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| 34 | How my cousin unintentionally turned the tables and ended up smashing a girl that hit him with the “no spark/chemistry line.”It could have been that he was boring and now he was no longer boring. | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Good in opening - screw up in keeping the interestRecommendations are a touchy subject. When it comes to finding out anything, a person just needs to know how to work a search engine. Top 10s and top 100s are easy to find. Most people have something in common. When it comes to learning about women, women say they want one thing and men say they want another. I recommend learning from men because they are more likely not to add emotions to their opinions. You can get good advice from women that are older and not attached to you. As for resources… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Good in opening - screw up in keeping the interestI believe your problem is a lack of understanding when it comes to the world and women. Plus, you need to have goals. I call a two girls from across the bar, they actually come: I freak out, and have the most boring conversation, what's your name, what are you doing here, you like it ? They leave after 2 mins 2. You freaked out because you was unprepared. You should have had a plan or something. The women are out for a reason. You need to entertain or provide something that is worth their time. … | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 12:57 PM |
| 2 | What is your guys approach to date ratio?I have been happily in a relationship for the last two years. I don't approach but still manage to get dates. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 12:46 PM |
| 2 | How invite to date without a car?Dating has changed over the years. You can actually meet people at the place where the date is going to be. Also, it gives them an option to leave if anything goes wrong without depending on you. I recommend thinking over the logistics of the date and picking a convenient place for you and her. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 12:43 PM |
| 449 | Males who are great at texting and get a lot of results using text, what are your tips and advice ?My advice is have a planned activity that doesn't involve texting. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I improve my “game” when I speak in English?You will never be like the other person. Just be you and go from there. Trying to be something you are not will only hurt your skills. My advice is to watch a lot of videos from the area that you are going to. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl sent me a screenshot of her convo with friend.You might be right. I was just speaking from life experience. I have been around the world and made a lot of mistakes. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 01:55 PM |
| -4 | Girl sent me a screenshot of her convo with friend.I am going to be honest with you and say that you can probably have her and a few of her friends. Often when one girl from the collective is willing to sleep with you, the other ones are willing to do it too. The tricky part is setting up everything correctly. Sometime this leads to threesomes. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 01:38 PM |
| 10 | Girl sent me a screenshot of her convo with friend.You are overthinking. This is not the type of girl you date. She needs approval of the collective female. That means you will tested by multiple females or one main female before you get laid or make any progress. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 01:28 PM |
| 6 | How to deal with cockblockingThe problem is not your friend. The problem is you. You need to work on your confidence and other skills. The world will not always adjust to you. | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 01:47 PM |
| 4 | So, I‘m a woman and just got approached by a guy.There is a stereotype associated with older men. For a lot of women, this can mean many things. Often this means more stable or more money. Older translates into many things and when it comes to seduction, it is best to know and understand your audience. | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 01:20 AM |
| 1 | What comfort is and isn't. Dont make my mistake.If I may ask, why is your attention more important than other guys? | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else hate the nervous shaky feeling when you're not sure if the opposite party has mutual feelings towards you?I understand most things aren't written in stone but a lot of things are available to help you. You need to look for signs of interest or test if a person is interested. Every damn time. I need some more information to help you with these situations. | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 09:43 PM |
| 2 | What comfort is and isn't. Dont make my mistake.I don't know what I just read. You are focusing on one thing when the problem could have been something else. She responded to your behavior but things suddenly changed. This says more than you know. I believe the problem lies elsewhere. Maybe you were texting too much. | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 09:40 PM |
| 0 | Other than asking her out, what are alternative ways to determine whether a girl is into you or she just wants validation/attention?There is no way of knowing without applying some type of test. | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Ghosted again by femaleIt could be that your profile is incorrectly representing what you need. | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Ghosted again by femaleI believe you are looking for a certain type of woman. A woman that is not commonly found in your area. I recommend dating websites that cater to your needs. | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 12:27 PM |
| 13 | Initial Shit TestsThey need a subreddit dedicated to seduction theory. I honestly have no idea what you are talking about. Where did you learn all of this? | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | 19F, new to hookups, looking for a fwb, any advice you’d like to share?I recommend keeping a number below 10 but normally that is unrealistic. Assuming that you change partners every 3 months, 4 would be appropriate a year. I would then base everything off when you starting having sex. Guessing you started having sex at 16, I would assume you have had sex for 3 years as a 19 year old. 3 times 4 is equal to 12. I would accept these numbers for a person that I was hooking up with. The numbers change when it comes to a person I am dating. | /r/seduction | 25/05/20 11:08 PM |
| 2 | 19F, new to hookups, looking for a fwb, any advice you’d like to share?This is a tough one because people believe relationships should be built off of trust. At the same time, many women and guys lie about their sexual encounters and numbers. In my experience, normally guys make the numbers higher and women make the numbers lower. It normally has to do with culture. Sleeping with too many guys has been known to affect relationships. Sex is often not viewed as special if you have a high number. I recommend women to find a number appropriate for their age and not to … | /r/seduction | 25/05/20 10:54 PM |
| 1 | How can I romantically recover from this?I suggest moving on. She never had time to meet you. I don't think she will find time now unless her life has changed drastically. | /r/seduction | 25/05/20 10:37 PM |
| 3 | 19F, new to hookups, looking for a fwb, any advice you’d like to share?I am going to say that people judge you on what you do. This is an important part of hook up culture. In short, numbers matter. Most guys don't want to be with a girl who has slept with a hundred guys. The same can also apply to women. They don't want a guy who has been with every girl under the sun. I also recommend protection and birth control. These things are important for your health. Also, its hard being attached to someone for 18 years. Please keep track of your partners to help with prob… | /r/seduction | 25/05/20 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Advice on picking up girls on outdoor activitiesI love a good challenge. I recommend getting a special bicycle that can be used to get attention and start conversation. I recommend carrying different tools that may come of use when you see a female. You should see my ebike. Its a thing of beauty. | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 09:47 PM |
| 0 | How to spend your money on seduction material?The Art of War | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 11:39 AM |
| 2 | How to spend your money on seduction material?I honestly believe that most people dont plan or strategize. Honestly when you meet a girl, what is the next step? basically I am navigating in the dark. This is most of my friends. They don't know what to say, they don't know where to go, they don't know anything. $4000 I could plan between a thousand and a hundred dates with that kind of money. Invest in a book on strategy. | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 11:13 AM |
| 2 | talking to guysI didn't miss the point. I just felt that you was very closed minded when you posted your opinion. I felt that I need to reply to your comment to show that the people who follow the subreddit aren't like you. I did this mainly to encourage someone to answer her question without all the women are one way and men are another. | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 12:27 AM |
| 3 | talking to guysultimate seducers Males and females seduce each other in different ways. Males focus heavily on one area while females focus heavily on another. Most people often miss the signs of seduction that males or females display. imagine how a guy feels I am a guy and I honestly. I feel respect for anyone who takes time to ask for help. You could of just answered the question. You aren't better than the females that hated on you. | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | My friend's sister taught i was flirting with her.I need you to pay attention to the next sentence. Avoid being alone with this girl. It could affect your life in multiple situations. I didnt mean that in a flirty way and i dont think I said it in a flirty way but i think that was the reason she taught i was flirting with her during the conversation. I don't know what happen but it is common for people to hear what you say and interpret it differently. Drunk people do this a lot. She may have thought you wanted to have sex with her. I am going … | /r/seduction | 20/05/20 11:49 PM |
| 3 | A girl is playing aroundI assume you need to be validated or you need a lot of attention. I recommend not adding her. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Whats the best place to meet girls?I like activities and clubs. | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 05:26 PM |
| 1 | How do you remember your night out better?Why don't you take notes on your cell phone while you are out? | /r/seduction | 16/07/16 10:34 AM |
| 0 | My Invisible Love LifeI think you need to learn conversation and to try more. I have seen ugly guys date 10s. The only thing holding you back is your mind. | /r/seduction | 11/07/16 09:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Monday EveningThanks. I am using an app. I might have to open a browser and do some reading. | /r/seduction | 11/07/16 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Could use some advice on the friend zone, thanksAvoid the friend zone at all cost. Cut friendships with people who are potential mates. Also make sure a girl knows you are setting up a date. They may just think you are a good friend. | /r/seduction | 11/07/16 05:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Monday EveningWhat is FR? | /r/seduction | 11/07/16 05:06 PM |
| 1 | She[f23] got my number from my buds girlMost people could conquer the world if they stop making excuses and start solving problems. There are 24 hours in a day. Find time or make it. | /r/seduction | 11/07/16 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Manly but seductive bedsheets?I like to go with cartoon characters. | /r/seduction | 11/07/16 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Girls who loudly proclaim "I know I'm hot", "I could fuck anyone I wanted to", "It's because I'm pretty" and things of that nature.The best way to answer these types of women is with an insult. Some people may go with a compliment, but drama is easier to make the conversation go further. I would say something along the lines of "You could fuck any boy you want to, a real man would look past your looks and see if you truly worth his time." | /r/seduction | 11/07/16 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Bootcamp - what did you take away for it?I have been to boot camp but it was not for relationships. | /r/seduction | 11/07/16 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Advice in setting up this date much appreciated!I always thought that date wasn't official until there is a time and a place. Other than that it is just hoping everything works. Conversation should be maintained before the date, the amount is up to you and the other person. | /r/seduction | 11/07/16 08:43 AM |
| 1 | I need help.Relationships after breakups are complicated. I would try the wingman thing to get you started and then ease your way up to talking to women by yourself. | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 09:37 PM |
| 1 | I need help.If I may ask, how was your past relationship and what led up to the breakup. | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 09:21 PM |
| 0 | Models or The ManualI have not read neither of these books. | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 09:18 PM |
| 1 | I need help.If you cannot do it yourself, I recommend getting a wingman to help you out. Someone who can push you to the point of where you want to be. | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Played or busy?I am going to tell you what my mother told me as a kid. If a person wants you, they will make time for you. I will say that the person you are going for seems to be a person that you are not destined to be with. | /r/seduction | 09/07/16 05:12 PM |
| 0 | Should I feel bad for not taking the initiative in the following situation :You can talk to anyone you want to. Just remember there are laws and make sure you know them. | /r/seduction | 25/06/16 09:49 AM |
| 1 | What are some of your favourite questions after approachingWhat is your goal? | /r/seduction | 25/06/16 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Do any of you go on dates just for practice, even if you're not interested in the girl?I think practice dates are amazing. They normally help me plan better dates. | /r/seduction | 25/06/16 08:21 AM |
| 1 | I know how to improve my looks, but how do I improve my personality?Most people think they know nothing when they actually know something. I often like to use what I do know when conversations switch to weird topics. | /r/seduction | 24/03/16 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Question About Groups.Use the wingman concept or try to find the one that is not single. | /r/seduction | 23/03/16 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Shit test would you?A gentleman never tells. | /r/seduction | 23/03/16 07:33 PM |
| 4 | I know how to improve my looks, but how do I improve my personality?Try to have general knowledge of most popular subjects. | /r/seduction | 23/03/16 07:32 PM |
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