| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 126 | Any tips for vetting therapists? | MINDSET SHIFT | MrMacsButthole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 05:38 AM |
| 1 | How to vet for therapists? | MINDSET SHIFT | MrMacsButthole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:58 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | I don’t think I’ll romantically love or trust another man again .Maaaan, if you are not the narrator to my life 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:00 PM |
| 37 | Queen energy 👑 This belongs here!This is a video using the audio from the original girl/post like 2 months ago, that’s why it sounds so familiar 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 10:37 PM |
| 6 | Diguising anger and frustration with humor...I think the backstory with this girl is that she was previously in a long term toxic relationship with her ex-boyfriend, finally left him, met this guy, and she got pregnant like a month or two into dating so they decided to get married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 04:02 AM |
| 14 | Any tips for vetting therapists?I feel halfway heard in a generic autopilot sort of way but I didn’t know if I was just projecting my own frustrations. I brought up that CBT felt like it was just a tiny bandaid on top of a gaping wound that if I didn’t figure out the how/why I got hurt in the first place, I’ll still go back to destructive coping methods...I’m looking for another therapist and will use your tips when I speak to them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Any tips for vetting therapists?These are great and I’m even learning stuff by looking these issues up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 11:50 AM |
| 28 | Any tips for vetting therapists?The phony empathy, that’s what I couldn’t put my finger on. I had asked to do CBT but then realized that it’s only a band aid on deeper issues and we’re not getting to the root of the issues. I’m trying to figure out which type of therapy would be best for issues stemming from my upbringing childhood and give me the best insight into why I’m doing things. I tried regular talk therapy a year ago and that didn’t help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 06:26 AM |
| 68 | Do not discuss your finances/nest egg with men you are dating!This is actually really good advice and I’ll follow from now on. I always fall in the trap of look how successful I am and what I bring to the table. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Who else be dropping low value people left n right this year?!Need to drop a workaholic workplace that’s triggering me to go back to my workaholic ways! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 03:42 AM |
| 16 | What’s the worst neg you got?LMAOOOO, AIR HIGH-FIVE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:41 AM |
| 15 | And he decided to post this because...?Wow you’re right, I didn’t even catch that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 11:19 PM |
| 4 | The "Unconditional Love" mindset is toxic and you should refrain from itTHIS. This is exactly why I broke up with my last boyfriend 3 years ago. He said, “I don’t understand why you’re so upset about the stuff that I do. I know plenty of other people that have so many more worse things happening and they’re still together?”. I told him that that was fine if others wanted to be in those types of relationships and that I wasn’t in a relationship with them, that I was in a relationship with him and I expected to be treated with respect. This was after MANY months of cO… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 09:14 PM |
| 42 | What’s the worst neg you got?After sex with my first boyfriend at 20, to whom I lost my virginity to:“You have the body type where it can can get bad if you let go of it”. I was in the best shape of my life in college 😭 Edit to say at 30 now, I’m 40lbs heavier but these 40lbs have lived a great 10 years and I fill out my clothes better now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:33 PM |
| 10 | And he decided to post this because...?Wait, how could this be used against her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:28 PM |
| 5 | This may sound like a weird warning...My ex-boyfriend hits my brother up all the time to hang out, I think it’s probably a way to get information on me because I refuse to engage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:15 PM |
| 4 | Never let a men guilt you for ghosting..Ghosting should be the most acceptable form of breaking up or not continuing a date (unless the guy was high value, in which case explaining is an okay thing to do)Oof, you have just described my entire life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | When you talk about how much you bring to the tableI don’t understand this, can you explain? I usually give away too much info and am trying to tone it down lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:14 PM |
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