM
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It’s all good once I learned how to work it, having a mean looking face is great. There’s an upside to it too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 10:20 PM
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lol I have kind of a mean looking face so I have to be over the top nice before people just give me credit for like a normal polite baseline It’s hilarious to me bc I’m a big softy Anyway my face is masculine but ugly and thus several shades “harder” than I actually am, I’m sure you can connect the dots, some people just get perceived as mean when they’re really not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:32 PM
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Men support that tax/benefit policy out of concern for women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 08:31 PM
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This is one of the trade offs a society makes when it goes from being a homogenous singular nation to being a diverse and multicultural nation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 08:30 PM
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Uh men don’t really dislike “not like the other girls” that’s more of a gir thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:56 PM
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I think if someone is directed at someone personally it’s generally not going to be seen as virtue signaling by that person, because they see it as actual care for them rather than abstract signaling Then again I mean some people are just super hateful and they’re going to get pissed about anything, best I’ve found is either use them as an opportunity to practice patience or if i can’t manage that to write them off
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:48 PM
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Men don’t only want to sleep with Stacy, they want to sleep with Stacy and Megan and Maria and Karen and Sophia and Kendall and Nikki etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:43 PM
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That’s how inclusiveness works, if people feel more accepted and understood then they are less likely to advocate extreme radical solutions. It’s like the cheapest way to deradicalize people you just have to say some bullshit like “aww I feel for you, keep your head up you’re awesome” it literally costs nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:34 PM
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Ok but this doesn’t have anything to do with my point. Men are still much hornier than women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 04:45 PM
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It’s just ridiculous, you think that teenage horniness is just due to porn addiction? How does that even make sense to you My teenage horniness was mostly directed at actual girls, I was relentlessly trying to get at any girl I could, I think it’s like that for a lot of guys growing up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 04:34 PM
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