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| 2 | I think this would be a discussion. I have seen a lot on here about “woman privilege” of receiving compliments whereas men receive non. Thoughts? | Discussion | MrIrishman1212 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 04:18 PM |
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| 2 | Why do women often hate men playing videogames?I thought this too until I left college and ally different girlfriends didn’t mind one bit. There were/are many times my girlfriend would sit with me as I play video games or do something else while I played. My brother in law is a big gamer and my sister has had zero issues with it. Most of my “fears” came from early 2000’s logic that equated video games to laziness, memes, gaming circle jerks that all girls hate video games, and people complaining about their partner’s literal addiction where … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:23 AM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldA lifelong companion that values you for who you are and wants to be there with you through the bad times and the good times. Someone who encourages healthy growth in your physical, mental, emotional, financial, social and spiritual well being. Someone who can share the workload of the daily chores, struggles, and responsibility so you can help ease the stress and allow for more enjoyment together or with others. Something that a lot of people cannot grasp in here is the value of friend can add … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 08:11 PM |
| 49 | The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to themI think you need to read up on sexual assault some more. More than 1 in 3 women and nearly 1 in 4 men have experienced sexual violence involving physical contact at some point in their lives. Approximately 1 in 5 women in the U.S. reported completed or attempted rape at some point in their lifetime. About 1 in 14 men was made to penetrate someone else (attempted or completed) at some point in their lifetime. You have a mother, a grandmother, and likely chance have a sister or a female teacher. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Women do gay stuff with their friends for male attention.And same for the women bro. It’s just for fun(joke). It’s your fault for not being able to tell the difference. Figure yourself out before making claims that women are incapable of making jokes or having fun either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Do you have very many positive relationships with women? How does this effect your perspective?Have many positive relationships with women throughout my whole life. I tend to make friends with women very easily. My early years of college I felt friendzoned a lot and was pretty red pill. When I realized that I was viewing women as only having value as sexual/romantic partner I started to work towards not having that viewpoint. My relationships have gotten a lot better with women and I no longer feel as angry or as rejected by women. The toxic women I have experienced in my life and the abu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Women do gay stuff with their friends for male attention.Then you don’t get out often. Been in military, Christian, college, sport, gym emergency service groups and every single group at some point or other done some ass grabbing, half nude wrestling, “I’ll suck your cock bro,” or just general homoerotic shit. You’re right that they will bash anything remotely factual gay but still do gay shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Are there any women that feel like they struggle getting sex?There are plenty of women that starfish, but why is that? I believe a big part of is because women’s sexuality is always frowned upon and women are shamed to asking for what they want. According to this study women who orgasm will be more likely to be more fun: women who orgasmed more frequently were more likely to: receive more oral sex, have longer duration of last sex, be more satisfied with their relationship, ask for what they want in bed, praise their partner for something they did in bed,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Women do gay stuff with their friends for male attention.How am anymore reaching than OP? OP is already reaching with saying that woman only seek male attention when they are flirty with other women. Why can’t it then be applied to men when they do similar acts with other men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Are there any women that feel like they struggle getting sex?There is an argument for that however the study is talking about sex with partner There is a notable gap between heterosexual men and women in frequency of orgasm during sex. Also a lot of the reason behind the orgasms involve the partner Women were more likely to orgasm if their last sexual encounter included deep kissing, manual genital stimulation, and/or oral sex in addition to vaginal intercourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Women do gay stuff with their friends for male attention.This Multiple of my girl friends have said the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Women do gay stuff with their friends for male attention.This comment explains why even straight women kiss other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 03:59 AM |
| 9 | Women do gay stuff with their friends for male attention.This is what I usually hear from women even mostly straight women. Sometimes they just want to have fun and make out with people but men don’t want to just make out and will almost always push for more and be creepy or pushy about it. So making out with girls is safe, fun, and carefree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 03:56 AM |
| 4 | Women do gay stuff with their friends for male attention.So do men do homoerotic gay stuff with their homies to get girls’ attention then? I have seen plenty of men from all spectrums and different walks of life do “gay stuff” together for laughs or just cause it’s fun. I can’t recall anytime someone did it for attention for the opposite sex sometimes people just like to have fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 03:51 AM |
| 7 | Are there any women that feel like they struggle getting sex?Just going to drop this here when it comes to sexual activity, straight women are having fewer orgasms at the hands of their partners (so to speak) than any other group surveyed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships?I appreciate you bringing up this question! I think we should encourage more platonic friendships with women cause there are things women tend to be better at providing that most guys don’t tend to do (i.e. fashion advice, emotional support, and telling it like it is about other women). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships?Yes! I have had multiple woman who I have been great friends with through out my life. One of my best friends I was part of her wedding party. Just like any friend it came with all the benefits plus first hand knowledge of how women work. Must admit that it did took me awhile to move past falling in attraction to my friends. I had to learn that it’s easy as a man to fall in attraction to women who give you kindness, affection, care and just be platonic about it. I learned to respect the friendsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Why is promiscuity encouraged?Promiscuity and the opposing of it has been part of human history since probably the beginning. The Greeks and Romans are known for being promiscuous as well as having plenty of celibate people and even religions or gods that encouraged/forced celibacy. We see the Middle Ages being one of the longest periods of a society encouraging purity and virginity but right after that we have the Renaissance which is known for its sexual liberation and promiscuity. Humans pendulum back and forth, depending… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Is being alone really better than a mediocre partner?Yeah cause one person’s TikTok is somehow fact for all women Not true at all. There are women that do exploit men as well as people on general as well as there are men that exploit people, but there no scientific evidence that “women biologically are meant to exploit men.” The idea of humans being inherently bad is a very western belief supported by usually Christian beliefs whereas it is a very eastern belief humans are inherently good and will only be bad if influenced by outside forces (i.e. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | The reason most women get used for sex is because, under hypergamy, most women have nothing to offer men outside of their vaginas at any given SMV exchange.Yes, and you should want the same out of a relationship plus more. It’s very important to have relationships with people that is of mutual respect and love. If you keep giving your romantic relationships with less than your friendships then you are going about it wrong and will not find a healthy relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 05:20 AM |
| 1 | The reason most women get used for sex is because, under hypergamy, most women have nothing to offer men outside of their vaginas at any given SMV exchange.If you view women as walking sex dolls than yeah this is true but they are HUMAN. Might as well say no human has anything to offer. Women (including men) offer stability, love, support, emotional comfort, advise, financial support, communication, community, intellectual discussion, status, friendship, partner for hobbies, cooking, cleaning, etc. literally so much! I believe there is a disconnect of what you think a woman (human) is and what a partner is suppose to entail (not just a walking sex … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Is being alone really better than a mediocre partner?Some guys fake a relationship to get sex, make her feel worthless and undeserving of real affection and care, get married or knocked up so she can’t leave, and continue to abuse her possible even kill. It’s very shortsighted to say all women are manipulative when statistically men are more often the abuser. Both men and women can be abusers and be abused but women are more likely to be abused. I have been in an abusive relationship and have enough friends and family who have been in an abusive r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Whenever you bring up TRP talking points in other subs or on social media everyone acts as though it’s some conspiracy theory or a myth, I’m convinced it is pure deflectionHonestly, I think the best way I described it was calling my dad a weeaboo but with just women. My dad is a red piller. Every time we had discussions or debates about it just so far off from reality to me but real to him. Then it hit me when he was trying to claim that Eastern European women were perfect because they “domesticated” and dependent and submissive to their men and love them fully without question. I have never in my life heard anything like that about Eastern European women and my f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 10:58 PM |
| 5 | The way some women here on PPD describes their S/O is so unflattering and insulting that if they read it they’d break up with them on the spotAsexual people: am I joke to you? Different strokes for different folks. My partner and I have strong sex drives so yes strong sex satisfaction is important but there are many people who don’t have sex as high of a value. I feel like a lot men are here are running people who they have 0 compatibility with and are getting mad at them for not being compatible with them. The world doesn’t work that way, it’s about finding someone who is compatible with you not trying to force people to be compatibl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 06:38 PM |
| 5 | The way some women here on PPD describes their S/O is so unflattering and insulting that if they read it they’d break up with them on the spotThere are plenty of women who do give those compliments. A lot of people aren’t bragging out loud to a bunch of strangers about their personal love life. I have many close friends who are women who enjoy their sex life with their SO and let their SO know that (mine SO included). There also many people who don’t necessarily care for compliments (either giving them or wanting them) so they may not be saying it cause to them and their SO that’s not what they value. here is my comment that dives dee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | The way some women here on PPD describes their S/O is so unflattering and insulting that if they read it they’d break up with them on the spotMy two cents is this: People struggle with knowing their partner’s love language and not knowing how to communicate their love language to their partner. It’s about matching what your partner wants and giving it to them and telling them what you want and them giving it to you. here is my comment that explains this more deeply | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 06:29 PM |
| 2 | The way some women here on PPD describes their S/O is so unflattering and insulting that if they read it they’d break up with them on the spotMy girlfriend says both. I tell my both type of compliments. I know people who give different type of compliments that encompass those two compliments and some not at all like those two. Each person is different. What matters more is knowing what your partner wants and desires and meeting those wants. Easy example of accomplishing this and how people misconstrue what their partner may want.: the 5 love languages. 1) words of affirmation, 2) quality time, 3) receiving gifts, 4) acts of service, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Is being alone really better than a mediocre partner?Not true at all. Each person is different, most people want to find they can be compatible with and who they can enjoy being around or even love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 01:56 PM |
| 7 | Is being alone really better than a mediocre partner?Funny enough I have seen plenty of men not able to keep up with women’s sex drive. I have also seen it more as men not willing to satisfy their partner and thus their partner not wanting to even have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship?Yes Nope. I guess I am a male feminist who wants equal rights for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 01:52 PM |
| 13 | Question for women: Why do you willingly have children knowing the father won’t be around?Why do men willing cum in women when they know they will leave the woman if she gets pregnant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Have people here heard of Norah Vincent, the woman who went undercover as a man for more than a year and wrote a book about it?It’s not about saying “he you’re cool bro!” And leaving it at that. Having a support group is having people you can rely own, confide in, communicate with about issues or problem solving, and often times going on activities together (think it as a friend group or a sports team). Humans need community, a lot of men do not have community. That internal and external validation usually is accomplished by being able to contribute to a group (i.e. family, friends, community, work, sports team etc.). W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Have people here heard of Norah Vincent, the woman who went undercover as a man for more than a year and wrote a book about it?I have heard of this documentary and seen a 15 min snippet of it years ago. I believe it is an excellent documentary and honestly I would love to see more studies/documentaries/exercises like this of people getting to live in others’ shoes. Another example of this was when investigator journalist had a male actor dress as woman in Egypt. I believe men and women lack empathy for the other. We have seen so much us against them mindset with men and women. There is worrisome level of men struggling … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | I think this would be a discussion. I have seen a lot on here about “woman privilege” of receiving compliments whereas men receive non. Thoughts?There have been a few posts before addressing this as men and women having different problems. Men never receiving affection and having zero romantic prospects but usually never have to worry about their safety. Women receiving an abundance of compliments and have “limitless” romantic prospects but constantly worry about their safety and being harassed a lot. If a lot or majority of women actually are not receiving compliments or the “compliments” are not compliments does that change what a lot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 04:25 PM |
| 2 | would all or most men rape if given the chance ?100%. Catcalling and making objectifying women falls under this. So if you have a culture or a society that allows that behavior then you have one that will likely victim blame for being assaulted and allow the rapists to get away scot free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 07:14 AM |
| 3 | would all or most men rape if given the chance ?This makes me think of the Milgrams Experiment . People would shock a subject who begged them to stop with a “authority figure” telling them to continue when they didn’t want to yet they continued to shock the subject. This was done to demonstrate that the average person is capable of allowing and even perpetrating harmful things (in this case demonstrating how the average German citizen could allow the holocaust to happen) to others. In regards of rape we have seen plenty of research on rape cu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Would you be okay with being a forever girlfriend/boyfriend? Why or why not?Current girlfriend and I have been discussing that. Child of divorce. Witness multiple other divorces in my life. My job also requires me to travel a lot and I have a few mental health issues that will likely affect me for the rest of my life. We are both polyamorous and she is divorced too. Just makes more sense for us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Complaints about the friendzone and about being used for sex are just as entitled as each other, either they're both entitled or none of them are.I believe there tends to be a misunderstanding of what sex means in regards of level of relationship. I know plenty of people who are ok with sex early in the relationship but only if the other person is wanting a serious relationship. A lot of these people usually express this up front. I have heard plenty of time of this being brought up and the other person goes “yeah” and then leaves after sex. Sex early doesn’t mean fuckzone. Communication is very important and it’s valuable to figure out i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Complaints about the friendzone and about being used for sex are just as entitled as each other, either they're both entitled or none of them are.The only caveat that I see missing is that oftentimes people in the “fuckzone” are more likely to be lied to or strung along with false promises. Like “no baby I love you more than just the sex but I just need more time before I can commit.” I have seen it happen often enough. There is even the common miscommunication of sleeping together and one sees this as just fucking around while the other sees this as progress for a relationship then it comes to a cross road where they finally discuss what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How does the "you need to see women as a person first" work on Tinder?It’s a matter of empathy, communication, and compatibility. Everyone on tinder is just a person trying to make their way in the world and are using tinder just like you. Are you less of a person because you use tinder (for sexual gratification, finding a serious relationship, or whatever). If you can’t view a person on tinder as a person than can you view a person across the room as a person? People dress nice at bars and public places for similar reasons. What’s the difference for them making a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 06:39 PM |
| 3 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedBy creating a situation where the right to speak and direct conversation is only given to members identifying with one gender, the work of coming up with unique and engaging opening messages falls on that group. Men have traditionally done more of this work. Many of them don’t exactly cherish initiating conversations with countless strangers, a process that’s rife with anxiety and rejection. For heterosexual matches on Bumble, women are now required to do the part. Yet to place the work of initi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 02:18 PM |
| 6 | Is it fair to say that the evidence shows that women find it difficult to feel attraction for a man with less money than her?Very much my father. Always talked about having a dependent woman and then complains how all the women he dated always wanted him to pay for stuff. Called him out on it like, bro if you keep going after dependa people don’t mad that you keep getting a dependa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Is it fair to say that the evidence shows that women find it difficult to feel attraction for a man with less money than her?I would also say it depends what type of woman you want in your life. I know plenty of women who wouldn’t mind being with someone who makes less than them as long as they love them and treat them well. I also know plenty of women who wouldn’t want to date anyone unless they make equal or more income/ have as equal as career. On the same coin I haven’t met a lot of men who are willing to date a woman who make equal or more income. Most men (granted my career field is male dominate and very career… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 06:06 PM |
| 10 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?This is why some gyms have certain dress codes (planet fitness tends to be on this end). I believe the type of people makes a huge difference in what type of clothing you will see. Golds gym wants a culture of body builders and gym models so they have a loose dress code and kinda encourage the vain clothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I mean guys do the same thing: tank tops, short shorts, those muscle shirts that are so lose and sides so cut you can see their nipples, just shirtless (beach gyms), and and also booty tight leggings that also can be tight around bulge (little different from woman leggings). The gym culture tends to be more vain focused (not saying all gym people and culture are vain but an area that vanity is easily attracted to reside). I would also argue that workout clothing has now been heavily marketed to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Q4A In terms of dating, do you regret being being born in the here and now rather than another era or culture?And she wouldn’t be here if they decided to procreate on a Tuesday instead of a Wednesday or if president Lincoln wasn’t assassinated. That argument is nothing but a moot point. We shouldn’t allow for abuse of others because of the potential of having a potential child at 14 vs happily making a healthy choice of one’s own to have children at a later age and actually have a good and healthy life without abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | The Duality of WomenIdk the level creeping the guy did on the video but I bet this girl doesn’t like creeps online either. There is a line between “oh my GAWD queen you are gorgeous l, slay it!” And “I wish I could wear your skin.” Same thing irl. She probably likes it when she sees guys look at her but if they start to stare non stop and follow her around then yeah that’s gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 06:11 PM |
| 0 | The Duality of WomenThat’s the thing though, people can be slutty but don’t have to be sluts all the time. It’s like getting mad at someone for sleeping with other people but not you. They can be with who they want to be with. You can make an argument that if she keeps fishing with bait for a tuna and keeps getting mad about catching only tuna than yeah she is being dumb. However, I know plenty of people who like to act slutty but are not actually slutty. A lot of people like to feel wanted and desired but nothing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | The Duality of WomenSure duality of this woman but at most this is more of a, “just cause I sell something doesn’t mean I am selling all the time.” Plus there is a difference in wanting to be treated respectful in a public space and wanting attention online. It’s like going up to a stripper after she is off work and getting mad she won’t give you a lap dance cause she should handing them out all time since she is a stripper. She should still deserve the right to no when she wants to and be treated as a human. This … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | It seems like men don’t really approach women anymore, especially in the west. What are your thoughts on this?With everything in life, it depends. If anything I would say it has now just become more important to approach people in the correct time, place, and manner. Before modern technology and the internet the only way to meet new people was to personally approach new people. All the introverts and people who don’t like random people talking to them, let alone hit on them, just had to deal with it because it was socially acceptable. Now in days with technology, the Me Too movement, women getting more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Gender professor claims men can never truly "Like" woman. Do you Agree?I feel like your title and what the professor was conveying don’t much up. Correct me if I am misunderstanding, the professor wasn’t saying that all me can no never like women but those who embrace toxic masculinity (which is often taught at a young age and reinforce throughout their lives) and dispose femininity (within women and themselves) can never truly like women. I believe that can be closer to reality especially when you consider his generation (boomer). There is a consist theme of humor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 06:06 AM |
| 5 | Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women?I think you’re having a misunderstanding of “average person can have sex” vs “average person has multitude of options to have sex with.” All that first one seems to have been answered for you that the average man can have sex and potentially just as often as the average woman but with different results/methods. The second part, the average woman has as many options for sexual partners as the average man has options for sexual partners. First off, let’s not think of humans as objects with sticks … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 08:21 PM |
| -1 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.I am (26M) polyamorous and I figured it out on my own accord. My girlfriend who is married both her and her husband figured it out together after a lot of discussion and time contemplating it that they are polyamorous. Each person finds out in their own way. I have known other people and couples that started because of the guy and some by the girl. At the end of the day it’s about have all consenting parties being honest, trusting, comfortable, respectful and be willing to communicate. What help… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 06:03 PM |
| 2 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?I say this as a person who my current and previous long lasting relationships happened with sex < 3 dates: you should not be worried about these people and you are better off ghosting or letting them know you’re not interested. Each person has there own compatibility, relationships are about finding someone you are compatible with, makes you feel safe, comfortable, and cared for. You are clearly feeling non of those things and you should not have to “put out” in attempt to receive that which the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:24 PM |
| 9 | WGTOW - why do some men resent this?Because to society has labels them as “outcasts”usually. A lot of the WGTOW types I have seen/heard about are the “witches.” They are simply women who want to live alone in the woods or be surrounded by plants and be happy with themselves and nature. People have always been “afraid” of these type of women. They are literal living examples of women (and all people) can be functional and even be useful to society while not conforming to social norms. Usually because they are “outcasts” they may se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Does this post show dual mating strategy and the guy's repulsion towards it?I think the top comment nailed it Your BF told you he thinks you're only with him because you're not hot anymore. Basically, he said you'd do better than him if you could. If you were younger, or thinner. This wasn't just a careless and unnecessary insult, it shows you something really ugly about his character. He's carrying a lot of bitterness and resentment towards the women who didn't fuck him when he was 20. This isn't about you aging. This is about him revealing he is an asshole -- bitter a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 05:27 AM |
| 1 | If all you want is sex, you will looseThat thought process is cutting out so much that is involved and the amount of effort needed to have a relationship. You are correct by saying the person in a relationship will have way more sex and have an easier time requesting sex from their partner than a single person trying to find hook ups. However, if a person’s goal is to maximize the amount of sex they are getting then trying to get into a relationship to just get sex is going to end in a bad time and harm both parties. If your argumen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 02:38 AM |
| 1 | If all you want is sex, you will looseRelationships and sex aren’t zero sum. If you’re trying to find a way to have “leverage” over others than you are not in a healthy mindset to have either and I am curious how you view your friends. Relationships and sex are about finding mutual respect, communication, affection, and enjoyment. If either side is lacking in anyone of those then it’s going to be a bad time no matter what. If all of them match up then it can be a great experience no matter the time spent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 06:10 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It's not fair, but a man that "just gets it" is going to be a far better lover than a guy that has to be told what to doThink of it like sports, natural skill can only get you so far plus each partner is different and requires different stimulation/pleasure. The man who is empathetic, willing to communicate can get better over time with practice. Maybe won’t be the best mind blowing sex person for that one night stand but will be way more likely to have a continuous good sex life. If we are talking about who are the most natural lovers for women, women are the best lovers for women. I believe need to stop solely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Sex is higher pressure for menThe cum too quickly is more of a culture phenomena that has been more pushed by men than women. Now I am basing this more of word of mouth. Usually, in my experience, women complain about this cause men tend to not do anything else after cumming. Heterosexual women tend to not even get the chance to orgasm. . Most women don’t care if you orgasm first if you are still participating. If the standard desired result is both/all participates are able to orgasm then why it does matter how it is accomp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 02:10 PM |
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